▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶Trans Info Dump: http://pastebin.com/h1vLPxyV
▶Beginner makeup resources: http://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶Size charts: http://www.americanapparel.net/sizing/default.asp?chart=womens.pantse_conversion_chart.php
▶Transition timelines: http://imgur.com/a/qWpxv
▶Voice Training: http://pastebin.com/dgipdsge
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000 http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶Voice Help: http://webjedi.net/projects/lgbtq/speech-therapy/
▶Discord server: https://discord.gg/0jCp5pochww8t2Oe
▶IRC: https://www.rizon.net/chat #mtfg
<<< NSFW images of SRS:
Chett and McGinn: http://imgur.com/a/6q7ao
Misc SRS: http://imgur.com/a/6ueJD
Unknown SRS: http://imgur.com/a/f0jRN
ded threadu >>5648487
Be nice to each other you nasty ho's.
Except Kayla - you can be as mean as you like.
><<< NSFW images of SRS:
>Chett and McGinn: http://imgur.com/a/6q7ao
>Misc SRS: http://imgur.com/a/6ueJD
>Unknown SRS: http://imgur.com/a/f0jRN
This is great for weight loss. Maybe even purging if you stare at it long enough.
Um so I want rhinoplasty & alarplasty really, really bad, right now. Is it okay to get them through a surgeon who doesn't specialize in FFS if you want FFS later? Like, if I want forehead contouring later would it fuck it up if I got rhino now through someone who doesn't do that? Also someone give me like $60,000. ty.
>not calling it eels and escalators edition
what a waste
tends to have the opposite affect on me, looking at those pics makes me terribly envious
Do not despair anon. There's bound to be some cute lingerie for transgirls.
Like this "Hide That Bulge" line.
I don't really see the point of that. If you're wearing sexy lingerie, you're obviously doing it to please someone else. And since the point of that is to get to having sex, you're going to take that lingerie off, at which point they'll obviously see your junk.
So, unless you're making money with softcore porn of yourself, I can't understand why anyone would want something that's less comfortable than more functional alternatives. Tucking is bad enough, why make it worse?
>That cuz you're a sissy fetishist.
No, I just don't like my penis and my balls are literally killing me.
I guess you want to sound like this freak with her "biological girl dick."
>I mean it can be a little rougher on your skin but if it rlly hurts then you're probably not doing it right
Well I push the tumors into the canals and then fold the dong back but problem is I still have skin getting pinched on either side, i try wearing 2 pairs of panties but it doesn't help
assless panties for the win
also like isn't the idea with the trans-lingerie to make tucking more comfortable?
so... you don't think we/you are women?
yeah I just wear like some tighter extra undies for tucking tho my skin is super sensitive, my electrolysis person comments on it like every time I have an appointment
well what panties are you wearing? if stuff is poking out the sides then you need a pair with a wider crotch or you need to tuck all your stuff back more
yeah but they don't pretend they're high and mighty truest trans and shit on everyone else at any opportunity
"What do you love most about being a woman?"
>Being able to inspire other women.
Inspire them to do what? Make shitty videos inspiring other other women? Where does the circle end? When will cis women check their privilege and become productive members of society?
>I love other women
>The bond that women have with each other
Cis AGP confirmed
>I think it's just amazing that we can give life
Rub it in why don't you
>I think I just love women so I like that I get to be one
A G P
>If we need to continue the human race we don't really need men but we definitely need women
The only thing of any real worth that biological women have is a womb and the ability to carry pregnancy. With the development of artificial wombs and same sex reproduction, they become entirely redundant, and every single person, man or woman, could be XY.
2 scenarios. Same sex reproduction becomes a thing and the world has the option to either have every person be XX or XY.
What happens if we run out of resources? An entire XX population couldn't revive a population of anatomical males to return to unassisted reproduction. An XY population could revive a population of biological females within a single generation.
Trans women are just one cog in the machine making cis women obsolete.
all calling out people does is make them more mad at me
I will tell you though, its the ones that always talk shit on me, I will say angie did it twice, i will never forget her stupid tattoos
Fuck I'm so sick of this. It's kayla hourbwhen i go to bed, and when i wake up, and when I'm at work, etc. How fucking long does this go on?
