Why you're a virgin thread, get in here losers. Describe

>22 male
>not kissless
>NEET
>trust issues, anxiety and generally shy and awkward to be around
>self esteem and trust issues too
>used to be a solid 5-6/10, but got fat

I'm not mature enough for relationships and too insecure to hook up with someone. Any sexual experiences I had in the past were all disasterous and not worth the stress it caused. At least I have masturbation to keep my needs met

>22/M
>kissless virgin
>I work, go to school, and have solid plans for the future
>never pursued relationships in the past because I was a shut-in friendless loser for pretty much the first 18 years of my life
>haven't really bothered since making myself become less of a shit because it didn't seem worth it since I don't have much free time and am capable of being perfectly happy outside of a relationship
>maybe 2 girls I've tried to date, both ended terribly for different reasons.

I'm really pretty ambivalent towards it, it's not like it's some sort of deep-set issue that I have.
The only thing that bothers me is when people think it should bother me.
I don't give a fuck that I'm the only virgin in the room, please stop thinking that I should.

>20
>male
>kissless handholdless virgin
>have never even gotten close to having a relationship of any sort
>I'm fuckin 5'4"

Now I could just blame it all on my height, and while that certainly contributes I don't think it's directly the problem. I've got pretty bad social anxiety and just all the general awkwardness associated with that which makes socializing with anyone I don't already know pretty hard.

Currently going to College in a town 150 miles from home and live by myself in a city where I have literally no friends. Can't even work up the energy or courage to go get a job, so my entire life pretty just consists of going to classes (which starts up again in a few weeks) and going home to my apartment where I'll either be listening to music, writing/recording shitty folk songs, watching movies, listening to podcasts and playing videogames.

I really have no idea how to break out of it all. Everything just feels hopeless. I have really no prospects for the future and the only thing giving me any reason to live is the slight hope that things could get better (and of course I wouldn't want to hurt my parents like that). So yeah, sorry for the blogpost.

>31
>Male
>Straight
>Probably anywhere between 4-7/10 depending on who you ask
>Board games, video games, reading, cult movies/shows, concerts
>Not kissless, but barely

Probably my fatal flaw was having no self esteem for a very long time. Always thought I was shit and spent a lot of time doing solitary activities. Its only been in the past year where I think my life is finally together enough for the first time in years that I might finally look like a decent prospect for someone. Of course, finding a girl that wants to take a chance with a virgin in his 30s is another obstacle I need to face.

>21/M
>kissless dateless virgin
>scandinavian

I see several people here had social problems during their youth, it's been the same case for me too. I can handle social interactions now, but it seems difficult to get friends and meet people at this stage in life where you have started working. I'll probably have to go "out of my way" if I ever want to find a partner. Maybe one day I'll swallow my pride.

>>24141715
What chant do you prefer for your fireballs, oh wise and mighty Wizard?

>be 6/10
>21
>dude
>husky
>routine; work, workout, game, sometimes drink, use to party
>want to just get laid at this point
>CORN EVERYWHERE, nothing to do unless you're wanting to travel 45-2 hours
>never had gf

>>24141409
>22
>Male
>Homeschooled
>Only socialisation ever was at church
>Go to a Christian university now (I dicked around with freelancing and crap for a few years)
>Interests include programming, reading math books, and masturbating

I've taken some girls out on dates, some even kissed me. They say I'm cute and everything but they always just want to be friends.

I don't understand! D;

>18
>male
>straight
>depending on who you ask 7/10
>had a few relationships only 1 serious
>has been asked to have sex but tuned offer down
>works at target, Xbox, movies, and sports fill free time

Now I know I sound like a total douche coming on here and saying that I've had the chance but hear me out. I was 17 and it was prom night and the girl I was with was supposed to just be going as a friend (but obviously she wanted to be more, or idk maybe she just wanted some like the rest of us) she was kinda high and I was completely sober and I had had a good time with her and everything but she wanted us to like have sex right then and there in the park on the grass at like 4 in the morning. We kissed on the grass and I was covered in dirt and ants and I had to tell her that I just couldn't. The conditions weren't ideal and I emotionally I guess wasn't ready to have sex with this girl that I had been friends with for years. I don't know if I made the right decision or not...
As for the relationships none of them were serious lasting about 2 to 3 months and resulting in nothing more than a few date nights and make outs. I had wanted the more serious one to continue (we dated for 8 months) but she was cheating on me so....

>>24141819
Sometimes girls aren't looking for anything other than a nice date with someone. Idk maybe you weren't interesting enough for them? It could be a lot of things but I would blame it all on yourself

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>>24141795

>>24141498
Hey man I'm 5' 4" too lol glad you try not to let that get in your way

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>>24141409
>18/M/Massachusetts
>5'7 117 LBS
>Pic related is me (a little while ago someone started impersonating me on r9k but that has since stopped)
>KV
>diagnosed sperg
>NEET at the moment but I applied for a tolerable job (Pharmacy Tech)
>My current life is shitposting and vidya
>I recently started to go out cycling with friends every now and then
>I don't usually initiate convo with females
>I was in an ld"""r""" once but that ddin't fly so good because I managed to fuck it up like I fuck everything up
>I'm kinda content with being a kv

11.5 years until I likely become a wizard

>18/M/Florida
>straight
>Kissless, dateless, handholdingless virgin
>Cancer (was homeschooled for 3/4 y of highschool)
>start college in the fall so im hoping for something
>plenty of confidence, have my life sorted out, I just want sex until i get a steady job
>Only major interaction I've had with females were with my nurses

I crave the Russian pussy senpai

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>21
>Not kissless but don't think anyone ever will again if they aren't drunk
>Middle America
>Going to Uni, going to be a senior once school starts again
>Solid 2-3/10 depending on what light people see me in and if they have a "type"
>6'5" but being tall and getting girls because of it is a complete meme

I have no excuse other than my genes are garbage-tier so being one doesn't frustrate me too much any more. Thankfully my social skills are actually pretty good and I have lots of friends which means I don't need a female around to not be lonely.

>>24141953
nigger wtf are you talking about? You're like a 9 dude. #nohomo

>>24141971
Lol I wish people around here thought that. In any other place I have to admit I think I'm at least average but where I am right now everyone just seems to look better than I do. Things might change when I leave Uni though, ya never know.

>>24141953
>>24141981
You are very obviously not a "2 or 3". You are certainly well above average to the point where I'm pretty sure this might just be a troll.

>>24141981
you don't have social skills, ugly guys can get laid if they do, and your v attractive; just a faggot
>fuck drunk chicks and don't talk
>or an hero

>is this the way to create green text?

>>24141953
Fuck. You look like me. I plan on committing suicide this year, can't take it anymore tbqh.

Wish you the best, bye.

>>24142047
By social skills I mean being able to go out and make friends and have a good time at parties and things. But when I've ever been around women I freeze up really hard so you're right about the social skills there.
>>24142046
I've tried tinder and the most matches I have gotten are about 5/month which are why I rate myself so low. That also might be the best fucking picture I've ever taken so it may be misleading.

>>24142071
Stay strong but if that's what you decide to do go for it. I feel like most people born in a strong Scandinavian area of the USA look like variations of us, your family from the upper midwest by chance?

>>24142069
Sorry im half a newbee
>gay
>19
>total virgin
>twink4/10 or6/10
>half asian
Shy and cant start a conversation unless its another geek
Family are bad influences(not terrible)
And dont realy like or dilike lots of things example music genres (except rap)(or opera)
Also its easy to make a mess of things

>>24142085
Born in Minnesota, same for my family.
About to lose my job, I spend a lot of my time moping around being depressed about being an unloved virgin.

I have a really nice job too but that ends this month because I don't show up to work. I thought if I worked on my personality, got a good job and things like that, some woman would take interest in me.

I thought if I go to the gym, take care of my appearance, go to parties and talk to women that one would take interest in me.

There was one woman who did in fact take interest in me. She was over 30 years old and said I can't have sex with her till marriage. What bothered me was she told me she slept with over 100 guys, and most have been on the first night.

Being a cuckold isn't worth it, women don't fucking want me.

>>24142099
Eh I gotcha on that one, I'm not quite that jaded yet but life is throwing me down that road eventually probably. And I actually guess right, I was born and raised in fucking Bismark, North Dakota of all places and everyone up there has a similar look to them. Getting fit hasn't helped me either, that's another meme just like the height thing. I'm even on my college crew team and nobody really gives a fuck. World was just unfair from the start for a lot of us I feel.

>>24142121
The worst thing I came to realize was.
When I go outside and look around me, literally everyone gets laid in life except a select few. (that you only hear about online.)

I'm talking, I know a homeless guy who has a girlfriend right now. He's overweight, and is missing teeth, and has schizophrenia and otherproblems. Doesn't shower or anything yet he gets laid daily.

Shit like this helps me realize I need to kill myself.
Fuck what these people say about going to the gym, etc. Just think about it. That fat nerdy anime kid you see at school? HE got laid.

That jobless guy who used to beat his ex? He still gets laid today.

