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Any books on how to train oneself not to look at every attractive woman?

I used to know of a simple technique, can't remember the name, where lack of exposure nullified responses or desires.

I can do this to an extent but I forget too often.

(And before some retard claims I need to get laid or I'm a virgin)
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>>9132822
Just don't be ugly and it's not a problem, disgusting creep

>>>/r9k/
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once you read Georges Bernanos "Sous le soleil de Satan", you will never look at ANY 16 year old girl. You will be scared.
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>>9132822
Yeah it's this little thing called self control
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Just look at thousands of 10/10 women on the internet every day and suddenly women IRL don't really compare
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novel with cocaine will teach you why none of them are good for you if they look back
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>>9132822
Go a few years without any healthy social interaction. You won't be able to look at anyone without feeling like your legs are about to give out.

Thank me later.

Alternatively, realize that reading things won't make you do things, especially such simple things.
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Start masturbating and watch porn.
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>>9132836
This, I used to get the shakes before making a phone call to a local store to ask a simple question like do they have X in stock or how late are they open till.
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>>9132836
>>9132864
What a bunch of dorks.

I have had no healthy social interaction for several years but instead of weakening me, it has only made me stronger...
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>>9132822
have you tried physical punishment?
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Schopenhauer "On Women"
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>>9132903
Do you mean, for example, a wrist band?

I tried that shit before for other reasons and all it did was get me hooked on the feeling of being stung by the wrist band.
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>>9132906
Yes, I read that when I was 12.
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>>9132909
I was thinking something more mundane like pinching yourself or biting the inside of your mouth
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>>9132924
Lol, I already do that.

One time I went into a cubicle and screamed my guts out and then walked out...and then the guy sitting in the other cubicle walked out too. Never been so embarrassed in my life.
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>>9132864
Yes? how did you overcome your fear?
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Why condemn yourself, OP?

The world is full of beautiful things. Don't be afraid to look.
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>>9133047
By realizing it wasn't healthy, I was lonely and wanted a girlfriend, and knew if I didn't change things soon my life would pass me by and I would have major regrets and the inability to go back and change things. This motivated me to power through it and start getting out more and now I still have slight nerves but it's no longer debilitating. I'm still improving but I'm pretty happy where I am now, just sucks that at my age it's harder to meet new people (also I don't like knowing/meeting a lot of people or socializing too much, I just wanna find one or two good friends. I had one but we broke up. )
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I'm just here for the qts
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>>9133090
What a shame, you and i are soul friends. What do you study/work? have you read Pessoa?
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>>9133090
> at my age it's harder to meet new people
What age is that?
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>>9132834
Not true.
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I am sick and tired of this. Every day I come to /lit/, and every day there is at least one thread up with an OP image of an attractive woman dressed scantily and posing seductively. It's probably the same one or two people who do it honestly. Let me tell you something, you faggot pieces of shit who are doing this: you are the poster child for everything that is wrong in literature, art, and society as a whole today. You are incapable of coming up with anything creative, thought provoking, or of substance, and you lack even the smallest modicum of intelligence, so you use "style" and "flash" and pizazz in place of it and to draw attention to yourself, because that's the only way your SHIT "creation" and ideas would ever get seen by anyone. And before you say anything, this has NOTHING to do with the fact that I don't have a girlfriend. Anyway, I will be petitioning the owner of this website to ban your asses, so enjoy being able to post here while it lasts, because it's not going to last long, just like you that one time you convinced an obese girl to let you fuck her.
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>>9133078
I wish to be pure.
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>>9133137
If you're in your mid twenties and above and have no friends, then it's hard to truly connect with people, because every one else is having a family, full time jobs and so on.
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>>9133164
Yeah I figure thats going to be me in 2 years
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>Any books on how to train oneself not to look at every attractive woman?
You don't need a book, you need a gf, she'll condition you to stop doing that
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>>9133192
Also not true. If anything, once you've a gf other women will pay more attention to you and then it's inevitable you'll reciprocate a little.
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>>9133102
I work at home. I haven't. Should I?

>>9133137
>>9133164
25. I thought about taking a course at community college but I just realized it'll cost me almost $600 for one course. Church is another option but I'm not a Christian (but respect the faith and have more in common with those people) and so I'm not sure I'll fit in without me being their "project" to convert me or being looked at as a heathen outsider trying to ruin their women. Getting another job is also an option as I have a good amount of free time, but since I don't need another job, that seems like a lot of trouble just to maybe happen to work with someone I like enough to be friends with. Bars are out of the question because I dont drink.

I may end up doing the college course thing despite the cost. There just aren't that many options to meet people my age especially when you start from scratch with no friends or connections.

Online dating sucks ass btw (though I did get a gf out of it)
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>>9133224
That's what the gf is for, yes.
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>>9133269
Female attention?
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>>9132822
Quran unironically
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>>9132822
When you see a pretty girl, remind yourself that she's been railed by no less than 4 different Chads in the last year, and is currently wondering where to pick up the next one.
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>>9133158
Becoming intellectually pure is impossible without knowing your human side, the very thing that gives you conscious.
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>>9133156
(You)
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>>9132834
It's the opposite anon. You look at every woman in order to compare and contrast to 10/10.
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>>9132864
This is social anxiety, anon. I don't want that.
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>>9133679
And never, never with you. Because you're a weak loser.
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>>9133679
HAHAHA. God, I'd hate to be you, with such an amazing inability to find good women.

