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Dump the beard, faggot.

>>5676560

I can't, I'm doing this to keep my parents proud of me. You'd understand if you loved your family.

>>5676573
>love is being chained like a dog
Whatever you say, Muhammed.

Doesn't really matter which one you use, they'll all contain the same people and you'll most likely end up with the same result.

>>5675974
>what kind of dating apps would you recommend?
None.
I prefer meeting people IRL. In the supermarket. At the library. Online (games). Through an acquaintance.
So, get a hobby where you get to meet other people. Go swimming with other people (or club). Join a yoga class. If necessary, look for gay clubs in the vicinity for whatever sport.

>>5675974
steam

Thats what you get for going against god

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>>5675846

Be brave. I was scared of contacts but then I forced myself to use them.

You can't blame your fear for a problem with this simple of a fix.

I think your are not outed in school, are you?
Could asking him cause trouble? Like he is telling friends that you would be gay or whatever. Then bullying and stuff? Or do you think that is the the type of person who understands it? We gays have a problem, mainstream fashion became too gay, so we can´t really see who´s gay,even though I somehow pass the test all the time haha. Gay-radars don´t work anymore I assume. Having a young cute boyfriend must be cool I guess.
I hope you´ll get him, people say try to ask/find it out at a party, but ahh.RAthera study group or something, maybe he isn´t the type of boy going to parties. You need to give us more thoughts and characteristics, so wecan givemore information. LIke what youth-culture he prefers and stuff like that.

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>>5676180

>>5676203
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>>5675149
Ask him. I know it sounds scary but really the chances of it going wrong are few.

When you're hanging out with him, just find a moment to say something like this.

>hey, I want to ask you something. Don't take it the wrong way, but... are you gay?

>>5675149

make little moves. some guys crave attention and male bonding, but arent masculine enough to develop typical brolationships. as such they surround themselves with gays because they bond easier, bu they also get the same thing straight women get, validation, made to feel like they are exceptional ('LOL GAY GUYS LOVE ME XD' type nonsense).

the only way to know for sure without ruining possible friendship is to make tiny moves. next time you see him hug him. then excited hug him. then after that give him a big cartoonishly fake kiss on the cheek. then after that give him a real kiss on the cheek. see how he responds. let him crash on your couch or you on his and stay in that room sleeping a little too close.

trust me if hes into it, it'll happen

>>5675149
>>5675199
Yeah I'd start with the hug or something and if he's like "wtf are you doing anon" then that's a pretty good indication that he's straight or not interested.

Herbs do shit all.

>>5674852
No risk if you do research and only use trusted sites.

Why the fuck would you do herbs over actual meds? If somehow you could take enough herbs for them to be effective, they would have side effects like real meds anyway.

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>>5674655

I turned 21 recently, but I feel like that too. I just looked through my childhood photos and it's sad seeing I'm not as ugly or masculine as I thought I was. I wasted my window of opportunity.

>>5674655
>>5674846
Don't worry.
I'm only 19 but already thoroughly ruined by testosterone.

>>5674932

Yeah, I don't really feel jelly of those who started at 19 since I started at 20. Seventeen is probably the latest I would be jelly of anyone for. Even then it would probably be unlikely because I could pretty much already grow a complete beard and I was growing chest hair and all that by that point.

>>5674114
>stop stigmatizing mental illness

>bipoler pride parade is on
>bipolar pride parade got cancelled
>bipolar pride parade is on again
>bipoler pride paread got cancelled

>>5674129
LOL as a bipolar person that made me laugh.
Can kinda see that happening too.

>>5674114
Will never happen.

>>5674011

You don't think gender differences in behavior are explained through social influences instead of biology, do you OP?

Because society has to come from somewhere, and there's a reason why certain behaviors are similar across multiple cultures and time periods. It's not all just random habits different societies got into for no reason. It's biology, and changing hormones around changes behavior for that reason.

>>5674011
there's a big chance they were only being 'masculine' in order to repress their trans side.

Also I'm not an expert, but taking hormones could have that effect as well to some extent, I guess

>>5674011
>Are they just trying too hard to be women? Is that why hons are a thing?

Partially. For me, I ended up dropping a lot of stuff I used to like because of the reasons I liked things pretransition. I liked escapism and a lot of things were about coping with trans feelings or numbing myself. Once starting transition and feeling happy, why would you do stuff that was a coping mechanism for a situation not going on anymore?
people can also feel pressured to like stereotypically masculine things pre-transition to fit in. transition is a real chance to drop a lot of things, be yourself, or a a new person. it's unfair to think of all of it as overcomensation

>>5673742

>I love boys and I want to be a girl.

>But I want to have a wife, and kids.

That's fine, OP. Just get a wife and kids to make everyone accept you as normal while masturbating to thought of being a girl in private when you're alone at your workplace's bathroom or wherever. Works for me desu.

>>5673767
70 more years of that seems really scary and unpleasant. 70 more years of feeling like I'm doing everything wrong because I'm not doing it as a woman seems really scary and unpleasant.

When I read a book a voice in the back of my head says, "It would be better if I was reading this as a girl." When I go for a walk a voice in the back of my head says, "It would be better if I was walking as a girl."

The voice gets more frequent and louder every year it seems.

If that is just on a sexual level as I understand than doing what >>5673767 said would be somewhat enough I think.

>>5673419
I'll go first
>London (/Edinburgh for uni)
>idk really I don't club a lot anymore
>Nah
>Art galleries; Tate, Photographer's Gallery, NPG, NG
>Pollution; air, light and noise

>>5673419
Mexico
Only gaymen here
Who the fuck cares, everyone likes lesbians anyway
Freedom to download CP and not get jailed
Annoying failed socialists

>South Brazil
>Pretty big tbqh
>Not that big in comparison to the other regions of the country, but there's still plenty. A lesbian couple got assaulted on a beach in my city not so long ago. It sucks.
>really really nice beaches
>traffic, everything is expensive, TOURISTS

she's hot. her topping is a joke though.

Hot to see her getting restrained and barebacked by a hung black guy.

>>5672943
She's the embodiment of why people think (non-hon) trannies are gross. She's 90% plastic and looks like a caricature.

>>5672842
When I was in high school, one of my close straight friends used to joke about doing gay stuff all the time. He was pretty open-minded and used to compliment me and I would do the same. We'd even like fake-sext sometimes if that makes sense, but he always had this "hahaha we're so quirky and goofy" attitude about it... Meanwhile I'm just sitting there hoping he was serious and would actually follow through, but that was impossible thinking. Being a gay teenager is fucking awful.

>>5672874
I'm sort of in the same thing, but instead of "sexting" we spoon

>>5672874
Sometimes I think they know, but they just enjoy teasing you too much

that pic turns me on

Pills are the worst way to kill yourself. Don't do it, OP, life is worth living!

>>5672056
How would you do it?

>>5671597
Man, the "trolling" today is pretty shit tier.

Just charge me up