Why are none of the guys on this dating app physically attractive to me? [spoiler]Except the ones that are but would want nothing to do with my ugly loser ass.[/spoiler]
WHY NO SPOILERS?
>>5446599
you want something but you're offering nothing, i see nothing wrong tbqh ,pretty fair if you ask me family
>>5446603
You bring up a good point.
Fuck.
does /lgbt/ ever do area code hook up threads? ive tried /soc/ but all those homos are surprisingly straight.
>>5445905
I think more social /LGBT would be neat, but might anger the (stunning and totally passing) powers that be. It is technically /soc fodder.
>all those homos are surprisingly straight.
What exactly did you meant?
>>5445919
a lot of guys there are smaller thinner, twinkish looking fuccboi type guys, but the vast majority is straight.
>be 19
>with bf for while
>suck/handjob every other day
>both anal virgins
>tell him I want him to fuck me
>try anal no lube
>nope.tiff
>both look it up online
>buy lube, small dildo
>try again
>foreplay, lube, small dildo in
>feelsgoodman
>make out for a while
>takes out dildo
>he lubes up
>my anus is ready
>slowly goes in
>MY ANUS IS NOT READY
>stops
>we've tried multiple times but no luck
What's wrong with my ass, /lgbt/?
Also general anal thread.
>>5445775
Just relax you stupid faggot.
>>5445775
iveh ad similar experiences.
when its just me i can stuff a lot of stuff up my butt. i can do t fast and hard and drive myself wild.
but if anyone else sticks even a finger in i freak out. i imagine its a control issue. im the same way with my eyes. i can touch my own but if the doctor tries i freak the fuck out and literally cant hold still for it.
Like anything worth doing in life it takes practice. Luckily you have a qt bf, I assume, who will have to be patient while you learn to unclench your ass when fun things go inside it.
I think having him play around with it and spread it with his hands helped me out alot or if your lewd enough have him tongue it. It's all worth it for the end result OP so channel your inner buttslut
Find a Grindr Santa
>>5445651
chat with him and post screenshots
Has there been any research done with transgender people? Seems like the perfect subjects for a nature vs nurture regarding gender roles. What's your say if someone was to use you for science?
>>5445154
>Seems like the perfect subjects for a nature vs nurture regarding gender roles.
Not really, no. The situation with transgender people often seems to be so that since they envy/feel-closer-to/etc. the people with whom they share their felt gender, they will obviously(?) imitate their social behavior.
I mean, the idea that there's something biological behind wanting to wear frilly dresses, make up and high heels is pretty ludicrous anyway, isn't it? (Or am I conflating gender roles with gender stereotypes?)
You can google for some studies by the way. Research on the brains of trans people have shown that there's a biological root to it IIRC. It might always be wrong research though; for instance people have been raving about innate differences in the way women's and men's brains are wired, and then the most recent and biggest research (meta-analysis amounting to 6k brains) finds that the brain is really basically genderless...
Research is hard, often biased, wrong, contradicting each other, and so on.
People also tend to a dangerous black and white thinking, where it must be either nature or nurture, when in fact it could be a complicated mixture. If trans women and men's chosen social/gender roles are biologically rooted, that would only prove that our assumptions about the connection of anatomical sex and social/gender roles is so wrong that some people get literally ill from them. One could easily abuse that research result to say "see, gender roles are inherent in the genders!" when in fact it would mean we should loosen up all the roles and see how different people behave when not coerced.
>>5445154
>What's your say if someone was to use you for science?
Lewd.
>>5445154
It depends on the specifics of the experiment, but I would be open to consider participation in an experiment.
I saw some lgbt movies, and like more than half of them were shit or just mediocre ones.
What's your favorite lgbt movie or favorite lgbt director?
I fucking love Xavier Dolan and his movies, he's so young but also very talented. Talented and cute as fuck
This is a good one, sweet and sad at the same moment.
>have no gf
>masturbate constantly but don't have any weird fetishes
>go on HRT, no sex drive/libido now
>get gf who doesn't want sex, basically asexual
>suddenly develop interest in BDSM
>the idea of being a sub in a sub/dom thing gets me hot
Why does God hate me?
>>5451371
She has side dick, you mean nothing to her but a free meal ticket.
>>5451377
She's really religious, like no sex before marriage religious. Her entire family is like that. She goes to church twice a week and teaches Sunday school to little kids. That's a hell of a cover.
Every trans girl is into BDSM, it's basically a requirement
Hey /lgbt/
Can you identify as a gay person stuck in a straight person's body?
