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my life :
>tranny, pre-mones
>pass great
>go out dressing almost daily
>everyone knows. but i dont require anything as of now on their part, regardless of how much they insist
>feel great, life is great, and definitely moving in the right direction
myself:
>doesnt believe in the "born in the wrong body" story
>doesnt feel the need for transitioning to validate feminine interests
>respected and loved as a male
>i'd always just identified and seen myself in future tense as a woman, and would like to make steps toward that
>have feminine features, mistaken as a woman even when not dressing, always been that way
>would like to better help these features by taking hormones
>already been to therapy, already got the letter
the problem:
>afraid
>am i throwing away a good male life?
>not sure where the best place to go to school is, i can go anywhere in Alabama for free, but you know.
>not sure if i'd be open about being trans despite passing
>how would i tell others without it feeling like a coming out story over and over
>worried being a tranny may close oppurtunities for me
>not sure if i would make people call me she as to avoid messing with their head
>how will dating women go?
I don't really slap a label on it when i think of it, i just want certain body modifications i desire.
But now that i'm at the starting line, i feel nervous as fuck. Please help, /lgbt/
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you're starting a new chapter, nerves should be expected.
your life sounds pretty decent, be glad that you pass!
as far as questions like "am i throwing away a good male life?" go, only you can answer that. think deeply about it
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>>6074028
>how will dating women go?
Away. Enjoy cocklust.
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>>6074059
Explain transbianism
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is bailey jay the only passable transgirl in existence and is she the only transgirl in prominence that doesn't act like a brainless troglodyte? I'm going with yes to both
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>>6073912
No and she as ugly as fuck and i wouldnt want to be near her.
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i love her as a person. I dont watch the pronn
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>>6074166
jealous hon detected
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This is a PSA for all the real fags.
I'm getting a little sick of the whiny LGBTQI**&^#%$@&(!*&& faggots who feel like they need to put it in everyone's face that they are gay.
Honestly, any rational person could give a flying fuck, and by being obnoxious and flamboyant while at the same time having nothing else to offer society other than the fact that you like sucking dick, you're making the rest of us respectable fags look bad.
Sitting here rolling a blunt, listening to frank zappa. Just watched the fights. Not all of us wear rainbow colored socks and flip out because you didn't address us by our preferred pronoun. I mean, jesus christ... I understand that it can be hard , but grow a set you fucking queers (I say that with all due respect).
I don't need anyone to know if I like banging dudes, I just don't care. And neither should anyone else. Self respecting gay men don't feel the need to shove it down everyone's throats that they don't conform to the gender binary. JUST STOP. You're making us look like a bunch of fucking assholes.
Rant of the day. Yeah, I'm a dick. But at least I'm honest.
We need less whiny cunts in the LGBT community. That's my point.
Thank you. Good Day!
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>>6073659
Post your dick
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Be nice hunty
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>>6073701
Nice dude. Rub one out and think of me.
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what fetishes do you have? why?
this is the newest
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sweaty man pits hnggggggg
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>tfw no bf to let me pamper his feet
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>>6073302
>nico
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Nobody cares that you are gay. 2016-04-23 14:31:22 Post No.6069735
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Nobody cares that you are gay.
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Nobody cares that you are gay, that's like me saying "hey everyone i'm straight."
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>>6069735
By my summation, it'd be a pretty big deal if anyone thought you were straight.
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nobody cared who i was until i put on the gay persona
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doesn't matter if i'm straight or gay, it was a reference you see?
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This is a 31 yo chinese guy, and he's dating a 17 yo high school girl.
What does this make /hon/ feel?
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>>6069468
ching chong nip nog lol
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>>6069468
like death
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luck and death
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If I commit suicide:
1.- My little sister will not have anyone to talk to during her teenage
2.- My mother will break down
3.- My therapist career will be ruined
What should I do?
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>>6068673
Suck it up. Nobody told you life would be easy. Your life is valuable even if it is painful. I am sorry
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>>6068673
what are ur reasons FOR commencing suicide?
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- Im about to loose my scholarship and I have no money to continue paying my career
- One of my teacher has swept the floor with my self esteem
- My mother and sister are always annoyed with no understandable reason, making my home a living hell
- My father hates me because I'm gay
- My boyfriend just said i'm worthless and a sucker, and that I should go fuck myself...
