rejection stories

Last weekend a good friend oft mine got this girl that i've been texting with super drunk. Ended up making out with her, just kissing though. But she apparently was so drunk, she didn't even remember him. It just sucks because we actually wanted to meet up this week but she was "busy". I know that she feels bad about it, but she was so drunk she puked on him. And I know I still got a very good chance with her.I just learned about it this weekend and confronted her yesterday. On mobile, so no green text sry

I have to add, that it's not really a rejection story,I just wanted to get it off my chest

>>34469454
Asked a girl out BAM said no

>asked an autistic girl out
>she wrote on her hand and held it up to me
>it said "anon my answer is no"

>petrified of rejection
>never put myself in a position to be rejected

Can't lose if you don't play m8

>>34469454
The worst rejection I had was a "maybe" that I never followed up on. I had atleast one bad breakup, but that more frustration for my own behavior.

>>34469454
>be me
>not you or any other human
>go on personal adds
>looking for love
>find a cool guy
>strike a conversation
>show him my face pic
>"sorry I'm not interested"

Some days I just want to die familia.

>>34469454
>genuenly likes 7 girls in the last 9 years
>liked them to begin with but the fact that they showed clear signs that they like me back is what got me attached
>everyone aroud us always noticed something is going on between us
>try to ask them out/make a move
>they reject me and start completly ignoring me

Every
Single
Time

And im good looking and all that shit and since i dont want to come off as a petty desperate loser i never ask them why they did what they did and im left not knowing what went wrong every time so i bust my head with all the possibilities and it kills my confidence and judgement and it kills me.
I just want to be romanticaly loved for once in my stupid fucking life.

>>34469737
Been there a lot of time friend. They are not into you physically. Nothing personal, it's just they are not attracted, and see you as a friend. It makes me wanna die each time when I get friendzoned

>>34469454
I would rather have physical pain inflicted onto me than to be rejected by someone I was fond of, so no I don't have any rejection stories. Sorry

Girl 1
>Be friend-zoned by qt 6/10 girl
>Always beta orbited so much, she got annoyed by me and treated me like shit
>Want to leave her, but a part of me still wanted to stay with her
>Decided to just tell her my feelings
Sigh, it's even more beta than that
I wrote a long as love note and read it to her
>"I'll think about it"
>the next week, she rejected me by text
>We've stopped hanging out a week later

Girl 2
>Go to her house
>She opens the door
>Asked out 9/10 qt acquaintance
>"WWhhhhyyyy?"
>Start to stammer and got confused
>"Ugh. I'll think about it"
>"What that does that mean?"
>"I'll think about it. Bye."
>Go home
>Later on, search up "I'll think about it"
>"No."
>Week later she says "Can we still be friends?"
>Now, we don't even like each other

>>34469794
girl 3
>At work
>qt Asian chick started talking to me
>We had a conversation and some laughs
>"Hey, do you wanna hang out after work"
>"Um. I'll think about it"
>"Okay I'll see ya."
>I didn't see her again"

girl 4
>on the bus
>girl on the bus
>Recognize her from work and she talked to me once
>decided to balls up and talk to her
>we had a good conversation
>Our stop was coming
>"Hey, text me sometime"
>"Oh, but I'm not sure you have my number"
>"Okay, let me give it to you."
>"Oh it's okay, when we see each other, I'll give it to you"
>See her again
>She ignores me/tried hard not to maintain eye contact
>Notthisshitagain.gif
>Since she lives close, I have to suffer awkward run-ins with each other

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ITT: People who don't lift

>>34469804
Girl 5
>Notice another girl from work on the bus
>ballsed up and talked to her
>had a good conversation
>Her stop is coming
>"Oh hey, can I get your number?"
>"Eh, it's kinda late right now. Maybe another time"
>I know it's another rejection
>"Yeah, sure another time"
>She leaves, I grunted on the way home

