Why aren't you married yet, /pol/?

Probably a lot of reasons.

Don't want to pay alimony

31, never dated, never felt a boob
Hate my species
Why bother getting married?

>>133809456
I'm a shut-in NEET who watches anime and plays minecraft

t. 21 year old

>>133809456

no economic mobility. I would love to get married by I was born poor and will probably die poor.

>>133809800
Do wizards really get magical powers on their 30th birthday?

>>133809814
21 isn't old yet m8
go outside, and learn to apply yourself

because the fucking wedding dress store just up and went out of business

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I never put in any effort into pursuing women I found attractive and/or women who found me attractive because I enjoy my solitude too much and I don't trust other people easily, it years for me to get to know someone enough for me to trust them, by that time they have moved on

>>133809456
Married.

>>133809456
I am, got married 8 months ago.

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Ugh, these threads always remind me how the Alt-Right is just as degenerate and cancerous as the left. You guys really are the dregs of society.

To be a successful White nationalist you must personally be a good, successful person. Get married, have lots of White children, and live a virtuous life.

>>133809456
Because after all the horror stories of cheaters and Bitches and people getting fucked over by Divorce i've Heard, as well as the rise of Hookup Culture, It doesn't look quite as worth it anymore. I can Live without Hand-holding and intimacy, I've already done so for a good portion of my Life.

>>133810086
>>133810045
Nice

27 here, live in California
I will never ever marry in this state

>>133809996
You learn to see dating, intimacy courtship and the human condition for what they are. I've decided not to participate and focus on personal endeavors that give me lasting satisfaction through discipline and progress. I guess you could call that a power.

Saving up for the ring.
Also, how the fuck do i make sure it fits her ?
Any married guys can help on this ?

>>133810424
Building legos and jacking off ?

>>133809456
because I have a job that requires me to travel and never be home and I'm making a lot of money doing it? I'm only 21, I'll wait untill I'm 30 or 35 and have tons of money then I'll marry a girl who's 18-20 years old, tell her she doesn't have to worry about a thing except keeping my house clean, my food cooked, keep herself looking good and not get fat, and mothering and raising my children. She doesn't ever have to get a job. Hell I don't give a shit if she can't even read.

>>133809456
I don't know why but the picture of Jared and Ivanka just turned this thread hilarious for me. She's so fucking goofy-looking

Looking for a red-pilled woman. Might never find her, as they are rare unicorns.

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>>133810424
Neckbeard fedora beta detected

>>133810735
she's a spitting image of her father in an uncanny way

>>133810774
You idiot, you go after apolitical women or just milk toast conservative ones and redpill yourself.

>>133810617
Does she have rings you have steal and take to a jeweler? If not, just get the average size and re-size later m. So a size 6 for a 5'4 woman.

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Unless you are a public figure its worthless.

>b-b-but I wanted it for a family

no you lost the ability to new get pussy and are on the shit end of an ultimatum.

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>>133809800
>>133810424
Pure garbage. If you aren't going to get married, you should join the clergy.
Ether way. I get the feeling that you are anti-family, anti-tradition. Because of this, you have reverted to utilitarianism hedonism. In your mind, you are nothing but an Animal, a pleasure slave.

>>133811055
Don't worry, senpai, I'll splatter my brains on the wall eventually

>>133810693
Jerking off is degenerate bullshit. Cultivating physical strength, perfecting my nutrition, improving my career, saving money, pursuing hobbies, educating myself and going to new places is what I'm all about.

My fellow man doesnt give a fuck about me or what I do in this life, society is a pathetic expression moral decay and hedonism, so nowadays I can't be bothered with it, women and marriage included. Why marry or bother getting to know someone?

>>133810617
Married fag here. I'm not sure if I got a size, but I made sure to get a ring that was bigger. We got it resized later. Its pretty cheap to resize the ring smaller. If I recall, they did it for free because they kept some material(gold).

been married for 30 years

>>133810693
Damn that sounds like a fun afternoon

>>133810265
>White nationalist
I'm not though.
I just like memes.

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i just fucked my wife to sleep and now i'm drinking on pol eating leftovers, don't fall for op this blows lads

Almost 22, never kissed a girl and have not even gotten to handholding without a drink. Moving in with some friends who include a female friend who I've always suspected has a crush on me, though.

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>>133811029
>Unless you are a public figure its worthless.

I'm not a phenophile like most of /pol/ I actually want to find someone I like and love not just someone who is "100% Aryan"
Also I'm too young

>>133810806
No, the neckbeard looks like shit, lives a pathetic, undisciplined life and is generally bitter because he tried with women, was rejected and couldn't understand why. He still wants to be around people maintain interpersonal ties with women and his community; I, on the other hand, do not.

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>>133809456
she's not ready.

and neither am i.

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>>133811440

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>>133810968
Nice idea.
>>133811238
Thanks.
Reward pepe.

>>133811055
No, there are those of us late live chaste, conservative, virtuous lives, like a monk might do, without resorting to self pleasure and degeneracy. There is a middle ground here you're not willing to acknowledge.

>>133811640
Are you from a certain wizard-oriented imageboard? Love that place

>>133811378
You got some, quit bitching.
You could be earing leftovers, drinking and jacking off on /pol/.

>>133811378
Thats nothing. My wife and I just purchased a duplex, and I spent 2 weeks putting in laminate flooring in our side.

After work, every day, I did a few hours putting down flooring. I just finished tonight, almost done putting in trim.

>>133809456
I am.
Why you making so many shit threads, OP?

>>133811378
don't see what the problem is here

>>133811456
MODS!
>underage
heh...Nothing personal, kid. Xxddd

>>133809456
It's not that I'm not interested - there's nothing I'd love more than finding a nice traditional girl and raising five or six kids together. Woman I was going to propose to in college wound up absolutely destroying me and I just never recovered from that. That was... fuck eight years ago?

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>>133809456
I'm mixed

>>133812550
find a mixed partner?

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I haven't even tried to pick up a girl in like 5 years. I'm way too sad to be interesting to a woman. Plus I'm almost bald enough to warrant going shaved and I just turned 24.

>>133809456
I got engaged a couple weeks ago

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>>133809456
I'm 26 and make little money.

I'm prob like a 7 on looks. The only girls I can get are sub-5 or horrendous sluts I could never marry.

Really just no options tbqhfam

>Get married, 3 years later half your shit is gone and half your paycheck.
>Don't get married and just live together, 3 years later half your shit is gone.
>Have sex with condom, 9 months later half your paycheck is gone.

Prove me wrong.
Protip: You can't.

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Why get married to anything other than research?

