Why don't you make an effort to get a gf?

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>>37662048
still don't like myself enough. Pride. Image. Ego. Pursuit of unrealistic ideologies in spite of the influence that I absorbed from that notorious hacker named 4chins.

I don't want a normie gf.

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Trap here, even I notice why men don't. It doesn't matter if a guy lifts or does much of anything. Women simply won't care or notice it unless you want to have sex with bitchy fat girls or older used up roasties. The cute women that make an effort either have children already or are holding out to meet that mega chad who's rich and perfect. They don't even meme about it it's called "mr. perfect" for a fucking reason. I do wish more guys would lift because guys just look aesthetic and attractive but I can understand why a lot don't when it comes to being attractive for a partner and they know they're never going to get that partner
>inb4 trap shilling
Eh...stay the fuck away from traps most aren't passable and self promote themselves to the word 'trap' and are just crossdressing fetishist. Not to mention how many transgirls I personally know that have gone into sex work and camwhoring for money. It's really sad that motherhood and virtuous relationships are dying out and sex and money are being the new deciding factors of relationships

I'm trying but it isn't easy. There's a gorgeous girl at my work who is super shy but I'm trying my best to be interesting and fun to be around. I can't stop thinking about her.

>>37662048
I would if you stopped posting girls who'd never date me.
No seriously I just don't feel well enough right now. I'd get a gf if it was easy but it's not.

>>37662048
I don't see the point. The amount of effort I'd have to put in doesn't seem to be worth the reward. There isn't much a woman could offer that would save me from myself

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>>37662048
im 5 foot 9 205 pounds. If i lose 30 pounds ill be jacked and be semi chad... I catch women checking me out once in a while which feels nice but im too much of a fucking pussy to do anything anyway. Get me drunk and I might have some confidence to talk to a girl. Fat chance, but its happened.. like 10 years ago. Now im a shut in gettin drunk and fat.

My mind cannot comprehend someone liking me/being interested in me. I'm also dead emotionally.

>>37662048
because I fapped for the first time in almost 2 weeks yesterday and now I dont care again.

I don't want a gf. I put the effort just so i can fuck, a gf is too much work to keep around plus i hate.commitment, after a while the polish wears off and then responsibility, sacrifice and compromises that suck up your time come along.

I'd rather keep working out, flash a little cash when i go out (not in black neighbourhoods) and land a semi constant lay till they find out im boring and not rolling in cash. Or a dating app that isnt tinder and fish around for a 7/10 willing to fuck me.

>>37662048
I have other priorities in my life at the moment, I'll think about it when I'm finished with my studies

>>37662048
because i already have one, dumb faggot

lol

>>37662048
Autoimmune disease is dictating my lifestyle, and it's the exact opposite of what girls want.

>>37662072
>"still don't like myself enough"

this. working on it so I can feed my lust for intimacy

I just spent 4 months trying to get a bf. I got disappointed so many times I need a break now, I'm getting far too desperate. Nothing good would come of trying right now.

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>>37662160

listen, bro. If that really is you, anon, you look like you hate everything. Congratulations, you're at the bottom, swimming with turd floaties all around you.

First, go here: >>>/fit/

read the fucking sticky, then buy yourself a kettlebell. Pick that fucking thing up and put it down as often as you can, then get yourself a doorgym after a month or two. Do some pullups, every fucking day. Bam, you're in shape but you're still five nine. The problem is, this time, you don't give a fuck.

>>37663779
I have a 30 lb dumbell.

>>37664139
you're golden. you got this. you can do it. you will succeed.

Go.

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>>37663779
i made this for dinner last night.. can you jerk me off more?
just kidding but yeah im trying to eat better too

>>37662048
I did she got tired of me
now I'm to busy jerking it again

>>37662048
because i'm scared of rejection and also commitment.

and even if i could hold a conversation for more than a minute, she'd get bored of me after a few dates anyway. i don't really have anything to offer anyone.

>>37662048
How exactly i do it ?

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Easy question.

Because all of the very few times I've tried women have ended up completely ruining me mentally, cheating, dumping me for others, leading me on to get attention from Chad etc and straight up just giving me any attention only as a prank.

I'm 5'10 and 275lbs, got no education, no possessions besides my 20k EUR car and I look like a horses ass. I'm a lazy fat ugly fuck and any girl I wouldn't be absolutely disgusted by would never look at me, not even once.

What I can't tell you is why I haven't killed myself yet. I turn 30 years old in 7 days and every day outside of the bottom lever low pay tier work I absolutely detest and get laughed at for doing I stay in my pitch black darkened rental shit hole of an apartment, and cry.

Every morning I wish I hadn't woken up anymore, every day I wish I could just end it, and every night I dread going to sleep for the fear not dying while in there.

My existence is the purest form misery.

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Because as Einstein said, insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results

So I gave up. No girl will ever like me

>>37664536
what's the name of this guy?
looks like a guy who was on my highschool

>>37664563
What high school did you go to fambily

>>37662048
who is that semen demon??
is that laura b?