>>24142136
I'm sure whoever his girlfriend is also has a shit ton of problems but I share your frustration. Women in general just don't make any fucking sense to me, especially with who they choose to fuck, but I guess there is just something written into their code that makes them get with complete losers while completely ignoring other losers like me. And believe me I actually know a decent amount of fat anime kids and they have seen about as much pussy as I have, so that helps me where I am.

>19/F (am i the first girl here so far? usually there are more)
>str8
>community college but smart
>4-5/10 without makeup, 6-7/10 with
>average or chubby, depending on who you ask
>never dated anyone irl
>Kissless

I think I'm still a virgin because: I have social anxiety, I don't act very feminine, my looks, my personality is 90% sarcasm, I have depression, low self-esteem, always had a hard time making male friends.... pretty much all the usual stuff. My social anxiety was so bad that even after getting into a really good university, i had to drop out because my anxiety skyrocketed and i couldn't perform basic daily functions without freaking out (IE going to the grocery, taking the bus, eating alone in the dinning commons)

>>24142170
>(IE going to the grocery, taking the bus, eating alone in the dinning commons)

Went through some similar stuff. I lost a kinda unhealthy amount of weight my freshmen year because the idea of having to eat alone in the dining hall terrified me. Luckily I was able to stick with the whole thing since the anxiety of being a college dropout ouweighes everything else.

>18
>male
>biscum
>German
>usually get 6 or 7 in face rate threads
>bot very social, even though I could be (no agoraphobia or anything like that)
>very preoccupied with my hobbies (mostly music and reading)
>not kissless, girls took intrest in me from time to time in the past
>am afraid of bonding with someone though
>always turned them down
>starting to regret this

Let's wait and see what uni brings, I guess.

>>24142187
*outweighed

>>24142187
>Luckily I was able to stick with the whole thing since the anxiety of being a college dropout ouweighes everything else
that probably would've happened to me too, if not for the fact that i started feeling very suicidal, and luckily my mom understood i was really suffering and let me leave.

I'm 26 yo male.

I've had chances and I'm not bad looking, but there's a mental block somewhere. I'm afraid of sex.

I think deeper than that I'm afraid of being vulnerable and rejected or abandoned.

Or it could be that I have so much self loathing that deep down I believe that I don't deserve to have someone or that there is no way that someone could like me if they really got to know me.

I've also thought about the possibility that I was abused in early childhood and have suppressed the memory. I have no recollection of anything like that happening, but I broke my femur in half when I was about 3 and I don't remember that at all so I guess it's possible.

The last one is grasping at straws but I'm looking for some kind of explanation why I have the attitude toward sex and relationships that I do.

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>23/f

I want to be a witch.

>>24142441

Women can be wizards too, the powers of beyond don't discriminate for we are all but specks of dust on their cosmic canvas.

>>24142441
Defloration is my fetish. I've really been wanting a girl older than 21 who's a virgin but trying to find a virgin in California is like hunting unicorns.

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>22 m
>KV

I wish I had friends and people to talk to but I kind of also feel like there's no way to meet anybody who won't just be shit. Not even as in I just don't like them, but they'll flake out and start ignoring me or something or cut contact anyway.

How do I solve this problem without killing myself? That will be plan B.

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>25
>male
>straight but I am open to traps
>south UK
>maybe 5-7/10

I find anything intimate completely terrifying. Not in a rational way as if something bad might happen, but my body and brain completely shut down. Even cuddling, as much as I've enjoyed it, is difficult. The worst bit is that I have a physical reaction, I feel sick, my mouth goes dry, I find it hard top speak etc. It's just embarrassing and it makes me seem uninterested in the other person even though I am. So yeah, I'm kinda lonely. I don't expect to ever have a normal sexual relationship but I just want to cuddle mostly.

My kik is fluop, dunno why anyone would be interested but just in case.

>>24142441
im virgin 23/m/uk. where you from?

>25
>male
>terrible anxiety
>trust issues
>just a generalized fear of sex in general
>afraid of stds
>afraid of ridicule
>not kissless
>not neet
>just terrified of sex

the best/worst story i have is, i once had a girl in my house on my lap, touching my dick and i basically said go home. we had been dating for maybe 3 months and i just didnt trust her enough. sometimes i feel like ill never lose it just because im so terrified. its funny because im attractive and most girls im interested in (very particular tastes) are interested in me. but i often dont engage in any sort of romantic or sexual relationship with them.

im not autistic or a sperg lord or anything just absolutely terrified of having sex.

the only way it could happen is if i was dating them for a long time probably 6 months + and i trusted them completely. which is a longshot.

other than this i have no interest in just getting laid.

25 F Southern Hemisphere been chubby all my life since puberty.
Crippling anxiety/ low self esteem all of high school. Had a really gross awkward stage that wasn't helped by
Older guys 2 year levels above (I was 13 they were like 15 or 16) on the bus/ when I was walking home eg sarcastically to their friends "hey look it's ur GF" because obv it was hilarious to say a chubby little quiet girl was ur mates gf. To make it worse they lived near me and followed me halfway home to my house once and yelled gross stuff at me about being able to see up my skirt and it was terrifying. Idk also in a class where our teacher used to leave for long periods of time some boys sitting in the back row all threw screwed up bits of paper and stuff at me at once loudly counting down. And then 1 guy constantly and consistently would taunt me in every math class and one time tried to cut my hair. So had next to no chance in high school. Between HS and just turning 25 been studying and focusing on myself and figuring out I had episodes of depression because of untreated anxiety and getting treatment for panic attacks n stuff. Still fat and hella insecure though.

>20/male
>bi-curious, but generally attracted to women
>aspie
>generally get good compliments about appearance
>social anxiety around everyone but close friends
>living in middle of nowhere with parent until school starts again next month
>IT so no grills
>spent the last several months endlessly playing Dark Souls

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>22
>m
>het but with homo fetishes
>Germany, near Frankfurt
>get ratings from 3-5 all the way up to 8-9 from women
>grew up in west Turkey
>programmed for several years, temporarily NEET now
>actively looking for partners right now

I've never had any sort of relationship because
1. in my early teens I thought relationships were just about sex and all the Turkish girls were "prudes" so I didn't bother,
2. then at 15/16 I fell in obsessive love and it was hopeless and literally lasted until 20/21,
3. and I'm unsociable as hell and never meet people, and also have mental health issues, so it's still very difficult for me to find someone.

>tfw you just want someone to cuddle and spend sweet time with ;_;

>>24141953
>2-3
xDDDD
You're an irl 7 in this photo. From what I see when I try to look for your hidden flaws you have a baby face and MIGHT have bit chubby cheeks. Still doesn't change much. You have no excuse for being a virgin because your genes are clearly above average. Also what place are you talking about?
Tinder doesn't mean much. Girls detest selfies or guys whose photos might look unsocial or whatever.

>>24143379
That sounds horrible. I wish you all the best.

>>24143379
I had a similar experience growing up. Boys would shoot staples from a staple gun at me, steal my things and say the usual crap you normally deal with, but it was even worse when adults would be asses about it. I can't imagine how terrible it was to have those kids following you like a bunch of creeps while walking home. I feel for you and hope things get better, anonette


28 F
I'm a virgin because I used to weigh a crapload and I'm awkward as heck.
I probably could have been decent looking, which is a bit of a downer. I'm trying to not focus on it so much and work on hobbies or anything that gets me to stop thinking about what I can't change.

>22 female
>not kissless. Gave plenty handjobs to first boyfriend
>social anxiety kept me from meeting anyone behind first boyfriend
>fat but face is at least a 5-6/10
>have long distance boyfriend in Vegas now. Making plans to meet and fuck

>>24143582

Hey, another past 25 and recently lost weight club member. I actually just got my first wizard spells and it would be great to shoot the shit with someone a similar age, maybe something comes of it, maybe not, all good.

Fire an email to [email protected] if you wanna chat. US dude, by the way.

>>24143471
I go to CU-Boulder, everyone here is super goddamn attractive I don't really even understand how. I seriously wish I could grow anything resembling good facial hair because I think it would address the baby face issue but unfortunately my beard is blonde and looks like garbage if I let it grow. I may need to get myself into a tinder thread one of these days to see what I'm fucking up too, I think I have a decent variety of photos and none of them are selfies though.

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>29 male
>straight
>living at home with no qualifications or life skills, part-time job and don't make a lot of moeny
>life consists of 4chan, waiting for new vidya I want to play and then playing the shit out of it, reading books

I have no ambitions or career, I have nothing to offer a woman other than myself, which isn't worth much. Girls know they can do better.

>>24144125
It might just be your bio, a bad one can really turn a lot of people away.

Any gurls or femguys in Mass looking to lose it?

>>24144220
oops I meant to say I do have a part-time job and don't make a lot of money, separate from the bit about qualifications and life skills,
However I've never really looked for another job or applied, I don't think I'd get one, like how I can't get a girlfriend, it's all the same thing really, they want you to be Superman.
I've either given up or just don't care enough to try harder, but that's the way it is.

>>24142091
>Sorry im half a newbee

Just because you're gay doesn't mean you need to act like a faggot, anon.

