25+

does it get better r-right guys?
i'm turning 25 this year
i'm sad

>>37415233
I'm content. there's nothing I can do to stop time so I'll just go with the flow

>>37415233
tfw 26 in a few months

I hate my life and constantly wish for death, but lack the spark to actually do it. Lacking a spark (in all areas of life) is ironically enough the reason I crave death in the first place.

>>37415233
25 feels much worse than it really is. It's a quarter of a century so we tend to make a big deal out of it.

>t. 31 year old who went into depression at 25, gave up around 28, and only now is getting his life in order.

>>37415709
>>37415656
>>37415288

but, where did we go wrong? can we be fixed?

>>37415844
>can we be fixed?
yes
it takes a lot of work and doing something different

>>37415844
you can fix the career/money aspect. anything else is up to debate though

>29 this year
>just now starting to feel like I should give up on having the happy family life I always wanted

I wonder, should I even bother to keep looking? All the women are fat ugly and bitchy, taken, or have kids from another guy already.

>>37415844
>but, where did we go wrong

For me it was all downhill since I was 20 years old.

Loads of shit happened that year, but more importantly that was when I discovered 4chan.

> can we be fixed?

Sure, why not? I'm in the process of doing so.

We all have our own problems and so we have different solutions, but for me it was cutting back on just about everything.

I used to be a NEET that shitposted 16 hours a day on this website. I now only post here for a n hour or two at night and on weekends. I'm also looking for a job now.


A really really important process for me was discovering and then applying the KonMari method to my life. It's about physical material things but it can also be applied to everything else in your life in general.

The short version of the KonMari method is to take everything in your life, hold it in your hands, and ask yourself if it makes you happy.

If it does, keep it. if it doesn't make you happy, get rid of it.


Obviously some things like mp3s and activities like video games and shitposting aren't things that you can hold in your hands, but you can still experience them & try to be as objective as possible and see if they bring joy still.


The same is true of things like fapping and however else you spend your time. Is it really making you happy?

I've thrown out about 90% of my shit, some of it dating back to 16 years if not more, and the 10% I've kept just makes me happy whenever I see it or hold it or experience it.


The same is true of my digital things as well. I've deleted all of my dumb fucking meme pictures and most of my bookmarks and unfollowed people from twitter and unsubbed from a lot of youtube channels. I've deleted 90% of my music on my ipod as well, etc.


My life is finally my own again. I have this clarity and sense of purpose that I haven't felt since the pre-internet days.

>>37415989
>I wonder, should I even bother to keep looking?
Because you're still young, nigga you ain't 40. You can get a 25 year old grill. You are already setting yourself up for failure, I bet you never really put any effort into it and you ass already wants to quit. Give yourself a chance to be successful and put effort into your self, body,mind;etc.

Before you give up, try as hard as you can. since you are at the end of your rope, might as well try to fly because what else do you have to lose? look at what you can potentially gain. A gf,kids,family,etc. you can have those things if you want them and put in effort. it's going to suck and it's not easy but the alternative is giving up and having that feeling like you lost out is much worse. Even if you fail to obtain a gf, you still improved yourself and you can't lose when you improve yourself no matter how far behined you think you are.

I was fat as fuck living the 300lb life, now I'm 212 lbs. Feel great and haven't been this weight since HS. I'm 29 too, girls are giving me looks that aren't "eewww go away creep" they're positive stares. Make it happen

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>tfw I always randomly saw these threads pop up last year
>"haha I'm only 24 ill leave r9k and change things around and wont have to be like them"
>turned 25 four months ago
At least I can be p-part of the c-club now

im 27 too, and i dont believe i still the same retard

>>37415204

What hurts is that at time goes on it feels shorter, perspective making me feel as if that year I wasted away was not only meaningless but just gone in almost no time at all.

>>37415989
Just go for a young girl.

Girls almost naturally want older guys. They don't want "silly boys XD".

The last time I hooked up with a girl I was 25 and she was 16 (totally legal here). I was a skinnyfat emo stoner . If you play your cards right it shouldn't be hard dating some college (or high school?) girl.

30 here

>shit dead end, minimun wage job
>live in shitty town where rent is cheaper
>$50,000 student debt due to worthless degrees that I took too long to complete
>Totally fucked up bitcoins (bought 2 @ $30 back in teh day, the hard drive they're on is unrecoverable.) Made similar mistake with ETH

but but

>have beautiful gf that I want to marry

>>37416289
This is crazy fucking true.

I remember the summers when I was kid felt like an eternity, now I'm looking at my phone and realize just how fucking short and fast three months is.

When I was a teen a year felt like a year. When I was 18-20 years old feels so much longer than this last decade.

31 here, gets way better, I make more, have more going for me then I did at 25, 25 yo woman love a stable guy with with a house and shit. Hang in their anon

>>37416389
the only stable thing about me is the smell of my room. it's a pig pen

>>37415204
Hey man me too. Happy birthday bro

Here's to only having 7 or 8 good years left, tops!