Girl 6
>One last free ticket to amusement park
>decided to use it to finally ask out my oneitis that works there
>Go there
>She's there
>Ask if I can talk to her in private for a short moment
>Few minutes later she comes out
>I try to have a convo with her first
>"Yeah, um, but anon, what did you want to talk to me about"
>Think to myself "Shit, I gotta come out with it now"
>"I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime. With me?"
>"Wait as in hang out?"
>Legeorgecostanzaface.jpg
>Nnnooo, I mean I wanna take you out"
>She blushes
>"Wow" "I don't know" "Uh, I'm seeing someone right now..."
>Didn't get me that upset/ had a feeling she was
>"But we can hang out, okay?"
>I think she's lying. Either way, I wouldn't really want to hang out with her again anyways
>"Sure"
>We hugged
>Said goodbye
>Went home miserable/tired
>Went to sleep for hours

Girl 7
>New work place
>Break time
>See qt girl sitting alone
>Ballsed up and sit next to her to talk
>try to make conversation and ask her about herself
>Mostly short replies and she didn't bother to reciprocate conversation
>she kept texting her cell
>asked if she wanted to grab something to eat
>"No, I just ate."
>Said okay, then I left

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>>34469454
>hookup with this Frau
>hookup many times
>start to get feels
>hmmm..."if she keeps coming back for sex and cuddles maybe we could start dating"
>"nah Anon, not into that"
>feelsbadman.jpg
>a month later I ask to hookup again
>"I've got a bf sorry"
>Not lying, fb evidence
>a year later she tells me shes got Chlamydia
>get tested and it turns out I DON'T have Chlamydia...but her new bf does
>mfw

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>few years ago
>in high school
>ask a plain and shy girl with an incredible body if she wants to go out somewhere
>she avoids eye-contact
>she seems somewhat autistic
>"I-I'm really sorry, you're really nice, but I can't."
>play it off like it's nothing
>wait several weeks and pretend nothing happened
>find out where she lives
>learn that it's just her and her mother, the father is out of the picture
>get my rape kit
>shave my pubes so I don't leave DNA evidence
>put a condom on so I don't have to wrap a bitch mid-crime
>break into her house
>subdue them both
>RAEP!
>sweet christ, she was tight as fuck, must have been a virgin
>nut so hard I think some is going to spill out of the condom
>hopefully it hasn't
>get the fug outta there
>poker face activate
>she kills herself about a month later
>thank fuck I got some first

Never, EVER turn down a Chad, autistic bitches.

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I thought I was in love with a girl, she rejected it. I found out she was hosting a homeless dude and she loved him.

She later came calling, I had already started drinking and smoking enough to feel nothing.

Kissed someone, he seemed pretty decent and I was hoping it would lead to something more

A few days later I get a call from him saying he was drunk, that he already has a gf, it was all a mistake etc.

>>34469881
lol you dumb bitch, that's what you get for not lifting

>>34469823
Girl 8

>Lowered my standards
>starting seeing 4/10 fatty
>many flirted with her the right way but expose my autism levels at the same time
>despite talking for months, I never found the right time to ask her out since she didn't turn 18 until a few months and she lived in another city far from where I lived
>she also keeps wondering what status we're in and asked me if I just wanted her for sex
>I told her no and I just like her and wanted to be with her
>she declined because she has "a lot on her plate"

>>34469886
>>34469812
>>>/fit/

OUT NORMIE! OUT!
REEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>34469823
Don't stop what you're doing. Most dude won't even approach people. It's discouraging but keep at it.
Make sure your clothes and hygiene are on point.

>>34469894
>fatty
>a lot on her plate
topest of keks my lord

>>34469886
>>34469898
If you go to /fit/ right now, there are many autistic guys that are ripped but can't get a girlfriend. Lifting for women is a myth

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>>34469898
Oh, you don't have to be a "normie" to lift, my disgustingly-awkward chatbuddy. You just need the will to do something you normally wouldn't.

That's how it begins. One awkward step and then the next.

