hey guys. so here's how it goes.
>started playing vidya
>find a player online to duo with
>turns out we like the same food, humor, hobbies, etc.
>its a 6/10 lesbo about 2 years younger than me.
>start to deepen friendship (we skype up everyday and share personal stories together)
>friendship continues then i leave to another state for a family reunion party.
>its actually fucking amazing with my friends there too.
>start taking phone out to chat with her.
>stop and think about the whole situation.
>SELFAWARENESS OVERDRIVE.exe
>the whole situation seems to silly for me so i delete her from every social shit i used.
>even skype her a farewell cuz im autistic like that
>she just says she kinda forgot me so she dosent care anymore (wierd cuz she was concerned a few texts back)
>now im genuinely feeling blue all the time.
>i dunno what to do anymore.
>even planned to take a 2 hr ride to visit her.
WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO TO UNFUCK THIS SITUATION?
>>18574489
Forget her
>>18574489
Having a pen pal isn't wrong anon, idk why you cut her out. Were you in love?
Basically, I just need to make a couple hundred a month in a legal way or at least in a way that wouldn't be traced back to cause a problem during my immigration. Any help pointing me in the right direction would be appreciated.
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You don't seem Mexican or South American though. Where are you from?
>>18574472
Nice try Pedro
>>18574481
I'm not. Does where I'm from matter? Not to sound rude.
>>18574482
I'm not of Spanish descent.
How do I complain to a friend about how they're treating me and our group without coming off as needy?
Own the fact you've been hurt and disappointed by someone you care about.
Explain to them straightforwardly how their behaviour has made you feel. No melodrama or histrionics.
Have a very clear idea in your mind of what will make this right before confronting them. If they care, they'll want to put it right. If they dont then you know where you stand.
>>18574440
dont listen to this pussy, you need to treat your friend like shit right back. eventually you will fight over it and be cool.
ok i need really bad on how to last longer in bed my gf is getting really mad at me and im getting kinda of desperate please help
>>18574391
How long are you lasting? Do you not last longer if you have sex again 15 mins after the first time? Sometimes if I haven't had sex in a while, I bust in like 5 mins, but I just keep playing with her and making out with her after I cum until I get hard again and then I can literally fuck her as long as she wants, an hour sometimes. Try that.
depending on what position we start im lasting like 2-3 minutes. the shity part is that she doenst let me eat het(maybe from bad past experiences or she feels like im getting to invasive in her body) but the worst part is when i cum fast she just walk up and leave me like, she literally just gives up on the sex because i cummed fast and this is killing my self confidence
Hello, i really don't know how to talk about this. But i need advice. My girlfriend is depressed. She is sometimes fine. But most of the time she sends terrible messages saying she hates me, or that i do not love her. Also these past weeks she has been telling me she wants to commit suicide and that life does not matter. I have been trying to get her to undestand that there is more to life but she won't listen to it. I have also tried to get her go to a psychologist but she does not believe it will work. I am really afraid because i also think i bring her down :( i do not know what to do anymore and i am afraid she might do something
The picture is a painting i made of her.
Sorry for long post and thanks
>>18574390
Heres what you tell her:
>"Sorry I don't think this is going to work out..."
I have also thought about it, but would that make it better? I mean, is she like, manipulating me ? That also makes me feel like crap
>>18574390
that's a hard one man. having been suicidally depressed before i can tell you that it is like being in a pit in pitch darkness. there is no obvious way of getting out. you have to stumble around until you find the exit, and depending on how efficient you are at stumbling, it can take a damn long time. most aren't good at stumbling and some never make it out.
others here will tell you to drop her immediately. I won't comment on that strategy but I do commend you for trying to help as long as you have.
if she tells you she hates you, why is she still with you? does she apologize afterwards? by the way, that's a nice art piece and it's good that you have some creative expression.
>about to fail the same basic math class for 3rd time
It's not even hard I just can't be assed to do homework or study. When I do show up to class I'm unable to concentrate on both writing notes and listening to the instructor and end up learning nothing.
Was it autism?
What is my problem???
>>18574380
Jesus, poor autist people. They have an actual medical condition. You are just bored with classes and probably depressed. Don't go LARP as Rayman. It doesn't do you any good.
>>18574380
This isn't even Autism, it's just you being a lazy cunt
>>18574386
What do I do?
Alright /adv/ here's my embarrassing problem. I guess you could say I am a little insecure with how things are, "down there". No, I am not talking about size, girth or whatever. I mean that I have a blemish on my penis, a skin tag right on my circumcision line. Bothered by this I tried to tie it off using a skin tag removal kit I brought from the store, but after about an hour I swear my dick felt like the devil himself was biting it off. Obviously, I am a virgin so I don't know how a girl would react to it. Do you think I am being insecure over something that is not a big deal or should I get it removed by a dermatologist?
>>18574349
Ask a female friend. Or post a pic. BTW Skin removal kits exists? Do they have ropes already noosed in for sale where you live? Do they come with retard warnings?
Just cut the skin tag off pussy
>>18574349
Get it removed by a dermatologist.
>>18574398
Don't do this, it won't stop bleeding and you'll be left with a nasty scar.
Is this unacceptable parenting, or am I just a sissy?
