My son loves staying with his grandma every weekend and always cries/complains about not visiting more often.
That's not the issue.
What I dislike is that my mom criticizes MY living condition at home. She makes me feel bad when I have nothing bad to feel about. It's like she subtly brainwashes my son to stay with her because it's cleaner, feeds him healthier, and spoils him rotten. To the point where he just pouts and my mom pretty much does everything for him. Then when I try to set the rules, she BABIES him to make me feel like the bad guy...but heavens forbid she'll NEVER scold him or dream of disciplining him...and leaves that to me and my husband.
Should I just stop bringing him over? My son cries for his grandma and it gets me upset that he's willing to never come home if I didn't tell him to.
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>>18302429
Maybe treat him like your mom would treat him, then he wouldn't mind not going over all the time.
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Sounds like you'd just have to talk to her about it, you feel like she's being irresponsible in raising the kid
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>>18302454
I don't even have kids and I know they don't work like that
Why yes let's never scold and give our kids all the sweets and attention they want forever
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my girlfriend doesn't care about her health 2017-05-10 07:42:00 Post No.18302406
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My girlfriend smokes, eats shit she can't digest properly like gluten and corn, she has fatty liver at 24. We're about to move together, it's no longer her own life but also mine. I don't want her to get chronic diabetes or cirrhosis or some shit. It kills me to see how she treats her body. When I confront her about it she goes on about how she doesn't care and everyone dies someday (she's in quarter life crisis and she likes to browse edgy nihilist memes). I don't know what's the best way to convince her to care.
And no, I'll never dump her. She's the girl I always needed and I love her.
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learn to cook
slap her when she says retarded things
lead by example
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Tell her it's a fucking stupid frame of reference to contextualize your life in.
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>ill never dump her
That is where you fucked up. By this mindset you allow her to take you for granted so she can completely stop caring. She can just lie in bed, gettin more and more fat and you will still stay with her even when she will be so fat you wont be able to find her private parts anymore.
If your girl lost motivation, FORCE her by any means to gain one. There are no rules in war and at love. Start the war asap or die next to a landwhale. Pic related. This is how woman with no motivation looks like.
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So a few days ago i posted here asking for advice on how to deal with my girlfriend being raped and not wanting to file a police report but now things have changed
basically, gf goes out drinking with gay friend and then ends up having sex with him but instantly regrets it and then tells me including her immediate family that he raped her
Find out by talking to 'gay friend rapist' that she actually helped him out and wasn't as much of a victim as she led me on to believe
>He tells me she helped him put his cock inside her
>I confront her
>She says it's not even like that but doesn't deny it
>She eventually admits to it and changes her story to 'he pressured me into it'
>I get mad and storm out of house she follows me and blocks the exit
> I call her a dirty whore and tell her i never want to see her again
>She keeps saying it's not like it seems
>I ask her if she did what he told me she did
>"yeah..."
>call her some more mean shit
>she gets mad and punches me in the face
>ME
>Calls me minutes after to tell me not to bash her on social media
>me
>tompettyaf
>tell her I'm going to tell everyone she knows including her family and friends she's a dirty cheater and a slut.
>Gay rapist friend eventually calls me and tells me to think things through and so I do
>Yes the gay guy that had sex with my girlfriend convinced me not to shit talk my girlfriend
>not only that but he convinces me to think things through with her
>he tells me she would always talk about me and how she wanted a future with me
>i start feeling like i might still want to work things out with girlfriend
>girlfriend calls me and texts me on and off
What do i do guys,
What's the right decision here?
Should i just cut her off completely? I still love her, should i try to work things out with her?
This was a person I wanted to marry eventually.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cut your losses and get out.
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Only you can decide if this is something you can get passed and move beyond or not. For me personally, I would not be able to. It tells me she's a liar and a cheater. If she did it once, the potential is there to do it again. I could never trust her again and would not want to constantly be wondering what she was doing every time she was out of my presence.
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>>18302320
Dude, no. Move on. She's a terrible person and a liar.
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She likes 2D better than real people. 2017-05-10 06:50:08 Post No.18302312
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She likes 2D better than real people.
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I'm a guy who's friends with this girl for 3 years now. We really connect with each other down to our interests, the strongest similarity being our liking for anime stuff. It's not to the point where it's "weeby".
At least for me, I guess.
I've known her for very long, and I've come to like her, and she does think that I'm nice too and all. For so long, I've wanted to be closer to her than just a friend.
But thing is.. she's really into drawn guys than real people.. than me. She likes me, yes, but those drawn characters even more so. Is there anything I could do or something? Any thoughts?
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I'm a man who likes 2D > 3D
>Is there anything I could do or something?
No
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>>18302312
Murder-Suicide seems like the only reasonable course of action here.
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>>18302323
Or, you know, you can embrace 2D girls. Then you can put two TVs in the room, one with 2D girl porn and the other with 2D male porn and you can fuck while looking at the porm. This is basically what sex will be like in the future for everyone!
Tips for nofap?