The well-adjusted folks that have been successful with dating, intimacy and marriage wont appreciate this sentiment; if everything else in your life is objectively good, but you hate yourself or have depression or are neurotic to the extent that getting close to someone is difficult, things like marriage or dating are off the table. Most of the time I just want to be left the fuck alone,

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>>133809456
The last girl I slept with keeps telling any woman I get close to that I'm a pedophile. Pretty big word for an 8 year old

>>133811378
I do the same shit dude. My wife is sleeping right now and I fuck around on 4chan until 2 or 3am drinking beers. Seriously what's wrong with this?

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>>133809456

33 and tired of getting my heart broken

>>133811315
can you still get hard for your wife? serious question.

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>>133809456
>Getting (((married)))
>Having (((kids)))

Your filthy tricks won't work on me you dirty kike

>>133811315
>>133813015
Newly married, would like to know this.

>>133812906
This was my prob all through college. I was depressed and just hated ppl generally

Now I'm better on that front (start lifting and ditch Soy lads) but I'm too broke and low status to get qts now

>>133809456
Ive been married for 17 years.

>>133810265
Working on it give me 2 years

>>133809456
My parasympathetic nervous system is strong. So strong that when I get close to a girl, I get nervous, and my body goes into flight instead of fight.

>>133809456
Because I don't need a government contract or a silly church ceremony in order to be involved in a long term relationship.

>>133813015
Yes but she's sick.. Breast cancer.

>married
>quit medical school
>living with overly attached only-child-syndrome parents
>wife hates living here
>I hate living here

Living the nightmare right now, but at least we'll have about 20k in the bank by the end of this year. How the fuck do brown people live with their parents forever?

>>133811315
>>133811238
>>133811378
>>133812996
>>133813133
Don't mind me asking but aren't guys too old to be here?

>>133809456
I don't have a a car and not much money because I'm at a start of my career and I can only get periodical work. Also, women don't really like me. Well, fatties and butterfaces like me.

>>133813360
im 28

>>133813305
Yea, ok dude.
Keep your faggot edgy shit until you get a job and understand income tax. Then you'll change your mind buddy.

Cannot find a suitable wife. My gf of 2.5 years and I split back in Feb, and I forgot how cancerous "dating" is.

I truly don't think I'll find another long-term relationship let alone a sustainable marriage. I'll settle for short flings and porn until I'm 35 or so, then probably off myself from sheer boredom.

I've almost been married twice and I'm 35. The first one was when I was 26-32 and the second from 32-34. During that period my life, looks, sense of self-worth, professional qualifications, accomplishments and network of friends has gotten significantly better.

In the last year and a half or so, I have dated about 30-40 different girls. I have had drunken make outs with a hot 54 year old suburban divorcee from Connecticut and fucked a 20 year old college student two days later. Virtually all desirable women are available to me and I truly am the best version of myself now. Just last night I met a gorgeous blonde in her early 20s who runs a business and loves Trump (which is borderline impossible in Canada). We met for brunch today, went for a walk, had the best time and we're probably going to start dating more seriously. I never would have seen myself dating girls of this calibre a few years ago, much less having it be this easy.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that, for some of us, wait for marriage at the optimal point of your desirability. Is your 23 year old self going to be the best version of you? Why lock yourself down to a girl who reflects where you were at at such an early point in your life? Different strokes for different folks, but if you're a capable and confident man - it may be in your best interest to wait for marriage.

We're all gonna make it bros.

>>133810424
Gay

>>133813313
ahh fuck, your mrs is ill and i'm asking stupid shit about your cock getting hard, sorry mate and good luck

>>133809456

Have you ever seen those stupid wedding shows on tv? Women won't accept anything less than 10000+gs straight on ring. Don't have that sort of cash lying around.

>>133813498
My plan atm.

If I hit 35 with no wife I'm prob gonna get a bowl cut

>>133809943
Enough with the determinism. Stop being a pussy and use the internet to your advantage.

>>133809456
I'm MGTOW.

>>133809456
I'm commonlawed at this point.

I don't believe in the institution of marriage though someday I will honor my partner with a ceremony just because I know it would be special to her.

I think commitment between to people is all that is required, marriage is just the law jew intervening in the love of man and women.

I'm 18 and have never been in a relationship.
There's still hope, right?

>>133813360
No.. I can say "nigger" here without the fear of being banned

>>133813461
>Keep your faggot edgy shit until you get a job
Troll harder you single manlet spigger, we already get tax breaks because of our kids.

>>133809456
American women are the types that don't wash their hands after they go to the bathroom and then wanna shake your hand. WHy would I want that in my life?....That and the fact that the "investment" is only at overinflated prices.
Everyone knows women are at their highest value when they are at their youngest. So imagine a stock that IPOs, you don't have access to it though because you're not Goldman Sachs or one of the other connected groups. This is women at 16.
Then a couple of years later, the stock is now legal for everyone. The fact that everyone can access it actually in a way makes the value even higher, but you know it will still give returns for the next 10-15 years, although you know it will decline a bit it will still give you a healthy dividend and with the DRIP in place throughout those 10-15 years you've still gotten a great return so you don't really care, you're happy with it after those 15 years and will stick with it. Sure the value tanks after that time, but you'll take it anyway.
But now imagine that instead of getting that stock at the IPO or in the 10-15 years of solid returns, you're being peddled this stock by brokers and "financial planners" trying to unload it on you. They're trying to sell it way above what it can possibly give you in returns. You know there's no value in it and nobody wants it, but even so, somehow you are liable for any debts it incurs but you have zero say in how that company is run either.
Who in their right mind would buy this overpriced stock, which gives you major liabilities and has no room for growth, and has already been run up to insane valuations?
And that in a nutshell is marriage and even relationSHITS with most American women. It's foolish.

>>133813313
Hope she beats it man.
Best of kangoroo luck, may all the Melbourne cunts die.

>>133813586
>stop being poor
>internet money

Wow thanks for the sage advice.

>>133813502
I don't know anon, having a wife that's 10 years younger? Having a kid when you're near 40? You'll be an old guy by the time the graduate high school. And you and your wife are different generations, I don't know how would that work. Also, in my experience and from what I've seen, banging sluts doesn't really fulfill anyone.

>>133813546
Na it cool... Iv'e copped a lot worse here on /po/.

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>be me
>be 35
>be neckbeard
>make 50k a year
>ugly

Women don't even look at me.

>>133810617
you dont.. go buy a stand in ring and do something romantic. then you both go out and buy the real engagement ring together.

pro tip, dont spend more then 3g's on ring+ wedding keep it really small

>>133813687
She's tuff m8.. thanks tho.

