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What's wrong with me? 2017-05-11 12:27:12 Post No.18304395
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>born female
>realized that I like boys and other girls when I was 6
>preferred boys toys and clothing growing up
>hit puberty and make over wardrobe to almost consist entirely of boys clothing bc insecure about body
>now 24 and kissless virgin who hates being touched
>most of my crushes since my teen years have been other women
>still not comfortable with body so I still wear boys clothes
I do not want to become a trans man. But I would mind not having breasts or a period.
Am I an asexual? Is there such a thing as non gender people?
Is this normal?
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>>18304395
You don't seem to hate your body enough to count as a tranny, being insecure about it is relatively normal ... to a certain degree. As for asexual, well do you want sum fuck? Assuming you weren't insecure about your body or awkwardness or shit like that.
Also is there anything objectively wrong with your body like being fat or you just don't like it?
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>>18304395
If you aren't into guys anymore, you're a lesbian. If you don't want a penis, you aren't a tranny. Just cut your hair short, wear butch clothing, and dyke it out.
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>>18304395
If anything you're bisexual, but you're probably just insecure up to a point where you'll take anything you relate to and use it as an excuse for why you are who you are
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Ok /adv/ ive got a stupid stump.
So recently my boyfriend of a few years are taking a long break to get a good look on our relationship and decide whether we should continue further or end it completely. Well we live in the same place together rn which is honestly a bit weird. All i want to do is make out w him and possibly have sex. Would that fuck things up or should i just go for it.
We both are in mutual agreements on the break but he has his heart set on getting back together, not saying i wouldn't but somethings need to change and both of us are working on it. Should i bite the bullet and keep to myself or go for it then revert back to our break
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>>18304347
I say wait until it changes. Wait until he proves he is going to change and then go for it. If you sleep together and nothing is different and it goes back to normal, nothing is going to change and this is just going to happen again. Take it from someone who had it happen to them.
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>>18304347
Go for it and then keep going even further. Why go through the stupid break and waste your precious time together when you can be with him every second of every day? Find another way to solve your problems together, rather than spending time apart and hoping they magically fix themselves.
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God damn it i need some tie breakers. Both have valid points
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So, about a few months ago I was on here talking about my ex-girlfriend. I said that me and her were now friends again, but I still had feeling for her. That went on for another few months. Until yesterday however. The past few weeks she has been being cold to me, and just not herself. I was concerned and tried to help. Maybe it was a bad idea, because we got into a fight. I was feeling upset so I told my other friend what had happened.
A bit of back story, this other friend was one who helped me most during the break up, and she's a bit protective of me and didn't like how my Ex was treating me.
Anyway, my friend got mad and told me she was gonna message her. I told her not to, and even begged, but she said she had enough and was gonna do it one way or the other. And she did. My Ex blocked me on everything and I had to text her what was up (I didn't think my friend actually sent it). She said never to talk to her again. Thus was like at 8 last night and it's been a rough day for me. I'm sure as he'll gonna miss her but honestly it's for the best and the friendship was getting a bit one sided and toxic.
I'll be okay, but I was just wondering, since this is like and actually measly break up, and I've never been through one. What should I do to get over/move on from her?
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Bump. I'm going through something very similar senpai. It is hell
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>>18304337
Getting blocked it really hard and confusing. Just know that someone who genuinely cares about you would not be so spiteful, Maybe she was tired of the aftermath and it's her way to settle it but that complete snub should clue you in that she was not the one for you. Once you figure that out and stop blaming yourself you can rationalize your way out of it.
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>>18304337
Your first fail was not cutting contact with your ex as fast as possible.
Your second fail was to trying remain friends with ex.
Seriously, if you really felt something towards your ex, YOU CANT STAY IN CONTACT. Girls ussualy get out from breaks up fast, gets new bf and when you see this, it hurts you even more, because you feel like they werent caring about you at all. But in reality the female brain is just a little different.
Stop talking to her, seeing her, thinking about her. Eat chocolade, delete and throw out EVERYTHING (photos?) what can remind you of her and use your negative feelings as a source of energy to get better.
Start reading books, adopt some sport, unfaten yourself, learn how to dance whatever just dont think about her.
Good luck OP. Dont let this experience fuck up your life. It will get better i promise.
