/FemGen/ - New Beginnings Edition
▶Informed Consent Providers: https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/932389/Trans/Stepping%20Forward%20-%20Informed%20Consent%20Clinics.pdf
▶HRT info: https://web.archive.rg/web/0000000000000 http://taimapedia.org/index.php?title=Hormones
▶Beginner makeup resources: https://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
▶Binding 101: https://neutrois.me/2013/03/27/all-about-binding/
▶Masectomy Information: https://www.topsurgery.net/faq/
▶/Femgen/ Skype - Ask to be added (Post your Skype)
▶What is a feminine boy?
A feminine boy is what it sounds like. Anyone who prefers traditionally female clothing or activities. This doesn't mean you can't enjoy typically masculine things, of course.
▶Are feminine boys secretly transgender?
Yes. No. Maybe. Some of us are transgender [secretly or otherwise]. Some of us are FTM and some are MTF. Some of us are genderqueer. Some of us identify as a mix of both or none at all.
▶How do I know if I'm a feminine boy?
Do you want to feel pretty? Do you like painting your nails or putting on make up? Do you feel more comfortable in skirts? You might be feminine. The best way to know is to try it!
▶Do I have to have feminine clothes to be a feminine boy?
Not at all!
▶You could paint your nails, grow your hair, wear make up. Or do nothing at all.
If you feel feminine, that's all that matters.
use this instead, jesus christ
and if femgen still hasn't figured out that skin/hair/makeup care is best at the reddit communities you're doing it wrong
/FemGen/ - [INSERT MEME HERE] Edition
▶What is a fem guy?
A young, androgynous guy with soft features. Mostly gay, but not all.
▶Are fem guys trans?
Some inevitably turn out trans. Some age into twunkhood and continue slutting it up on Grindr well past their mid twenties.
▶Can I be a fem guy?
Often with enough effort, yes. Masculine bone structure, height, and aging make it hard.
▶Should I go on HRT?
If you can deal with the tits and infertility, you'll look younger longer and you won't age like a man.
▶Is liking fem guys considered gay or straight?
Gay. If you're on the fence, you're bi, like a lot of people.
▶Beginner makeup resources: https://masterposter.tumblr.com/post/116605714860
See also: youtube tutorials.
▶Skincare resources: https://www.reddit.com/r/SkincareAddiction/wiki/index
▶Hair care resources: https://www.reddit.com/r/haircarescience/wiki/index
▶/Femgen/ Skype Group: Post your Skype, and someone from the group will add you.
and probably add /r/makeupaddiction to see also
change "mostly gay, but not all" to "we're mostly gay, but not all of us" and i think that about does it
does anyone have the old pastebin?
True words anon.
Be my fem bf. We'd be way cuter anyway.
Been on hormones for a while, sometimes when i have difficulty fapping or at random times i repeatedly say in my head that i'm not a girl, over and over, like i don't know that. Actually feels pretty bad desu
I think my mind is telling me this is wrong
I don't know why the mtf rejects hang out here so much. They don't even contribute. They just talk about pills all day, which they could do in mtfgen.
Anywho, my dream hair. I want my sides braided with some sort of stylized mohawk that also serves to hide my forehead. My only problem is that my current job doesn't allow headwear and my hair isn't quite long enough for thick braids.
I needs it in my life. I just wish my hair would grow faster.
I don't know where to go but here, so here goes:
I'm a cis lesbian, but 90% of the time people think I'm a dude, and it kind of sucks. I don't think I'm trans and I don't want to take mones or anything -- I want to be more feminine without losing the masculinity I've worked to be comfortable in. I've never put makeup on in my life, is that going to have to be a thing? I've got broad shoulders and am kind of an uggo, so I'm not sure what I should do, and if applying makeup would help.
CRAWWWWLING IN MY SKIIIIIIIIN
I'm not even that fem, I just kind of convey that aesthetic and plan on doing so until I'm too masculine.
Resisting change with hormones seems like it'll just cause loads more issues down the road.
Thought lesbians didn't like fags...
There's lots of high fashion moddels and even if they have sharp features they still look feminine. You probably shouldn't worry.
Don't know if hormones Wool do any good for women unless you had a hormone disorder either.
