coming out greentext

>be closeted ftm
>have mental breakdown after being sexually assaulted by gross homeless man
>go on Facebook
>"I AM A BOY NOW GUYS"
>200 likes on status, suddenly more people want to be my friend
>still cringe years later at how retarded I sounded

>>6898241
>mtf
>figure out at 16
>think about all the horrors of coming out/transitioning
>go deep into closet/try to ignore my desires for 5 years
>finally accept, fearing that if I wait too long, I'll either kill myself or become a hon
>tell my girlfriend, closest friends
>"I'm not surprised."
>"Good for you."
>"yeah, I can see it"
>still too scared to tell parents
guess I made good friends and was pretty bad at being a dude

>>6898241
>be tranny
>live at home with mom
>go to gp
>get referral to tranny clinic
>they send letter confirming referral arrived and estimated time until i can get an appointment
>letter is from endocrinology branch of hospital
>mom sees this and freaks out
>reads letter and sees im a tranny
>didnt even have to tell her myself
all in all pretty good, i planned to hide it for a while but it went better than expected, she just freaked out about self medding

>>6898289
What did you say?

Have you transitioned now?

>>6898241
>be me
>closted 17 year old mtf
>parents are out
>cross dress as usual when left alone
>just womens jeans and t-shirt
>hanging out at home
>playing vidya
>drinking beer
>get hungry
>start cooking some snags
>parents come home early
>they see me and start giggling
>"what are you doing anon?"
>"just cooking some snags."
>"why are you dressed like that?"
>fuck it, better now then never
>"I'm transgender."
>parents a little shocked and confused as I pretend to be macho around others
>mum goes and cries in her room
>sit down with down dad, have a beer and explain everything
>he's chill about it just confused
>mum takes a couple hours but says she loves me no matter what
Pretty uneventful I know, I just never wanted it to be a big deal. Though I guess I'm really lucky I have supportive parents.

>>6898883
You being dressed in normal clothes probably helped since you weren't in a maid outfit wearing cancerous kneesocks.

>be me
>bottom
>no one knows I'm gay
>no real way to tell, no gay people I know are even aware of my faggotry
>tfw no bf
the end.

>come out to mom
>that's fine I still love you just don't dress up or wear make up or anything like that when I am around you.
>probably best you don't tell any of the family or your friends you don't want stupid rumors to spread.
3 years on hormones and no progress :D

>>6898241
>Be me
>Living in a coastal progressive liberal circlejerk city in Bumfuck, America.
>Scared to come out to anybody
>Come out first to my mates in my then choir class
>A lot of support. Happy to see that very few of them gave a shit. I was thinking it would be a big deal, but it wasn't, and that made me happy.
>Come out to my dad.
>He didn't buy it at first, but supported me nonetheless.
>About a month later, it clicked with him.
>My God, I think he's actually gay."
>Things were cool after that.
>Come out to my Christian (But still very progressive) grandma.
>"I worry about you and your relationship to God, but I trust that you have yourself figured out. God loves all his children, you know."
>Things our cool with me and her too.

I have a little brother, and he doesn't care much. We joke about gay shit constantly.

Yeah, my story is pretty uninteresting. It probably helps that I happen to live and come out in a coastal progressive liberal circlejerk city in Bumfuck, America.

>be me, 17
>ready for school but have breakdown before heading off
>mom sees me crying and starts pressuring me for info while im in tears
>"you want to be a girl don't you? that's what this is about isn't it?"
>may as well
>"I knew it all along"
>"I love you no matter what but don't tell your father yet"
>oh dear
>now wonder if all my friends know at this point

>>6898883
>parents are out

lol, I thought you meant you had gay parents at first and was confused

>come out to friend
>got a kick un the face instantly
Well, I am in Russia. At least my muslim grandmother and grandfather love me despite of my long hair and using of stockings.