>i will never forget her stupid tattoos
Well thats pointless and petty.
i talk ppssibly the most shit on you. Am i a fetishist showing off my cock in trap threads?
looking for trans gf
I am -
5ft 7in tall, with a 5 inch dick (erect)
NEET shut in
Nice looking face I am basically a manlet Jon Snow
Just looking for a cute trans gf to have an online thing with for a while. we can watch anime and stuff together. And if I like you a lot I'll turn my life around and become a millionaire so I can buy you nice things.
What you want and what you need are two different things. You have to remember that you are crazy. It is far better to get someone respectable who does good work down the line than just go with whomever you can afford.
There is no going back after the procedure.
Yes it does. Not to mention that prevention is far, far easier than treatment afterwards.
how does the development of artificial wombs and same sex embryogenesis imply screening methods to prevent gays and trans people being born?
to do that you'd need to identify the genes responsible for what are probably complex polygenetic conditions, and select against them.
for same sex baby making you just need to induce meiosis in vitro.
i literally wake up to underage hour with epik cat, guro and diaper spam except they dribble their shit for like 10 hours. then when the kids go to bed there's like a handful of hours of peace unless miss cock shows up. i don't even have a reason to be here i have everyone i like on skype except liz. i guess its just formality at this point.
I never showed my dick to anyone.
Quit making shit up miss cock and stop being such a fucking embarrassment
again about >>5652245
do you not consider us/you to be women?
>same sex embryogenesis
You are reading way too much into those scientific rags that promise breakthroughs on monthly basis. You never have the ability to do "just" that or this.
Those imply an unprecedented understanding. With that kind of knowledge you might as well cut out the middleman and ensure the child is normal if the parents wish to do so. What's the latest consensus on the cause of tranny-ism? Hormonal disbalance during the natal development if I remember correctly? Far easier to monitor and rectify than creating pod people.
you know neurology is part of biology too and unless you believe in magic/a soul then the "spirit" is part of the body too
just thought it was weird you had that pic saved with all the highlighted "trans women are women" implications
so you would rather have your junk popping out if it means you can wear underwear you think looks cute?
also there's variety in crotch and band width and stuff without just switching to boyshorts
I don't get what you mean? Neurologically we are still male but a certain small structure is all fucked up leading us to behave and believe we are women. If this part of the brain wasn't in our brain pan and out of reach with current technology we could have been cured with some minor brain surgery.
Also I tried every type of panties but I have too much sink there to make tucking comfortable.
>added angie to skype just to delete her
>good feels all around
>tfw man face and fucked up eyes
>tfw get into fight with friend because he won't stop hugboxing me and tell me how ugly I am
"Biologically men" and "biologically women" are, funny enough, not ideas that carry much weight in biology. We have bodies with tissues that have been formed and differentiated under the influence of environmental factors, among which hormones play a pivotal role. As time passes, less and less of your body will be built to a high-t low-e profile, and more and more to a high-e low-t profile.
How you want to work with that remains your business, but given the universal ambiguity of the subject, I feel you'll hurt yourself and others less if you trust their, and your, self-definition over high school biology.
I'm seriously considering asking for shock therapy once I'm done with SRS and my ID change. Maybe it would help cleaning up my mind of all the fucked up memories. I feel like I need to be a clean slate if I ever want a life. Right now, I'm just a creepy lunatic that's just good at driving people away. Sucks.
So i had another dream last night. I was running away from someone. There were two others with me. We were in space i think. At the end of the dream, when i was trying to wake up, they asked me not to go, said i waa having delusions or some such.
It got me thinking. What if infinity exists? Modern space research hypothesizes space is limited, but what if thats wrong? If infinity were real, you could argue that my dream, along with almost any dream, is actually a reality, just somewhere else. Good little start to a sci fi story.
I only have the one photo. I'm walking to work rn.
>tfw have a nice boy face but manlet body
>tfw unsure if could pass because mixed features
>tfw you suck ass at being either gender, regardless of which one makes you feel like yourself
Things are incredibly awkward with my best (and last...) real life friend. It's pretty clear she wants to be rid of me and only sticks around out of a mix of pity and worry about my inevitable suicide.
