/AOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

Do you want to settle down with someone of the same religion/ lack thereof? Gender plz.

>>18417494
Girl.

>Do you want to settle down with someone of the same religion/ lack thereof?
Not necessarily. I am atheist and I wouldn't mind dating a Christian.

>>18417494
Female, I'm agnostic and dated several different Christian denominations, I don't think I could be with someone that's a hardcore bible thumper.

What does it mean when a guy keeps staring at you? I always have guys stare at me in public but I cannot tell if it's because I am attractive or ugly. It's not a quick glance but a stare for a while.

I have been told I am a 5-7/10 so not very attractive but average.

Actually to both, but specify gender please.

How old are you? How much older and younger would you be willing to date?

>>18417522
20 year old femanon here. I would date as young as 17 and as old as 50. Please don't judge me.

>>18417526
Nah femanon, we all love you on here.

>>18417522
22 y/o femanon here.
No limit either side for me desu. The oldest I've actually dated is fifteen years older than me, and I've never dated someone significantly younger (I don't exactly meet teenagers in my everyday life, but when I'm in my thirties I expect I'll date guys in their early twenties, god willing)

>>18417522
Femanon, 24
The youngest I would go is 19, the oldest 29

>>18417494
Male, Catholic with a lot of doubt. I think I could date any religious person as long as they aren't part of a weird cult. I have no preference, I'm very flexible when it comes to accepting and being interested in other people's beliefs. But I'd rather be with someone interested in philosophy rather than someone who doesn't care about why or how we exist.

>>18417520
you never stare at someone ugly. It's unpleasant. Maintained eye contact is a likely indicator of sexual/romantic interests

>>18417534
I have stared at really ugly people before because god damn

>>18417522
Male 24. I'd date from 4 years younger than me to I guess 4 up. I prefer younger or same age because I already feel old and I'm afraid of aging.

>>18417527
That makes me happy. I love you too.

>>18417538
well, I wasn't speaking about the olympic level of ugliness of course. Just the regular day-to-day one

>>18417530
>when I'm in my thirties I expect I'll date guys in their early twenties, god willing
Whenever I think how my dating life would be like at 30s I'm like "God I could finally hit on all those hot men in their late 30s/early 40s without feeling like I have daddy issues".

>>18417545
I literally think the same thing lol

>>18417522
Male 20 here, I'd want to stay within 3 - 4 years up or down: 18 lowest until im 22

>>18417545
Pahahaha I kinda get you. Like dating guys in their mid thirties now I do get some comments... plus if a guy is that age and still wants to hook up with grills in their early twenties he may well be a bit of a player.
I actually went to a younger women older men speed dating night once, but it was beyond depressing.

>>18417552
>I actually went to a younger women older men speed dating night once, but it was beyond depressing.
Greentext please

>>18417474
Do girls really like men way older than them? I keep hearing shit like 18 y old girl with 27 + old guy, and it's just kinda wierd to me

I'm 20 m btw

>>18417555
Not really greentext worthy but here are some of the dramatis personae described:
>lonely, fat, bald autist who'd never had a gf
>short man with a stutter who tried to slip me his hotel key
>man who started convo with telling me his annual income and thus how much he could spend on me
>man who said he thought he was in love with me by the end of the four minute speed date

There were about ten blokes there and they all ticked yes for me. I'm not even attractive. It was sad, I couldn't reciprocate for any of them.

Not sure if this is the right thread for this, but I have a few questions for the ladies here:

I want to set up a Bumble account, but I've never used a dating app or website before, and I don't really know what to do. What catches your eyes? Are there any types of pictures in particular that grab your attention? What about pictures that you find off-putting?
And I want to keep my description brief, but what should I mention? What should I avoid mentioning?
Thanks.

>>18417557
Idk I don't have a preference but I find I end up dating older guys usually bc I'm into stuff that older people like more (politics, writing group, go to public lectures a lot) and not really into parties or clubbing. I realise this is an oversimplification.

>>18417552
I think that men in their late 20s to their early 40s are just another level. They really do age like wine.
I've always been obsessed, since I was a teenager. But, obviously, you can't really date a 37 year old man when you're 16 without people thinking that your dad molested you (which wasn't really the case).
I've been dating the same guy since high school - now I'm 24, he's 27. In my eyes he gets hotter every year. When he hits 30, I think that I will just lock him in my room and molest him. God damn.

>>18417522
32 year old female, as long as he's not old enough to be my dad and over 21, I'm good.

>>18417522
male 27
my gf is 18
I cant imagine dating anyone older than me

>>18417494
Woman. I am an atheist and do not care about the religion of my partner as long as they are okay with not pushing religion on our children, okay with me not being religious, and do not have concrete stances I cannot live with. For example I could date a mild, reasonable Christian but not one who thinks "Gods hates fags".

I think this works out because someone more orthodox in their beliefs will consider it a dealbreaker that I don't have a religion anyway.

>>18417522
24. I would feel creepy dating a guy younger than ~twenty one, twenty perhaps.
As for oldest, thirty.

Ideally I want to date someone who is quite close to my age, the closer the better. For a fling that is just about having fun together I would not care what his age is as long as he is legal and I like him.

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I have to write a letter to a girl I know becauses she's in a Christian retreat and when I did it myself she sent me one (because it's a custom to do so).
I know I've asked about this before but I'm still not sure how much interest to show in mine. Because she probably knows I like her. I've asked her out last year when we had just met and she said she was too busy but we grew closer after that and got along great since. And I wanna try asking her out at least once again after she comes back.
Also, she put some funny-ish comic in her letter to me, a random one about books and parents from some writer from my country. Is it too silly or awkward if I put pic related in my letter?
Thanks

>>18417565
>Are there any types of pictures in particular that grab your attention? What about pictures that you find off-putting?
Try to avoid super obvious selfies and pics with girls.
Any pic of you doing something fun is great - I love travelling pics or pics that were taken while hiking for example, but pics of you doing sports, cooking or doing whatever can be nice as well. Pics with dogs are always cute. Pics of you at social events can be nice.

>And I want to keep my description brief, but what should I mention? What should I avoid mentioning?
Make it brief and funny. Write it well, don't overuse emojis, use proper punctuation. Don't talk about yourself in 3rd person.
It's hard to tell you what to mention because I don't know anything about you, but maybe do not let yourself be defined by what you do (shit like: "Law student. Love dogs. Let's go on an adventure" is a bit sterile).

>>18417591
Definitely don't put that comic in the letter.
Just be charming and funny, and show an interest in her. Wish her well on the retreat and say you look forward to seeing her soon.

>>18417599
kek
Alright, I'm glad I asked then, thanks!

>>18417591
I wouldn't do it. I don't find it funny (then again I feel like I'm missing a reference so that could be on me) and depending on what type of person she is she might feel like you're hinting at something.

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>>18417604
That's a shame, it's kind of an internet classic though you are right it's probably not appropriate (and not that funny). Her sense of humor is pretty much like mine though.
This is hard, I guess I'll write about how I'm interested in getting to know her more and how I relate to her views on Christianity and how she used to question everything like I did/do but I can't think of other stuff right now. I still have 1 and a half days left to write it though.
Also would you say it's silly to put some out of context quote from a famous writer in it that sort of relates to what she's doing? She reads a ton.

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>>18417612
Maybe she would like it more, I'd just be on the safe side here. Yes quotes are fine. It doesn't matter whether it's out of context or not, she'll appreciate that you are thinking of what she is experiencing and relating it to what you've read yourself.