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Married - Whatdo oldfags 2017-05-10 11:28:30 Post No.18304279
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Married to a girl.
>criticizes my weight gain constantly.
>haven't had sex in 6 months (no shes not cheating - ive thoroughly creeped her in evey way)
>She is s typical millennial. Obsessed with social media and electronics. Not outsoorsy.
>doesn't appreciate how hard i work and the work around the house i do to make it lhysicslly appealing.
>she doesnt work
>she doesnt drive
>often scolds me when i eat food that isn't 'healthy'
>occasionally embarrasses me in front of others
>loves to be correct. I proved her wrong on purpose today and it sent her into a resentful/spiteful attitude. "...keep it up! See what happens!" I responded "i just wanted to prove you wrong for once. You always insist you are right when i provide facts...i just wanted to show you" "just for that...no hanky panky" "we havent had hanky panky in 6 months" "yea...cuz of that attitude."
Ill never leave. Shed have to be the one to leave. Im Catholic. How can she change from this supercunt into the normal fun chick i once knew.
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>>18304279
You can't change people. If you're not willing to leave then just deal with it.
>haven't had sex in 6 months
have you offered, or tried to engage her?
>she doesnt work
don't support her.
>she doesnt drive
don't drive her.
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>>18304291
But as the husband im suppoaed to provide all those luxuries. All im saying is it would sure take some weight off my shoulders if she worked part time and could drive. Im basically her taxi cab anf i always work OT to make up for the second body.
Fuck man we got 5 animals. I hate animals. I got them cuz she wanted them. I can deal with it...but it seems like i make all these sacrifices and she wuickly depreciates my efforts and will to please her.
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>>18304279
>fatass who stalks his wife
>lazy cunt who wastes life on social media
Sounds like a match made in heaven.
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Is it possible to stop daydreaming to escape?
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Is it possible to get anymore properly thic? Dayum.
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>>18304252
probably has no ass
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>>18304230
probably not, especially not if life sucks try living in the moment react to things instead of thinking about them you probably wont get any smarter but you might become more depressed. Good luck with your escapism anon.
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So I just found out my spine looks like this.
Thoughts?
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>>18304217
you a lizard?
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>>18304217
You're fucked lad.
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pray to god. he'll fix it
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I'm currently a senior in the American Politics undergraduate program. Since I was younger I've wanted to be a college professor, but my GPA isn't the greatest.
My overall cumulative GPA is 3.35, my Uni GPA is 3.42, and my major GPA is 3.52. This not great and shows how much depression and drug abuse ruins one's chances. What should I do in order to make myself more competitive for Grad school? Will a high GRE make up for the lower GPA? Is Law School even a possibility anymore?
I just need some advice.
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3.5 is not impressive but it seems adequate to me.
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>>18304192
I should have added that I have two semesters left before I graduate.
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>>18304197
then you have a B. keep it a B.
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Crush who rejected me is acting weird 2017-05-10 10:25:17 Post No.18304121
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After building up the courage, I confessed my feelings to my classmate whom I've had a crush on for quite a while now but never acted upon. I confessed to her and she rejected me but I feel that she behaves differently when she sees me in campus. She also used to react in a weird way when I see her talking with another male student. I've also noticed that she tries to make me feel jealous by joking with my best friend and doing those cute moves or at least I think so. My best friend is engaged and she knows it and is very happy for him so she doesn't do it because she likes him. What does all of this mean? Why is she doing this? Perhaps my mind is trying to convince me that she is targeting me with all of these when she isn't? What should I do?
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>>18304121
She rejected you, so move on with your life and don't waste time analyzing her behavior. Treat her with polite indifference and go about your life.
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>>18304128
You're right but I can't seem to get over her, what should I do? When I see her on campus my body goes like "Oh shit, there she is" and I tend to find myself walking to where she is sitting despite not wanting to.
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>>18304128
t. this, listen to it anon.
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I need to stop hating myself. I have really bad learning disabilities, mostly nonverbal. I'm very forgetful, I can't juggle ideas in my head, I count using my fingers, etc.
I don't feel like I have any potential. I cringe at my future. I did a test with the work-placement people and they shrugged their shoulders and said I could probably swing a factory job.
