why do men cheat?

>>39190946
Because they are dissatisfied in their current relationship.

>>39190947
but what if they had everything...everything to make them happy/satisfied in a relationship.

Bc I don't fucking know why I do that shit. Same pussy gets old after a while

Why do women cheat?

Curiosity

>>39190946
Sex is physical for men...
Sex is emotional for women...
>Omg he cheated on me! he must want to be with that other girl. I hate him!
>Yeah, I cheated just to bone this hottie, i still love my wife though, wat do?

>>39190948
then they don't lol

>>39190948
Because they didn't know what they had until it's gone.

>>39190946
The majority of the time it's because she won't put out.

>>39190946
Eating the same meal at the same restaurant every day sucks. Even if it's my favorite meal in the world, I will get sick of it if it is all I get to eat.

>>39190948
Your question itself is false. You can't say "what if" a man has everything.

Men who cheat do so because there's something (psychological, physical, etc.) that they're not getting from their current partner.

So its delusional to think a man who cheats is a man who "has everything"

>>25567893
Nobody said it was an excuse, but it is a reason.

Have you been cheated on? If so I'm sorry to hear that and for you. Dump him if so, unless you have kids or something to stay together for.

>>39190946
Same reason women do. Fear. Fear holds us back from doing what is right most of the time. Too many people are afraid of others reactions to be completely honest with others as well as themselves. So they stay in a relationship they're questioning and confused about and lash out from being "stuck" even though they're the ones who made themselves stuck by being too afraid to say "I don't want this anymore" or being alone (which is a bullshit thing to be afraid of, a person shouldn't be in a relationship if they're afraid of themselves).

why do women cheat
/thread

>>39190946

They cheat to win, and women don't like losers

Or they could be as dumb and naive as
>>39190961

Because we can only resist the will of the Dong for so long.

>>39190946

why do WOmen cheat?

99% of the time it's something sexual related, guys are pretty simple.

actual man here, not manchild

disregard the rest of these fuckheads

men who cheat are pieces of shit with no self-respect and no ability to respect others as a result.

if a man cheats on you, find a different man. stop having sex with shitty men. don't put out within the first month and you will filter out all shitty men.

now watch as all these man whores respond to me desperately trying to convince you that a month is too long.

all these guys saying "it's sexual! women are worse because it's emotional!"

no dude. women do it because of sexual reasons. if they said it was an emotional thing, they fucking lied to you and you're an idiot. you're bad in bed and your dick is probably too small. nothing you can do about that -- you're fucked. ain't nature a bitch?

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>>39190968
guaran-fucking-tee you that i'm more attractive than you, taller than you, stronger than you and more wealthy than you

and you have no idea what being a man is about. protip: responsibility. grow the fuck up, this is why women don't take you seriously.

>>39190969
oh lawd

>>39190969
Nice pasta. You clearly never had a girlfriend. Fucking the same pussy gets old after a while. Or are you telling me you've been with the same women for 20 years?

>>39190971
>clearly never had a girlfriend
>fucking the same pussy gets old after a while

Clearly you haven't either, just fuck buddies from the sound of things and yes, that gets pretty dull and usually means the person is stagnant (not worth listening to), anyway. We've been talking about serious relationships, not one way ones. But I understand the confusion if you never had one.

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>>39190946
I'm a man who's never cheated, but every woman I've been with has cheated on me.

Explain that shit.

Reasons why I cheat
>my partner doesn't fulfill my needs sexually
>my partner is unappreciative of me
>new people bring new excitement and variety

Mostly though, its because shes a vanilla "color by numbers" type in the bedroom... and I crave depraved and kinky sex, and have since we got together. 9/10 things in my relationship are wonderful, but sometimes I want to fuck a chick in the ass and choke her... and that doesn't, nor will it ever, happen in my current relationship.

>>39190946
Men are on some level, programmed to spread their genes.

>>39190973
You are probably a weak or boring guy.

>>39190952
Not true tho. A man gets self esteem through getting sex and he will cheat to save his ego even if it sabotages the relationship because losing your sense of self forever is worse than cheating on someone. I never cheated but I came close before I finally ended the relationship because deep down I knew I could do better and needed to get out.

>>39190976
>getting sex
I need to clarify that getting isn't the same as being given.

>>39190948

their definition of "happy/satisfied" changed and evolved with time.