Is she going to stay for a long time? Maybe just share some little bits from your everyday life. Make her feel like she's kind of in the loop, give her something of the "outside world" to see. Just casual stuff like what kind of weather it was, funny anecdotes, how you are feeling. And I'm sure she appreciates hearing your interest/curiosity.

Personally I am partial to this comic.

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>>18417563
HHAHAHAHAAHAHHA WTF

Ladies, can you actually feel when a guy comes inside you or is that whole "Oh I feel it" shit just a lie? If so, what does it feel like?

>>18417615
Excellent, thanks for the advice! She left today and comes back on saturday at night. I'm not sure where it is but it's probably not too far away. Actually we both did this retreat (separately) years ago but I did it again recently as part of the volunteer group that organizes it and makes sure everything works out (that's behind the walls, the people *doing* the retreat don't see you or know you are right there helping making it work), and now she's doing it like that herself, as well.

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>>18417569
>I think that I will just lock him in my room and molest him. God damn.

>>18417623
I definitely can feel the cock throbbing and sometimes I can feel him coming. It feels like I'm filled. After a couple of seconds it feels wet.

>>18417623
You don't feel shit give me a break.
If we cum at the same time I am attuned enough to feel your cock pulsing as you shoot your wad. But it's wet in there anyway if you are doing your job right. Do I feel that added bit of moisture? No.

>>18417623
Glad you've asked this, I wondered whether other girls could feel it. I cant really, sometimes a bit of throbbing but never really sure.
And I don't know whether it's poor etiquette to ask if he's come?

>>18417632
Hahha. My husband is obsessed with "granny porn" (which really means women in their 50s and 60s I guess??)

He actually said to me, "the fact that no one else wants them turns me on. They are just horny and real."

I was a bit upset and confused initially when I found out about this fetish, but 4chan helped me realize it actually eases up on me as a woman. As I get older, I'm just going to become more attractive to him as I fall out of the "fuckable" bracket for everyone else.

For now I'm just enjoying 31 year old MILF status (although most everyone pegs me as 25 with no kids), but I can definitely see how this could come in handy in some years.

For me, I guess I like younger looking guys but my husband was such a stud muffin and kind of a dick as a young man it's kind of enjoyable watching time catch up with him.

>>18417653
>And I don't know whether it's poor etiquette to ask if he's come?
I assume it's not, I don't think any guy would find that anything else than hot.

>>18417653
>And I don't know whether it's poor etiquette to ask if he's come?
I think it depends on the guy and the reason/way you ask it
If you ask because of hornyness, in a "slutty" voice, I'm all for it

>>18417660
What if I look at my watch, sigh, and ask 'are you finished yet? I haven't got all day'

Guys: How often do you fap?
http://www.strawpoll.me/13188525

Girls?:
http://www.strawpoll.me/13188546

>>18417669
It will remind me of some amateur porn video I once watched that was still sexy imo.

How much independence in relationship is too much? I just want a boyfriend for sex a couple of times a month and to have an official date to go to the movies, etc once in a while. Why can't I find a man since my standards are so simple?

>>18417713
>sex a couple of times a month
God that's cringey.

Do I leave her or do I stay?
She broke my heart after a long relationship and now wants to stay friends.

Im a male

Guys

What's your opinion on a girl who texts you first with random shit?

>>18417713
It depends on the guy. Many guys want someone there for them all the time, others just want someone to hang out with them from time to time and move it to something more serious later on. Personally, I'm too independent to be hanging out all the time with a gf.

Men are pretty much able to handle any situation as long as they get love/sex. So it must be something else. How would you describe your personality and looks?

>>18417520
you are either fascinatingly ugly or attractive

>>18417713
You sound like a girl that is only looking for a fuck boy

>>18417597
Okay, thanks for the response. I have a few good pictures with me in them, but they're pretty standard. I think I'll focus on getting more pictures of myself doing something active. I also like the picture with a dog suggestion.

For my description, I'll mention what I'm doing school/job-wise and where I plan on going from here, as well as a couple of hobbies.

>>18417670
I voted almost or exactly once a day, every day, but in reality it's more every other day but multiple rounds (one to three, two being most common).

>>18417669
Well, I'd lost my boner, so it will be finished
Then I would ask you to go away wherever you want

>>18417725
Don't do it, allow yourself distance to heal and let her become a memory.

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>>18417735
what kind of random shit

I would love that, I have no male friends to banter with and girls never text me first unless they're horny

>>18417760
She means so much to me still but shes so cold. Are you sure this is the right thing to do?

>>18417713
> I just want a boyfriend for sex a couple of times a month

Most men want sex at least once a day.

Sex is the only reason they even put up with females in the first place, otherwise they would ignore them entirely.

>>18417766
Yes. If you processed that the relationship is over you can always revisit the idea of a friendship. If she's not open to it anymore solely because you needed some space after a painful break up, she had not been capable of offering you real friendship anyway.

It will hurt like fuck now but it's better than letting the pain drag on and on. If you still feel this strongly about her and interact with her all the time, every little thing will remind you of not being together anymore, every indifferent or insensitive thing she says will spark up the hurt and so on. Better to rip off the band aid. I'm sorry anon.

>>18417713
this deal works with me, I have a wife and a daughter, would be nice to get away from them once in a while and get my dick deep in some fresh pussy :_(

>>18417778
Thanks anon, these are tough times

>>18417763
Memes, selfies, pics of my cats, random articles I find interesting and want to share, "hey, how are you?" shit

>>18417743
That's what I'm trying to figure without posting my face here.

I have had two guys call me ugly before, but I have also had really attractive men randomly ask for my number in public. This has happened four times. I have no idea where do I stand.

Why do girls religiously follow astrology signs? I would read some and it's just some basic description that can be attached to almost anyone.

>>18417805
>I have also had really attractive men randomly ask for my number in public

maybe they are just number theorists.

>>18417766
You need some space to heal. After awhile, you can think about friendship. Right now it will only hinder the healing process. Sorry this happened to you. Good luck anon.

>>18417802
Yeah that would make me happy. Maybe talk about mutual interest, too, depends on how well you know this guy.
Is there any romantic interest here or just friendly stuffs?

>>18417805
The same happens to me, I've been called ugly before but I've had a bunch of attractive men call me cute.

From guy for guys
>What is the appropriate response to betrayal from your so?

I got extremely angry, called her every name and just did as much damage as I possibly could, which wasn't a lot. Was this wrong? How would you deal with it?

>>18417735
I mean if you want to talk fucking talk so we can like, you know, talk, how do I know you want to talk if you don't like, talk and shit? Logic breh

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>>18417839
>but I've had a bunch of attractive men call me cute
clearly these guys are topologists.

>>18417844
God shut the fuck up nigger that was so cringe

>>18417812
Because they're fucking retarded and can't model the world around them on a more stable, well rooted, properly developed system.

>>18417805
well i think you already know the answer then

>>18417848
No, fuck you, you double nigger

>>18417846
So clearly I am not attractive. Thank you for pointing that out anon

>>18417855
You're a triple nigger and I can smell your fried chicken, weed, and food stamps from here

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>>18417805
>>18417817
If you don't understand what this means, some guys will just swipe right on EVERY girl on Tindr, or cold approach large amounts of women in public places.

The idea is that if you approach enough women, even if you have to go through 100s of women, eventually one of them will reward you with sex.

It is a very difficult challenge for men to get sex now. For most of history they would just marry some girl their family picked out when he was a teenager, and they were perfectly fine with just her.

But in modern society where feminism has pretty much ruined all long-term relationships with females, and made marriage or having kids with females a suicidal deal for men, a lot of men basically just try to get random girls to have sex with them.