>>133813632
>We get tax breaks
No, one of you gets the dependent exemptions for your kids and a child tax credit, the other one is fucked and has to file single because you're too edgy to get legally married. Head of Household is also a fucking awful status btw.
If your spouse is making even $15/hour with you working, even with 2 dependents, I can 100% guarantee you're overpaying income tax because you're fucking retarded.

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>>133809456
Never had a gril because I'm autistic and can't relate to women socially yet.

T: 18 year old on the verge of becoming a NEET

I haven't found a person I can trust.

>>133813616
>Canada
No hope at all for any of you

>>133813986
You're young af man. Still hope for you. Start lifting and date any chick you can get for the XP. You'll get qts by 22.

>>133813953
Whoa, calm down there Spencer. You seem a bit angry there little fella.

>>133813698
The I nternet provides free information to educate yourself, dummy. Knowledge is the beginning to personal development. Don't fall into determinism. Control the things you can control.

>>133813731
65 isn't old anymore if you understand how aging works and put in the work.

>>133812550
>>133812640
Don't continue or promote continued mongrelization

>>133813986
Don't despair, I didn't find a woman loyal enough and smart enough to be worth settling down with until I was 30.

>>133814138
I'm just trying to help you. I do this shit for a living.

Get legally married and stop overpaying taxes or get rid of your kids is my honest suggestion.

>>133813502
What did you do to make yourself better, and also signal it in such a way that your luck with women improved so much?

>>133814138
Kek. Alright, I'll look into it.

>>133813731
I grew up with a step father who was about 12 years older than my mother and I saw him and her have a child and he was a good father who was coaching the basketball team and doing all of that stuff at 55 and never missed a beat.

And as for the younger girl I met yesterday, she's more mature and confident than a lot of women my age - younger girls have lots of energy and will be active mothers raising children during their best years.

Like I said, it's different strokes for different folks, but as a guy who struggled to get girls when he was growing up - it really feels great .

>>133814337
Alright, I'll look into it. Thanks.

>>133814179

No job will take YouTube University as a qualification. FFS I have a STEM degree from a tier 1 uni and 30k is the best I can find. Bit disillusioned on muh education.

Before you say programming, I've tried. They'll never take some self taught asshole, when they can get fresh faced grads and H1Bs. Even still most programmers don't make shit anyway.

>>133813360
Im getting unmarried you stupid leaf where should i be?

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>>133809456

I was a drug addict for years and I've wasted opportunity after opportunity.

Trying to rebuild life but it's brick by brick.

Oddly I was semi-functioning before I started doing drugs en masse. I've had 3 serious girlfriends, drug use sabotaged the last one.

Basically I know I have degenerate tendencies and I'm hesitant to pile a relationship into my life building while the mortar is still fresh.

Also I'm secretly a super conservative Nazi sympathizer that has to play the liberal in public,

>>133809456
30 here and only been on 1 date. Busy living life doing whatever the fug I want B)

She's turning 10 in 2 weeks

>>133809456
Because I'm a 20yo college student and my gf is an 18yo college student

>>133814501
>STEM degree
>Marketing yourself as 'self-taught programmer'
Nigger I'm pulling down 70k as a junior in southern Virginia (cheap) and my Bachelor's was a (((social science))). If you fear H1B's get a security clearance job.

>>133813651
Then do your own research anon, and find a stock that YOU know will do well. Better yet, make your own company. I suppose, to follow the analogy, you would need a relatively young woman, and then mold her into the kind of wife you would want. This all requires some real personal effort, not everyone is so diseased with modern ideals.

33 years old. Not married but not a kissless virgin. I guess you could say I am working on my career and getting my finances in order. I am also working on my physical appearance to attract a proper mate before I even bother passing on my genes. I realize I am getting up there in years so the next couple of years are crucial.

>>133814585
Its okay friend, im confident you'll fix your problems and lead a happy life in the future.

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>>133814777
Great for you.

I've tried for years man. I only did programming after I wasn't getting shit with my Geology degree.

All I ever get offers for is hourly wage lab tech jobs.

Congrats on your success. It just doesn't happen for everyone.

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>>133811577
I'm not a Christian. Nice attempt at proving that you are a faggot.

It worked.

>>133809456
I am. To a latina. We fuck constantly.

Because I have a job and college. Then I'm going to join the military and have zero time. Then go back to college. I won't have free time till I'm in my 60s.

>>133815007
What languages? Can you move?

>>133814339
I was able to get a start-up funded, it ultimately fucked up and the venture capitalists who invested in me lost their money (a few hundred grand) but it's no hard feelings its just business and it doesn't always work out. I never got the big payoff and was left with very little money and my confidence wasn't high. However, during that period I became well known in my industry, made very significant connections and didn't fuck up my reputation despite things not working out. I was able to get another project together and it's already much further along than what I was doing before and I have a legit chance at making "fuck you" money.

Professional success means much more to me than personal effects. I deliberately don't have a lot of stuff. I live in a big city and don't even own a car. It's impractical here. I guess I could buy one but why bother? By getting some accomplishments together, I gained a lot of confidence. And it's not the "be loud and try to be the life of the party and social butterfly" type of confidence - it's a deep-seated knowledge that I can handle pretty much anything that gets thrown my way. That confidence come out in my actions, and in my words. I am not all talk. I fucking deliver. Women really really like this.

On top of that, I got fit, I dress very stylishly (not super expensive clothes - but the right clothes that look great on me). I have good posture, I deliberately stand up straight and hold my head high everywhere I go.

And I wasn't like this at all when I was 26. Hell, I wasn't even like this when I was 30. I am aimed at life like a fucking missile and want to accomplish everything I can - but not to impress to other people, I'm doing it because I know I probably can and why waste a great fucking life.

And I say this as somebody who tried to kill himself twice when he was younger. You can turn your fucking life around. You can be a motherfucking somebody. I am living proof of that.

>>133810389

To many liberal "sexual liberated" women here.

And the courts are just as Liberal.

Buy a foreign wife.

But make sure she is the SAME race you you

>>133813360
What part of you're here forever don't you understand leaf?

>>133815169
Just English.

And I guess I can move, but where? I already live in a low cost city (Houston,Tx).

Don't really see better opportunity anywhere else.

>>133810726


Just make sure you let her know that if she cheats you will "give" all most your money and assets to a friend or move it to a foreign bank and will divorce that her.

But she will probably eat you on the judge and since you cannot lie you will admit it and will still pay high alimony and Child support.

>>133810265
This is just spillover from /r9k/
also
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvlQHr590kY&t=0s

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>>133809456
Married 2 years ago, had first kid 3 months ago. Are remodeling the house to make place for at least a second and a third kid.