You all have 10 seconds to explain why you aren't drinking the best thing on the planet earth.
>a certain small structure is all fucked up
intersex, gay people have it too but ours is to a much greater extent
our neurology only "leads us" as much as anyone's does, some cultures just don't like where it leads for arbitrary reasons
>If this part of the brain wasn't in our brain pan and out of reach with current technology we could have been cured with some minor brain surgery
>if we could just remove the parts of the brain that we find socially distasteful...
sounds like the kind of "cure" that would also work for political beliefs and anything else you don't like and you could argue it's it a lot less "minor" than plastic surgery and meds that are already regularly taken by cis people
"you" as defined by your brain is the most YOU any part of you gets, without a brain a human is just a vegetable, a lump of meat
I'm sure you've tried some stuff but you obviously haven't tried everything so keep at it till you find what works for you, a wider crotch and pulling all your stuff back towards your ass as much as you can helps keep stuff from coming out the sides and a smaller/tighter pair can help hold stuff in place, sometimes I'll use different types in combination like a tighter thong under some panties or something
She had well, ambiguous gestures that could have been read as more than just friendly at times when she was feeling down, and now she's afraid I might be in love with her. I tried to arrange a mutual friendzone reaffirmation through a neutral third party, but that didn't really work out.
Sometimes, life gets so fucked up you only want to forget all about it. That's why there are so many alcoholics. Except I already know it'd take a lethal dose of alcohol to even put a dent in those memories.
Here is a game mtfg.
You have $1 billion, but can only spend it on 4 things that start with the first letter of your first name.
it's okay..people will remember shitty things but we can at least try our best to drop them, move towns and start a new life. things probably get better eventually. maybe. I just don't like the idea of electroshock even if we're better at it these days. rather not end up like hemmingway or some cat in a lou reed song.
Actually, chromosomes don't matter that much. The core of sexual differentiation lies with SRY gene and the ones coding for androgen receptors. Any mutation that makes either of these non-functional makes having an Y chromosome irrelevant. That's how you end up with XY women.
And you can have a functional copy of SRY migrated to another chromosome, which accounts for XX males.
Well no, if they are XX the are still women, just manly women, and XY males with androgen insensitivity are just feminine men.
Also I fucking hate people with androgen insensitivity because its not fucking fair.
that's kinda sad
>At the end of the dream, when i was trying to wake up, they asked me not to go, said i waa having delusions or some such
reminds me of an episode of buffy the vampire slayer
space/the "uni"verse as we perceive it might not go on forever but look into m-theory for possibilities beyond
don't rlly get that brand anymore, just get nantucket nectars sometimes like along with quick takeout, otherwise we just fresh-squeeze stuff ourselves
hey now, a cool homemade lemonade on a hot summer day is nothing to scoff at
whateves works for you
also like >>5652519 points out there are diy ones
from hanging out here for a few weeks, i've assembled some rules for dating a transgender girl for my fellow chasers.
- refer to them as trannies. they use this term on themselves and they are filled with enough self-hate to tolerate it. not like any of them demands any real respect anyhow.
- do not treat them with the same respect you would give a cisgender girl. deep inside, there are plenty of deep seated masculine traits. they have dicks or fake vaginas, they are not real women.
- assume they are well versed in gender studies and be prepared for trivial arguments. it isn't hard to win a debate with them. they aren't so smart.
- it's okay to ask them about their family's acceptance in the same breath as what they prefer to do in the bedroom. as someone who was born male, their mind is just as filthy as yours.
- in a ruse, do ask them about their hobbies. you will see they are not interesting. there is a very good chance it includes mmo and anime.
- again in a ruse, ask them what their goals in life are. you will realize they have no real goals other than enhancing their passing abilities, including a number of surgeries.
- ask them if they had the surgery. this could be a deal breaker for many of us.
- also ask them what their old name used to be and it's okay to laugh in their face. it's in the past and if they get upset they have a poor sense of humor, avoid.
- if warranted, do compliment them on how passing and feminine they are. after all, their goal is to fool people into thinking something they are not. it more than likely took a lot of work, so give them some credit.
