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>>5903044
>When did you realize it was impossible to respect everyone's gender and sexual identities?
The same time I realized it was impossible to respect everyone's race and culture.

And this isn't a /pol/ shill, this is just fact. I believe that making sure brown-skinned refugees from war-torn countries do not have priority over homeless veterans on the street, and I believe that my own personal security trumps (pun) all of that.

If we can't do that based on physical and obvious characteristics, it's stupid to assume we can do that with private and personal desires.

That picture triggers me because it's just a bunch of fucking stupid labels that people use to feel like special snowflakes. Spoiler: If nobody is using the same label, then it's not a very good label. It's just masking what you feel with obscure bullshit terms.

It's a feminist idea that all gender is drag, it was Judith Butler that said it I think.
And although its an extreme view it holds somewhat of a merit, but it neglects that even though its cultural relative - we take confidence and security from that.
If we are to cut-up and become so individual that each and everyone of us has personal pronouns and a unique sexuality we will have nothing to look towards as inspiration, nothing to build our confidence on.

This is what many feminists and cultural relativists don't see. They see a billboard with a beautiful woman and think that its an unfair representation because we can't all look like that, when in fact the purpose could just as easily be to remind us to stretch out towards and work ourselves to an ideal as far as it is possible for us.
If we forgo ideals and instead demand to be taken as we are and that reality around us should change instead of us we lose an important part of what it means to be human.

>Adolescence-
Fearing that I was not mentally capable of graduating High School, my parents placed me in a tiny private school from grades 6-12. There were less than 300 students between grades K-12, so I had to endure being bullied and friendless amidst the same classmates year after year. Part of this bullying was sexually driven. Guys would pick on me for being gay, ask me for sex and comment on my apparently.., well.., I guess for some fucking reason they liked my butt. One day in the boys locker room I saw two boys forcing another to give them both a rimjob. I tried to run but they caught me and were going to rape me as well, when I decided, since they were stronger, to pretend that I was in to it. (taking a cue from some Star Trek Flash on Newgrounds) The gamble of my making the first move worked, they ran, the gay narrative and kill fags posture intensified, but at least my virginity was preserved. By senior year I’d sneak skirts and makeup out of the house to wear at school, and despite suffering depression rooted in my not being a girl, I seldom entertained the notion of being trans.
>First year at College-
I tried to expand my horizons by joining the LGBT club, but no one there ever tried to be my friend. I wasn't a SJW, never had sex and finally quit after one meeting where a bug chaser detailed his attempts to contract HIV. Even if these attempts at socialization were successful, my earlier brushes with homophobic violence and attempted gay rape would have scared me away from pursuing any additional male crushes. Coupling this conditioned fear of men with gender issues, I further decided that I am male but would simply prefer a female physique for myself. Even if this were otherwise, I do not think that I would have been mentally secure enough to undergo hormone therapy, for fear that I’d never be able to trust anyone interested in me as a woman after experiencing no one interested in me as a man.

>Summer after first year of college-
While visiting City X I met and fell (metaphorically) for a MTF trans-woman. We would chat on skype for several hours every night and agreed that I'd come up again for us to spend a week more intimately. Two days before my arrival she dropped these bombshells on me, that she had sucked some guy's cock in a bar the night before, let several more grope her chest and done anal with yet another older man. After my arrival she announced that she was no longer interested in me sexually, was done experimenting with guys and had entered a monogamous relationship with a cis girl she was already into before these developments. Apparently I was nowhere near as fun in person as I was online, to boot. Before this trip I had never consumed alcohol before, but this bad news led to me getting completely plastered. I wound up at some bar having to turn down two guys who competed over me, one who admitted to 70+ partners and one who frenched me without my permission (tried to flail my arms for help, unanswered), just to cry off my hangover alone on someone's mattress. I felt like a worthless whore, despite not engaging in any genital contact that night.

>First ex, foreign cis girl-
Back at college I entered a long-term relationship with a girl from, let’s call it Fillertextstan. Our chat log that I compiled spans 300 pages, and I believed her reciprocation to the idea that we get married and have children someday. Around the time of my 21st birthday I went online, quite happy, to find that she had deleted everything without any notice, leaving me to take my midterm that same day while bawling my eyes out. Over the years she proceeded to re-enable and disable her accounts, falling in and out of love ad nauseum, reconnecting and severing contact dozens upon dozens of times. This summer she finally blocked me instead of quitting the internet, thus prompting an epic poem on doomed love I’ve been working on.