>>39190976
>Not true tho. A man gets self esteem through getting sex and he will cheat to save his ego

this sounds like a woman's reasoning. I cheated because it sounded like fun and I knew I wouldn't get caught. So far I was right.

>>39190971
>Fucking the same pussy gets old after a while
seeing as i have a career and real problems to worry about, no. no it doesn't.

maybe try growing up before attempting to justify your degenerate behavior

>>39190946
same goes for women. why do women cheat? what you're thinking right now is basically the same reason why men cheat too.

>>39190969
M'navy seal

>>39190946
Pussy gets old.

>>39190949
We need to have at least one side sniz for a refresh. It keeps the redundancy low and boosts affection for the one we really want to be with. Its biology, the almighty God blessed us with a dick and two balls, so if we like to fuck pussy it doesn't mean that were wrong.

>>39190980
You seem pretty vanilla. Wouldn't be surprised if youve been cucked once or twice.

Do this many guys actually cheat regularly? I thought the stereotype that men can't control themselves sexually was untrue. This is disappointing.

>>39190946
Why do women cheat?

>>39190986
>>39190981

I always thought people cheated because they are selfish. But apparently it is different for each sex. I've never cheated nor wanted to as a female so I can't answer that. I had one friend who cheated on her ex, but he was abusive and she had already tried to end the relationship but couldn't because he was violent. She ended up cheating on him the guy she cheated with helped her end the other relationship.

If I don't get enough attention. If the girl has little interest in sex or doesn't want to spend time with me doing things I want to do. If they get fat or looks deteriorate in some way. If they have a bad personality.

>>39190988
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>>39190955
>>39190947

Why not break up?

>>39190985
Well disappointment is resulted from unrealistic expectations. Women live in what we see as a Disney Storybook. How disappointed do you think we are?

>>39190987
You could technically label most behavior selfish, but that's a gross oversimplification. We are a species with hormone driven reproductive cycles.
Get it?

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>>39190989
>boosts affection for the one we really want to be with

Do people not read anymore?

>>39190946
For the same reason women do.
When you boil it down to basics it's as simple as stupidity and shallowness of the majority.
Thus one's better off not meddling with most people.
Of course, easier said than done.

>>39190955
>The majority of the time it's because she won't put out.
Actually it isn't. Her not putting out is a symptom of other things gone sideways in a relationship. May be lack of communication, needs (other than sexual) not being met, other non-sexual issues like money, family, etc...

t. two therapists and two marriage counselors later

>>39190990
>wanting a loyal partner is considered having unrealistic expectations

wow I'm glad I'm not from where you are from then, jeez
>>39190992
wow, how noble of you I totally get it now

>>39190974
I fulfilled every need for him.

>>39190995
>>39190995
>>wanting a loyal partner is considered having unrealistic expectations

Green text is for verbatim. Your emotions must be leading you to the dark side of selective context. You say loyalty, I say possession. Perspective shapes one's morality. We're all bias. You just want one person entirely to yourself, failing to understand the unrealistic expectations to put on someone. I say you're a greedy neet.
Once you realize love is a chemical reaction comparable to drugs like cocaine and heroin, masturbation of the ego. But you can believe whatever you want. That's why you're so confused.

>>39190996
How can you be sure? Would you even be able to handle if he told you otherwise?
Maybe you're just being a denialist.

>>39190997
Well then why not be poly and open?

>>39190999
Because we are still heavily influenced by the restrictions of the church. Poly is a bad word to most.
Plus your attempt to label only inhibits your ability to understand it. You see "infidelity" as a personal failure, opposed to anothers personal needs.

>>39190999
Would you eat the same exact meal for 30 years straight, even if you prepared and grew all ingredients yourself? Of course not.
Food and sex effect the brain in similar ways, rewards for thriving. Why would you restrict them differently then?

>>39191000
So you're okay with your girlfriend cheating on you then?

>>39191001
You dont have to restrict those needs in an open relationship.

>>39191002
"Cheating" is taboo.
So its not cheating. Its caring for someone enough to let them sample, but knowing the relationship is bonded by more than physical intimacy. You think married couples in thei 50+ still care about sex?
Sexual drive will dissipate for both genders eventually. See where I'm going with this?

>>39191003
Exactly.

I cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years with this girl I met on an online app. I regretted every bit and felt disgusted with myself, I don't know why I thought it was a good idea but I know afterwards it strengthened my bond with her. I haven't told her about it, I've kept it a secret for almost a year now.

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>>39190969

>>39191004
>You think married couples in thei 50+ still care about sex?
I do and I'm in my 60's.

>>39190996
Because eating pizza everyday, will make you want a to try kale chips at some point... don't ask not to cheat physically... the emotional part should be the important one

>>39191007
Yes, I should have clarified. Seniors do have more sex, but they are twice as promiscuous depending on personal choice.

>>39190956
Ha ... didn't even read yours and had the same thought

>>39191004
So you have open relationships? Then how is that cheating?

>>39190952
this

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>>39191011
>So you have open relationships? Then how is that cheating?

.......

>>39191007
but what if he cheated on an uglier girl

>>39191009
That's usually because the woman goes through menopause and has no interest in sex while the guy's drive doesn't die off that quickly.

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>>39191015
Your ignorance is astounding.

>>39190997
>Once you realize love is a chemical reaction comparable to drugs like cocaine and heroin, masturbation of the ego.
>t. Rick
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGelJhg4B9Q

>>39191017
Biochem has been around long before R&M. But yes, Rick being a Nihilist would see the world as chaotic and unforgiving. It plays into the Lovecraft inspired cosmic terror themes.
Morty is the romantic. Jerry is the un-enlightened laymen.

Dont get me started on Mr. Poopy Pants.

>>39191017
http://www.asanet.org/about-asa/asa-story/asa-history/past-asa-officers/past-asa-presidents/robin-m-williams-jr

Robin M. Williams studied what makes relationships stable. Evidence shows love is the worst foundation for a LTR, while mutually beneficial arrangements (i.e for money, politics or enterprise are the most promising.
Why? Because love is compulsive, so much as a logic inhibitor. "Love is blind", because your high as fuck.

>>39190987
Oh I know why women cheat. I asked that rhetorically to suggest that men aren't the only ones that cheat.

>>39191016
explain

>>39191016
from WebMD:

How Does Menopause Affect Sex Drive?

The loss of estrogen and testosterone following menopause can lead to changes in a woman's body and sexual drive. Menopausal and postmenopausal women may notice that they're not as easily aroused, and they may be less sensitive to touching and stroking. That can lead to less interest in sex.

Also, lower levels of estrogen can cause a drop in blood supply to the vagina. That can affect vaginal lubrication, causing the vagina to be too dry for comfortable sex

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>>39191021
>You think married couples in thei 50+ still care about sex?

Who said it first?

.....

>>39191023
I think a lot of guys 50+ still care about sex, certainly a lot more than women 50+.

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>>39190950

Underrated as FUCK post. Thread should've started and ended there. This is the best reaction image I have readily available on a freshly re-imaged comp, FYI

>>39191015
You dumb bastard. I can't wait until you're popping illegal Viagras for your limp dick when your testosterone starts to drop in your late 20s.

>>39190946
Because their partners stopped appreciating them and complimenting them.
Guys love giving compliments and making gifts and providing. Women just don't. Maybe they think men don't like it. But that is secretly the absolute main reason men cheat. Because they seek appreciation, love, compliments, and efforts made by others to get them to like them. Of course you fall for someone who makes compliments to you and you realise you have been missing that for a long time in your current relationship. Easy as that.

>>39190946
Probably just because of human biology combined with the social effect that most men are pretty gross and undesirable, so if the chance arises for them to get laid, they pretty much always take it

I think it's harder for women to understand because we can pretty much fuck who ever whenever we want.

>>39190971
>>39191010
>>39190983
>>39190956
>same pussy gets old lul

>>39190960
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>>39190986
>waah waah why do wimminz cheat :'^(

Got news for you faggots: your smelly cheese dick gets old too

>>39191029
apparently the women your partners cheat with, appreciate a nice old, perfectly aged cheese dick. That should be something to think about.

>>39190946

Because she refuses to do anal and she quit giving me blowjobs when we got married.

Also, she got REALLY FUCKING FAT.

>>39190974
I think i do it in a self destructive cycle i have. I hold my pity party(boo hoo, no one loves me), then i seek attention in inappropriate ways/places, then i say fuck it, I'm a rock bottom nothing, nowhere to go but up so let's go ahead.