>>37664581
nah i doubt it he only looks like him i guess
unless his name starts with F

If I were to make an effort, I would get much worse quality girlfriend than Chad. I'm not gonna swallow that.

>>37664619
Doesn't start with f

>>37662048
178 cm manlet
55kg skellington
2/10 face, pointy chin, huge nose, glasses, receding hair. Look like a witch
1/10 body. Pectus excavatum, scoliosis, caved in back, literally freakish looking
Poor
5.5 inch penor
Few friends
Virgin

Who in their right mind would pick me when i have absolutely no redeeming qualities?

>>37664363
looks tasty, anon. I realised that I haven't eaten for about 24 hours. Least you can cook well. That's gonna help you when you get >>>/fit/

>>37662048
because my video games don't accuse me of rape or trap me with child support for 18 years.

>Why don't you make an effort to get a gf?

because people that have gf's don't have to put in work

The gym isn't going to fix your face, height or lack of social skills

>>37662048
Because I actually enjoy being alone.

>>37664648
that's good i would abandon this site if someone i knew browsed here

>>37662072
>Make failure painful!
>Make failure more painful!

Yeah great guide thanks for this fucking retard

>>37662048
>Why don't you make an effort
Where is yours, too busy sitting in a cafe and comparing us to who you really want?
Don't mind us being too busy with vidya and comparing you with 2D in chat then.

>>37662048
I groomed myself for perfection, and I failed. So now I simply say " fucki off "

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>>37662072
>tfw too lazy to read the "stop being lazy" poster

I might end the summer with a gf. i've already lost my virginity and first kiss and everything so far. I'd rather wait till I'm back in school though so I don't have to worry about LTR. that's why I'm not making an effort right now

Because I'm a smoking noob with an retreiving hairline who spent too much time on this website.

I do also have shitty teeth

>>37664894

>Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

Read this shit and shut the fuck up until you do, you absolute ingrown hair.

>>37664839
I have a friend that browses occasionally were still chill

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>>37662048
>Why don't you make an effort to get a gf?
I've put in plenty of effort, but I haven't been able to get a gf in a decade. Thanks to social media like Facebook the competition is just too fierce.I've been rejected by even the fat/ugly girls, so I can't sink any lower. I don't even bother trying to get a gf because I know it's impossible for guys who are below 7/10.

Perhaps creating a Tulpa is the way to go, got nothin to lose at this point.

>>37662048
Why do roasties and normies always pretend like getting a gf is a matter of effort or wooing her? The fact is that unless you're attractive, no woman is going to want you. Especially in today's world of ridiculously entitled sluts who think they deserve a rich Chad even when they're fat and ugly. Normal guys just don't have a chance.

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>>>fit

here you go

Women aren't worth the effort needed to get one of them.

>>37665558
I mean this is the most correct answer itt. Lot of great answers but this is the most concise and comprehensive

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>>37662048
>Just find out her ex is a Chad from Morocco who's starting a career in the special forces
>She occasionally meets him

>>37665465

>>>/x/
If you're that way inclined... I tend to stay cautious about inducing schizophrenia to be extremely honest.

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>>37664461
>Because all of the very few times I've tried women have ended up completely ruining me mentally, cheating, dumping me for others, leading me on to get attention from Chad etc and straight up just giving me any attention only as a prank.
this so much, all that fucking mental effort and money wasted for that to end up happening every time

>>37664826
it will literally fix your face and social skills.

Met a super hot escort tonite who was a 10 with perfect body, tall, blonde and very fun! We went right into action and the hour was quality with no BS, no stupid talk, no shopping just good fucking. Upfront costs are high in USA and it set me back a cool $300 bucks but the time to fuck model quality women is priceless for an average guy like me. Divorce, marriage and kids are WAY more expensive and painful.

>>37665951
a model tier escort costs only 300 bucks per fuck?

Been there, done that.

I don't have the emotion, money, or time to spare on the gamble of a woman's fickleness.

At this point I'm spending the rest of my energy building a better and happier life and relationship with myself. If a woman has the wisdom and intelligence to choose happiness, she'll approach me.

If not, I get to spend the rest of my life in the contentment I build.

>>37665951
Literally the only reason I haven't dropped out of university yet. My life goals require a lot of material wealth.
Once achieved I'm probably gonna off myself anyways

I tried in February. She chewed my heart up and spit it out. Now my self-confidence is broke

>>37666119
Same I like your metaphor

Because I don't know how. If you don't "get" social skills when you're 18 you're fucked.

Also I'm an autistic ugly weird boring dude. Even if I got a gf, I wouldn't know what to do. I'm in decent shape so lifting is not a viable option and if the only thing standing between you and a gf is gains you are not a robot.

Also I'm a poor as shit NEET who makes 3k a year. Girls don't want that.

I can't even make a friend friend.

Because the effort required and potential hurt to benefit ratio are waaaaaaaay out of balance, why wouldn't you fuck escorts if you had the money?

>>37666220
>If you don't "get" social skills when you're 18 you're fucked.

You've spoken the truth. I never acquired those skills. I tried to, but people saw through my bullshit.

>>37662048
is that who i think it is? blox blo

>>37666257
what's a friend to you?