If you chose not to transition how do you cope with dysphoria? I'm at a point where I'm thinking of suicide daily. Please help me.
I'm ftm if that matters.
>>6115453
Just transition, you're FTM so you're almost guaranteed to pass if you take hormones. What are you even worried about?
>>6115469
maybe he has a husband and kids?
>>6115492
My point still stands. To go on with the relationship without transitioning would be dishonest, to even start it was.
Besides they're thinking of sudoku. This is not the time to worry about what their husband and kids will think. OP could be suffering a whole lot less right now.
There are so many people out there who think that if you're transsexual that means you're a fetishist/delusional/should just stop thinking so much about it/etc.
I've mostly become unaffected by this argument as I know on some level it is true and I should probably just end my life now before I spend the rest of my life being mocked and laughed at in the hopes that some day I'll pass so well that no one will notice.
But what do you think when you're presented with this argument? Why is it so prevalent?
>>6115273
>Why is it so prevalent?
4chan isn't known as a bastion of the most intelligent and well educated minds on Earth. You would be damn lucky if the next anon read something you posted and vaguely understood it.
It doesn't matter what it is really. Even talking about an anime episode you can sit there in shock as you read the comments and wonder if they even watched the same show.
I've learned that people are just retarded until proven sapient.
Life is full of people who think they always know what's best for you, but they don't. People have been telling me I've been doing everything wrong my whole life, even if it felt right.
Transgender is counter intutive to a normie at first glance. A linebacker hon claiming their a woman? Madness! This is seemingly at odds with observable reality.
Homosexuality may have been considered a mental illness way back but the existence of gays and lesbians was undisputably real.
The neurological intersex theory is probably about the only logical argument skeptical normies may accept.
only the bourgeois get to think about their gender on a deeper level than the way they were taught it
thus, only the bourgeois are transgender.
This is why i hate /lgbt/
>>6109238
>What's that? Something about my environment might affect my gender presentation? Blasphemy!
/Thread
>be mtf
>date guy
>we are in love and he becomes my bf
>tell him I want to get SRS
>he says he is okay with this
>"you're still the woman I fell in love with. I don't care if you have a penis or not"
>eventually get the surgery
>he says he still loves me but we don't have sex as often as we used to do
>stay together for at least 4 months
>borrow his laptop because I wanted to order some food online really quick
>see his skype
>he's been seeing another mtf behind my back
>she's sent him her dick pics
>pretend to be my bf on his skype to get some info
>she reveals that my bf has been sleeping with her for awhile after I got my surgery and he's planning to leave me
FUCK. I WAS PLANNING TO BE MARRIED TO HIM
>>6104283
You're kind of dumb for not expecting this from a chaser
You're better off without him. All the best
>>6104283
>thinking someone dating a mtf isn't after dick
>thinking you're so special that his sexual preferences would magically change
Obviously a lot of "shemale" porn exists, it's pretty much on even porn site now. What do the MtF's of /lgbt/ think of it?
hot
>>6090471
Be hot trap, be disgusting hun. Pick one and jesus will guide you lel. Either way you're a woman.
>>6090471
Pays better than nothing.
There's an estimated 15,500 transgender personnel in the United States Armed Forces currently serving in silence.
Odds are at least a couple of you are on /lgbt/ right about now.
Here, have some info.
The exact orders banning transgender service:
Department of Defense
INSTRUCTION NUMBER 6130.03
April 28, 2010
Incorporating Change 1, September 13, 2011
SUBJECT: Medical Standards for Appointment, Enlistment, or Induction in the Military
Services
ENCLOSURE 4
MEDICAL STANDARDS FOR APPOINTMENT, ENLISTMENT, OR INDUCTION
14. FEMALE GENITALIA
f. History of major abnormalities or defects of the genitalia
including but not limited to change of sex (P64.5) (CPT 55970, 55980), hermaphroditism, pseudohermaphroditism, or pure gonadal dysgenesis (752.7).
15. MALE GENITALIA
r. History of major abnormalities or defects of the genitalia such as change of sex (P64.5)
(CPT 55970, 55980), hermaphroditism, pseudohermaphroditism, or pure gonadal dysgenesis
(752.7).
29. LEARNING, PSYCHIATRIC, AND BEHAVIORAL
r. Current or history of psychosexual conditions (302), including but not limited to transsexualism, exhibitionism, transvestism, voyeurism, and other paraphilias.
http://www.dtic.mil/whs/directives/corres/pdf/613003p.pdf
>>6072112
Why join if you know that joining as a tranny is against the rules?
Making it harder to get discharged for being trans
Navy, Marine Corps raise authority for trans separations
Lt. Cmdr. Ed Early, a Navy spokesperson, confirmed on Thursday the change for both military services to the Washington Blade and said it took effect Wednesday.
