Hey /lgbt/, I have a question.
I'm a bi 19 yr old guy who has been with girls before but never a guy. I've tried using Tinder and Grindr but none of the guys on there are what I'm really looking for. However, there are a couple of gay bars in the city centre and I was just wondering whether they are better for finding local guys than Tinder and Grindr, as I sort of assumed that all gay/ bi guys would have them. What do you think?
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It depends, what are you looking for?
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>>5493744
Worth a shot.
From what I hear gay bars tend to be filled with old sad queens and your fresh face will attract them like piranhas.
You can always keep fishing on the apps until eventually someone to your liking turns up.
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>>5493751
Someone a similar age to me who isn't too fat, thin or muscly and has a cute face.
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Hey /lgbt/, did you know that you're probably transgender?
Feminine men and masculine women are transgender too! That's right, if you're a woman but you played with toy cars when you were young - well, you're not just a boring old "cis" woman any more! What's that? You're a guy that likes the color pink? Not any more, you aren't. Ever heard of demigirls? ;)
Welcome to the exciting LIFESTYLE of choosing to become trans*! Abandon that cissy 'cisness', and help us break the binary together!
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Oh, and fuck off binary transsexual MTF and FTM people. You're a disgrace to our gender-busting future. I hope society shits on you. You're not welcome under OUR umbrella.
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>>5493596
Do better
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>>5493596
One is not really under the trans umbrella unless their desired gender expression falls outside of what society generally deems acceptable.
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I need some advice! I am actively bi, and consider myself a bottom, but I've never been able to enjoy it. Ive tried it twice, both times were painful, uncomfortable and unenjoyable.
There's gotta be some secret to how to make anal fun! Pretend like I'm a virgin and have never done this before.. Is there a magic "Make the dick go in easy" position? What are ways to make it not painful and enjoyable? Thanks guys!
p.s. sorry if this post is up twice, something glitched and I dont think it posted the first time.
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Foreplay and lots of lube when you're actually with someone.
Masturbating with toys and buttplugs can help too. The more you do it on your own, the easier it will be to relax for an actual guy.
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>>5493516
Thanks, yeah, I do get really nervous and find it really hard to relax.
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>>5493501
Perhaps it's possible you also haven't found the right partner. Someone to start of gentle and like the other anon suggested lots of foreplay and lube. I would experiment by yourself a lot as well. I think it's always a little tough when the first insertion occurs. I like to insert just a little and slowly pull out, then repeat for a while and finally push inside a little deeper. Leave the insertion in for a while and slowly pull out and repeat and you'll notice that you start to better accommodate the size. Then you can start to build up speed. This all takes a while but with the right partner it can be very sexy.
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body modification thread? 2016-01-04 20:50:45 Post No.5493022
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I know /lgbt/ has a serious hatred of genderfluid and snowflake material but I've lurked around in this place and I know a lot of people who desire a mix of dymorphic sex characteristics.
My stats that I'm aiming for:
>be bio female
>want strong ottermode male muscles in the upper body
>androgynous face that leans towards handsome
>cute pussy
>nice thighs and legs of a hot girl
I don't think I can call myself an ftm, I know that ftmgen would throw a shit fit if I tried to define myself like that because honestly, I don't care about pronouns or being seen as a guy and I don't have dysphoria. I don't care if people see me as a man or woman. I just want to be andro hot. And I like vaginas so I wanna keep my own. So I don't really fit in with the trans crowd. Let's be honest, I'm a woman who modifying her body to look more masculine. That's what actually happening, ya know? Hard to find a label that says all that without the trans implication.
I'm curious what you guys would label me as
>inb4 special snowflake tumblrite
I'm not hurting anyone and honestly the look I'm going for is imo the most aesthetic to what I'd like so why the fuck not go for it?
so get in here and let's talk about body modifying and mixing gender traits!
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That would look really weird tho
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>>5493032
I know... my like for upper male bodies and pussy combo is the minority for everyone else's tits and dick futa dreams.
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Repulsive
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/mtfg/ Transwoman General - Man in the Mirror Edition 2016-01-04 23:11:33 Post No.5493764
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/mtfg/ Transwoman General - Man in the Mirror Edition
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Despite everything, it's still you
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>>5493713
>No one would hug me unironically
I would
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Rather than being salty this time, why not post pictures of cute animals?