1. My father constantly swore at me when he was angry about other problems, insulted me for as long as I can remember
2. Ranted about how much he hated my mom, his coworkers, and others
3. Fed me insufficiently from his welfare checks, which he recieved despite being just too lazy to get a job
4. Never hurt me, but got into physical fights with other people and threatened to kill himself with a shotgun
But tried to make up for it by buying me material things like ice cream and PS2 games
>>18574322
Yes, it sounds like your father did a pretty shitty job at being a dad.
shitty dad but he tried.
>grown man who took his personal frustrations and anger out on a child
>insulted your mother in front of you
>Didn't feed you properly and meet his responsibilities as a father and a man
> threatened to kill himself in front of you
Eh, welp. Got super drunk and high at a party and apparently texted my girlfriend's friend AND that I want to fuck again.
With my girlfriend, we broke up badly recently, after I told her I didn't want to talk to her for a long time. Pretty bad break up, I'm not sure where we're going from here. Though, that's irrelevant.
As for her friend - me, my girlfriend and her friend had a threesome before. Only one time, so that's not too awkward to drunk text, but at the same time it's definately pretty inappropriate. Any advice? I have an idea of what I should do, just kinda want to see other's opinions.
All you can do is send a text with a sincere apology explaining that you were out of your head last night (while not using that as an excuse). Obviously the text you sent was the truth, they know that, you know that, that's just on the table. You just have to try to do a little damage control and apologize; what they decide to do after that is up to them.
I am majoring in media / film / graphic design and i will be moving to LA soon. I live 3 hours away currently so i've been to the city plenty of times, but i was curious to anyone who lives / has lived there, where is the best area to live? the stars in pic related are all the universities i'm looking at. Very interested in cal state LA because i'm a fucking weeaboo who would love to live in little tokyo, but also I very much enjoy my privacy and having a garage to work on my car, I would prefer to live wherever it's cheapest without living in a ghetto shithole. also generally curious about the college life if anyone is going to one of the UCs in my pic, so anything helps! thank you
Terrible at what I want to do. How do people deal with having no talent or apititude in what they want to be?
>>18574289
With a shotgun to the face, or change what you want to be or deal with insecurities if you are delusional about what you can't do.
>>18574289
Talent is 90% hard work. Either get better at it or give it up for something easier.
>>18574289
either you are depressed or can't seem to find something that you enjoy. also this >>18574296
Need university advice. I've sort of been defaulting to video games for a major but I've recently decided I fucking hate video games and I'd rather do animation. Problem is the college I go to only offers coursed for 3D animation which I have absolutely no interest in. I'd be willing to transfer somewhere but I honestly feel lost as fuck as to what to do to try to get into/learn traditional 2D animation. I'm gonna be a sophomore this year and I've got a 3.8 gpa at a good, big university so I've got options I just don't know what to do. I really want to learn how to do this shit and get my foot in the industry. I'm nowhere near experienced enough to just drop out and apply to a studio. Any advice/insight would be super helpful. I live in Texas.
>>18574234
Also, I know why colleges offer 3D and not 2D. I don't give a shit if 3D makes more money or anything like that. I fucking hate 3D animation and couldn't give less of a shit about it. I'm not going into an arts degree for the fucking profit.
Yeah unfortunately 3d is the "wave of the future" because it's cheaper for higher quality shit.
However, my sister who got a 3d animation degree from SCAD tells me 2d is expected to see a revival, but nobody knows for sure.
As of right now though, movies are gonna be 3D animation, television will hold onto 2D for a while.
Anyway, if you can afford the steep cost and also the move, SCAD is pretty reputable and offers 2D. Almost all the professors did work for the big name studios, sister had one who worked on Anastasia and on The Iron Giant. Savannah is also a pretty cool city.
Being a Chinese guy moving to a majority of Caucasian city, will it be possible for me to get a girlfriend?
dumb chink, stay away from our women
>>18574229
Depends on how you look and how you act really. Doesn't really matter what race you are
>>18574229
i don't think i've met a single white person who didn't think asians were less attractive
good luck
Of all the dating and relationships I've had, the most recent one is still bugging me. I was dating a girl in my social circle and pretty much her friends (the other girls in the circle) got jealous that I chose her (the attractive one) and not them (packed on 30lbs at 30). Looking back, it was a crabs in the bucket type deal. Dragged her into their single bullshit.
I lose my trust and respect in her and we part ways. Few months later she's back wanting a second chance. I gave in because I liked how we got along so well but also told her that I don't like how she's so easily influenced by her shitty friends and why not hang with the better stable ones instead.
Few months go by and I start questioning my self respect and dignity. Like this chick bailed on a good thing with me to go entertain temporary fun/people and I took her back? Now every time I see these bitchy friends, I resent the girlfriend a little more while she's falling hard for me. And how do I not hate these friends of hers too? They were acquaintances to me before but now their presence just turns me off
>Talking to girl from Uni.
>We dated before but called it quits, hooked back up and then finally she wouldnt take me back after the 2nd time we broke up.
>She texted me and basically we both said we missed each other.
>While texting, we didn't fight or argue. We never did anyways. It actually went really well.
>She hasn't responded to any of my text messages all weekend.
What do? She does go to her grandmothers every weekend but she always brought her phone with her when we dated.
Move on dumb ass