>19
>Female
>Bisexual
>I'd say I'm a 4-5 without makeup, 6-7 with. I've been checked out and hit on quite a bit, so that's something I guess.
>Chubby/curvy
>Not NEET, going to community college
>kissless shut-in

I'm extremely shy, to the point of being nervous about even online interaction. Plus I live in a town of normies who don't share the interests I have, which makes finding friends hard for me too.

While I would like to experience sex (especially kinky shit), the idea of losing my virginity frightens me a bit.

>26 Male UK
>Heterosexual
>About 6/10, 6.5 being generous to myself.
>Have a pretty good job. Looking to buy a house, soon.
>Have a lot of interests.

Usually, I don't particularly care. When I did care, I wasn't very good with women; and as I have improved, I've gradually cared less. Had some sexual experience, though never the whole shebang, as it were. Haven't dated in 2 years, generally just not cared.

Very recently starting to care, mainly because by coincidence my life has become very quiet, all over, so I'm not particularly occupied. Even then, not angry or depressed about it, just... dissatisfied, I suppose.

>>24144220
I suppose, I don't have much written other than my height and where I go to school. Guess I should spice it up a bit.

>>24144520
Post some contact info, there's nothing to be afraid of

>20
>Male
>Straight
>Honestly a 6/10, probably a 7 if my teeth were in a better state
>Living in a rented room, decent size, no job but do attend school 5 days
>Not kissless, got head once but still feelslikeavrigin.mp3
>Went on too many dates, friends trying to hook me up

I'm not really the romantic time, Most of the time I don't know what to do in social situations, I mostly just copy someone.
So when I'm alone with a girl I just get lost in the conversation I'm having with myself in thought.

>20 / m / KY / straight
>6'4 350 LB fatass
>tiny dick
>Way too depressed and lazy to go out to meet people

I also have EXTREME self esteem issues. When I say extreme I mean I legitimately think no woman will ever find me sexually appealing no matter what I do. I also am a hateful cunt to people who have active social lives and get laid weekly because I envy their lifestyle (not that I want to be). I would rather be an attractive retard than an ugly smart guy like i am now. Never had a girlfriend so I have no proof that a woman has ever liked me. I asked a girl out in 3rd grade and got rejected so now I think every woman doesn't like me and there is no point in trying. I have too much empathy for a relationship because I can't put myself in a woman's shoes and see why she would date me because I believe I have 0 redeemable features. Also having 0 friends doesn't help and all I do in my life is play video games and make self-deprecating jokes about how much my life sucks and no woman likes that.

All I want is a loving woman who will support me in trying to get my life back. I think if I get that it will all be okay and I will turn out fine but for now... it just doesn't seem likely.

>22/M
>Never kissed a girl, or been on a date ever
>Used to be really really ugly when I was younger and had borderline autism
>face developed normally and now I look like a regular dude
>brother was in a seriously abusive relationship before
>series of bad experiences with women at a liberal arts college where I'd get the sort end of he said/she said arguments and get blamed for shit I didn't do
>self esteem issues from being ugly when I was younger and from haveing basically no friends
>girls on tinder expect experienced guys for casual sex only or are mentally insane
>girls on OKC are the same

It's fucking awful, everyone just says to "use tinder bro" but people there just want cheap gratification and I have literally no clue how sex works and feel way too uncomfortable being judged like that, possibly accused of rape, or kicked out for giving them unsatisfactory sex

>>24144520
kik me or snap me jmozz00 23/m/uk

>>24141409
>all these overweight people
Just stop eating? Or do some exercise?

There's so many overweight people who could easily be 8/10 or better if they just lost the weight.

I know no one reads these for guys but oh well

>24 years old, kissless virgin
>heave never been close to ever even asking a girl out or being in a possibly somewhat sexual situation with a girl
>attended a university all four years living on or near campus
>have been mocked/teased/insulted for my looks all my life, probably a 3-4/10
>haven't had friends since like middle school, therefore not being close to girls, therefore never being is a situation with them to be involved
>complete shut-in due to having no friends

I honestly don't even care about trying to meet people (guys or girls) anymore. I've been rejected by people my whole life, so it isn't worth burdening them with my presence. In any situation I'm in, I just maybe talk to a few people then leave.

It's hard for normal people to meet friends after school ends. For someone like me, who never had them in the first place, it's over. It's done.

>>24145863
this. Literally all females need to do is look good. Males are the ones that have to be able to be the provider.

21, male, Midwestern America
Very into music and writing, didn't go to college. Basic sense of fashion, good social skills and charisma when I actually talk
I don't talk to girls ever. That's pretty much it. Whenever I actually go talk to girls it could definitely lead somewhere. But usually I don't. I had this girl basically do everything short of saying "FUCK ME" and I still didn't go for it. I guess somewhere inside it feels "wrong" to me on top of thinking I'll quickly reveal myself as a virgin. I'm either going to get a hooker or take ecstasy at a party. You'd never know I was a virgin until I told you. I blend in quite well.

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>20/m/aus
>kissless virgin
>straight
>attend uni
>only been on one date
>used to be ugly as fuck as a child and I'm now average, although I do get compliments rarely
>bad self esteem issues as a result

I don't know what to do, I just want a gf ;_;

atm I'm friends with 2 girls in my class and I want to ask one out but idk how to or when pls kill me

I barely talked to girls until I got into uni that's how bad it was.

>>24142620
You're probably a solid 10 to me.

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>>24145863
>Just stop eating? Or do some exercise?
I'm not even fat (in fact I need to bust my ass off to gain weight) but I don't get how cynical and stupid people must be to think it's that easy.

Well, maybe because I imagine it being just as hard to lose weight for fat people as it is for me to gain weight.

>hurr durr just eat more
Yeah until I vomit, right? Mmm, calories on the floor!

>>24147680
Read the sticky on >>>/fit/ and stop spouting this nonsense.

>Just stop eating
That's bullshit. Just eat a little less. A high deficit isn't maintainable, anyway.
>Do some exercise
That only works to supplement portion control, but by itself doesn't magically make you drop pounds.

>hard to gain weight
Lift, and keep eating how you did. Maybe sprinkle more protein in your diet. Gaining weight (muscle) is a slow process. 0.5-1.5kg per month is what's possible without anabolics.

>>24147711
>stop spouting this nonsense
I said it was difficult, not impossible. It is difficult.

Likewise for gaining weight.
>0.5-1.5kg per month
In terms of lean muscle the range is rather 0.5 to 1.0 kg per month, more towards the 0.5 mark when you're not a total beginner (where gains happen faster) and don't have a professional trainer. So that's what, 6-8 kg in a whole fucking year? Talk about SLOW. And every time you get demotivated and slack off for a month or so, you'll lose a bit, or at least slow down even more / stall for a while.

It's really difficult to keep up the motivation. You basically have to make it a very strict habit and just not pay attention to how fast (rather slow) it happens, I guess...

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>20
>M straight
>Studying music
>kissless and virgin
>too much trauma from woman in the past
>cant trust anyone
>dont wanna get hurt so i stay away from people
>depressed as fuck
>prefer to be alone all the time studying or playing videogames
>body dismorphic disorder
>hopeless

>>24148770
Are you sure it's not because of that wispy bitch patch on your lip?

>>24147760
Gym motivation is easy. After about a year and when you have some semblance of a physique, it becomes both addictive and literally a part of your identity. You will actually crave lifting weights. It might have something to do with your brain getting addicted to the endorphins released when you lift weights lol...

But also being fit just becomes a part of who you are, to the point where if you aren't working out or being athletic, you just don't feel like you.

Grand Wizard
>50M
>Normal looking, actually pretty fit
>Introverted
>Likely undiagnosed Asperger's

Had a hard time reading faces and social cues when younger combined with low esteem and shyness around girls. Skills improved when older, tried dating a few times in 30's but women could sense my ambivalence. Really didn't get a lot from hanging around with them, which they pick up on and are offended by.

Very easy to stay celibate now because of lower libido and 50 yo women aren't very appealing.

ITT because /pol sucks today.

>19
>male
>straight
>Califag
>dateless kissless virgin
>think I'm a 5/10, 6 on a good day
>black kid in mostly white town
>work at a ghetto fast food restraunt
>can't drive
>still live with parents
>day is usually work,fap, read som comics then 4chan,DnD or vidya

Reasons for this, I'm terrible at making conversation,I don't talk to people at school, I'm still hung up on a girl who rejected me like 5 years ago, and I mostly stay at home or hangout with people I already know.

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>20 y old
>kissless and virgin
>body dismorphic disorder
>low self esteem
>depressed
>trauma from woman in the past
>cant connect with anyone emotionaly
>realized im a beta and i believed in lies all the time
>isolated myself
>dont wanna get hurt anymore
>feels bad man

>>24148793
Double post because im autist too but well fuck that...
the last time i went out was 2 months ago, im doing caveman mode, but when i decide to leave home i will shave it... its just procatination

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>20
>uk
>little direction in life
>used to play alot of games (mainly wow)
>dropped out of college, have shit part time job

I was too apathetic and had far too little self esteem in school to get girls. At the same time even to this day sometimes i just stop making the effort for people. Also abused far too much weed and alcohol so that has likely mashed my brain and helped to shape me into a complete loser. I doubt I'll be able to get a girlfriend without getting off my ass and going to uni because it's rare meeting anybody new.