>Come out to ex-gf as trans
>She's entirely cool with it
>We start hanging out a lot for the first time since we broke up
>Get back to together
>At first she ignores my tits
>Occasionally she starts messing with them tho
>Her messing with my tits becomes a big part of our sex life overtime
>She basically becomes obsessed with my tits
>Absent mindedly messes with my tits under any and all circumstances
>She starts giving me shit about not being full time and how she wants me to be her girlfriend
>She starts making comments about how she wishes I had a vagina during/after sex
>Half a year into us going out she tells me: "Yeah if we ever break up I think I'd only want to date girls from now on"

And that's the story of how me coming out as trans made my ex/no-longer-ex girlfriend a lesbian. It's pretty much my only interesting coming out story. All the other ones were just uneventful acceptance on the part of whoever I was coming out to.

>>6900303
kek me too

>be me
>don't socialize
>don't interact with other gay people
>never have sex
>don't bother coming out because it's pointless

>>6900600
>muslim
>Russia
Were the fuck do you live, Tatarstan?

>>6898241

>be me, 14
>My mom though I was fucking my sister's friends
>In reality they were trying to flirt with me or hook me up with boys.
>Came out because no-girls-allowed in bedroom rule was irritating.

Bam done

>be 14-15
>been casually trying to tell my mom I'm trans, such as getting her to read Parrotfish or watching trans documentaries around her
>whenever she asks me if I feel trans I chicken out and tell her no
>one day she asks me and tells me that she'd pay for my transition and let me live as a boy
>I agree
>she doesn't let me go on hormones though (she hates therapists)

>give mo0um a long letter explaining that I am nonbinary
>expect her to be confused or mad
>she just gives me this weird crap about how she feels that my female brain was combined with the baby she aborted before me
>didn't even know she ever had an abortion
>never wanted to know this anyway
>we never discuss my gender again
>I try to forget that conversation ever happened

Thanks for bringing the memory back.

>15, understood my life's fate since 12
>routinely wear girl's Levi's and shirts err'day.
>heavily abusing DXM, alcohol, and codeine
>one Christmas is a day long battle between my parents
>block out the latter half of the day with sweet drugs
>find myself stumbling around house, parents call 911. I'm sent to the ER
>find out that my dad raided my room/bathroom when I was in ER
>doctor holding my HRT, angrily shouting at me, "WHERE DID YOU GET THESE?"
>internet
>Dad comes in and Doc explains, they decide to throw it all away.
>Dad drives me home, thinking I was taking Testosterone boosters. (lol)
Mom understood though. She told me, "You don't know what you want." Then didn't talk to me for a day.
>22yr old QT normal girl with bits now

>>6898537

They didn't complain about your underaged drinking?

>>6903834
Lots of parents let their kids drink. It's best to learn to drink responsibly while still living at home.

>>6903958
Come on, now. You're drunk and lost.
I'll walk you back to /r9k/, OK?
>>>/r9k/

>>6899023
literally me

>>6904066
Gay people? On 4chan? Surely you jest.

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>Friends on at me for weeks to come out to my mum
>Find every excuse not to
>Get picked up by mum one time
>Friend runs after car shouting something we can't hear
>Friend calls me and fucking SCREAMS down the phone
>"ANON! DON'T FORGET TO TELL YOUR MUM YOU'RE GAY!"
>"Th-thanks Anonette, I won't"
>No way mum didn't hear that
>pic related
>Cue most uncomfortable 2 minutes silence of my entire life
>"So mum, would it bother you if I was gay?"
>"No"
>"Oh good...because I am"
>"Oh, OK"
>We never talk about it ever again

>>6906372
Jesus fuck faghags need to be beat.

>>6902415
Yes.

>>6898241
Good luck with coming out.

So I just had a birthday lunch at a sushi place with my distant dad. I am in my twenties, I've been told I have passing privilege by a SJW at my school, and I am still closeted to my family (because coward), but somehow the sushi chef running the bar knew to say
>"Thank you for coming, next time bring your boyfriend!"
>My dad corrects the chef with, "you mean girlfriend."
>Me half laughing without thinking, "I'll bring whoever"

Oh well the sushi was good.

