Who /confused af/ here?
>19
>male
>spend all my younger years dating girls
>definitely feel some kind of romantic attraction to them but not interested in doing much beyond kissing, cuddling and going on cute dates
>realize I've had similar kind of romantic feelings towards guys before
>especially one friend in particular
>have in the past just dismissed it as close friendship because I already knew I liked girls
>kind of thinking about fooling around with guys
>jacking off suddenly way easier
>want to figure things out better but don't want to hook up with just any dude since I'm kind of a romantic at heart
Can you actually be attracted to a gender without wanting sex? Does that mean I like both? How did some of you figure this shit out? The fuck do I do about possibly having a crush on my friend?
How do i get love and support from thw LGBTQRX+(N) community?
>>8816064
The best place to find men who are attracted to big guys is a "bear bar" which is a gay bar for the levi/leather crowd usually.
They often have bear events.
Check Yelp in your area for gay bars and look for ones that talk about levi/leather/bears
>>8816064
>LGBTQRX+(N)
>QRX+(N)
i hope you get really bad Aids
>>8816064
>paul sanchez
HEY PAUL
https://soundcloud.com/rightwingwatch/rww-news-jannett-mefford-teaching-children-about-gender-identity-is-child-abuse
>>8815971
But circumcision is just fine.
Whatever you say Christians.
>>8815971
that has literally nothing to do with bearing false witness
bearing false witness is related to the judicial system of the Jews- you needed multiple witnesses for legal action, so bearing false witness meant you were making the guilty innocent and the innocent guilty.
It has nothing to do with having to deal with something you believe to be incorrect
viva
Cant think of anything more pathetic than basing your entire identity on sexuality. A one sentence persona ' Im a .....' . kys, youre all shallow, depraved, mentally ill, sex obsessed weirdos.
Most of us here hate that too. Tumblr is where you want to go for that kind of thing.
/clg/ - Everyone is accepted edition.
This is still a general for cis lesbians but we realized other letters are going to post here anyway, so go ahead we encourage it.
There's a general /clg/ and French Fry discord.
General Discord information: https://pastebin.com/P644WESi
Ask in the thread for French Fry info.
Stalk your locals here: https://zeemaps.com/map?group=2622710
Previously on /clg/: >>8848572
Recent news:
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>Discord drama continues.
>Confusing trolling attempt takes place...seriously what even?
>Anons see just how far they push sex doll acceptance
>Love/Hate for Ruby Rose
>Anon's plead for kek's love and attention. same old same old
>Be a stealth lesbian if you want to fly under the radar and flirt with freedom
>(you)
Still waiting for:
>Discord pastebin update
>New loli stories of anon's weird mother
>anon to kiss a qt at Mt Bonnell
>Make sure anon's in the storm are ok! Stay safe.
What is happening I am confoose.
>>8858168
boys will be boys :)
>>8858162
Left one is the tranner right?
Look at that hairline and shoulders.
>be me
>26, live with boyfriend of 8 years
>No one knows I'm gay
>No friends
>Homophobic parents
>Depresaion
>On anti depressants
>Therapy once a week
>Never leave the house
>Terrified of social interaction
>Still pretend to myself I'm not gay
>See my family once every couple of weeks and make up lies about my life
>Forgot who I really am because of living a double life
How have I not killed myself yet? I'm amazed.
Bump, I need help please :(
>>8815709
>>8815669
Deal with it anon. Tell your parents, cut them out of your life if they aren't supportive, do the same for anyone else you need to tell.
Also talk to your therapist about it, if it's not one of those christian therapists, and if it is, get a new therapist.
>>8815728
My therapist is awesome. Fully supports me.
I just don't have that courage to be me. I feel trapped being what everyone expects me to be instead of what I really am.
I don't know why I'm also scared of being myself.
Anyone else out there? Am I bullshit/fake? I don't want to be a girl but hormones have made me actually like my young boyish appearance and I don't plan on quitting ever.
>>8858135
>Am I bullshit/fake?
Yes.
>>8858135
I get this, I get this a lot (though I don't think I want to do hormones, at least probably not, maybe just laser hair removal and surgery)
>>8858135
Femboy ain't a gender.
