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>>7874687
Very subtle...
sage
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24 years old virgin
university drop out
NEET
AGP tranny
Im feeling lost. Im thinking of joining the military and working out to resist dysphoria. Any thoughts?
>>7874571
>Im feeling lost. Im thinking of joining the military and working out to resist dysphoria. Any thoughts?
Won't work. Every trans person cracks eventually. The longer you put it off the worse you'll be, physically, mentally, and emotionally.
My advice, don't look on 4chan for advice. Think about the military, but just beforre you get to serius, learn about basic training (not fun) and the meals (MRE) also not fun.
>>7874571
If you hate your body now you're definitely going to hate it even more if you start getting more muscular and masculine
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLVpZme0kRQ
He's gnarly. Nice mix of drugged out 80s pop and synthy post-punk. Cop Killer & Tenebrae are probably my favorite tracks of his.
>>7874478
One of my favorites. Very comfy music.
Why are there no bisexual or lesbian early transitioners?
>>7874046
How early is early? I'm bi and started hrt at 16.
>>7874053
early is 12 and under
>>7874062
If that's the cutoff, then the reason probably is that people usually don't start feeling sexual and romantic attraction until around that age. If they're already taking hormones by then, then their sexual preferences are much more likely to be in line with the norm for their transitioned gender. Same reason why some trans people start liking men (if mtf) or women (if ftm) only after starting hrt. But at that age the brain is harder to change and I assume anyone who was into women before estrogen still retains at least some attraction to women afterwards. When your 12, the sexual attraction parts may be just starting to develop and so getting hormones at that point will influence it a lot more.
Is it wrong to genuinely feel neutral about my gender and want to be perceived as such? I do want top surgery but still keep my genitals.
Thoughts?
>>7873914
Some people are like that but they tend to be tumblr snowflakes.
>>7873967
to tell you the truth i did hear about it from tumblr but i thought about it for a long time, not just instantly say i identify as such. i gave it time to see if it was just a phase or not. And i'm happy this way :)
>>7873914
Depends.
Do you not want bottom surgery because the results possible with current surgery are unsatisfactory? That's pretty normal for trans people, especially FtMs.
Do you not want bottom surgery because you'd rather keep your birth genitals even if you had the opportunity to get absolutely perfect sex organs of your transitioned gender? That's a bit suspect, although I do know a few trans people who felt/used to feel that way, myself included. Originally I thought I'd be happy keeping my dick and may decline even a magically perfect vagina. After about 6 months on HRT my view changed and I would ditch my dick in a heartbeat. Same thing happened to at least 2 more trans friends of mine.
>turned off by traps
>turned on by futa
whats wrong with me?
>>7873554
Simple.
2D>3D
Who would be aroused by pig disgusting people of any anatomy in the three dimensional world when there's pure, beautiful 2D?
>>7873554
shit taste
Autism.
https://thingofthings.wordpress.com/category/itt/
there is currently an 'intellectual turing test' (in which you have to figure out if someone claiming a specific political viewpoint actually agrees or disagrees with it) running in which the viewpoints are 'transsexualism is caused by gender identity and blanchard was wrong' or 'transsexualism is hsts/a*p and blanchard was right'
the submissions are now being published and people have to vote on which group the writer is part of, and declare which one they themselves are
there aren't many voters (and especially few blanchardian voters) and it works better when there are more people, so /tttt/ should share their perspective
I'm not sure if I understand this completely--isn't it obvious what their actual views are because they answer different questions based on which perspective they're trying to argue?
Also I feel like the majority of those questions could easily be answered the same way by someone who believes in innate gender identity and someone who doesn't.
>>7873654
people send in two submissions, one for identity and one for blanchard, and tell the person running the test what their real opinion is
test runner publishes all the identity answers and then all the blanchard answers, without mentioning which one the writer actually believes
voters have to vote on if it's legit or not
>>7873674
Oh, I guess I misread wherever they said they send in one for both sides.
Did you submit anything, blanchardanon-kun?
Hello. I have no idea who to ask so il post here. I have a childhood freind that ive know for 10 years. Recently ive noticed everytime we chill he brings up the word gay alot. He cant not talk about gay ppl when he sees one. He talks abouy his boss always talks about him being gay and will look at some guy and say his "gaydar" went off and would say something like that guys queer. He would randomly bring up gay politics and how he is comfterble with his sexualality in conversation. The most recent time i was out with this freind we got drunk at the casino and started joking about getting sum girls off backpage. I told him i want the lights off and the tv on if we get escorts to our room and he says he wants the lights on so he can see evrything and starts talking about he does not care if he sees my dick and hes comfterble with his sexuality and talks about dick size and bla bla bla and i replied i dont care becuase my focus would be on the girl and nothing else. Did not end up getting bp escorts just fell asleep watching tv. The way he plugs in a gay topic into a conversation every time we chill and smoke. Gay men of 4chan is my freind trying to say somthing subconciously? I appologize in advance for the spelling errors
>>7873439
While current fad psychology would say that he's a closet gay projecting, the truth is in the conservative circles of western and arab culture is is expected of heterosexual males to never ever shut up about "the gays." All you can be sure of is that your friend really really wants to seem heterosexual. Whether he does this because he's gay or because there's simply no other good reason a woman would want him, who knows.