I don't think people appreciate how hollow meaningless sex is. It is sheerly just to have the creature comfort of a body near you sometimes.

I cheat because the reason I fall in love with girls to begin with is 20% their own doing, 80% the result of sexual urges that exist regardless. I am constantly, constantly annoyed when I don't have a girlfriend or at least someone to fuck regularly. Masturbation doesn't dispense the sexual urges, it just makes them quieter for a few hours. So I'm basically always on the prowl for a girl who will let me fuck her, and whether love goes along with that can sometimes be secondary.

It plays tricks on your mind too. You'll convince yourself you like a girl, or convince yourself her shitty behaviors are less shitty than they are, or lie to yourself that she's interesting, when really what you're doing is coasting on that 80% of her being attractive no matter what she does. I could happily be in a long term relationship with a retarded bitch with whom I have nothing in common, as long as she put out and didn't annoy me too much to make me realize that I hate her.

The upside of all this, for women, is that you will constantly be drowning in men who want to fuck you. If you're even decently attractive, you will have pick of the litter of high quality men.

The downside is that the vast majority of those men will find you interesting and dateable and even loveable no matter what you do. You could say nothing at all and they'd still be bending over backward to impress you. The other, bigger downside is that even if you do find a guy who truly loves you, the person, and not just you, the biologically female thing, the drive to want to fuck every attractive female doesn't just turn off. Men will be looking at and thinking about other, younger, prettier, or even simply "different" (age, body type, personality, etc.) women from their partner for their entire lives.

>>39191033
Personally I cheat because I can't give up the variety. I spent so long fucking so many women that I can't imagine giving it up. No matter how beautiful and perfect any one woman is, to me, my brain can't seem to equate that with "you shouldn't fuck other women, then!"

My instincts all say to me, "I should MARRY this woman, and love her to death, but also we should fuck other girls together so that I can always be trying out new girls and sampling everything life has to offer."

>>39191030
I'd be impressed if my old man got any on the side. He's cute but I don't think he's down for the work that comes with cheating

>>39191034
he had everything though...i complimented him...I was there for him even when we wasn't the nicest to me...i loved this man so dearly...i dont think he was lacking anything is the relationship...i will never know why he did what he did..

>>39191035
You should leave him. For his sake. You don't appreciate him or feel attracted. Let him go.

men are so horrifying, no wonder im a virgin

>>39191036
Whatever he did, the 'why" had nothing to do with you. You don't earn people's love, and then lose it because you didn't do enough. If that's what happened, then it wasn't love.

If you were doing something wrong, it should have driven him to talk to you, or to break things off. Not to cheat. Cheating is nobody's fault but his for being a piece of shit.

Let yourself get over the raw feelings of it, but don't blame yourself.

>>39191037
That's a whole lot of stupid assumptions anon. You know what they say about assuming

>>39191036
It doesn't matter, dude. As shitty as it is, there's nothing you can do. And nothing anyone can do to ensure they won't be cheated on. It's one of the many risks you take when you enter a relationship with someone. You'll be fine, you'll bounce back. It'll be hard. But don't give up.

Also this thread belongs on >>>/adv/

>>39190989
Because I loved her (still do) and wanted things to work out but ran away instead of fixing the problem.

>>39190946
Because for some insane reason, women prefer men that do, so they greatly encourage it.

Op you still around?

>>39190989
you have to wait for the right time. Dating is a long process you must pick the moment correctly,

I bet my ex is in this thread. You never gave me what I needed and you never realized that. I tried so hard to not do the shit i did but you didn't do shit to help it.

>>39190983
you're probably one of those fags that thinks he's alpha just because he's an asshole no one really likes. You cheat because you have the mind of a 16 year old.

>>39190946
for the same reason women do, because they don't think they'll get caught

>>25571359
What's the first letter of their name?

>>39190946
Because they want to Fuck other women.

>>25571359
Don't be a pussy, say their name.

>>39191051
got kik?

>>39191052
Yes. Post yours.

>>39191053
His name started with an R.

>>39191053
why were you interested?

im not posting my kik in public, sorry

>>39191053
He knows i loved him. I was waiting for him.

>>39190946
Guys get bored, plain and simple. If you don't want your man to cheat then do what he wants and likes instead of only giving a shit about yourself. Get the fuck over it, step out of your comfort zone, please your man.