Boys don't have tits unless they get on hormones, and if they're on hormones then that's a major problem in itself.
Also, this gen was never meant for trannies and hormone takers, it was just mean for guys who were naturally more effeminate in appearance and maintained that look. But since the old guard has since been dispersed, looks like, for whatever reason, a bunch of trannies come here to LARP as effeminate boys now.
And Pejic is now a girl, that's the natural conclusion of the process, either that or suicide and I don't desire either.
>There's plenty of precedent when it comes to andro guys using them To keep their looks.
Maybe, but it doesn't last. If they want to stay "male-presenting" I guess, then they're going to have issues, the only thing they can do in the future is to transition. There's no such thing as maintaining a boyish aesthetic forever. HRT is a false fountain of youth and you fools can't see that.
Obviously, I still call people trannies and I still want to be cute and feminine, but I feel the closer I stay towards looking at the grander, objective picture than my own desires and emotions, the closer I become to accepting my inevitable maturation.
>"the old guard" is still around
I know, they just don't come here. I was around there at the start of it, the general feeling was that it became overrun with trannies and people who it generally wasn't meant for, so yea it became non-exclusive and it's what caused me to stop participating in the threads as well as the others. I glance at these new ones ever so often just to see the discussion going on because at times it's relevant to me and I'm a bored fucker.
> implying half the old guard didn't go ahead and cheat
You obviously don't know what you're talking about. Lots of people would rather cheat than have to deal with twink death.
Your fault for getting paranoid and calling all the long term posters who picked a different way to avoid aging trannies. Maybe you should stop projecting on everyone.
Hate to break it to you but it's your "old guard" who went to the dark side and took most of the board with them. All that golden age talk is funny.
make-up is kind of a must
wear leggings, you can still wear butch jackets and stuff with them if you want some masc element in there
emphasise your cleavage a bit more, lower-cut shirts
it's not a 'fountain of youth', but it is a 'fountain of looking kinda fem and ageing nicely compared to natural males'
I've been on it for ages and I still present as male, you just wear clothes that disguise the boobs- sports bras, baggy andro tops, etc.
I still get gendered male but people compliment me on how cute I look and how soft and even my skin is and stuff so I don't think I'm uggo or manly
MtF here. First post. Just had my side swept bangs cut into blunt bangs. I feel really boyish/android when I wear my hair up with a hoodie and skinny jeans.
Hopefully this style will help me woo the right one.
>a bunch of trannies come here to LARP as effeminate boys now.
I came here to laugh at the discussion chain that lead to this needing to be said
I'll be going back to my general now
You boys keep doing your fem thing, it looks good on you
I know some of them probably cheated, I know some don't, they just have fucking weird genes.
>who picked a different way to avoid aging trannies
it doesn't avoid aging though, it just makes you age as this weird androgynous creature unless you follow through and become full girl-mode. I'm going to be laughing my ass off at all the posts a couple years from now, if this place is still here, from posters ITT who have totally fucked themselves over with hormones and are bitching about how much of a mistake it was; that is unless they're then currently living as females and happy with it.
But you have tits, you're not going to have the leisure of not having to hide those anymore. What about when you get older? How is this going to effect you then? You've essentially wrecked your internal anatomy just to make your external appearance more aesthetically pleasing.
How old are you? I tend to agree.
The fact is it's not really that big of a deal if you choose to take them or not. Taking hormones does not ruin your life or drastically alter or future; and especially doesn't make you into a hon. Being a hon is a result of being super manly to begin with and then frantically and unsuccessfully trying to change that. Fems who use hormones before getting manly are skipping that entire prospect.
I don't know why so many posters are so bitter about boys having perky nipples. As long as you're not a fat slob, they'll never grow into tits. You can still be male and age well without turning into a gross ape.
26, started at 19
yeah it's stupid, especially as the mental changes happen within the first 3-4 months. you're soon be able to tell whether or not it's right for you.
See Richard O'Brien (the songwriter for Rocky Horror) for an example of somebody who started HRT to look fem 30 years ago and is now middle-aged. He was already bald when he started so that can't be helped, but he doesn't look scary or anything. It won't stop you ageing but it'll make you age far better than men do naturally. It stops your skull going all gorilla-shaped and shit. Urgh, thanks for reminding me why I started.