>work at deli in supermarket
>towards the end of my shift, a transwoman comes in
>thin hips, fake looking breasts, beard shadow, what looked like a wig, almost passing voice, but not quite
>she was accompanied by what looked like an ftm, soft-skinned, no adam's apple, etc
>both were black, looked about 20-something
>i knew immediately that the woman was trans
>but i tried not to react at all
>when I turned around to slice up the meat she ordered, I had to bite my lip to not smile
>not because I was laughing, but because i was really surprised this was actually happening
>her voice started out really well
>as I began to ask her more question (ie would you like anything else, is the thickness of this slice okay, etc) i could tell she was becoming more nervous
>she would speak in a lower tone of voice, would constantly touch her face or try to hide her neck, etc
>I didn't misgender her
>and then she was on her way
I don't really know why I'm making this post. I guess I'm still just surprised. The only other trans people I've met were also in passing, so I never really knew them. I dunno. I always wondered how I'd react to seeing a trans person irl, and I guess now I know.
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I've had some similar experiences. Aside from one or two closeted, pre everything friends, the only other transguy that I've seen in the wild (as far as I know) was this one in my community college econ class. He was probably 50/50 passing to most cis people, had the squeaky voice, sad looking beard stubble, was chubby and had a bunch of tattoos. Pretty much every stereotype. And an #alllivesmatter sweatshirt too, which I found funny for some reason. Was kind of an autist, but so am I so whatever.
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>>6068589
two trannies regularly come to FNM, i wonder if they can clock me back
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>>6068631
>FNM
What's that?
So I'm starting out hrt, kinda navigating all this stuff on my own. This board has actually been super helpful and made me feel less alone, so thanks everyone.
But I'm not out to any of my friends and family. They'd probably be fairly supportive honestly, they're all pretty open minded. I just...can't stand the thought of talking to them about it. And I'm not close to my family anyways so honestly I dgaf if they know.
Anyways, it'd be nice to actually know people irl who I can talk to. So what are trans support groups like? What do they talk about? Are they super critical? Hugboxy? Are they good places to make friends with other trans people? (I'm mtf if that matters)
I'm in a fairly large midwestern city, so I figure I'd be able to find one if I looked. It's just hard to imagine talking to people about it.
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>>6068300
Oh. And pic unrelated. Just on my mind since I'm jamming out right now.
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>>6068300
>So what are trans support groups like?
S T O P
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DO NOT, nigga, DO NOT go to one of these support groups unless you want to be surrounded by 40 year old hons who don't put in the effort to even shave in the morning.
Find another young mtf/ftm. I remember there was a Utah thread a while ago and some people traded contact info.
Make a thread for your state or something and meet up with these people instead of hon support groups.
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>>6068300
If a support group allows people over 30 to go
Turn around and run for your sweet life. Find real trans youth, befriend them, hang out, have coffee, watch films. They will be your support group
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>you never will be a qt gril like max caufiled
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thats why im going for the whole fem barb vibe
its going great
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>messenger bag
>windbreaker
>graphic tee
Sorry, not my tempo.
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test
Why haven't you killed yourselves?
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>>6065146
Weeaboos first
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>>6065146
'cos I like torturing people like you.
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Life is good and I'm happy :3
Why would I want to end it?
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Late realisation or what the hell
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How many of you became aware of your not straight sexuality later than childhood or teenage years?
How did it happen? How was your love life before you came out to yourself?
If one has been romantically attracted to opposite-sex people for most of his life but at some point stopped finding them attractive and switched, what does it make that person? Slow and horrible bisexual, lesbian/gay, pathetic lonely poseur, crazy radical misandrist/misogynist or else?
I need all the answers, so share your experience with me, kind anons. (And sorry for the messed up grammar)
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I was in complete denial about being gay. I guess if you repeat a lie enough it pseudo becomes the truth. 10 years of replying 'no' to 'are you gay' made me actually think I wasnt gay. Even though I had been masterbating to gay porn and boys every other night since I was 12. The first time I had sex with a girl, when I was 18, i couldnt get hard. I thought "i didnt come this far not to lose my virginity" and i ended up pulling up a half-chub or something and ended up ploughing her until my fat ass became tired and we went to sleep, lol. That was the start of 2015, i turned 19 that year, by the end of that year I came out out to my best friend. I couldnt not accept it after that, i knew i wasnt enjoying sex as much as I should have. I'm 20 now, out to about 5 friends, still got 2 more close friends to come out to (my closest friends) why is it so hard to come out to your closest friends? is it because I think i value those relationships the most and I dont want them to change? I'm still yet to kiss a boy, i think im putting a lot of emphasis on it being 'special' that it might take longer than it should. Not sure when i'll lose my gay virginity.