>>39190948
because our shallow nature drives us to chase what we percieve as being a 10/10 at all times. it takes serious genuine maturity to restrain oneself ans igbore the constant barrage of the universe saying shes not as pretty as miss universe. it takes genuine respect to love and cherish a woman for who she is as a person. And it takes some humility for a man to accept that she may not be a 10/10 in the worlds eyes but you are a 10/10 to her so why not reciprocate that to her?

>>25572983
Are you sixteen?

>>39191058
i was a 10/10 for him.

why did you cheat on me? And then lie straight to my face.

>>39191061
You shouldn't let him bother you this much, plenty good guys around to treat you better

>>39191062
haha i wish

>>39191063
Hah seriously. Don't let him make you think all guys are the same, it's just like females too. Anyone is capable of cheating, more of just trusting the wrong person if ask me. Curious what's your asl?

>>39191064
I just can't find a guy. Idk maybe its my fault.
most people my age have had tons of partners. It's my fault.

>>39191065
Well is it more ldr or guys by you? How old are you? Would say I'd be open to talk about some of the things bothering you if wanted. Could leave my kik.

>>39190946
Monogamy is unnatural. But males don't want to contribute to society if they don't get to have sex.

>>39191060
>>39191061
Apparently you weren't a 10/10

>>39191065
You had a guy. Find another.

>>39191068
then i guess he lied to me. He always said i was too perfect to be real.

>>39191069
Yes he lied. Congrats on finding Chad to be pumped and dumped by
Now go here >>>/r9k/ and find a robot bf.

>>25573876
Either talk to some of the guys in this thread willing to listen or go back to r9k

>>39191043
This.

Nothing seems to make a woman wetter, than to go after a bad boy.

>>39190946
Post a timestamped picture op, so we know what you are working with.

Unsatisfied sexually 99% of the time.

Don't make it more complicated than it is.

The other 1% are unusual cases where it's likely more about some deep psychological issue, like narcissism.

>>39190946
>be married to wife for <1year after dating 6 years.
>She is attractive, but gaining weight, losing libido rapidly.
>we have sex once every other week now.
>I can't fucking do this
>We used to fuck 3-5 times weekly
>Wife is still affectionate in some ways. but wont kiss me for longer than a few seconds.
>Making out is not a thing anymore for us.
>Fuck this.
>Post up on CL
>find a cute, chubby black girl, who gets little to no attention from her bf.
>we get together once for drinks, no sex but she is feeling me
>next meeting, we fuck like Ive never fucked before
>repeat once a week, after sex we just talk shit about our SO.
>my morale is up
>Wife is still stagnant

I cheat for a couple reasons. But when my wife claims to miss me and miss my body, i call bull shit. The only thing she misses my body for is sleeping at night because she can't if im not there next to her.
I contemplate divorce all the time and im sure she has too.
Wont do it for financial reasons. Plus everyone tells me 1st year of marriage is the hardest. I fucking believe it.

>>39191038
kek
Implying men are the only ones who cheat.

>>39191075

Dude, if you two are that disinterested in the first year it's not going to work. The only thing that can happen after is having kids which will distance you further, but the kid will lock you down. I wouldn't say it's entirely your fault either, you are for cheating though, but it seems like she thinks she can get away with anything like gaining extra wait and ignoring you sexually. Try making her jealous or just straight up tell her how it is.

>>39191077
This guy is right. and

>>39191075
>1st year of marriage is the hardest.
is just wrong. The first year should be the best. The difference with you is that good year probably happened during the six you were dating.

It's NOT going to get better. You're getting your needs met elsewhere and it gives her the feeling that her lack of interest in sex is OK. When your chubby black gf leaves you and you're back to attempting to initiate sex with your wife, she will be confused because her low libido has been acceptable to you.

>>39191075
Why are you cheating on your wife with a chubby girl if your wife is also gaining weight? Seems dumb.

>>39190946
Excuse me, roastie? Women cheat FAR more than men. You have way more options when it comes to choosing partners, your sexual partner number is way more than it should be which is ZERO until marriage, and you have opportunities to cheat whenever you like simply by spreading your legs meanwhile guys have to put in work to bed a girl.

As far as us men are concerned, you women are 99% hoes. We just don't tell you because we're trying to get laid, but that doesn't mean we respect or trust you enough to consider you for marriage. So if you're getting cheated on often, you can blame your choice of guys, yourself, or other cheating cunt women who give us men no reason to be loyal.