- do compliment their general appearance specific to their transgender. honesty is the key to healthy relationships, so it will be important to give honest feedback by adding "for a tranny" at the end of every compliment. for example, "wow, you can really pull that dress off well for a tranny".
>to be continued
- ask them if they currently are or previously have been sex workers. as the relationship blossoms, the tranny will ask you how many cis girls you slept with. in the same light, it's your entitled right to be intrusive and ask them the necessary questions. there is a good chance they are currently on chaturbate, if you are going after the ones who look half decent, which is rare.
- fetishize this tranny. chances are you aren't into this thing for its personality. rather, you became interested in getting it on with a shemale by watching tranny porn. no matter your gender or sexual orientation, trannies are responsible for making you feel abnormal, so you might as well accept it momentarily and take advantage of this situation. try to have a good time to create some memories you can look back and laugh at when you are happily married to a real woman down the road.
that is some "technically correct" dictionary autism argument, in human culture and society you don't test someone's chromosomes before deciding how to treat them and other factors are much more significant
>in a group of 3 other women colleagues chatting casually
>everyone is laughing and sharing fashion faux paux from middle and high school
H-heh me too l-ladies
lets stop talking about fucking kayla and talk about something else
did mtfg ever do anything as a kid that never stood out to them at the time but later looked back on and realized it was a sign of being trans? how old are you and what happened?
Earth moving mostly and construction. Pretty much the most manly thing possible because first it was my parents company so I had to and second if I did it I felt like I would repress my trans feels hard enough to be normal
Fashion faux-pas from high school? I had a few of those. Pic related.
I am sure you'll amass enough of fashion disasters in the coming days for all three of them.
I have a memory of a time I was in elementary school walking down the hall with my mom and she was trying to teach me how to walk like a man after she caught me emulating her walk. I was like...7?
>Water-filled condoms in a bra
please say thats a joke, eww
just get a wonder bra
a bunch of stuff
>Was 5. Sister received doll for xmas one year and I was more excited about it then her and I played with it more than her. My parents took a bunch of photos of it and were gonna use it embarrasses me (in an endearing way) at might 18. It really bothered me when I was a teen and they would bring up that I did this and I would try to shrug it off as normal
>Between 6-9. would always mimic female character phrases from cartoons and stuff at young age but never really associated it.
>Apparently I told my mum I wanted to be a wife when I was like 6-7 but I literally have no memory of it.
>I was the only boy at some girls 6th birthday party and I got really excited when I got the girly fucking gift bag thing they have at kids birthday parties.
>I got one of those 'best friends' split heart necklace things (see pic) from a cheap plastic vending machine. I was really offended when my best friend in year 1 (a boy) didn't want to wear the other half.
Probably a lot more.
>tfw don't understand how people see an ugly girl on my really bad neet mode pics
Do I just pass without even trying? ;~;
I don't get out as much as I'd like tbqh but when I do I'm free to express myself and be identified/treated as I'd like
I get weirdness from strangers for being gay much more than being trans, like I can't remember the last time someone misgendered me or whateves
>tfw two cis guys say you pass on a pic where you have morning hair and everything
Fug man, passing in neet mode is neat.
>tfw hrt for 3 years and kayla has bigger boobs than me at 1 year
>women aren't women if they lose their genitals
are they blanks then?
I mean sure you could make some argument from some strict technical definition of "sex" and just shove intersex into whichever seems more right to you but it doesn't change the societal reality of sex beyond ability to reproduce
Olivia posted in another thread that she got banned from Susan's, and that Susan confessed she is a liar who faked transition
I want to suck on kayla's nipples as she bounces on my girl dick
I first did start at 18, that transition didn't go anywhere because of gatekeeping. TpMy current try, I started at 35.
most intersex people don't know they're intersex and no one preforms a dna test before deciding how to treat people
trans women can be women too by many measures and any biological criteria that is used to try to exclude them inevitably excludes cis women too unless, again, u go by some strict limited technical definition of "sex" that is probably sloppy with it's inclusion of intersex people if they get considered at all
That was my first outing in girl mode in fucking August last year. old pic is old. I only took it to prove I actually went to the doctors office in girl mode. plus i was making a stupid face
Got a job today. So yay. start in a couple weeks.
