>Never been in a relationship >99.99% of music are love songs

>tfw 28 and no gf ever
>tfw I know this feel

Post-breakup isn't worth the relationship

>>71936717
Stay in the slowcore thread

>>71936717
>tfw no way Jose

>>71936723
isn't it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

>>71936699
ah. Thank you OP. Now it makes sense.

So now I finally understand why this board puts so much pedestrian music (Radiohead, GYBE, NMH etc.) above obviously superior records like Blood On The Tracks.

>>71936783
Love isn't all it's cracked up to be. One partner always feels more intensely than the other. There is no truly reciprocated love.

>>71936784
>So now I finally understand why this board puts so much pedestrian music (Radiohead, GYBE, NMH etc.) above obviously superior records like Blood On The Tracks.
huh?

>>71936809
That's not really accurate. Just seems that way a lot of the time.

>have intense anxiety about sex because I have sexually assaulted a woman (grabbed her ass while drunk)
>get extremely triggered when a song is about love because my actions have rendered me unworthy of participating in sexual activity
>most songs with lyrics in general are about love
>have to either tune out lyrics or listen to non-sexual music

>>71937512
kys creep

>>71937523
I don't want to, I can still do things that don't involve sex just fine

>>71937512
what the fuck, does alcohol really make you act like that? did you apologize?

This post seems silly, but I have depression and anxiety and I know I'd feel the exact same way.

>>71937833
The next day I gave her a generic apology for my rude behavior the previous night, but I never explicity acknowledged that I groped her. I know I should've but I am a pussy. That was over 2 years ago

>>71938010
>That was over 2 years ago
jesus fucking Christ, anon.
And you're still fucked up?
Do you still know/talk to her?

>>71937512
hey man things are going to be ok. u did a shitty thing and u feel bad for it and it was bad but you apologized and that doesnt fix everything but it shows ur heart is in the right place. don't get too down on urself, u are still deserving of sexual activity and love. i hope things get better for u soon

>>71936699
You're honestly missing out

>>71938242
Yeah talk to her multiple times a week, we're good friends. That doesn't really have anything to do with it. I know I have the capacity to assault again so why should how long ago it happened matter either

>>71936783
no, that's a myth
relationships are great and all but breakups have been, to many people, life crippling
need /mu/proof? Cocteau Twins

>>71937512
That's a bit extreme. You fucked up, admitted it, apologised and now you need to grow up and move on. Be more conscientious about how alcohol affects your judgement, respect the desires of those around you and get yourself back out there.

>>71937512
have you been listening to Andrew Jackson Jihad?

>>71936699
Some guys do nothing but complain. Woo hoo hoo

>>71936699
>99,99%
That's BS and you know it. This doesn't count for most electronic genres, hiphop, jazz, other mainly instrumental genres and much more.

>>71938671
go fuck yourself that doesn't help me

>>71938815
JUST STOP DRINKING.

And if it's really bothering you that much you should talk to her, or seek out a therapist.

>>71939372
>hiphop

I'm a virgin.
99.99% of music is about sex or romance.
>instrumental
get outta here.

>>71939440
>listening to music for lyrics
Get outta here

>>71938815
jesus christ. it's bad but its not like you raped her or something, learn to forgive yourself my man

>>71936809
love is actually better defined as feeling the pain your partner does. so you feel twice the pain. the only reward is someone understanding you through it when you hurt more.

>do you think you're better off alone?

yeah so far it's been ok

>>71936699
i think you're interpreting it to literally
art creates vague feelings of love but its not necessarily about a conventional man woman relationship

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>Am in a relationship
>Hate love songs

It's such bland lyrical content, I swear.

>>71939781
>It's such bland lyrical content,
that too.

>>71937512
>assault
lmao, literally every Chad who gets laid on the reg does that.
Get over it dude.

>>71939291
I'm actually asking for suggestions.

>got stood up yesterday
>tried to listen to music to get my mind off self-pity
>sad songs made me more depressed
>happy songs were just salt in the wound

i feel a little better about today but all music is still just bumming me out

>>71940441
There's no inbetween music, either overly optimistic shit like Chance the Rapper and DRAM or wallowing in self pity music like The Smiths

>>71937512
>sexually assaulted a woman
oh shit anon you fucked up

>grabbed her ass while drunk
nigga cmon thats nothing get over it

>99.99% of music are love songs
Maybe you should stop listening to pleb ass shit

>>71937512
>grabbed her ass while drunk
I mean that's bad, but that's not worth beating yourself up over to this extent. It was a shitty thing you did that you can get over, I'm sure she's fine and has been fine ever since like 3 hours after it happened.

>>71940574
Name 15 artists/bands that don't primarily make songs about love or sex.

Checkmate.