As in you're gay, but you're only attracted to the opposite sex
>>5451307
Being gay=being attracted exclusively to your own gender
Being bisexual=being attracted to both genders
Being straight=being attracted to exclusively the other gender
You do see how contradicting your question sounds, right?
>>5451307
LOL
No, because being gay doesn't extend past your sexuality. I mean I guess you could be a straight guy who's "gay" as in really effeminate, but why not just say that?
>Anal sex with a guy
>iam the top
>stick my dick in his ass
>it feels like nothing really not even really that warm
>pound him like crazy after the initial start up of getting my dick inside
>i cant cum
>after 10 minutes of pounding i just tell him to suck me off
>feels much much better than anal
is there something wrong with me or with the partners i choose? i had it with 3 different guys already and anal always felt like iam pounding nothing but whenever they blow me off i would get crazy cummings
should i just not fap a few days before it?
could be a few things:
>lazy bottoms who just take it and not even try to squeeze or work their muscles for you.
>small cock, no friction, sorry senpai
>you might not be gay, fuck a pussy and compare
or some combination of all three, which would be unfortunate tbqh familia
>>5451165
Are you circumcised?
Hello, I'd like to ask your opinion lgtb. I am a male with a certain taste for trans people, specifically for male to female pre-op. I suppose what I like is the penis aspect with the feminine part. I don't enjoy gay porn as it were, as in normal man on man. Does my preference seem like barking up the wrong tree? Am I someone a trans person avoids? I've never gone for a relationship yet as I am not ready, but at the same time I don't want to even think about it if I would be hurting someone by holding them in the transition phase longer then they intend.
Basically am I the worst kind of person lgtb?
>>5450874
You're not the worst person, and you seem aware enough to dodge the worst things you can do. There exist hetero and bi trans women that are happy with their penis. They are the ones you would be best off courting. You could possibly try penis-ambivalent trans women, but it's less likely to turn out well for the both of you.
Many trans women will avoid you; disliking their penis is a pretty common occurrence, and a partner who wouldn't be just as happy to see it gone is less appealing.
Be respectful, be honest, be confident, and be engaged with the person, and things will go better than they might.
Some trans women may call you a "chaser", and transphobes of all sorts may call you a faggot, still. Try to react well to that.
I doubt it helps, but good luck all the same. You sound alright so far.
Thanks for the response. I can see why most trans women would hate their penis, and it's not to say that once they've fully transitioned that I would find them unattractive and immediately break up with them... But it feels like them having a penis is a large attraction point.
If I might ask, what do most trans women use to seek a date? I downloaded grinder at a friends urging, but that only confirmed my tastes and I am pretty new to the whole scene. Thanks again for all the help lgtb.
>>5450874
ive been dying to watch my wife suck another guys cock but afraid to tell her whats that mean?? so confused pic directly related
if I drop her info would someone here inform her in a nice way?? im afraid she ll freak out need this to happen
>>5450003
Typical cuck.
>>5450017
Y u gotta be mean
What are your assumptions (BE HONEST)?
>Ugly women are lesbians
>Beautiful women have no need to be lesbian.
>Twink (effeminate) men are gay
>Manly men can get an pussy (no need to be >gay).
>Beautiful women can be bi
>MtF over 90% of time is bad news transition.
>FtM over 90% of time is bad news transition.
>Men are out of touch insecure assholes
>Jews think they are superior
>Religious people are anti lgbt
>Atheists think they are superior
>Conservatives don't have human empathy
>Trannies are mentally ill and the biggest source of shitposting
Anyone who won't date a post-op mtf is chaser scum
gaygen - tom check your skype edition
Too bad about neanderthal face.
>tfw no refugee bf
>>5449411
>tfw wide hips and will never have that taper
i wish only for death
Drowning late December feels edition
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>>5449161
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So after an initial rejection and what seemed like a temporary interest afterwards in me that he denied when confronted about it, I have finally convinced a friend of mine I've been crushing on for a long time to do the deed.
Only problem is I'm a virgin.
How do I make sure he has the best time ever? I definitely lean submissive, and have a bit of experience with toys, but not actual intimacy. Pretty much whatever is ok, but I'd rather it not involve my dick. (I won't freak out or anything if it does, but eh)
I'm pretty sure he's mostly straight and just yoloing it, but I'd like to give it a shot.
>>5448884
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gJscrxxl_Bg
>>5448911
Thank you for your words of wisdom, assuming he doesn't back out I will!
>>5448884
If you coerce him its rape. Don’t rape him. Just find someone whom you don’t have to coerce.