I've heard over the last several years that crystal meth is a big part of the gay community. Is that true or just some small shit that blew up, like AIDs being a gay only disease?
>>5680197
Ecstasy/Molly is more popular than meth.
>>5680271
Huh. I just always heard stories about massive drug use in gay clubs and shit.
Not gay myself so I wouldn't really know.
>>5680284
Most likely from when the gay club/tenchno scene was around in the 80-90s.
Are lesbians more conservative than gay men? Where I'm from, lesbians tend to be more conservative and "redneck-ish," while gay men are the ultra liberal types. Is this true where you guys are from? Is liberalism mainly a gay male meme?
>lesbians tend to be more conservative and "redneck-ish
Where do you live? I-I'm asking for a friend.
>>5680000
The southeastern United States. I'm a hella closeted bi male.
Noticed the same thing where I am. It's-well, if you go by some of the stereotypes it makes sense, but how often do those really usually apply?
And yet, here they do.
I love other trans girls, but at least three fourths of the time I talk to one, no matter how qt and innocent they may seem, they end up being alcoholics or potheads or something and that instantly turns me off from ever pursuing an actual relationship with them.
I don't know why this disgusts me so much, and I think part of it is that I'm afraid of being tempted into doing their drugs with them.
What do I do to fix this?
>>5679449
Actual alcoholics and potheads, or just people who (ever) drink alcohol, or smoke pot?
Because the thing that needs to be done differs based on which. Try to minimize your subjectivity when answering.
>>5679464
People who smoke pot in general, people who drink alcohol more than occasionally.
I just want a pure innocent waifu that doesn't do stuff like that. You have to immerse yourself in the criminal underworld to have anything to do with pot in the first place, which is why it especially rustles my jimbos.
>>5679471
>have to immerse your self in the criminal underworld to get pot
Oh my you are so clueless its adorable.
You truly have no idea how deep the rabbit hole goes.
"You don't seem like a lesbian to me, I think you're bisexual"
Nobody else gets told this all the time
If you date mtfs, you are at least slightly bisexual and not an actual lesbian.
>>5679402
How big do you like your cocks?
What was the biggest cock youve ever sucked?
>>5679041
7 inches is perfect for anal, 6 for oral. 6.5 is probably Goldilocks.
Biggest was 7 and I couldn't go down all the way and felt bad.
GIVE ME ALL 10 INCHES
>>5679041
I like 6 inches
I go to uni, just about to graduate. Lately I have been thinking about just approaching random guys who look a little homo and asking them if they would like a blowjob. See any problems with this approach?
>>5678705
There absolutely are problems, but if you need to ask us to point them out you, you just might deserve whatever's going to happen
>>5678705
>I go to uni
That explains it
Just get grindr and advertise your services there
are femboys/trannies naturally gay or are they just working with what they got?
>>5678639
Depends on the individual. Although, some who previously identified as bi either realize they are or become a lot more comfortable with their gay side.
Femboy here.
Was straight for ages and I was very good at it. I got all the pussy. But it just didn't feel satisfactory enough.
So I didn't bang anyone else for like 2 years. At which point I discovered I liked dicks. Guess I was gay all along but I just ignored the signs.
Like when I was about 6 I used to ask my mum to buy me pretty dresses. No idea how I was unaware of my faggotry for so long
>>5678639
Im play up my femininity around certain people and situations, sometimes people take advantage and sometimes they just want to "protect" me.
You cannot have a truly patrician relationship with a member of the opposite sex.
Breeders always want to drag you into their petit bourgeois desires of marriage and reproduction.
Breeder couples spend all their time together engaging in petty squabbles brought about by gender differences:
>you don't appreciate all the housework I do
>you're always PMSing, it's just an excuse
>man, be my strong protector father figure
>woman, be my nurturing mother figure
It's pathetic and animalistic, a relationship not based on equity but on mere Darwinian desires to reproduce, which we have surely usurped with science.
Why does all the best intellectual thought come from the Greeks?
>Sappho, intvented the muse (innately same-sex concept imho) dyke
>Alexander the Great
Socrates
I'm equally sexually attracted to both genders, but there's no way I'll end up some housewife to a breeder.
Don't forget the other rather disgusting habits and shortfallings of heterosexuals:
>100% of accident babies occur during heterosexual intercourse, contributing to our current population problem.
>Homosexuals are often seen as the prime transmitters of STDs, which heterosexuals interpret to mean risk-free sex for themselves, causing them to engage in even higher risk activities.
>Heterosexuals are much less capable of long-term, loving relationships, given that their divorce rates are almost twice those of homosexuals.
>Homosexuals often establish one partner as dominant and superior, and the other as submissive and inferior. Unlike in homosexual couples, this spreads to all aspects of life; not just the bedroom.