Can you blame them? Women are rewarded for divorce, they are not punished for cheating (they were all throughout history). They could divorce any time they feel like it, and get custody of his children, take half his money/assets, and force him to pay alimony and child support.

I.e. steal his kids and ruin him financially, ruin his entire life.

Why the HELL would any man want to settle down with a female in western society? They don't, that's one reason why marriage and white birth rates have plummeted. Another is because women won't settle down with a guy unless he makes decent money, and we don't live in 1950s America where a guy could leave high school and immediately get a job that pays enough to support a wife/family.

>>18417862
that's just your mommas pussy

>>18417846
You anon, I like you. I bet they can't tell the difference between a cup of coffee and a donut

>>18417805
Is your face noticeably asymmetrical by others?

Is one feature of yours way out of scale compared to the others?

Do you have deep, heavy acne scarring, or very prominent hair moles on your face?

Are you fat?

If any of these is yes, you may be ugly.

If not, you probably are just self conscious and look fine.

>>18417842
Leave immediately, cut all contact, don't speak with her, don't respond to her, show absolutely no emotion, but make sure everyone knows why you broke up with her. That is exactly what I do.

You have to expect girls today to cheat. Don't ever tolerate it though.

>>18417869
I'm so fucking /angry/ though

>>18417872
You're a fucking beta. You're showing emotion over a whore, and you didn't properly control her.

The proper thing to do would be to beat her within an inch of her life, but it's just not worth it.

Just make sure everyone knows why you broke up, tell her entire family and all her friends. Show no emotion about, if you show emotion you're the one that looks like a child.

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>>18417856
time to find a husband then?

>>18417886
I'm not though, I just feel in love like a fucking idiot with a fucking childish woman. This is the first time I ever genuinely loved someone and the shit I let open in me, fuck me I was such an idiot. It's why I'm so fucking angry, she betrayed so much. This fucking whore. Worst thing is she and her friends are now upset at me for calling her names. She's upset... at me!!

Jesus fucking Christ

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>>18417866
No to all of that. I know what makes me unattractive is my nose. I look like pic related but with straight hair and smaller lips.

>>18417900
So you're Jewish?

>>18417905
I am chilean.

>>18417915
We should get together, I'm a Netflixean.

>>18417899
>Worst thing is she and her friends are now upset at me for calling her names.

See? You gave them ammunition.

The correct response to finding out your gf cheated:

1) Act completely calm, show no emotion, act like you never cared about her at all
2) Immediately break up
3) Don't say ANYTHING to her, don't talk to her, don't respond to her messages, cut off all contact
4) Make sure everyone knows that she cheated, do not add curse words, do not show emotion

5) If she ever gets in another relationship, warn her new boyfriend about what she did.

>>18417836
I have no idea how he feels about me, but I'm smitten. He is a bit of a robot and I can never tell if he's happy that I text him or if it bothers him... idk man

>>18417922
Ok, sounds logical. What about my anger/hatred though. How do I get rid of those?

>>18417918
that was so smooth 10/10

>>18417918
I laughed out loud.

>>18417849
astrology works to some extend though, because of epigenetics

>>18417927
Oh well then make a move on him, ask him out, life is too short to hesitate these things :)

>>18417931
You should have never had a mindset that allowed you to get emotional about a woman in the first place.

Girls in the western world are extremely likely to cheat, break up, or completely fuck up your entire life in a divorce. You did know this right?

Drink some alcohol. Don't ever treat any girlfriend as anything more than an expensive prostitute, because that's what they are.

>>18417900
Uh, nah you are attractive

dudes might be too intimidated to go up to you, or you dont go out enough

we stare at qt girls

>>18417947
Could you tell us more about your story?

>>18417474
What can you do to get your girl back, that is now in a rebound relationship

>>18417956

Then she's not your girl anymore. Time to move on.

>>18417942
I'm on the fence because I'd rather have him make the move first. He's a bit younger and I feel like it would come off thirsty to ask him out

I usually laugh when making out with a girl.
Is this considered a turn off?

>>18417973
literally why

>>18417973
It's ok if you're cute. I think my oneitis would do the same thing, he laughs and giggles almost all the time

>>18417986
I am not laughing ALL the time.
For example I was making out with a girl and she grabbed my balls so I instinctivly laughed.

>>18417970
>I feel like it would come off thirsty to ask him out

lol how old are you? how old is he?

>I'd rather have him make the move first

ok? we need to conspire a plan to trick him into asking you out?

>>18417812
I don't know any girl who does this. Oh yes, I knew one, but she was stupid in every way. I know a guy who does too. So, no difference between the sexes in my experience.

>>18417954
Men shouldn't show emotion. They should be hardened. They shouldn't cry over someone dying, they shouldn't show emotion for anything, except anger when appropriate, and displayed appropriately.

There's a reason that this has always been a valuable trait in men. A man who acts like an emotional woman will have a hard time in life.

>>18418014
I'd love to rail the girl all night hopefully I have the right sign :_)

>>18418007
He is 18 and I'm 23

I know it's unusual but this guy is more mature than my 29 years old exbf

>we need to conspire a plan to trick him into asking you out?
That would be perfect

>>18418000
Like full on laughing? Not giggling?

>>18418044
something inbetween I guess

>>18418042
well you know how to seduce him right? is there any opportunity for you to be alone with him?

>>18417931
This >>18418021 is terrible advice, anon. I wouldn't take it too seriously. It was likely written by an angsty, shut-in, fifteen year old.

There's not a man alive who hasn't shed a tear over the death of a loved one, and, as a human being, it's absolutely fine to feel things. Equating masculinity to being emotionally retarded is a very new thing, springing out of the Victorian era, and it is by no means the natural form of masculine identity.

>>18418000
>>18418046
wouldn't turn me off desu

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A girl I've been dating for 6 months is going to her gynecologyst exam tommorow. She casually mentioned that she has been friends with the male gynecologyst for years and they used to frequent bars with their group of friends and work together at some point. I dont care that he is male, just their relationship. Is this normal for a girl? Am I over reacting?

Dumb question but if I write "hugs" as a way to close an email or message or whatever to a girl, does it automatically imply friendship and lack of romantic interest from my side? I mean in the case that we are not dating or a couple yet, of course.

Women

What makes you want to have sex with a guy?

>>18418091
the size of his Degree

>>18418091
The size of his schnoz

girls:
if I get accidentally alone with a girl who's not initially interested in sex with me, do I have any chance of seducing her? Are there any conditions for it to happen?
I'm not a sex god, but I have a ready dick at her service

>>18418051
>you know how to seduce him
Not really. I know how to seduce normal guys but he doesn't fall into this category. He's not as thirsty as most men are and doesn't follow the whole seduction game

>opportunity to be alone with him
That's the biggest problem. He is my friend's brother and lives with her and another roommate, so I see him briefly often enough. But she is always present and the other roommate is too. And he is almost always busy. And in all honesty so am I. So we mostly text when we have some free time and feel like it.

Damn. After typing all this I can see how tricky this situation is.

>>18418069
It is a little weird. Did she know him as a friend of a gynecologist first? I can't decide which is weirder.
You might ask her her story about him. Try to be playful and not accusing. If he was a gynecologist first, how did she meet him in a friend context?
If a friend first, was it weird to have him as a gynecologist?

>>18418116
Dude.... This makes me a little uncomfortable.

>>18418159
He's asking how to seduce her not to rape her, calm down

>>18418085
If anything, I'd consider it intimate.

