>tfw parents are making me get married

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>parents expecting me to come with "I want to marry this girl" anytime now
>haven't spoken to a non-cashier female in 3 years

>>76016699
Rasheed.

>>76016699
Are you a virgin?

>>76016699
Are you gay?

>>76016840
yes
>>76016845
no

>>76016699
I'll know this feel in two years or so. Share pics of girls if you have any.

>go to funeral
>people sneak up on me to ask if I have a job
>say they'll start looking for a girl for me
I hate villagers

>>76016738
Are you a virgin

>>76016849
So you can get rid of your virginity with wife.
Congrats!

>>76016699

it's a trap man just walk away.

>>76016699
>>76016738
>>76016874
Must suck living in such a household

Is it to your cousin?

>>76016934
No

>>76016921
no choice

>>76016904
i just want to enjoy life

>>76016966
Just beat her if she interfers with your anime.

>>76016966
give us an update if shes hot

>>76016966

> no choice

it was nice knowing you man, being forced to get married sure isn't fun unless you find someone nice. Why parents live in another timeline it's 2017 ffs

>>76016933
Parents don't give a shit. It's the fucking relatives.

>>76016966
Have you met any prospective brides yet?

>>76016699
I hope you will share lewd pics on /b/

>>76017111
two so far

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>>76016738
iktf

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>>76017140
what about having some goddamn respect for women and not threating them like some cattle which gets passed around on a market to see which one wants to buy it? holy shit you are some goddamn ass backwards country someone should artillery level your shithole of a country so the few survivors can start over from scratch and maybe not somehow get stuck being apes somewhere along the way

wtf I love islam now

>>76017140
>Did you drop any spaghetti?

>How fast did they reject you?

>What did you talk about?

>Will you be giving/taking any dowry/bride price?

>>76017338
>Did you drop any spaghetti?
I struggled to talk to them.

>>How fast did they reject you?
First seemed bored by me, other was like she was in her own world in her head.

>>What did you talk about?
Most boring things possible like how they are and stuff. I wanted to die.

>>Will you be giving/taking any dowry/bride price?
Parents said they will pay for anything like that.

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>>76016699
>tfw parents ask me
>"anon, why don't you have a wife and kids, or at least a girlfriend?"
>"anon are you gay?"

THEY DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT ME, THEY THINK IT'S EASY TO FUCKING GET A GIRLFRIEND. JUST BE YOURSELF XDDD
I WILL JUST PUT ON MY GIRLFRIEND PANTS AND I WILL GET EASY ACCESS TO PUSSY. FUCKING IDIOTS OF FAMILY, REEEEE.

>>76017488
>First seemed bored by me, other was like she was in her own world in her head.
Ok now I get why you don't feel like doing it.
But still, Pakistan probably doesn't offer much of a dating scene and a boring wife you can shag and talk to is better than being alone.

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>am Catholic and parents are pushing me into an arranged marriage with a girl even younger than me
>tfw am only 20 and just want to live life
iktf pakibro

>>76016699
Islam'd

>>76017635
But I can't even talk to them much. I run out of topics and my actual interests are too weird for them to talk to me about.

>>76017690
I wish a thousand times I was you

>>76017736
Should've told them that you have a big benis

>>76017769
Grass is always greener

>>76017736
Firstly purge yourself of your weird interests. Also talking to someone for the first time is usually awkward.

How old r u

>>76017769
Why? I want to do something else besides spend my life at work to support some my wife that sits at home shitting out kids (she already told me she wants to have 9+ kids and we can't use contraception).

>>76017836
22

>>76016699
>Cousins and friends are getting married
>Parents becoming worried
>Tell my mom I'm only gonna marry an Italian women so don't push moi

>t. Jamal

>>76017281
Fuck off cunt.
3DPD have one purpose and one purpose only: to take dick.

>oh no I'm forced to get a wife and have kids
I'd rather live in third world with a loyal wife and kids than be an eternal unattractive loner in first world

>>76016699
How old is she? 5? 7?

>>76017836
>change your interests to please a pussy
You are normal faggotry incarnate. Complete human garbage.
Stop coming to 4chan.

>>76016699
>mother thought it was funny and difficult to believe that I was a kissless virgin at 21
>ended up losing that status at 26 by pretty much begging a man to take me

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>>76018035
tsili söps

>>76017281
no pussy getting ass mf ahahahahah

>>76018195
also this
>man in question was a fucking finn, because of course a normal one wouldn't have looked at me

>>76017769
why do you think that's a good thing?? there's no guarantee that she's even attractive

>>76017855
BASED

>>76017856
You're a virgin too right?
You're old enough to stop being a little bitch, bite the bullet and marry, I doubt you will have many chances in your life for this.