>>6898241
>mom I have something to tell you
>i'm trans
>she gasps
>REALLY!? I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS!
She is completely support and never messes up my name or pronouns, I've been on HRT for over 7 months now and I'm getting my name and gender legally changed this Monday.

>>6908547
>I've been told I have passing privilege by a SJW at my school

Distance yourself from this tool immediately.

>>6910118
Hooray for happy endings.

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Anyone else came out to their grandparents or older relatives?
>be mtf
>have italian catholic grandparents (nonna and nonno)
>i can't speak italian beyond a few words and phrases
>they have limited english
>my dad explains it to them for me because he's fluent in italian
>they see me for the first as a girl
>they're crying and keep calling me 'bella' (female word for beautiful)
>mfw
>nonna gives me a gold necklace from her home country
>says that it's a tradition to gift every granddaughter of hers a piece of gold jewelry
>first time I've ever seen my nonno cry
>he was a tough mofo
>but he was just so happy to see me finally happy
>he died about 6 months later
I'm so glad that I was able to be honest with him before he passed. I'm crying a lot right now just thinking of this.

>>6910919

omg i cried reading this, this is so cute im super happy for you.

>>6910919
THIS IS SO CUTE

>>6910919
Aw man, that tugs on the heartstrings so much, I thought it was going to have a bad ending.

My maternal grandmother knows I'm bi, and being an uber religious rightwing conservative, was not happy about it at all, but we've mostly stopped talking about it. She's actually more upset I quit the religion. But she's still the sweetest grandma anyone could ask for 99% of the time, so the love isn't gone, there's just a few stumbling blocks from time to time. We still have a good relationship.

I think my dad told my paternal grandparents, but we haven't really discussed it at all. I don't think they'd care too much, though, and I don't get treated any differently. I do recall my grandmother watching a program one time and complaining that trans people should decide to fully be "one or the other" (it was about trans people who keep their original parts, and/or transmen who get pregnant, from what I recall), but it seems understandable coming from someone from her generation and background.

>>6910954
>>6910988
>>6911488
Thanks guys. It feels good to talk about this as it's still kinda fresh.

I'm not religious myself but I've always thought they were real virtuous Christians. Always looking to put more kindness into the world then they could ever take out.

After my Nonna almost died, I went to visit her in hospital. I remember talking to her about being trans. She said that God gives us these challenges in life so that we can become stronger for those we care for.
Oh also one time she sewed me an apron and showed me how to cook pasta just like hers.

>>6911488
I think sometimes with the oldies the best you can expect is just tolerance, my maternal grandfather is like that. I do hope they would be a bit more supportive of you if you end up with a long-term partner of the same sex though.
>I do recall my grandmother watching a program one time and complaining that trans people should decide to fully be "one or the other" (it was about trans people who keep their original parts, and/or transmen who get pregnant, from what I recall)
That's honestly really good from someone of there generation.

>friend
>both home from college
>are you seeing any girls or
>*smirk* guys
>I was but he moved
>...
>I was kidding anon
>Lolbro I'm not
>Damn so thats why [girl who he tried to set me up with in hs] was never a thing
>yes

>>6916199
Lol same here but I didn't go through with it

>friend
>hey man tell me about that chick you're dating
>well what do you want to hear?
>i dunno, anything, start from name maybe?
>Dmitriy
>HAHAHAHAHAHAH good one bro!
>yeah heh

>be korean
>have typical conservative korean mom (dad left a long time ago)
>finally come out to her when I'm 24 that im trans
>instantly rejected by her
>months of fighting about it, lots of sadness
>finally just move out, across the country
>to this day a year later, she asks me to stop transitioning everytime we talk

feels pretty bad, especially considering how close I am/was with her otherwise.

>>6899023

Im mtf but spot on

life is suffering

>>6916149
>Oh also one time she sewed me an apron and showed me how to cook pasta just like hers.

So cute.