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whenever i feel the urge to JO I get away from my computer and do some wall squats or planks for a few minutes to get the blood away from my clit
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nopr0n
though I admit it's easier after you feel like you've already seen everything
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>>18302272
1. Cut dick off
2. Win.
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I am 22 and I am near bald. I do not have any bald spots, but the crown is extremely thin, possibly patchy. The corners of my hairline are near invisible. The hairs there are too thin. Not bald, but not visible if that makes sense.
How do I UNJUST myself.
I do not want to take finasteride because of side effects. Rogaine is will make you lose the hair you had if you ever do stop.
Ive been reading about laser caps and it says it has more lasting effects but cannot regrow dead follicles.
At the rate my hairloss is going Ill have an actual bald spot (not just invisible hair) this time next year and it will be too late for a laser cap.
Should I shell out $2k for a cap now while it still has a chance to work? I already have a very low hair cut but if you use a 2 on barber clippers its very noticeable that the hair is thinner at the crown.
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Just shave it. Only way to go. You'll spend way too much money and time to get a shitty result. The truth is, you're going to have to tough it out until you get closer to 30, then no one is going to bat an eye. Own it. There's nothing to be ashamed of.
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>>18302195
I'm 30 now, half bald (just accepted it) . I went for laser therapy (that thing where you sit under a head thing for 20 mins 1 time a month) for 12 months, spent 2k and it did jack shit. Do NOT buy laser therapy (also strand by strand is a lie - both have been disproven)
Minoxidil works and is safe, but I just got annoyed having to rub my head with gunk 2 times a day. It grew hair back though.
Best I would recommend is to keep a very healthy diet. Also I would definitely check out here - http://hair-loss-forum.com/ . Very helpful place. Lots of treatments people try and nutrition tips as well - generally good people too.
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>>18302204
Its already shaved extremely low. Ive accepted Ill probably be shiny bald no later than 2 or 3 years from now. But I dont want to do that now and I dont want to just not try anything since the end result is going to be the same. Ive been of the mindset that am just going to be bald before Im 30 but a friend on mine started using minoxidil the moment his hair started thinning and it has at least stopped the hair loss. If there was a solution to at least stop hairloss I wouldnt feel too bad.
>>18302205
I was talking more about laser caps. The capillus in particular.
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I found a chick on a dating site who looks like a crossover between an 80s model (pic related, that kind of chick) and Mary Elizabeth Winstead. Literal perfection. I have a huge crush on her. Problem is, she's 8 years my senior (I'm 24). Any tips to not fuck things up in the first message? I tend to drop spaghetti real hard and in this case I can't even figure an icebreaker (partially because her profile is very brief without much info). According to the questions we're a pretty good match though.
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>a crossover between an 80s model and MEW
This is literally my fantasy. If I helped you that would make me a cuck, so fuck you OP.
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Keep in mind that if she wants a family she's probably looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage and children in the near future. There's a pretty big gap in life goals between a single woman at 24 and a single woman at 32.
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>>18302296
Her profile says she wants to meet people for short and long term dating and she answered "no" to the question that asks if you could date someone with no long term goals but it could be bluff. I want to enter a relationship with her knowing it's jettisonable if she happens to find some guy that's worth trying to form a family with, as on my side a realistic relationship won't extend more than 3 years (I'm in college but plan to leave the country when I graduate)
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>I've been with my current girlfriend for 3 and a bit years.
>We moved in together in December.
>Things have been going well.
>I've met her parents and some of her extended family like aunts and cousins.
>Got along well with them.
>Good friends with her brother.
>She's met my sister and my dad.
>She goes out with my sister sometimes.
>She hasn't met my mum but she wants to.
This is where the problem is. My mum is a horrible, evil person. My sister and I did not have a friendly childhood because of her. She is a cruel, petty and vindictive woman.
My sister introduced her boyfriend to him not too long ago and she spent the entire time telling him how much better he could do and revealing all of my sister's embarrassing secrets to him. My sister doesn't want to have kids because she's scared she's going to turn out like our mum.
My girlfriend really wants to meet her. She thinks I'm exaggerating, even though my sister has told her the same things. Do I let them meet or not? I'm planning on marrying this woman.
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How long have you been together with your girlfriend. Seems like something you should have told her long long ago. All on you, family. Peace ouuuuuuuuWOOOOOOOOO
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>>18302101
3 years 2 months. I've told her for a long time but she thinks I'm exaggerating. Ever since we've moved in together she's been more interested in meeting her.
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>>18302108
Ok then you should just get it over with, man. Be all end all or whaterver it is you say.
It is like.. ripping the bandage off. Just get this problem out of the way.
Hi /adv/
I'm in the middle of a conundrum. Recently a rather close friend told me that she had sex with her ex-boyfriend a couple days ago. No problem with that.
The problem is that the guy and I pretty much grew up together, but I went my separate way after realizing what a shitty friend he was all those years we knew each other.