>tfw secretly hoping the wall is real so someone will love me

>>37416166
I actually do that, from time to time. Didn't know it had a name. But I always go back to square one.

>>37416220
We can be part of the club anon

>>37416289
holy shit, this. New Year feels like it just happened

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>>37416442
>New Year feels like it just happened
yep. I remember Halloween was around the corner and now it's going to be summer

>>37416442
>I actually do that, from time to time. Didn't know it had a name. But I always go back to square one.

Well it's this Japanese lady's specific method of doing things. She's written a few books.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w1-HMMX_NR8

She tells you exactly what to start with and then what else you should organize, in a specific order. Even how to organize your clothes.

Because she's Shinto she also believes in thanking every single piece of clothing and other items that you throw out. It's therapeutic even if you're not Shinto.

She's all about keeping the house clean and in ordered but I also applied her method to my life as a whole

So what's new everyone? I've been looking into buying a Himalayan kitten. I've been waiting for long haired breeds to pop up at the shelters around here but it doesn't seem to happen, so i'll just buy one

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>26
>KHV
>$9/job
>college drop out
>life with mommy
>zero pleasure in life
>no goals

>31
>fucked dudes for 10 years. some stupid chick says she can change me.
> cave into her whining and fuck her. Nowhere near as tight as a butthole.
> drop her fast because I'm not satisfied. she begs me to be her bf. tell her to fuck off.
> I'd rather stay home watching the world implode than deal with either men or women.

Fuck this shit. I hope to God I never have physical contact with another human being as long as I live.

Turning 26 in a few months.

My parents are so oppressive that I'm probably gonna have to run away and burn the bridge behind me if I want to actually accomplish anything with my life.

>"Hey anon, come help me in the garden! You're not doing anything important are you?"
>Actually I was just fixing to fill out some job applications
>"Nonsense, you're probably just playing video games or something"
>No, really. I was trying to do something productive before you interrupted me.
>"Bah, you can do that later. I need your help pulling weeds and fixing the lawnmower. Idle hands are the devil's workshop after all."
Several hours later
>Return from the fields exhausted
>I'm too tired to fill out job apps
>I'll just take a 4chan/anime/porn break to unwind first.
One year later
>Rinse and repeat

On the positive side, a female hominid actually expressed sexual interest in me for the first time in my life yesterday. I'm still giddy from it.
It'll never work out though ;-;

>>37416844
do gay dudes react to you fucking a woman as you being a traitor like lesbians do?

>>37416967
>a female hominid actually expressed sexual interest in me
how did that go down?

>>37416967
well, with that attitude of course isn't gonna work, but I understand you. Just have fun.

>25, 26 soon
>bi since high school but never acted on the gay stuff
> finally lost virginity this year (fucking a guy)
>almost started a relationship with another guy
>at a crossroads
>give up on women, go full gay and find a bf
>or try tinder, give women one more shot, even though I'm afraid of them due to high school experiences and reading countless woman hate threads

Well, where do I go from here?

What advice would you give to someone who is about to turn 21?

I'm sorry, but I don't want to end up 25 and in the same positions you find yourselves in.

>>37417145
21-22 are unironically the last years of your life to switch things around before doors start to close...

its not a meme

>>37416985
I was called that once by some dude on an mmo. I don't know enough people irl to be considered a traitor. I am not apart of the lgbt community. I stay in my house all day not giving a shit.

stupid bitches and faggots come to me wanting sex. I don't seek them out. I'd rather be left alone but someone always drags me down to fuck them.

I know it seems like an /r9k/ fantasy but it sucks. I'm not even good looking. I should not be having sex but I always wind up with some stupid whore who wants to use me whether they be male or female. I honestly hope I don't live to see 40.

I turned 26 yesterday. I failed Physics 1 and I'm not sure if I passed Calculus 2 yet. I passed C++ programming with a C. I feel ridiculous going through this still and I'm not sure what to do. Anyway its Summer and I don't have a job. I'm pushing myself to learn game programming. I just feel so pathetic. I need to get diagnosed with ADHD so I can get on Adderal.

I feel so old and so behind.

>>37417396
You kinda sound normie if you have some social skills to the extent that people want to constantly fuck you.

I'm not gonna lie, I'm kinda jealous of you gay dudes. I feel like it must be easier to get sex and whatnot since there's so many thirsty mofos out there.

>>37417145
advice is pretty worthless, desu if you're here you're already on a downward spiral.
>>37417200
sort of true it's more like 21-24 though. every year people forgive you less and less for being fucking weird

>>37415656
same man, I'm turning 23 this month and I don't see any hope in sight

>>37417439
>I'm kinda jealous of you gay dudes
same. they can get sex no matter what as long as they're not hideous or under age 35.

on the flipside, the 'happy gay couple' on TV seems to be a manufactured meme. these dudes do not settle down into loving relationships

>>37417439
I'm normie in the sense that I've had sex. everything else about me is pure robot. I stay in my house all day, I hate interacting with people, I hate going out. hell, I even hate seeing my family!