I get that about the seniors. I wish my other grandma was more accepting, but she's pretty brainwashed by her religion, so I don't hold it against her. Lots of family members are this way. An aunt and uncle and their kids are actually really supportive of gay rights and all and are supportive of me, but I don't see them that much anymore. Not really sure if anyone else in the family knows about me because it's not something I bring up or wear on my sleeve anymore.

>>6898883
Why do you say snags? For that matter, what the hell is a snag?

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>>6920301
A snag is Aussie slang.for a sausage. We normally wrap 'em in white bread.
I just found this photo while trying to find an example. This photo more than anything else has convinced me of Abbot's madness. No sane man eats the end slice of the bread.

>comes out to brother
>"hey so I'm gay, like really gay, I'm the gay sibling"
>rambling, really nervous
>afraid he's gonna be pissed and out me to my parents even though we're close
>"So," he replies "Does that make me the overtly straight brother?"
>we got closer from that

Coming out is like a band aid, just rip it off and hope it doesn't hurt too much

>be me (because everyone else is taken)
>have acquaintances
>acquaintances "why are you such a faggot?"
>me "because I'm a faggot"
>"that makes sense"

>>6910919
i honest to god teared up. you have a wonderful family. next time you see your nonna can you hug her for bringing a little joy into my life?

>>6910919
literally so jelly of you, my grandparents just think im a freak
cherish it anon!

>>6910919
That's really sweet, I wish my grandparents were that cool

>be me, MtF, 2 years ago
>go to college and get on HRT (estrogen injections)
>come home for Christmas and winter break
>mom finds my syringes and starts talking to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking up some rice to satisfy a late night craving
>"Are you on drugs?"
>"What? No! I mean, I smoked some pot in high school, but I don't even drink now!"
>"Then what are... THESE?!?"
>she pulls out my syringes
>"T-those are for my m-medication, m-mom..."
>"What medication could you possibly need syringes for?"
>"E-estrogen. I want to be a girl, mom. I've wanted this for such a long time and the thought of having to live as a man makes me want to die."
>mom's expression changes entirely
>freaked out she's going to kick me out
>she leans to my ear to whisper
>"Is that why your legs are smooth and your acne went away?"
>"Y-yeah."
>"How can I get this stuff for my hot flashes?"
>"Ask your doctor, mom. They'd prescribe you a lower dosage probably but a lot of women take estrogen."
>"Can I have some of that rice?"
>mom and I eat plain white rice in the living room at 2 AM and watch old X-Files reruns on VHS
It was okay. My dad was a bit weird about it and only talked to me terms of car parts. All of our conversations about it were made while working on the car and used car euphemisms (i.e. I was the "transmission" AKA the "tranny," you know the drill). Parents are still kind of weirded out, but they're supportive.

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>be me, 17
>completely and aggressively closeted gay
>only person I trust is my brother
>tell him i think i might be gay
>"lol no your not you would have known years ago"
>wat
>over two years later, still technically in closet
Not sure when I'll try again.

>18 in early 2014
>first time ever dating a guy
>decide to tell my mom
>ramble on and keep vaguely referring to it
>at some point she thinks I'm just telling her I'm in a relationship
>"Oh anon! What a relief. I thought you were going to say you were gay"
>"Well what if I was?"
>she scowls
>"but you're not so it doesn't matter"
>tell her the person I'm dating is a guy
>she doesn't take it well, says she can't accept it
>I tell her that is fine and leave the room
>she follows after me
>"anon we can't just leave it at that"
>"mom if you can't accept it then there's no point in continuing"
>she says, "I don't know what you expect me to do"
>slam my hands on the desk, "I expect you to be a mother!"
>storm out again
>she follows me and we talk more without any yelling
>next day I find a bible opened to the Romans verse
>occasionally she'd talk to me about christian counseling or talking to a pastor
>just decide to never bring it up anymore
>last time it was even mentioned was in the spring of 2015 when I heard her tell one of my brothers "none of my sons are gay!"
I cringe at the whole, "I expect you to be a mother" line. Besides this incident she's been a wonderful mother my entire life. I'm afraid this strained our relationship. Even worse it was totally unnecessary. She never met the guy because he was too much of a coward, didn't even mention it to his mom for months even though she didn't fucking care and liked me. We've since broken up and I'm bi, so I might marry a girl and never even have to worry about coming out. The things we do for love, right?