>it just makes you age as this weird androgynous creature unless you follow through and become full girl-mode
that's kind of the entire fucking point of this general, living as andro >>>>>>> living as a girl
being a weird androgynous creature is exactly our end goal
Yeah seriously. If you're already a bottom fag anyway, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. It's made me so much happier I can't even describe it. The thought of being 5'6"and butch/masculine has always made me wanna throw up, so deciding to do this last year was seriously not even worthy of discussion.
funny you are right. he looks a little scary but compared to other people his age i say that's pretty impressive
he would look even better with some hair, smaller nose and chin
>I don't know why the mtf rejects hang out here so much. They don't even contribute. They just talk about pills all day, which they could do in mtfgen.
/mtfgen/ is, with very few exceptions, a bunch of snarky cunts sperging about
>tfw no pass
>tfw no kawaii vuvu
>tfw no bf/gf
They're unrelentingly negative about everything, even by 4chan standards. I like hanging out here because most of the people in /femgen/ are pretty chill, and because I feel like I have more in common with the guys here. I like that the negativity is more contained and focused on giving people useful advice, rather than a bunch of trips sniping each other over petty crap.
Do you guys use any eye shadow or liner? I was thinking of trying it.
So basicly femgen = faggots, wimps and other rejects that cant handle being a man. You people are pathetic.
3. Seriously, makeup
My complexion is naturally very bad, but with makeup I received compliments today on how young I looked and how clear my skin was.
>You've essentially wrecked your internal anatomy just to make your external appearance more aesthetically pleasing.
We're all shallow, vain fags, anon. If making our external appearance more aesthetically pleasing has the cost of getting warped into something unnatural then so be it.
And actually, they aren't that bad from a health standpoint. I mean E actually hugely up regulates the immune system, telomarase too. Sure a nicer pill with less side effects would have been nice but I'll take what we have.
Cheating, also skin peals and retinoids are nice too.
>playing sims one day
>had managed to make a sim that looked remarkably like me
>fucking around the customization menu
>hit the gender change button to see what my sim would look like as a girl
>choke back tears when I see the results
I just wish I wasn't so tall. I'll attract so much attention once I start dressing andro.
What does /femgen/ do about what workplace consider "long hair"?
Especially when work is mostly indoors and you can't wear a head garment, or if hair gets in your work.
Also on the topic of hair, since I usually comb it back all the way and use hair gel to hold it in.
How many times should I wash my hair? Everyday since I use hair gel?
And is using hair gel everysingle day bad for hair/scalp?
Just look around you and do what the other people with similar length hair do.
>could cum in about a minute of jerking off if i wanted
>after half a year
>cant even get close without touching my tits or using a dildo, takes 10-20 minutes minimum, sometimes i just cant and give up
WAKE ME UP
Focus more on the pleasure of stimulation instead of concentrating on achieving climax. i.e., like girls and arousal- it's more about the build-up than the orgasm. It's actually really nice if you get into the right headspace with it.
eh, still not 100% sure if I'm trans or not. The negative thoughts are all just "you're in denial because everyone is always in denial" but personally, I enjoy most of my masculinity, I'm comfortable in my body and my wiener is my third favorite thing about me.
I've had dreams about this. They're always just me looking like a tomboy and still being the same otherwise, and my dreams never spare my ego for the sake of comfort. I enjoy being a guy and my subconscious tells me I just want to chill and act a bit girly.
The only thing telling me otherwise is what I perceive as pressure from other people, that you can't be a girly guy and not be trans. That's what I liked about femgen before >>5658892 started happening.
>be a girly guy who isn't trans
This so much. Don't let wanting to be girly let you convince yourself you're trans. That is a dark af road anon. Even if you want to be so girly that you'll join in on the HRT meme, that's fine, just don't go full-out hon and ruin your life.
That's cool mang. I'm sure some ladies out there like fems. People say that hormones make you a lot gayer but I don't think that's the case unless you were already gay to begin with.
Anyone who says you can't be a girly guy and not be trans is working against the very cause they should be supporting. You can be however you feel you are. There's nothing you should feel obligated to do to fit your own identity.