I don't know why or how I'm so sexually active. I've been sexually active since I was 7. was molested at that age by my 15 year old baby sitter.

sex just follows me around like a little demon on my shoulder. Sex is easy to get as a gay guy but I feel like a piece of shit when I do have sex.

it's not satisfying at all and I'm just really bitter. the only thing that satisfies me is that I'm destroying western civilization by not reproducing.

I relish in whatever article that comes out saying men aren't getting married. I hope it destroys our society and I vote for the people I feel are going to fuck up our world the fastest.

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>>37416352
She is going to leave you or never respect you, if you are not actively trying to better yourself.

Minimum wage is pathetic, any warehouses near you? They typically pay double or triple minimum wage. Start there.

>>37416989
To give me some minimum social interaction I take martial arts classes.
But mostly I'm just the weird guy of the class who rarely speaks but is really good.

Anyway, I get paired with qt new gril. I've seen her in passing on my way to class before but she's never joined until now.
She's very energetic and enthusiastic which is really refreshing.
Today we are learning how to escape a standing grappling attack.
She keeps turning the technique into a weird hug and trying to kick me in the groin.
At one point she reaches down and grabs my butt with a little "mHmmm" before leaping back for another kick.
On further reflection, she may have been trying to grab my face and kiss me at some point too. But I just interpreted it as a really prolonged and clumsy attempted headbutt at the time.

>>37417046
I only say that because she's nearly half my age. ;_;

>>37415233
No, but you start giving less of a shit about how awful your life is.

>>37418089
kek so she is 12?
also maybe you should actually do those job applications

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I turned 26 yesterday and I still feel young but maybe it's because I've never believed in the systematic way of living life? Girl, house kids.. nah. Quite fun to weeb it up throughout those years instead. Also I look young as FUCK so I should be able to pass for a twink until at least 30.

>>37415955
Take hard hallucinogenics, they create new pathways in your brain and can "reset" you so you don't fall into old thought patterns.

>>37415204
I'm 27 too op. It's really happening now.

>>37418089
>I only say that because she's nearly half my age. ;_;
>i'm 26
bruh what the fuck are you doing

i felt bad for you from your first post...but jesus...please kys immediately

>>37418768
well he said nearly she could theoretically be 16...
...

>>37418822
26 and 16 is still a huge ass gap. I'm 20 and I don't feel comfortable going below 18.

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>>37416166
Did you make this thread yesterday? I enjoyed reading it.

>>37418862
The problem here is you.

27 here. I thought at some point, I'd stop wanting to fuck girls, and it would stop bothering me that I never had.
Hasn't happened yet. The only difference now is that I'm tired of jacking off and I don't do it much anymore.

>>37420044
Just get a prostitute dude and you'll see it's no big deal, it might help you getting it out of your mind. Planning on doing the same, also 27 almost

>>37420196
That'd require a big chunk of money. The reason I don't approach chicks isn't that I'm ugly, it's that I'm poor as dirt.

Being sad as fuck.

Starting to exercise more, going to build some muscle.

Over the last year I lost all the fat I gained froma med I was on in highschool for anxiety and insomnia, so I look better than I had.

Just got broken up with by my oneitis, poster about it >>37419318

I just want her back, but I know I shouldn't obsess over this.

On summer break, back in college finishing up my degree. Gonna work on some unrelated personal projects and on hobbies during the break.

I have some nice scholarship stuff going and my school paid for, but I still am very unhappy, so hung up on things with the ex.

How do I stop caring?

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>>37415204
wait till you turn 37....it's no longer depressing, but just fucking despair.

You're supposed to be young until you're 35

>>37420209
nigga youll spend $200 tops, $150-100 realistically, less if you do research and have low standards. thats literally nothing for peace of mind.

>>37417411
Calculus is the biggest breeze for me but physics is the shit hole of all my academic performance, it's just so much memorization of boring ass formulas and dreaded word problems I just always feel so not motivated to study for that and do horrible.
>tfw I have to take 2 more physics classes to finish up my computer science degree
Just kill me now

Travel.
Get Fit.
Have Fun.

You'll be 80 in a flash if you don't do shit.

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Get on my level, faggot.
>officially a wizard tomorrow

>>37420476
What powers you getting?

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>>37420554
Lightning.
>You have been muted for 8 seconds, because your comment was not original
The fuck? Who else is talking about lightning on /r9k/?

>>37420245
It takes time. And you'll always feel nostalgia towards her. You just have to remind yourself that if she was the person for you, you'd be still together. remembering good things is easier than remembering the not so good. Don't forget that.

I just want to wake up 5 years old again come home from school and play outside with people and then come inside and watch toonami. I just want to redo my life. Those days of actually being happy seem so far away now. I don't think I've been happy in Almost 3 years

>>37420766
i wish there was a drug that could make me feel like a child again.