^_^
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ow erections hurt so much now feels like my gt is gonna fall apart
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stinky crotch edition
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only my arm pits are stinky right now, but I put on some deodorant and there's a nice masculine blend going on if anyone wants to sniff.
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>>5492892
your name had better be ironic
otherwise you are a Grade A sperglord
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Attracted to the thought of taking cock, but not attracted to men. Huh? 2016-01-04 13:23:55 Post No.5491719
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Attracted to the thought of taking cock, but not attracted to men. Huh?
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In real life you'd likely see me as your average, everyday, "normal" straight guy. I seemed to have discovered a growing kink over the past 2 years over dressing and acting like a chick and being fucked like one as well. The only thing is, I am just not attracted to men, just the thought of myself taking cock, I actually prefer not to see the guy's face in porn as it really turns me off. I've even gotten to the point where I wanted to try sex with a guy from a nearby school who was fully aware of my kink, but I told him I really couldn't because I just wasn't attracted to him.
I've had sex with women plenty of times and still greatly enjoy it. I'm even talking to this girl right now and I seriously like her, but I'm seriously afraid that if she finds out about the "other side" of my sexuality, she'd be really put off.
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>>5491719
it's called being a sissy.
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>>5491719
Let her know you're into butt stuff and crossdressing and you may find she's fine with stuffing your butt.
> but it's not a real dick!
Those are almost always attached to men, who you are not attracted to.
> girls can't do it right!
It takes practice and a partner that communicates. If she's willing to do the former, and you're the latter, things will pick up.
She may be put off, but so what?
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So you are so ashamed of yourself that you convince yourself that if you put on a piece of clothing and pretend magical flying dicks fuck you, you are not gay.
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Faces of /lgbt/
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this is lgqt
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>putting your face on 4chan
>ever
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>>5491890
BJÖRK!!!
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>"It says here that you're...pansexual? Care to explain?"
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>>5491242
gender not a significant limiting factor in attraction
next
saged
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>>5491260
you're bi
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As an employer, if you list your sexuality on your CV then it's just going to go straight into the bin.
I'm 24 years old and I've only ever slept with men. Lots of men. I was never repulsed by women, I've always been able to get off to straight porn, but I was much more attracted to men. Like 80-20 men to women. At various times in my life I've told people I was bi and gay - bi when I wanted to leave open the possibility of sleeping with a woman, though that has never happened.
Now here's the part where things get weird. My whole childhood I was artsy and introverted and hated sports. Never did anything athletic. Lately I've gotten into running and weightlifting and playing some sports casually. Call me crazy but I think when I do those activities, there's a slight hormonal change in me, and the idea of fucking a woman becomes more appealing. Also in the past I always socialized with fag hags. These days I find myself around straight men more, and I feel like that also influences me to think about women more.
Do you think hormonal and social factors can affect your sexual orientation?
I hate that I'm still confused about my sexuality at 24 years old and I need to understand it. I need to know if women are going to be an option for me. Can anybody relate to my experience or recommend an article that will help me understand it?
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>>5491232
Stop with the dumb mental gymnastics, you're bisexual, you're attracted to people on a case by case basis, you enjoy casual sex, and you have the same propensity to cheat as everyone else
This board likes to pretend that somehow bisexuals cheat more than others, or that it's somehow worse that they cheat with the opposite gender of the person they're regularly seeing (the fuck does it fucking matter? it's cheating all the same)
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>>5491316
Thanks for the reply but my attraction isn't as random as you make it out to be. There is such a thing as orientation and I'm curious if that thing can be affected, deliberately, whether permanently or temporarily, in adulthood.
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>>5491232
Yes. What your mom eats when you're pregnant affects your sexual orientation, so in that sense, hormonal factors or course change it.
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thoughts on shopping clothes 2016-01-04 07:32:32 Post No.5490949
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Hi there /lgbt/,
I need some of your thoughts. I am a 24 year old born male who want to be confident enough to try all possibilities to express myself. as androgynous or just female.
Actually around 70% of my owned clothes are rather unisex (based on color and sometimes the style) even though I bought most of them in the men's section of clothes shops. The problem is: It seems more easy or more accepted to look around in the men section of the shops as a Cis-Woman (because it could be for the boyfriend or brother or ...) than the opposite way.