I got on HRT to better fit my ideal image of androgyny. I had excessively masculine characteristic, like intense body hair, that it helped bring to a baseline. It's a sort of trans, but I ultimately don't feel too different from your description.
I just have a sideswept afro like so.
Being ethnic is gr8
What route did you go to get your HRT? Did you go through legit means or are you self-medding?
Is a psychologist going to look at me like I'm fucking crazy if I tell them I've hated my masculine characteristics since puberty and died a little on the inside every time I noticed something new and want to look feminine but that I know I'm not a girl, have nothing against by penis, and don't want to "be a girl" but just like my appearance?
Also yeah, I'm probably a denier here but my end goal isn't necessarily to pass. I just want to not look like Robin Williams when I get older.
I was heavy into phone flirting with this one girl for a while who, when I told her I was a little offbeat she went "are you metro?!" and then we kind of geeked out over it for a bit and when we were talking about kinks we were into, she said she wanted to give it to a guy with a strapon.
You'll have to find a therapist who's more into gender issues than just trans stuff. It's a growing concept that gender and sex don't have to be the same thing.
Find the right shrink, tell them you're uncomfortable with your gender but not your sex and they might help you make a few strides. Most people ITT insist on self-medding or lying. Really, all you have to do is be honest and do a little research on your provider.
>she wanted to give it to a guy with a strapon
I think more and more doctors are willing to accept "gender non-conforming" transition for people that don't fit the classic definitions of what a transsexual is; no idea how to go about finding out which doctors are flexible about that without actually making an appointment and asking them, though. An informed consent place might be more reliable, I don't know.
So there's this site of which I'm an user (just some pretty big community not unlike 4chan although smaller and not anonymous, closer to traditional forums) and they're doing a Miss Nameofthesite and girl users are sending pics and then everybody can vote to decide the winner. Basically an online beauty pageant, but it can be lewd or you can choose not to show face or whatever you want as long as you're a woman.
I tried taking some pics to take part in it, but I'm too masc to pass for a girl even with shirt and stuffed bra and I want to cry. Fuck my life.
I feel so retarded I didn't try just googling "therapist" + my insurance. I found someone who specializes in things like this. I sent an email off to them and I'll call them in the morning. Her price scale says "$50-$120" for a session. I can swing that.
I'm guessing IC = informed consent. The closest place I've noticed now is about a 3 hour drive. Not exactly on the fence about that. Maybe I'll try that if the therapist is a bust.
>tfw so fem that people only realize you're a boy once you speak
tumblrmemes aside, do we think femboy is basically a non-binary gender identity yet? it's starting to look that way
HRT redistributes fat to different places (e.g. butt, thighs instead of lower stomach) like a girl
>be me in high school and most of college
>have a fairly slim figure, be called girly from a couple people
>love getting attention form people who point out girly traits
>desperately want to try makeup, girl clothing, or anything that makes me seem more feminine but never do
>fast forward to now (24 yo)
>couple days ago realize puberty is over and my body is slowly deteriorating
>no one even remotely points out any feminine qualities
>regret not trying to pass in a dress even once, or even just a little makeup
>I will never be as happy as I was then
Thousands? Do you not have health insurance? Did you not research and find a therapist with adjustable rates based on your income?
With my insurance and adjustable rates, I pay 20 bucks per session with my therapist. Stop making up asspull strawman arguments to shovel your agenda.
It's perfectly fine when you don't have experience with that sort of thing. Stress tends to make you subconsciously limit your options, too.
Don't end up trying to swallow pills to solve your problems. Get advice, talk to someone and try to actually work out your issues. There's a reason why those drugs require such investment. They can dangerous and have irreversible effects. You should know that you actually need them, know what you're getting into and have an informed and professional support system while taking them.
/mtfg/ here, this entire general is fucking ridiculous. "I want to look like a woman but I dont want to be a woman?" Not gonna happen. You are all men therfore you will look like men bybthe time you are 30. I guarantee that 80% of /mtfg/ started out in this general thinking they could satisfy their desire to look cute with just moisturizer and a little low dose hormones here and there. The people wh graduated to /mtfg/ were the ones smart enough to realize that this is onworkable long term, either you fuck yourself up with not enough of either hormone or you give up and live the rest of your life depressed about lookingblike Bruce Willis. You all want to be girls, you just bash transsexuals because of the social stigma.