>>76018035
I hope you're a woman. If you're not, don't answer.

> There are people itt who unironically want the boring family man lifestyle
Talk about being low test

>>76016699
It's time, m8. Days of boyhood is over.
Be a man and take the responsibility.

>>76016699
Are you a girl? Did your parents sell you to a 40 year old man for a goat?

>>76016699
Yuo are men now

>>76016699
Is your cousin at least cute?

>>76017736
What do girls in Pakistan like to do for fun? I imagine they are probably not as degenerate as here.

>>76018779
of course I am, what kind of gay man lives up to 21 as a kissless virgin? they're full of stds by that age

>>76018782
Not at 22, but OP doesn't seem to understand his situation. He's an unattractive virgin autist in a country of 90 million sexually frustrated men.
Had not been for his parents, he would die a virgin. But there it is, an opportunity for him to find a mate and make little autistic children that spew out stupid memes and wonder why everyone is laughing at them.
And he passes on the opportunity because he thinks he can do better with his life. Personally I doubt it, but whatever.

>>76017121
Based Pajeet

>>76018030
Interest of which hes ashamed to known by the public.

>>76017488
First, at 22 you're too young for marriage. No offense, but your parents are fucking dense.

Second, don't start with some stupid shit like "kaise ho aap?". Crack some joke about being forced to marry, or just straight up say you don't know what you're supposed to talk about in a humourous way. Humour is key.

Tell them how you are as a person, what your siblings, friends think of you, etc. Don't ask stupid questions like 'do you like traveling and films?'

Show confidence, start gymming, take care of personal hygiene.

Your single goal in an arranged meet up is to put the girl at ease.

>>76019023
Fags always got it easy in western cunts. Are you ugly or just an autist? I find it hard to imagine there isn't at least a few men willing to screw basically anyone. Maybe you just never socialize or leave the house.

>>76016699
good for you Ali. wish you all the best. Wabilahitaufikwalhidayah wassalamualaikum warohmatulohiwabarukatuh

>>76019235
mega autistic
in any case, i wish I had OP's luck and my parents had arranged for someone to marry me instead of having had my first time in a degenerate way and having never had any hope to get an actual husband

>>76016699

Atleast you won't be virgin anymore. My parents will do the same with me.

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>Be Bangladeshi
>One of my cousin married a Pakistani girl
>Entire family gets pissed and black lists him
>Another cousin married an Indian girl
>family praises him

Pakistan not even once.

>>76018699
yes, it is not like I get a choice

>>76019165
my parents were married and had 5 children by my age so I think they just think its weird not to

>>76019606
Post pic

>>76019707
Are you from a shitty place like Karachi? What do you do, you must be barely out of college? Are you rich?

I'm 24 and I've just landed a job. Wouldn't dream of marriage until I was like 27-28

>>76019606
Sorry bout that Chileanon. Hipe things work out for you. Just have to keep ob trying. Is there much of a bar scene around there? You could try to make a few friends with booze making you chill out. Thats how I did it. Make a few friends like that and start hanging out with them. You'll get introduced to a lot more people. It helped to build my confidence and learn some social skills.

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>>76019726
that wouldn't help, I already did last year and it only caused a bunch of shit at /mämmi/ and /lat/, including retarded memes like pic related

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>>76019897

>>76019830
I'm from khuzdar.

>What do you do
Training for a job.

>Are you rich?
Middle class.

>be gülenist
>even in america there aren't a lot of gülenists
>we all marry within the community
>parents arrange-married me to a qt normie, and she's like 6'0" too which is definitely my "thing"

T-thanks based FETÖ

>>76019897
Now I'm even more curious
>>76019971
You already met two prospects, what are they like? Did they ask them of their hobbies?

>>76019971
Middle class people don't have 5 kids brah. Is that the same for your relatives as well?

What about your siblings, are they married and shit? How did it go for them

Also, post your own pic. Let us tell you what you can do or if you should give up hope.

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>be kissless virgin and kinda gay
>only child so I must continue my father's lineage
>parents want me to get a qt white gf anything else and they'll be disappointed in me
I wish arrange marriages were a thing here desu

>>76019971
I know this sounds kind of dumb, but have you considered going to a psycologist or some type of help group to get better at talking to people?

>>76020152
are you not white?

>>76020156
He's shy because he's never talked to women. Its nothing special or unique. I nearly shat myself when a girl said she wanted to be my gf.

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>>76020152
THIS
Why must our families torment us for things that are beyond our reach??????

