Good morning, /lgbt/. How's your semester been so far? The first round of tests are coming up.
Hectic and soul-crushing. Luckily one of my profs doesn't believe in midterms and the rest aren't until March
>>5702431
My uni doesn't even do midterms :^)
What's your major?
i've got a paper to write about a mad Viennan, i have to watch a live theatre performace, i can't understand my comp sci professor, and the Buddha was a pretty cool dude
I'm currently seeing a girl but I have slept with men before.
I thought it was just something I wanted to try but now I feel conflicted. How did you know for sure you were lgbt?
>>5702300
Maybe you are biscum or she isnt doing anything for you in bed.
>>5702308
Shes ok in bed but not great. I dont think I'm bi
Why does it matter?
Seriously why are people more obsessed with the label than how they feel and just being themselves.
>My time with /lgbt/ had come to an end. During our time together, I had learned about their general cynicism and misanthropy but also the irreverent, self-deprecating style of humor and an ability to show compassion toward those who shared their "feels". What had started as a journey into the "dark side of the internet" had become a poignant investigation into the lives of wayward young individuals. With no community to fall back on and plenty of free time to spend online, they had forged an alliance not out of common interests but a common sense of displacement. Although they have been attacked in the media as Nazis, perverts and nihilists, the picture I was presented with was one of loneliness and desperation. I finally realized that the "Internet Hate Machine" hates nothing more than itself.
>>5702213
LOOOOOOOOOOUUUUIIIIIIIIEEEE :DDD
wat r u doing here
>>5702213
>the "Internet Hate Machine" hates nothing more than itself.
No shit, sherlock.
>>5702313
So what's this folder on your computer named "hons" and "feels", anon. What do you use those fore?
>your straight crush just got married
Not that I ever stood a chance.
I wish I knew how to move on and love someone else. Maybe it's not love just infatuation? Because we've been around each other so long but maybe just the close proximity has made me believe I love him.
Fuck I dunno, I wish I was with him, but it's for the best he's happy.
SSRIs
Oxytocin blockers
>>5701971
Ehh what?
>>5701942
Ouch. That sounds awful, anon. If my straight crush got married today I'd probably fall into a deep depression.
I don't know how to stop having feelings for him. I just try not to think about them, but it doesn't help that I see him every other day.
I wish humans could regenerate, but if we could do this would this cost us our sanity?
Watching transition videos on YouTube makes me believe that male-to-female and female-to-male hormone therapy is a first step toward regeneration, but it's offly slow.
But I believe that one day regeneration will become a reality.
This is dumb. You are dumb. How old are you? If the answer is above 13, are you ashamed that you still don't differentiate fictional television shows from reality?
Even if/when flawless transitions become possible, that's not "regenerating".
>>5701683
this, OP you are the reason why i avoid all fandoms of things i love
>>5701683
Actually, transitioning right now kind of is like regeneration on a slower scale.
Does anyone know of any good gay literature? And this could range from books centrally about some aspects of gay life to the main character just so happens to be gay but this fact doesn't exactly affect the plot.
I'm sick of the "story" of anything about gay characters being two dudes being total bitches to each other (and I don't mean that as in being girly or anything like that. Everybody just do you.) But like grown men acting like teenagers about relationships. Also don't want to read/see any more stories where the plot is just someone whoring around and trying to either justify their actions and whining and wondering why things are so bad for them, or people trying to "find themselves" through dick.
Or are those just the only stories that gays have to tell? Am I late to the party or something? Did I not get my phamphlet when I signed up? (I'm being sarcastic)
So yeah, just some actually engaging gay literature would be cool. Something with substance. Thanks a bunch.
Howl by Alan Ginsberg is probably something you'd be interested in.
Giovanni's Room by James Baldwin
Naked Lunch by William Burroughs is pretty damn faggy (just look all the beatniks, in fact)
Is it illegal to feminize your body by any method like phytoestrogen or diet supplements without diagnosis of gender dysphoria??
>>5701059
nope
>>5701059
No and good thing for you, it's not illegal to be retarded, either
>>5701059
Not illegal, but it also isn't going to work. Just order hormones online. Which country are you in? We might have a source that works for you.
Funny how even in the lgbt page you still got people calling each other niggers. This is why I stay in my house
No one wants to be a nigger. They are aggressive, unintelligent and self-destructive people. Why would you not use nigger as an insult on a 4chan lgbt image board?
>>5700942
>smmfh
nigger detected
>>5700942
Oh yes, the real world is very scary. Just stay inside. So is 4chan, in fact. You should just stay on >tumblrdotcom
So I have been in a relationship with my SO for roughly 10 years. Been devoted to one another. He brings up that he wants to bring a girl into the fold. Normally I would have been into it, but something got to my stomach, a shitty feeling, and I pretty much stood on the stance that I can't abide by it. So, like an asshole, I'm going through his iMessage and find the girl he's talking to. She's some severely depressed schizoid who cuts and all that shit. Through the messages I've learned that they plan to meet up, so their thing, and then make it known and somehow make it okay and work me into it.
