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>>24846903
Get a normal hair style and work out more

>>24846903
Smile

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>>24847102
This is why I didn't smile

How old are you and what is your living situation?

Really basically: Most people meet their gf/bf by hanging around groups that they share an interest with, or even something like working at a similar place. By simply being around these people a lot, you are more likely to make connections. Things usually fall naturally into place as long as you continue interaction with the group.

This is a really unreliable way to get a gf, but its the most common. It requires you to be part of a community or group, and constantly interact with them over time.

Another method is to use dating apps. To use dating apps, you need to be willing to play the game right, as shallow as it might be. Think quantity over quality, but eventually you might meet someone you have a connection with.

Lastly you can just cold approach women anywhere you see them. This takes more practice than you are willing to do, and takes balls of steel, but if you can git gud at it, then its efficient as fuck.


But all I'm trying to say is you aren't going to make any meaningful connections if you can't relate to them in some way. Sounds like you are just interacting with girls you have nothing in common with. Stop your mindset of "I have to serve the girl or she will reject me". Put yourself first and filter out the girls that aren't worth your time.

>>24846911
>How old are you and what is your living situation?
27, seeking for a job. Haven't had the chance to make friends here because I moved a year ago more or less. And even back in my old city it was very difficult for me to meet new people or make new friends. The few times I've tried here, it ended up in basically nothing.

>This is a really unreliable way to get a gf, but its the most common. It requires you to be part of a community or group, and constantly interact with them over time.
Which I already have a more difficult time doing in the first place. If anything I'm seeking for a job precisely because I'm having a hard time meeting others. Loneliness has also taken its toll on me.

>Another method is to use dating apps.
All I find in Tinder are people I literally can't see myself connecting with, like, they're wildly different. They all want to party and to travel and to do this and that and that's just not me.

>Lastly you can just cold approach women anywhere you see them. This takes more practice than you are willing to do, and takes balls of steel, but if you can git gud at it, then its efficient as fuck.
I've thought of doing that. It makes me extremely anxious and I might come off as creepy. I don't think I can do this very well and I will suffer in the end. I've tried and... No.

>But all I'm trying to say is you aren't going to make any meaningful connections if you can't relate to them in some way. Sounds like you are just interacting with girls you have nothing in common with.
Thing is, I already have a difficult time relating to girls for whatever reason. And when I think I can relate to one, it turns out they don't seem to want to engage, so I was wrong I suppose.

>Stop your mindset of "I have to serve the girl or she will reject me". Put yourself first and filter out the girls that aren't worth your time.
I'm trying! But sometimes I feel like the girl will be great and it turns out she's not too interested in me.

>>24846666

I dont know OP, it seems you do use some kind of contacting service and in that case im not surprised, alls real serious relationship I ever had has been with people I initiated contact with irl, and then we moved over to kik and stuff when distance became an issue

Ii think the only time you need to look for a partner online is if you have some kind of issue, either social or your just dont have the time, or youre one some north pole science expedition far away from everything

Its probarbly not your personality OP maybe you could be the boring type, but that goes for alot of ppl

>>24846611
What games you play

>>24846611
ZealousZombie

Only multiplayer game I play atm is Titanfall 2. It's fun.

I am playing a lot of ffxv

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Here's one, don't have a pic of the other atm

nearly 3.5 years old

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>>24836285
also soz forgot to rate

7/10, fairly clean line work, but definitely needs colour to look good

here's part of my other one, I need to get a decent picture of it but it's in an awkward place to get all of it in on shot

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Male/23/916 Roseville
I'm pretty passionate about film, music, history, and manga.
Really looking for new people to hang out or talk with. Snapchat is acsrobertson

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>>24835603
Also, my Kik is ThesaurusRexo

>>24835404
>415
>straight

Nothing wrong with getting some extra courses to improve yourself. When I was in community college I saw much older people returning to school. You should definitely do it anon.

OP, where do you live, roughly?

To the point: do go to college and fuck the opinion of others. Go to college just to lean to do what you want without being cowed by others' opinions, if for no better reason. Go because it's fun to learn new shit. You Are Never Too Old To Learn New Shit.

Also, people will assume you are faculty which is kind of a lol in itself. Dress a bit professionalesque when you go.

FInal note... in many States in the USA, if you do well in CC, there is an easy route to the State's University. My gf came to California from out of State, did two years of CC and transferred to UC Berkeley to complete her 4 year degree. It is one of the easiest and most economical ways to get a good degree.

