Is it possible to give a gay vibe even if you're straight? There has been at least four guys recently coming on to me even tough I don't show any interest in them.
>>6135046
yes.
Some straight dudes especially if they're young, soft spoken, and harmless looking, come off as gay or at least gay friendly.
it happens, don't worry too much. maybe in a few years you'll consider trying it out and then you won't find anyone. that's how it works.
>>6135046
Take the opportunity while you have it, someday you'll turn 16 and no one will be interested in you anymore
hi /lgbt/
i will try to keep this TLDR so if you have any questions please ask.
my 39 year old boyfriend of 3+ years just told me he wants to do drag and what i think of that, but didn't tell me the capacity in which he wants to do it (i.e., full-time job, part-time "hobby").
either way, i hate the idea. it is a literal nightmare and i feel like it is a major dealbreaker for me, even though i love him to bits and we are in a serious monogamous relationship.
i can answer more questions in the comments in a bit. i'm going out now so here is a summary:
>it affects my attraction to him. i like men. big, burly hairy beary daddy men. not queens who do drag and have a "boy" name.
>i'm attracted to masculinity - hyper-femininity is a huge turn-off
>he is beary (which he has never flaunted) and i imagine he will want to shave, etc
>potential gender issues
>lifestyle that goes with it: the clubs, friends, company. i am not interested in being a part of that.
i should note that i do NOT hate drag. it may sound like i do but honestly i don't. i can enjoy it for the entertainment factor but at the end of the day i know that i don't want to be in a relationship someone that does it. i'm not that guy. i'm an introverted guy that has extremely little affiliation with any sort of gay culture at all and just doesn't relate to any of it.
he keeps going on about it being about the "performance" and creating a "persona" (he was a singer for 11 years), but all i hear is "i want to wear wigs and dresses and heels and prance around". i hope that doesn't make me sound -phobic but as above that would be a turn-off.
what do you think? what would you feel like in my position?
i would appreciate fleshing this out with anyone so i can articulate myself well when we talk more about it.
oh
bump
should I take this thread somewhere else or is it just shit?
I don't think you're necessarily being any type of -phobic, OP. I think you should ask him some more questions of exactly what this will entail, though. He's not necessarily going full time or anything. You might still be able to have that big, hairy, beary masculine man that you've fallen in love with, with his drag side only being this rare occasional thing on the weekend. Does that make it any better? I dunno, it might not. Still, talk to him about it.
>>6134742
You should probably tell him everything in your post OP.
I wish I was Tracer
>>6134461
trannies, will you please stop. Please.
>>6134466
cissies, will you stop. Please.
>>6134466
fuck off cis scum
how do I go from never having had sex into having sex? SUREly it's not as easy as just hitting up grindr and meeting up because i don't have any confidence whatsoever. I mostly want to do it to lose my virginity but It might even be fun. Im 19 and i'd like to lose this burden before I turn 20
one bump
>>6133645
If you're a gay male, yes, it really is as easy as just hitting up Grindr. Being a gay guy means playing the sex game on easy mode.
The price is that you get AIDS though.
>>6133645
Tinder or grindr. There are also good dating sites.
I want him /lgbt/ anyone else with me?
Arin is definitely some sort of queer, I just don't think he cares to explore it further.
>>6133155
also general crush thread
>>6133155
Oh my god, yes.
That 'Take On Me' cover video... he's smoking hot in that.
What does /lgbt/ think of the website petticoated.com?
Is it an abomination?
>>6133011
My dream childhood desu
The reason I have a degenerate sissy fetish desu.
>>6133011
what the hell is petticoat?
Post your mones if your trans or dildos if your gay
I have neither, but here is a picture I like.
>>6132707
What if you're a trans with dildos?
What if you're a gay top without any dildos?
That said I'm a gay versatile and you're not seeing my dildos anyway.
>>6132725
please......? ccan i just see your prettiest one
>be dating cute boy
>he brings up the idea of him carrying a purse
>starts carrying one
>that feel when i'm about to break up with him because I can't deal with the embarrassment of being seen with him now
This question is for gay guys specifically. Am I overreacting or is it as annoying as I think it is?
If you can't accept it, sure. People break up over dumb shit all the time.
Maybe you're overreacting, just talk to him about it.
I wouldn't care for it either, but I wouldn't break up with someone over it.
>>6132281
>Am I overreacting or is it as annoying as I think it is?
Femboy here, that's gay as fuck, and also I wouldn't want to be seen with him either. That shit is just embarrassing. It is very understandable for you to not want to be seen with him and thus want to break up with him, because that is pretty obnoxious.