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>>6903592
>nonbinary

>>6923498
Just get a BF then get them to meet when ur comfortable

>>6923545
That's still square-one territory.

>>6903592
>tfw you're queer because the ghost of your aborted brothers haunts your brain

>>6923611
Kind of reminds me of that shitty movie "The Unborn".
Except that was a twin and didn't involve made up genders.

>>6899144
>3 years on hormones and no progress :D
Jesus... That's awful.. Are you selfmedding? How old are you, anon?

>>6899144
Are you sure there's no progress? I mean, when you see yourself in a mirror eveyday, you almost can't tell a difference. Haven't you passed a single time? Maybe you just don't notice it?

Long and not worthwhile read ahead.

Part 1/2
>be me
>be 14
>on a cruise ship around the Bahamas with my family
>having a good time, gayness at a peak checking out all the hot guys from the ship and from the island
>last day on sea
>feeling pretty good because no one has made me feel insecure about my feminine mannerisms at all yet, and of course, I’m on a flipping cruise ship
>night rolls in, parents and I go to 24/7 buffet to get drinks
>buffet opens up to pool deck
>loads of shirtless, sexy men just partying and shit
>let my stare linger for too long
>dad notices
>I expect him to ask me who I’m staring at and I’ll just have to point at some bikini chick, but he doesn’t
>“Anon, why are you like this? All week, you act so gay. What are you, a bayot?” (bayot means faggot in tagalog, it’s supposed to be hurtful)
>instead of denying like I usually do, I sass back because I’m a moody teenager
>we start to argue
>bystanders getting food around us, but clearly my dad doesn’t give a shit
>embarrassment and anxiety start to stack up, losing my fight. I look to my mom for help, but she’s silent, curious as well
>bolt to the top deck while sobbing like a fag. parents don’t follow
>arrive. no one is there but me
>go to the railing, look at the ocean, obligatory suicidal thoughts
>all around me, black emptiness. The night sky and water blend together perfectly, creating some kind of void that I really want to jump into
>climb over railing
>>boi he goin do it
>text message from mom telling me to go back to our bedrooms
>take the excuse to be a coward
>back to our rooms. all of my siblings are in one room while my mom is waiting for me in our other one. dad is nowhere to be seen
>mom is sitting on the bed
>she takes me in her arms and urges me to come out to her, but I just beat around the bush
>this is nothing like the youtube videos fuck
>just as I’m about to tell her, the door bursts open
>dad
>he’s standing at the other side of the room now

>>6924006

Part 2/2
>freak out and run past him. mom follows behind
>to the top deck we go again!
>thankfully, no one is there to witness my patheticness
>mom holds me at the railing and starts doing lovey mom stuff
>she keeps trying to make me tell her, but i just can’t
>except I eventually do lol (after about like an hour later of standing)
[at the time, I was pretty comfortable and happy with being gay, but for some reason, I thought that pulling out the “trapped sufferer whose prayers never worked” card would get more sympathy from her]
>”I’m gay… but I don’t want to be.. I want to kill myself blah blah angst”
>she eats the helpless gayboy narrative with a ladle
>tells me she’ll still love me no matter what
>k
>then she starts talking about a friend of hers in that was apparently gay in highschool but ended up marrying a woman.
>awkwardly pretend I believe her
>we go back to the rooms
>dad is laying on the bed reading a book
>still looks upset, but at least steam isn’t blowing from his ears
>he tells me to come to him
>exaggerate my panic and shuffle towards him like a recently traumatized war refugee
>mom tells dad I’m gay for me, so I’m just sitting here waiting for his reaction
>preparing myself to be disowned from the famiry
>”ok.”
>dad is suddenly hugging me
>everything i do is meaningless
>he tells me that he doesn’t mind (you sure about that bud?)
>but he also says that because I’m gay, I have to work harder in school and do better than my siblings
>makes me promise to be valedictorian when I graduate and to become a surgeon in the future
[now, still expects a lot from me, but he’s less serious about the promise]
>it’s the best I can work with
>stuff happens and everyone finally gets to go back to bed
>ride back home is awkward af

Now, I think dad is more accepting. he jokes a lot about my gayness and shit.
Mom though is still probably praying that I’ll end up a good christian son with a wife and five kids.
oh well.