>>39190966
This guy knows whats up. Men don't cheat, we're the most honorable and loyal creatures alive. Boys and manchildren do.

>>39191080
Lol is this pasta

>>39191025
This isn't Reddit.

Op even been back?

>>39190946

Cheating happens when communication breaks down for whatever reason. Eventually those uncommunicated needs build up and the dissatisfied party looks for relief wherever they can find it, even if it means breaking a promise to someone else.

This is not a gender-specific thing, nor is it the only explanation, but it's the most common.

Because the opportunity arises to have sex with someone attractive.

>>39191086
I think plenty of people have the "opportunity" to cheat and don't. For most of my marriage I traveled for business and had plenty of opportunities to fool around and never did. it wasn't until my marriage went south did I decide to get some side action.

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>>39190972

Sometimes I take other women on dates because I think that I can hold that feeling for a while longer and charm my wife like I did when we first met. Plus I'm autistic so it's always great to know I have at least some game.

My wife would be upset if she knew but I think she would forgive me.

>>39190994
This.

Man fulfilling my emotional needs is the strongest predictor of whether I feel like having sex with him or not.

>>39191036
I'll tell you something I've heard from a cheater. A girl can't keep a man, even a good girl can't keep a man. The only thing that can keep a man is when a man wants to be kept. It's probably not your fault that your man cheated on you, it's just 100% his fault.

>>39191075
>Plus everyone tells me 1st year of marriage is the hardest.
My first anniversary is tomorrow. Best year of my life.

>>39190946
My ex boyfriend cheated, but continued trying to get me back and kept losing me the exact same way. We were together from my birthday in December until June, we broke up 13 times becuse he continued to look for other women while we were in a relationship. Together, discovered he was doing that again, single, charmed me into being with him again, discovered he was doing the same shit, single, charmed me again and so on and so forth. To this day, over a year later, he is STILL trying to get me back after I've told him I'm never putting myself into that position again and I'm never going to get back together with him. All while he was trying to get me back, he was still messaging other women and pissing around with the girls he cheated on me with. There were / are 15+ women. I'm 21, he's 30 and has a child. Fuckity fuck that noise, folks.

>>39191092
"the only thing that can keep a man is if a man wants to be kept". MAN, I never thought of it like this. Holy shit.

>>39190969

You mad, bro?

>>39190966
You're not a manchild,but you have a pretty shitty attitude which, no doubt, drives women away. "i'm this, I'm that, you're not". Get a grip.

Too much thought placed in this. A man is designed to impregnate as many women as he can. A man with power can have as many as he likes and he would be atypical if he didn't. Want to stop your man from leaving you for another? Show him what kind of women you are. Scramble his mind - catch him cheating? Show him what happens when someone betrays you. Teach him a lesson he won't forget.. How you do that is left to your imagination. It's going to happen to the Vast majority of couples; someone's going to cheat because of their lust and drive. Fuck him everyday, and Blow jobs everyday to keep his T levels and urges in control. Be a part of his life, help him reach his goals. Don't be a stupid submissive cunt or he's going to sneak behind you and fuck his sluts.

If he's changing his plans randomly throughout(9-5 go pick you up, and home) the week or staying late at work.. Well gg.

If you really want a man in your life you need to fight him everyday. Not physically, but on another level. The waves never stop crashing, and only a few will last the strength of time.

OP bailed long ago, B8 thread.

I jerked off to a mutual foreign trap friend over Snapchat and kept it a secret for about a month.
Gf found out and left me for cheating.
Still love her and miss her.
Hope she'll forgive me one day.

Dunno why I did it. Couldn't give her or myself a reason.

>>39190966

>actual man

Actually man?

>>39191100
Lmfao. Sounds like she wanted an excuse to jump off the boat. When you cheat on someone the worst thing you can do is tell them.

>>39190946
same reason women do probs

>>39191100
You did it because you are a homo.

>>39190946
You mean chads why chad cheats? Because he is a part of 10% and they can do it. Most men are invisible to women so they think men cheat and are this and that but its just chad.

>>39191075
That's why you dont get married if you're going to have children.

>>39190946
Becaause they can

>>39190946
they are stupid enough to believe that women can offer more than their vagina.