My mom once told me while we were shopping in the city for her birthday gift that I'd look good in a skirt that she held up.
I don't know if she was just fucking with me for fun or if she was fucking with me because I know she snoops around my room and has probably found the panties I keep stashed around.
>similar length hair
For a guy? They don't let grow that long, they cut it...Buzz cut.
Also my hair isn't long enough like yours.
And those highlights are gorgeous.
What do I use then? My hair is so fine and silky, and slightly wavy.
The only way to hold it is with hair gel. hair spray while works for a limited time,It makes my hair more wavy.
kinda makes me like an anime character.
>you can't just tie it back during work?
When home I use hair band, pic related.
But in work, it's not tolerated, at least for a guy.
Living in a country where you can be who you are is gr8 m8.
>Living in a country where you can be who you are is gr8 m8.
ikr? people be like "if you could travel through time, where would you go?"
and my answer is always "I'm black so, right here and right now because every day is better than it used to be"
Really, it comes down to your profession. Man, woman or femboy alike, you dress and style for the job you have. If your job won't let you be who you are, find a new job or adjust accordingly.
>If your job won't let you be who you are, find a new job or adjust accordingly.
That isn't possible for everyone though.
Especially since some jobs have a stereotypes.
Imagine a lumber for example, you don't see a femboy as a lumber do you?
Though a femboy lumber is comfy thing to cuddle with, massage his hands and fall a sleep while inhaling that scent of sweat and forest and wood.
It's nto a higher power, it's that masculinity is a huge but very superficial part of the afro-american community. Black men tend to have more effiminate traits than their fairer skinned countrymen, but the culture makes them shove that shit downward.
Braids? Dreadlocks? Afros? All of them are androgynous hairstyles that work for either gender. Hell, even a buzzcut can work for men or women of color.
I don't deal with anything. I just accept it and make it work.
It's slightly better than the the /mtfg/ that is full of sad anime girls going "tfw no bf", "tfw no pass" sprinkled with "shut up kayla" now and then.
/femgen/ isn't about becoming the girl, it's about having the aesthetic. The titboys here are just enjoying their transition way more than the /mtfg/ are.
I know my hair isn't long enough to braided it, and it's not thick?voluminous? to make it look good.
>job won't let me wear a beanie.
What do you do? and why does jobs in general have a thing for men growing their hair?
SisterS, I have two.
I'm the oldest, the big one is 2 years younger than me, she wears my shirts some times as sweater, we share hair products all the time, I comb her hair when she's anxious, we call each others "baby", we are in good love-love relationship.
I think she knows about my crossdressing, since she caught me once trying her jeans, and once told me to put her stuff back were they where. I took a bra and panties.
Also we had our first sexual discoveries together.
The younger sister is 8 years younger than me, I help her sometimes when she goes shopping.
I tell my sister quite often that her makeup looks trashy.
However, her mother and her aunts also tells her the same thing but her mother tells her -everything- she does is also shit so she writes off most criticism as bullshit.
I sooooo wish I could move back home and develop "that" kind of relationship with my sister, but I haven't settled on where I want to move after I finish my paramedic certification.
>What do you do? and why does jobs in general have a thing for men growing their hair?
It's not about my hair being long. My hair is in a stage in which I either have to style it or braid it down. I can't just get out of bed and say fuck it. The no headwear policy has nothing to do with length, it's about the uniform. -I- have a problem with my length, not them.
Other jobs just want your hair to be contained whether you're male or female. I grew up in core style marching bands and ROTC. Girls had their shit bunned or knotted up tightly. On the first day of the EMT academy, 4 male members of the class were told that they would have to shave their beards, I was told no hats and one girl was told she'd have to snatch her hair back and take out her hoop earrings. The workplace gets that the workplace wants. It's not an assault on -your- identity, it's them wanting every employee to adhere to their vision, male or female.