>>24148951
Epic hair man

I'm not a virgin myself but I enjoy taking a man's virginity. It's not an absolute requirement but I've done it before and those experiences were fun and hot for me, I was also told by him that it was the best night of his life. There is a few major problems through. The main one being that it's been a few years since I was intimate. I've only started to go on dates recently. Recently single from an online relationship, we never met though and things just started to fall apart. On the recent dates it was supremely awkward on his side as well as mine. So though I'm not a virgin I kind of almost seem like one on some cringe level. When I did have sex I was younger and hotter but now awkward as hell... In Oklahoma, near Tulsa. No car.

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>>24141409
>18
>male
>more or less straight
>pic related
>bad posture at times
>hobbies would include calisthenics, hiking, and stuff like movies that id rather not list
>fairly autistic
>told i look very serious most of the time
>dont drink/smoke so dont go to parties
I dont know what else to write. Im sure there are other flaws in me but none that are too obvious to me.

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Lost it a few weeks ago.
Lift
Get some manly hobbies
Fake it till you make it

>>24151340
I am fit and have manly hobbies.
Im still a virgin.

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>18
>not passionate about anything
>no "actual" hobbies
>just uninteresting
>i would assume that the vast majority of women my age are boring as well
>Etc.
Also how in the fuck does sex with a girl happen and in what universe does that happen in?

It's sort of the same reasons I don't have friends

>>24151846
No actual hobbies? Anyway you're probably interesting to someone.

>>24146959
be my loving gf

>>24150516
I am a girl btw, was porn as one and identify as one. In Oklahoma near Tulsa. Please respond. My hobbies include art, anime, weed (medication for me), fantasy and sci fi books.

>>24152750
>was porn as one
wew gal.

You sound amazing, I wish I lived near you.

>>24152750
(You)

>>24152774
>was porn as one
*born
Top kek.

>>24152774
I figured no one would be around anyway. Man, I've been at this since 06 and still never met anyone.

>>24152987
(You)

>>24150516
>online relationship for years without meeting
No wonder it didn't last. LDRs are doomed if you can't meet.

>>24153082
Ya, part of why I'm so desperate for human interaction now.

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Dating sites don't work.

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>>24153309
Tell me why I get these numbers and yet have no one to meet with?

>>24153319
Because you turn them down?

>>24153329
No? I don't get any messages. Probably just site stats lying to try to pressure people into upgrading.

>>24153335
Okay, so what kind of person are you looking for and why did your previous relationship end?

>>24152780
>>24153007
Pls respond.

>>24153357
Right here:
>>24150516
Ended because of LDR looking for someone who has the means to move really fast, so someone near me who can hang out today. In a long term sense I'd like someone with similar interests who I can spend a lot of time with. Most interests are playing Steam games, watching netflix, consuming other entertainment, creating art and entertainment, programming, all visual design meaning visual art of any kind drawing, painting, animation, travel, nature, outdoor stuff, crafting. Must be kind to all people because I just find it to be a huge 'boner killer' (so to speak) if he's a dick in some way to people.

>>24153378
Oh and I have agoraphobia, social anxiety, and ptsd so I barely leave the house to social events so he has to basically be willing to hold my hand through all of that type of shit and accept me for the fact that I'm mentally ill.

>>24153383
How did you get PTSD?

>>24153391
My family growing up was abusive.

>>24153378
>>24153383
I don't believe that no one wants to spend time with you. Do you do things to push people away?

>>24153378
>Most interests are playing Steam games, watching netflix, consuming other entertainment, creating art and entertainment, programming, all visual design meaning visual art of any kind drawing, painting, animation, travel, nature, outdoor stuff, crafting.

Those are just starting interests. Just going to throw out a bunch of entertainment/pop culture interests. On Netflix I really like Peepshow, The IT Crowd, Arrested Development, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, and Star Trek (have seen all other than the original and all of Enterprise; tng is my fav with ds9 as second then voyager). I've always watched a lot of Adult Swim and Tim and Eric and Rick and Morty are big ones I enjoy, but I've seen almost everything that's come on Adult Swim since it's creation. I'm pretty poor so as far as video games go I'm wanting either an xbox one or a ps4 lately (but don’t have one yet). Dragon Age: Inquisition, Witcher 3 recently played good games. I love RPGS, the most influential of my childhood were prob Final fantasy 7 through 10; Legend of Dragoon and the Longest Journey are some other good older rpgs. Loved King’s Quest as a child (especially 5 and 7) and Silent Hill. Play a lot of Skyrim on Steam. Open to any tabletop or board game but don’t do them very often. Basically if I can't be DN I don't enjoy it. Needing gta5 and Fallout 4 on Steam lately those are the only new ones I'm interested in. I've seen all of Gamegrumps and Jontron. I also like h3h3 and flithyfrank on youtube. As far as movies go I like a lot of fantasy and scifi from the 90s, like The Neverending Story, Dark Crystal, Dragonheart, Blade Runner, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Spaceballs, Starwars, and lotr. Huge Studio Ghibli fan, probably seen Princess Mononoke more than any other movie. As far as books go fantasy and sci-fi but a lot of young adult too and sometimes horror. Young adult for example would be Harry Potter and Cirque Du Freak. Horror would be Clive Barker.

>>24153468
Science would be Carl Sagan, Isaac Asimov, and Alexander Shulgin. Also like some True Crime. I find psychology, and philosophy often interesting but mostly read about it through wiki. Some top anime shows would be Tenchi Muyou, Dragon Ball/Dragon Ball Z, Accel World, and Watamote. When it comes to music I like all genres OTHER THAN most Country or Christian, some top bands would be MSI, NIN, Marilyn Manson, Pink Floyd - I know those are all rock but I love chillstep, retronew wave, ambient, and instrumental too.

Art is a huge part of my life and it's what I want to 'do' with my life. When it comes to what mediums I dabble in I like to do it all. Literally. Any medium that I can find especially new ones I want to experience. I still love the old ones and painting and drawing are probably my favorite and most practiced.

>>24153433
>Do you do things to push people away?
Probably. By being too desperate. The one person who lived near me that I talked to on skype from 4chan refused to meet up though because I came off as too desperate he said it was creepy.

>25 f
>nilotic features (dark skin, baby face, slightly taller than female average)
>used to be in an all-girls school
>mini afro
>overweight
>acne
>infp
>only want to touch one peepee in my life
>kind of trying to become a scientific programmer
>default expression looks fed up/tired
>dont like laughing/smiling in front of people because I have a gummy smile
>monotone
>like to see /mu/core/quietuscore/rymcore concerts
>recently got a hold of some 1p-lsd and hope to try out more psychs over time
>not very into anime/vidya/comics
>only IRL friend is a retired maths professor

>>24153513
I kinda like that. I'd meet up with you if I weren't from Europe.

>>24153647
Idk why anyone would like it. He blocked me.

>>24153671
I've met 'desperate' girls before, and usually they're pretty chill once you get to know them. Often it's related to failed previous relationship.

>>24153696
It was stupid because he added me from a thread where all I talked about is how desperate I was. :l

>>24153645
Contact?

>>24153722
My kik is xeanoa
If you want, you can rant there all you want. Maybe I'll toss in some advice.

>25
>Female
>Southwest
>Work(or at least am trying to, I'm between jobs at the moment) as a field biologist
>Main hobby is wasting time on the internet, also enjoy reading, vidya, listening to hisper shit, and anime but I'm pretty casual on all levels
>4/5 at best
>Chubby
>Really boring, lazy, and hard to talk to, bad at social things in general
>Depression that can get pretty bad at times, possibly other mental health things

Basically I'm still a virgin because I'm not attractive and don't have the personality to make up for it. I understand why no one wants me, I don't want me either, but at the same time I'm still human and can't help but crave love and sex. More than anything I wish I could just get rid of those cravings.

>>24153874
>I understand why no one wants me, I don't want me either, but at the same time I'm still human and can't help but crave love and sex
There are definitely people who want you. Don't wish the cravings away, you're going to make someone really happy some day.

Tfw 22 Asian male 6'0" looking for my snowbunny, but haven't found one yet. Trying to improve my social skills with females.
Thought having a job would make girls flock but in reality, you have to make the moves to get what you want

>>24153874
What is your favourite way to cum?

>>24152987
Well maybe if you didn't live in Oklahoma, the state with a grand total population of 23, there would be people near you.
>>24153319
Don't bother with that sort of site, it's a typical "Sexy singles NEAR YOU want to FUCK" type of thing.
>>24153378
What Steam games do you play? If it's something I also play I'd be more than willing to play some of that with you.
>>24153468
>tng is my fav
Fuckin perfect, Picard 4 lyfe.

>>24141953
6'6" non virgin reporting in (I'm fucking 32 years old).

Your time will come. Don't worry.

>>24153912

Lol I really don't think so.

>>24153921

Move to Hawaii my man. I was there for a job, saw lots of AMWF relationships.

>>24153949

After masturbating?

>>24153975
>Lol I really don't think so.
You sound great actually, don't worry about it.

>>24153975
skype or kik?