>>6924006
copypasta

>>6924020
y-you too

>>6924020
Definitely is but I don't think there's enough new faggots coming to these threads to post OC all the time.

>>6898883
Hahaha bloody legend mate

>>6923530

Meh. I wanted her to know. I don't talk about it with most people. I live functionally as male and push my gender into the back of my mind.

>be, I dunno, 12 or 13
>on some online page selling asexual pride buttons
>tell mom I want that
>she gets confused and asks me what this means
>I show her the Wiki page
>she doesn't think I could understand my sexuality at that age
>fast forward 5 years
>she is completely fine with me being asexual after she blabbed it to some random woman who told her that she has an ace friend and explained it to her more

I'm now 20 and I still consider myself asexual. I honestly thought it'd probably be a phase but it turned out not to be.

>17
>cute as f twink but only dated girls
>be accused of being gay anyway
>get picked on in gym frequently despite being relatively popular
>near the end of junior year in high school, gym has grown more and more hostile including comments from the p.e. instructor about being a flamer.
>senior who I thought was my friend basically sexually assaults me in front of everyone in the locker room
>break down crying
>no one will let me leave until I say I'm gay
>eventually cave in to get away from them
>I hear them laughing as I hurry out of the locker room to the parking lot
>leave school, don't come back for a week
>school calls my parents
>parents tell me it's okay to be gay and to please just finish the school year
>go back to school
>giant assembly about tolerance and acceptance
>filled with anxiety cause I know it's for me

Fuck those guys

I finally accepted my faggotry though, got a nice masc bf and everything is great

Seriously though, fuck high school

>>6923496
>mom and I eat plain white rice in the living room at 2 AM and watch old X-Files reruns on VHS

Aww.

>>6924016
are you asian?
that sounded like a really east asian dad
>I dont care if you gay
>but you become doctor
hahahahaha

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be me 24year old mtf less than 1 month on hormones
last night I told my older sister i have something important to tell her on Facebook
>sis: "are you ok anon?"
>me: “ahah well maybe not, its complicated”
>sis: “is it a health problem?”
>me: “well it could be considered a health issue hahah”
>sis: “please tell me what it is? Are you ok? Are you happy?”
>me: “just try and guess. Please….”
>sis: “why don’t you just tell me?”
>me: “because I am ashamed…. I am degenerate scum”
>sis: ”are you gay?”
>me: “guess again…”
>sis: “you fuck dogs?”
>me: “nope”
>sis: “is it a sexual orientation thing?”
>me: “not realy..”
>me: ”if you don’t understand then there is no way anyone else in the world will. I am a waste of a meaningless existence, I should kill myself, all I do is use up valuable oxygen, at least if I was dead I could be nutrients for plants.”
>sis: “its ok you don’t need to say it”
>me: “I cant say it I am too scared, please keep guessing”
>sis: “there is only one thing I can think of that people would be ashamed of that I don’t understand”
>me: “*fingers crossed”
>sis: “pedophile”
>me: “nope”
>me: “definitely not, ok maybe they are worst scum than I am.”
>sis: “you are a woman inside a man”
>me: “ahahaa naanaaaananana ththatss imposssibleee bbbbiological sex is just a phenotype.. you cant be oneee inside.. there is only neurological dimorphism.. its just mental illness that’s what it is hahaahahaaahah nno nnon nonononono fuck fuck no dont judge me!. Non no please don’t hate me…”
>sis: “ fuck lol”
>sis: “if you were hear right now I would slap you”
>sis: “don’t make me worry so much, I thought it was something terrible”
>me “you kidding right? I am a failure of a human”
>sis “this explains why you’re the only guy who doesn’t see me as ‘just a woman’ ”
>me “my tranny brain is feeling pretty validated right now”

>>6926577
>That conversation

You are a fucking spaz. You should probably also ask a therapist if you have autism and I'm not joking. You have the communication skills of a 10 year old with the melodramatic emotional perception of a 14 year old.