I'm curious and I just have to ask somewhere... are any of you people born with lady parts considering getting top surgery without going on testosterone? I'm female, but have never been too happy about having lady bits, but at the same time I feel like going on T is not for me. I'm not particularly keen on facial hair, deeper voice and all that jazz. I've also struggled with hormonal acne for long periods of my life and I've finally managed to get clear skin and I'm not very keen on going through that again... The parts of my body that bother me the most at the moment is my breasts, my genitals and my hips. The breasts is the one thing I actually can "easily" fix (tho a bit of lipo in the hips is also possible), tho sice I live in Norway, I'll have to pay around 5000 dollars to get it done, since I won't get it covered if I'm not on T. I'm still very keen on getting it done eventually. I'll never call my self "non binary" and use weird pronouns or anything like that, I just want to feel a little bit more comfortable in my body. Anyone else in the same boat?
>>8815591
you sound like a special snowflake retard who doesnt understand science or appreciates how stupid their country is for giving trannies free surgeries.
Try to think awhile on what your end goal is, or as far along as you can imagine yourself. Large breasted women occasionally get reductions but I'm assuming you're eyeing flat, man-chest.
Being mtf myself I haven't looked into adding T into a "female" hormone system so idk if you can safely take a low dose or if you'd be interested in that in the first place; if you are, it may be something to search around about.
At the end of the day, it's your body and you have to live in it, it wouldn't make sense to not be as comfortable as possible.
>>8815591
Yeah that's what I'm doing
>tho sice I live in Norway, I'll have to pay around 5000 dollars to get it done, since I won't get it covered if I'm not on T.
Be happy you can get it done at all, a lot of surgeons won't do it without T and a diagnosis of gender dysphoria
I think I have grown to like the "boymode" life even though I am consistently failing it. In fact I can't imagine wearing dresses or any revealing clothes or anything that would accentuate my figure, which for a tranny is decent but not perfect.
Like, even if someone made me a wide-hipped hourglass cis female right now I would still be prompted to put on a hoodie, loose baggy pants or a nice men's suit or whatever because even the idea of showing my naked arms in public like all women in this pic do makes me shudder.
I think the only exception when I would wear a dress is when going out on a date with a guy but never in any social situation like pic related.
>>8858100
I feel the same, even the arm thing. I'd wear leggings though, but otherwise, boy clothes.
If I passed I expect I'd eventually start wearing dresses and skirts in public. Not sure about the bare arms.
>>8858112
>even the arm thing
It's funny, I always wore long shirts even in school and was basically boymodding even before I knew what boymode is. I also nearly got expelled because I systematically skipped PE classes.
>>8858100
I feel this heavily. Once my body and face started looking how I wanted it and I stopped being greasy and manly I realized I don't give a shit about wearing dresses, or anything girly for that matter.
Is anyone here a drag king? Any tips for it?
Any tips for how to crossdress and feel feminine without letting people know on the daily???
>>8858083
>in your house
>somewhere private
>somewhere people don't know you
>under your regular clothes
you really have no imagination, do you OP?
Yeah but specific things to do under clothes like everyday all day
Trips decide how I tell my dad he is on hormones
>>8857990
I think you meant your mother, hun.
tell him after he wakes up from surprise SRS but while he's still loopy on pain pills
>>8857990
Proposition him for sex and when he's disgusted tell him it's fine because you're a girl now.
You know you're a redneck when there's a cock in your ass.
I get too many messages on Grindr that I can't answer them all. Wat do?
I can block the guys I don't want to answer too, but there are still more messages than I can answer, bc big city and all.
Is there a way to stop appearing on ppl's Grindr while I catch up on my messages?
Pic related, it's a grinder.
I know what you mean OP.
>reddit space
I don't use grindr anymore because I don't even need it. The word has gotten out in my city about my amazing giant dick.
>reddit space
I constantly have a mob of horny men and women pounding at my door day and night begging me to let them suck it or ride it. It's soooo tedious.
>reddit space
I just wish I could convince them to form an orderly line and wait there turn.