>>18418159
yeah, what the other anon said. I'm asking how to obtain willfull consent. Nothing to be concerned about if the girl isn't in the mood

>>18418085
its ok as long as you don't do write it like: *hugs*

>>18418161
I'm only a little uncomfortable, not a lot uncomfortable.
I'd be curious about the circumstances that lead him to know that she was not interested in sex with him.

>>18418181
I meant 'not interested' as in 'not clogging my mouth with her tongue once we are alone, not even oggling me/flirting with me'

because otherwise the path is straight and clear for me

>>18417520
It could be your clothes. I know for a fact that I will shamefully stare too long at females who happen to be wearing the right clothes that show some skin but not too much skin

>>18417538
Yep. For me I've been known to give an actual reaction (quick, but somebody might see it) if its bad enough with trashy clothes.

As the girlfriend in a heterosexual relationship, I want to bring up the idea of an [MFF threesome] but... All the advice I see caters towards boyfriends wanting to bring up MFF with their girlfriends. I worry about hurting his feelings like all the posts I read about from the woman's point of view when their boyfriend brings up an MFF threesome with them. They feel insecure and unwanted.

But there is very little advice out there for women who want to bing up MFFs... Help!

Just FYI my BF knows I'm bisexual.

>>18418144
Pretty sure your friend would be glad to have you fuck her brother.
Just have her ask him if he digs you, go from there.

>>18418205
I'll say that there is the possibility that he'll think that he's "not enough" for you and that you actually want to be dating a girl.
Plus the actual process of doing it can be a mess. I had a MFF threesome with my ex boyfriend and she basically put all the emphasis on me and had no interest in him at all.

>>18418245
I've been thinking about boundaries and stuff, and I'd definitely want it to be us as a couple pleasing the other lady. And we'd talk about it with her. Obviously this is very preliminary as I haven't said anything.

>>18417494
I am agnostic boy who doesnt care as long as she isnt kebab. I would like my children to explode or being beheaded. Anything else is fine.

>>18417520
They want the V. Are you single femanon? Just chat them up to obtain free bf.

>>18417526
I judge you. As anybody else does in secret.

>>18417557
Bitches love secure stable rich dominant mature boys who knows what lady wants to hear and what to do in bed. Stupid horny teens cant compete at any level. Like, do you even have car to drive her to date?

>>18417565
https://www.menaskem.com/8-profile-pictures-that-help-you-meet-more-women/
Your first pic has to be 120% perfect selfie. Only after that people will read bio or see other photos. Put maximum effort into forging that perfect first picture.

>>18417653
>if hes come
Lol. Isnt it pretty obvious when boy is finished? Like when he grunts, thrust at maximum force and stops for a while? What are you doing during sex? Sleep?
:-D

>>18417632
Hot.

>>18417669
There is no better way how to hurt our ego then this. Do this few times and see how your bf will turn into miserable pathetic creature.

>>18417713
I think you will have more luck with dragon dildo. Also this >>18417767

>>18417725
Definitely break up.
>You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.
She wont have respect for you otherwise.

>>18417735
That means she wants my D. But a lot of boys are super dumb. So maybe ask them to dinner or something.

>>18417812
Same as religion. Dont question their believes with logic. Waste of time.

>>18417842
Dropping her on the spot. Block and delete on all social media and never talking to her again.

>>18417863
Dont worry anon, the water boils slowly for feminazis too. Every girl will eventually hit 35 and chads are by definition unable to settle down.
Also >>>/pol/

>>18418205
well, go damn slowly about it, and never proceed if he doesn't seem interested.

And furthermore don't cuck yourself. This part may be even harder.

>>18418274
I just wanna know how to bring it up so I can gauge his interest.

>>18418270
not suggesting condoms today?

>>18418150
She worked at a doctors office while he worked there going to school. They dont really see eachother socially anymore once she got a different job and eventually when he became a gynecologist she became one of his patients. She mentioned she feels comfortable with him because she can ask him more questions and not be embarrased. Gynecologist is married.

>>18418280
You wanna see me eat a girl's tits while you shag her?

>W-what?
>I'm horny, I want to suck some tits
>...
>Only if you're down for it though
Option 1
>not really, wtf Alissa
>Oh well I'll just suck ur dick then
Option 2
>Fuck yeah, you're the best Taylor!
>Oh well, I'll just suck some titty then

Win-win scenario. You're whalecum

>>18418280
nobody can tell you. you just need to wait patiently for the right moment. It's kind of like trying to check if somebody might like you relationship-wise. You don't ask them, you just hang around hoping they'll make a move or that you'll be able to bring it up in such a way you'll be able to laugh it off if you were mistaken.

patience is the key. Confidence is the other one. Have both or give up

>>18418288
this guy doesn't protect you from getting cucked

>>18418295
If the other girl is THAT good then she shouldn't be bringing it up in the first place.

Get an uglier girl, asker, duh.

>>18418297
fuck it, you never know. She may be ugly, but still fuck way better. And asker won't know before it's too late. Or they may feel the chemistry. Nothing helps that

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>>18418069
Learn how to trust your gf a little or break up. No point in dating somebody you dont trust in the first place. It is ok to be careful or jealous, but dont let that ruin your life.
>cucked by gynocologist
Think about it anon, when she will have trouble getting pregnant, her gyno will help her :-)

>>18418085
Just ask her on date already.

>>18418116
Cuddle, hug, telling her she makes you nervous. Basicaly try to touch her. Start with hands.

>>18418205
Threesome is the second best way how to kill relationship (right after cheating). 1 of 3 people will get attached / hurted emotionally and it will all go to shit. You have been warned.

A) he gets feeling you cucked him with girl
B) you get feeling he cucked you with the girl
C) you will become jealous
D) the girl will snatch him
E) you will go after the girl

If you value your relationship a lot, dont play russian roulete with it. It can backfire hard.

>>18418281
Pic related.

Is being a depressed actually a turn off for girls? Like I'm trying to get with this girl and would like to confess that I am clinically depressed to her, she's fairly mature and would possibly understand but would it be a turn off?

>>18418305
>speciffically state I'm asking girls
>that dumb male attention whore still has to respond
here's the (you), now fuck off you cancer

>>18418305
I know plenty of people whose relationships are fine after threesomes.

>>18418310
absolute turn off. maybe the worst one possible.

>>18418310
depression is a turn off to everyone
anyone who denies this has not experienced it first hand

>>18418303
Well, the question is

>How do I get my bf to shag another girl
not
>How do I get him to not like her better
If asker would like to know that, asker can ask.

>>18418310
Having mental illness isnt advantage in any scenario anon. Also does your dick even work or you are lucky and happy pills didnt killed it?

Dont mention it on first few dates.

>>18418312
You asked deer about how to hunt deer. Think about it.

>>18418314
That is true, but the amount of things which can go wrong is huge. Maybe try
http://mojoupgrade.com/
to see if he likes group plays. Still imho dangerous.

>>18418330
I thought about it before I posted. I'd just be glad if you started doing the same at last

>>18418330
we tried it months ago, perhaps a little premature when he was shier than he is now. group sex didn't come back as mutual ;-;

>>18418345
>shier than he is now
No I'm pretty sure he's just not into group sex. Why would you be shy about answering a survey that only tells your partner what you have in common?

>>18418310
Damn i want a depressed bf. People suffering from depression tend to have a good and kind heart.

>>18418356
what

if not bait, elaborate pls

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>>18418356
Hey there

>>18418345
See, your bf is your cute faithful qtie and you literaly want to drag whore into your bed and force him watch you cucking him. I bet the sole idea of you asking him this will hurt him. Cant you really find some safer kink?

Or try that site again.

