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>>5925584
Think about what you went to see them for and the context of asking because Ive been asked that in that same scenario but it was important contextually. I didnt tell the whole truth anyway mostly because I didnt really confront the thought anyway. I'm sure she knew by my hesitation though.

Why are you so offended at a person asking you if you're gay? It's a big part of life and it's their job to understand you.

>>5925595
im tired, i meant to say I didnt confront the idea beforehand that i might be something other than straight or whatever the standard was

OP here.

I've recently come to terms with being a gay male, and I found this new group of friends (all of whom i've known since highschool, we're 20, but i've only started hanging out in their group recently)

I've told some of them i'm gay, they accepted it. They said they literally don't care and they're happy they told me. I told them my biggest worry about coming out is that they would treat me differently, for better or for worse, or boil my whole personality down to my sexuality. Like, i'm the 'gay kid' in the group and nothing more.

They said they didnt care, and that it wouldnt change the way they see me. Bullshit.

Every straight person will treat you differently after finding out you're gay, and i'm trying to rationalise it as not a bad thing. It's just how heteronormative our society is, it's not a 'bad' thing, they don't 'hate me for being gay' but to say that they wouldnt treat me differently for being gay is a lie.

last night me and these new friends were smoking weed, some time through one of them was just playing himself, having a little fiddle in his pants, i sort of see this out of the corner of my eye, and im telling a story at this time and i dont want to be looking at the one person this whole time im telling, so i look over and look at the guy playing with himself in the eyes for 1 second, and then look back to the original person im talking to. Out of the corner of my eye i see him instantly take his hands out of his pants and sit upright. I get that we were all fucking high and i shouldnt take what they do for granted, but i've just realised that its little things like this that make them change what they think about me. Like if i was straight would he have not realized i was looking at him and stopped?

I'd rather be the gay kid than the public masturbator. What the hell is wrong is people.

>>5924881
he wasnt masterbating. its just straight guy stuff which im trying to keep up with because i dont want to be different. You've never had to rearange your junk in public? But he was down there for a while, i think nothing of it. I want them to think nothing of it. But now im scared that like every little thing they do is with me in consideration 'aw lets not he might like it'

>>5921987
>300lb
you made your own bed

lose the weight anyway regardless

>>5921987
Losing weight won't fix your shit. It'll help but you'll still hate yourself.

Work on not hating yourself, work out, eat right and you'll be fine.
But if you're just looking to lose weight quick you'll need to follow the 3 basic food groups:
>caffeine
>nicotine
>amphetamines

>>5921987
If your not a little kid you will probably die from a heart attack and look like an anorexic hon if you weigh 80 lbs. That's not attractive to anyone. Around 100 lbs would be better but still really skinny. And your skin probably won't get saggy or anything you gotta be pretty fucking fat for that to happen. You don't even need to exercise to loose weight desu just eat less food.

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>>5920259
Brian and Steve from the Sarah Silverman Program
>being gay doesn't define their whole life
>used to be homophobic closet cases in high school
>nerdy guys who look, act, and smell like actually nerdy guys
>one of them has no clue when it comes to politics
>masc4masc instead of stereotypical masc4fem with one of them "being the woman"

Dog Day Afternoon is the most worthwhile example or gay, bi and trans people and their relationships being represented fairly in media.
It's no coincidence that it's based on a true story.

The Crying Game is a good film I guess but that's all it is.

Any other gay character I can think of right now is just a vapid token queer with no substance and adds nothing of value.
>>5920259
>>5920274
The whole premise of these characters is that they are gay. They add nothing else apart from their inherent gayness.
They aren't bad examples, anything that helps show gay relationships as basically normal is good in my eyes.

>>5920259

Smithers is played for weird laughs, but for the most part he's just another guy in town. He even has an ex that he's cool towards (John Waters in that one episode). And all gays know that they've had a thing for a straight guy, somewhere in their lives.

>>5906231
try craigslist

>>5906231
OK Cupid remains pretty popular.

Holy shit this board is like 1/3 whiny chasers.

Y'all need containment.

post below this one is a fat bitch!

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>>5928751
I don't know you so idk what to say but I'll give you hugs

Guess who's hammered? This girl!

>>5924417

Yeah but there isn't actually more to Islam, roll on President Trump.