I have the same problem with my hair. My great-grandfather was cuban and I've been hit with fairer hair and lighter skin. My hair looks afro at a distance but if I should try braiding it or getting dreadlocks, it's just a shade too fine to do it "properly" until it's very long. Unfortunately, my dad made me cut my hair in HS and I'd never elected to grow it out again until last year..
>Don't end up trying to swallow pills to solve your problems. Get advice, talk to someone and try to actually work out your issues.
Exaggerated bullshit. They're safer than contraceptives and we let women play roulette with them as otc.
Besides if you do ic, a real physician is managing it, and they'll do just fine in helping you sort out what you need.
Pills are just an end to keeping my body in a state I'm used to. We shouldn't get caught up in a tainted system like psych where they're only interested in forging people into sick caricatures. Show any honesty and admit that you 'identify' as a guy, aren't trans and only use HRT to stay cute and you're just as likely to get threats and coercion from them as help.
Yes, but the women blabbering about their day that unfortunately makes up 90% of ASMR videos doesn't do it for me anymore. There are some makeup tutorial/asmr combo vids which are cool to watch though.
How to make nipples more sensitive?
I'm doing pic related everyday.
>tfw took hormones
>this was one of the effects
>at first it feelsgoodman
>then it's a little too sensitive
>can't sleep on my front, if someone bumps into me it really hurts
>my tits actually hurt a little right now because of how my arm is resting
the pain will go away after 3-7 years, it's because they're still growing
of course if you get punched in the boob or something it'll still hurt like getting kicked in the balls, but they won't be so sensitive you can't even lie on your front etc.
aren't you worried about the health risks? Also tits aside E is pretty nice. Some of my facial hair even went thin/white again and my skin is smooth as fuck, fat distribution is a little better, and i just kind of like how it makes me feel. having to hide my tits really is the only negative
High potassium ? It's not a high risk with normal functioning kidneys.
And I take 100mg per day and it's safe to use up to 400mg per day.
And since 100mg doesn't completely block testosterone there is no issue.
Most of suppression of testosterone in HRT is due to estrogen through negative feed back.
Trust me I'm a doctor.
Laughing over how the last thread all but proved that twinks are smart, book smart at least
just rock the tits, a lot of people will be able to tell you're taking HRT (or that *something*'s up) just by looking at you, way more than you know. they just don't like bringing it up in case they look stupid/rude. in my experience. when I eventually came out as trans (yes sorry) a good 70% of the people I knew, mostly people who were in the know about trans stuff, said they could pretty much tell even though I hid my boobs well.
Does masturbating and cumming helps or make my appearance worse? I mean in the testosterone way.
Sometimes Im not horny at all, but I just start looking for porn to jerk off, its just a bad habit. I want to stop doing it so much since it doesnt help me at all.
oh to clarify what I mean is that even if you do hide the boobs, people will still be able to tell because you'll look unnaturally femme for a boy, even if they can't put their finger on it
just be proud of who you are desu senpai, you're a cute fuckin' nature-cheating feminine boy and you love it
Asians can have fair/white skin, but they're still Mongoloid. Aryan was the more accurate term back in the day of really finicky racial categorisation, but that's all taboo now.
On another note, apparently South Korea has a thing where androgyny is favoured in men as a beauty ideal over masculinity.
you prefer asian women ?
No, I really prefer white girls and guys. I cant deny there are some very attractic asian, but white blondes are my weakness.
Im a latino by the way, but I get mistaken for an asian sometimes because of my small frame
whenever you have a question like this, just go post on /fit/ like
>not cumming three times per day to raise testosterone levels
>the current year
with a smug anime girl picture, and you'll get all the info you need
Honestly if you look good enough aside from the tits people either won't mind or will think it actually adds to your look imo. The girls I share a flat with think they're cute and most of the guys just think I'm wacky and interesting for it and (pretty crucial, more people here scared of going public should do this) because I was always clear from the start that I'm not some tumblrkin xirgender SJW who's gonna bitch at them for calling me a guy etc., they don't mind and just treat me as one of the guys. A big part of why so many guys are hostile to us seems to be because they see a fem guy with tits and have preconceptions about what you're personality will be like. Play it cool and prove that you're just like anybody else and a lot more people will pretty quickly forget/ignore that you even have boobs. A few of the alpha guys in the flat dislike me for being a fag but they would even if I wasn't fem.
wait what the fuck?
why does femgen for feminine BOYS have info about binding and mastectomy?
if you look like op and don't have a cock, you're just a girl, fuck off.
inb4 mad trannies desuuu
100% agree. Even when considering the hrt fad, being fem is still being male. We're just androgynous and/or faggy/girly guys. The key is GUYS here. We're not non-binary/genderqueer/agender/queerquestioning tumblr scum.