Will hear about the other interviews this week too. I can't wait to choose between which job I want. However, I can't tell if anyone knows I am trans yet as they either hide it well or just don't care. Either way my id isn't changed so they will know on my first day when I fill out the I9
People tell me I'm cute and I'm very aware of my crazy
ITS THE ECONOMY KAYLA I HAVENT HAD A JOB SINCE 2007
>tfw neet for 7 years because of the economy
I had a twin sister who was taking all the nutrients. Sister died at birth and they didn't even know i was up there till I slid out super tiny and almost dead myself. I was premature and my skull was lodged way up high so I was never in any ultra sounds and my head grew fucked up. Worst part about this is I never knew any of it till I met my bio dad 2 years ago and he got me high before telling me and we were alone in the desert at dark. Mom still wont talk about it but its why she has never let me leave her sight, she has always been over protective of me.
She is so pissed at me. OMG She is bashing me and still has my profile up. I am getting emails about getting quoted, but if I go there it says you are banned and can't ever come back.
She wasn't presenting all this time out and about. She is just now attempting. I wouldn't have given a fuck If she wasn't bullying me.
I always wondered why anyone who identified as transsexual was picked on.
Infractions for every little thing.
I care because this isn't a joke. This is my life. My identity. She doesn't get to pretend to be this way and use that as a weapon to say it is ok to wear a beard in the ladies room
How can you not understand?
She had influence. She won't much longer. I have fucked her shit up.
That's not completely impossible. I did grow wide hips, small tits and a rather large butt during puberty, at the same time as male characteristics but I can't say T hit me that hard. Probably would have killed myself if it had. I never was checked for intersex conditions, though.
There are no jobs good enough for me, I want to be rich.
Well, I'm not far from being a radfem, really. That's how I ended up dating a terf. To me, gender is just a label people slap on you and it's just as meaningless and deprecated as race. Also, I think people should be free to do whatever they want with their body, short of selling it.
are you calling me a show off or telling me to show off
i think a better metaphor is to build the square hole we always wanted....
okay here's a cute pic with some diaper action
and i wanna make a living being goofy
((im moving to disneyland))
for real? doesnt look like that at all
I was close to 160 at the time of that pic I think. Pretty heavy for me. I'm 5'6".
My self esteem just sky rocketed seeing that pic, and comparing it to now. Holy shit HRT is amazing. I was so disgusting then.
If you think you're trans how do you endure living as male without killing yourself?
I mean... how can you be so naive to transition in the first place?
You are forcing something unfitting just the same. Some people get to build it with money, but it's not real
It is fake, I thought I had it all figured out transitioning at 18 as soon as I was able to legally. I didn't, we are fooling ourselves. We are not on the same tier as cis women
I will hit a second male puberty at 25. I'll start going to the gym to build my body back. I am getting off hrt after I speak to my endo next week
It isn't bullshit. I was a recruiter before Exxon. I used to cold call businesses and get other people jobs and take 20%. I was good at it. I talked hr people whose job it is to hire to sit around and let me do their job for them for money that came out of their budget.
It was all in the attitude.
You tell me where you want to work and I will help you, but you need to have a better attitude. OK? I am really good at this.
I will do it for you for free.
>second male puberty
That's a thing?
Wait, so I can transition before 25 and then detransition before 25 if it fucks me up in the head?
I wish people would simplify this shit more. It's important.
ill be back in maybe 1 hour or so to shitpost
not that i needed to tell y'all
but do take care!
A bad image of you? Immediately. A good one? Never.
You're living with a problem plenty of others also cope with. Can't use it as an excuse.
You think somehow everyone else must just be getting things for free because you couldnt possibly work as hard as they "pretend" to. Your attitude is plainly horrible.
You've said that you miss male you, you cant live as a woman despite passing, you want to get off HRT, and you're talking about bulking up and hitting a second puberty. Face it, you made a mistake in transitioning, you're not trans.
