Am I a virgin (female) still if I had an online boyfriend and

>>37519450
>before he broke up with me
Quick fix

>>37519450
Why did you breakup/lose contact?

>>37519450
You told me a friend of your father's stuck his peepee halfway into your cunny when you were 13 but that doesn't count well guess what it does count you USED UP ROASTIE

>>37519478
I was significantly younger than him, and I was really immature and didn't know how to act in a relationship. I'd make a big deal out of everything and get upset easily without realizing how it affected him. Even though he said he loved me more than he ever loved anyone else he got tired of it after a year. He said he wanted to stay friends and I accepted, but it was awkward there was still a lot of negativity between us and he said goodbye just a few weeks later. I was really naive and thought we'd be together forever. I think I matured a lot since then, but I don't know how to contact him anymore and he probably found someone better by now anyway.

>>37519586
How long ago was that..?
Are you doing allright now?

>>37519586

I was in the exact same situation

I was 12 and he was 16, I didn't know how to act. It wasn't even irl too.

No, that doesn't really count as kissing your virginity but it was real
How long ago was this if you're still thinking about whether it counted or not?

>>37519450
Think of it this way:
Would you consider it cheating if he flirted with another girl over chat/videochat/text but never even met up with her?

SHUUUT THE FUCK UPPPP THIS IS WHY THIS SITE IS SO SHITTY

I don't understand the point of this fucking thread, what the fuck do you want us to discuss? This fucking sucks cause the answer is obvious, but of course the beta males of r9k will fall for this.

Kill yourself

>>37519450
it doesn't count unless it was in meatspace
how ugly are you?

>>37519450
Holla at yoo boy if you wana get your hymen torn by another virgin qt

>>37519655
>>37519720
It was almost 4 years ago now. I'm okay, I guess. I still love him and think about him a lot. I just want to know if I'm ruined for life or something. Though I feel like it's wrong to fall in love more than once in your life, so I think I'm going to end up a cat lady.

>>37519820
Why would you be ruined even if he had fucked you
Virginity doesn't correlate with worth as a human being

>>37519820
Honestly, why did you decide /r9k/ was the best place to ask for this?
Do you have anyone to talk to?

>>37519853
actually it does,
the longer you hold out the stronger your character is.

>>37519858
No, I really don't. Oregon

>>37519820
Are you still in highschool or something?
Only falling in love once sounds really silly, especially when you choose to waste it on internet flings
But enjoy your cats, they are nice pets

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>>37519450
>>37519586
>>37519820
>retarded virgins will buy this
There are no virgin girls out of the teenage years, you stupid betas. Especially not ones that have supposedly been in relationships.

Going for supremely low effort bait like this is the reason you will die alone.

>>37519864
What? That's loony bullshit

>>37519895
This is also loony bullshit, there are plenty of unwanted women

>>37519888
I'm 20 now. I wouldn't call it a fling...

>>37519895
im 19, good looking and virgin

but i still wouldnt want to have sex with anyone from this board so you should stop looking anyways

>>37519925
not my fault you couldn't resist the cock hoe.

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>>37519944
>good looking
oregonyou

>>37519873
Well, do you need anyone to talk to..?

>>37519943
Why not? Even just a year together may seem like a lot at that age, but it's nothing in the grand scheme of things
Keep on trying, nobody will really think less if you for dating somebody online and loving him

>>37519925
>there are plenty of unwanted women
>t. Unwanted man
Dream on, loser.
>>37519944
I said there are no virgin *women* out of their teens, queer.

No shit you haven't found someone who wants to screw a repulsive faggot

>>37519965
yes you read that right

>>37519450
>It counted in my heart. I miss him.
>having strong feelings for unrequited love
Are you a non-robot? What are you doing here.

I think he's doing 'that chad thing'
>leaves you hanging
>no way contact
>miss him
>suddenly wild chad reappears
>love = love2
>while(!guy)

hidden function
>leaves you hanging
>no way contact
>actually busy with other females

End game: you find out he was two-timing or more.
>if(cheated)
>cry
>reconciliation.bak
>love = love2

Don't cheat or you'll hurt the other non-chad. Expect to be cheated and fuck off.

>>37520022
post jaw line let see if true

>>37519820
>almost 4 years ago
>say you were 12 when it happened
MODS MODS MODS

>>37520019
Because it meant a lot to me, it wasn't just a stupid relationship. And we were together romantically for a year but I knew him for about 3.

>>37520058
That wasn't me, it was an anon in the same situation. I was 15/16, mostly 16.

I keep forgetting how awful some people treat others here
I wish I could be a positive force for r9k and improve the attitude of gyno and andro anons alike

>>37520098
You sound really immature. i have little experience with women so it may be me because you're a women though.

>>37520021
i'm biologically born a woman and i still identify as one too

>>37520053
>going that far to prove a point
no i'm too lazy to even go search for my phone

>>37519450
why would i date you instead of a girl who hasnt been another mans online prostitute ?

>>37520047
I know he didn't cheat, he'd been cheated on before and hated cheaters. I was legitimately just so much of an emotional drain on him he couldn't take it anymore. He was so nice about it too.

>>37520047
I call this the rollercoaster style. I would never do this to someone I truly care about.

>>37520061
That's great and normal, I'm glad you have the capacity to feel that way about a partner
But you're still in your early life, it's a bit silly to assume your high school relationship was what you were destined for
Other relationships will stack up and perhaps even last more than just a year, this one boy might not even be that good for you compared to others you might meet

>>37520153
Hmm. Okay. If I was incorrect I'd say he might be testing you. Just look for him. He might be facing problems and doesn't want you to get involved. Search for him if you truly care for him but don't hurt yourself if you find something you don't wanna see.

>>37520132
> lazy, arrogant, young, and attractive
Are u sure u don't wanna at least go on a date to see if it works out?

>>37520115
Save the effort, you won't gain a thing.

>>37520242
I don't want to gain anYthing I want others to gain something from me without worry

>>37520268
Well if you're okay with being ghosted then be my guest.

>>37520223
I should probably try to find him again somehow. Even if he says no I'd feel a bit better at least. Maybe.

>>37520228
having lazy moments doesn't mean being lazy in general

>>37520291
What do you mean by ghosting

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>>37519450
HOOOOOLY FUCK THIS IS A WHOLE NEW LEVEL OF AUTISM

>>37520315
Stop talking to you out of the blue. I've yet to meet a single girl on this site that hasn't done it to me yet. If you want to help people talk to men they might actually want to talk.

>>37520306
Acute laziness is still laziness, and it's a thing that makes you seem more human and relatable
That said, being lazy about some things is not cool

>>37520297
Scenario: He's in new relationship right now and doesn't want his new girl to find out about you.
Don't falter. Seek the truth.

>>37520339
Oh that happens to me all the time but I seldom browse r9k anymore
It doesn't bother me as long as they happy

so many infp screechers. wew

what country are you from op? oregono

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>>37520132
>i'm biologically born a woman
pic related
>i still identify as one
>>>/lgbt/

>>37520841
Haha you sure showed this dead thread who's boss