>>18418356
People with depression have this ability to suck your happiness, dreams and will to live out from you. Be careful about what you wish for.

>>18418351
in case he was worried it would come back but I'd tricked him? I dunno. I'm just grasping at straws. but the mojo upgrade is a glorified horoscope and I'm taking it with a pinch of salt

>>18418364
>glorified horoscope
How so?

>>18418363
>People with depression have this ability to suck your happiness, dreams and will to live out from you. Be careful about what you wish for.
Or people with low self esteem. Man, fuck those people.

everybody, just state your sex:

what is the trait commonly considered unattractive, that you would like your partner to have?

I'm a guy and I think I'd really like to have a blind gf

>>18418373
Girl here.

Buck teeth. Also I would like him to be same height as me or shorter.

>>18418373
You know they can still see your face with their hands, right?

>>18418370
4chan (and like all modern western society) have trouble recognizing difference between
>depression xD
>anxiety
>low self esteem
And real mental issues like clinical depression. Just the sole fact that you are underachieving, single mom raised boy with trouble apeaking to strangers or motivate yourself doesnt mean you have depression and that happy pills will help you.

But pharmacy lobby is simply too powerful and even started pumping lively full of energy children with addreal. What the gov doesnt realize that these children will cost them all social money as neets inable to find job, motivation or make family.

So really, if you are here and taking pills for your troubles, reconsider other options and instead of minimizing symptoms cure the cause.

>>18418373
I'm a dude, I think I'd like a girl with slightly baggy eyelids, tired face / resting bitch face, and kinda unkempt hair (but not stanky)

>>18418387
I speak very easily to strangers though and I fucking love pills so pls don't stereotype senpfam. Also adderall is the shit.

>>18418382
absolutely!
I'm totally amazed by their tactile and auditory abilities, that's one of the major advantages they have

>>18418380
how tall are you?

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Why are women like this? Idk if I can carry on.

>>18418373
Well it's not a physical trait, but my current boyfriend was a virgin when I met him, and just 10/10 would corrupt again

>>18418429
>Idk if I can carry on.
If you assume this woman is representative of all women, you likely won't be able to.

>>18418429
You have brain. When you are unable to tell you have no chance of winning and still picking up fight, you are beyond saving. So yea, he deserves to be cucked.

>>18417494
Guy. Islam is the only no-go for me.

>>18418452
I'm another anon, but fuck - do you really expect me not to even try and just shame myself instead?

>>18417494
Guy, no thanks to muslim.

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>>18418433
>implying she isn't

How do guys feel about fat chicks with pretty faces and the right proportions?

>>18418468
Huh, it ironically is art....

>>18418470
Chubby or obese?

>>18418429
so you have a problem with the fact, that raw physical power is considered attractive?

send a complaint to the god of evolution, bro

>>18418470
I like to put them on diet. When you have fat and "right proportions" before pregnancy, imagine how morbidly obese you will be after few babies?

>>18418458
I dont understand your english. And getting drunk, insulted and beaten silly just shows how immature you are.

>>18418470
I think it's a shame desu

They are pretty much squandering what they have

>>18418429
This killed me a little inside.

Since we're on fat girls topic, what's your opinion on a fat girl on a diet/work out plan? Would you date someone like that or wait till she's not a hamplanet anymore, or just find a slim qt instead?

Post one (1) fat chick with a good face.

>>18418480
>>18418482
>>18418487
I have this impression, that you guys believe that girls are either super slim or extremely fat, with just nothing in between

>>18418487
I mean it doesn't really mean much to me because I wouldn't date most fat girls. I'd only date a fat girl if she was fat in the right places ( T H I C C ) If she's trying to diet / lose weight; of course I'd support her.

>>18418492
What's inbetween?

>>18418492
I don't know what kind of dumb impression you have then. Being fat isn't attractive for the most part. The only time it's ok is when she has a fat ass and tits. No shit there's in-betweens. But everyone has a limit. Just because I don't wanna date a FAT girl doesn't mean I wouldn't date a medium normal - edging chubby girl. She isn't FAT.

>>18418492
I'm aware that inbetween people exist, but I don't care about them. My question focuses on fat girls (because I'm fat) and slim girls (because I aspire to be slim).

Why are people fat when you can be thin?

>>18418499
>>18418503
ok, define fat more specifically

>>18418487
If i see girl on REAL DIET (counting calories) and or real routine, i wouldnt mind at all. After all i had been once in that position too.

>>18418492
>nothing in between
Post your BMI and we will talk.
http://www.calculator.net/bmi-calculator.html

If you are out of range 20~25 bmi, chances are very high you are just another fat girl who doesnt do any sport and her diet (and life style) is pure shit.

>>18418504
Economy. No point in having two dimensions (height and width) when you can have just one (radius)

>>18418504
Idk about other people, in my case it's overeating (due to stress, bad eating habits and carelessness) and not enough physical activity.

I know this probably gets asked a lot but... how can I figure out if a girl likes me without directly asking her? Problem is, she's very shy and reserved. Possibly even has mild autism but that's just a theory.

The only positive signs I've noticed so far are:
1. She seems to smile a lot more when we talk, and others have noticed this.
2. When in groups she'll talk to me the most, even if it means interrupting a conversation I'm having.

>>18418506
I'm a guy, so my BMI has nothing to do with it

>>18418509
Poor people are thinner?

>>18418512
it's enough, go for it

>>18418505
What do you mean?

When I say fat I mean from fat to very fat verging on obese. Not chubby and not 280 pounds of a hamplanet either. Just fat.

>>18418504
Because fat is beautiful. Especially fat guys.

>>18418515
no, no, no.
they are fatter. They can't afford both dimensions, they have to settle with one

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>>18418509
Lol.

>>18418512
By literally asking her on 1vs1 social activities she can do with you in her free time. Girls arent stupid. If she likes you, she will gladly spend her time with you.

>>18418514
If you cant bench at least 70kg, you are still fat if bmi says you are. Dont fall for perma bulk. Sure muscles weights a lot, but your hearth still suffers from excess fat.

>>18418520
>When I say fat I mean from fat to very fat
makes perfect sense.
I asked, because 'fat' is a term that might be used basically anywhere on a scale between chubby to not being able to walk by oneself. personal definitions differ a lot

Why do women pretend like they're not attracted to money? Like a guy with money.

>>18418532
Because not all women are.

>>18418525
I meant that since I'm a guy, my weight doesn't matter, for we're discussing female fat right now

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>>18418505
I'll help you out on this. If you look like the girl on the left, or fatter you will NOT attract many dudes.
Lose the weight.

If you look like the girl on the right, who is still fat but in the right places, you will attract dudes. Maybe not the right type or as many as you would like; but you will attract dudes nonetheless.

You can look like any combination or variations of these two, but depending which you are closer to will determine if guys will like you.

And the biggest thing: If you are fat and have no boobs; lose your weight as soon as possible. Being fat with small boobs is the worst thing that exists.

>>18418544
But for real though, just lose the weight regardless of which one you are. Take care of yourself and stay healthy

Females: What gives?

>>18418544
That isn't fat, that is fucking obese.

>>18418470
I like skinny girls, just my personal preference. Everyone has different taste. Some guys even like guys! can you believe it?

>>18418556
Be more specific.

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>>18418544
>If you look like the girl on the right, who is still fat but in the right places, you will attract dudes

>>18418558
being fat is being obese

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>>18418536
The fun fact with bmi is that fat people (both girls and boys) are super defensive about being fat and try their best to evade it or tell
>in the right places
So when scientific objective method tells you that you are morbidly obese, it hurts :-)

So ladies and gentelmans, stop believing nonsense and stop being fat. You dont want high cholesterol, blood pressure, diabeeetus, lowered libido, destroyed knees and loss of stamia during your sex mission or climbing stairs.

