How long do I need to put a body part on ice before it goes totally numb? Nothing major, just a but of skin.
(Image for pun related purposes)
*bit
Ffs
>>18696583
Doctor here.
Take body part. Put it on ice. Take it out every now and then. Eventually it will go numb. That's how long it takes.
Your welcome.
My fee is $80
>>18697250
>Take it out every now and then
This is very important OP.
How is it like to date someone with PTSD?
It feels like shit, just like dating anyone else with a mental illness.
>>18696550
What kind of PTSD? Did he tell you he fought at WW2?
>pro tip
He lies.
Have you ever been someone's secret?
I'm friends with a particularly sheltered girl (not trying to hit that) and realized I'm her secret. Wouldn't let me meet her sister to grab some food together even.
It's an abstruse kind of feel.
>>18696519
Okay. Get over it and continue liveing life. Are you going to base your whole existence on this feeling?
>>18696519
It may be her family, not you. I would do this when I was embarassed of my family for being really fucking strange.
>Abstruse
I learnt a new word today! Thanks anon!
How does one start the process of suing someone?
I don't have any money, but I think I have a pretty good case.
My dad was hospitalized for a heart attack, and scheduled for emergency surgery.
They gave him some mood stabilizer which had a HUGE impact on him. To the point where he couldn't talk.
I kept telling them to stop the meds, but they were adamant it wasnt the cause. (At first they said they did but I later find out they lied. They said they increased the dose because that was... Somehow supposed to help?)
For two weeks he laid in the hospital with the surgery postponed.
Finally a doctor said to stop the drugs and he immediatley got better within two days( but his mind isn't fully here like it used to be, I'mnit 100% sure if it was the drugs, but it sure is coincidental)
How do I go about getting a malpractice attorney?
What are the steps?
Anybody have any real world experience with this?
>>18696202
get a phone book, open to the lawyers section, start calling numbers and telling them your story. If one of them thinks you have something they'll ask you to come in and meet in person. You might be able to get them to take the case with no money up front as long as you promise them a percentage of the money you win. The bottom line is that you need to call, and start talking to, some actual lawyers.
>>18696214
sounds really easy
in my country we dont have this claim culture, it's actually very hard to sue someone, let alone get some money out of it
so OP since you say you dont have money you really do this for the money right not because you care about your fathers health or both?
>>18696224
I'm terrified I'm going to have to stick good in a nursing home.
Time will tell if it's that bad, but I want to be prepared.
Also I'm just angry. I told them to stop the meds. So many times.
I missed weeks of work to deal with this because he doesn't have anyone else.
Its been over a year now since it started
I just hate myself, cant even look at myself in the mirror and when im out, even with friends I feel ashamed of myself for wasting their time with me around. Suicide is getting more and more appealing every day and my family is starting to notice.
How do I fix this, or is it even possible?
Ask yourself why you are hating yourself then work on those points.
Get fucking professional help
>>18696127
Cant
Hey anons imma be buying 50 tabs of lsd for about 210 euros.
Is that decent price?
>>18696074
I'd be surprised if it were actually real LSD and not any ol RC. That being sad generally in my area of the states you can get a hit of "acid" for 10-20 USD usually. If you plan on flipping it try one and then let people know what they are in for and make a nice profit.
>>18696091
Dang it forgot to mention it's basically an analogue rc.
I have purchased it before and it's very poten
>>18696098
What did you pay for one hit? If I didn't have a reliable hookup so I paid $20 a hit most of the time. If you know plenty of people that dable in this stuff it shouldn't take long to get rid of, if you want it all for personal use you'll be set for awhile. If you liked the stuff either way go for it. Don't make a career out of flipping though.
To keep this short im in med school and work at the hospital and for some reason idk i keep liking a nurse who's at least 30, has 2 kids while im 22
i try hard not to like her but it keeps coming back as we work together
i feel like something is wrong with me since i've always prefered older chicks but i feel like this is so wrong, i try not to be close and everything
should i consult someone ?
>>18696039
Ain't nothing wrong with older ladies and 30 ain't really old
It's not like you have to marry her, just be careful with the coworker thing. As long as you don't make it weird go have some fun. She'll teach you a thing or two
>>18696039
do you have a reason you think it's wrong? you like science what's the logic behind this thought that it's wrong?
hey /adv/ i can't sleep!, literally last night i was already tired from not being able to sleep yesterday but when i got in bed i closed my eyes and i stayed like that for literally 8 hours straight i was so tired i had to call off work, please help me i just want to sleep.
>>18696005
Doctor. Go see one.
There are people who died after 100~200 hours of not sleeping. Mostly hearth attack or general collapse of organism.
>>18696016
holy shit, alright. well i was about to do that anyway but thanks for the response
>>18696005
I have nights like that too. I also have anxiety issues and I believe that is the source of my restlessness, not falling asleep or waking up way to early. I have started taking 1mg of Xanax a few hours before bed and it helps me fall asleep and stay asleep. Sometimes I still wake up after only a few hours of sleep but I can usually fall back asleep.
I don't know if this info will help you, but see a doctor either way. Helps if you have an idea of why you are having trouble sleeping too.
How do you not be incredibly uncomfortable around beautiful women?
Is this a betaness you simply cannot expell or can you?
Please help me.
>>18695998
Read Models by Mark Manson
>>18695998
Practice makes perfect. Be around them a lot, fap a lot, keep chatting with them about random memes and after some time you wont even give a shit about them.