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I didn't realise it until I was 20 or so. I remember accidentally downloading a couple gay porn videos/pictures from Kazaa when I was 13 or so and keeping them, but I always rationalised it, 'it's just hentai', or 'he's so petite he basically looks like a girl'. I truly, honestly believed I was into women only... I don't know why I was so oblivious to something so obvious. I didn't know any gay/bi people until my late teens tho so maybe it was just that I didn't know it was possible for guys to be attracted to guys...
I've still never been with a woman, and I didn't start dating until I was 24 (my first/current bf). When guys started hitting on me, I think that forced me to really question my sexuality because I not only didn't hate it, I liked them hitting on me and felt they were qt.
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I was never attracted to men as a kid. I still am not really; more attracted to the power dynamic of a strong man "dominating" a weaker, effeminate boy.
This fetish/attraction was all new to me when I got older (e.g. 17 or 18+).
I think porn shaped these feelings though obviously it's possible they were always there, I just didn't have an outlet for them.
I'd wager that for a lot of people who didnt "feel gay/different" as a kid, porn probably shaped a lot of sexual tastes for millennials growing up
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Is this a tarp
https://www.instagram.com/traplordkaworu/
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>tfw no trap bf into eva and punpun
why live
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>>6063873
Based on skull size relative to body, I could believe it. Plus that anime, comic, and figurine collection.
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>>6063873
That's 100% cis female, one of those who gets turned on by misleading others to think she's a trap.
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I think we should try to fix trans people 2016-04-21 16:19:27 Post No.6060617
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I think we should try to fix trans people
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I'm not shitposting. I'm not trying to make people hate themselves.
I just truly believe that we should be trying to find genetic treatments to permanently remove gender disphoria from trans peoples' brains instead of convincing them to cut their genitalia off or give them cancer inducing hormones
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>>6060617
>the "i am not shitposting" shitposting episode
yes you are, bud
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Being trans might not be genetic, though. Current scientific literature thinks it's due to a flood of estrogen to the brain in the womb, feminising it, while the body gets hit with testosterone, turning it into a biological man. Genetic treatments may not be viable if that's accurate as they think. If being trans is just a feminised brain, trying to 'cure' it implies that having a female brain is something that needs to be cured, which science will never agree with. If having a female brain is a disease, why not cut into every woman's brain to cure their 'problem'?
If the brain is the centre of personhood (everything that makes you, 'you'), then trans people are more legitimately the gender they say they are than their biological sex, and I don't think anyone will ever get on board with the idea their brains need to be 'cured'.
What treatment would you propose otherwise?
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That's nice anon. You go ahead and do that, tell me how it works out. I'll be over here continuing to use the most effective treatment in currently in existence.
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I really want to know if someone here made the same mistake Chris did out of sheer desperation.
Situation:
> be straight
> think girls are into hot lesbians (some are)
> I'll just become a cute lesbian trans and maybe CIS lesbians will finally give me some of that sweet pussy
> Ouch, it did not work, because I'm ugly and chicks like hot guys / girls only
Chris even said himself recently that his "gal-pal" would have to be born female.
This is AFTER his "transition" to Christine.
How much desperate can one get?
And I'm sure there are people like that browsing the board right now.
I should know better, I was one.
I was trying to feminise my face, because due to Chan culture and Final Fantasy I thought that is what girls like - feminine men.
Turns out CIS girls love the complete opposite.
Thank god I did not commit to my FF surgeries.
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Not really.
But I did transition from similar vain reasons. I wanted boys to want me except I didn't realize hormones do so little if you already completed male puberty.
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I remember you. You've been here before.
The only reason anyone cares about Chris Chan is that he's a spectacular trainwreck. Don't delude yourself into thinking he represents anything but his own insanity.
You must be kinda autistic if you were about to get Final Fantasy Surgery to get with chicks. And since you were about to go under the knife because of stuff you read on 4chins your biggest problem will never be your face.
also
>CIS in all caps
shig
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>>6049768
>You must be kinda autistic if you were about to get Final Fantasy Surgery to get with chicks. And since you were about to go under the knife because of stuff you read on 4chins your biggest problem will never be your face.
I was autistic, but I have changed now.
I'm actually aesthetic and masculine now and I thank god that I did not do chin reduction surgery and forehead reduction surgeries.