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>>18692386

Dude, come one. Insecurity is a worse look than a red face. Do you think she is into you? Then the redness of your face is not a problem. Do you think she is not into you? Then I bet just stopping your face from turning red won't make her suddenly change her mind.

That's a pretty big problem, huh? What you may have is called Rosacea. It gets worse with sun exposure, alcohol consumption, stress and spicy food consumption.

If it's really bad - which to you, it will seem like it is, just look up pictures and compare them to your face - you should go to a doctor. However if it's mild, there are over-the-counter options. Such as retinoic acid in the form of a face cream and vitamin C.

>>18692412
Its not a HUGE problem its just annoying checking the mirror before a date and looking a little like a tomato

>>18692365
stop thinking about her and let memories fade away while creating more exiting memories
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>>18692365
Focus on other aspects of your life, a hobby, a passion, whatever, or start talking to someone else.

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Okay so first holy shit, I've been with my boyfriend for six months now, I'm 21 and I have borderline personality disorder. It's so fucking difficult but not inexcusable. I think the best way to do it is to try to make it more about what you want for this person and not what you want. Obviously you don't not want to be with her, but you've had some great memories and challenges. It will be emotional. But hearing it towards the fact that not only is it not healthy for you for her to be abusive, it's not healthy for her. Sometimes it's really hard to think about other people. Sometimes when I hear people talk about their issues, I start to get uncontrollably angry. It feels like I don't get enough support or attention. I don't like how it feels, but it's hard to control. However it's not your fault. Try to explain that if this continues her actions will hurt you both more and more. Try to encourage support and therapy honestly. Try to keep it simple, it will help when the mind fucks with you.
Will say more if I get a reply

>>18692444
Thanks for the reply, but thats all the help I needed right now. Thanks so much for writing your thoughts

>>18692283
Do your own homework

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>>18692283
I don't get it, are there any rules or what?

>>18692277

You wait it out and once it stops falling apart you build it back up again except better and more stable this time.

>>18692292
I don't know how long this shits gonna last though

>>18692292
this

>>18692265
Learn to love yourself first

U r hurting urself with that way of thought.

Grill won't fix ur problem

>>18692265

Why does she have to be a girl? Make a male friend.

in the skin?

>>18692262
Yes.

Yeah go to the doctors immediately.

>>18692191
Your mental state and mentalhealth play a big part too.

>>18692191
just because you are guy you arent forced to always have o be ready.
had the same problem, ED being the consequence.
Liberate yourself from the concept that you are required to be a fucking machine to be a real man, that will help loads.

Goodluck, brother.
Also, if your girl is decent she won't mind if you can't always fuck her when she feels horny.

>>18692191
general health and vitamin levels
stress at work
amount of free time
ability to compartmentalize so troubles in one area don't spill over into another

A small minority of people are capable of long-term decision making. Why worry about the consequences of a year from now when they can get their dick wet now?

>>18692092
If the chick is hot, where is the issue?

>>18692092
The gold digger found a submissive guy to dominate and the rest is histor or it's the rich guys who treated them like some kind of disposable. When the gold digger get old or crossing him, she's done for and discarded.

Or they just normal couple, but women in the end couldn't help but act like a women who flaunt their men's wealth.

>>18692082
Listen to some music.

>>18692082
Go find a meaning or at least a way to have fun.

Pro-tip: a life of struggle is more enjoyable than a lazy life of NEETing around your parents' basement.

Lie and claim the money. Just make sure you spend the money so you work your job so you don't have to parasite off the taxpayers anymore.

You fucked your life the moment you started living off government assistance.

BTW in UK all that budget is being assigned to all the immigrants :)

>>18692067
>>18692067
What do you mean?

I don't intend to sit on my arse and leech for long bud. I'd still be claiming this if I went into full time work anyways (the rules allow for this without any issue). My main point is that the DLA income is a major supplement to my wage (in the past and/or future). I just don't know if I should exaggerate/lie and be able to justify it.

>>18692040
Most Norwegian people your age will have studied English. Find one who wants to practice their English and trade lessons.

>>18692040
Hook up with a norwegian.

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>>18692040
Why learn some shit language when you already know the lingua Franca. Pretty sure most Norwegians know english

>>18691981
Ask your study department.
>i want out
Dont go "out" until you finished all.your classes and course. You cant transfer anything if it isnt finished.

>>18692135
You cant transfer anything if the credits aren't transferable.I didn't come to CC for generals ed courses ,I came to CC to learn a skill and I did,however after learning it and looking back this CC is mediocre so I'm looking elsewhere.

>>18691981
Here's a really wild, off-the-wall idea. Why not ask the university you're interested in?

Visit or write the admissions department. "I was home-schooled, have a GED and 17 credits in a CC. What would I need to apply to you?"

It's their job to tell you. And whatever your situation, they've dealt with it before and have the answers.

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>>18691970
Man up or literally die alone as failure.
>pro tip
Nobody remembers you and nobody cares about you.

>>18691970

if somebody looks down on you, start building some self-righteous anger to fuel becoming a stronger person.

i was a high school dropout dating a girl at a top UC. she treated me like a filthy pleb for a year before eventually ghosting me. i got my ass into community college, and transferred into the same college before she left. she saw me on campus.

>surprise bitch

she wanted to start talking again, but i cool guy'd her and turned her down, because i had new confidence. even if I had have to use spite as a fuel to get it.

nowadays she's a personal trainer (wanted to become a doctor originally), and I'm plugging away at my dream career.

the lesson is it's normal to feel ashamed of yourself, but it's up to you to dig yourself out of that hole, and until you do people will sense your shattered self-esteem and walk all over you.

your first step to feeling better is faking it until you make it. learn to eat all the shit in your life with a brave face and a smile.

>I dropped out and took a break around 2 years ago to be mentally and physically healthier
What did you do for the 2 years? Do you feel better now?
>I feel like a massive failure
You are strong enough to keep your chin up and return. You didn't back down. That isn't always the easiest thing to do. Everyone encounters failures, be glad you got some experience dealing with it early.
>I dread going to the same professors to ask basic ass questions in fear of getting rejected or ridiculed.
Just be humble and ask them for help when you need it. They are there to help and if they recognise you, chances are they won't, they will be glad to see that you are putting effort in. The only thing they care about is that you are showing a desire to learn. It doesn't matter if you are doing the same stuff over and over. Learning is different for everyone and we all have our own pace. Focus on your own LEARNING and forget about other people.
>What should I do? How do I get over this feeling?
It's a natural feeling to get and you probably won't get over it until you get there. It's tough coming back after 2 years and being in the same place that you left off. But you're moving forward now.

>>18691967
Because you're focusing on it too much.
Try to do things that will help calm you down.

Why are you so freaked out in the first place?

>>18691990
I don't know. I miss my family, I have severe anxiety, I've always depended on them for emotional support. I'm going for a useless masters degree in acting, I'm never gonna pay back the loans. I'm definitely gonna have to drop out. I have no idea what I wanna do with my life. U can't stop this scared feeling

>>18691996
Take some fucking meds you goon.