>>>/fit/ sticky and start the process tommorow. It is 80% food, 15% sport and 5% genetics.

>>18418544
Both of them are fat.

>>18418565
I guess i'll ask a real question: Where are all my non-partying homebody singer/song writer girls my age (23) and how do I find them? How do I find them if they're hanging out at home practicing guitar!? I've been playing shows and open mics and no one is my age

>>18418571
>>>/lgbt/

>>18418573
Not a female, and I have a funny feeling /lgbt/ would be lacking in the "L"category.

>>18418571
I'm not sure what to tell you dude. Maybe try to find them online? If they're homebodies it's going to be hard to find them. That's the thing about wanting a homebody. Not that there's anything wrong with it, but why are you specifically looking for homebodies?

>>18418579
I live in a large city, and the people I typically meet are party/club girls. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just not my thing. I just want a girl to learn songs with. I've scowered all the musician forums and no such luck.

>>18418576
I didn't even understand the question. I just made some assumptions.

>>18418584
Maybe you can find a chick who enjoys occasionally partying and would also be interested in learning songs. Stay open-minded, try unexpected places

>>18418591
I agree with you actually. I think I'm getting a bit too narrow minded

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Today I sent the most autistic question barrage to my gf. Basically I'm tired, depressed and I can't shake off the feeling that my being physical and affectionate scares her off. Even though she said she'd have told me if she wasn't interested, I keep feeling doubt. So I told her that, with examples to boot. Then asked her what was on her mind. Read it instantly and hasn't responded since, and now that I'm more awake I can't read it without cringing.

Taking her hand makes her jump and pull away immediately.
Giving her a hug (if she leaves an opening in the first place) only works as an awkward sidehug because she won't come closer.
When taking a seat somewhere together, I almost have to yell because she's so far away.
We haven't gone out in forever, because there's always something in the middle or plans she's bound to for that day. And then we randomly bump into each other and still hang for a bit.
Telling her sweet things or sending her pics of me gets ignored or talked over. She doesn't do any of the former and rarely does the latter if it's covered in a Snapchat filter.
What does she do? Talk usual generic stuff and send me memes. Most of it over text, as she won't meet and refuses to call (with the occasional exception) because she's busy.
Oh, and she does cling to her phone pretty often when we're together. Shows me stories she comes across or funny convos coming by, but still.

tl;dr: I sent her that cringefest about all this a while back and now I sit here wondering how to salvage this. Should I joke about text regret and change topics to pretend it never happened? Send a funny picture to diffuse the mood? Or own it up and leave her hanging until she decides to place her judgment?

>>18418594
Yeah, I think the primary thing should be having a connection with the person and chemistry, not primarily sharing interests

>>18418596
Is it an actual girlfriend or someone random chcik that you're scaring the shit out of.

>>18418596
try working out.

Hey girls im a 22 years old good looking guy i was just at a night walk with the daugther of my moms bf. She is 16 and its complicated with us so at the walk she started to tell me from nowhere that she dont want to marry as a virgin and want to have sex with someone... does she want me?

>>18418596
that's not even a gf, man

>>18418602
Feels like the latter to me as well, but it's for real. Actual girlfriend.

>>18418603
Well, at least it's not the usual classic /adv/ "time to le breakup get fit get bitches le" advice

Guys - How would you feel if a slightly older girl hit on you?
He's 22 and I'm 24.

>>18418628
flattered as hell


you aren't even that much older than him

>>18418635
When we met he was flirty as hell but he kinda dropped it when he found out that I was older than him. I don't understand.

My girlfriend wants to have a beauty mask with me. Should I do it?
I'm worried that she will lose attraction to me after that because that's not really the manliest thing to do.

>>18418628
Yes, please.

>>18418645
he just wants someone his age or younger, nbd

[spoiler]I'd want someone my age or younger (within 4 years) too [/spoiler]

>>18418648
Doing a beauty mask would be hilarious, just like me putting makeup on my boyfriend or taking him to get a pedicure would be a hilarious way to bond.

I would be more concerned that she's going to lose attraction to you because you're so terrified of losing your masculinity.

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>>18418648
That whole pegging thing isn't a meme, mate.

>>18418628
even 10 years is ok if she has the right mentality

>>18418666
But... don't you look at your boyfriend in a different way after seeing him doing such feminine things?

Guys, what about five years age difference? Say you are 20 and the girl hitting on you is 25?

>>18418680
My (19) girlfriend is four years older than me and that's no problem, so...

>>18418676
No? Why would I be less attracted to my guy for trying something new with me? Even if he enjoyed them, then he's a man that likes beauty masks. They're fun to peel off and good for your skin. He can laugh about how he looks with makeup and still fuck me until I can't walk straight.

>>18418686
Thanks. Gotta do that beauty mask! :P

>>18418665
b-but he wanted me :(

>>18418661
You're adorable.

>>18418680
That's an acceptable age difference for me, but there can be a lot of problems with it. Just for an example, a 20 year old will still be going to college for two years, but you've been done with it for four, and that's a big lifestyle difference. It's all about if the two of you can deal with that.

I think my gf is asexual

>both early 20s
>both each other's first bf/gf
>been dating a year
>from religious families so waiting for sex until married
>she refuses to even try making out
>hates her neck getting kissed
>hates getting licked on ear, jaw, lip, and other common spots
>she tolerates and sometimes gives a peck on the lips
>I can touch but not play with boobs (basically just putting a hand on her when during a parting kiss)
>oddly enjoys forcing a motorboat only when she's fully covered
>has said blowjobs and tit fucking are for special occasions only
>has zero desire for anything remotely arousing on her end
>has said she tried to masturbate 4 times in her life and never got aroused enough
>had an out of character moment about 3 months ago of pressing her tits against my leg and slowly sliding up in a low cut top to give me a hug before I left, making eye contact the entire time, grinding on my leg, then jumping back and saying back and saying "gross, good night" when she felt the boner she caused
>ever since then it's back to quick hugs and kisses

We get along great in almost everything but this, and I haven't been able to think of a way to bring it up without seeming pushy or desperate. I don't want to outright ask what her reservations are, but I'm ready to at least make out and cop a feel under the shirt. She keeps talking about us starting a large family in a house in the suburbs but either she's the queen of self control or she's just so inexperienced and innocent that she doesn't know how to be turned on or how to enjoy it.

>>18418690
No problem man. The more secure you are in your masculinity, the more masculine you'll seem. A guy who refuses to try something just because it's girly or feminine is less manly to me than a guy who takes a "why not?" approach. Just like the guys who refuse to ever hold their girlfriend's purse for any reason because that'll somehow magically make their penis rot off and sprout a vagina.

>>18417474
Guys, would you be ok if you found out your girlfriend was once a rabid feminist but stopped 2-3 years ago?

>>18418709
I guess so, but if she had really strong liberal beliefs they might turn me off anyway.

>>18418429
and how is it different than men contemplating leaving their long term girlfriends for random bimbos that turn up in /adv/ so often? there are shitty people in both sexes tbqh

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>>18418723
>you fell for my bait threads

>>18418709
if she truly repent? no probs

>>18418505
I'm about 280 but I carry it so that I look 250, plus it's mainly my ass and tits. Like I'm THICCC>>18418544

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>>18418544
I feel like I'm more inbetween. I'm trying to lose the weight and currently have a bet with my friend going, so it's not like I'm not trying. I just need to fix my horrid eating habits. I don't have a huge problem pulling guys believe me.

