Last night, my boyfriend got verbally angry and aggressive towards me over a fight and was basically in my face. I explicitly explained that that's not on and he scared me and that I thought he was going to hit me.
When I brought up the fact we have issues he got extremely dramatic.
The fight is complex shall we say, and it involves other people. My parents even said he was being abusive.
So help me figure out if he's manipulative and abusive or am I just being paranoid?
Examples:
>he tells me to leave the room during a fight and when I do he stops me saying things like "really!!" or "Is that it?!"
>he excuses being uncontrollably angry with being emotional and said things like "that's just who I am" or "can't I have feelings" in the past
>he shouts if he's mad
>he's never been sincerely sorry to me from memory for a fight or being wrong or just to make up
>I always have to calm him down and apologise for my wrongful actions
>the last fight we had, he left the house in a rage with no keys or phone or shoes so I had follow him and make sure he was safe
>he also started saying things like I'm "better off without him" etc
Hes abusive,
>he tells me to leave the room during a fight and when I do he stops me saying things like "really!!" or "Is that it?!"
But you are weak.
>the last fight we had, he left the house in a rage with no keys or phone or shoes so I had follow him and make sure he was safe
You look for sympathy but only you is keping you there. Next time he does this either twat him one or leave him for good, this inst going to get better.
>>5711407
Be my boyfriend instead. I'll treat you properly.
>>5711407
Sounds like you actually have a gf kek
As a straight woman, why are gay men always the hottest? Straight men are always sleazy looking
Idk
They dont't care?
Or dont want to be gay
>>5706788
The same reason we fall head over heels for straight guys. You want what you can't have.
>>5706788
>IMPLYING
Question LGBT. I'm at Uni and I've had a lot of people tell me that gender is just a social construct and that it doesn't actually exist. I'm confused by this because if that is the case I don't understand how someone can be transgender if gender doesn't exist and there aren't actually any differences between men and women. Last week someone got pissed at me for using the word men because apparently they don't exist because there is no gender. Can someone please help me understand because I feel like I've been logically mind fucked and I don't understand.
>>5705706
i want to cum in ur hair
>>5705714
That's not my hair it's a stock photo of extension. Fuck off troll.
>>5705706
Funfact: a lot of transgender people don't believe in gender being social construct. They see two genders and want to be the one opposite of what they were given. There's a reason why trutrans people shit all over androgynous folk.
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First for I'm scared of my future.
Where do I go to make threats in order to get what I want
i just looked at my hairline in the mirror again
please god help me
Could a bottom ever be president?
Imagine the most powerful man in the world getting pounded and moaning like a bitch every night.
Well, there are female presidents.
>>5711741
No there aren't
>>5711701
I remember when somebody leaked a video of the local judge wearing panties and being fucked
I mean, judges are authoritative figures and it was obviously a huge sex scandal. No idea what happened to him, but hopefully he didnt kill himself. Poor man
what do you think about the aotysf, gaygen?
Has album art gone too far?
>>5711641
So I just played Firewatch. You know, for a story intensive game where it's IN character to be heterosexual, it really sucks to have to make choices like wanting to be with a girl even though it might hurt me in the end. Like, irl I don't give a shit about this chick. Can I get a man?
I like Kanye he's super deep not like those other rappers and plus he's a genius.
Hello. I wasn't sure if I should post this in /adv/ or here, but here goes.
I want to start transitioning mtf, reading and researching before I do anything.
Just read that if you're taller than 6'0 you'll be a hon and you'll never make it. I saw people saying that they're 6'1 and they passed. Is this true?
Then, someone said that female models are 5'11-6'0 and that if you're taller it's harder to pass. Haven't seen anyone posting that they're taller than 6'1 and passed.
I'm 6'4
Currently drowning in my own tears right now and I feel like killing myself.
>>5711071
>I'm 6'4
Just don't.
>>5711071
1. don't kill yourself
2. I've met some really tall mtfs that passed.
3. makeup helps
4. if you need it, plastic surgery is a thing
5. talk to a fucking doctor and don't beleive everything you see on the net
6. yeah, there'll probably be stuff that observant people might pick out and see that you're trans, but most people won't.
7. don't fucking kill yourself.
good luck anon.
>>5711071
I have two girl cousins who are 6'1". They get hit on all the time for looking like models.
Get hair removal, estrogen, and get in shape. If after a few years you fail, then you can an hero.