Should I just shove this iPhone up his ass/down the toilet, or try to be rational/reasonable?
Found her Facebook too. Constantly posts depressing, self-pitying shit.
>>5700672
Break up with him if you have any self respect.
I'm thinking about it. Our relationship has been great for so long that it's hard to just up and do it. I think he regrets not fucking more girls before we met. Monogamy is monogamy though. I guess the sex is worth more than our relationship ever was.
It fucking kills me.
I always see people who say that a trans person shouldn't transition, and they always try to use a scientific basis instead of religious bullshit.
Is it true that transitioning is bad for dysphoria? Should a person just go to therapy or something else?
>>5700563
Transition is part of the therapy. It has been scientifically proven as the only way to treat gender dysphoria.
1/10 I responded
>>5700592
That's what I though, but I always hear people on the right who prattle on about how it's a mental disorder and that people should be allowed to indulge. It just made me wonder if there was any scientific basis for not transitioning.
>>5700608
shouldn't*
Hey /lgbt/ First time posting on this board (call me what you will) But I have a question How would I go about coming out to my friends/family without making it uncomfortable/awkward for the both of us I believe my friends would accept me but my parents are very religious and hate the thought of any of there kids being Anything but straight, so... Help, Please?
>>5700533
Just stare right at them while eating 23 tacos and once you are done tell them.
>>5700661
That doesn't really help...
Start with your most progressive friends and work backwards from there. Hopefully by this point you'll have at least a small support network. When you feel like you've got someone you can rely on, (Someone who will let you crash at there place if you get kicked out), try coming out to whoever in your family you think will be most supportive and then move forward from there. As for the actual act of telling someone, stare right at them while eating 23 tacos and once your done tell them.
I like my regular straight life style, but I am also turned on by being a sissy and submitting to black cock. How do I do it without the whole hormones and surgery and how do I pick up a man to just fuck me and possibly forget it. Pic unrelated
Shave and go on a4a.com
Don't get HIV.
Talk to a Dr. about PrEP if you are going raw with strangers.
Is Joan of Arc the patient saint of Transgender people?
>>5700476
No, Moron.
aybe Garrison from South Park?
I mean I have no problems with it
What do you other fags think about it? Are gays ready for it? Is ass too good? are you "enslaved" by boypussy like the straight man to the vaginal Jew?
http://www.man2manalliance.org/
You gotta admit that's one hell of a website
>>5700274
The website is time cube tier but they are right about promiscuity and effeminacy. Don't be a faggot and commit yourself to one husbando for life.
>>5700274
The website is shitty but EVERY gay man in this board should read this
http://www.man2manalliance.org/crw/frot/fidelity2.html
Open relationships are the most destructive and disgusting thing in gay culture
>>5700274
While I think that giving up anal altogether is not necessary, I wish more gay guys became 'aware' of frottage as an option, or even as a way of foreplay.
I mean, I love anal, but every time I've had sex was like this
>ok let's masturbate each other for a few minutes AND THEN PUT IT IN MY BUTT RIGHT NOW FUCK ME
Don't get me wrong, fucking feels great and I love it. But we're more than a penis and an anus. We have a whole body with multiple areas we can stimulate, give and take pleasure from.
The best sex experiences I've had were those anal was just a part of it, and not the goal and center of attention.
I have to agree with them on the fidelity thing here >>5700513
Let's face it, STDs run rampant among gays and we could do much more to prevent them.
Straight guy here. I'm curious how the dating scene works for good looking gay men and good looking lesbians.
If a straight girl is hot, she pretty much has her pick of any dude she so chooses. If a straight guy is hot, he has better chances than a average straight guy but his personality still has to be on the ball game, although with some women, he can just be quiet and still get daily pussy.
I'm guessing for hot gay men, they can pretty much pick and choose whomever they want to date?
I'm not so sure about hot gay women considering how women in general don't care so much about looks.
But for anyone with experience, or those who have observed these people, how do you think they fair?
>>5700265
>If a straight guy is hot, he has better chances than a average straight guy but his personality still has to be on the ball game
this has got to be a joke. If a guy is hot, he could be a mumbling idiot and women will fawn all over him. And gay men too.
>how is the dating scene like for hot gay folks?
Lots of herpes. Occasional AIDS.
>>5700305
>If a guy is hot, he could be a mumbling idiot and women will fawn all over him.
depends. I've seen relatively good looking men who get 0 women because of how autistic they act. If they got rid of their mental retardation, they'd be the next Hugh Hefner.
>>5700330
>relatively good looking
>hot