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>>18418544
Wrong file

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>>18418746
>>18418750
How the fuck is that even possible?

>>18418746
this pic looks perfect
>>18418750
this explains how much you were catfishing

but still you seem damn attractive. beat the weight and enter the high leagues

>>18418746
>>18418750
>implying that is the same person

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>>18418746
>>18418750

>>18418746
>>18418750
Fucking kek!

>>18418746
>>18418750
This is why I don't use tinder.

>>18418750
You expect me to believe your cat eye game that strong? Nigress please

>>18418489
See
>>18418746

>>18418750
You're fucking obese.

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>>18418746
>>18418750

>be a girl who look like this
>can live on easy mode
>fuck that
>im gonna eat alot!

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>>18418746
>>18418750
Which country are you from?

>>18418787
america
doy

>>18418525
Okay, I'm going to ask her out tomorrow. There's a bar with an open mic night on so I'll just ask if she wants to check that out. Wish me luck! She did kinda suggest the other day that she wouldn't be against doing stuff with just me instead of the group , but that could just mean as friends so yeah

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>>18418746
>>18418750

>>18418628
Instant marriage proposal.

>>18418680
When i was 20 i was super dumb. Still would probably try anyway. Just make sure you can handle him.

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I have yet to see an ugly girl be posted here. On /adv/ in general.

You're all really insecure, and this doesn't come from a NEET, virgin, weeb-lord, either.

>>18418709
No issue. Everybody was stupid when young.

>>18418783
This.

>>18418750
Why would you do this to yourself? What is wrong with you?

>>18418768
I can promise you that's the same person

You guys can't see that she is wearing 2 liters of makeup in the first one?

>>18418843
>implying she isn't in the second one
Lighting and angles makes a surprisingly big difference.

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>>18418843
Yeah, I can't tell anything anymore.

Bitches are false, fuck women and fuck you too.

Fuck all of you.

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Okay so a lot of you seem to be asking or pointing out in general "why would u do dis". Rewind
> Be child
>Mom is diabeetus specialist
>she decrees that every night at 8 PM is snack time
>munchy crunchy on all the food
>continue this up until senior year of high school, biggest weight at 295
>drop 55 lbs
>gain said 55 lbs back during shitty relationship

After years of bad influence and eating my emotions, I gained weight. I'm confident in my own body, but know I can do better.

>>18418862
And who is this chick?

Women: I care about a girl and want to reconnect with her, but I feel a lot of residual pain when I see her and dont talk to her. I think she feels the same way.

If you've been in a similar situation, how can I get past that emotional barrier?

>>18418470
I think they're fat.

You guys are idiots. It's 4 different chicks.

>>18417474
26 year old guy here

Why do women want guys to bullshit around before they decide on what they want? This concept always existed but now that I'm at my peak for both vitality and vigor sexually I'm struggling to accept this. Women aren't stupid, they know I want pussy. So my question is why bullshit around? If you know I want pussy, only talk to you for pussy, is only around for pussy then why waste your and ,better yet, my time? Hell I even catch myself being a sleaze sometimes and in the back of my mind I'm like "why isnt she stopping this? Is this even a girl I want? She probably knows what I'm doing and cant nut up and just say STOP"

Its getting difficult because I dont know which women I'm spinning my wheels with and which I should actually hang onto, because half the time I figure out what's she's about when I'm already mentally exhausted from all the hoops she wants me to jump through or she drops the "only friends" bullshit after I wasted my time and money on her instead of just knocking that shit down from day 1.

Is effort an indicator of how much you'd like him? or fuck him? or even give him the time of day?

>>18418815
almost every day someone posts those "supermodels" or whatever they are.
ugly as fuck.

>>18418865
Same as the two above dude

>>18418862
>diabeetus specialist
you mean a skilled proffessional or a dumb hamplanet?

>>18418883
You're attractive, you fat fucking whale. You're not even looking for advice.

>>18418883
Impossible.

>>18418862
u look way hotter here imo

>>18418894
Mums obese but she's actually a skilled professional. 5 kids (two sets of twins) and my shitty father did it to her.

>>18418877
>Women aren't stupid
Pfffffftt.

>>18418883
It fucking can't be. She doesn't look fat.

I demand timestamp with face and body like that emo amazon did. Yes, I remember.

>>18418903
That's what I mean in my original post though. I got a fat bitches body and a skinny bitches selfie face. Fatfishing.

>>18418902
Not trying to start an argument man. I know and you know, but I'd like to hear it from an actual woman on the subject.

>>18418908
>emo amazon
who?

>>18418746
>>18418750
>>18418862
This is false advertisement on such a high level that it should be criminal.

>>18418920
Someone who posted her body because some anon didn't believe that she was like 6'2 or something. I can't blame him, 6'2 is fucking insane for a chick.

Actually I know one girl just like that - perfect face, super fat bod. It's possible, guys.

Ok, admit who reported thread about manlets asking how to find girls and got buthurt about single moms?

>>18418862
Using shit relationship as an excuse to get fat is stupid. You obviously havent changed your life style and lost weight by extreme measures which werent possible to keep in long term.

Next time be more clever or just stop pretending you arent fat please. Post your bmi.

>>18418862
Ah - the blame game. Nice.

I bet lots of guys would be in a not-shitty relationship with you; but only if they could look at you from exactly that angle you choose to take pictures of yourself in. In that same light. With all that makeup 24/7.

Otherwise, you're a fucking whale. Stop blaming your mother and ex for being a lazy fat fuck.

>>18418925
you mean 185cm? it might be insane in japan at most

>>18418927
>Ok, admit who reported thread about manlets asking how to find girls and got buthurt about single moms?

I noticed that too... must've been that 20 year old from a few days ago :P

>>18418918
Women tend to be emotionally guided. I for one know that when I'm talking to a dude I usually have one or two others in my back pocket. When we go out with you for the first time it's basically us testing the waters. If you are lucky enough to get a second date then we weren't creeped out and might consider you. Any little thing can make us flee though and what that thing is depends girl to girl. It goes the same way with men tho

Kek, I'm like the selfie op - I have relatively normal and pretty face, and guys are always bewildered when I tell them I'm fat. Then I show them full body pic and they freak out how it's possible to look fine on the face but be american-tier fat in general. I guess I should finally lose weight

>>18418931
I live in Denmark, I'm 183 cm and I see a chick taller than me like once a week. This is in Copenhagen. 185+ is absolutely ridiculous for a girl. Kinda hot though, but sex with a tall chick is never like fantasies.

>>18418934
Yes but as a guy, I'll tell you if I'm not into you or if a second date isnt happening flat out. I'm not gonna waste your time cause that's wasting my time. So why cant women do the same?

>>18418927
>Ok, admit who reported thread about manlets asking how to find girls and got buthurt about single moms?
I had the some great keks from anons in that thread.

>>18418933
Maybe not exactly that anon you talk about, but yes i have been around that.

What triggers me is the fact you never know the REASON WHY IT WAS DELETED. Was it op who deleted it? Buthurt mod? Crazy jannie? And why?

>>18418945
Glad i was able to make you kek.

>>18418918
Cause they want free shit. Free attention and free money. Why would they be honest if it means you stop giving them free shit? You expect them to have integrity or feel guilty about basically scamming you? Again, pffffffttt, women.

>>18418944
you have a classic case of not reading the fucking FAQ

>>18418945
>>18418951
what was so special about that thread?

>>18418957
banter

>>18418957
Apart from keks, memes advices and hard cold life truths? Not much.