If you can do it and if you are happy about it, I don't see the problem at all. It took me 3 years to see it, I was just happy to get on hrt before being delusional
I know what you mean. Dysphoria disappeared with hrt, but the social consequences of being a trans woman is not worth it, no matter how well I might pass, I feel plastic. Every time I meet someone new, it's an emotional rollercoaster
>tfw you think of a funny response but you're tryna bully less
After 3 years of being on hrt, it's too much for me to handle. Call me weak or what have you, but you might see what I mean after it wears off
I really miss the male me and what I was capable of in this life. As a trans woman, I am near useless. I want to forget about it and repress it as long as I can. The only reason I got on hrt so soon is because I was in therapy for 5 years before that and I was diagnosed with at a young age gender dysphoria and fit for hrt. Whether I am or not is beyond your professional knowledge over 4chan text
>tfw stuffy nose
I think I'm getting sick too :<
Have you modeled before? Ever done a professional photo shoot? Even for a local thing? Cover might be much, but a quarter page ad for say a laser or small cosmetics firm, or vacation spot isn't an unrealistic goal, and yes they pay.
2 lewd 4 censors
>it is fake cus I say so!!!!
I started transition at 18 too, I'm not done and still have dysphoria but things are going pretty ok and I'm free to live as I like with respect to gender and tbqh I have bigger issues in life
>We are not on the same tier as cis women
tell that to all the people that treat me the same
If you are absolutely sure you're trans, and this is what you want, then nobody here will try and stop you. Be aware though, if you had dysphoria, you may have forgotten how truly hellish it was. I lasted about a month during an episode when I tried repressing again, I desperately wanted my hormones back. Your idea may work in theory, something tells me you won't last long though.
it was totally you
it's not like I see hundreds of people a day or anything...
We will see. I have researched and heard similar accounts. I need to try it myself. I have dysphoria and always probably will. Nothing I can do can change that, maybe not even srs knowing it's a fake one. I will talk to my endo about getting off of it but still leave my options open with my therapist
I meant males go through another puberty in their mid 20s, where the body gets thicker. This will be favorable in getting my body built
I'm also bringing gems into this household
I have only been on hrt for 8 months and full time for 3. I only told my family a year ago. It was the main place that came up in google. I had no idea what I was getting into. Another trans woman I had become friends with who wasn't a crazy SJW had the same thing happen the day before me.
She is for all intents and purposes one of the main sources of information for a lot of people. She has financial backing. She wants to eliminate the transsexual identity and replace it with anything goes dysphoria doesn't matter in the lexicon. She got a pass cause people thought she was one. I just took a wild guess she was full of shit and trolled the truth out of her.
This affects laws that hurt us. The bathroom bills anyone. It is real life for many. Not a silly pretend game.
You knew. I didn't.
When your family googles trans Susans is the first result or on the first page for sure.
Popped 2 lorazepam an hour ago and they are finally kicking in. I just briefly drifted to the thought one day with enough effort I might in fact get to be stealth. For one second I felt hope, and its fading
hmmm what kind of disability are you going for?
>It doesn't matter.
In the grand scheme of things you are right, but She is a fake bitch and bullied me. So I am just going to be a bitch and get over it. It is fun to win.
One of her donors asked if I would be interested in setting up a site for trans myself. I dont' even have to run it just write for it. They will hire a webmaster to maintain it.
Hey there is a job for someone.
Good luck. If it makes you happy, then by all means, it's for the best. For what it's worth, failing to be able to repress again was identity affirming. Whatever happens, you have something to gain from this.
Early retirement from government work on grounds of complete psychiatric disability. Adding the rent I'll get for my house, it should be around $35k a year. Besides, I looked good when I was 18. These days? Not so much.
Why is new Kanye album looking so good holy shit. https://soundcloud.com/kanyewest/real-friends-no-more-parties-in-la-snipped
Plenty. For example as a young kid, really young, I used to try and stretch my vests down over my knees. Did it one day and was like "look mommy i'm wearing a dress" and she flipped her fucking lid at me, never did it again after that. I probably would have realised I was trans at 5 instead of 15 if my parents hadn't hidden the existence of lgbt people from me out of bigotry.
Also, always found clothes horribly uncomfortable and would go naked at home whenever possible. Always assumed I just had really sensitive skin or some kind of autistic problem. In retrospect now it's obvious it was because they were guys clothes and now being girlmode girl clothes feel totally comfortable on me.