Right now I clean rental cars. I'm very good at my job and I take some satisfaction in that, but I don't feel like I could survive in the adult world. I can't really drive, I can't follow conversations, etc. I dread my future every day.
I need to stop hating myself for my limitations. I don't know what to do. Whenever I bump against the ceiling of what I'm capable of I crumple and deflate and give up and frankly want to brain myself with a hammer.
Please, please, please help /adv/. I know this is 4chan and it's easy to tell me to eat a dick and be done with it but this has to stop. I can't meet what little potential I have because I give up right away. Nothing feels as bad as this, and I'm in chronic pain.
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>>18304113
Stop giving up. If you're suffering anyways you might as well develop some grit and stick with what you endeavor to do so the pain will count for something.
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>>18304113
Step 1. Stop being a little bitch
Step 2. That's it congratulations you did it
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How do I stop being a NEET? I've been one for 20 years now and I feel it's time I try to fit into normal society. How do I do that?
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Find a job bro. I started working at McDonald's and even tho i hated it i dus feel better about myself. I even met a girl that i. I eventualy fucked it all up and i never fucked her lmao. She contacted me 3 days ago after she deleted me from Whatsapp for 5 months. Im stupid enough to accept her adding me on whatsapp when i shouldnt. But im the one that fucked it up so ill keep her till i get my shit back together. Not that im waiting for her. But anyways bro find a job the rest will follow trough. If you find a job you will force yourself to talk to people and be social.
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>>18304326
>Find a job
And this is done how exactly? What kind of job can a 30 year old with no work experience or social skills do? I don't think even a fast food restaurant would hire a person like me.
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>>18304346
if you don't have connections to people with jobs, all you can do is apply
otherwise go make connections, find a job fair, go to the local library and meet people, volunteer so you can have a reference
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How do you feel more attractive as a male? 2017-05-10 09:56:42 Post No.18304038
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How do you feel more attractive as a male?
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My self esteem and confidence are really bad. How does a 26 year old make feel more attractive?
For example, women can like wear a short dress and thong underwear or some shit to feel more attractive.
What can guys do? I actually don't think I have ever thought I look attractive.
What can men even do?
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cut weight. play music. play a sport, or even a goddamned videogame. do something you're normally too timid to do.
it doesn't even matter if you're attractive. talk to the women anyway.
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>>18304038
>What can men even do?
1. Work out.
Not just for the long run and getting in better shape. Working out pumps your muscles, releases testosterone, and gives you more dominant posture.
2. Dress up. My look is a jacket and boots. It changes the way you walk and hold yourself. I get far more interest from women when I'm dressed up.
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Better clothes.
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Does anyone here have any experience or proclivity in dream interpretation? I had one last night and I'm not sure where it falls between a nice dream and a nightmare, but it left a lingering effect on me.
>dream I have younger sister by a year
>she's literally emma stone
>see her going upstairs
>realize I always hang out with my other sister but never with her and don't know why
>ask emma if we can talk
>she warmly accepts and we go to her room
>spend the time talking about life and various other subjects
>also playfully monkey around with slight sexual tension
>my clothes come undone a little during the playfighting
>realize I'm wearing spiderman costume underneath
>she finds it a little weird but accepts it
>talk and roughhouse more
>feel strong bond
>me, emma, and other sister decide to take an uber black to the last jedi and get pizza after because it's opening night
>driving to theater
>notice in rear view mirror I'm in full spiderman suit with huge white afro
>remark I look like a white eric andre
>emma asks who that is
>talk up his show because I think an interview with her would be hilarious
>suddenly hannibal buress is in the back with us
>talking over me with his own explanation
>can't get a word in edgewise
>start doubting reality
>have deep conversation with emma about what separates dreams and reality
>suddenly wake up
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>>18303978
The first thing shit-level psychology classes teach you is that dreams literally mean nothing and that "interpretation" is meaningless. It's your brain decompressing emotions with random garbled nonsense.
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>>18303988
>a thought
>garbled nonsense
This is why I hate college. Nobody knows any grey areas, and they think they know everything. Philosophy courses should be mandatory.
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>>18303997
> Philosophy courses should be mandatory.
kek
Philosophy classes are the biggest waste of time you can engage in. It's just a bunch of psuedo-intellectuals mentally jerking themselves off.
