Has anyone figured out how to bypass dysphoria enough to successfully masturbate?
Preferrably without illegal substances that I can't obtain because socially crippled NEET??
before id just fap and feel disgusting. panties + vibrator through panties is way better for me
>>5590830
Uhh. That's some degree of dysphoria I've never experienced. You should probably urgently get help.
Alright dudes, story time.
I’m a fairly masculine, cis straight guy. My closest friend in this world - my ride or die, my brother from another mother, if you will - is a really feminine gay guy. Months ago, while drunk, he sucked me off. After some deliberation once the awkwardness had passed, we decided that since he enjoys sucking dick, and I enjoy getting my dick sucked, that we could work something out. That meant that I get head on the reg whenever I want. I'm down with this.
That's since moved on to me fucking him. He was adamant that we should try it, and because sexuality is weird, I enjoyed it, so now we fuck as well. But the thing is, I'm not attracted to men, nor am I attracted to him. Dicks do nothing for me, and I don't think I could fuck another guy.
Have I cashed in my straight card?
Pic is my cat.
Probably bi in denial
>>5588920
Sounds pretty gay to me.
It's just a prank bro.
stories, experiences, tips etc
Mostly just creepy old guys messaging me "hi" or "hey" and sending me pictures of their geriatric balls.
I specifically said nobody older than me.
God damn it.
>>5586845
>nobody older than me.
You sound like an up en coming pedo m8.
The thought of getting fucked by a older man turns me on and creeps me out at the same time... Is it normal for gay bottoms to want to get fucked by older guys? It don't feel normal, it feels wrong/kinky.
>>5586865
I'm 24, when I don't specify that I get people two or three times my age hitting on me all day long.
I just want to suck 24yo duck, not 72yo limp noodle
undertale edition
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▶infographs suck for makeup
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▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000 http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
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>ywn be alphys' gf
>>5595452
thank you pleb ily
you just need to watch anime desu
you could do it
>>5595459
thank you for posting here anon
>tfw no Rick Astley bf
wat do /gaygen/?
tinychat com/gaygen
tinychat com/gaygenrehab
prev: >>5593337
first for obsessing over lighting for a selfie
>>5594295
2nd for rickroll
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0
Guess who it is
>>5594291
Wrong. Scientific Nobel Prizes still have considerable integrity.
>dad is super religious
>always watching the Jesus channel
>woke up early this morning and was praying out loud before work
>I had not gone to sleep yet
>"I pray that anon finds the help he needs to live a pure life free of mortal sin, and I find the strength to tell him things he doesn't want to hear, and he has the wisdom to change his ways for the sake of his soul."
>"lord please help him"
>"he is sick"
>"he doesn't know better"
>"lord heal him in both body, mind, and spirit"
>as he prayed I started crying
>I am not sick
>I do not need healing
>I am not yours to correct
>what right do you have to pray for me?
>tfw I'm not out to anyone, especially him
>he goes through my room when I am not around
>I stopped caring and just do me, if he wants to ruin his day by opening my tote ottoman that is on him not me
>why do I still feel guilty
do you still love him OP?
>>5579829
I do not judge him for his ignorance. He cannot help it. Doesn't make it any less infuriating or insulting but I cannot hold it against him. I do not wish him to change. I accept him for being a well intentioned but severely misguided individual.
>>5579817
he loves you, but will never understand you op
A treatment for gender identity disorder has been found over 20 years ago. What else is the medical establishment concealing?
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8839957
"OBJECTIVE: The case is reported of a gender dysphoric patient who responded successfully to pharmacotherapy with pimozide.
CLINICAL PICTURE: An adult male patient with a borderline learning disability presented with cross-dressing and a strong wish to undergo a sex change.
TREATMENT: Supportive psychotherapy and pharmacotherapy with pimozide was tried.
OUTCOME: There was an excellent response to pimozide 2 mg daily, with a cessation of both cross-dressing and the wish for sex reassignment. When, after 1 year, the dose was reduced to 1 mg daily, there was a rapid return of the cross-dressing and the wish for sex reassignment. An increase in the dose again led to a remission which has been maintained since then."
http://anp.sagepub.com/cgi/pmidlookup?view=long&pmid=8839957
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I think CBH is decent treatment for dysphoria, coping with it that is, if one doesn't want to transition. Note I said coping and not curing.
Meditation really helps also. Ultimately though, transition, either socially, physically, or both are the best options out there right now. Sadly, in many cases, the transition itself becomes an addiction of sorts, where the individual will base their life around it and get surgery after surgery, just to realize they've wasted part of their life on it while they could've delved into other pursuits.
I think transitioning plus serious therapy is the best treatment option out there, but if you don't wanna transition, CBH helped me greatly for about 5 years. I do hope that in the future, we'll have less drastic ways of dealing with things like this.
>Mr A is a 23-year-old man with a borderline learning disability, who was referred to a gender identity clinic preoccupied with thoughts of changing sex and wishing to become 'a beautiful and desirable woman with 38D breasts'.
>>5576051
If you want to read the rest, search for 10.3109/00048679609065010 on Sci-Hub. It's pretty clear this person had some other issues.
What do you think of this comic strip, /lgbt/?