>Many heterosexuals campaign against LGBT equality and marriage rights, then accuse homosexuals of bigotry and enforcing their own "lifestyle" on the heterosexual population once these rights are attained.
>Heterosexuals often struggle to remain comfortable around homosexuals of the same gender, showing that many are unaware of just how unattractive they actually are.
>Children of same-sex parents tend to be more open-minded and intelligent than those from heterosexual households.
>Children of multi-sex parents often become more emotionally attached to one parent than the other; a phenomenon much less common in homosexuals.
>Multi-sex parents reciprocate little love towards their offspring, often seeing them as an investment of their time and genetics. They will happily discard of them if the child does not satisfy their desires; a mentality which stems from their inbuilt ability to replace unwanted children within 9 months, as an when wanted.
And they call us degenerates?
>>5678156
75% of homosexual men are in open relationships. 50% of aids infested people are gay men. I agree that homosexual relationships are superior when done right but the majority of homosexuals are as bad as breeders if not worse. Loving monogamous long term homosexual relationships are superior to breeder crap however.
>>5677931
Cis Straight people should just die desu
All thar's wrong with the world is their fault.
If countries were run by lgbtqi people there wouldn't be any more wars because we'd understand each otger's struggle.
>tfw you will never stick your gt in an ftm's boypussy so u have a pussy on your crotch and he has a dick on his
>>5677877
what's gt
>>5677877
I'm going to regret this, but why will you never be a pre/non-op trans woman having penetrative genital sex with a pre/non-op trans man?
>>5678218
i'm joking lol i already have he took my virginity
Anybody else hates that this board is about sex most of the time?
Well...it's a board about sexuality...
If it's not sex its things that at some point will be .
But I'm probably taking bait
No. If we had more threads about peoples' sex lives and fewer about wishing to erase, invalidate, or shame other members of the LGBT, it would be pretty great.
If we get one boy. And place him into the jungle. He will never be TRANS. Because there is no such shit as a gender in jungle where all he can do is survive.
Repeat forever - you will never get any trans. Cause there is nothing he can represent for himself as a "better" gender than he posses.
Maybe you will get transe only when he see some female monkey getting bananas from alpha male so she can skip the work. So this will seeds some general thought in his head, about "being female monkey is better than being hard working alpha male that constantly needs to prove his place in this hierarchy".
Prove me wrong.
Humans are pack animals, they don't live in isolation in the jungle. They live in communities in the jungle.
Transvestites/transexuals/third gender people etc. have existed in ancient hunter-gather tribes: http://healthland.time.com/2013/10/04/transgender-showed-evolutionary-benefits-in-ancestral-societies/
They usually existed as mystics and healers. That was their ancient role.
I don't get what you're even trying to prove.
>>5677111
dude I'm not pointing on HUMANS ARE SOCIAL HURR DURR.
I'm pointing that all trans are behaving as a other gender only cause they have something to refer. If there is no reference as "other" gender. We wouldn't have any trans people.
>>5677123
I'm trying to prove that trans just a frauds. I don't know why though. Maybe I'm a bit of a shit inside.
let me start from the very beginning just to give you all the details
>ever since i can remember, i've hated male pronouns and my name
>when i was super young i had chosen an androgynous name to be called at school according to my parents
>never liked "boy" stuff like action figures, always wanted to play with dolls. parents were strict and said no
>every time i'd watch tv i'd connect more with the female character. it was easier to imagine me as them than the masculine heroes.
>when i first played video games i'd choose the female character if i could. when asked why i'd say "when i play a game, i imagine myself as the character. it just feels more right to choose the girl"
>always wanted to wear girl clothes and makeup
>would occasionally ask girls what it was like to wear a dress or cute sandals, as i envied them.
