Was I rude on this date or not?

I'd say you caught some red flags, and that it would be right to not take him on a second date.

>>7721462
He was either a bitch or not interested.
Don't worry about it.

>>7721462
Sounds about right
to me if you're compatible with someone you should feel pretty comfortable only a few minutes into a date but maybe that's just me

>>7721462
You should've done a 360° and walked away as soon as you noticed he was "fem". Although some masculine homosexuals can also be degenerate, being "fem" to any degree indicates a total lack of character and intelligence.

>>7721462
hey anon, this is me you're talking about. Listen, truth is you're just fucking annoying. Don't act like it was you who rejected me, you were super cold and distant the whole time like you wanted to make a point, because I wasn't acting the right way. Well, fuck you, I don't need you or any of that shit in my life.
Sure, I didn't text you, but you never texted me either, so shut the fuck up you whiny little bitch.

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>>7722085
funny, you don't sound feminine.

not sure why OP wrote this if he had his chance and now doesn't want you.

i guess it is a rush creating a thread and then samefagging it to keep it going.

why am i even typing this?

who knows?

>>7722141
>why am i even typing this?
because u gay

>>7722085
BS. Give me the first letter of your name.

>>7724957
T

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>>7721925
That's not how a 360° works. You're thinking of a 180°.

>>7721925
>done a 360 and walked away
LOL

>>7721462
happened on my first day with another boy (ever) too. 1/2

>Really high commitment date
>he wants to pick me up and then drop me home
>some bs about his estranged alcoholic father so he's never touched a drop of alcohol in his life so we can't meet at a bar or anywhere normal
>no job, studying to be a teacher, considers online friends to be his 'real friends'
>we're both 20, he has no job, says his mum buys him all his clothes, he doesnt even go wtih his mum to pick out things he wants, she literally dictates his entire fashion sense
>date lasted like 4 hours maybe, he did not touch a single drop of water the entire time
>make comments like 'arent you thirsty? we've been talking for hours, let's go to a store and get some water'
>he doesn't want to go, I suspect he didn't bring a single dollar on this shitty 'sit in the park at 9pm and talk' date
>I have to quench my thirst from the water fountain in the park (i've always avoided these because you don't know what homeless person/dog/animal has been using/urinating/washing their feet on them)
>for the first 2 hours of the date he refuses to make eye contact with me, he would look at me and then look away after 2s
>so much so that it made me feel awkward for trying to make eye contact with him so we're both just sitting across from eachother looking around randomly in some park
>his goal in life is to become a business teacher
>"Shouldnt you go do some business first, then become a teacher later?"
>"I like the theory of business but not actually doing it"
>No hobbies outside of some weird russian private server EVE online knockoff with his 'internet friends'
>We walk around the park, on the drive home he takes me to 'the house he grew up in' and then to his old highschool
>whythefuckareyoushowingmetheseplaces.jpg
>he drives me home
>me: "Sooo...do I get a goodnight kiss?'
>"Do you want a goodnight kiss?'
>"I think I do" (Note: this is my first time kissing another boy ever, but even i'm not this fucking..

>>7721462
> Was I rude on this date
No, not at all.

>>7730954
>car was his single mothers
>talk about fuel prices
>he wouldnt know about that because his mum fuels it up
>he lives 30m away from me, so he drove 30m to pick me up, 30m back to the sea-side park near his house and then 30m to drop me home


anyway

>lean across the seat for a kiss
>he goes full retard darting tongue lizard RIGHT away
>our lips arent even touching, I think he's trying to renact how they kiss in porn or some shit
>pull off after 2 seconds and say 'you have to go slower than that mate.."
>lean in again
>this time I just go passive and let him lead
>it was fine for 3 seconds and then I can feel him trying to push his chewing gum into my mouth
>wtf is this really happened.jpg
>okay this guy is autistic for real
>take the chewing gum from my mouth
>okay bye
>before I close the car door he says 'I hope you enjoy tasting my gum'
>I say 'haha yeah thanks for that'
>turn around and spit it out on the grass
>walk home
>so lusterfucked I text him 'I need to teach you how to kiss sometime'
>next day he sends me huge paragraph saying how im perfect and he wants to initiate relationship with me
>areyoufr.gif?
>never see him again