Maybe a few, but I doubt it would be a majority. Let's not forget that there are some fems who started hrt thinking they were trans, but realized they're actually not and that they're just feminine af guys, but guys still nonetheless.
>muh men have to get gross and beardy to be real men
>validating trannies by thinking of them as women
I mean ill use female pronouns if they pass, but I know the truth is most of them are just twinks with tits. They don't stop being male.
>tfw you will never be a shape shifting master of darkness
I'm just scared
I get told i look gay but this is different. Having tits is weird. Sometimes I want to be part of the masculine crowd. I know I don't look masculine but they'll probably feel weird or disgusted if i have boobs, at least this was it's just "oh he just looks a bit gay but he'll grow out of it."
Depends if you think this is just a phase or not anon. For a lot of us this is who we are so having puffy nips is no big deal if it means everything else is how we want it to be. If you're worried you'll wanna be masc one day then you probably shouldn't bandwagon.
what are your instagram goals friends
i'd kill for that sort of glowy 'natural' fem look, but my skincare routine isn't that on point yet
I want right's face with left's skin tone and hairstyle.
It's hard to find celebrities that look like me. Despite the fact that I'm just barely of mixed ancestry, my features aren't very afro and pictriev always compares me to my fairer-skinned kin.
Only once have I been paired with someone ethnic, and it was Rosario Dawson. Pictriev also has me at 60/40 masc:fem and my skin regimen has just started with nothing more than cleansers, witch hazel toners and moisturizers.
>femboy in ontario
>hear about femboys all the time here
>see barely any
where do i go?
What do you prefer, morning shower or night shower?
I take a shower after I come back from work.
Because of my job, My shift could end in the morning in which I take a shower and go to sleep, or my shift could end up in the evening so I take a shower and then go to sleep.
I like going to bed clean and fresh.
Also any tips for growing hair? And styling it while it grow?
My bangs reach my nose now, but the hair on the back of my head isn't long enough and it sometimes point sideways, a very bad case of bed hair.
Nights, always. Might take a quickie in the morning if I sweat a lot.
Hate going to bed groce and it gives me an incentive to go through my skin/hair care routine before passing out.
I think I'm gonna cut my hair tomorrow .
The social pressure to cut it is too much to take anymore.
Everyone telling/hinting that I should get a haircut.
Family members tells me that I look ugly with my hair that long, and it's not suitable for a man.
The other day I got harassed by few drinkers telling me how much is it for a blowjob and tried to run me over with their car.
My hair isn't even that long , it long "for a man".
My bangs reaches my upper lip, and the rest of my hair is 2"-3" long.
I like to wear eyeliner?
I know, and that's what's killing me.
I've cut it a few times before and every time I do I no longer recognize the person in the mirror.
Its very calming to have long hair, simply running my fingers through it put me at ease.
Night, for the reason that I can shower, blow dry and straighten my hair at night instead of in the morning.
Straightening my hair takes like an hour for me so it's nice to not worry about that in the morning when I have to get to class.
Saying it is easier than doing it.
Especially since my job involves me running around so my hair gets in the way.
And I can't wear anything to hide it or tie it, so I have to use hair spray or cream to hold it in place.
No, because I told them to go fuck themselves.
Where I live men don't go around with long hair.
I'm sorry those drunk people harassed you, but I'm with the others on this one. You're probably gonna regret cutting it long. Also, who fucking cares what your family members say, the teasing stops once they realize you're not cutting it. Teasing someone for having long hair cuts really stale after a while.
Do what you want obviously, but don't cut it because others are shaming you. They're just gonna find another reason to shame you once you cut it anyway.
Not entirely, it stays mostly straight. I have to straighten it in the morning as well but it only takes about 10 minutes to fix what sleeping did to it rather than the hour it would take if I showered in the morning.
