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I need help with my voice
>https://clyp.it/ph4ecurl

I can fake a voice that sort of sounds ok, but it's sooooooo fake.
So I really need help with finding out how to entirely eliminate chest resonance, without making me need to strain or "squeeze" and limit my voice volume etc.
At 00:29 my voice kind of loosened, and I didn't have as much strain on it, but I don't know how I do it.

I'm even sort of trying to find a reset, so I can start over, because I'm really stuck.

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What is a 'chaser'?

Are chasers bad?

If so, why?

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Are asexuals welcome here?

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I JUST WANT A BF THAT CAN HOLD ME IN HIS ARMS AND SOMETIMES BULLY ME AND MAYBE PLAY VIDEO GAMES. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND CUTE BOYS NEAR ME. I FUCKING HATE THE SUBURBS.

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I date mostly mtf trans and have had some refer to me as a chaser.

I really just prefer their personality and mannerisms. I don't want to gain that social stigma in the community though and limit my dating options.

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Have you ever had "the gay talk"


Did they tell you or did you tell them?

How did they/you take it?

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What are you in the LGBTQIA?

What is a man?

What is a woman?

What is masculinity?

What is femininity?

What is mental illness? (Try not to answer this with an appeal to authority fallacy)

If you could cure your LGBT issue for yourself, WOULD you?

Should people be allowed to investigate, study, or SEEK these cures? Is it moral to suppress science on understanding LGBT issues, under the reasoning of protecting minorities?

Is it ok to speak about objective problems about LGBT groups, or is it trans/homophobic, and thus, we should deny reality?

In an objective way, irrelevant to the cure being a thing / wanted, is being whatever you are (gay, lesbian, asexual, trans) positive? If so, why?

Do you realize that "being yourself" is practically a fallacy, since you can change who your "self" is? Do you realize you can often change yourself, your behavior, and your habits? Have you made any positive changes to habits recently?

Is choosing to be open, and embrace whatever you are in the LGBT, the most important thing to your happiness? Is there absolutely no other factor / factors which are important, of which you would consider compromising your feelings on sexuality, to be happy? IE: family, health, friends, career, finances, spirituality, ect? Would you throw absolutely all other parts of your life away to keep your sexuality on a pedastol of importance? If not, what would the carrot / stick ratio be to make you consider compromising?

Do you use substances, or have you? Which? Why? How often?

Do you self harm, or have you? how? how often? Why?

How sexually active are you? Do you sometimes feel bad after sexual activity?

Do you think internalized negative feelings toward whatever you have (assuming you have them) are ONLY because social stigma? Have you considered perhaps some of the effects on your mind cause distress? Do you think others who are not LGBTQIA who are bullied on the same, or similar scale as the average LGBT person would face similar effects?

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What do you want out of a partner?
What do you offer as a partner?

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doggo edition
• Informed consent providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
• Makeup for beginners: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
• Male vs Female measurement data: https://www.bwc.ohio.gov/downloads/blankpdf/ErgoAnthropometricData.pdf
• Correct hormone levels: http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/hrt_ref.htm
• Checking your levels: http://www.privatemdlabs.com/lp/Female_Hormone_Testing.php
• Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
• Transition time lines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
• buddi
• Voice Training: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/1ske7b/mtf_voice_training_regimen/
• Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
• IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat#mtfg
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I suffered SO MUCh through highschool for having a crush on my ex best friend, i swore i'd never fall for a straight guy again but i failed. Im falling in love with my now best friend, i had a dream the other day where we were sleeping together and he started kissing me, it felt so real
what do i do

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hey guys

im a hiv paranoid parrot. im just tired of every oral sex go and made a test. last time the counselour told me that the only risk for oral is to suck a penis, if you have a bleeding cut on your mouth
some days ago i gave oral to a girl of my university
i was reading some stuff about oral sex on a woman and HIV. i really dont know what to think.
lots of places say there is a chance, and there is others that say it couldnt happen, and theres no reported cases.

what you guys think about it?
you guys use some barrier at performing oral sex on a girl?

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Hey /LGBT/! :D

I'll give you a little back story on my life. I'm 23 years young ;), MTF just started HRT about 6 months ago and i've never been happier!! Although, in the past i've dealt with sexual abuse from my mother (she's not in the picture anymore), and from that i've developed PTSD, I also have BPD and am bi-polar. Like I said I started HRT 6 months ago and I feel really good about doing something for myself, also I started going to a gym to build a more ladylike body. On top of that my daddy and I decided to move to ontario to live at my stepmoms place with her son, well call him Vic. So, my mind has been under a lot of stress from the excitement of HRT and the move to a new city where nobody knows me, unfortunately i've had a few flashbacks from that, I find anything that excites me a lot will trigger a flashback and 9-1-1 usually gets called. Since i've been with my few awesome family in ontario my step brother, Vic, told me he fell in love with me, he doesnt know im a MTF either.

I'm being followed by a new doctor here and he said he's aiming for a 5-7 year window to achieve everything i want aesthetically. I have a long way to go and its going to cost a lot but in the end it'll make me happy.

>>So my question to YOU!<<

> How were your experiences with HRT and is feeling suicidal normal? ( I am more than usual. )

> What should I do about Vic, should I tell him about my MTF transformation or just let love figure it out?

> Any advice from other MTF on here about their journey?

> Is there any exercises I can do to make my figure more feminine ?

Also heres a picture of me at about 3 months into HRT!

Let me know how I look guys :)! Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated!!!

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Like what if two homos get home from the club and realize they're both tops?

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would it be possible for jonas to have FFS results that would bring him within the same range as nicoles facial structure?

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>tfw you wake up so full of sadness, nausea, and terror that the only way you can force yourself out of bed is to imagine that your body is slowly being replaced with black obsidian of a sufficient strength to deal with your shitty life