After my 3rd year of college I created an OkCupid account and met a girl from Texas. She appeared as if to love me unconditionally and never stopped pressuring me to propose to her. With no notice she told me one morning to skip my classes and pick her up from the airport, since a relative had let her use her free flyer miles to see me. It was surreal when she ordered me to propose to her with $3 rings bought from China town, but I was too stupefied to refuse her. Through the following months her skype and phone calls became more deranged and hostile. Herself “suddenly” in a state of constant homelessness and squatting with drug addicts, having been disowned by her family, it became my duty to work on school nights and pay for my fiancé’s whole lease on a new apartment. Unsurprisingly my grades plummeted, since I was getting out of class at 7:30pm, starting work at 8:00pm, getting home at 6am and resuming class at 11am. My only experience with alcohol abuse before this point was my stay in City X, but this stress combined with ex-con coworkers made me turn to beer just to stave off any suicide attempts. (one of whom had a homosexual crush on myself, even taking a picture of me to keep) It seemed however that the more sacrifices I made for my fiancé, the more she demanded and worse I was providing for her as a "husband". I saw all of the red flags but chose to ignore them out of a misdirected sense of trust and honor, since my duty was to trust my life partner and to “listen and believe” her no matter what. I remember her calling in the middle of the night, saying she was getting a shot in the ER and needed me on the phone because she was scared. Reflecting on her sounds, I'm 99% sure that her pornstar MTF trans roommate was penetrating her with something other than an IV.. The two demands that I never did cave in to, however, were dropping out of College and abandoning my own family to work for her full-time.

>>5901839
No. A transgender feel is when you see a beautiful you get sad and jealous, no part of you wants her sexually.

>>5901846

but what if you are mtf and into girls?

>>5901855
A Girl Pig

>>5901139
Kek maybe he's jizzing in your food

>>5901139
it's obvious that your gay roommate is taking syringes and pulling out the blood to inject it into your food.

Watch out mate.

Do you have a history of mental illness?

>>5900890
if you still keep your dick and you two are sucking each other off and/or fucking each other in the asses, that's still gay sex.

If you got yourself a neo vagina and pass as a girl, then yep, he's bi.

>>5900915
Grindr didn't exist five years ago.

>>5900890
>So I think I converted a gay guy into a straight guy.

Traitorous swine.

Just keep lurking.

These boards will fuel your degeneracy

>>5899957
For what purpose? It's not like you have to fuck everything you're attracted to. Just do what you want.

>>5899957
get a feeldoe, should help
>why don't you like men? if ur bi aren't you attracted to them still?

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>>5899406
Theres a bunch here
http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv

There's also /r/transtimelines but a lot of the stuff there can be pretty unmotivating because buncha hons sometimes. idk I haven't check it in a while.

>>5899564
the one true lord and saviour, please bow down faggots

>pokephilia is still not accepted in the pokemon world
This clearly demands social justice.

>>5896516
It is, it's just not shown.

Pokemon are probably capable of giving consent, so it's not that much of a problem

>>5896499
Ok, I'll be the girl.

>>5895310
stop being a pussy? I eat ghost peppers daily, not sauce or exact, actual peppers, I had 4 of them yesterday, two cut up in a sandwich, and two in salsa I made, and I never get "dragon butt" as you put it

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>>5895318
>pics or it didn't happen

eating it is the easy part. do I really have control over whether that shit tears up my insides? in my experience, this is common with white people.

>>5895362
I don't actually know if it can be helped, I'm white too, but it doesn't bother me eating hot food at all, it might just be some people are more naturally suited to it, it might just be that I've been eating hot food like ghost peppers for almost a decade now and I've just gotten used to it and don't remember having those issues

PLEASE tell me this means we can finally use them as cannon fodder.

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>>5891543
That's kinda mean

>>5891543
yeah i really don't get why the people who hate trans people the most are against them being in the military

>>5890368
because detransitioning is a terrible idea, and you know it

>>5890368
>im not a tranny
>i can't cut my long pretty giirl haiiir
lmao

I know bait when I see it and this is definitely bait.

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>>5898221
I never started at all.

May as well just hide the pain through rage anger and general poltard hatred

I get this feeling too, but I also get the feeling that if I had come out earlier my parents 100% would not have allowed me to get on hormones, would've treated me shittier, and would've forced me to do more "masculine" things to try to man me up.

So yeah. It sucks but I don't know what else I could have done, I got on hormones as soon as I could when I turned 18.

>>5898221
Would pic related still be achievable with some luck if HRT was started around 16? I heard that's when a pretty major cutoff begins.

>>5894886
You deserve it, man. You came into an established group of friends and insulted one of them with a retarded comment. And I bet you still haven't apologized for being ignorant yet, either.

>>5894886
rekt, kek

but really though they're a bunch of closeted fucks, obviously white knighting to score points in hopes of fucking her

You have autism.

>1 in 12

See what in the mirror?

>>5890785
Answer the question. Why would someone look forward to the day when he can see a creature like that staring back at him from the mirror?

I sing in girly songs and match my pitch and then talk

I sound fabuulllloooouuuus

>>5901604
>>5901604
Idk if that's bad for my voice, but i kind of do like >>5901611

I've used to study on a music school so i always try to sing the feminine part of musics. Anime OST's are also cool because of how feminine the voices are.

The problem is, my voice is REALLY deep and i can sing with BASS voice very well. I struggle with high pitch.

>>5901604
never stop