>>76020254
Tell your family to gtfo of finland, you religious lunatics

>>76020138
>Is that the same for your relatives as well?
For some, but it is more recent in the generations, my grandparents only had a few children. It is like everyone after them wanted lots.

>What about your siblings, are they married and shit?
Two of my sisters got married off in this way. My brothers who are married just met girls who they wanted to marry.

>>76020254
maybe because they care about you well being?

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>>76020215
I am white, it's just my parents absolutely hate race mixing and they believe I'm super handsome and will have to score a qt white wife or I'll be letting the family down. I just want to snuggle up with a cute guy and watch anime.

>>76020317
Who said anything about religion? I'm the only child and both parents don't understand my problems with women. The only time I even think about them is when they bring it up (which is almost everyday...)
>>76020373
I have a different view of my well being.

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>>76020092
come to the closest embassy and turn yourself in
this is your last warning

>>76020449
well, it sucks then
wish I was better at dealing with permaloneliness

>>76020382
You ever thought about coming out to your parents?

>>76020367
So autism doesn't run in the family. You just need to be less shy and use humour. Just keep this in mind, don't ask a question you don't care about the answer to.

Also, maybe try talking to your parents that you're still too young?

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>>76020129

>>76019897
what does this pic even mean? are you fat?

>>76020556
>qt

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>>76020542
I can't. It would disappoint my father so much. I love my parents and giving them grandchildren is the least I could do.
M-Maybe I'll one day find a girl I can relate too. I'm attracted to women, I just think they're awful to be around. It's why I prefer men.

>>76020556
you didn't have to do that you kusipää
and yeah, 'murilad, I know I was fat as fuck there
as soon as I arrived in finland I gained like 10 kgs (gladly I lost them the month after coming back)
'tismus stays whether I'm fat or not anyway

>>76020688
You traveled to Finland just to lose your virginity? You're quite dedicated

>>76020789
>You're quite dedicated
Autists usually are

>>76020789
nah, studies
Finland only made me fall deeper into depression and alcoholism, which made me take more risky choices

>>76020449
>>76020674
How prevalent is virginity and single status among men in the West? Is there like an entire demographic of men who can't find women and live out their lives single?

Donno about you guys, but that's hella scary.

At least I know I'll get a girl in an arranged gig if I can't find one on my own.

>>76020842
Are you like a certified autist because you look alright.

>>76020940
>like a certified autist
yeah, literally so and not in 'lol I get nervous talking to strangers what an autist'
also social phobia and face blindness (can't recognize faces)

>>76020940
>Is there like an entire demographic of men who can't find women and live out their lives single?
This entire site.

>>76021006
That's just a niche of the overall internet. A few thousand at max from all over the world are the fat neet virgin archetype imo

>>76017769
This me too

>>76017942
Germany telling it like it is

>mfw got lucky and was born in a family who doesnt give a fuck about marriages my 27 years old male cousin isnt married .My fucking 29 and 31 female cousins are still not married .

>>76018840
Azerbaijan telling it like it is

>>76021248
Why would you not want to get married?

>>76021248
That would have been cool had they been able to be in relationships. This just means they'll die alone and as virgins

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>>76021354
>women drain your money
>you get bored from her and she will also get bored from your after 2 years max
>she will be a source of stress for you
>children are annoying and cost money
No one can refute this

>>76021391
this, 4channers defend the single men lifestyle because 'fuck bitches get money', but most of them end up not getting sex or money.

>>76021391
>That would have been cool had they been able to be in relationships.
but they were/are. I am the only beta dude in the family

>>76020688
I remember seeing that picture being flooded on /lat/ it's good to know the story behind it. I think you're cute, too bad you lost your vCard on a degenerate way. You should have plenty of options to get married though don't lose hope.

>>76021532
actually I'm still in a relationship with that finn, but I know I'll always carry the weight of having started things in such a disgusting way
also the relationship is in no way easy (I care about him but he acts like a 15 years old most of the time), but I care about him and hope things get better
thanks, ameribro

>>76021522
Wait. Are you saying that your cousins not only have bfs/gfs, it's also acceptable for them to have premarital sex? Is that normal in your country?

>>76016699
i very much enjoy these shitposts of yours
very nice, keep it up

>>76021621
oh shit didnt read the virgin part . i kinda doubt they had sex who knows tho . premarital sex is common here but its still look down on .I remember in high school there was this 17 years old slut who got fucked by her bf so her father forced her to be his fiancee

>>76021615
And he lives in Chile or you live in funland and are just visiting Chile? How are the dynamics?