Do your part white man and stop the genocide!

>>133815395
I meant programming languages my dude. I may be able to make some recommendations.
>>133815215
I like how you used the ashes from one business as soil for the next. This is a good transformation checklist.

>>133811577
The pope is dumb af. I hope he caught full blown aids from that nigger's infected, gnarly toenail.

Woman here. Men who are single, move out of the large liberal cesspool cities and go to the Midwest. Midwestern women want to have families and most want to be stay at home moms.

>>133812787

I heard jacking off too much results in losing hair.

How much do you jack in a day-week?

>>133811230
because, despite your solipsistic and egotistical rant, there are actually thinking people out there. even by your own definition, you are one of them. the idea that you can't find another is stupid and almost always sour grapes.

>>133812854

My mum once said that there will always be a women who is uglier than you.

Implying that since you(me) are ugly you will May an ugly(ier) women.

Or win the lotta and bang hookers

>>133816092
bro I'm 29 and going 2-4 times a day for a few years now, hair's all there. I think hair loss is a symptom of testosterone on the downslope.

>>133815992
>Midwestern women want to have families and most want to be stay at home moms.
That is a fucking lie. I'm a Western Kansas man and I can assure you that that is not true. Women out here are just as bad as the ones in the cities. All of my aunts have had abortions, one even did a at home one and ended up sterilizing herself. You also have to get used to the nothingness out here. I was born here so it really doesn't bother me though. Nothing starts to matter when you live out here and Mount Sunflower (it's a glorified hill) is your only tourist attraction.

>>133812854
what if I told you that if you go to the gym for an hour a day for the next 2 years, you will become an 8.5, and if you have your shit together financially and have at least a tiny bit of charisma rather then being socially retarded, you can quite easily land an 8 or even an 8.5?

>>133815842
Thanks for saying that anon. I will be thinking about you and wishing you well on your journey too. There is a quote from a song that always stood out to me for some weird reason "there's nothing uglier than a man who's hitting his stride".

Oftentimes, when you really are making those important steps towards self improvement and positive transformations it's not gonna be glamorous, it's not going to be fun, it's gonna be a fucking grind - tedious work, a lack of stability and many lonely nights are going to be part and parcel of your existence.

But then the change happens. And it doesn't usually happen all at once. If you've read Malcolm Gladwell's The Tipping Point, you'll know that dramatic change often doesn't happen overnight from just one thing. It requires many different things coming together all converging at the same time. Your success will be the result of you doing about a dozen different things over the course of many months or years.

But you'll get there.

You will be alone with the gods and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is.

>>133813316

It is our(Hispanic) culture.

My Gamndmum live with her sons who also live together.

The house is relatively big and their children who are cousins live together as well.

Your fault for letting your culture die because women decided to adopt the Marxist "Oppressed Class" idea and not keeping them in check.

Saving up for the ring. There's a bit of an age difference and her dad hates me because I got her pregnant young but it's still pretty serious.

>>133809456
I'm trying very hard, though desu last year I was 5'11" 270lbs and as close to zero muscle mass as you can be before you die
I lost weight
Started lifting and all that
Haven't hit my goal yet so I don't really want to put myself out there because I know the kind of girls that I went out with when I was at my worst and they are far removed from marriageable material
So much so that I don't even want to go on a date till I look more human and less blob like
Hey 30 lbs down I'm getting close

>>133816660

>Saving up for the ring
>Young
You SHOULD save your money instead and use it to pay the bills. Fuck the ring.

>>133809456
Get married in current year is a big mistake.

>>133816660
how young? and don't buy a fucking shiny rock, use that money for the kid. THINK.

I can't afford the divorce.

>>133816793
Young for her, not young for me. I have a nice job and I'm pushing 30.
>>133816873
I'm 28 and she's 19. She was 17 when I got her pregnant. She's been living with me since she turned 18 and I'd like to make it official.

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women are promiscuous

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>>133809456

I just have little value to the modern woman.

I make shit money (25k), have no charisma, have few friends and little social status.

25 yo, 6'3", 190lbs, white, STEM degree. Had 3 gfs my entire life. All were 4-6 range in attractiveness and character.

Honestly can't be bothered to put up with ugly thot's bullshit, and ugly thots are all I can get. Definitely not gonna marry that shit.

Tried the self-improvement meme a few times, to little success. At least I'm not fat anymore.

I donated sperm so my shit genes are already propagated. The only other reason I'd get married is for love/family and that just doesn't seem to be on the cards for me.


Just tired of it all tbqhfam. Probably gonna off myself in a few years when my mom dies

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>>133816660
Saving up for a ring as well; although, I'm practicing abstinence, so no kids (yet). Her father is a very conservative minister, so I imagine I'd be done for if I had gotten his daughter pregnant out of wedlock. Pic related.

>>133809456
I am married.

>>133817112
My girl's dad is a range safety officer. I'm not especially welcome there anymore, though. Her mom loves me but if looks could kill I'd be done for.

>>133817104
>25 yo, 6'3", 190lbs, white, STEM degree

Jesus Christ kid, you have so much to work with here it's not even funny. You're your own worst enemy and your shitty attitude and lack of belief in yourself is what people call "Learned Helplessness".

Why do you have a STEM degree and make 25k?
Why can you only pull "ugly thots"?
Why do you have no charisma?
Why do you have little social status?
Why do you openly talk about killing yourself?

My life sucked at 25 and rules at 35. You can do it too man. Self improvement isn't a meme. It's what's literally gonna save your fucking life.

>>133810617
Married woman here.....they can't just resize a ring. Some bands can't be resize a at all and most can only go up or down one or two sizes before you just need a different band to start with. As for getting her ring size....my husband never got mine. He proposed by letting me pick out a ring. But maybe try and get a wax cast of her hand? They'll have booths for that set up at certain fairs and I thibknyou can get home kits to do that stuff at your house. Maybe a fun date idea that doubles as low key getting her ring size?

>>133817104
Sort yourself out, bucko

>>133816417
I'm already in shape my dude. That's how I got to 7. Took the iron pill 2 years ago. Lost 50 lbs and got some muscle.

Barely notice a difference in female attention. After 23 all they care about is money and status (of which I have little).

I've tried IRL, tinder etc. I can get some first dates and a fuck here and there, but none would consider marrying or even LTR'ing me, certainly not an 8.

More charisma would be nice, but Idk how to get it. Even still doubt it's make a difference. Don't fix my money situation which is really all that matters to most women.