I'm not into guys when they do certain things myself. Like if they're too apologetic or nice or sensitive it's a huge turnoff.
Him wanting to carry a purse is right down the alley of things that simply make you lose attraction.
>>6132291
Additional info: I live in a pretty anti-lgbt area so him carrying a purse would cause a lot more negative reactions in public if it were me. Are you in a similar situiation OP?
>Have grindr hookup
>Not really used to anal. Just do oral usually.
>Guy comes, qt asian twink.
>Start blowing him
>"Can I fuck you anon?"
>No. I don't have condoms and haven't prepared just be content with me blowing you
>Stands up, I think he just wants to fuck my face.
>Goes behind me, starts rimming me, spits on my hole
>Are you sure I can't fuck you?
>Y-yeah. You'll j-just have to be content with plastering my face
>Okay. Starts pushing his dick against my hole.
>Completely lost in teh moment at this point. No self-control to stop him
>Fucks me. Asks where i want him to come
>W-wherever y-you like.
>Pulls out, cums on my face.
He gets dressed, and as he's leaving, gives this convo
>Word of advice, anon. Don't let guys bareback you.
>It's a lot harder in the heat of the moment...
>No. Just don't let them do it.
>Well I did say 'no'...
>Yeah. Hahaha.
Then he pats me on the shoulder and leaves.
What the fuck happened, /lgbt/? I've only barebacked 3 times now, and every single time has been me being coerced and completely unable to say no even though I'd shout it if I wasn't already extremely horny. I don't blame the guys. It's my fault. Why the fuck can't I say no? I don't want AIDS, /lgbt/. But I simply cannot refuse. I would have let him fucking cum in me. Does anyone else have this problem? I'm getting on PreP as soon as i start my job in the summer and get on insurance, but this I'm so concerned. Why do I lose self control and become a mindless whore when horny?
You're just a cock slut.
Buy condoms you cheap bitch.
>>6131823
I was out and literally just invited him over for oral. I was explicit about it. Anal wasn't even discussed until I was drooling on his dick.
>>6131830
You need to learn self control or learn to be more assertive.
I hope you're healthy still. Stay safe.
Welcome to /lgbt/, how gay are ya?
I once had sex with another guy, we took turns as top and bottom
>>6131694
I had a 3 way with 2 other guys?
>>6131694
I took 2 dicks at once.
Without any lube.
Please provide advice, and constructive criticism to people, or compliment them if deserved.
Use clyp.it/ , either upload or record directly on the site.
https://clyp.it/ooof5xip
Shiggity
This is gonna be long winded.
So, first of all, my vocal cords aren't normal, so I have some difficulties when it comes to produce a voice. It does strain too, so I can't force it too much (I am already forcing it to be able to create a voice at all).
Anyway, in this clip I'm speaking pretty deep back in my throat, but still forming the sound in my mouth sort of. Anyway, I would like to know if it's too horrible, or if it sounds ok?
Also advice on how to learn feminine speech patterns, like what I should think about.
>https://clyp.it/kqsb2453
I don't speak english normally.
>>6131782
I guess it's ok?
Sounds a little strained, and like too "concentrated", or compact, if that's a thing.
I guess it would sound better if you can make it sound softer.
>Says 'anyway' twice
https://clyp.it/ixn5p1nk
Is anyone on here asexual?
I've been questioning whether I am or not but it's hard to tell. I've never personally met another asexual so I haven't be able to ask them.
Pic unrelated.
90% of the time its just that you're low test. its a good thing though. start coungitn your blessings
>>6131441
Maybe you are?
>>6131441
Do you get the urge to fuck other people?
Theres an asexual general around here sometimes >>>/acegen/
I love gay porn, specifically traps. I fantasize about fucking traps and being a trap being fucked. Naturally one would think I was gay because of this, but why haven't I ever been attracted to guys outside of porn? I just don't understand it.
>>6131313
>I love gay porn
gay bitch
>>6131313
>gay porn
>traps
???
> gay porn, specifically traps.
Not the same thing
Two different things
Why is it that every ts on craigslist is unpassable?
>>6131051
honestly a lot of it is the brows for her. she looks surprised/constipated
>>6131063
That's one of the better ones desu
Because it's craigslist? You have to be a fucking desperate hon to go gobble up a surprise dick riddled with STDs because no one else will you fuck you.
Is there any way i can take female hormones but without having tits and having small penis?
>>6130993
why would you want to take them then??
also: no
>>6130993
AA+SERM
Look for the femgen thread in the catalog