I have more stories and text screenshots, this guy wasnt that bad he was literally just socially retarded

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>>7721925
>360°
555 come on now
>>7722085
Lul if tru

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I had something similar happen once
> meet guy on tinder
> he insisted on this really nice place that I wasn't too interested in
> I'm a little bit uneasy because he won't stop talking the entire time we are there
> Im having a hard time looking at him because he is coming off so intense
> Hes had a gigantic splotch of tomato sauce on his chin for a solid 5 minutes at one point
> After a little bit, a couple of my friends stop by unannounced because they saw me walking by.
> This dude flips out, stops talking immediately and folds his arms over his chest
> like hes been personally insulted
> demands to know if Im interested in him
> tfw

>>7730963

Glad you never saw him again. These types of dudes are looking for someone who can take care of him just like his mom does. They want their partners to be their mom/therapist/butler all in one.

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>>7721462
>am I right to question the assumed narrative that gay men fuck each other wantonly and that I have feelings and preferences that aren't "dick goes into ass one way or another"?

Amazing

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>>7730954
>>for the first 2 hours of the date he refuses to make eye contact with me, he would look at me and then look away after 2s
>>so much so that it made me feel awkward for trying to make eye contact with him so we're both just sitting across from eachother looking around randomly in some park
oh god oh no I to this to EVERYONE

>>7730674
>>7730845
>>7730965
>>>/out/

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>>7731039
It's far too late for this now Anon. It's all newfags.

>>7730954
Some people struggle to find jobs, asshole. At least he was studying to get a job in the future. Also, it's normal to make eye contact like this if you're nervous or don't feel comfortable around someone, not everyone enjoys intense eye contact with people they barely know. Just sounds like your standards are too high and you're being prissy.

>>7730966
I'd find it rude af if I was on a date with someone and they started talking with their friends halfway through. You should have told them you were on a date so would it be ok if you can talk later and catch up.

>>7721925
You're an uptight moronic faggot.

>>7731254
This. Im shy as fuck and cant even make eye contact with "friends", even less with random people I only met once.

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>>7731254
No, man. This guy had never had a job. And it's not like he was filthy rich, but he wouldn't need to work to survive under his mums roof. My parents are fucking rich but I've had 4 different jobs and im 20. We could both ask for money from our parents and get it, but I guess the difference between us is I wanted to have experience, accomplishments, things on my resume and my own spending cash.

I asked him why he's never had a job and he just shrugged and said when he needs money he asks his mum. I knew right then and there that he was a loser with no ambition. I'm attracted to drive, sure he doesnt want his own spending cash because he doesnt feel the need to make internet purchases or buy new clothes or BUY A BOTTLE OF FUCKING WATER ON A DATE and thats his choice, i guess im just attracted to people with a FUCKING LIFE

>>7721925
He should have done an epic air flip before walking away?

>>7731310
This guy didn't come across as shy, he had no problem blabbing endlessly about his boring job. If he came off as shy I'd give him more leeway and might even find it kind of cute.

But really, you should work on making eye contact. If I'm on a date with a guy and he's not making eye contact I assume he's not interested and wants to bolt. You don't have to stare him down but look at him when you're talking to him, at least.

And to that other guy above, not T, but pretty close, nice try!

>>7730963
>next day he sends me huge paragraph saying how im perfect and he wants to initiate relationship with me

lol I had the same happen except we just met up to see a movie. We talked in the car for maybe 10 minutes, watched the movie, then I asked him as we were leaving if he wanted to grab a coffee or something to get to know each other. He said he wanted to go home. wtf. okay.

The next day he sends me a long screed saying how wonderful I am and he will treat me like a prince, and all this other stuff. Twas bizarre.