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>leaving my job soon for a better job
>want to ask out qt coworker before I leave
>remember that I'm 25 years old and never been on a date and would fuck it up, assuming she even says yes

Feels bad man

>>133809456
I think I'll be proposing to my girlfriend of 4 years finally. At this time there's no other girls I know our age that aren't single mothers. We're both 29. My girlfriend at least isn't fat, mostly sane, and plays the occasional video game with me. I don't find her the most attractive in the world, but she's at least someone I can hang out with everyday and not want to kill. So far.

>>133817545
Charisma is all. Happy thoughts and smiles towards women generally will get you far.

>>133809456
The only women I have access to are sluts not fit for wifely duties.

>C A L I F O R N I C A T I O N

The problem is nobody teaches you about how to get married in today's enviroment. The best types of advice are from guys like Roosh and the manosphere but because they are labled as evil misogynist rapists by the mainstream media is prevents a lot of boys from getting their advice.

>>133817528
I've tried several times. You just get exhausted with it after a while.

Plus I just don't have the time/money for it anymore. Had to cancel my gym membership for niggercare.

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I think all the gals that I can work with are taken. I may just concentrate on my I.T. career and make a boatload enough money so that I can visit high class THOTs every now and then. I have almost just about given up on finding love.

>>133817576
Just do it anon, worst is she says no and you never see her again, best case is a good relationship, even so, it would be valuable experience. It has to start somewhere anon.

>>133817475
>my life rules
but ur canadian

>>133817104
you're taking the blessed and fortunate conditions of your life for granted to such an extent that I actually kind of want you to kill yourself

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>>133811055
>If you aren't going to get married, you should join the clergy.
They're not faggots, anon.

>>133817112
You're brave posting that here. She's cute. Could stand to lose a few pounds but I'm sure you know that and don't care about my opinion on the matter anyhow.

>>133809456
I'm a young buck that fell in love with an exchange student that went back home about a year and three months ago. Wish I could hurry up with my university hopping and studies so I can move to Spain and find a wife from the North/Northwestern regions. I'm not getting any younger and that clock is ticking.

>>133817753
lol I can get away with this because at least my business is American.

>>133817267
Her father should be grateful that you are at least sticking with her.

>>133816092
3-4 times a week. I noticed it when I stopped working out though.

>>133817576
YOU CAN DO IT.

You can't succeed if you don't try.

>>133817736
I don't remember posting this, but apparently I did

>>133817891
spreading the cancer here
the leaf way

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50% of marriages don't last which makes it a huge waste of time and money and that terrifies me

I'm a 31 year old virgin. Some of us are just being purged from the gene pool.

I am attracted to high-maintenance women whom have either worked toward or been carried to a higher level achievement than I have managed in my short time on this earth as an insane person.

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cuz marraige has no benefit to a man

>>133817895
I think he'll warm up eventually. I wasn't going to just abandon a pretty girl and my own child.

what should i do if all i have going for me is being rich? (i also dont work... already retired)

im 28 but a complete loser in every other area of my life

i just sit on 4chan all day memeing

>30
>NEET

can bench over 400 pounds 6'5", you'd think i would be doing well but i have terrible anxiety and i'm very depressed. i'm not sure how much longer i want to carry on.

>>133817545

I find this to be very region dependent.

>>133817545

you know what the secret to charisma is? confidence. you know what the secret to confidence is? being good at something. really good. so good that other people can see that you're good and respect you for it. and when you know you have their respect, you will feel confident.

also, you're 26; in the next 3-4 years, you will notice that, like magic, women pay more attention to you. It's because you a) stop looking like a kid and b) stop acting like a kid and c) there are now ~10 years of women younger than you who you can date as opposed to 3, 4, 5, 6, etc as there are when you were younger. with regard to money - you have about a decade to become a higher earning man. what you're making now means nothing as long as your trajectory is positive.

what's your dream? career-wise.

>>133817576
>letting self-degradation bullshit rule your life

fuck that, go for it. 10 years from now the regret of not having done anything when you had the chance will hurt a lot more than any silly fuckup you do if you take it

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Really just too cynical to ever trust a woman, tbqh.

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>>133817736

Agree. Many of the good ones are already taken.

Then, if you say fuck it and seduce them anyways, you have to deal with all that drama.

Not worth it to me.

>>133818061
Have you thought about donating some of the money to good causes to raise your profile? Start a scholarship fund or a foundation. Find other people to run it if you can't be bothered. Become an angel investor and put money into promising companies and entrepreneurs. There's lots of stuff you can do and people would look at what you are doing and think it's pretty badass.

Opportunities come to those who can write a check.

>>133813651
Well i get what you're saying.....but if the o my value your wife brings is her looks then she shouldn't be your wife. You're being really one dimensional here. Women can have careers and bring in actual money some women just have great networks and brings value from that. While women can be valuable outside their looks perhaps the most important one is to look at how she mothers. She would be a huge influence on your kids. Given that ...I would say choose wisely anon and perhaps not based too much on their looks because as you've noted those will decline. But at least you're thinking long term....

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>>133817802

I know. It makes me want to an hero even more. On paper Im very "attractive". Most of my family is very successful. If you saw me, you might mistske me for a chad and think I have a great life.


I would've suicided years ago if my mom wasn't around. I've just always been depressed/low energy. Shit started when I was like 8.

Idk how to fix it. Shrinks didn't help. And pills made me even more suicidal.

I think some of us are just born with defective thought patterns.

>>133818016
lol I hate Canadians too anon.

>>133818061
Tell us how you did it.

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>>133813502
>professional qualifications
Found your secret formula, big shot.

>>133816122
Inability to find a significant other versus actually wanting to...

>>133818228
In a way it's kind of liberating giving up on love. I just would like to bust a nut in a whore every now and then.

I been in love a couple of times in my life and the last time almost destroyed me; that feeling isn't worth it. You think love is something real, but honestly it only exists in movies and memes.

>>133818397
are you fucking sorry

>>133818413
nothing fancy just got in bitcoin early

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>>133809456
My depression makes it hard for me to move the relationship forward.

Can’t find a white chick that’s hot and not a complete idiot / bitch

Every girl I’ve dated has either been Mexican or Jewish or ugly or all of the above

>>133809456
Because divorce is expensive.

>>133817735
T. Loser

>>133818711
>First heard about Bitcoin when it was 5 bucks.
>"lmao these big science words don't disguise a scam"
I deserve to suffer.

>>133818605
you seem like a fun person and I'm just trying to get to know you better

>>133818242
im not that rich man (a few mil) + doing charity like that (being public about it) is against my beliefs

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>marriage with the most slutty women on the planet

>>133818832
plenty of money to be made still in the alt market my friend (once this crash ends)

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>>133816211

I just can't stomach them.