>>34469908
this! I only wish I had balls like the robot that is approaching all these chicks. I once saw a beautiful girl on astronomy course, she smiled at me, I smiled at her, she sat next to me. My anxiety kicked in, I couldn't mutter a word, my heart was beating, and after that I just dropped the course and never showed up again because I was afraid to see her again.

>>34469908
>It's discouraging but keep at it

That's the problem, it's discouraging. I can't see the point anymore. I dunno if I'm just too undesirable or just a fuck up. Either way, I can't attract women.

>>34469911
heh...

>>34469927
>>34469920
/fit/ told me I'm fat, all people IRL tell me I'm skinny. enjoy your body dysmorphia and autism.

>>34469927
>You just need the will to do something you normally wouldn't.
Welp, time to restructure my face with the power of my will so I can stop being ugly as fuck.

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>>34469973
I don't give a flying fuck at a rolling donut, how obese you are. I'm talking about LIFTING. I'm talking about aerobic exercises for fitness, and anaerobic exercises (weights) for strength. One could not possibly comprehend the amount of fucks I do not give, about what you look like.

However, when you start lifting, you begin to respect not only the limits of you as a human being are capable of, but that respect flows over to other aspects of yourself. Grooming. Clothing. Your career. Your self-esteem.

Never EVER lift for someone else. It must always be for you. Being attractive to others is merely a pleasant side-effect of your increased confidence that you don't even have to concentrate on.

LIFT.

>>34470000
Ugly people come and ugly people go, but there are many, many candidates for "significant other" who couldn't care less about what your face looks like - what they recognize is the pleasure that your body can give them, when you lift.

>>34470012
>but there are many, many candidates for "significant other" who couldn't care less about what your face looks like

HA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
Get a load of this guy

No they don't you fucking retard, women couldn't literally give two shits if you're jacked up or not.
As long as you're not a fatass the face and height are the only things that matter and that's a fact.

Gymrat, just go away. You're not welcome here.

>>34469973
>No, non, no I swear I'm totes ottermode
>stop checking my flabs around my waist
>c-ch-check muh gains. u mad?
>pls accept me ;~;

>>34469720
So you went after Chad eh? Why are you so entitled

>>34469894
Read all your stories. You seem to have asked out lots of girls from your work. Aren't you afraid that you might have built the reputation of 'that creepy guy'?

>>34470043
The site is full of either 10/10 athletic guys/guys with abs, or clingy landwhales over 40. I'm an average guy, skinnyfat. I'm not entitled, and I'd be ok with a guy who has similar body to mine. I'm also fucked because I shave my head. I'm gaybot in case it isn't clear by now.

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>found out boss (F, married, only a bit older than me) played Unreal Tournament 99
>set up a server and we played for a few hours at a time over weeks
>she says she's a little "crazy" and something stressful happened
>I lol because >normies
>her husband checked her phone and found out she had been talking to me
>okay, that's fine, we've just been playing games
>she started fantasizing about me
WHELP

Pic related, I seem to only attract married women. Older single women would not be a problem at all.

>>34470057
>You seem to have asked out lots of girls from your work. Aren't you afraid that you might have built the reputation of 'that creepy guy'?

It was at an amusement park. It's a huge place with tons of people. Plus it's seasonal. Not too much of a big deal. You'd have to be a sicko/desperate loser to be called out as the "creep guy" there

>>34470105
I like that song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TP06kxW_M3I

>>34470088
The only thing I have to say to you is Leviticus 20:13

>>34470171
Sorry, I'm not into BDSM and blood play.

I never got rejected.

But I also rarely ask girls out, I am very picky and I don't try anything unless I know she already likes me.

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>be me
>doing language school in HS because immigrant background
>final year
>told have to do a dance at the end of the year
>get assigned a partner
>she actually seemed ok and had similar interests and was actually somewhat attractive
>she almost seemed to like me
>finally ask her out at this dance thing
>"sure anon, I'll shoot you a message"
>next day
>try and contact her
>she blocked me off all her social media
Well there you go