>>37420678
While I agree in theory I don't know if i can pull it off in practice.

We still fuck some, and she still has feelings obviously, but she is a little crazy. I am too so that isn't the most positive mix, but when things are good they are so fucking good.

Have only had a few relationships, all of them had girls that were much worse than this and with no where near the same level of sexual compatability.

I will try my best, but I am not going to rule out trying to get back with her in the future if it pans out that way, but not gonna close off my options since we truly aren't together.

Basically working on saving money, getting in shape, finishing my degree and having fun and I'll see where it goes.

Thanks for the good advice, though.

>>37420766
>>37420788
I actually feel better about myself now (except for my OCD) than I did as a child I would say

I always had issues fitting in, and I was very insecure about being short. But now I've accepted my height and while I have trouble finding new friends, particularly female, I know that it's possible at least.

Also, I can go wherever I want now and come home any time I want, and school in general sucked ass and I don't have to worry about that anymore.

>tfw 28
>alcohol is my only friend
>on the bux
>last 10 years of my life spent in front of the computer
>too fucked up to change

I'm like the loser from the high school football team whose only achievement in life is almost winning state who brags about it well into their 50s.

>>37415844
I could probably be fixed if I had any reason to live at all

>>37420830
What is your achievement?

>>37420870
It's NEET tier achievements, too fucking embarrassing to say. Please don't make me say it.

>>37420381
Yes, I don't even have that kind of money. My life is fucked, friendo.

>girl at work is trying to set me up with chick she knows
>im 33 and 6' tall
>this blind date is older and taller

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>>37420427
what if i have no money

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>>37418089
>wrestling with a 13yo loli who is grabbing your butt

>>37420933
I'd like to hear them, if it makes you feel any better i just got out of a psych ward so I'm not in a position to be judgemental.

>>37420766
>>37420788
Are you guys neets or whats the state of your lives?

>>37420417
2 more? Fucking nice. I'm still at 2 years.

>>37420044
Dude the thing is is that it's happening to me and I don't want it to. I'm 27. I don't want to fuck girls in the same degree I used to and it bothers me because I'm still a virgin.

>>37420806
You're a fucking normie you goddamned faggot. Why are you here.

I am 25.

I sometimes feel so overrun by life. I need to keep relationships alive by applying actual effort; it's not school anymore where you see your friends every day.

I need to apply effort keeping my house in order. NEETs who make fun of wageslaves spending their weekend mowing and shit aren't wrong.

I need to spend effort actually at fucking work, on a job I really don't care that much for. It's supposed to be a career launcher, but I feel trapped. IT hardware repair is a trap. Don't do it.

I need to spend effort studying, which I don't do. Because a) I'm too fucking tired from the shit listed above, and b) it's hard. Study is hard. So I put it off and procrastinate.

I don't like the internet anymore. I come to 4chan because it's the last bastion of the Wild West internet era; where it's ok to call some one a double nigger when they are being dumb and not have the sjw police come.

Gaming in the modern era doesn't fulfil me either. I keep playing games from the early 2000s, and these games, I do enjoy.

Life is better than it ever was. I have all the freedom in the world and more money than ever.

But god fucking damn, it's tiring.

>>37421209
Not a neet but have declining health which has is starting to dipp faster and probably won't make it past 35 from complications from ehlers danlos syndrome.

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>>37420766
>I haven't been happy in 3 whole years
You are like a little baby.

>>37421261
I worked hard at improving myself and finally got my oneitis for a time.

I can see why you would think that of me, I may not be a hardcore robot, but I am by no means a normie because I had some success.

>>37421053
I was going to give you my life story and try to add some artistic flourish, but I'm too stupid so I'm deleting and restarting.

Video games. The answer is video games. I played them competitively. Counter Strike before Steam was even a thing using WON. Day 0 World of Warcraft player, in a top tier guild competing for world firsts. CS:Source and now CS:GO.

The highlights of my life has been playing video games at a high level. Traveling to friends houses when a new WoW expansion came out so we could get server first race/class. going to lower tier LANs for CS. Playing shitter tier NA professionals in online tournaments winning a few hundred dollars here and there.

I also know how the psych ward is anon. Been there a couple times myself.

>>37421277
>last bastion of the Wild West internet era
check out youtube sometimes. it's weirdly the last stand against SJWs with some very brilliant minds speaking on the issues.

>>37421309
Alright fair enough, but seriously there's no reason for you to come to r9k in my opinion. You should if it makes you feel any better, but holy shit dude you seriously have so much more than people on here, what the hell. I don't mean to insult you, but you could just not come here and wallow when you have actual real life experience with females and money and shit.

>>37421345
I understand where you are coming from definitely.

For a long time I just delivered pizza, smoked weed, and that is about it.