So back to the matter. The guy is currently in a relationship with somebody I work with. His current girlfriend is cool and we talk/get along, so I guess what I'm trying to say is I feel bad for her and she doesn't know her boyfriend did this. Should I tell her? How do I go about warning her or something without being explicit and giving out names or whatever?
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It's a tough situation believe me. I've had a friend come out as bi to me while drunk, and we hooked up. He had a girlfriend unbeknownst to me, but I choose not to tell her about it. I feel in this situation, if he wasn't drunk that you need to sit him down and tell him how he needs to clear things up between him and his GF, that she deserves to not have him do something like this. If he doesn't however, you might need to break it to her.
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>>18302054
Fake email address, anonymous email. Add something not a lot of people know about her or him for proof you know them and care
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My mom suffers from arthritis very badly, and it's now starting to cripple her daily life and cause her to fall into depression. We've been to countless podiatrists, doctors, and therapists but she still suffers. She has been in constant pain for over a year and we're running out of options. Would anyone here know how to get started with looking into cannabis oil or lotion to help the pain?? We're located in California, and not familiar with the states regulations or rules about all this.
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Isn't weed legal there? Just go to a dispensary that caters to recreational use it's literally the same.
Momma gotta blaze one.
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Would do that, but she refuses to smoke anything so that's a dead end
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>>18302039
have you tried alternative/complementary therapies, like TCM>?
That could be an option, find the best TCM doctor within driving range, and go for it.
my 2c/
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breaking news, white males are in banishment 2017-05-10 04:44:03 Post No.18302026
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the are pack hunting white males in Georgia, everywhere, they are using code through television on where you are at, and they are full one hundred when they expect you to walk with a limp, if they surround you they will experiment on you, they are controlling the food markets to poison you, white males are their targets, that means when you walk outside its automatic, they did this after they spread sissy cuckold porn through the supermarkets... what do you think that is, I'm not a hundred yard sprinter, but I am a
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=loTIzXAS7v4
they have look a likes, so what is a family?
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ok
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they are doing this to me at the moment the well how can I put this, they don't consider themselves light, jajjajajajajajaja, this is happening, do you realize that kim Kardashian and that cancer is sissy cuckold porn?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twix9KfES9Y
the non whites are following me around and trying to slaughter me in cumming ga they are boots on the ground, write everyones name down, they are starting to kill whites through business
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they are all psychic and through the Obama administration they all believe now that you are bread to steal your pencil they keep chanting this over and over again, if you want I can tell you how to destroy psychics, they are like walking dead bodies, oh yeah I was reminded, they are starting to surround white males in ga and try to put them into projects, I have a university degree and a trade degree, and they are using race war tactics to make me homeless, treasure
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How can you tell when when someone loves you? If you have an significant other, how did falling in love with them happen?
I am honestly thinking about suicide at least three times a day because I tore down the doors of my heart to her and she doesn't love me like that at all.
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>I liked 1 (one) person and it didn't work out so now my life is over
Things get better and more amazing once you turn 7.
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>>18302004
Wow, this actually helped somewhat. Maybe I should just stop being a whiny faggot and try to find someone else.
But if I was under 7 I would be asking a much different question
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>18302018
Not him but man things will get into perspective once you get older. I'm 25 and I'm just cringing thinking about the shit I worried about and bothered other people about. Come back when you're a 28 year old virgin or something.
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Do you guys think this would be a stupid tattoo?
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>having a tattoo at all
Absolutely.
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Yes, but why care about what we think? It's your opinion that matters.
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>>18301982
>stupid
>tattoo
Pick two
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Hey /adv/ I bought a friend a couple games about a year ago on steam with me saying pay me back when you get a chance. He still hasnt payed me back not sure how to move with the conversation. Considering i cant force him and its all on him to pay me back and im not even asking for 100% of i paid for just 50%
Pic of the conversation i just had with him
I need advice on how to play this to get him to pay me back.
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>>18301927
Just say you need money right away and you need him to pay you back
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>I lent someone money for video games
>And expect to ever see it again
I hope you learn something from this.
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>>18301938
When i was talking to him he was convinced on getting value for his skins which is basically turning into a power struggle
>>18301942
Yeah i fucked up, i didnt lose too much but i expected him to atleast return the favor partly
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I'm about to be homeless 2017-05-10 04:10:29 Post No.18301902
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/adv I'm faced with a situation where im going to have to be homeless for a time I have a certain amount of camping/survival supplies stocked up already so instead of sleeping on the streets I was gonna stay in the desert around the valley I live in, I want advice though since this is the sonoran desert in California and I wanted to know what foods I should bring that wont spoil over these next two months, I have oatmeal, rice and dried beans stocked up, but what else should I bring I can't think of much that won't go bad in the 100+ degree heat over the next 2 months which is probably how long I'll be living in my tent, also any general advice on what I should have with me as well to make this go as smoothly as homelessness in the desert during summer can be.
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Do you have a vehicle?
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>>18301902
oh yeah just to clarify, being homeless as well as sleeping/sitting on the side walk or outside in public areas is illegal in my city and surrounding area
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>>18301905
no I do not