I do not have the courage to go into the women section, to look for things I like not to mention to go to the dressing room and come out of it to pay for the stuff.
I dont know if I could stand all the possible looks and the thoughts about other peoples thoughts.
Do you have any tips for me? Please share all, but Internet orders (because I like fitting before) and a token-girlfriend (because I am new in my city and it also feels wrong to deny oneself.)
Thank you so much!
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>>5490949
This hon isn't fooling anyone with this painted mustache
I can still see it's mtf
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>>5490968
id just classify him under General mental illness, along with all you other queers and freaks
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same age as you born male doing the exact same thing near enough, You're pretty! I just take a deep breath and try and look cheerful while im picking stuff and buying it, can't bring myself to go into the changing rooms though yet :/
I end up returning stuff a lot >.< dont have a lot more advice I guess. I find if you act like you deserve to be somewhere people usually will too x
If you could take a magic drug that would permanently turn you straight (if gay) or cisgender (if trans), would you take it?
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gay here. yes.
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i would only accept the magical drug if it somehow started back at the beginning of life instead of just now. i'd rather have new memories and not memories of bad ones.
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>>5490185
A tranny here. A thousand times yes.
>enjoy being a girl online
>even train my voice so I can sound like a girl in games
>decide this is an indication that I need to take steps in reality
>get far enough in that I'm talking with a gender therapist
>begin to realize that I was just fine with being an online GIRL
>already out to everyone
I really jumped the gun and now I'm paying the price. It's been nearly 4 years since I actually confessed everything, and I never actually started transitioning (which is good because if I'd had second thoughts like this at THAT point, then, well...) but there's still a lot of issues that come with a situation like this.
On the bright side, my parents were pretty supportive actually (if a bit confused at the idea) but that doesn't make it much better.
Sorry if this seems like blogposting, but... well, what the fuck do I do now? Just tell everyone "hey, that was actually just a heat of the moment thing that I probably should have never said and ran with and now I'm regretting the past two years of my life"
Maybe it's a longshot but... anyone else out there in a similar situation in any way?
Oh and all the "YOU NEED TO TRANSITION NOW OR YOU'LL DO IT WHEN YOU'RE 50 AND END UP LIKE BRUCE JENNER" propaganda/shitposting can fuck off, I blame that kind of "hun" bogeyman propaganda on me wanting to jump into the deep end.
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>>5489791
What happened that made you start thinking this?
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>>5489791
do you just want to be a girl online or do you also wear girls clothes and stuff? there is a line for everyone and many people just do private cross dressing or gender swaps with their partner. It is very accepted in the kink community.
If you just want to do it online then you could be just wanting the attention that comes with being a girl online. I know of a girl that played as a guy online so it isn't just one way either.
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>>5490557
>or do you also wear girls clothes and stuff?
I have in the past, but it didn't feel pleasant or "right" so much as uncomfortable and frankly a bit sad.
How do conversations usually go for you all online? I feel like in 90% of my chats, I'm conducting an interview. Which is to say in commenting on or asking questions and the other person just answers them.
Is this normal? I'm getting so frustrated.
Online Dating General?
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>>5489654
Yeah that always happens. People suck at having conversations.
Like I always try to add my own questions to make things interesting but if you message someone else it just goes to interview style.
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If this is an online dating general, Then I guess I'll drop a question: Are there gay members on Christian Dating? I mean, I wouldn't imagine so, but gay Christians do exist, so I wouldn't know, seeing as I've never used the site. I'm just curious.
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>>5489654
>alot of donuts
grrr
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>be me
>be 22
>experimented with other guys when I was younger, 16/17, it was fun but I feel like I kinda rushed into it
>just kinda suppressed everything that ever happened, convinced myself that I was straight as an arrow
>have gf of 3 years
>love her deeply but
>still cant tell her I like dudes too
>work in hyper masculine construction environment
>could never tell any of my friends either
>come here to talk
Am I going to regret suppressing all this? Am I going to regret never banging a cute twink? Any similar stories please post them here too, just wanna get it all off my chest
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yes you will regret it fuck a twink of cl ASAP
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First realized I liked guys (as well as girls) when I was 14. Never acted on it until I was 53.
I regret never being open about it with my gf/wife (it was a different time back then). Do yourself a favor and let her know and let the chips fall where they may.
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>>5486150
>Am I going to regret never banging a cute twink?
>twink
disgusting