Working on learning guitar and starting to take working out seriously after having lost a lot of weight over the last year+

I feel better, but still depressed and anxious pretty often. Though I would definitely tell everyone they should eat better and exercise more, the benefit in mood for me alone was worth it.

I turned 26 recently and thought I had stuff going, got really hooked on the girl and thought we were gonna have something together long term. Kinda silly thinking about it now since she is so young, but besides some very minor flaws, she was my ideal girl.

Have maybe two years left to finish my degree, and then hopefully I can get stuff going.

Trying some amateur gamedev stuff in my free time this summer. Don't think I will be a success there, but I always have wanted to try, so on the off chance I could maybe make some money there I am gonna be diving into that full time. Huge plus is it is something to take my mind off of things.

What is your deal, How do you have it bad, and you have any plans to try and get out of it?

>>37420806
>We still fuck
You have to kill yourself right now, normalgroid.

>>37420766
>I don't think I've been happy in Almost 3 years
>Almost 3 years
>Almost
See above the advice for the other normalshit like you.

>>37421456
Excuse me for not having the emotional fortitude to stay away from a girl I am madly in love with after I have finally gotten to be close to her.

>>37416365
The way time moves so quick know that I'm older scares me. A year probably feels like a month to an 80 year old.

>>37415204
Tfw 27 and about to get my hands on a 16yo pussy. I don't want to, I want to be home alone and play vidya with the girl I like but doesn't want me. Fuck did my life come to.

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>>37418089
Living the dream. . . or maybe the nightmare

>>37417501
Being gay is a nightmare of you actually want a relationship. Most gay guys live purely for instant gratification.

>>37417501
>>37421680

>tfw ugly bearmode gay living in a small town
>don't care about sex, just want to sleep in the same bed as someone else and feel their warmth

>friendless virgin almost wizard gay

kill me.

>>37421448
You really don't belong here or on /r9k/. "reeeeeeeee normie" is a meme for a reason

I come here to read posts of people in similar situations to myself. Not some guy living pretty decently who had a number of partners, scholarships, all the stars basically aligning. People like you are the worst. I don't fucking care if you feel unhappy because "boo hoo my fetish girl left me" or whatever. Nobody here wants to read that shit.

>>37421862
Scholarship is only because my father is a disabled veteran with parkinsons from exposure to agent orange, not based on my achievements.

I am sorry I made you feel so terribly though, anon.

I am very sad about the loss of my fetish girl, though.

>>37421901
I wish my fetish girl was at least somehow possible to get to

>>37421209
Not a neet i just want to experience that state of 'innocence' a child has just one more time. playing with toys and video games in that state of mind was amazing.

now i cannot play a game without analyzing it or getting irritated by story tropes or lack of attention to detail

If I get a dog, will it love me? I just want a close friend.

>>37422241
yes but it's a dog so it will love anyone. if you want a loving bond only for you get a docile female cat and be her only source of food and attention.

>>37422241
If you give it food and attention i think it's pretty much guaranteed to love you.

23 here

You guys are my comfort. I was wallowing 2 years ago but now everything about my life has done an about face.

momma always told me I was meant to lead the pack. peace.

>>37422120
I'm sure she is anon.

Work on yourself while also trying to work your way in with her if you know a girl who fits, or otherwise go out seeking one.

I believe in you. If I could do it almost anyone can.

>>37422312
Fuck your momma boy. Also glad our shit helped. peace. Dipshit.

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>>37416844

Wow, you must really, really like teh cawk don't you

>>37422375
It won't take long and he will suffer again.

>>37422335
Thanks anon. It's a beautiful thing you're saying. I will do my best and keep dreaming about her.

>>37415989

you just go for younger girls, which is mostly why the whole thing of

> im a 25+ female who cant find any guys where did they all go

is actually in reference to.

>>37422335
Sadly she is convinced it is her looks and kink I like her for, but it is her personality I love. Fetish for damaged goods...

>>37422514
I know the feel.

Ex felt she wasn't good enough for me because she had a shitty life and isn't really going anywhere, but I loved her for her. I am not the greatest catch but so I don't know how she could feel that way.

She wanted out I guess because she felt bad when around me and wanted to have freedom to not be in a relationship. Its possible I could get her back, but that sounds unhealthy to me, I'm very tempted to try though.

I got off topic talking about myself, but basically just do your best to show her how you feel without being cringy. I bet she will come around eventually if you put in the time and effort.

>>37422554
Mine is the kind who is just as damaged. I will keep trying to do my best for her. I fear it will not be enough, but she's worth more than she could ever know.
Want to tell me about your ex? I find it noble to love people for who they are.

>>37422597
She is artistic and kinky and friendly to everyone.

Very depressed but still nice, she is much more outgoing than me. She plays the ukulele and sings.

She grew up poor as fuck and had a real shitty family, so I think she really gravitates to hanging with people who are nice, even though most of her friends are shitty people who spend most of their time doing drugs.