I honestly hate 99.99% of women personality-wise. The only draw they have for me is looks and a womb.

Every gf or One-night stand I have just ends with me despising them/losing interest because they're just not very physically attractive. I end up resenting them because they have so little to offer and demand so much.

INB4 I'm a fag

I married when I was 21
I don't understand why not more people marry är such young age

>>133818846
y u wanna get to know a shitposter anyway, u trying to steal my memes or what

>>133818963
Is it too much to ask for the quick rundown. I've got a little liquid in the bank, and conventional investments do fuck-all.

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>>133818830
I'm aware. I don't deny it.

>>133818909
>doing charity like that (being public about it) is against my beliefs

That's fair enough. Why not take up an expensive hobby that gets you around some interesting people? Buy a boat or buy a racehorse or join Mar-A-Lago.

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Someone like me marrying doesn't make any sense. Still when the summer holidays come around I plant to travel to a state which doesn't require gun ranges to tether fire arms and just anhero, had a decent enough run so far but with age things are only going down hill seeing trump win and breixt is enough for me.

>>133819050
Simple: we don't find the right person that young (or ever), or we don't get married 6 months after meeting the person

Incredibly little self worth. So even trying to get the ball rolling with someone else would be a non starter.

>>133818763
This.

You have to be ridiculously high SMV to get even a mediocre white chick in the US.

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>dated girl for 8 years
>was going to marry her right after she finished her degree
>was going to ask on our anniversary
>before then I found out she cheated on me, once several months before, and with another guy several times over 2 months.

8 years guys... down the fucking drain.

But I'm not giving up, I still want kids, and now I know a lot of the warning signs to look for
>pic related

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>>133819296
Why are you in such a hurry?

>>133809456
I have a white wife and 6 kids.
I'm black btw

>>133819554
Like 90% of women fall under that list. Goid luck with that.

>>133809456
I suffer from social anxiety around women. How do I fix this?

>>133819554
2.5 to 5 years is the right time to ask; any longer and it's doomed to fail

>>133819690
do you have friends?

>>133819690
stop being a pussy and stop giving a fuck

>>133815325
Can confirm, I still remember new being a containment board to clean up /b/

>>133819604
Spent the last 5 years waiting for my grandparents to die so they wouldn't have to deal with their line and favorite relative dying. They arent here anymore so there is much reason to stall.

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>>133809456
The girl I was thinking about setting down with died in a car accident and at this point I'd rather not have some coalburner burnout whore with 2 kids in my life.
If I could find a girl like I had then I'd get with her, but right now I'm a 22 year old nuclear engineer working for a pretty good company and I don't see anyone else in my life at the moment, even as much as my 8/10 qt pajeeta coworker wants it.

>>133819490
Here are a few stepping stones to get you going. Start lifting/ running and be serious about it. Find a good hobby. I like to read science and philosophy books that are initially over my head and study them until I understand them, but that's just me. The hobby will give you something to talk about, and show the opposite sex that you have some sort of passion and drive. The physical exercise will make you more confident, improve health and looks. However, if you do this , you need to do it for you and love the process; otherwise, you will not be successful.

>>133819734
Yes I do. I'm a student, I lift and my face doesn't look bad at all.

But I always sperg at some point when interacting with women. I don't really have problems approaching them because I know I'm not ugly and I can be charismatic but in most cases they realise something's off after 5mins of conversation

What's the best way to throw your life away anons? I've done my duty at the sperm bank.

What's a worthy cause to die for?

>>133809456
So Tyrone or Chad can steal my wife and kids? No thanks

>>133810265
>To be a successful White nationalist you must personally be a good, successful person.

So I take it you and nobody within 100 years of your blood line was a white nationalist?

>>133819498

I’ve been fairly wealthy since my early 20’s

I’m good looking.

Blond / blue eyes

I’m pretty fit. Run and lift 3-4 days a week.

I am only 5’9” tho. Literally 5’9”

I went to Australia and it was way easier meeting women.

I don’t understand why the US is so fucking fucked up

>>133809456
Because marriage is a contract that the woman can annul at any time for any reason and there is nothing I could do about it. I don't see why Uncle Sam and his Jew masters need to have their noses in any of my relationships.

>>133813360
get ye hence, foul leaf

>>133813313
good luck.

>>133819015
>I end up resenting them because they have so little to offer and demand so much.
this

>>133820041
sounds like you need a few drinks in you to help get over that initial hump t.bh

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>>133820112
>>133820112
My dad used to live in Perth. Hottest woman I ever fucked, I met there. Wish I had the job skills to move there. They won't take whites if you don't have an "essential skill"

>>133820041

It’s because you’re putting them on a pedastool and giving them what they crave right off the bat.

If you want a chick you flirt with her friend. Women go nuts when you ignore them or treat em like shit.

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>>133819621
>I have a white wife and 6 kids.
>I'm black btw
right......

>>133809456
Why would a man ever get married? After 10 years any love that was there at the beginning at the very best turns into friendship, but in most cases the couples are only staying together for the kids sake.

And if you want kids, why not just go impregnate multiple random women? Do that 20 times, even if only 20% turn out to be well you are much better off than having 4 kida with the same woman.

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>>133819895
>Spent the last 5 years waiting for my grandparents to die so they wouldn't have to deal with their line and favorite relative dying. They arent here anymore so there is much reason to stall.
Sounds like a good reason to have an adventure. You can't kill yourself without first having near life experience, anon.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3w608RyPqo

>>133819296

At least try to ReTrump Oz and get em to reinstate the right to own guns.

If you’re gonna blow your fucking head off don’t do it at a range. Jesus

>>133813360
Newfag detected

Feel like I'm too young, 19.

Want to sort my career out first, marriage leads to children and I'm not prepared financially in raising one. (I also want a few.)

>>133820510
Dont worry I have Ive read all Ive wanted to traveled to a numerous countries and haven't had to work by virtue of being born into money.

Its like that other anon said some people are just born defective. Thanks for the concern though

>>133820721

Don’t be a fucking idiot - knock up a hot white chick multiple times and fuck with your minority neighbors so much they leave your country you dumb limey cunt

>>133820048
Die of old age after you have spent your life properly raising your future children with your future wife. Creating a traditional family and being productive is the best thing you can do with your life.

>>133820531
>At least try to ReTrump Oz and get em to reinstate the right to own guns.

Ive been hospitalized for a botched suicide attempt in the past, even were the most right wing pollie to get elected id still fail the background check.

>don’t do it at a range

Oh I know its a dick move but it was either that or trying to get access to one at my aunties farm and they have been far too kind to me.

