Why do transbians typically go for cis lesbians as a first choice and not other transbians?
>>6260701
*as far as dating goes
Because even trannies don't want to date trannies.
>>6260701
Because I'm attracted to females and vagina. I don't want to date another transbian
Do you/would you wear a shirt that shows off your sexuality?
Pic related, I like the shirt but worried about it being too obviously sexual in nature.
>>6260507
hope this design isn't too up front
should I buy this hat
Maybe, but it'd probably have to be subtle or of interesting design.
I say wear that shirt if you wanna advertise to 'daddies' that you're looking. Why not?
Cis Lesbian General: Hair Care Edition
What kind of hair do you have and how do you manage it? Favorite products? What kind of hair does your dream girl have? Is she a blonde, brunette, or redhead? Do you like it long or short? Pixie cuts are pretty based tbqh. With a dusting of freckles? Hnnnnng
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Damaged goods : >>6251499
SWEET GLORIOUS JESUS I CAN POST MY WAIFU AGAIN
>>6260101
I shampoo and air dry.
That's all.
How boring.
My hair looks p good though.
Oh, also thanks to whoever posted that really adorable composer several threads back, because I masturbated to her.
YAY IMAGES
>>6260115
Were you going into withdrawal?
literally figuratively a metaphor.
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Previous thread >>6258858
>tfw my fake marriage is sexless
first for we love you fi!
its like you're not even trying anymore with these editions
Hi.
My plan was to go off to college and finally start hormones before I got even uglier as a man. I just finished my freshman year, and after many postponements, a skipped doctor's appointment, and a period of denial, I still haven't started HRT. Have I waited too long? I am 6 months into my 19th year of life, and I had kind of told myself that my 19th birthday was kind of a major deadline and that i perhaps should give up. I've been having worse dysphoria lately and I'm scared that I won't even pass. Despite my slim figure, I have weirdly broad shoulders (how do I hide this?) (and I just don't know if something is weird about my rib cage???)
Sorry.
>>6259762
Additional info: when moving out of my dorm, I impulsively decided to keep my recommendation letter for HRT after almost giving up on the whole thing, so should I go for it?
>>6259762
I'm about 4 years older than you are and I'm going for it.
Ask in /mtfg/ if you'll pass if you're insecure
>>6259775
Go for it
No, really. Have his wonderful picture of how I want my boyfriend, hehe.
Last thread: >>6252057
Faggots.
>>6257618
Hell yeah.
Plus, someone made a thread literally two minutes after mine, ugh.
Why are university lgbt societies filled with permatriggered tumblr faggots`with purple hair? I just wanted to meet some decent people and maybe get sum fuk now and then.
What's lgbt's opinion on pic related
>>6257066
Cleanse it with nuclear fire.
Bigots that lable everyone else as bigots to hide their own bigotry
Nihilistic.
Did any of your friends or family members "know" before you told them? Or at least have some sort of clue?
>>6256594
one close friend had some ideas. Only because I'd known him for years and never talked about girls while everyone else did.
>>6256594
If you think they know, they KNOW
>>6256623
This is a safe assumption
I'd be ok with not having a boyfriend if I was only allowed to transition already
I'd be ok with having to wait if I could only get a boyfriend.
Instead, I will continue to be ugly and unlovable for as long as they deem fit to waste my time.
wat do.
>>6256233
I am confused on how not transitioning would help you get a boyfriend. As early as 3 months into HRT I started having guys slipping me their numbers at work.
I have the solution. Lie to your doctor/psyc and say that you are self meding. then they will panic and help you get on prescribed hormones quickly
>>6256263
I'm ftm, and that's not what I said or what I meant.
I guess I could get a straight guy if I really tried and settled, but all the GIRLFRIEND GIRLFRIEND GIRLFRIEND GIRLFRIEND would make it too exhausting to be worth the trouble.
Being trans and not passing for shit is a dealbreaker for everyone.
>>6256270
That's not how it works in my country. Self-medding won't change shit.
Are non binary genders real or just a delusion/mental illness?
I've always felt like a weirdo playing a role, and up until last year I though everyone else felt like me and only pretended to "feel" like a gender and actually feel comfortable in their own skin. I thought trans people and "gender people" were delusional attention whores, because people don't actually feel or identify with a certain gender, right? Long story short, I realised that I was the weird one, and later stumbled upon a comic about an agender person. It blew me away, because it described everything I've been feeling and questioning my whole life. "Oh, so I'm agender maybe? It really fits, I should look closer into this". Well that was a mistake. 99% of all non binary people seem to be under 15, mentally ill, very angry and hostile, and really fucking stupid ("Omg I went to the doctor and had to fill in a form and I could only choose male or female!! Fucking cis scum! I drew a new box and named it "MAGICAL" and checked that, I'm so cool. Fuck the binary!").
I know what I feel, and I know I've felt like this since I was a very small child, and it has been a genuine source or worry, depression and anxiety for me. But looking at other non binary people, I'm starting to wonder if maybe I'm just mentally ill or have a mental disorder, because I sure as hell don't feel like I have anything in common with those people. Thoughts?
Teenagers are usually retarded and feel the need to spew out anything they are thinking about.