I occassionally do drugs myself but in moderation and blah blah, I just wish she did more stuff with me, rather than how we mostly just cuddled and ate and fucked.

I think she felt safe and comfortable with me like that, but I wanted to be something serious. We had been exclusive for a long time and she asked me out cause she knew I wanted to be together, but she started withdrawing after that because I guess she didnt feel comfortable with it.

I just wanted a nice future with her like we had talked about, I know I could have given it to her. We had some minor differences but she didn't put in nearly as much effort as me, though I think a lot of that can be attributed to the depression.

Plus the sex was fire, literally all my fetishes were good with her. We got off on the same things, would check out loli hentai while we fucked, all sorts of daddy dom/little girl roleplay, plus really emotional and close cuddling and hangouts and all that.

It was real good, and I feel if I had been a bit better it would have worked out, but it isn't exactly fair because as I said she didn't put in much effort.

Not sure if I should keep things up with her and maybe try again. She implied that it could be possible but idk if she was just placating me because she still wants to fuck and be friends.

Been pretty depressed about this, usually I only have anxiety issues and some slight depression here and there, but despite this girls flaws I saw her as nearly perfect, had crushed on her a while before we ever even got together. She was my actual oneitis and I had her, but I don't anymore.

>>37422665
All artsy types are somehow fucked in the head. I wouldn't give up on her. Leaving is the worst, being artsy and fucked myself I can tell you that much.

>>37415204
PLEASE ANY WOULD BE EXISTING DIETY DON'T LET THIS BE MY FATE!!!! I WILL DO ANYTHING JUST DON'T DO THIS TO ME GOD PLEASE!! HAVE MERCY!!

>>37422768
You are done, join us and forget about hopes and dreams

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>25 years old
>NEET
>HKV
>live at home
>no direction
>no ambition
>no motivation
>always exhausted
>health is starting to go
What even happens to people like us once they get into their 30s and 40s?

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GO TO
>>>/b/
>>>/reddit/
YOU NORMIE FUCK REEEEEEEEEEEEEE

YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE. NO (yous) FOR YOU

26 here. I had no job prospects back home so I moved to a different country. Recently got a well paying job. Now I need to make friends

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>>37422801
Are (you) me ?

I don't know if we can be fixed anon. I think not. I tried everything i could possibly try.

I am tired. too tired.

>>37422829
You'll never make friends until you can stop thought broadcasting. I know, everyone around me can read my mind, and it's driving me insane.

>>37422860
>I tried everything i could possibly try.
you know that's not even remotely true.

>>37422801
once your parents can no longer afford to care for you, you become homeless and die. make the most of it!

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>>37422874
You don't know shit about me. So stop projecting.

I tried everything i could. Taking care of myslef, dress well, be more sociable, went to therapy, took shit pills for year, tried every meme self improvement, built confidence, got a haircut, poured fixing minoxidil on my face to grow beard, asked out all the girls i was interested in (hint their answer was always let's stay as firends).

Yet, here i am. Posting in chinese frog poster cartoons board.

>>37422879
Or end up wagecucking forever. Maybe it will get you somewhere in the end

>>37422738
Yeah, I agree because I fall somewhat on that spectrum as well.

I just want a good loving relationship with someone I am crazy about like I am with her.

Well not with anyone, with her, she is all I want at this point

So I am just going to keep trying to better myself and stick around being her friend and fucking and slowly seeing if I can get things going again. She obviously still has feelings for me, but I will see what happens.

I have a few friends, but truthfully I have no social life besides hanging with her, and I felt complete around her. Before I got so hooked, I felt happy just being by myself and doing my thing, but compared to my time with her, that feels so shallow and bland and depressing.

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>17 year old that i work with keeps leaning up against me all day and poking me in the belly
I want to give her daddy's cummies but yeah man I'd probably lose my job at best.

>>37422972
>poured fixing minoxidil on my face to grow beard
wait does this work?

37 here. Life just gets more educational the older you get ironically. I also make more money now than I ever did.

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>tfw 25 and feeling great and extremely optimistic about my future

>>37423029
So relatable. Be around, if you can. Even presence is appreciated. I will wish you luck anon.

>>37423080
Yeah, it works

>>37423136
I'm about to hit 41 and it feels like I've lived about 10 lifetimes, like most of my memories are either fictional or from a past life. Shit's weird. Now I'm starting understand why most writers don't get their groove on until their 40s.

Dating sucks more than ever, though. As much as I can't relate to women my own age, I doubly can't relate to the chicks half my age that I'm starting to attract, and anyone older is too slow and dumb. It's like women lose any kind of mental acuity they had when they hit menopause. Why the fuck I can't break out of whatever keeps me from going full homo, I'll never know.

>>37415233
I was forever alone until 25 lad.

Now I'm 30, married, and about to have a kid so no, it gets fucking worse lad, I swear I wish I stayed forever alone.

