My biggest fear is that my bf will cheat on me with cis women. Am i alone
>>5947100
I don't have a boyfriend, and I never had one, but I hope to have one. This is one of my fears. But I would say if he's cheating on you instead of doing the more common cheating routine involving trans girls where he has a cis girlfriend and you're the trans girl he's cheating on her with, there's something he wants from you as a long term partner he can't get from a cis woman.
I think a more valid concern for a trans woman when dating a cis guy is whether he would leave you for a cis woman if he decides that he would rather have kids, he's tired of keeping the secret of you being trans, or maybe he would have preferred you kept being trans a secret because now he's being scrutinized as gay.
>>5947100
As a cisguy, I honestly don't know what to answer. I'd like to say that some guys are honorable enough not to do it. But then again, if I was with a transgirl I would miss pussy. Would never tell the girl, since I wouldn't want to hurt her feels. Don't know if I'd be able to resist cisgirl offering me some poon. Granted, if I was with a cisgirl I'd miss girldick and do the same in reverse.
I will give you some advice. If he likes you for you. Then let him get some pussy every once in awhile. No emotional connection though. No repeat visits. Ect.
Who here blames 4chan for making them gay/trans?
I blame /fit/
i blame prenatal estrogen
thanks 4chan
>"YOU CAN'T GET ON PUBERTY BLOCKERS AND TRANSITION BEFORE PUBERTY, YOU COULD REGRET IT AND KILL YOURSELF!"
>mfw there are hordes of adult trans people that regret not starting sooner and hate their own bodies because of what puberty did to them
>mfw there are trannies that have attempted suicide because they felt they were trapped by the irreversible effects of puberty (the same type of horrific nightmare that they fear cis kids getting trapped in)
>mfw they get mad at unpassing trannies for being ugly and making them uncomfortable in their "spaces" when they're responsible for leading them into that state (Looking at you, neo-cons and TERFscum)
>mfw they try to use the suicide stats that THEY help contribute to with their bullshit as some sort of proof that we're all crazy and how our treatment is wrong
Why do cis people do this?
>puberty blockers are entirely reversible while actual puberty isn't
>allow for more time to be know you're sure about HRT
It's really weird
But muh natural fallacy
But muh nature tho
>>5946594
More like natural phallicy, amirite? :^)
I want you to post:
>your sexual orientation/your gender identity (only if not cisgender)
>the age you discovered that
>the age you came out
>your parents' reaction
bisexual normal male
16 but didn't really admit it to myself even until 21 or so
23
My dad is fine with it I think. Unless my dad told her my mom doesn't know. I see no point in telling her. She's very religious and I would just prefer to not have it be a "thing"
>straight mtf
>13
>21
>weird about it at first but are coming around and say it makes sense
>bi dude
>17
>18
>Yeah, my mother's cool with it
what do you want in a guy? what qualities do you think seals the deal? give the nitty-gritty and the sordid details.
>is real
>he likes me and isn't fat
>a masculine twunk
I'm feeling rather sad this evening, so would you guys be kind enough as to share your coming out stories?
I didn't. Saw no need to.
I told my friend i was bi and he didn't care, but in a nice way. Although i'm bi so it's not as polarizing as other orientations.
>come out to irl friend who also comes to 4chan as tranny over steam
>memes at me hardcore
>after bants he essentially tells me that he 100% supports it.
>He's being super nice
Now I'm starting to fall in love with him. I think he's physically attractive, but he's always sort of depressed, and I want to make him happy.
>want to be gay
>want to be bottom
>scared of trying to put something up my butt
Should I just stay straight or buy a dildo?
Just buy dildo and stickit up you're ass faggot. Make sure to use plenty of lube and post picks.
>>5942471
>>want to be gay
fuck off you cuck
>>5942471
I desperately want to explore my sexuality but havent got a cute bottom to put my penis in
Cis lesbians:
Would you ever consider dating a transwoman?
Why or why not? What would it take
>>5940642
No, because I'm into women
Why would I when even the most average looking female is as hotter than 99% of trans?
I always feel like I'm the worst kind of trans person and I absolutely hate myself.
>I really just want to wake up in a really womanly body
> probs want to be a fancy milf, that would be my dream bod/life
-But anyways-
I keep getting excluded from trans support groups. They just don't believe I'm actually trans. Mind you, I'm heavily bearded, kinda hairy all over, and dating a woman. But that's all really just for show.
I'm demigirl, and I really, really love dick. But apparently looks are everything where I come from.
So, I've been mostly shutting down every "how to be me" thought, and mostly just fly through life like a poorly painted canvas covering who-i-want-to-be.
Should I be insulted? Should I say something? I hate to put it this way, but how do I force them to believe me? I'm tired of having to pretend to be cis and straight.
All I want to do is be part of a group where I can wear my lace panties and cute lil red and black knee highs (I got them from Bartz as a ""joke"" because I desperately wanted cheap femme wear)
I'm sorry, these are just my favorite. I really want blue/black ones, but :/ Whatever
>tfw wide hips and uncanny feminine face
>no gender dysmorphia but gay
ANYONE know this feel???
>>5939042
bump
i can't be the only one
>>5939042
You should be a femboi and take it up the but. G-d demands it. It is His plan.
just take hrt anyway
Can we get a transition timeline thread?
Also do I pass? If not, what can I improve on?
>>5937526
is this timeline fucking real?
>>5937604
I believe so. A lot of ugly guys make for some good transwomen.
>>5937526
you hatched into a beautiful woman
10/10 you pass. would duck your dick
Twink here. Where the fuck does one get a bear bf that's not a slut or 40+ years old?
I'll tell you when I find any bf who is not a slut or 40+ years old.
The closest I got was from internet.
>>5928944
Check growlr there's tons of sluts but there's also guys looking for the one
>>5928959
Tried it. Didn't work out. Guys lie about their age and it seems most are sluts...
Why is it lgbt and not glbt? Better yet, why isn't it hbt or something, with h being for homosexual?
>>5927671
it should be just GT tbhonest
because "gays" refer to both lesbeans and homosexual males and bisexuals don't exist hence GT
>>5927671
I know there was a push at some point to rebrand everything as GSM -gender & sexual minorities- but idk what happened to that.
>>5927701
That was never a thing. Pedophiles keep trying to make it a thing, which is why it's never going to be a thing.
post your hands and lets try and guess each others sexual orientation and gender identity
>>5922119
Trip on, Coffee
>>5922143
i am dissatisfied with this response.
>>5922119
Gay cis male
Who else extremely fucking lonely here
> mfw I know that feel
two days to go. it's been good. maybe someone from here will join me but we'll see. bye, for now...
>guy says hello to you
>spend weeks fantasizing about him asking you out