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So on one hand yes you are the only person who can define your orientation and if you don't define yourself as gay it's not our place to.

On the other hand you're gay and stupid. A stupid gay man who believes he's neither.

>>6237479
I have no reasonable other choice.

The market is tainted by shallow people
yet
you can only be attracted to models and pornstars

So who is it that is shallow here? The market or you?

>>6236906
>straight man in a gay man's body
LOOOOOOOOL

But seriously, I sympathize with you. It's ok to not like parts of yourself and wish you were different, don't bottle that up. "You're beautiful just the way you are" is bullshit.

Do share your feelings with others, when appropriate. Maybe you can help enough of a cultural shift that searching for a medically legitimate way of turning gay people straight won't be a cultural taboo anymore. Until then (which probably won't be in your lifetime), you'll just have to man up and accept the cards you were dealt.

if i fuck you in the ass super hard and traumatise you, you'll never think of sleeping with men again
you interested?
you'll be straight forever

>>6236906
regardless of what you are, your a faggot like the rest of us. Repress it and move on. Do something productive. I just try to do whatever i can to not think. try it. its not too hard. drugs make it easier

>>6233019
No, play dota you fucking retard

I'm bI boy and I do

>>6233123
nice! where do you play?

>>6231459
Can you tell us about it? What's it about? What does it have to do with LGBT stuff?

>>6232679

It's a gay love story.

I'll just c/p the blurb:

"Call Me by Your Name is the story of a sudden and powerful romance that blossoms between an adolescent boy and a summer guest at his parents' cliffside mansion on the Italian Riviera. During the restless summer weeks, unrelenting but buried currents of obsession, fascination, and desire intensify their passion as they test the charged ground between them and verge toward the one thing both already fear they may never truly find again: total intimacy."

It's probably the most acclaimed gay novel of the noughties.

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>>6231459

Their hugely different body types will make for interesting sex scenes.

First for wearing leggings all the time

>>6230626
Second for thread wars :)

Third for filter the crossboarding autist known as "Friendly Namefag"

>>6229153
Accepting that he's straight and aiming for a gay guy works for me, even while in the closet.

No there is not
I've been crushing on the same guy for 4 years now.
I have no eyes for anyone else and I've been hit on by other guys since then
I masturbate daily to him, just hearing his voice turns me on
I have to go trough him having girlfriends and talking about girls, but at this point I'd say I'm numbed to it

>>6229153
>crushing hard on gay friend, but I'm a tranny
There was an escape, but honestly fuck it

Lolwut? If anything anime should make it worse.

>>6227936
wtf is AGP?

>>6228375
a girl poo

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>>6225355

It's too early for a new thread but I will taint it with memes all the same

>>6225382
Fuck off dude

>>6225382
>It's too early for a new thread

we'll all be okay

I don't pass, but my body is fem as fuck, so I've been getting weird stares from old ladies driving a lot.

>>6182036
I don't know. I've been transitioning for 3 years but I haven't ever left the house. My groceries and hormones are delivered and instructed to be put in my delivery chute, That I had installed in my door.
I exercise all within my own home and walk multiple km by pacing down my hallway and never answer the door. I practice voice, mannerism using YouTube clips. But I'm too afraid to leave and go outside

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>>6182036
>Be me
>Be 19 / MtF
>Work shitty retail hours
>At least I get to wear a cute apron
>Pass except for voice so extreme androfemme boimode
>Have to put the cardboard in the compactor late at night
>Struggle with the barrel a little
>Finally get it to the compactor
>Security pulls around
>10/10 guy gets out
>Muscles and his hair, ugghhh he looks perfect
>"Hey can I help you with that?"
>Nod yes
>(Inner monologue: DON'T FUCK THIS UP)
>"Here let me get the compactor door for you, I don't know why they make us lock these stupid things."
>"Need anything else?" with "that smile" everyone knows the one I mean
>Without thinking say, "No I'm good!"
>goddamnit.exe
>Expression leaves his face and he walks away back to the car.
>Get rid of the cardboard feeling even worse now.
>Go back inside, finish up my shift, go home, take a shower, lay in bed wondering why I can't find anyone.

Ended up crying for about a good hour that night. Good times.

what does being bi mean again?

>>6247268
Means you take it up the ass but also lick pussies.

>>6247257
100 percent straight OP. Not a doubt in the world.

First for cocklust!

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>tfw fat

First for we also deserve pink triangles!