>>5924417
Well then stop presenting this culture as so. Even as a gay man ive been called a homophobe for being against faggot culture.

What is it about wearing a leather harness that rustles your jimmies so much?

>>5921614
Enjoy your zero canon lesbians, OP.

>>5921644
that's true. the characters are a bislut and s straight girl. Only one or two episodes have an actual lesbian as a minor character.

>>5921614
Lesbians watch 9 seasons of any kind of shit if there's even a glimpse of pure, lesbian love.

They don't need white, cis gay men any more so they are trying to get rid of us.

>>5906834
Because leftists always turn against those they pretended to care about. Just look at the Maoist agrarians, soviet farmers, etc

>>5906834
They want to kick out the largest demographic of the LGBT, which would lead to decreased funding for LGBT movements and special intersts.

It's a divide and conquer technique from crazy leftists.

It can also stand for questioning

>>5911303
Having bad fashion sense or a shitty haircut/dye job.

This is what most "queer" people I know are defined by.

>>5911303
It means you are cis and straight (and most likely white and female) but your life is boring so you want to be able to feel opressed while being able to step out of it at any moment.

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>>5925676
>mfw gays are THIS butthurt
>>5920769
>>5910299
>>5915141
kek
you deserve it.

>"NUS routinely attempts to deny speaking platforms to people who have ever expressed any views that violate far-left social justice orthodoxy (Germaine Greer, Peter Tatchell, and Julie Bindel are three recent examples)."

Doesn't sound like it has anything to do with lesbians, but then, we have recently had an influx of /pol/sters who seem dedicated to turning L/G/B/T against each other while pretending they don't hate us all.

>>5925687
Cis Lesbians have been a problem in the LGBT and feminism movement for awhile now.

So many of them are "proud misandrists" who would literally celebrate the extinction of males and so many of them are TERFs.

I put their toothbrush in my butt

cheat on my wife with guys. have three fuck buddies right now.

haven't had sex with my wife for a year. i'd drop all my fuck buddies immediately to have a nice sexual relationship with my wife but she isn't interested.

I strangled him with a rope and then tied him to the ceiling to make it look like he hung himself. I cried at the funeral.

>>5922832
How old are you? Assuming you're 18 or over, just reaffirm that you are an adult and you are doing what you know is best for you. Be prepared to end up on your own and try looking for cheap housing now just in case.

If you are under 18, at least take solace in the fact that no matter how they respond they legally can't kick you out.

I'm 20 and of a mostly clear in mind as clear as my adhd allows me and this has been on my mine for about 5 to 7 years

>>5922895

And the main problem at home I can't do anything to make myself more feminine.

And HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO ANSWER ALL OF THOSE QUESTIONS?!

How am I supposed to tell mom I tried on her clothes?
How am I supposed to tell her the only FUCKING way I've been able to masturbate was to put myself in the place of a woman?!
How am I supposed to tell them I want to change my name?
How am I supposed to tell them I like penis?
How am I supposed to tell them I like stick shit up my ass?
How do I tell them I hate my muscular arms?
How do I tell them that I want to do more girly things like wearing skirts and carrying purses?
How... Do I tell them I will never be happy if I don't go down this road?

>>5920256
He's a creepy middle aged man who boast about going into women's rest rooms.

Why would you care about what a second predator says.

>>5920256
End this thing. It isn't human any longer.

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>>5920256
>look up his vids

> see him showing down kids and millennial trans with his booming man voice

>scare women by going into their rooms and boast about his social transition despite not passing
Seriously, he's another stephonknee type creep who thinks calling himself a feminist exempts him from moral conduct

Lesbians don't fuck often enough to know makes a good lover breh.

Try not being a selfish hypocrite (impossible for dikes).

Step 1: Be a woman.
Step 2: Do what would feel good to you.
Step 3: Communicate openly and specifically about sensations and desires.
Step 4: Men are trash. This isn't a step, but it's important to remember why you're bad at sex.

>>5919754
>>5919874
Kek. You're not even trying. WSW have more orgasms per encounter than the typical WSM gets in a month. It's been shown scientifically that testosterone makes you selfish and confrontational, which really hampers the ability to fuck. Keep taking those stabs in the dark, little boys. You'll get somewhere eventually.