>>5596011
>Just because Im trans doesn't mean I have to be a perfect girl
Doesn't give you the right to be an intentional obnoxious asshole either
>>5596011
what is this from?
>>5596011
what am i looking at
I wish i could come out but, its impossible for the 15 years or so, my mid thirties could be noice i guess, any advice?
Don't come out.
Coming out is just a mean meme, really.
You get lots of advantages being straight that you don't get when you're gay.
Just get a wife and fuck dudes on the side. Really it doesn't get any better than that.
>>5587916
I guess, but what of love and all that bloody rubbish, does it even exist?
>>5587926
yeah but getting into a real monogamous relationship with another gay guy is nearly impossible.
Chances are you'll grow old alone or die at a young age because your bf cheated on you and gave you aids
>Anon,
>I couldn't sleep.
>My feeling is that if I don't tell you now, it will be too late. It's very simple.
>I want you to stop committing slow suicide. Stop taking those hormones and stop playing with your body.
>At best you will end up as a freak and at worst, a monster.
>Nobody is fully satisfied with their own body or even one's talent. The way out of that is to ignore the weaknesses and build on the strengths. If weaknesses are too pronounced may be you need to do a bit so that you are not handicapped. But you will need to focus on your strengths.
>Just imagine, if Einstein was consumed by the size of his balls or boobs! You are a genius, you have a lot to contribute to the world. Focus on that, not your body.
>Don't you want to be a father? Do you have any idea what is like to be a father? By consuming those medicines, you are jeopardizing that totally and maybe irreversibly. I have been studying the subject and it turns out that almost all the people who show tendencies like you, had a history of abuse. I don't know if you had any such experience or not, as you never shared it with me. I want to talk to you and want to get to the bottom of it.
>One thing you must know is that I am the one who loves you most in this whole world. I have no secret agenda and my only agenda is your well being. Don't hurt yourself any more until we think through the whole thing. You have your whole life to experiment. Nothing will be lost if you stop now and review.
>Whenever I try to sleep, I get the nightmare like you have turned into something like in the movie 'Fly'.
>There is no hurry. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't kill yourself. It may be even worse than that. A life full of misery, pain, unfulfilled desires and social stigma. Your life has just began.
>Don't destroy your body, your future. You must live to see your own child, who may be even smarter than you. Don't murder him or her even before he or she is conceived.
>Love you.
T-thanks, dad.
>>5586316
I'm sorry to hear that anon, *hugs*
Remember that it's your life and your happiness, don't let others guilt you into being miserable.
>>5586316
Were you abused?
If I want to casually refer to transgender people is it preferable to use the term "trap" or "tranny"?
>>5590143
I prefer "mentally ill gay man" myself
it doesn't leave you any room for ambiguity or confusion. it just cuts right to the heart of the matter.
>>5590143
Prolly trans
Fascinating question, OP.
Etymologically, I believe "trap" is at core unrelated to transgender issues and only inherently refers to having a dick and dressing as a girl and looking enough like a girl to have a straight guy wake up with you... often after meeting at a bar. Often a young or very effective drag queen/crossdresser. In this light, it's not as disparaging, but when used to describe full-on chicks-with-dicks it can be because the "trap" is that you ended up with a guy and there's an implied subtext of it being a sinister gay guy milling around the hot dance clubs for dumb drunk straight boys. Also, chicks-with-dicks can cause offence as well.
"Tranny," on the other hand doesn't possess any such implied meaning, but it's taken as more directly offensive. Because it acknowledges that they're trans... or it... eh... sounds more catty and malicious or something, RuPaul used it and he hates everybody I heard someone say once.
For trans girls only obviously, which would you rather be:
>8/10 cute passable as a girl but still trans
>3/10 ugly but cis girl and still kind of look like a girl
http://strawpoll.me/6606233
http://strawpoll.me/6606233
http://strawpoll.me/6606233
We need a pic of a 3/10 cis girl to compare cause the girl in the OP is too qt.
>>5589531
Whichever looks more female. You make it sound like the tranny looks more passaable.
Honestly, if someone transitions before puberty, they have every chance of looking better than most cis women do. All they need to do then is have SRS, and while that's expensive, being ugly is far more pricey.
>>5589540
>You make it sound like the tranny looks more passaable.
the OP is a trans girl that is more passable than the cis girl in this pic.
Where do I find myself a fat Chris Pratt?
/your local card shop.
Fat Pratt has died in a fire, but now your new king has risen, Swole Pratt!
>>5595520
If I knew that I'd have one already
what dildo would you suggest for anal /lgbt/?
just use a penis nerd
I unironically like bad dragon
>>5594319
http://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Silicone-Dildo-Suction-Flesh/dp/B00VE80WU0/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top?ie=UTF8
what do you think of this?
What was life like for you before you accepted being gay or transgender? Were any of you significantly repressed in the past or actively hiding yourself from the realization? Did other people know even before you did?
>>5593782
well I don't remember much of that time. I accepted myself when I was 7 and before then I was just a regular kid.
I was walking zombie, no wonder nobody liked me.
It stills blows my mind that some trans people had a life before HRT.
>>5593782
Alcohol, drugs, cutting, MMOs, lonely walks at night.