“Effective immediately, separations of Navy and Marine Corps personnel with a diagnosis or history of gender dysphoria, who identify themselves as transgender, or who have taken steps to externalize the condition must be forwarded to the Assistant Secretary of the Navy for Manpower and Reserve Affairs for decision,” Early said.
...
The Navy Department can alter the policy for both the Navy and the Marine Corps because the civilian leadership has jurisdiction over both military services.
http://www.washingtonblade.com/2015/07/02/navy-marine-corps-raise-authority-for-trans-separations/
flannel edition
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>>6114144
http://deploy.loveisover.me/lgbt/
Your sins are coming out tonight, Snakey. ;)
bury pink edition
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>>6114155
Omg I'm gonna look after this hex game of league. I'm sure if someone searches his trip for me it's not far back.
>>6114138
Late night pizza edition
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I LOVE ALL OF YOU SO MUCH
i don't want pizza....
>>6113251
do you really?
First for elanna has a flat man ass
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>>6112097
I do wear them.
Why is my face so fucked up ;_;
birdy isn't a bird...
My wife caught me wanking to shemale porn and now she thinks I'm gay.
Is there any scientific research I can give her that proves that I'm attracted to the women's beauty as females first but with some bonus extra bits?
>>6112033
sorry, but she's right. say goodbye to her and her son
>>6112033
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=p-A8GvUehq4
>>6112039
Nice.
>>6112033
if it has a feminine figure, it's straight dude. this goes for if you're attracted femboys, twinks, traps, transgirls, ftms, dykes, etc. you're not in trouble m8, don't worry.
>you started taking hormones past 18
just
>the age meme
Here we go again.
>the age doesn't matter meme
Here we go again.
>the here we go again meme
Here we go again.
When they start killing us all, I want you all to remember Tumblr did this.
what's up with all the scaremongering threads? oh yeah, it's saturday...
>>6109602
>scaremongering
It's fear mongering you placenta chunk
>>6109602
Just go out fighting, bro-sis. Bite their necks if you have to.
Get your popcorn out everyone, because this whole bathroom nonsense is just about to start getting good.
http://www.dallasobserver.com/news/self-appointed-bathroom-cop-catches-dallas-woman-using-womens-restroom-8259104
If you haven't seen already, just go ahead and watch as this nignog follows a cis-woman, whom he believed to be trans, into the women's restroom hoping to be some kind of conservative hero. All this only to get laughed at by this cis-girl as he mutters about her dressing like a man and walks away with his little pecker between his legs. The look on his face when he realizes just how stupid he is just can't be beat.
This isn't even the first time this has happened since all this shit has gone mainstream, so expect more videos of this kind of thing to start popping up. I personally can't wait.
>>6107370
Gotta make sure those dykes know their place
>bathroom nonsense
>now everyone thinks they have a perfect trannydar
>only snare butch looking cis women
Oh man I am laughing. As a passing trans woman I find this hilarious. So they really think non passing trans women with any self awareness are going to use the women's? Hell no I didn't start until I was 100% sure I'd get no shit.
But dis gun b gud.
>>6107370
not that this isn't hilarious but
>"Welcome to my world," Rush wrote when she posted the Baylor videos on Facebook. "Do you actually think I would choose this life?"
i mean she kinda did by her fashion choices? I'm not sure if im missing a point here
this guy got trolled
That post is written so badly it is hard to understand what his point is.
Although I will comment on the notion that "your gender does not identify you beyond which role in the reproductive cycle you play".
As he did mention in his post, there are differences based in evolution, but these are not only physical (which are in my opinion not "slight" at all) but also mental.
We are all born with a set of preloaded instincts, with the best example of them being preloaded is the fact that human babies exhibit a great grip strength and an instinct to just grip anything as strong as they can. There is a video showing one week old babies being able to fully support their own weight by griping a wooden bar. And these instincts can be different for men and women, with male instincts characterised by the "focus", which made our ancestors more effective at hunting and much better at protecting the females. And female instincts are characterised by the "situational awareness and attention to detail" where situational awareness being a defensive mechanism, allowing for better detection of threats to the pack, and attention to detail being helpful in gathering of food.
The other thing of course is weather or not you consider these as a "persona", as it does dictate some of your actions, or just as a part of the "evolutionary traits" (very ambiguous term btw), on the basis that it is something you have no control of.
Such questions have no definite answers and either side of the argument can use them to their advantage.
>>6105157
It's just the same TERF argument that gender should be abolished, but people who cross gender norms shouldn't be allowed to, and they don't have a right to bodily autonomy. Dysphoria is made up, all trans women are sick fetishists who want to rape REAL ("cis" is a slur) women in their own safe spaces, trans men don't exist but when they do they're actually all victims of internalized misogyny.
If you disagree you're an anti-gay MRA (because trans women are men and trans men don't exist) and should be harassed and outed to your workplace, school, and community.