Everything post dark twister was meh until this.
>in the grand scheme of things it doesnt matter whatsoever
Then it doesn't matter if I am a bitch either. So fun until work starts. Unless people get really mean about it and find my real life out, and do the SJW gang attack. Then maybe I fucked up.
Being referred to as female does absolutely nothing for me. When I was early in my transition I would get excited about female pronouns, but the novelty wears off. It's not about my specific general acceptance, I get by fine. There's something more internal and introspective to transitioning than getting accepted. You can keep walking around with your penis or a fake vagina, but you're not a real woman. No amount of female pronouns coming your way can change a concrete fact
Oh that's not the end goal but that's just so poorly defined as to be pointless
I have found, at least in swimming though I believe it to be applicable to life in general, that knowing the goal isn't the most important part, but rather to not stop moving forward
I would not say I'm happy right now, but once I reach that first goal I will be happier, and there will be a next goal
That isn't how it worked. Hey your opinion is different than mine. YOU ARE NOT LEGIT. DONT TRIGGER. DONT TONE POLICE. WE HAVE LIVED THIS FOR YEARS. I AM A HERO.
but meh. I have already run out of the desire to bother with it.
Bah, should work out fine. They're treating me like a live PR grenade so far... Still, photography... That was my first calling. I knew how to set up a tripod when I was 3... I can keep doing it as a hobby, obviously, but well, not quite the same.
>tfw no gf or bf to drag you out of your neet cave
>tfw no good friend to drag you out to do fun things
> tfw actually not hating myself today
> tfw i'm actually optomistic and excited for the future
who /doingokay/ here?
You know what's cool? Being a tranny and knowing how to fight because of combat training as a male. Beating the shit out of your even more US marines than you BF is great fun
I've seen a tranny in LA knock someone's teeth out with a high kick. Those lower body exercises are fierce, bros. Keep squatting.
It sounds to me like you havn't come to terms with your identity and life yet. Nobody here will ever be cis, we simply learn to live with the fact that we'll always be missing something.
that only happens if you're an interesting person in a shell
most people who live that life are 100% uninteresting, but a lot are just fucked up from trauma and are really interesting fun people who just need to leave their shell
calm ur t rage bro
im experiencing serotonin syndrome
so not me
But bro I'm a regular Sam Hyde in the gym
lol it's not something to get excited about or find novel, it's just being free to live your life and be identified as you'd like
again we have anon-definitions but if it looks like a duck and acts like a duck..
there's some in-congruence but you can't really describe it with anything concrete or specific cus this seems just like you projecting your insecurities on the world
its not about raw physical power its about mentally defeating ur opponent on the battleground
the pen is mightier than the sword my friend
: - ]
>It sounds to me like you havn't come to terms with your identity and life yet
>Nobody here will ever be cis, we simply learn to live with the fact that we'll always be missing something.
That is my point, being trans is not worth it. I can't find work, I am broke and it's fucking just about every necessary aspect of my life as a human being. Every time I meet someone in my life I have to struggle to get it out eventually. I have not had any negative reactions, but It's no way to live
so today i asked my dad "will you love me no matter what?"
>"We annoy each other but you will ALWAYS be my son"
how fucked am i?
You can still get excited about getting identified as female, whatever makes you happy but I don't know why you're so thick enough to believe there is no difference between you and cis women. There are plenty, regardless of your opinion, so don't let your ignorant and delusional opinions get in the way of how society sees you. Which is a trans woman, not cis women. Fake vaginas do not orgasm the same way real ones do, let alone look real half the time. You can say I am projecting or whatever makes you feel better all you'd like, but you're still a delusional fake woman, not a real woman
my bio dad said the same thing, he calls me dud and son on the phone and in person. Next time I meet him for lobster at the yacht club I will go in full girly girl mode and see if he tries any of that dude and son nonsense.
I guess I just believe that a life of repression isn't worth the pain either. Being trans sucks, you really can't win. The struggle gets easier with time though, I'm really in the same position as you are. Transitioning made all of life's problems harder, but at least I'm being true to who I am, it's the price every trans woman pays.