Some years ago they were prevented from doing that with strict parental control.
A few later after that a big boom of teenager culture was created. So you can draw a line from rock to punk to goth to grunge to whatever teenagers became in the naughties.
These days it's not enough to wear studded leather jackets or have ripped t-shirts with anarchy or punk painted on them, it's just not original and authentic enough - now they have to go inwards and be non-binary demi somethings.
Bless their silly souls.
>>6255610
Honestly unless someone takes hormones and such things, altering their body drastically, I do not feel like someone can qualify as non-binary. I feel someone needs the physical aspect of things in order to truly be non-binary. Seeing someone just say they're agender or non-binary or whatever and call it a day is like seeing a MtF say they're a girl without doing anything about it other than throwing on a dress.
I say this as a physical non-binary. I can't even tell people I'm non-binary because of the vast number of attention whores, snowflakes, and people claiming it yet doing nothing about it. The label carries a lot of negative connotations now.
I have a hard time accepting anyone who says they're "non-binary" without either being, or making themselves physically fit (transitioning) the role of non-binary.
>>6255645
>say they're a girl without doing anything about it other than throwing on a dress.
Isn't this what SJW and most normies think tho?
Today, I had my first appointment with a gender therapist. Although I was really scared at first, she made me feel very comfortable by using my real name, my proper pronouns… I felt like I was really honest with her and I could finally tell a specialist how I've felt deep inside. She told me how the gender correction process looks in my fucked up country, what can I do, that she needs to perform some tests to exclude some diseases and then we can start HRT. I came back so happy and excited, that I made a walk in a city I've never been to before, eventually getting lost there and dropping my phone (it no longer works) on the ground trying to open GPS maps.
But I somehow reached my home, asking people for directions (it was a really good day because everyone ma'amed me… i was fucking joyful and happy like an idiot). So anyways… then I had a talk with my parents. They told me that I act differently at home than when I'm talking with other people, that I'm undeniably a man and I try to become a girl because I hadn't been accepted as a boy. My mum told me to drop all contacts with all people that know about me at least for a month (though she told me she was actually being "too generous", that a whole year would be perfect in her opinion), to try to be a boy (by going to clubs, gyms)… She told me I'll never know without doing so and she is 90% sure that she's right and it'll help me realise I am a boy though. Also she wants to meet the therapist… I'm not scared of what she's gonna say to her… I'm more scared that it may become a family crisis… that they may even forbid me from seeing the therapist. I'm a highschool student and I live with them which means I should always agree with their conditions…
What do…
I sorta feel she may be right and I don't have guts to argue with her… but I do really feel awful in my body and I want to change it if it's possible. I can't see myself as a dude, I find myself ugly, I hate my genitals, I hate my every masculine trait. I'm not misandric though – I love my boyfriend and I think he's a wonderful man. I also love my dad… I really don't find manliness worse or anything, it just doesn't much seem to fit me. But maybe it should? Maybe I'm just deluded?
>>6252988
Tell her you don't need a month to figure it out and that you've been figuring it out your whole life.
Also remind her normal guys never think of being a woman, and in fact most would resent the idea.
>>6253150
Have I? I never had much friends outside the internet; I don't have much experience with social situations and stuff.
Hey, /lgbt/, I have a question for you. Has 4chan affected your sexuality, or your fetishes in any way? I'll start.
>19
>male
>Gay
I saw a webm on /gif/ once and got into bi cuckold. Something about a guy blowing another man in front of his wife/girlfriend is pretty hot to me.
>>6252643
Yeah... 4chan exposed me to porn I otherwise wouldn't have looked at before, so I started watching gay porn instead of straight porn and I pretty much lost all attraction to women. Eventually I realised this and had to accept what's been deep in the back of my head for the last 10 years - that I was gay.
It's been a year since then, I'm openly gay now.
>>6255372
pretty much the same for me.
Probably. I'd be completely straight if it weren't for femboys and stuff like pic related. Problem is, I can only find this kinda thing online. I've never met a passable femboy in real life.
Did sucking your first cock changed you?
Bicurious messed up anon here
>>6251731
it made me realize what i was missing out on.
yes, all that cum i swallowed from cocks integrated into my DNA
I'm now 86% cock
>>6251731
I'm kind of curious about this too.
I want to try sucking a dick. I even had an opportunity yesterday but I was drunk and had to be somewhere in a few hours.
I was also really insecure that I was going to fuck up or something. I guess when we were making out I did okay, except I'm sure how I kept apologizing about thinking I was awful at making out was a huge turn off, despite him still having a boner the entire time (because I couldn't keep my hand off of the crotch of his jeans).
What do you think about make a mark on every HIV positive person?
>>6250446
No, because then people won't bother getting tested at all.
>>6250520
What?
>>6250446
If by mark you mean quarantine and cremate them, then yes. There's never going to be a cure, it's just going to keep spreading.
Prove me wrong
>>6249779
Some people are born with DINER'S, DRIVE-IN'S, OR DIVE'S, these don't determine if you're a guy or a fieri, you EGG scum
>>6249779
Everyone else on the Food Network seems like an asshole, I bet Guy Fieri is a really nice guy.
>>6253484
hes supposed to be very homophobic