Also think I may be having a 'mid-life' crisis. I just bought myself a new bmx despite not riding for almost 10 years now.
>tfw cna drive and even have a cbt to ride motorbikes but want to play on a kids toy.

>>37423273
Cycling is every older dude's escape. Eventually you'll get a road bike and join us every Saturday morning for the autistic spandex club meetups.

>>37423269
>feels like I've lived about 10 lifetimes
did you experience any weird sense of time in your late 20s? i'm 27 and i swear the past 5 months have felt like one week

>>37423299
Old people like to become the embodiment of cringe

>>37423299
I'm just gonna hit the bmx track and dirt jumps. Fuck you lycra faggots.

>26
>Just fucked another man's long term partner
>I was previously a virgin
I am James Bond

>>37423269
Iktf bro.

Dating at our age depends on how fit you are, just like it did when we were younger. So just start cycling and/or swimming, lose about 4 stone and (though I still need to do this myself) make a few friends and get out and about and women will probably approach you.
>>37423273
Having a kid is when life really begins. Before that it's just a banal routine. Kids make sure every day is interesting and has purpose.

>25
>think about how I never do a lot of nice things for myself
>find out two bands I like are going to be around in a few months
>start thinking about buying a ticket and hotel room for a weekend out
>start crying when I think about how nice it would be to go to a show or walk around a city with someone else instead of doing it alone every time

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>>37423299
>join us every Saturday morning for the autistic spandex club meetups.
sounds fun

>>37417145
you already know what to do but are just putting it off. turn off your electronic jews

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>>37420766
>tfw you will never relive the Freezia saga
>tfw you will never Khamehameha invisible creatures again in your house
>too jaded by life
but i STILLL watch pokemon sun and moon and DBZ super.

>>37423299
I would do this if it weren't for being afraid of getting hit by a car or having my bike stolen.

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>>37423609
I know those feels, I'm 30 and everytime I ride past a group of 17/18 year olds in the park I'm scared I'm gonna get clotheslined the fuck off my bike.

>>37423309
Yeah, my sense of time's passage is fucked up, but I think that it's mostly related to wagecucking and stress. When I take time off, I feel shit start to slow down after a week or two.
>>37423424
Oh, I'm fit, that's not a problem, and getting a date is the easy part. I just have a harder time relating to women than ever, and a much harder time keeping up the pretense that I care.
>>37423536
It's pretty useful for networking desu, kind of like golfing. Most old fart roadies are white collar professionals in leadership roles in whatever they're doing.

>>37418509

I'm about to turn 26 and I can pass for early 20s since I'm short, but my hair has started to recede lately. Oh well. I've looked the same for the last three years, but I'm sure I'll age like five years over the next two.

>>37423793
How do you get dates? Tinder? Clubs/bars? Cafes?

>>37415204
Just a few more years and you'll get fearsome wizard powers.

>Turning 26 next month
>Have GF
>Employed as a copywriter for an agency
>Own my own place
>No Debt
>Introverted, but has a handful of good friends
>Life is looking good


A mere 4 years ago I was depressed, no gf, unfit and unemployed living at home.

It gets better I swear.

>>37424337
Your story gives me some hope, at least. I think going back to school and changing jobs will help me a lot.

>>37424503
What's your current situation?

doo doo wah

>>37415204
I'll be 28 in three months. The only thing I'm feeling is wrist pain, and I doubt thats associated with age.

I "quit" on being a normie in my early 20s.
Too much stress pretending, even if I had some success at first.

>turned 29 yesterday
>still live with parents
>no stable job
>no gf

Not even mad though. I earn up a bit of money and then travel to some random country for a few weeks. Also getting /fit/. It's a pretty comfy life desu

>>37423299
Eeeey fellow /n/igga. Who else is bikepilled here?

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>>37424602
Here.

I have a shit bike and I didn't buy into the meme gearqueer stuff. There is a village out of my town and it takes me exactly one hour to it and back in a quaint road that has almost no traffic on it. Perfect for listening a podcast or music while you pedal away. I say I do it to get slimmer but in all honestly its far more effective as a stress relief. When you get off the bike in the end and can't feel your legs and have that sweet sense of tiredness, nothing can piss you off at that point anymore.

Riding with other people seems pretty gay and opposite to what one might want to accomplish by biking.

>>37424528
>25
>withdrew from college when I was twenty to save money
>have been working at a pharmacy for the last five years for $11/hr
>got sick of working there because of the location and having no interest in promoting to assistant or store manager
>decided to go back to college, like being there because I can finally be around people with similar interests

I just want a job with less hassle while I'm in college so I can focus on the schoolwork. I used to envy my hs classmates that got to just go to a uni but now I know I need to focus on myself. Now I go to the gym, I have more hobbies, I don't really talk to other people but I'm starting to feel like I'm moving forward.