>>24847722
I'm in Denver and moved here for my career

>Money is of no problem
>Career is very stable and I work at a very big internationally recognized company
>I am just lonely,. and don't know how to spend my free time anymore

What is ur snap

It's a dude just fyi

>Sex
Male
>Age
20
>Sexual orientation
Straight
>In a relationship?
No
>MBTI
ENTJ
>Location
USA
>Race
White
>Birthplace
NJ, USA
>Religious beliefs
Agnostic
>Job/school
Training for a job now, school this fall I hope.
>Favorite books
1984
>Favorite movies/TV
Don't watch much. Nathan for You is prime though.
>Favorite music
House, Indie, Pop, Emo, Alternative, Synthpop, Pop Punk, Punk, Folk, Hip Hop, DnB, Hardcore, Post Hardcore, Thrash Metal, Classical, Future House, Future Funk, more.
>Favorite sports
Soccer (football)
>Favorite vidya
WoW Rockband, Osu, Rust, haven't played much lately.
>Hobbies
Music, songwriting, anime, video games, fitness, drugs, psychs, firearms, people, etc.
>Favorite color
Blue
>Do you believe in God?
I believe in something.
>Do you believe in ayyy lmaos?
We out here
>Do you believe in ghosts?
Maybe
>What happens when you die?
Who knows?
>Closest to death you have been?
Never had any close encounters really, almost got in a few accidents while my buddy was driving.
>Have you ever been in a car crash?
No
>Do you always wear a seatbelt?
Yea
>Worst injury you have ever had?
Never had a bad injury
>Favorite color
Again?
>Most scared you have ever been?
Experiencing sleep paralysis when I was younger.
>Spookiest experience you've ever had?
The sleep paralysis thing.
>Stupidest thing you've ever done?
Not sure.
>Shower before sex/oral?
V card but yea.
>Shower in morning or evening?
Both
>Do you wash your hands after you pee, every time?
Yea
>Do you drink/smoke/do drugs?
Yes/No ciggies/Yes
>Most difficult thing you have ever attempted
Idk
>Favorite 4chan boards
None, they all kinda suck.

>>24847569
>Are you fat?
No
>Favorite subreddits
Don't follow any.
>Are you a feminist?
No
>4chan or Reddit?
Both suck but at least I can find useful information on Reddit once in a while.
>Are you autistic?
No
>If you could have one wish, what is it?
That one of my businesses succeed so I can live that stable, cozy lifestyle.
>Dream job
As long as it's something I'm passionate about.
>Life goals
Having a nice wife and family. Being wealthy enough to never worry about money.
>Favorite animal
Not sure, I like arctic foxes.
>Favorite website
Youtube I guess.
>Worst memory
Losing my close friend to cancer.
>Best memory
My whole Junior year was great, probably my favorite year.
>Something you wish you were really good at
Singing
>Something you are really good at
Being rad as fuck.
>Biggest regret
I don't really have any.
>Greatest accomplishment
I haven't done anything insane. I'm not addicted to heroin so there's that.
>Something you hate
People who feel the need to constantly argue and be a dick. People need to settle the fuck down sometimes.
>Something you love
People
>Pic
I can send one if you add me.
>Contact info
Skype: werenotinchina
KiK: Tybglazer

18/M/California

Just looking for a weeb who's given up on ever escaping being a weeb.

Kik is kawaiidesukurumi

21/m/Georgia

Not really a weeb but I don't have alot of friends to talk about anime, music, and other junk with

Kik: inconsiderateshark

26/m/sac cal
Kik: jakethesnake3713

>>24844689
Please add me
haha_andthenwhat

Bumperoni

Add @triptate

>>24843495
you want dick pics?

>>24843534
Yes

>>24843495
Add me on kik @12_incher_male_19

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>>24836212
you r completely alright but make sure to keep tht mustache thing at bay

also this wig was $5 and i'm living the dream

>>24836213
thank you!

Lose some weight and go out more

I'm impressed. Go on.

>>24846610
Should i post more?

>>24846622
please do!

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28 m straight

Justin want someone to chat with while I work tonight. Can be anyone, about anything, but I'm not gay/bi so don't bother trying if that's what you're after.

Kik: hintofhemlock

In Florence SC on business. Straight 30 m Kik nicholast86

26/m/843

Looking to hang out and chat with anyone. Drinks and 420 friendly.

kik: idegu