Pic related. If you will treat them lile whatever, they might wven start hitting on you because you will be the only boy who doesnt put them on pedestal.
Just spend more time around them and stop excessive consumption of thirst trap media
So I've been talking to a girl for almost a month now and a few days ago we went on a date
Date was fine and she had a really good time, was flirty and really talked a lot and overall was really fun
Before I left I tried to kiss her and she told me "not on the first date", which I interpreted as a hint for having a second date
I waited a few days and started talking to her again, and now she doesnt talk to me nicely anymore, barely gives conversation
What happened during these days? Did I miss something?
>>18695971
clearly your impression of the date does not square with her impression of the same events.
Cut your losses and move on.
-extra tip: if she was actually into you she would have been cool with you kissing her after a good first date.
>>18695985
i understand that, but i cant see why she didnt reject me and thats it but instead she leaves the path open although it isnt
>>18695971
women are whores
When I was 15 I met this guy and dated him for 3 years. I found it hard to break up with him because he was abusive and would hold me emotionally hostage. I did find a chance to leave him when I had evidence he cheated on me.
To this day the dude will randomly message me telling me he loves me. I block him and he keeps remaking accounts to contact me in anyway he can.
Just seeing his name can put me in a depressed mood. It reminds me of all the things he has done to me. He would only allow me to sleep for 6 hours a week, he would force me to cut myself or he would harass my mother or threaten to hurt me or his own family. He did a lot more things that makes me feel like shit thinking about.
I'm dating someone new now. I feel like I can't reach out to them to tell them I sad whenever I get harassed. They just get upset at me. They say shit like "just ignore him and move on!" "Get over it you'll be sad forever" "you're only sad because you think your sad, think you're happy for once!".. I just want to be comforted when I feel this way. It's not fun remembering that stuff and feeling the anxiety over again. I'm not sure what to do about my current boyfriend but it's making me feel worse.
>>18695967
Try and talk to a family member or a friend about how you're feeling, I know from being a boyfriend in a similar situation its hard to hear about this sort of stuff has happened to girlfriend and although I think I handled it better than your boyfriend I can understand him coming off as an asshole because I didn't really want to hear about this stuff and just wanted it to go away
>>18695997
I've been thinking about seeing a doctor over this. Because according to a lot of people I should of moved on by now.
But I do think I should just not ever talk to him about it again. But it does make me feel like he just doesn't give a fuck about me.
How do I remember/memorize the things I study? I've gone through my text book 5 times now. The subject isn't difficult. I don't actually have anything memorized though. It's as if it's not entering my memory.
>>18695955
You dont want to learn it.
Explain the stuff to somebody.
Write it on paper. Then again. Then again.
Read it aloud.
>dumb frogposter
Dont just memorise
actually try to understand it
if you understand the subject you dont have to memorise everything.
I've never been good at physics as an example. but still had to pass an exam that required me to write down the equations from their most basic forms (viscosity from force if I remember correctly)
Sure I could just keep going trough it until I memorised it, but what I tried to do and worked is that I actually started researching why this shit works the way it did and how it interacted with other shit I had to throw in
Understanding > memorising
>>18695964
This anon is correct.
Proof that you know something is being able to teach someone else the thing.
>tfw you are gamming whole days and with no satisfaction
>tfw you have an exam in two days and weren't preparing
>tfw you created an account on dating app, bought the subscription, but has no skill in having conversations.
Any advice on how i can get out of this shithole?
>>18695869
Stop treating yourself as a slave.
Lie on your bed, close eyes and tell aloud: i am a free man. I can lie like this whole day and nothing bad will happen. Then realize that it is bullshit thing to do, make up your mind about what you ACTUALLY WANT and then simply do it.
>stupid frogposter
This is only one solution that would really work. What you would have to do to solve this is post green frogs on the internet. All your problems will be solved and you will feel much better.
had sex but kept fucking for a few seconds after i came. i had a condom on, and im wondering if cum could have came out of the condom within those seconds after i came. how likely is this?
>>18695852
You are retarded. When you pulled out was the condom still vacuumed sealed to your dick? If the answer is no then good job you fucked up.
>>18695884
yeah, but why wouldn't it be? it didn't break/tear
pro tip : the few extra thrust you get by pretending you didn't cum already are not worth the trouble
>Get put into the loop in my workplace that a friend of mines wife has slept with other guys. (He knows before you start typing "Tell him")
>Had a few flings with a chick that vented to me that her ex-boyfriend dumped her because she slept with another guy. Also told me she was really heartbroken over him leaving her
This'll sound autistic but both of these scenarios lead me to the question of:
Is the capacity to cheat just something you just grow up accepting the idea of oris it just caused by lack of satisfaction n a relationship?
>>18695851
Good question, and bumping this thread.
I can almost guarantee that some people grow up without really thinking that cheating is bad, so it's kind of like a narcissistic or psychopathic thing but without your actual narcissism it psychopathy, not all people cheat because they're unhappy with their relationship.
I'll admit I've even cheated on perfectly good relationships just because I was more horny than usual and the other girl looked different though not necessarily hotter than my gf at the time.
>>18695851
Some people mean it when they commit to something or someone and many cannot. If the only deterrent is fear of being caught they are not committed. Very few that cheat believe they will be caught and want to behave as if they are single and through deception maintain the appearance of a commitment.