I dated two women last year, both quite qt (enough to get my dick rock hard and pre-ing like mad at the idea of fucking them), both early to mid 20s... both virgins, and the one was an atheist.
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>>9132822
just look at the ground instead
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>>9133821
In the USA?
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>>9133864
Yes.

They both had some sexual contact with their boyfriends, but neither had been penetrated. This may be rare but it's apparently not impossible to find.
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>>9133963
I see, it's just that most of them aren't going to your typical 4chan loser since virgin girls tend to want something serious with someone who'll give some security. But I'm not American though.
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>>9133979
to date*
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>>9133047
just get a retail job and you will get over everything quick
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Just look at the ground whenever you go outside.
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>>9132864
Oh god calling someone on the phone is terrible. I had to make a few phone calls this morning and it was a nightmare. Don't know how I managed to do it.
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>>9132822
Try sertraline, therapy, and daily exercise.
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>>9133047
My father forcing me to on the phone on his behalf.
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>>9132822
Start with the greeks desu
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>>9133090
i go out to peoples every day for about a year but still cant get gf
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>>9133090
>worrying about regrets
>not realizing that any time you spend regretting will be nullified by an eternity of glorious nonexistence
Lmaoooooo
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>>9134687

>Try sertraline

Literally don't. It gave me erectile dysfunction and made me overweight as fuck.
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>>9133047
buen roscón de reyes
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The girl in the OP is perfect...tfw
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Read books written by (supposed) celibate monks. Dhammapada, the Philokalia, etc.
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>>9132822
look at beautiful people don't pollute your body eat some healthy foodstuffs

>smokes a pack a day
>asthma

im first to go
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There are no attractive women because they're old hags. That woman is an old hag and most definitely is not even the least bit attractive.
>>9132834
There is no such thing as a '10/10 woman' because all old hags are disgusting.
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>>9137063
Finally, an answer, thanks!
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>>9137074
Pretty spooky post
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>>9137128
muh old hags
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>>9132827
>don't be ugly
>if you're ugly, women won't even give you a chance
>mfw
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>>9137196
Get fit, have a nice job and a car.
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>he still cares about the external world
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Have a brutally low self image. You find it hard to look at anyone because there is a chance they will notice and look back and truly see your insignificant self.
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>>9133156
autism
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>>9132822
Who is this qt
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>>9133156
Agreed
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>>9132822
is there any more?
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>>9132822

>woman

That's a child
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>>9132936
http://www.stadtpotenziale.at/projektarchiv/2013/schreiraum.html

Try this. With this you can scream in a sound-insulated chamber and your screams are blasted amplified at the top of a mountain. It's pretty sweet.
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>>9137787
I can be sure she sucked at least a dozen cocks already.
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>>9137196

It is what it is.Some paths to follow if you can't deal with it:

>kys
>kys and take some cucks with you
>Do all the fucked up stuff you always wanted to do, then kys
>Do all the fucked up shit you havealways wanted to do, try to live with it if you can
>Find love in something else and/or in yourself

As you are on /lit/, I recommend the first one
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>>9137917

Yeah it's easy to be sure of anything if you don't require any sort of proof outside of your own residual sense of bitterness that your entitlement has never been validated by the world at large, and the confirmatory bleatings of other wounded dorks like yourself
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>>9138063
Proof? Nigger, almost any girl her age has slept with a few dudes, there's nothing wrong with this.
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>>9138091

Ok bye
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Why can't you look at attractive women? Don't you love the eye contact game?
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>>9138091
Not him but there's a big difference between sucking at least a dozen cocks and sleeping with a couple dudes who were her boyfriends.
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>>9138106
blowjobs are much more casual and given more freely.
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>>9138119

No kidding. I take it from your authoritative tone that you personally got your dick sucked by a veritable smorgasbord of delectable jailbait morsels in your day?
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>>9138119
Yes, by sluts, but now we are again back to you making claims that a girl you don't know is a slut, without any proof. See also >>9138063
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>>9138132
Just a couple, but I arrived at my conclusion more from I saw rather than what necessarily happened to me.
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>>9138146
from what*
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>>9138145
I never called her a slut, it's a part of being young to be horny.
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>>9138160
No shit being horny is part of being young. What's that got to do with sucking a dozen cocks by age 19, which is not part of being young for non-sluts?

I'll tell you what sucks dick though, your debating "skills".
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>>9138177
Maybe not from where you are.
There's barely any debate here though because there no centralized issue.
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>>9138199
I'm from the US. Do you hang around very attractive people? That's the only time witnessing girls sucking a dozen cocks by that age might be considered "normal" due to lacking context. It's like being a millionaire and living amongst millionaires all your life and thinking buying homes with cash is "normal".
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>>9138234
That or hanging around shitty/low class people.
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>>9132822
Those are some of the most disgusting lips I have ever fucking seen they look diseased.
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>>9137145
stop
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>>9132822
>Any books on how to train oneself not to look at every attractive woman?

Paul's letter to the Corinthians.
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