>20
>male
>8/10

Reason why I'm a virgin is because I'm just really socially awkward and also hard to be upfront and confident with girls. I can't walk up to a girl and be all "wanna fuck?". I could have had sex many times in my past, but i blew those chances, due to said reasons.

>>24153975
Yes

>>24141409

> 25
> male
> straight
> French
> Not attractive 4/10 (?)
> 0 match on websites, do not talk much to girls due to the fack i cannot imagine why they would be attracted by me.

>>24153975
really? seems so far, maybe i'd move where you are and we can both take each other virginity lol

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>>24153761
I don't have kik cos I don't have my own phone. I used skype though.

>>24153957
Pic related.

>>24154198
*use.

>21
>Male
>Straight
>American
>cannot rate myself I'm not really sure desu. some people think I'm hot and some think I'm an emo fuck
>Play LoL, DotA and WoW
I'm not a virgin but I need more female friends that aren't full retard

>>24154226
>I'm not a virgin but I need more females friends that aren't full retard

Looks like you're posting in the wrong thread, friendo

>>24154270
No one cares about the non-virgin girl posting.

>>24154198
Skype is i.like.melon

>>24154273
At least her post is semi-relevant to the thread, yours isn't. She enjoys taking peoples virginity. You just said that you want more female friends, not even mentioning doing the nasty.

>>24154286
Are you even a Virgin?

>>24154378
Also, no offense cos I don't even know you but I'm looking for someone to meet. Not just more gamer friends. I have plenty of people to play games with on the Internet. I'd like human face to face eye contact now. -_-

>>24154388
But I'll probably never get it because no one wants to meet straight away with a desperate stranger.

>>24154397
I'm not overweight

>>24141409
you sure you're not asexual and bi-romantic?

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>20
>male
>straight
>France
>maybe 4-6/10
I think I'm virgin bec I have acne, I have a lot of flab, I'm shy and when I try to seduce I think I'm not really natural.

>>24154572
>>>/tumblr/
>>>/out/
>>>/trash/

>>24154003

But I'm 25 ;_;

>>24154013

Don't have either, sorry.

>>24154185

That'd be nice lol. Or maybe I could get a job were you are.

>>24154572
I actually have no idea how those could go together

>>24153874
I'm in the Southwest as well and down to get to know you to see if we click. My email is [email protected]

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I fucked up my life really bad around 22-23, 24 now and back with my mother after moving out at 20

Really bad life choices and here I am working minimum wage again with a lot of self hatred
Things are getting better though and I'm trying really hard. As soon as I can afford (first paycheck) it I'm going to buy some running shoes and start regularly running again and quit drinking for real this time

In a year I should be making enough money to support myself and look at some kind of trade school/certificate or something, a skill but not a 4 year degree

What I want more than anything else in the world is a virgin wife and a bunch of kids, I'm working really hard to be good enough for a younger woman, and I know she's not going to be super hot either I'm ugly as shit but I can at least get some muscle mass you know.

I was ready to give up but not anymore. Keep fighting, the suicidal urges have faded away to vague unhappiness, but that will fade too.

I regularly fantasize about marriage 2bh and think about shopping to buy her sexy clothes and kissing her while dinner's cooking, that type of sappy shit, HONEY I'M HOME oh God

My whole life I didn't take care of myself and wasn't desirable, now I accept I have to raise my value in order to get a partner who isn't equally shit. I just wish I knew that at 16 but everyone told me bee urself

it will be at least a year or two before things get really good, but I'm optimistic these days

>>24144520
MFW I'll never lose my own virginity or try out kinky shit another shy kissless shut in.

Lost my virginity this summer. I'm 25. I'd say the number one thing that helped was changing my mentality from "I think I have feelings for this girl. I should get to know her better and try to make her line me " to "I want to fuck her and don't really care what she wants. If she turns me down then whatever but I'm making my move right now"

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>26 m
>kiss and hugless
>never talked to chicks outside work/stores/whatever
>no friends, messed up school never built relationships
>6'5", 235lbs, nice dong(kegels, jelqs), decent looking, healthy, good job, 3 cars, smart
>live in my moms basement
>do many drugs, many vidya and movies
>afraid of having kids, i do not want kids, ever
>afraid of stds
>dont want the first time i feel a vagina is with a plastic bag on my dick
>i do this stupid subconscious thing where if i feel some attraction to a girl or a girl shows attraction to me i do something to ruin it
>probably dont want to get hurt or betrayed or go through the drama of a relationship

Sometimes I think I'm asexual. I feel I could live to 100 and not get laid and not really care.

>>24154562
if you got a place to stay ill take a shot at ya, madpog122 is my skype. hope to hear from ya

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>19
>male
>straight
>California
>lame nerd with major depression
>never had a gf

Sex is just not something I've ever pursued. I mean, if it happens then whatever. If not, I don't really care. Tbh I wouldn't mind being a virgin my whole life. I don't get why people think that being a virgin is a bad thing.

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Not Kissless, had a gf once that gave me the occasional oral, but I consider that a fluke that won't happen again.

I'm simply not good looking enough or have another charisma to make a connection or really "click" with another person even in a friendly capacity.

I can communicate and work with people, just can't get past aquantince. You can always tell when talking with me that I have nothing to say, always want to be elsewhere, always want to be anyone else, always want to do anything else.

I don't want to try at anything, or go for anything. I feel too defeated already.

>18
>basically straight
>Minnesota

>>24154378
>>24154388
Like I said, I'm not even from the US, I'm German. I was just offering you a place to rant, since this thread just doesn't care.

I'm not a virgin. I browse these threads because it reminds of me how taking two girls virginities is one of the hottest things I've experienced. That look on their face, a mixture of many emotions, lust, anxiety, longing, sometimes pain, it's just priceless.

>>24157078
I actually completely agree with you but I think it's creepy when it's the gender reversal.

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>21 Male
>5'8, Average build
>KHV
>Straight
>Have a job, and planning to do a trade next year
>I've been rated 4 and 5 here, so below average looking
>I don't get out much. I go to work, and home. No where else
>Not very good with talking to women
>Even throughout school I never talked to a girl, and they didn't talk to me
>Spend all day playing vidya, watching/reading weeb stuff, and reading comics

I'd say I'm pretty normal, but just not good with interacting with women. I don't look so good either.
Not sure if I'll ever get a gf at this point. Online doesn't work since my looks aren't good, and I'm pretty boring hobby wise. Offline doesn't work since I don't go to many places, and never want to.

It may be the wizard life for me in the future, sadly.

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>20/male
>people assume that I'm like, 30
>going to school for IT (basically no women)
>went from 240 lbs to 140 lbs, still feel fat constantly
>treated poorly by girls my age growing up for being fat and socially awkward
>mild addiction to Dark Souls and anime
>not entirely sure why I'm still posting in these threads
>just cardio the pain away
I'll always have 2D

>>24141409
>Israel
>kind of fat
>ugly
>176cm
>don't know where to meet chicks

>>24158251
>>not entirely sure why I'm still posting in these threads
I thought the same but actually, seeing so many other people here, that seem like normal nice people makes me feel like less of a freak.

>>24158520
That's probably part of it. I can't speak for anyone else, but I'm the only one I personally know around my age who still has it (and to be honest, it was that way around the time I was 18 too), so it's sometimes easy to feel like I'm the last one on the planet.

I'm 24 and last month I finally lost my virginity to someone I truly like and connect with. It's possible, /soc/! Don't give up on yourself!

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>fat
>weird head
>bad skin
>autistic
>stutter irl
khv here
the lack of personal connections to others bothers me more than the lack of sex to be honest

>>24158800
I think I've seen you post before in rate threads without the dog parts. You are cute. Where do you live?

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>20 male
>Europe
>Kissless
>NEET atm
>ugly
>slighty stutter

I'd rather have some friends than a gf because i feel so lonely all the time.

>>24158800
Hello fellow stutter lol

>>24158895
>>24158800

stutterer* oops

>26/f/Minnesota
>In shape but have about the ugliest face one can have without some sort of tragic disfigurement.
>Personality is nothing special and I'm always sad so high maintenance.

Besides being skinny there isn't a single good thing about me.

>>24159190
Wanna kik me and prove me wrong?

Kik: Lamapunk

It's been a long journey.
Ever since I was 11 I wanted to have sex but I had no idea why I was having trouble doing it. I thought it was due to autism and introversion but in 11th grade I sought to change myself for good. I tried pickup, made little goals for myself like asking a girl for a pencil, asking a girl for her number, telling a girl I liked her. Then I started to hang out more with the cool kids just by being fucking ridiculous. I eventually became known by everyone as the kid who knew Japanese, because I had been studying since 9th grade. I discovered the redpill and I found it really hard to swallow that I was looking for a motherly type of love all along. I tried lifting but I never made any real progress. I consumed as much information as I could in order to get laid but I think I overdid it. I'm going into sophomore year of college and I'm wondering if I read too much. I feel like I've gone backwards in the pursuit of losing my virginity.
I wanted to have sex with many many women, but the fact that I can't even figure out how to have sex with one bothers me a lot.
I can't even find success on tinder and I live in New York city. What the fuck is wrong with me?