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>>133820823
>Dont worry I have Ive read all Ive wanted to traveled to a numerous countries and haven't had to work by virtue of being born into money.
Give me your money and I'll fix you.

No but seriously, everyone is totally fucking defective... because we're not robots. You're just overwhelmed by subconcious fear.

>>133820986
Then just hang yourself. You'll figure out pretty quick if you really want to die.

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>>133820964
>create trad family

Lol is this even possible in the US anymore?

Every girl under 25 is either uglier than sin, or a complete and utter Thot. Modern women are incapable of being homemakers or mothers.

There are a few unicorns out there sure, but good luck attracting them if you aren't a 10/10 rich chad.

>>133809456
because we decided that august is better than july

where is a college student supposed to find time for a relationship? i barely have time to get to the gym and study.

>>133809456
Because I'm an ugly moron and no one loves me.

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There is no love anymore.

This is what a man gets after all of his hard work.

>>133821336
But you can become a >>>/fit/ ugly moron and develop yourself

I think even from a young age my parent's divorce taught me that, at least in modern times, most relationships don't last. Even though the divorce wasn't ugly compared to most it still left me with this disbelief or doubt in romance as a whole.

>>133809456
Im fat, ugly and not particularly rich

>>133821336
>no one
perhaps you should get some friends before considering a relationship

>>133821416
This.

Also never had my parents to model a relationship on.

>muh fag cake

Or OP is a god-bothering godfag

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There's this guy at work who absolutely fucking hates me because how I spend every minute of my free time is entirely up to me. He's got an ex-party girl for a wife, her daughter and a son between the both of them who lay claim to every single fucking minute he's not at work and every single penny he earns. He's chained to them forever.

He's an asshole so I have no sympathy for him, and was delighted when he overheard me talk to someone about how I whimsically decided to burn three hours one weekend watching an old videotape of Game 7 of the 1986 World Series. This is a schlub who hasn't had a free minute in sixteen years.

That's why I'm not married.

>>133820986
If you are going to kill your self, why not search for something that you may be passionate about. Break your old routines and do something new or help someone out that may need your help. If you are going to kill your self, you have nothing to lose by trying and maybe learn something about yourself. Just think about postponing suicide as free DLC in the game of life.

>>133821061
>.No but seriously, everyone is totally fucking defective

Its a nice sentiment but not true, Im not talking about having to deal with a little anxiety and the odd existential crisis but just a physically degenerated and broken mind.

To put it another way

Everyone gets bruises and cuts but not everyone developes Huntington's Disease by mutation.

>>133809513
starting with that flag..

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>>133821611
Goddamn this attitude annoys me.

If you are depressed enough to be suicidal, you are incapable of being passionate about anything. That's kind of the whole schtick with depression.

Working out helps. That's about it. SSRIs just turn your depression into an even worse feeling of total indifference.

>>133820048
Just wait a bit longer and you'll see

>>133813313
Praying for your senpai

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>>133821880
>muh race war meme

Never gonna happen bud. If it was, it would've happened in the US 20 years ago.

Whites will always cuck as long as they have shelter, food and entertainment.

Modern tech and the neolib order pretty much ensures those will always be provided.

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>>133821792
>Everyone gets bruises and cuts but not everyone developes Huntington's Disease by mutation.
So you cant move think or talk? How can you go to a gun range. Why aren't you killing Soros or his son and becoming a fucking legend? I told you to have a near life experince! You have to give up before you kill yourself! And wear a batman mask when you do it, so I know it's you.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCD9IN-Sx4Y

>>133821611
>If you are going to kill your self, why not search for something that you may be passionate about

I did, thats why I traveled and studied heavily, Ive multiple degrees and was even a pen pal to a fairly influential person in a particular niche subject.

I can see how your advice might be helpful for an anon in their late teens and early twenties but im my 30s now.

>break your old routines and do something new or help someone out that may need your help.

Im not young man anymore. Ive searched and dabbled and my passions and interests have finally dried up.

> If you are going to kill your self, you have nothing to lose

Everyday spent alive is something lost when you have the kind of mental troubles I do.

>>133822096
>pic
>hopefully it's the EU and/or Germany

>>133821821
You're wrong. Doing the same rutuine and having no variety will make you depressed or make chronic depression worse. Obviously you aren't passionate while depressed, but the central idea that you are missing is that when you look for new things to be passionate about, you are doing new things that takes you out of the old rutuine.

>>133811055
There is literally nothing wrong with utilitarian hedonism

>>133822025
looks like we will have to turner diary it up then

>>133822096
>Why aren't you killing Soros or his son and becoming a fucking legend?

When you reach that point in life where you genuinely want to kill yourself its not because you dont fear death ( I do just as much as any normie) anymore but simply because life is just that painful that death becomes an attractive option.

Much like how the people who jumped out of the trade towers chose to do so rather than try and fight their way through the flames and rubble.

Depression (not the meme kind) is cool and liberating like you portray it

I'm never getting married

>>133822426
* is not cool

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>>133809456
That's right goy, pay $30000 for a wedding, and then get divorce raped, pay your alimony, and give (((divorce lawyers))) more money.

>>133809456
But I am, and we have a 1 year old WHITE daughter, and everywhere we go we see WHITE children everywhere.
Such is life in st petersburg
U jelly /pol/?

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>>133822276
I've tried it man.

I've moved. I've switched jobs. I've learned new skills and set new goals

It's all just a fleeting boost. And each time it gets harder to dig yourself out of the rut you inevitably fall back into.

I know this is hard for people who aren't clinically depressed to comprehend. It's not just a case of the blues. It never goes away. It's chemical defects in your brain that make you think in really destructive ways.

INB4 "nut up pussy."

You can't fight brain chemistry. If you don't believe me, take a large dose of drugs and watch as your mood, thought patterns and demeanor completely change. Personality, mood etc. is all a consequence of brain chemistry. Environment and activity can change things, but you are ultimately beholden to genes.

When it comes to nature vs nurture, Nature holds nurture on a tight leash.

>>133822181
Man, that's rough. Obviously I don't know what it's like to be in your shoes. I was just trying to help out a fellow anon with some advice that really helped me get out of depression.

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>>133809456
>Not going MGTOW.

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>>133813360
Anon, we're all here forever. I started this shit 12 years ago because it was a funny place to find ridiculous green text stories. Every 2-3 years I came back. Eventually got into /diy/ and /biz/, then /fit/, checked /pol/ in 2015, and did my personal best to make it a worse place to be since then. I'm a grown land-owning man now making decent money and participating in local politics.

Welcome to 4chan, enjoy your stay.

