>be me >26, live with boyfriend of 8 years >No one knows

Bump, I need help please :(

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>>8815709
>>8815669

Deal with it anon. Tell your parents, cut them out of your life if they aren't supportive, do the same for anyone else you need to tell.

Also talk to your therapist about it, if it's not one of those christian therapists, and if it is, get a new therapist.

>>8815728
My therapist is awesome. Fully supports me.

I just don't have that courage to be me. I feel trapped being what everyone expects me to be instead of what I really am.

I don't know why I'm also scared of being myself.

Try and make some friends and come out to them. Girls don't care, and usually like you more if you say you're gay. Plus girls can relate to you liking guys, and may say things like "isn't he cute?". You'll slowly get more comfortable and relaxed about yourself.

Eventually, coming out to people becomes easier, and you stop caring about who does/doesn't know you're gay.