>>71937512
negro you grabbed a chicks ass, its shitty but not the end of the world, use the experience to move forward and learn something about yourself but don't just go "whelp I'm banned from sex or love now"

>Be gay
>99.9% of love songs are straight
>self-insert as the singer's love interest when the gender isn't clear

>>71940604
>I'm sure she's fine
of course, chicks like that shit.
I was standing next to a girl out somewhere and some stranger walking past grabbed her ass and took off.
She said it made her feel special.
If no guy is lusting over you, hitting on you, looking you over, groping you, then you're probably ugly, which is the worst thing imaginable for a woman.

>>71940661
>99.9% of love songs are straight
>self-insert as the singer's love interest when the gender isn't clear
listen to female musicians, dumbass.

>>71940618
every technical prog metal, folk metal, thrash metal... music for virgins basically.

>>71940661
>>>/lgbt/

fuck off

>>71940661
>Be straight
>like the song "this charming man"
>don't know what to think

>>71940685
Alright, artists/bands that aren't garbage.
Instrumental doesn't count.

>>71940739
>Alright, artists/bands that aren't garbage.
>No TRUE Scotsman

>>71940781
sweet tvtropes bro
All metal is shit.

>>71936783

you are correct

the instinct is to regret all your choices, but really, if you're gonna beat yourself up over something you can't control, you're gonna end up hating your choice

i have fond memories of times with girls i loved and it really added lots of perspectives to my life that i otherwise wouldn't have experience. to have a girl as your best friend and doing dope shit all day with them is one of the best feelings to exist. aim high bitches

>No actual music discussion
nice, look what /tv/'s done to us.

>>71940842
for you

benis

>tfw approaching 24 years old
>never had a gf
>never had sex
>really want to make some changes in my life and the way that I think and have a healthy relationship with a qt 3.14 nerd girl who's into the same stuff I am sexually

>>71940953
how would you know what stuff you are into sexually if you've never had sex
porn preferences and irl sex preferences arent always the same btw

just buy a fucking handgun and a bullet and fall in love with that and then when youre ready to stop loving fucking cap yourself

seriously its not worth getting into a relationship and seeing bluer skies and brighter sunshine and prettier flowers than youve ever seen in your life just for it to all go to shit and everything is dull and lifeless

t. hanging my noose

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>>71941035
edgier pls

>>71940953
come back when your 30

>>71940683
But I like to hear guy's voices instead

>>71941085
you're a faggot then.

>>71941085
Listen to shit like Lydia or Silversun Pickups then.

>>71941003
I've gotten close to sex but have never had it.

>>71941068
Fuck you. I am not going to become a 30 year old permavirgin.

>>71939423
I would talk to her but only if it would be beneficial for her. I've obviously already acted in my self interest enough and wouldn't want to make her feel more awkward or ashamed just so I could get it off my chest and personally feel better. Wouldn't bringing it up over 2 years later come off as an insult?

>>71941569
>Wouldn't bringing it up over 2 years later come off as an insult?
No nigga, why would it? Just tell her how hard of a time you're having, she's your friend, right?

>>71942033
I mean, it would be selfish if I apologized because I was having a hard time. That's my own personal problem. The real problem is whether or not she has endured permanent harm from the incident and if so the best I can do is assure her I would never do it again

>>71942340
>he real problem is whether or not she has endured permanent harm from the incident
then ask her. I understand feeling that it's selfish, but you need to do this.
Sometimes you need to disregard your feelings and put yourself first.

Just get addicted to drugs and you'll be able to relate to any love song

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>>71936717
>27 and in the same position
I hope we make it, but I doubt we will

>>71940415
literally this. wtf is up with these replies

>>71936699
>Be me
>Fell in love with a girl when I was 16
>Can't forget
>I'm 24 now and I still feel something for her
What the fuck is wrong with me?

>>71945019
almost 4 years apart from my exgirlfriend.
still think about her every single day.

i can't move on because i only felt alive when i was with her.

:)

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>>71945345
>>71945019

Life is pain, you never forget, sorry guys but you just have to take this one on the chin and keep going....

>>71941549
Seriously, why are you not visiting a hooker? It's less pathetic than being close to a permavirgin

>>71942340
You're a faggot.
>permanent harm because of being slapped on the ass

>>71941549
You are though.

>>71936699
All love song are 99.99% fake, I mean the're not about true love that have actually happened to someone, it's just lyrics that come first on your mind when you write songs, and they are commercially good as well. I hate humanity and really wish some day it's gonna dissapear from this planet, but most of my folk songs are still about love, peace, humanity, its seems to be natural to sing about those things, unfortunately

>>71936717
How is this even possible. I share a board with people this socially inept? If you people make it to wizardry just end your life

I find I liked a lot of love songs more when I had never had a relationship, associating every song with a girl I was interested in.

>>71936699
Just listen to Fugazi man

>>71946176
A lot of people either through a lack of attractiveness or social skills just aren't viewed by others as someone they'd like to date. It's a real tragedy too since it's one thing to be rejected, because that means they have to have at least noticed and considered you first, but it's quite another to simply fly under everyone's radar altogether. And it only gets worse and worse as you get older.

>>71938671
this