Still, reason why i hate [deleted] is the censorship. That is why i am triggered. And we will never know what was wrong in the first place.

Fuck!

>>18418953
That's a sorry ass way of answering the question considering this is the societal norm for women. Dont try to spin this on some "every woman is different" bullshit. OP opened the discussion so answer the fucking question.

>>18418983
yeah, I remember on thread about psychopats.
one anon had a son showing every symptom of being one, so somebody adviced them to beat the fuck out of that child. I answered, explaining why is that advice basically the dumbest, worst one possible.
the thread was gone two minutes later

>>18418952
Lol I'm seeing that considering no woman can give a logical answer to this. Like I said man I knew this, which is why I dont indulge bitches anymore. I just wanted to see if any woman out there was aware of the hubris of her gender without having to defend it to death cause I'm taking a jab

>>18419000
>hubris of her gender
here we go
lets the classic men vs women shitstorm begin once again

>>18419004
well then answer the question. You know why this starts.

>>18419000
Literally all dating is for us is seeing what we can get out of the guy, emotional, financial, and physical -wise. No job? Beat it. Emotionally unstable? Beat it. Little dick? Hit the fucking road

>>18418999
Jezus, if ever my kids will turn around like that, i will break. Better autist than psychopath.

And yea, i sympathize with you anon, you spend time typing stuff only for it to be redacted cause somebody got buthurt.

>>18418944
I haven't been on very many dates, but if I was on a date and wasn't really feeling it with a guy, I wouldn't know how to tell him. I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings and upset him, and then I hear horror story after horror story of guys not taking rejection very well and even becoming violent. If a guy gets violent, that's it for me. I can't hold my own against a guy, I'm fucking tiny. Better to take the safe route and wait until I feel I'm in a safe environment to tell him I didn't feel it, and even then it's back to the whole not wanting to hurt his feelings. I know what rejection feels like, and the idea of inflicting that kind of hurt and possibly even humiliation on someone hurts my heart and makes me sick. In my personal experience, I was indirectly taught that saying "no" is rude and hurtful, and that putting your foot down was being a bitch instead of just standing your ground. I'm working on that because I used to be nearly physically unable to say no to people, but it's still a work in progress.

In regards to women sticking around even when you feel it's obvious you're giving the signals that you want pussy, nothing more and nothing less, something that seems obvious to you might not seem obvious to someone else. And even then, sometimes it can be confusing if the guy wants pussy and nothing else, or if he wants pussy but also a relationship. There were also times where I was interested in the guy, to the point of where I didn't want to admit that he was actually just out for pussy.

If you're also talking about women rejecting your advances, they might be interested but feel like they can't be that easy. They might have shame around accepting physical contact or showing that they're interested. I personally had to deal with a lot of that stuff so I can understand that view as well

>>18419014
Thank you, thank you for answering the question. I finally get to hear it direct. I mean women aint shit truly, but I thank you for being honest.

>>18419021
after all it's in my best interest. beat a psychopath badly and you start growing an abuser or even murderer

how do I politely probe into how much of a christfag a lady friend is?

>>18419196
Presumably you already know that she is a christian and she knows you know.
You could have casual conversation about her church- which one does she go to, which kind is that, does she like it there, what are their services like?
I don't know what the societal atmosphere is like where you live, but where I am, "Christian" is a dirty word. If you had started asking me about my church, I would likely pair it with assurances that it's not a crazy place and that I don't actually consider myself a christian.

If it's really important to her, I'm sure she'd be happy to talk about it. Particularly if you go from a perspective of curiosity and making it look like that you think it's cool that she has a community resource like that.

You could drop some things about "I've never gone to a church before/I haven't gone in years, and I wonder what it's like." She might even invite you along, in which you could get a real good idea of what she's into.

>>18419233
thanks, this was actually quite useful. I already know which one she goes to. They seem culty but not like terrible or anything. but their website says celibacy and shit. I have no problems with her being religious, I was raised christian, and acknowledge I'd die alone if I was staunchly against it. Im just worried she is like celibate or worse will feel the need to convert me when she finds out I'm a hardcore fedora tipper. I guess it's not her church itself I want to find out about more like what level of christian she is.

>>18418877
Because I want a relationship. And I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. It's likely that I can tell that you just want to fuck. But I'm in denial and am hoping that you will want something long term with me.

If she is a girl who just wants to fuck too, she's doing these things for a couple reasons
>Get a read on your sanity level, see if you will murder-rape her
>Trying to look good to society/herself by not being an "easy slut". Denial.
>Trying to see if she's sexually attracted to you - it's based on personality to quite a few women

Personally, I don't like wasting my time either. Sometimes I go on a couple dates to get to know a guy, and then I realize that I don't like what I got to know at all. Too many red flags, I don't want to get involved with that. I WISH I could know on day 1 whether a guy will be worth it or not. But I don't. It's not on purpose. I want it to work out too.

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Where do the fashionable girls with the small butts hang out?

>18419292
korea

>>18419292
>>18419303
god damnit

>>18419273
what you have is some mental issues, nothing more. stop caring about it.
Also, try smiling

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>>18417474
Hey guys and girls. How can a girl be creepy? Is there any way she can fix it?

I'm paranoid because of what a roommate said today...
"oh my god, you scared me. Why do you gotta be so scary-looking?" I abruptly walked out of my room to answer the doorbell so I guess that was it, but I don't know...it has happened a few other times (3-4) in different ways. Just how I was looking at a screen while working was "creepy". Stuff like that. They're just all playing to an extent, we're all girls, but then I'm the only one they say such things to.

Back in high school a girl said "creepy" when I walked up to the front of class for a presentation...in PE, a couple of skinhead guys cornered me to ask if I wanted to murder everyone at school. All I did was and exercise in that class, and hang out with people sometime. I couldn't stop crying over how people thought I was such an awful person. I was never bullied aside from these occasions, but I get the sense that they have some greater meaning to them: that I must truly be horrific.

I guess I'm more attractive nowadays after losing weight (still have 15 pounds to go). My skin is still improving.
People are generally very kind to me and do nice things for me. I'm warmly received. A very handsome someone actually liked me back and wanted to be with me. A few other boys had a crush on me. No one ever is cruel to me. But, I don't know, I feel so anxious, so afraid. I feel as if I should never go outside again because of my appearance. I've felt badly about myself all my life because of my weight, but it seems like the problem might be something else altogether.

>>18417474
There's a girl in my office who pranked me recently by putting an old hotel key card with the room number (she stays at a hotel 5 days a week for work). I was so thrown off balance, I couldn't get anything done the rest of the day. I asked some of my coworkers and one of them verified it was a prank. Knowing this, I of course proceeded by pranking her back. I ended up getting dead roses with a red ribbon wrapped around them and a small card that read "Thinking of you". Before she came into the office, I placed them on her desk. When she got in, she laughed hysterically and almost immediately knew it was me. Later that day, she kinda invited me to a concert (I'm not too fond of concerts but whatever).

My question is do you think this girl likes me? I honestly have no fucking clue... I'm 24 and have never had a gf. Any insight is greatly appreciated.

The girl i like and i was about to confess to her is now dating someone i don't know i guess i came late to the race

I was told by her friend and heres the twist, last week her friend told me that this girl said "i'm not gonna date anyone anymore for some time" 1 week later shes dating someone

It was so confusing that her friend told me that she doesn't even know what the fuck is goin on in her head and told me that she is a piece of shit that even in relationships she trends to go out and hang out with other men when shes already in relationships.

I was thinking to not even try and start looking for other options because what her friend told me made me feel like i'm about to get into a fucking bear trap one way or another.