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>29
>everyone asking if I'm gonna marry soon

I'm not a virgin or at all bad looking or autismo, but the sad truth is most women are trash. I can't see myself having a serious relationship, let alone starting a family with them. I want a nice big family, but I'm slowly realizing that meeting a good woman is close to impossible.

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>tfw your high school had a child care wing since so many chads would fug freshmen chicks without marriage
Who here /grewupinspiritualwasteland/?

>>76021843
I think we all are

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>>76020940
>How prevalent is virginity and single status among men in the West?
I'm 21 and I'm pretty sure I only know one other virgin.

>>76021731
He told me he was going to visit Chile but it was bullshit because he had no money.
I wanted to visit Finland again but while I had money, health problems made me stay there. Now neither of us have time, so maybe I'll visit him once I finish school later this year because I left my jobs already and hopefully I'll be healthy.
So yeah, shitty LDR for now. He hates cams.
It'd be easier for me to work and pay for him here but he insists me to move to Finland where neither of us has job prospects, but at least I have education. I doubt I'll have any chances working in astronomy there but I'd rather clean toilets than stay alone.

>>76017769
This, provided the girl's somewhat attractive.

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>>76021730
>>76021730
>marrying non-virgins

>>76022775
>he hates cams
hm that was thrown out there a bit randomly.. does it mean you don't see him on skype/w.e? Is that something important on a long distance relationship?

Yeah it sounds like a difficult situation but at least there's hope and will to make it work out. He should really go visit to see if he likes it or not, he should also get it together. It'd be really cool if you guys ended up married femanon. Although do tell him to sort himself out.

Lucky you

>>76020940
>Is there like an entire demographic of men who can't find women and live out their lives single?
Yes

It's pretty much never talked about IRL for whatever reason, and society acts as though it's only a tiny irrelevant niche like 4chan, but I went to an engineering school, and there are plenty of guys who are perfectly normal (good looking, smart, go to the gym, take care of themselves, follow sports, have plenty of friends, etc.) and yet were permanently single throughout all of university, or at most maybe they got laid a couple of times over those few years, but are still single. And obviously not by choice.

>Donno about you guys, but that's hella scary.
Yeah, it's shit but you just become jaded eventually and then promptly look forward to your death.

>>76023250
>Women who have more non-marital sexual partners are more likely to be infected with STDs
Do you really need to have a study done to find that out? It's common sense

>>76023375
When you like in a time where boys can be a girl with a penis, then yes we need actual scientific studies with hard facts or else people are gonna forget the truth

>>76017978
I'm 5'7.

>>76016699
You're a grown man. No one can legally force you to do anything.

>>76019696
41 years and they're still pissed? Damn.

>>76020674
>I love my parents and giving them grandchildren is the least I could do.
Do you not see what's wrong with this justification? Do you not see how fucked up bringing a person into this world only to please your parents?

>>76023260
Yeah, we don't Skype and texting him is so much worse than actually talking to him, he seems much more boring and superficial. We don't really have any interest in common so it's awkward too.
I don't think he gives a fuck about knowing how Chile is (he does refer to it as a shithole and often tells me that I have a third world mindset by insisting that one should earn one's living) i guess I should just learn to deal with it. I am kind of patriotic but I did feel way more comfortable living in Finland anyway.
Thanks for your wishes, I hope I can start a family with him someday

>>76016699
Ayyy at least you'll end up with somebody. Not saying your situation is ideal but an increasing number of westerners end up all by themselves with no kids because of liberal values such as hedonism (hook up culture) and feminism (women supposedly should have carreers)

>>76020940
Yes. At least among men in their twenties. As the leaf said, a lot of those single guys aren't necessarily that bad and some get laid from time to time if they're in college.

After 25 a lot of women still will look for somebody to settle down with and then those guys who never really got some during their college days but have their life under control (job, not living with their parents, money, reasonably fit and okay looking) will have to do with those carreer women that are kinda used up from all the alcohol and cocks they had during their college days

The 80/20 rule is not a meme but at least - like I said - it gets more equal once women are nearing 30 and are still single. Unfortunately though the media are heavily pushing the idea that a single, 'independent', childless woman that enjoys life (lmao) is not a bad thing

I guess women's biological clock is still stronger than all the propaganda

>>76024253
80/20 is bullshit from fucking OkCupid, can you really extrapolate dating sites' data to real life that easily?
"Used up women who used to take 10 cocks weekly" are a literal meme and might only be true in liberal art colleges and you're supposed to avoid them anyway. My female acquaintances are all quite conservative (no hookups, only long term relationships). They're all stem girls though.

