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>>6819830
Tips:
Go in girl mode every single time even if you don't pass.
Attempt girl voice even if it doesn't pass.
Ask him to use female pronouns with you from day one, also a female name.
You do not like women sexually at all, you love men.
You hate your penis and even looking at it makes you cry and want to kill yourself.
Every single moment of your entire life has been spent knowing that you are a girl inside and being trapped in this male body causes you intense discomfort.
The thought of going on without transitioning with hormones makes you feel insanely depressed.
I will probably think of other tips.

Biggest and most important tip: self med while you wait 1-5 years for him to give you hormones, but don't tell him. Order through the deep web if you have to.

>>6819885
>>6819830
Another tip: If you absolutely cannot get your hands on the meds there are a few options:
1. Get $3-5k and go to another country where a doctor will perform an orchiectomy no questions asked, no letter required. I know of one in the US and there are some cheaper ones in Thailand.
2. DIY orchi, preferrably with calcium chloride solution. You will want to read up on this, as the proper technique is crucial but this method is the least risky of the DIY methods.
If extremely desperate, banding will work. Buy some elastrators online, they're little rubber bands made to castrate livestock. Leave one on your sack for 6-24 hours, go in to the emergency room and pretend your erotic play accidentally went a little too far. They will have to amputate them because they will be dead tissue. Very painful, also carries some risks, but it's the cheapest method that doesn't risk bleeding out, although it does potentially risk gangrene and such things.

Once you have no balls, refuse to take testosterone replacement therapy and demand estrogen instead. Odds are a doctor will give it to you because giving you estrogen is better than giving you nothing in their eyes.

>>6819885

Thanks for the reply, I'll keep those things in mind.

>>6819908

I've been self medicating for over a year so it's not urgent. I just want to go legit for health and financial reasons.

>>6819074
yer a fag m8

don't torture yourself over it, it's only going to get worse

submit and get the succ

submit to the cocc

perform the fucc

>>6819049
>fast forward 5-10 years later after graduation
>gril raising a spoiled brat(s) from teen pregnancy
>marries to raise child properly
>football player gets fat and reminisces golden youth days
>secretly cheats on wife who also got fat
>both know of situation but too scared to do anything about it

wew lad living the dream

>>6819049
dont feel too bad, he cheats on her.

>>6819064
All they have to do is maintain their bodies and eat healthy. Can't say the same for us mtfs...

>>6818683
just talk to him about it. Coming back with something specific like "I want to suck your dick again" is maybe a bit forward. but just asking them to talk about the last time when you're in private together.

>>6818706
i just feel very self conscious about talking about it, like i feel bad because i know im not suppose to like it, or want to do these things.

>>6818683
>want to try trans stuff
>have sex with a cis male
pretty sure you're gay/bisexual

>>6818614
That's not even the same person unless extreme ffs was involved. Look at the skill bossing on that man.

>>6818686
*skull

>>6818614
Genes.

i used to never imagine myself liking a black guy but theres a dude at my uni (a black dude just to clarify) that so far is the only guy that's been attractive at all to me so far

they are black

>>6818577
that's not a thought that's an observation my dude

The only thing you really can do is keep talking, eventually meet, and see if anything comes of it all, right?

Don't overthink it too much. It takes time to figure out if your feelings are genuine or not. Being different from one another isn't a bad thing, it's not like you're required to fulfill the stereotype of gays dating a carbon copy of themself.

>>6818342
If you like talking to him, keep talking to him. That's the only way to figure out if you actually like him.

Loneliness is why anyone seeks out company, so there's no reason to feel bad about that.

>>6818509
>>6818420
Thanks for the advice brahs.

>beatiful

I prefer jockstraps...

>>6818292
>PAY ATTENTION TO MEEEEEEEEEEE
yeah nah fuck off

bump ;_;

>>6816542
with topping my experience is that I have to be super horny in the first place at which point the exact feeling doesn't matter

with bottoming I sometimes come with no dick stimulation, but only if I haven't come in a week and the cock is just right

both are just about being horny and turned on, the actual mechanics are not important

>>6816542
You're a top. The things preventing you from enjoying topping are the barriers between your penis and the butthole.
Nobody likes condoms. That's one of the benefits of monogamous relationships; you don't have to use them. If you use less lube, you'll feel more friction and get more stimulation.

>>6815790
why are people so bad at clocking

>>6815790
>dat last one
Thanks for making me cry.

t. Foreveralone tranny.

>>6815826
>tfw no qt tranny to marry and have children with
>tfw no qt tranny to curl up with on the couch and watch Netflix with
>tfw no qt tranny to cook meals with
>tfw no qt tranny to sneak up behind and tickle until she cries from laughing
>tfw no qt tranny to spend a Saturday afternoon gardening with

he's uber qt

t. tranny

>>6815674
he looked better with curly hair

>tfw no big black dick to put inside milo

I often wonder about the how people say they're doing this for their happiness, and fuck everything else. If you tallied up all the sadness and awkwardness you put on everyone you know by doing it, though, do you think that outweighs any increase in happiness for you? If there's a net reduction that argument doesn't work

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>Would the world be better if trans people just killed themselves?
Only the ugly masculine ones.

>>6815308
What if you're ugly and pass?

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>>6815101
If I had to turn into a girl I'd just choose to turn into whatever the girl equivalent of my looks are.

Is there a reason why you want to become a pretty girl besides satisfying dadfap fantasies, or what?

>>6815101
Taking HRT has been an amazing experience for the last year. I have been on such a journey of self-discovery and personal growth that I cannot properly explain with words the feeling of it all. And still it continues!

I was weirdly drawn to and sometimes kinda obsessed with mtf poets and artists before I came out to myself (I'm a trans guy). It took me forever to put together that I was living vicariously through them for A Big Reason. Thinking of transitioning myself or even just looking at trans men was too close to home. My mind would kinda blank out when it got too close, so reading a thousand things about mtf transition and consuming trans women's art was how I dealt with the feelings from a safe distance.

Which is all to say that while our circumstances aren't 1:1, this behaviour is probably something you should dig into, especially if it's scary and embarrassing.

>>6814795

Stop it with the anime posting you fucking faggot. Take that to mtfg.

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>>6814802
How is South Park anime?
s.mh

Is he straight?

please help i dont know what to do :((((

>>6814235
idk? he never talks about girls all he talks about is mouths and pooping and its always my mouth bc nobody else lets him i dont even think he loves me its just my mouth i think :((( i wanna die now