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>>7730963
more about this guy

>he told me he had a boyfriend before for a couple months but they only got as far as oral
>then how the hell did he kiss like such a retard
>he must have thought I was seriously attractive because he was too shy to even look me in the eye, but not that autistic because he had the confidence to put himself out there and start dating, but autistic to the level where we met on grindr and went on 1 date and he told me he waits until other people message him first on grindr before he talks because he's shy

>after 1 date he sends me huge paragraph about how he wants to be in a relationship with me because we're perfect
>tell him im going on exchange to china in like 5 months so im not looking to start a relationship (basically an excuse because who the fuck asks to be in a relationship after 1 date)
>he defends the offer and said we can date while im overseas and i can tell him all about it when I get back
>this guy lol
>fuck him around for the next 3 months, text him when im horny sometimes offer to go over sometimes but shit always comes up
>one time my brother was using the car so I was gonna catch a train for 30m to his house
>as im running on the train station to catch it the phone flies out of my pocket and my iphone cracks
>get so shook i question why im rushing anything this bad
>text him im not coming and go home
>he keeps wanting me to come over so we could lose our virginities together for another 2 months
>havnt spoken to him in weeks
>sends me this huge 'break up' text saying nothings gonna happen between us and I need to move on
>tells me he met someone new and he's interested in a relationship with him
>another 2 months later, still see him pop up as online on grindr sometimes

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>>7731484
I romantacised about this guy a lot, i wasnt NOT attracted to him, but he obviously wasn't hot or generically good looking. I guess it was just the rush over my first date/first kiss/first romantic time with another boy who actually found me attractive. Before our date that year, I had just lost 30kg, come out as gay and made some other huge changes in my life, I was still insecure about my body and had confidence issues so I guess the fact he thought I was good looking made me feel self confident, but boy gosh I have higher standards than this autismo

>he was kinda femmy
>he isn't locking eye contact with me
>he has flamer friends

That's not nearly enough to treat him like garbage. You have no idea how to socialize.

>>7731409
>>7730674
>>7730845
>>7730965
Holy shit all these newfags.

>>7731404
You seem to have no compassion. It's always people who have had a lot of jobs (which they probably got from family connections anyway) who feel the need to obsess on AMBITION. One day you'll be old and shrivelled up and wonder why you're alone.

>>7731037

I've never been on a date and whenever I read stories like this I remind myself to try to keep eye contact.

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>>7721925
>You should've done a 360° and walked away

What breed of retardation is this?

>>7731791
>>7731037
You guys and the op are socially retarded. There's no disease that prevents people from making eye contact or something; there's a constant level you should be doing to everybody you meet no matter the situation.

>>7731846
People get anxious, have self doubts and reflexively glance away. It's almost instinctual and you have to constantly be thinking about maintaining eye contact to keep it up which makes it difficult to focus on what the person's saying. I personally find it much easier to process what somebody is saying when I'm not looking at them. Sorry not everybody is a perfect eye contact holding socially adept person like you.

>>7731831
It's okay little one, this is known as an elderly meme. It was long before your time. Oh so innocent you are.

>>7731831
Newfigs can't into memes. Where do you retards even come from?

>>7731039
The only relevant post in this thread so far.

Newfigs should
>>>/out/

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>>7731869
>constantly be thinking about maintaining eye contact
Not really. It's not difficult at all with some confidence. It's actually pretty normal to look at the person you are speaking with.

>>7731961
You obviously just have no empathy for people who get anxious in public and around people. I didn't say it was unnormal to look at people when talking to them, just that some people find it hard to and have to focus on it.
>muh confidence
This is the biggest and oldest meme there is in western society. Confidence comes from social approval which is difficult to get when you're shy in the first place. Physical attractiveness also plays a big role in whether people approve of you or not.

>>7731846

>There's no disease that prevents people from making eye contact or something

Well, I never said there was?

>>7731991
Actually I do. I was diagnosed with social anxiety and was on Klonopin and various other meds for years. I wasn't dating though when it was ruling my life. I can tell if someone doesn't make eye contact because of something like anxiety and would obviously have empathy for that person and treat them with care. It's the ones that obviously aren't anxious and just can't be bothered to look at you while speaking, which is a basic level of respect.