>>24141409
>19 male
>straight
>live on the east coast
I'm a virgin because I have been extremely asocial and unsuccessful my entire life. Didn't finish high school until this year because I'm lazy and dumb. The few acquaintances I used to have don't like me anymore for whatever reason. I've flirted with or asked out virtually every girl I've ever spoken to but none of them liked me. Starting cc and a part time job soon, I guess I could meet a girl there

>>24158251
>>24158251
Where are you from?

>>24159190
I wanna chat. I'm a cute guy. Srw5492

>>24159430
Wisconsin, land of cheese and mild xenophobia

>>24142170
are you me in female version?

>19/M/NYC
>Not kissless but had few
>In University studying CS
>Hate starting convos especially with people I don't know
>Lack in confidence

Overhread someone of my female friends thinking that I'm not interested in girls(but I am). I guess I'm just bad with woman.

>>24153874
pic required

>>24159815
Dude, you're me. Wisconsin and everything. The only difference is you're about 10,000x more attractive than I am. If I managed to get laid, then you can definitely make easy work of the pussy slaying.

And I call bullshit on the IT thing. I studied physics and still managed to find the slutes in that department.

>>24160788
My god. If that guy is 10,000x more attractive than you...fuck thank god I will never see you. I can only imagine.

>24
>Male
>Idgaf about pref

Virgin because I don't see the point in going out and finding someone. I'd call myself asexual but tumblrites kinda popularized the term and ran it into the ground.

>>24158251
Skype?

>>24160788
I appreciate it anon. I was going to a tech college for the last two years, but I'm transferring into Stout, so there'll at least be more people there. It's weird to think of other people from this endless expanse of trees, discarded whiskey bottles, and fourwheelers being on the Internet.

>Why you're a virgin thread, get in here losers.

Full Asian

'nough said

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>20
>Male
>To Shy
>Dont Understand when people flirt with me (been told by friends)
>Everyone I have dated are to sub and so am I so nothing happens and our relationship eventually ends

Dont let this thread die.

>>24142427
We are similar of mind

>24
>Male
>Virgin
>Never had any friends and was always bullied to the point of changing schools multiple times.
>I've no self-esteem.
>Been told I'm a "social butterfly" but have no idea how to ask anyone out of even get their number

I've been trying to change but I've no idea what to do :C

>24/m
>super thin
>major social anxiety. didn't overcome until a while after high school. still really reclusive
>also still majorly depressed. left my job a few months back because I was close to suicide and just barely scrape by
>had a single great weekend with a girl of my dreams last year. only time I've kissed anybody. she's in a relationship and across the country.
>it's been long enough that it doesn't affect me much any more. but whenever I end up on /soc/ and in an ideal mate thread or something, I always just end up describing her without realizing it right away
>had awkward car sex with a chick I wasn't attracted to on craigslist. didn't come. gave up after 20 minutes and cut off contact with her lol

still feel as worthless as always. was happier as a kv at 20-21, but it's been steadily downhill for the last few years. just want some kind of human connection.

>>24141409
>n/a
>M
>I promised I'd kill myself in the future. Once I fix a few things before I go I'll end it. I refrain from relationships because I know I'm going to kill myself so I won't waste their time.

>>24159190
So you're saying you're a butterface, but you dont have a disfigurement?

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>>24153921

white worship is cancer and you're cancer for doing it

>>24162390

>Male

Really?

>>24166099
well biologically atleast :p

>>24166117
new id

>>24158108
You're higher than a 4-5 though. Don't lose hope

26M
GF is too fucked up to move in with me at the moment and I'm in no rush to fugg because in all honesty the concept of sex as a whole is kinda gross.

20M

As a kid, I was a fat fuck with zero self esteem. I had female friends, who were nice to me, and talked a lot with them even though knowing I had no chance.

Problem is, I'm not fat anymore, but still can't see girls' actions as attraction towards me. I mean, techincally I friendzone girls because I don't belive they actually like me.

>>24164590

All my parts are in the right places, Face just looks like shit.

>>24168130
How's your voice?

>19
>male
>straight
>New England fag
>Overweight. I used to be obese, but I've gotten out of that ballpark through exercise and portion control. I'd post my face, but I'm uncomfortable af with the idea of my face being on 4chan. I can say that I've been complimented on my eyes and lashes. 6'2", just out of manlet territory.
>grew up in suburbia, didn't mind
>professional student, limited job experience
>life consists of working, listening to music, playing strategy gaems, and Netflix

I suck at initiating any kind of relationship, but once I know you, I'm totally comfortable around you. I like having friends, but I don't really feel the drive to seek them out. I used to get really bummed about my kissless status, but I've started to care less after a two year long existential crisis.

>>24153921
Don't listen to >>24166089 . Don't let your dreams be dreams.

>>24153912
Would you say the same thing if OP was male? Just curious.

>>24168310
I'm curious about that too

>>24164181
If I lived closer to you and if I wasn't so young I'd totally be willing to meet up get to know you

>18m
>Ohio

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>21
>Straight White Male
>People usually say I'm a 7/10
>USA
>Boring normal job
>Going to school to be a nurse
>Hobbies; weightlifting, cooking, calligraphy, languages (I speak fluent Euro-Spanish, and am learning French and Portuguese)
>Pretty normalfag

Last kiss and girlfriend was when I was 17 in high school. The breakup, my parents divorcing and some good friends leaving at the same time gave me trust issues and fueled the inadequacy complex I've always had, I felt like it was my fault in a lot of ways. I've always had low self esteem, like I can't do anything right, I feel like I don even deserve to be loved.
I could have lost my virginity in high school but chose not to because I wanted it to be something special, something more than a five minutes blur in the back of a car to look back on and regret. But now, I couldn't lose it even if I tried, I just can't get past being me and my failings unless I was going for a hooker and not an actually relationship I feel like I would just mess it up. Sex isn't really what I want anyways, I want the feeling that somebody loves me, some kind of validation, to be important or special to someone. When or if that ever comes along for me, I can say for sure.

>>24169048
Sorry for all the typos, typing on a damn phone

>>24169048
>Calligraphy
My nigger. The closest I got to a conversation with a chick I'd never met was when I was shopping for calligraphy supplies after driving home from a job interview with a buddy. I was wearing a olive green suit, and after we left and got in the car, my buddy said: "Anon, that chick was totally checking you out." I'm thinking: "Bitch, why didn't you tell me?"

>>24168310
>>24168916

I think my voice is fine. I speak real quiet and softly.

>>24169172
Do you like accents?

>>24169190

Who doesn't?

>>24169172
Post it, let's hear

>>24169196
I would like to talk to you

>>24169200
>>24169217

I am 200% too shy to do either of these things.

>>24141803
Bumping

>>24168130
I feel like its one of those situations where you feel it's worse than it is

>>24141803
Bummer. I'm a boring cunt, so I've never had a drink in my life. My meds over the past few years may have had something to do with it.

>>24169284

I think its a mix. I'm probably not the hideous monster I think I am, but I'm also probably well below average.

Also >>24141803
>CORN EVERYWHERE
I know how that goes. I live in cornfield land too.

>>24169297
Do you kik or Skype?

>>24169306

I have skype. Post yours and I'll add ya'

>>24141409
>26
>female
>bisex
>louisiana
>5/10 at best
>naive small town country bumpkin
>work as a cook
>life is only work then go home and play video games

im a virgin because im a shut in geek that's also black and unattractive. its not really complicated. the few times i tried to date all ended in complete disaster mostly bc im too ugly. such is life probs gonna kms soon

>>24169313
Ran.dom17

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>4-5/10
>overweight
>socially inept, probably looked stupid in high school
>no money for dates
>grew up in a family of eleven, meaning I always had to be at home to help with chores instead of making friends
>generally an uninteresting loser
>homosexual in a small hick town in Canada

I write, draw, and hike, but those things are all very single-person, not much to connect to anyone with. I'm probably boring. I've come a long way in the last year or so with socializing, but I still have a ways to go. I'm probably not appealing to look at either, though I like to think I'm at least average. Had a few dates, had a few kisses, but otherwise I have no experience in a relationship.

To be honest I've given up hope, but maybe someday

>>24153912
No, because I don't believe that to be true for males lol.

>>24153874
Also in the southwest
Kik is xsbryant

>>24143459
Fuck your hair is beautiful

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>>24148770
>20
>Studying music
>Depressed as fuck

Prove you are not Lorde

>19
>male
>regrettably straight (figure it's be easier to get laid if gay)
>Sydney, Australia
>I'd give myself a five on a good day, not actually sure if that's accurate
>Pretty much born to be a loner, apparently even as a baby I was quiet
>Studying civil engineering
>Mostly play vidya in my free time and occasionally convince my friends to get together

Pretty much I'm a virgin because a) I never talk to people at uni (literally don't have any friends I met through classes, only indirectly), b) None of my friends enjoy going out so it's impossible to convince them to go to clubs/pubs/parties/whatever c) I'm terrible at conversation, mainly because I'm not interesting and d) in my misery I've started to put on a little weight

I know that I'm not completely hopeless, girls aren't unwilling to talk to me and once while at a club a girl ended up buying me drinks the whole night (employee so she got them free) just because I said hi (I hated this bitch though, only made out with her a little 'cause my friends thought it was entertaining).