>>7873570
Interesting, thanks for the response
Ok, so I asked out my very dear friend today and I wanted to see if we could make it more. I know he doesn't hate me for it, you see he's gay too. I was going to ask him earlier, but he went on to explain in full detail how he was crushing on a dude he doesn't know (I was going to ask him, but pussied out when he brought up his crush). So I ask him and I wait the whole day for a answer, only to get one through a mutual friend of ours(no), basically salting the wound. Even if we can't be the way I imagined we could, I would still like some advice on how I should go about this. We are together for 5 periods of school, so should I avoid him, or talk to him about how I still want to be friends no matter what.
Btw, I still want to be more. But I don't want to be selfish.
>>7873277
>talk to him about how I still want to be friends no matter what
Do that.
Ok
Hey /lgbt/, what does /lgbt/ think about South Park's episode "The Cissy" regarding transgender people and about it?
Pic related of series, but I don't care if a character is genderswapped or not.
>>7873178
I have yet to see the episode but South Park never takes a stance against any minority group. Sure it's got edgy humor and isn't shy of a racist or gay joke but the punchline is always on the people who actually believe those things.
>>7873178
Saw the episode, it's pretty satirical in general, the toilet humor isn't something I like in it, but the part that is good is the fact it never takes a stance to support any minority group. It's always controversal and well known.
South park is known for it's satire, dark humor, sex, toilet humor, and a lot of graphic material, if you ever read the disclaimer that comes up before the intro appears, you'll get what >>7873189 is mentioning to you.
>>7873178
Wasn't nearly as funny/snarky as it could have been. Clearly written by someone with no knowledge of the trans community. At least they didn't fall back on the "i identify as a helicopter!1 lolol" schtick.
So I've been bi curious for a while now, but I've never done anything because I'm just unsure if I could go through with it, but I'm meeting a guy for the first time tonight. Any advice for my first time? Not going to have sex but I'm probably going to make out and maybe have oral if I'm into it but I'm still unsure and could use some guidance.
>>7872940
Most important thing: relax, take your time, ease into it
>>7872940
Take it slow. If you rush you might spook yourself and think the moment is ruined.
You might act a little autistic, that's normal, don't beat yourself up
Bumping for update from OP.
>rub the rim of my asshole
>it turns me on
>penetrate my asshole with my finger
>it doesn't do anything for me (obviously i'm not stimulating my prostate but i'm not referring to that)
I guess that it's like sucking on a finger instead of sucking on a dick.
Please don't tell me that I'm an un-faggot.
Try a cucumber
>>7872800
Try it with my tongue
its better with a toy. fingers dont do much for me but it feels way better than just pokin ur butt
Are non-passing late transitioners more privileged than passing early transitioners due to the fact that they still have their male privilege?
kys yourself you retarded spammer
>>7872638
who....?
OP, I hope that a penis on fire bores into one of your eye sockets, and out the other. Then, as a good portion of your upper face is set alight, I hope it tunnels through your anus, setting a good chunk of your intestines on fire as it does this. Please stop posting these fucktarded threads. Protip: if the original post mentions an entirely anecdotal contrast between early and late transitioners, the thread is guaranteed to be shit.
Improve the quality of /lgbt/'s threads by adhering to this simple protip. Remember: for every shit thread you post, one potentially good thread is removed.
ftm here.. any advice on coming out without looking like a transtrender/ayyden? (yeah i do make an effort to look masculine but don't pass well since i'm petite with a girly face)
or should i just get thicker skin and not give a shit if they think that i'm just doing it to be trendy.
ummm
Don't get gauges and shave the side of you head?
>>7872542
>gauges
Why does this seem to be common among AFABs? I would have thought its main appeal would be to cis guys.
>>7872550
Well I was in high school I think when they started getting popular and a lot of skater guys wore them. I'd assume just from my observation a lot of ftm's dress like skater guys
what's the best and most permanent hair removal method? I'm desperate to get rid of my facial and body hair because I'm an autistic fuck that can't handle it plus it's unattractive and nasty.
>>7872353
Sixth and seventh degree burns.
laser hair removal isnt that expensive
>>7872371
Thanks!