>at one point parents tried to "train" me to act more like a boy. it didn't work
1/3 (field too long)
2/3
>ended up looking at tv characters to act like them in order to please others
>stop at 8 years old, can't do this anymore. get suicidal
>would spend nights crying to sleep because i can't be a girl
>"don't worry anon, when you're living on your own, you can dress and act like a girl! no one will say it's wrong because you'll be the only one in the house!" i'd tell myself to hold on to life
>3rd grade we dress up for school play
>boys and girls are separated
>feel uncomfortable as fuck, will never undress in front of guys
>wanted to go with the girls, teacher said no
>awkwardly sit in there until literally everyone leaves so i can get dressed
>puberty starts and i start feeling awkward as fuck
>people tell me i'm getting a deep voice
>freakthefuckout.png
>start growing facial hair
>feelings of depression get worse
>start masturbating because stupid hormones
>it literally hurts
>still do it for some reason. fuck me
>always imagine myself as the girl having sex with a guy when doing so
>reminded again that i'll never be a girl
3/3
>learn about trans online
>suddenly it feels like everything makes sense
>parents too strict to accept me
>too poor to start transition early
>"anon, it looks like you're balding lol"
>start getting male balding pattern
>killmenowillneverpass.wav
>finally independent and can live by myself
>trans feelings strong, want to transition
>money is an issue, having doubts
>"maybe i can make it as a male... it can't be too bad"
>see cute girl
>literally want to suicide because mind tells me i'll never be that cute
>itfeelstoolate.jpg
>start masturbating every day to cope for some fucking reason idk
>feeling of wanting to be a girl leave as soon as i cum
>one minute later or less the dysphoria returns
i really do feel trans but that last part has me debating. could it have been a phase? am i agp? or is masturbation really weird like that? i mean, i really don't want to masturbate but it's just become a hobby since it distracts me. when i masturbate i still have thoughts of a man fucking me and being a girl. could i just be gay with a crossdressing fetish?? but then the early memories don't make sense. ughhh. help me /lgbt/!!
>>5677025
click on my pic, pal
Would it really be that wrong if I, as a gay man, tried to go for a "normal" life and got a wife?
I would still care deeply for her and I've managed to have sex with women, I just have to close my eyes and think about men. Besides, all the men I know who are married have told me they barely have sex anymore, so really it shouldn't be an issue for either of us.
Asking this because I'm this close to get a gf.
>>5676665
you'll slowly start to get more and more depressed. When you reach your 40-50 you will either
a) come out of the closet, break up with your wife and destroying your whole family
b) commit suicide
>>5676866
I think I'd be more depressed as a single, childless 50 year old gay man, to be honest.
We all know that getting into a gay LTR isn't easy.
>>5676884
You're risking a lot of lasting misery not just for yourself but for multiple other people (wife, kids) on the very stupid bet that you'll never find a lasting gay relationship
Don't do this to that woman, anon
How do you deal with all the suicides in the trans community?
They all hit so close to home and I'm a good listener, so people always share their demons with me and it's so brutal what lives some must suffer through. Hurts me too but I can't just look away.
Half the time I feel like suicide myself, but the rest of the time I feel I got some capacity to try and help people. I got lots of time and money and I usually ask people to come see me before they kill themselves so we could try to figure something out. Wouldn't even mind taking someone out for holidays wherever. But obviously that hasn't ever happened. I don't know what else to do, I hate feeling so helpless.
Last time I someone killed herself I cried for a whole month and could barely function, now I'm afraid someone else I loved dearly might have killed herself too.
She was someone I could effortlessly talk to about everything and the one thing we knew best about eachother were the things we'd never tell anybody else.
Losing others to drugs is almost as bad, but I can't stop meeting these people and I wanna help, but I also can't take it anymore. I don't know what to do. Pls help.
Stop killing yourselves, it's killing me.
>>5676635
There isn't a lot of suicides in the trans community or so I heard, since I live in Alabama and there just isn't a lot of "out" trans that I meet
but, I do have popping thoughts that say I want to kill myself
then, I think about and come to a conclusion that, that would be a shitty thing to do to my friends and family
because all of dem either don't care or support me
So, I figure hey its just depression and then rage hard in rainbow six
>>5676648
>shitty thing to do to my friends and family
Maybe, but it's also kinda shitty to suffer for them.
Good that you seem to be more or less dealing with it however.
I seem to be a magnet for these people though. Whomever I talk to, they usually soon tell me everything. And I'd say that goes for like 90% of the people I do meet in private.
And I guess because of that I get all these people that have to get something off their chest too.
And that's okay I think, but I can't handle the suicides.
Same way people do in any other community. Morn the loss and move on with life.
Slightly tongue in cheek thread.
I'm a gay guy who's made his first lesbian friend. She's great, we have lots in common.
The other day she made a joke about "Lesbian bed death" and I had absolutely no idea what she meant or what she was referring to.
I'm familiar with gay (male) subculture, slang, etc..but I now realise that I know very little about lesbian subculture.
If you had to tell someone a few things about being a lesbian (the less obvious stereotypes, slang, universal experiences, sex acts, etc.) What would you tell them? You don't necessarily need to be a lesbian to join the discussion, just be suitably informed.
Treat her like a sister. You're both up against a pretty cruel world where people are going to treat you like shit for your orientation. Just ask her questions and she'll probably be into answering them and will probably ask you some. Just tell her you want to know more about it and about her as a person.
>>5676838
>TFW no lesbian sis to chill and hang out with.
I always thought it'd be nice. 4chan gays make it sound awful but I've had generally good experiences with lesbian coworkers and classmates in the past.
>made a lesbian friend
dear god why