>>6926577
>>me: “ahahaa naanaaaananana ththatss imposssibleee bbbbiological sex is just a phenotype.. you cant be oneee inside.. there is only neurological dimorphism.. its just mental illness that’s what it is hahaahahaaahah nno nnon nonononono fuck fuck no dont judge me!. Non no please don’t hate me…”
please tell me this isn't a direct quote. or anything close to what you actually said

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>>6926577
look at what we have here

>>6926583
>autism
fuck, maybe its true

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>>6926595
pretty close desu

>>6900218
top tier mum skills

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>>6926632
There is no such thing as "being woman on the inside". There are plenty of masculine women and feminine men and they are not tranny.

You just have a mental illness that makes you wish you were born as a female. Some trannies do not even have feminine personality

>>6903144
whaaaaaat
fucking bait and switch

>tfw this thread is full of cute stories and happy endings and you will never have any of that because you're old, unpassable and probably just agp anyhow
good for you though my senpaitachi

>>6926773
>resentment at the idea of being agp

You're a tranny.

>>6926779
>Have cringe-worthy AGP forced fem fantasies
>Only ever get off to fantasies involving genderbending since puberty
>Was mostly gender conforming as a child
>Hate body but not actually averse to touching genitals
>Can't identify with the societal feminine gender role
I have none of the traits of a transsexual except desparately wanting to be a woman, obsessing over it endlessly and feeling really sad that I'm not one.

>>6926822
Buddy, most people who have forced-fem fantasies and say shit like "haha I guess I'm not trans haha what a shame just kidding haha" are trans. Also, most transwomen with forced-fem fantasies lose their fantasies once they start to transition because it is a coping mechanism for their inability to live out their real identity.

>Can't identify with the societal feminine gender role

What does that even mean to you? You don't say "female" but rather feminine, and you say "societal", like you are 100% aware that you don't require either to be a real woman.

I'm 99% sure you are a tranny in denial.

>>6926822
Do you even know that Blanchard, who came up with the AGP term, didn't even say that it disqualified trans women from being actually trans?

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>>6926577
Not even joking, are you autistic?

>>6926583
Yeah that entire conversation was pretty fucking retarded

>>6926832
>>6926835
Sorry, I guess you're right. I just can't help but flipflop between feeling that I'm trans and feeling like a fraud. Getting involuntarily turned on by the thought of me or someone else transitioning is pretty damn invalidating. I just can't believe in myself when I feel like this on a regular basis.

>be me
>call dad
>get into deep discussion about life n shit
>killme.mp4
>finally get to an ending point in the convo and decide to just up and tell him i'm bi
>moment of brief silence
>dad finally says something along the lines of "i always had a feeling you were into dudes. well, if you're happy, i'm happy."
>let out a sigh of relief and say "well, thanks dad."

we haven't talked about it since that whole thing but our relationship has been fine, so yeah

>>6926406
yes I am. that was heavily implied after all?

>>6927097
the only other hint I saw was that you typed 'famiry'

not uncommon on 4chan

>>6926583
based anon here. Tellin it like it is, doin good work for humanity.