>>37424675
If you want a job that will give you some basic money and help you meet people, then work in hospitality (barista, waiter, dishwasher etc). A lot of my friends met 90% of their friend group through those jobs because they are very communal (lots of 'after work drinks' type things) and they are filled with young people.

Good to hear stuff is turning around for you though! Don't stop.

>>37424649
I find that riding on more advanced group rides where the slow get dropped is good for stress release. Technical MTB is nice, too. Either one forces my brain to get out of workmode.

>>37420294
37 also, I don't recognise this feel, sure shitty things happen, but it's usually because I fucked up and need to fix my shit up.

This board is getting even worse holy shit

In my 30s here
It's like my 20s except I have money now

>31 KHV
>9k in debt hope or pay off by next year
>Turning 32 in august.
How fucked am I?

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>>37415233
>does it get better r-right guys?
Nope. Only upside is that the older you get the lower your testosterone levels, which lowers your sex drive drastically.

You end up kinda pudgy and more-or-less impotent, but you don't care as much about anything so it ends up being less awful than hormonal adolescence.

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>>37423550

Partially true. Not that guy but I had to go without any electricity for a period of time and what I found was I was ironically distracted a lot more by mundane everyday tasks i.e Extra work, home care, errands etc.

In the end, I still went to bed feeling like a void, it didn't really turn my life around for the better.

Now the internet is back up, I'm just spending my time wasting it shitposting rather than wasting it running my sister to work or something.

>>37415204
26 years old
leave this site right now
don't bother replying I will follow my own advice first. I wasn't supposed to even come here today.

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>>37417439

>he fell for the ''sex brings happiness'' meme

I noticed I have multiple gray hairs this morning. I'm only 26... but I guess its better than going bald.

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>>37426734
>better than going bald
Nigga, you know it. I too am 26, yet I became an rl bearded wojak. Be thankful for what you have, anons.

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>>37418089
I find home in this thread.
I had the same situasion. i was 24 she was 13.
I broke my knee, and went full NEET.
I wish i've been never born.

>>37426734
37 yo guy here, I think I had like 1 grey hair at 26 until I was like 34 and then they don't stop coming through

25 here. 26 next month. Worthless BA and a crappy grocery job. Also going bald, woo.

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>>37415204


30yr

didnt fall for the vaginal jew partly by choice and partly protected by the gift of autism, now im happier and more /fit/ and more optimistic than the friends i used to have whom i stalk on facebook

ready for civil war 2, bring it jews

>>37427515
A 13 year old broke your knee when you were 24?

>>37427864
No. I met her at kravmaga.
But later started having problems with knee, witout special reason. Knee just starting hurting one day like a bitch. And Hanase r stupid bastard and don't know or dosent whant to fix it.

>>37427828
Have u Went MGTOW or sommthin ?

>>37427230
>that handsome face
FUCK OFF

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>>37427927
>>37427828


No mgtow thats gay and inhuman

Just have a realistic view of what the female creature is and youll do fine.

unironically read /r/theredpill, great resource despite being on a kike site for faggots

>>37427914
Lucky bastards on r9k have actually fucked 13 yr olds. I need to let that sink in for a second.

33 years old.

In debt from college, found out my 'dream job' was shit, living w my dad.

5 years down the drain and now I'm so fucking old. AND I have to 'start over' doing something completely new (no experience as a 33yo = SOL).

So yeah...

At least I have a gf :3c

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>>37428104
I did't fuck her sadly. It's illegal and somewhat immoral here.

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>25
>dropped out of college when I was 22
>been working shitty jobs after shitty jobs
>been working at this restaurant for a few years now
>make good tips, but holy fuck its stressful and all my coworkers are druggy high school kids and college drop outs

I want to leave this job so fucking badly, but no one wants to hire a college drop out who's only worked in minimum wage jobs. I can't even find a simple desk job.My mom wants me to go back to school, but I kinda don't. I feel like I should just finish my degree even though I hate it and just get a real job, even though I'll hate the job.

I just wish I could find a new job for right now. And also not fall in love with every fucking girl thats nice to me.

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>>37428654

I understand U Anon.

>>37427230
at least you can grow a beard, try balding as a somewhat effeminate skelly with shitty facial hair

>>37428136
How the fuck do you have a gf?

post pics of yourself or your gf

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Why ya all so unhappy. Im in thirties, my life is perfect. I have never had a job or gf.

>26
>fly to a remote area for work every 2 of 3 weeks
>make 160k canadian fun bucks a year
>gf is fat hairy stretch marked social anxiety retard
>drink constantly on my weeks off

Idk sometimes I feel good about things other times I wannq ghost

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>>37428654
I feel you anon im 26 and have been at the same shitty job for the past 3 years and i hate every second of it and want to leave, but no degree cause never finished college. Make decent money but I have no direction in life and just spend my free time getting high by myself and fucking around living like a neet.

Never had any sort of relationship so the whole idea of it is foreign to me, and have no idea what i would go back to school for, it all takes up so much time and energy.