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>>133822426
>>133822426
>Depression (not the meme kind) is cool and liberating like you portray it
pfff haha. You act like you're the only one. Who are you assuming me to be, anon? You're not in some super serious club of one. I wouldn't be talking to you this way if I was some normie asshole trying to project possitivity. You're fooling yourself as to what "life" and "death" is.

It's not about the time you have or the end, it's about the highest moments. Get over yourself and live till you die.
Kill Soros.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2mybZ3KT2E

>>133822790
MGTOW is just a defense mechanism for incels.

Don't be that fag

Dating life in the west is absolute shit, but don't turn your bitterness into your identity.

tfw people fall for marriage meme

>>133822934
Bravo

>>133809800
>31, never dated, never felt a boob
Take out george soros when you an hero please

>>133813316
It's a different culture. Their parents/grandparents don't spite you for staying yet guilt you for leaving, and they leave you the fuck alone when you want to get laid.

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>>133822683
>I know this is hard for people who aren't clinically depressed to comprehend. It's not just a case of the blues. It never goes away. It's chemical defects in your brain that make you think in really destructive ways.
another one.
>You can't fight brain chemistry.
You absolutly can. You don't understand reality. You're delusional if you think depression isn't fear and doctors are right about your condition. You're just not meant for the games people play. So play a different one.

>>133822737
I know you mean well, which why I didnt want to come off as snappy of condescending like a lot of people with various degrees of depression do.

I do think most people with depression can and should get out off it.

A way I look at it is like those folks in crutches or wheelchairs, all different kinds of things can put in you in one. Some people will naturally heal and not need them for long, others need periods of physical therapy or a cure however there are just some people who will never walk freely again.

>>133809456
There's 1 rule. Only 1 rule.
You can't be fat.
I'm fat.

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>>133814847
>>133817104
>>133818035
>>133822683
After artificial wombs are built, women won't be needed anymore for reproduction.

>>133809456
22 year old, I got a high-paying IT job and will go to uni soon
still virgin, never had a gf

kill me

>>133823109
>You absolutly can. You don't understand reality.

I've been dealing with this shit for 18 years man. You can't just will yourself out of it.
>You're just not meant for the games people play. So play a different one.

A nice platitude. Whhat does it mean though? Play a different game? I cant just conjure a different social hierarchy. World is governed by bio and econ forces, not my whims.

>tfw no qt gf
>none of them interested in politics, philosophy, history or technology
>all interested in selfies and sports and fashion and shit
Where do I find myself a partner that won't be a burden for rest of my life?

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>>133823173
>I do think most people with depression can and should get out off it.
That word "depression"... Those fucking psych-Jews really laid a curse on the world with that one. Imagine if you didn't diagnose yourself with a mind virus? Imagine just living each day without a crutch and just burning with the pain? What glorious madness and passions we could accomplish.

>>133822683
Like i told the other guy, I'm just trying to help the best way I know how, and I don't know what you are going through. I'm not singling you out specifically or saying that's what your problem is , but the amount of nihilism on this board and society in general is a bit concerning, and that's why I may said something when I normally wouldn't have.

What made you wanna marry her, lads?

In a long-distance at the moment, flying out in September to meet his family/friends, and we're both saving up to get a place and get used to life together first.

Never, ever go into marriage without some financial backup. Almost 80% of people I know that got married did it cause the girl was pregnant. I'd say 20% of them are now divorced and they're not even 30.

>>133809996
no it only happens if you don't jerk off Ever

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>>133823362
>You can't just will yourself out of it.
Who the fuck told you to beat yourself up over it? Not me... You're reacting with a pre-programmed script. I've heard every fucking "depress-sion" curse victim say that EXACT phrase and it makes me awfully suspicious. 18yrs? You better be almost 40 then because otherwise that was just child abuse if they medicated and diagnosed you that way.
What I'm literally saying is that you don't understand reality. And I mean that 100%. Let it sink in for a few days before you scoff it off and go back to your normal programming.

>A nice platitude. Whhat does it mean though? Play a different game? I cant just conjure a different social hierarchy. World is governed by bio and econ forces, not my whims.
The world isn't governed by shit but violence. I'm not using platitudes, I'm telling you that you're delusion. You have such embedded preconceptions that there is no way out of your depression because you have it all figured out already.

I'm telling you. There is no such thing as a depression. Just like there is no such thing as "homo-phobia". It's a game they've trapped you in. A literal curse.

The sage isn't a person born healthy but a sick person who cured himself. Until you acccept that you will be stuck under the curse of doctor's treating you like a fucking broken computer. You're not a computer. You're not a machine. Your brain isn't broken. Stop it!

Listen to some Allan Watts or Emperor Marcus Aurelius "Meditations" tonight at least if you can't comprehend what I'm saying. It's very calming when I go over the deep end, as long as I'm already tired.

>>133823252
Shh shh.
You have money. It's alright.
I was 22 once and I skipped all of my classes because I was a procrastinating faggot. Leech, Goblin, Worthless. Those are the words for me, honestly. Now my parents paid 40k of a debt that yielded NOTHING and I'm paying the rest.
Oh yeah, got my first job at 26. I wish someone had told me school wasn't for me when I was 18... 16, honestly, because by now I would have more than enough for a house and nice stuff to put in it, and at the place I work I'd be a supervisor 4 times over by now.

I'm 28, bought my first car. I had one before that my parents bought but now it's my brother's, back down to the low 4 digits in my bank account and time to start grinding it back up this Monday since factory shutdown is over.

Work now, anon. Work hard. Because one day you will be 28. You'll be so far ahead of me. Think of that. Think of how much better you'll be than me, an anon you'll never meet, but offered you some insight from a true loser's prospective. Don't pray for me or wish me well, just do better. Get. Fucking. Money. Then introduce other areas you'd like to improve.

>>133823252
>>133824570
Addendum: I too am a virgin.
And fat. So no matter what day it is, I'm 1.5~2 years away from sex if I start working on it that day.

>>133820986

Don’t kill yourself, dumbass

>>133822426

Read Camus’s “The Myth of Sysiphus”

What you’re describing is the entire reason he wrote that book.

He claims that in life the only real choice you have is to end it. Like Shakespeare said “to be or not to be”

Anyway, he lays out a reason why not to.

May not be the answer you’re looking for, but it may keep you from fucking up a perfectly good shooting range

Because only asians girls talk to me

>>133822580
>we have a 1 year old WHITE daughter,
Russia needs atleeste 3 per average famiy if not they will have to let in immigrants, maybe automatisation can decrease the numbers

>>133809800
Can you just find some japanese girl and make 10 kids already