>22
>finish college and get job working for dad
>make enough money to move out and start hrt
>slick hair back and continue to come to work like normal
>pay for hrt out of pocket since im on parents health insurance
>24
>endo puts me on elestren gel that costs like $120 a bottle
>use health insurance
>4 months pass
>reluctant to meet parents outside of work since i dress like a girl then
>dad gets suspicious
>dad asks me whats up
>i tell him ill tell him about it soon
>dad looks upset
>weekend passes
>dad calls me into meeting room at work
>dad: hey there are some charges on the health insurance for estrogen are you trans?
>oshit
>dad: and that's why you dont cut your hair it all makes sense
>me:
>dad: i want you to say it
>me: im transgender
>dad looks upset but has planned for this
>dad: have you had any surgeries?
>me: no
>dad: know i will always accept you and you will always be my son
>dad looks at me i make an awkward face
>dad: or daughter?
>i tell my dad he can treat me the same and think of me as his son cuz idc i wanna make it easier for him
>dad sends me email that he has concerns about regretting this in the future
>reply to his email that i thought about it a lot and ask him for a girl name
>he replies saying ok, gives me my girl name and says never tell your mother

works for me

>>6927520

Lol that's kinda of adorable.

>>6927520
>Never tell your mother
why? also what did he name you?

>>6927707
my mom isnt in a great mental state and he thinks this news would destroy her

Hi im Amy

>>6926832
>Buddy, most people who have forced-fem fantasies and say shit like "haha I guess I'm not trans haha what a shame just kidding haha" are trans.
I sure wish I'd figured this out when I was starting to question at 14

>>6927756
Sorry to hear that.
Cute name.

>>6927783
The person they responded to here. Same haha. The thing is that even now I can only believe this like half of the time. I spend the other half so horrified by the shit I'm aroused by that I go back to repressing. Not sure I'd handle this better at 14.

>be bi-scum
>Find out friend Bi-curious
>Do a lot of stuff
>talk about doing butt stuff
>1pm my house
>everyone is sleeping
>doing but stuff in living room
>next morning
>parents call me upstairs
>mom is upset and stepdad looks lke he wants to fight me
>glace at tv and see they have camera in the living room
>mfw they play the clip of what was going down
>They tell me I have to move out
Good times

>>6927952
How old were you? I'm sorry but this is hilarious.

>>6910919
I'm glad it went well for you. My grandmother (little old catholic lady) was confused, but said she loved me and if this is what it took to go for it. Nowadays she constantly says sweet things to me though she misgenders me constantly, but always tries to catch herself (so i don't mind). She's a little too.... expressive about me being trans in public for my liking and apparently talks about it at church, but I know she means well and I accept that.
... She also whispers behind my mothers back that I have a nicer figure then my mother, and that's a hell of a confidence booster.

https://livebunker.rocks/chat/int

just came out as bi. cool beandz dood

>>6928148
>tfw you have to worry about your mom getting jelly of you

>be 30+
>not a neckbeard who lives in his parents' basement
>never had a girlfriend
tfw everyone knows you're gay but no one will bring up the subject

>>6928427
Everyone assumed I was gay, now I'm out as a tranny. Still bisexual. No partners for over a couple decades.

>27
>never came out to parents
>stopped asking me If I have a girlfriend
>Cyborg so they might just assume I'm a virgin loser
>but they also know I spent a weekend in flagstaff with "a friend"
I operate under the assumption that my parents know should I even bother coming out?

>>6928148
My Nonna speaks Italian so it's a lot easier for her to misgender me (almost every noun and adjective is gendered), I don't really mind though because at least she tries and she still treats me like any of her other granddaughters.

>>6898241
>still closeted
>but kinda out at the same time
>whatever, leave me alone

I never had the chance to come out to my parents before my mom died and my dad left with no contact.
My family doesn't talk to me anymore because of it and that's basically it.
All in all its alright I guess.

>>6927952
Wow.

Spying on your own family is sick. And they wanted to kick YOU out?

>>6929122
Just get it over with.

>>6927952
this is really fucked up.

Just imagine how many times they "caught" you masturbating and stuff.

What kind of sick parent would do that?

>>6926832
I can vouch for the entire first line.

>>6927952
>"How did you know your son was a fag?"
>"Well I put a cam in the living room and I watched back the footage of him when he brought a guy home. The next morning I just played it to him and told him to get the fuck out"
>"Oh wow, that is the best parenting I have seen so far, there is no way the kid will have trust issues or that you too will die without a caring family"