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there is a girl I work with who I enjoy talking to and Im pretty sure she find me fun to talk to. on top of that she is pretty qt.
my main issue is that I'm scared of how she will react when she realises I have no friends of my own (I'm a real homebody type)
like I'm pretty easy going to make friends with, like having a light flirt with younger female clients and receptionists of other departments or companies a we deal with.but they never seem to last because I hate going out doing normie things.
I'm willing to do normie things with her but how important is having friends to a girl.
I haven't had friends since I was 19ish and haven't had a gf since I was 21. (27 now)
when I last had a gf she never brought it up and we used to go out a lot with her friends which I actually liked doing. but obviously when we broke up I went back to the Hikikomori life.
like my social life pretty much just consists of visiting my siblings and their kids on the weekend and talking to people pretty briefly after church. overall I'm pretty content and happy with that but it's like people expect me to be doing more which for the most part don't like doing. how do modern girls take this?
I don't even have a FB account anymore since no friends anyways but when I got my sister to check her out she is the type who has like 400 friends.
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>>18303959
I think you should go for it because you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. The amount of friends on your FB account doesnt mean shit.
As long as you dont act like a leech on her I think she wouldnt mind, as long as youre happy.
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>>18303959
Do you have enough going on in your life to leave her space for hers? Then it will be no problem.
Are you going to be a clingy bastard? Then it's gonna be a problem.
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>>18303992
>Are you going to be a clingy bastard? Then it's gonna be a problem.
Nah. I'm more one of those people who needs a lot of alone time. especially if I socialize a lot with people.
used to actually lie to me except sometimes and said I was working to have some time to myself since ei have to always deal with people at work.
obviously I don't want to be lying to this girl since i am more mature now.
also am I too old for her (I'm 27, she is 24)
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In a few days I'll turn 27 and still a kissless virgin.
I've never been handsome, but it wasn't a big deal to me during childhood or during adolescense. Many classmates picked on me for no reason during elementary and highschool, it didn't help that I got braces on when I was 16 and finally got them removed last year. I was developing a bigger than average jaw, which only made the mocking worse and I was finally ready for the cirjury in 2014. Unfortunately, I have to go through highschool and college with this face, jaw and braces. During college people didn't pick on me, but I couldn't get any of the few girls I was interested in.
Currently I'm decent. Not handsome, not attractive, but at least I have a normal mouth and I try to always look clean, with a good beard and hair. I have read a lot of books and articles about it; what to say, what not to do, how to dress, how to be more interesting, etc. Nothing seems to work with me.
I have a few more things to say, but I'm not sure how to express them. Anyway, thanks for reading, I'm not looking for any advice because I don't there's anything to do at this point, but I'm too depressed now and I just wanted someone to read it.
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I understand u
Honestly I've never been in a relationship or kissed or something but for a time I didn't mind cause I had friends that were also not into the-love-thing so they were always there for me and they satisfied my need for human companionship
Now I'm alone and depressed as hell c:
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>>18303963
Well then, we are alike.
I also have friends who don't talk about it because none of us can get a girl, so we rarely talk about it. One of my friends got a girlfriend once and he became an arrogant dick. Then she dumped him because he just doesn't know how to be there for other people, he mostly expects people to care for him.
Anyway, they would satisfy my need of human companionship, but we all live in different places, so we have to organize a hangout to see each other. We have a chat group in Facebook, but we don't usually talk there lately.
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>>18303920
Look to the theory of evolution to solve your sexual ills.
Women want someone that can protect them and fight away the big scary cave bear ooga-booga-wooga-chooga
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I need help with a girl in my college class. She's been getting in makeup, dressing in short shorts. Today I made a move by asking her for a sip of her coffee, which made her laugh but she obliged. We talked for a bit between classes and she told me she had a business class. I forgot to make another move like ask for phone #. I looked up the location after I got out of my next class and I went there and I saw her talking to another guy. I stood still and when she passed me she held her head down. I followed them and eventually she turned her head around and saw me. Did I fuck up my chances of getting with this girl? I can't believe I went from making a move to acting like a stalker but that guy threw me off guard. Is it possible she was getting dressed up for the other guy, not me?Or was she disappointed I didn't make another move?
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Self bump
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Doesn't matter just shoot your shot. You have to think of it as sunk costs.
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>>18303783
You mean ask her out next time?