>>7721462
Nah, you're good. You could have changed a few things to approach the "perfect" response/reaction, but that's a waste of effort and life.

>>7731869
No, maintaining direct eye contact shows you don't know how to socialize. You're not supposed to stare directly at somebody for 2 hours straight. I thought normies were supposed to be good at these sorts of things?

>>7732275
>stare directly at somebody for 2 hours straight.

>implying that's what eye contact is about

>>7721462
actually no OP, you were pretty patient it seems. He gave off alot of bad body signals and didn't seem interested in you, he just wanted you interested in him. I'm proud of you.

>>7731944
They're literally underage kids.

t. substitute teacher who has to deal with kids thinking I don't know what memes are because I'm an adult...

and I'm only 28.

>>7731846
>There's no disease that prevents people from making eye contact or something;
Well there is literal autism.

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>>7721925
sad
you had a point but everyones gonna be
>360

>>7731735
I'm smart dude, the reason he's jobless is because he's never felt the need to want to put himself out there and work.

I worked at a butcher when I was 14, sure, my mum was a regular at the butcher shop, but that job was disgusting, I had to clean out a bin they throw all the offal and bone scraps into, clean knives and plates, it was bad work but a job is a job.

2nd job was working at mcdonalds, not sure what family connections you expect me to have at mcdonalds, I went out and got that job for myself when I was 17, worked there until i left for my overseas gap year

3rd job was on my gap year teaching English in China

4th job was at 20 working at a car wash in the hot australian summer, all of these jobs I went out and got myself because I wanted spending money and something to do with my life.

I feel like youre just projecting because you're probably 23 and have never had anything even close to resembling a job in your shitty pathetic life, you want to date an unemployed loser? fine go ahead, this guy had 0 ambition. I'm attracted to motivation, people who aren't complacent and want to be successful, also i'd rather be old and alone then in an unhappy relationship, Any fuckin day of the week. God youre retarded

>>7730674
>>7730845
>>7730965
>>7731409
>>7731831
>>7734143

NEWFAGS GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>7735529
You're just an asshole as seen from your other posts who toys with people and tries to justifies it. Good luck in your sad life.

>>7730674
>>7730845
>>7730965
>>7731409
>>7731831
>tfw surrounded by literal newfags

Feels legitimately sad knowing that I'm one of the few people that stuck around here.

>>7737228

Considering this is a relatively new board, maybe we really have just drawn in a crowd of newfags, rather than just being a board for lgbt channers who were already around. 360 posts on older boards generally get maybe 1 or 2 newfags, which is kinda half the fun, but this is just depressing.

>>7731484
He actualy looks pretty good. How HIGH are your standards?

I kinda wonder if its actualy you that was the autist here

>>7731961
>with some confidence
that's the hard part, dingus

>>7730963
Dude, you asked him for a kiss despite the horrific date, then sent him a text that implied you intended to kiss him again. No wonder he thought it went well.

>>7731484
>fuck him around for the next 3 months, text him when im horny sometimes offer to go over sometimes but shit always comes up
wtf is wrong with you? Just cut him loose and be done with it.

>>7731597

How did OP treat him like garbage?

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Nah, you weren't rude. I have said worse things to men before. Honestly, I would have been more upfront with him and probably skated right the fuck out. It does not seem like you did much wrong though.

>>7731484
Aren't you in the Discord too? I saw you bitching about this guy in there the other day.

>>7737521
Nah, I'm almost certain that 90% of this site (even excluding /b/) are post 2010 users. Probably even closer to post 2012/13 users.

The influx of retards and normies invading because of /pol/'s popularity is really bringing in the most newfags we've ever seen in a short amount of time.

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>>7740388
>>7737228
>>7737521
>>7735685
Straightfag here discovered this board last year.
Having fun with you (literal) fags desu half because you are all mad half because of the spicy agp memes.
This is basically a less tranny obsessed version of /r9k/ and it amuses me greatly.

>>7740466
Are you cuuuuuute?

>>7724957
>>7725351
>T
>no reply
c'mon don't leave us in suspense...

>>7744280
I did above. Fairly close, but not T.