>19
>male
>UK
>awkward/shy with strangers
>only come out of my shell with my mates
>no job, play too many video games

Those are pretty much the only reasons I guess. I couldn't really judge how I look, but I have been feeling more confident recently, so maybe this could be the year.

>>24169413
>regrettably straight (figure it's be easier to get laid if gay)
Iktf. Three people have hit on me in my entire life, and they were all guys. Girls want their gay best friend, and guys want their gay best friend to be a girl. Gay guys may just be a cruel joke on mankind.

>21
>female
>asexual
>pretty much disgusted with sex

>>24171182
Serious question: what about it do you find it disgusting? Do you have any experiences at all?

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>>24171185
>all genits look like something out of a deli shop
>semen looks like mucus
>vaginas secrete mucus
>everything is all pulsing and throbbing like an eldritch monster
>in my experience and knowledge everything smells and tastes terrible
>penetration feels almost parasitic

The only internal experience I've actually had was an ob/gyn doing an examination and external has just been people fondling and groping me.

It's just not my thing. I'm perfectly fine with being the "cool single aunt" for my future nieces and nephews.

>>24171275
That's a shame that your limited experiences have been so poor. I guess I could see the lack of appeal on a cock as well.

>>24171298
A shame? It's not a shame at all. It's like saying "I feel sorry for gay dudes because they don't like pussy."

I'm quite sure that if the best person at sex fucked me, I would still have the same view.

>>24166560
Thanks for the compliment, but I think I'm still at least average. Which doesn't help with also having a boring personality.

I haven't lost all hope, because I think I can still get a gf once I'm in my late 20's or early 30's. It's just going to feel horrible being alone for my early 20's.
Which is a great age for dating and discovering what I would want from a relationship.

>>24171275
I'll be honest I kinda agree. It just seems odd that people smush their genitals together, and I think if I ever did have sex I would be too dissociated to enjoy it. I'm still sexually attracted to women though. I guess I'm just confused.

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>>24141867
a more-recent pic of me

desu lads should I just shave my hair off?

I have thick hair but a shitty hairline and I'm pretty retarded when it comes to working with hair

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>>24172099
I think your hair looks good. You might look better without the beard bits on the sides of your face though (if that's what they are, it's hard to tell from the low res).

Since we're sharing pictures here's me.

> 26/M/UK
> Borderline autistic
> 5'7'' manlet
> Below average face, Jewish-looking features
> Used to be a little overweight, lost that now
> Until recently had little direction in my life
> Problems with trusting people and intimacy

Pretty soon I'll hire a hooker and get rid of it. I can't see sex happening naturally. At that point I can forget about sex forever.

>>24172268
my sideburns were at the time (and are still) a bit overgrown, and need to be trimmed.

You're looking pretty good, I'd shave that hair off your neck though

>>24171275
you do know you're supposed to take a shower
before and after sex right?
it's called basic hygiene
a clean body will taste mildly of salt or musk
but should really have no actual flavour
same with mucous
if it has a taste or smells wrong it's infected with yeast or bacteria
so either douche or grab some mouthwash.

and if you have experience why are you in the virgin thread?

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23. I strongly prefer being alone and I'm not very good with people so getting to the point of having sex with any person would be a huge hassle. Also I'm pretty sure most people get a creepy vibe from me because I hardly ever talk and tend to remain expressionless.

Im not a virgin but i feel one of the problems a few of you have is your rate yourself too highly , i know im about a 6/10 but im very confident in myself so it makes pulling easy, don't go into a situation thinking you're a 7 if you're a 4 , be a 4 and act like a 7 it'll work out better. Also if you're a loser or sad like i am just use it as part of your personality or your style. Talking is the main thing you'll need to get right before you can fuck also some of you greasy NEETs cut your fucking hair if it doesn't match your style , if you're a metalhead with long hair fine , but if you're just a loser with bad skin don't have greasy hair

>>24172099
Shaved head would look better I think, but definitely shave those sideburns! Your features look fine, you just need better hair/grooming.
>>24172268
Looking good, very handsome! The beard definitely working for you.

>>24172412
>visiting a gynae doctor means you're not a virgin
lel

>>24172449
Thank you!

>>24172412
>obgyn
>experience
nigger what

>24/m
>kissless,handholdless, only went on one shitty date
>rated 5-6/10, but overweight
>live in big city known for closed off people
>okay online, come off as awkward and quiet in person
>basically do nothing besides work and go home because no friends

I also have an inherent distrust of people and hate crowds because of past interactions with others. Anxiety with low self worth don't help, and if this keeps up, I'd rather kill myself than be a wizard.

>20 Female
>kissless virgin
>5 ft 3 in
>attractive end of average, 7.5/10
>Only go to work and school
>Freetime spent playing vidya, watchign weebshit, and doing outdoor activities by myself
>Awkward/eccentric
>Often seen in social circle as "cute little sister"

Here's a fun story for all of my fellow virgins!
>Talking to cute, funny, sweet guy at work
>we text back and forth for awhile
>Seems a little flirty
>Invites me to see a movie tonight with our other coworkers
>Put on a cute outfit, try to look my best
>Bottle up my autism and buy a ticket for Suicide Squad
>He spends the entire movie texting someone
>Female coworker teasing him about texting a girl who works at another company store
>He has a crush on her
>HelloDarknessMyOldFriend.jpg
>Come home and play vidya by myself in the dark
Fuck me, I'm an idiot

>>24172960
Been through the same shit with this girl I really liked, but my mistake was that I kept hanging out with her. I ended up caring about her way more and she ended up texting for the majority of the time we were together.

I feel like 20 is too young to be thinking like this, but the effort I feel I have to put into just acting social in the way normal people do is exhausting. I'd much rather just go to class, return home, and play video games/ watch anime either by myself or with my small group of friends.

>>24172984
This was the first time in awhile I went out with friends. What hurts the most was how shit the movie was.

But sorry to hear you went through the same shit, man.

>>24172960
that actually doesn't sound that to me. like that could be the beginning of a friendship.

>>24173003
Not doubt I still totally want to be his friend. It just hurt a little that I got dolled up and he hardly looked my way. It's not his fault at all that I got my hopes up, it's mine.

>>24173007
just do what i do and always be direct. I always tell them that i'm looking for something more than friends and that they need to be honest with me

>25
>male
>finishing college this year started late and work part time to pay for it
>pretty unfortunate looking, women never approach me
>5'6, so im too short

I tried to improve my looks, got fit, dressed nice, and my skin is clear as fuck. No avail. Now im kind of depressed i look so shitty

>>24172451
>>24172802
she says
>>24171275
>in my experience and knowledge everything smells and tastes terrible
>Taste
> TASTE

an ob/gyn doctor or nurse doesn't involve tasting your genitals
maybe sniffing, a sample, and sending a sample to the lab
but a doctor or nurse is never going to taste you
or let you taste them
clearly she's had Oral sex with both a male and female
she isn't a Virgin by any stretch of the word
or she is lying and isn't actually allowed to state an opinion

>>24172960
first off Suicide Squad isn't a date movie
and you don't go to the movies on a group date

secondly
you sound like someone I, or someone like me,
might be interested in,
but it also sounds like you need some more socializing experience
I would recommend joining a Dungeons and Dragons RPG group
at a comic shop or your local University or College club

>>24141487
My thoughts exactly anon

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Not a virgin but i like virgin boys.
If you're straight and attracted to me post your skype, I'd love to talk!

>>24173363
hey skype is edwardnese would like to chat!

>>24173088
Yo, >>24171275 here. Not sure if my id is the same so I'm just going to say that first.

I've experimented with my own stuff and it was bitter. It's common knowledge that semen is bitter. This, of course, can change with diet but I'm not going to get into the details of that because I'm too tired to talk about the amount of variables that go into such a thing.

Also, genits will some times have a smell due to variables such as the last time the person has cleaned that area, the environment, and amount of sweat the person secretes around that area.

tl;dr tasted my pussy juice, it's not pleasant. I've heard semen isn't pleasant. Things can get smelly down there.

>>24173363
not you

You guys really aren't as unfortunate as you make yourselves out to be. The real problem is that you guys have really given up and seem miserable and full of self pitt. Keep trying, get yourself out there. I didn't lose it until I was 21 but since then I've been slaying pus. Good luck.

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>>24174738
>slaying pus

>>24174888
Bro slaying pus is what makes a man who he is. If you're not out there slammin hot babes and crushing the poon then you're just a weak ass nu male. Nu male? More like poo trail, in my underwear.

>>24174901
Anon, I think he's referring to your typo that makes it sound like you stick your dick in a thick yellowish or greenish opaque liquid produced in infected tissue, consisting of dead white blood cells and bacteria with tissue debris and serum.

>>24172960
Are you chubby? Is there a large age gap between you two?

All in all he was probably just being nice. Or he's keeping his options open and can't tell if you're actually into him.

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I'm not a virgin but I like virgin boys. Pic was taken a few days ago. Any guys in Oklahoma?