I agree with the last part about the shitty propaganda though, dunno what's the point in lying to people to give them shitty short term happiness and give up anything meaningful in long term

>>76024532
By used up women I didn't mean 10 cocks a week. 10 cocks in their lifetime is already enough to conclude that their used up. Who wants to buy a used product? And don't underestimate the alcohol thing. It really breaks down the physique of a person. After 25 you can really see which women abused alcohol and which ones didn't. (I might add that we - like many other North Western European countries - have a very strong drinking culture)

About the 80/20 rule: maybe it's statistically not true but in the West of today it certainly is true that a relatively small number of guys get a lot of chicks, while a large number only casually get with women (either a long lasting relationship or some occassional drunk casual sex along their way) and another relatively small number just doesn't get any game at all

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>parents think I'll find a gf after college and I don't have one now because I'm focusing on school
>i'm actually an incel closeted fag

>>76025273
How would a person who had 10 sexual partners be more used up than someone with one partner who fucked her a lot more and did much more degenerate stuff?
But yeah, 10 partners in one lifetime does seem like a lot to me too and most of my acquaintances have had less than 5 anyway.
I'm also quite opposed to use of drugs, cigarettes and alcohol, I only went full alcoholic for about half a year and it was really because my life was absolute shit.
My boyfriend seemed to have abused them all for 20 years and it truly shows. Hedonism and that whole short term thinking only really suck
I don't get how is all that so socially accepted

>>76025575
Adultery is degenerate altogether. Anyone who doesn't wait till marriage(males included) should be turned into slaves and sent to labor camps. Or atleast sterilized so they can't have kids.

>>76016997
Underrated reply

>>76025575
>How would a person who had 10 sexual partners be more used up than someone with one partner who fucked her a lot more and did much more degenerate stuff?

We're getting down to the essence of the moral imperative: people should marry virgin. It may not be as pleasant and adventurous but in the long term in probably benefits society much more.

Regarding the alcohol thing I just think it is not appropriate at all for women to be drunk. I have no problems with women enjoying a glass of wine or even a cocktail from time to time but the binge drinking or beer drinking makes them act like men

It's normal for young guys to drink heavily when they meet but I definetely think guys shouldn't drink when they're alone and naturally, they should also slow it down once they leave college. I drank pretty heavily between the ages of 18 and 21 but gradually quit doing that

>>76025273
Talking about people as products and dating as 'gay' is degenerate as fuck too.
Don't you think that women are afraid of getting into relationship when men seeing us like that is so common?
Giving up everything seems like the most realistic path. Waiting, remaining pure and trying to find someone to have a proper family seems pointless if you're going to miss out hedonistic pleasures AND men will consider you something they're entitled to and treat you likewise.
Feminism is shit but at least it has the obvious appeal that you don't depend on the luck of getting chosen by a good man who will actually value you. At least you can escape if he treats you like shit and society won't treat you as 'fallen'

>>76016699
It is not your cousin, right?

>>76025662
Really that would be ideal, if people weren't so shit

>>76025855
Guys drinking heavily is degenerate as fuck and shouldn't be considered socially acceptable, specially with the crap choices they make when drunk.
I agree of the rest too, but too bad we don't live in a world were that works

>>76025883
No it isn't. Women need guidance from men, who on their turn need to get something in return too.

The thing you're implying about feminism doesn't apply for the West though. Muslims that abuse their wives will get away with it and women that complain or run away will be shunned by society but that never really was the case in the West. Western women were never treated like slaves or disposable trash

>>76023707
No offense lady, but you're in love with a loser

>>76026114
Would argue against that using my family's history, but it's irrelevant, either way I agree that feminism isn't the answer.
>>76026165
Perhaps, but if I couldn't get anyone else I'm surely a loser too. He treats me well and we're happy when we're together and that's more than I hoped for

>/r9k/ posting

>>>/r9k/

>>76025883
Truly one of us. I've always been hostile against women on 4chan but not you.

>>76025883
Meant 'game', not gay, although it kinda applies too

>>76026046
>Pakistan
What do you think?

>>76017690
it has absolutely nothing to do with catholicism and everything to do with you being a mexican
brown people are naturally drawn to arranged marriages since they can't run a society for shit, don't blame the catholic church

My cousin is pretty hot, too bad we dont have arranged marriages anymore

>>76027916
What do you mean? Arranged marriages were the norm for even most of Europe till the late 1800s. It wasn't entirely religion, but it was pretty connected to religion too. A bunch of Latin Catholic saints were planned to take part in arranged marriages like ST. Augustine, although a lot of them didn't go through with it because life (or God in this case I guess).