(2/2)

Im sure there's other stuff but I want to get into the meat of it since this is long already. I've been playing with my asshole quite a bit lately. Feels good man. REALLY GOOD. Almost felt like my first time having sex, but way better! Been doing this for about a week and half now at least a few times a day, more on the weekends when im home alone. Ordered a dildo online the other day, really looking forward to it getting here. Ive had intense 'urges' and 'fantasies' of getting fucked, sometimes multiple times a day. Almost like I was possesed or something. I remember masturbating in the new normal way I do it the other day and some awfully feminine sounds were coming out of me?? Ive also been biting my lip in that sexy way that chicks do sometimes when I masturbate lately, almost like a reflex. Hard to resist it feels so good...I dont know if I can go back to the old way I was jerking it before now...

Very rarely have I had urges like this for hetero sex. Yeah I like hot girls, but possession? But guys still kind of wierd me out.

Tried looking at gay porn. It sucks. Didn't find anything good. Plus guys bodies seem wierd to me. All the hair and shit. Although I have seen some hot guys, I still like the way the female body looks better. And when I see a hot chick I still want to fuck her. Although sometimes I almost wish they had a dick so they could fuck me. Saw a sort of masculine short haired chick at the grocery store the other day that I had the hots for. Annnd jerked it to bailey jay. What the hell man.

>>6246707
(2/2) bonus edition:

What im wondering about is why I never seemed to notice guys before. Once I started playing with myself in this way its like a switch went off in my mind, because before that they weren't even on my radar, at least consiously I suppose...could my denial have been so strong that I didnt even know it myself...

At the same time fucking guys myself doesnt seem to appeal much right now. Id rather fuck a girl if that was the case. Im guessing that could be a problem if I hook up with another bottom or middle of the road guy...

Although blowjobs seem interesting...dont think id be ready for that yet. I wonder if this is still just hangups im getting over, still find it hard to believe that I could be bi. But it does feel right. Despite being confused I feel happy I guess, and at peace. Things make more sense in a way now, and in other ways not so much...

Haven't came out to anyone yet, might be a few that suspect it though. Haven't hooked up yet either. Still trying to wrap my head around all of this.

Send help please

(2/2) bonus edition:

What im wondering about is why I never seemed to notice guys before. Once I started playing with myself in this way its like a switch went off in my mind, because before that they weren't even on my radar, at least consiously I suppose...could my denial have been so strong that I didnt even know it myself...

At the same time fucking guys myself doesnt seem to appeal much right now. Id rather fuck a girl if that was the case. Im guessing that could be a problem if I hook up with another bottom or middle of the road guy...

Although blowjobs seem interesting...dont think id be ready for that yet. I wonder if this is still just hangups im getting over, still find it hard to believe that I could be bi. But it does feel right. Despite being confused I feel happy I guess, and at peace. Things make more sense in a way now, and in other ways not so much...

Haven't came out to anyone yet, might be a few that suspect it though. Haven't hooked up yet either. Still trying to wrap my head around all of this.

Send help please

Well. Good. Congratulations

>>6246636
Damn nigga you fucked up. Should have waited at least to see if you will pass. There is no putting the cat back in the bag on this one, it's out and it's out forever.

The first person I told wound up telling everybody too, even though they promised they'd tell nobody. I learned the hard way that coming out as a tranny should not be done to a single individual unless they legally are required to keep your secrets.

My advice to all those still in the closet: do not tell a single person until you are ready for every single person in your life to know. I'd strongly advise waiting until you pass, or waiting to see if your identity settles into some sort of in-between state such as femboys, and such things.

That said I wish you luck, OP. I know how much it sucks to have everyone find out when you only wanted to tell one person. Shit sucks.

>>6246636
a similar thing happened to me

jic you hadn't been thinking about this yet, even if people react well and say they accept you that's really only a good first step. like, it's gonna be rocky for the next couple of years or so. just make sure to try to make them feel as comfortable as possible and you should be ok

Eh, you have to realize it's only degrading if you think of it that way/only sleep with complete jerks.

I'm a vers bottom simply by virtue that I don't have a super sensitive dick so topping gets boring, but I don't let that mean that I'm just some cum dump for a guy, I respect the fact that I'm enjoying sex for being sex, and it's only degrading the second I let a guy use me not for my own pleasure.

>>6246254
Maybe I gave the wrong impression. I'm OP and a top, I just don't know how to not think this way

>>6246505
Sounds like you are a bottom but think you would hate yourself if you bottomed.

>>6246038
Trip on hips

>>6246038
>"my daughter was raped last year because she used a men's restroom and someone in with her figured out her 'secret'. You won't be safe until you can blend in with men."
>I have no idea how to react

He was hitting on you. The correct reaction was to get on your knees and suck his cock.

>raped in a public bathroom
fake