Both, depending on when I have to wake up in the morning. If I have a really early morning then I'll shower at night because long hair takes forever to dry (I prefer to air-dry if I can; not a big fan of blow drying unless I have to). If I wake up and my sleeping has totally fucked up my hair and there's no time to style it, I'll tie it back or put it up, or wear a beanie or something (it's cold here man). I definitely prefer morning showers though if I don't have to rush.
That's what I'm currently doing.
However it still hard to manage given my little time to prepare myself.
Whatever I do I still get a few locks that curve like so.
Thanks, I really got scared that day.
I didn't take that way for a few weeks because I was afraid I'd face them again.
Still the nagging isn't just from parents , it comes from coworkers as well.
Did you just start at this job or something?
When I started my manager kept telling me "oh you're probably gonna have to cut your hair..." and everyone called me "pretty boy" and would make insincere remarks (mostly men and middle-aged women, the young people didn't give a shit), but I refused to give in. I would just nod at them or something and ignore them and eventually they just stopped and it became part of my persona there. My manager stopped nagging me to cut it and everyone just came to know me as that guy with long hair (went down to my nipples at the time). I just had to tie it back and everything was fine.
I can't say that this also will happen to you, it's just that every in instance in my life where people have teased me about it, they always stop after a little while when they realize it doesn't bother me and that I'm not going to be shamed into cutting it.
Not exactly, I just started growing it a few months back, after I got the job.
And the harassment in work isn't straightforward like "you need to cut your hair "
But more like "are you faggot, anon?"
For some odd reason, long hair = gay where I live.
Doubt that, I'm socially awkward, I don't deny that.
But I don't act girly on the job.
And I'm sure it's the hair, because I once have in and cut it, the harassment stopped.
Ah that's too bad. I'm sure you can rock the short hair look too. Nothing wrong with that. Hopefully if you grow it out again you can find somewhere to work where you aren't treated like shit.
That's a shame. Well you seem to be dead-set on cutting it so I don't know what to say another than that sucks anon. It seems really weird to me though assuming you live in western europe, australia or north america (not the south-east).
>not moving to a ultra-liberal city where sometimes strangers randomly gender you female and you have to correct them whilst secretly getting tummy-butterflies of excitement
>not getting compliments from super gruff masc guys in the queue at the shops asking where you got your shiny leggings from because "they're really cute actually" and their gf's birthday is coming up and she's been looking for something similar
>not walking confidently down the street in broad daylight basically in girlmode and feeling happy with your fashion and your body and your life and unashamed about that for the first time since at least the start of puberty
it's like you don't even want the femboy life senpai
I'm femboy in closet.
I can't go outside just like that, I have to go in my "man" mode..
And I live in the city so I can get with the long hair thing, homosexuality does exist here as well.
Beside work among a civilized people just not open minded.
Also it not as worse as you imagine.
I tend to do both depending on how fem i'm feeling desu. Never wear sports bra/binder when with my SO 'cause she loves my sensitive nips. Going to class or something though? Hide that shit. Way too early to deal with people at that time.
>MFW I live close to Brighton, the gay capital of England.
God I can't wait until I can afford to buy a studio flat there so I can wake up and get dressed in girlmode and then just stroll down to the shops, pick up breakfast and then spend all day with my girlfriend/boyfriend walking along the pier and going clothes shopping.
I'm masc and only do monogamous relationships. I'm almost exclusively attracted to cute fem guys. There is none here in Michigan though... Where are you cute little things hiding? I'd love to maybe take you out for ice cream and a movie. Maybe a late night movie marathon or a few drinks?
>mfw no qt fem bf to make my little spoon.
>mfw no qt fem bf to romance and sweep off of feet
>mfw no qt fem bf to grow old with, love, and forever be with.
Why fucking live...
>regret = instinct
Don't bleach your dick lmao unless you want to destroy it.
>cum from nip stimulation
I can't personally, but they're sensitive af now and get me pretty randy.
Different anon btw.
>avoid unwanted attention
A femboy WILL get attention, mostly negative one.
The budding breasts make it worse.
Where I live , I wear hoodies and baggy clothes and use curse words to maintain manly image.