>18 m
I played too many vidya throughout 18 first years
Summers gave me make outs and handholds.
I guess i'm looking for a girl i could girlfriend unironically before going in deep
this summer was lame, gonna try to get with someone it the last few weeks, maybe she wont make me sick and annoyed like the others did

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>>24176757

>>24176823

Kik: Lamapunk

>>24176757
I'd let you take my virginity. ;)

>>24176840
I only use skype. Not kik.

>>24176841
Thanks I guess.

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>>24174901
>>24174901

>Implying one's highest virtue is their erection.

>>24176867
Same for Skype

>>24176875
Even tho I'm in this thread talking about how I enjoy sex with virgins I agree with this post 100%

>>24174901
You sound like an idiot, don't call people 'nu males' for the state of their virginity unless you want to look thousands of times more pathetic than the people you are picking on.

>>24176878
Where do you live? Is it close to me?

>>24141409
>20
>male
>straight
>5-6/10
>I enjoy writing and reading books, vidya to a lesser extent
>CS major

I'm a virgin because I don't get out enough. In highschool, I never had a girlfriend; and now that I'm older, I'm extremely insecure because of how behind the curve I perceive myself to be. I certainly have friends and acquaintances both male and female, so it's not like I can't socialize. I'm just completely clueless about anything romantic, and logistical issues of getting myself out there aside, I'm scared of intimacy even though I think I would enjoy it.

I can't see things getting any better, desu.

>>24176900

My virginity leads me in a rather odd state of play. I have become less interested in a sex as time as gone on, and am think I may as well wait until I'm married. However, equally, although I feel I should marry and sire children, I don't think I ever will. The modern woman is just such a rotten creature, by and large. As is the modern man, for that matter.

However, if I did decide to just lose my virginity to the next woman I meet and can feign interest in at a night club, I don't particularly think my heart would be in it and it would be just another sexual experience that has thoroughly disappointed.

>>24176949
Even though I'm not a virgin I feel like one at times because it's been so long. But then at the same time nothing shocks me because I've been on the internet for so long; but see when you meet someone irl just for a simple date somewhere not at night club or something not as social it's still unnerving and awkward because eye contact alone is so stimulating. It's weird that some guy on skype can post dog gore and I feel nothing and yet I feel extreme fear when looking at someone in the eyes. I was diagnosed with social anxiety about ten years ago and have been taking medication for it and going to therapy every month so that might help you too.

>>24176975
Actually I'm not sure why I said this since you didn't talk about having any anxiety in your post you just said people suck. So nvm with everything I said.

>>24176975
>>24176986

Can't say I have this problem with anxiety as my ego is probably the size of a small planet.

>>24177020
That's interesting lol. Not always a good thing though especially in psychology.

>>24176757
didnt picture you to be an okie, we live in the same state who would have tought.

>>24177065
How you doing?

>>24177198
lets see if you know the places i frequent. i'm doing ok had a 3 hour bike ride from okc to chickasha to anadarko to gracemont. and then backwards.

>>24177215
Im closer to tulsa than okc.

>>24172960
where are you from?

>>24177273
i'm not a huge Tulsa visitor, every year or two i'll go to Tahlequah, to go cannoning but thats about it.

>>24141953
>>24141867
>>24142620

22/F/Tx
Would smash and ruin happily. kinks involved.

>25, soon 26
>male, straight
>northeastern europe
>not sure about looks, 6'2'', slim, not fat but not fit either
>very introverted
>social anxiety makes me shaky, unable to think clearly, face and body gets stiff and mouth dries out
>no interesting hobbies (from a girl's perspective)
>kissless virgin


Had a date a while ago, failed it. I was just acting extremely awkwardly. Could've been worse, but still failed it.

A girl was once interested in me, I failed it. Just failed.

Slowly losing my hope. Can't think where or when i could meet girls. Clubs/bars/partying requires drinking, and alcohol sucks after all.
Dating sites aren't for me. Learned it after the failed date.

Don't want to go to a hooker. I want sex with someone who wants it with me. Hooker only wants my money.

>>24141409
>25
>male
>straightish (trap, prefer women)
>New York
>always hated myself an how I looked
>all I do is work and go to uni
I just don't know how to meet people. I'm not invited to parties, and bars are terrible. I hate dating sites as well. Family convinced I will be alone forever.

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>30
>Male
>Bi
>Alabama
>No confidence in appearance but getting better. Good job and working out and seeing progress. 6/10 right now, maybe 7.5/10 if I drop 20 lbs.
>I choke up talking to girls I like/find attractive. I talk to dudes pretty easily but I can't stand girly dudes.
>Life is vidya, software development, and working out. Comfy and lonely.
>I like being a healslut

>>24178125
Contact info?

>31
>legit diagnosed with assburgers
>probably gonna be put on antidepressants sometime before the end of the year
>sex drive absolutely ridiculous, way higher than when i was half my age
>only friend i see semi-frequently won't shut up about his love life

some days i cling to the hope that i can still make it, others i feel like i'm gonna be dead before i hit 40

>>24142620

you are so incredibly handsome. i'm sorry you feel alone. just thought i'd tell you

>>24141409
>28
>m
>califag
>A lawfag who has no spare time, no self-esteem, and no time or motivation
>I'm looking forward to wizard powers
>I'm a filthy kinky degenerate thanks to the internet and 4chan.

Really, 1.5 years to wizardhood.

>>24174738
let me explain something to you so you can get in the mindset
Imagine you were not particularly good looking in school, high school and college were shit, you had very few friends, were never invited to parties, and women didn't want shit to do with you
You have never had sex, or kissed a girl, or been on a date
You had a terrible time with people earlier in life so your self esteem is rock bottom
Your lack of experiences means that whatever your first experience is, it's going to pretty much define what you think of the opposite sex for the next 5-10 years
You are at an age where it is socially unacceptable to be so inexperienced, and admitting it to anyone is social suicide unless you are female
This creates a trap where due to other people's expectations and your lack of experience, you are pretty much guaranteed to have a shit time for the first 20 or so dates you go on, and until you have sex multiple times

It's a negative feedback loop that really doesn't get better and some anecdote from you about how you got drunk in college and fucked some blackout drunk girl doesn't really help out at all

>>24141409
>23
>male
>bisexual
>southeast asian
>people say i'm a 5 but screw them, i think i'm at least a 6
>still in college and live with parents
>shy
>i'm from /fa/ and /mu/ so you know my interests
>manlet

The only reason is because i have a small dick. It shrinks my self worth, self esteem, confidence. I started to lose friends, and having difficulties making new ones. Let alone girlfriends. I became very short tempered, and just knowing that some guys have it bigger enrages me. I'm drown, help me

>>24141409

>>20/F/States
>>bi
>>attractive, 7/10
>>was an ugly duckling until highschool, poor social skills
>>was an sjw during highschool and hated men for a while
>>nearly kissless virgin

abusive childhood is probably what made me a socially retarded shut in. My dad also has bipolar, probably why he beat the shit out of me, but yeah I got it from him and my mom's a paranoid freak.
I'm pretty funny, just suck with initiation of friendships and people depending on me for emotional support.

>>24182778
oh, and uh, can the girls do a strawpoll for me ? thanks, appreciate it. -> http://www.strawpoll.me/10967632

>>24184042
would you like anonymous 4chan friendship?

>33/M/WI
>No Friends, Social Anxiety, not talkative
>Kissless

Havent been on many dates, generally if I go to a bar, I sit alone and talk to no one. Most successful was a nymphomaniac I met off pof. We communicated well via texting, she wanted to "go back to my place" after the first date, but I botched it by not picking up the hints/general fear. Continued to go out to bars (again 0 capability to have conversations and act non-robotic sober), eventually got back to her place, and it was looking like we were going to have sex but she invited a stranger back to hook up with (when I was in the bathroom), and I quickly bolted. Eventually stopped talking, but I went back and started talking to her (closest thing I had to a friend), a couple times of rotating in and out of the friend zone there was another time I went back to her place, but she invited another guy to come back with us, I went along with it...closest I got was her breasts in my mouth before she ended it.

After that I became the friend in which she felt obligated to tell me about her sex life with other men. I had to get out as it was crushing my already low self-esteem. It's been a few years, and its sad thats the closest I've had to a friend

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>Almost 20
>Female
>California
>Pansexual
>Not completely repulsive, so I guess I'm at least a 5 or 6
>Thicc
>College and volunteer work, so not NEET
>I've gotten hugs. No action otherwise.
>Never been in an IRL relationship

>Why are you a pathetic fucking virgin, femanon???

1. I'm certain I have some sort of social anxiety or something. I can't bring myself to talk to people without shrinking up and wanting to run and hide. What kind of man/woman would want someone who's too weak to interact with others?
2. While all the basic bitches go to Starbucks or the gym, all I wanna do is lock myself in my room and either play vidyas or shitpost.
3. Sex scares me. I'm afraid I'll get split in two by some massive dick, knocked-up, or get super aids. I'm gettin' pretty desperate for a good ol'-fashioned dickin'/scissorin' tho...

>>24184523
>Female
>Pansexual

Fix this issue and you'll be fine. Just uncomplicate your search parameters. Go for a nice guy or for a woman you see yourself being with. Don't be bisexual. Just choose going for men or women. Not both.