So I was talking to a christian fundamentalist and they said everyone who is gay was molested by a member of the same sex when they were a child. Surprisingly, many homosexuals I've asked confirm this... input?
yeah ngl jesus raped me desu
>>5690764
Thread already exists OP.
Learn to catalog.
>>5710201
>christian fundamentalist
Please don't, for your own safety.
Unless you're straight, then get out.
>Surprisingly, many homosexuals I've asked confirm this... input?
Never been molested in my life yet I'm a complete homo.
Theory disproven.
Why do gay men feel the need to constantly mention that they don't like sports, and that liking sports is somehow a straight man's interest? I'm bi and love sports, and my gay friend has been here bitching about straight men overreacting about football, but as soon as halftime comes on it's all "OMG BEYONCE YAS QUEEN SLAYYYYYYYYYY!!!" When will the "gay men hate sports" meme finally die?
>>5686089
F~R~U~I~T~S
>>5686089
Professional Sports isn't a "straight guy" interest, it's just an interest for brainless fuckwits, your bf is equally brainless for being obsessed with beyonce too.
>>5686089
I'm just kind of nerdy so I guess I just never had any interest in sports. I don't think it has to do with being gay because all of my other straight friends that are kind of computer/science nerds don't really like sports either.
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>>5708938
>>5714562
I've always meant to watch this animu
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Why the fuck are some guys in such denial about being gay? This closeted guy started sexting me telling me he would fuck me and shit, even came over once asked for a blowjob but chickened out at the last second. Now he's in this denial mode where he acts like I somehow tricked him into sextinf, pic related I'll post some of our sexting convos if ur interested. I'm so sick of closeted guys why can't I find a masculine guy that isn't closeted? Seems like all the out gay guys are liberal feminine fags, especially where I live, you go on craigslist and its 30 to 1 bottoms to tops, and the tops are all ugly old guys that can't even get hard.
This is where it usually ends, he'll say jk and then act like nothing even happened as if by those simple words he can wipe the act from his slate.
I mean I was closeted at one time but i don't remember trying to bend reality like this.
I'm a pre-hrt mtf tranny… and recently out of the blue I started "passing". I have no idea; every stranger, cashier, hobo asking me for money, just everyone that don't know me calls me "ma'am". I live in an Eastern European country and I don't think it's because they know I'm trans and just want to be nice… well, I'm in a total boymode. My face is kinda feminine though and I have long hair… and that's all. I'm fucking 6' tall BTW.
Obviously that makes me really happy, and I don't want this to end. It's just amazing, but I don't know if I'm just living in delusion. Also I must say it's just like a week it has been happening… before I was mostly called "sir" everywhere. I won't go out in a dress at this point, but I'm acting kinda more feminine recently and it seems to work? What to do to not hear "sir" again?
I'll be getting hrt like in a year because gatekeeping.
>>5703810
just hang on to the things that make you happy for now anon and cherish them later my nigga, happy for you dawg for real
>>5703830
Thanks. I'll just try to be more androgynous and cautiously assume people think I'm a girl. This whole "passing-streak" absolutely cured me of all the doubts like "what if I'm just a faggot".
>>5703859
Because I feel good being perceived as female.
Walking down the street wearing literally my only pair of men's clothing and some asshole roles down his car window and screams "Are you wearing fucking makeup bro?!" Laughs and drives away.
Wtf is this? I'm dressed as a man no makeup and my hair pulled back.
Why do people have to be so rude?
I get less shit for dressing feminine. I am still called a faggot but at least it's deserved.
Share your stories. Let's commiserate.
>>5703079
Bump.
He just thought you were feminine and pretty but also a boy, and didn't know what else to do with those feels.
What area of the world do you live in?
Memes aside, how much does height affect passing? Is there ever a point where it's impossible to pass due to height?
If you could play in the NBA -- not the WNBA, but the male NBA -- then you'll probably never pass. Any shorter and you'll be fine.
>>5693899
So where does 6'5 fit in on that scale? Hypothetically speaking
>>5693885
Basically, anything above 5'7 is nonpassing. (Obviously height doesn't matter for FtMs because test is a helluva drug, even if you'll be a turbomanlet)
>>5713167
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>>5713176
first for we're all gonna make it brahs
>>5713176
>the burden of being white is too much on me
>I wish I could tear of my skin and hand out my privilege to all coloured people around me at work who have it exactly the same as me in 2016
>I'm still here for some reason
>>5713177
I never made it K.
I have become a ghost that haunts these threads