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How do I move on from this dude

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Hi 4chan. Im a 20 year old male who is in love with his male best friend who's 23.


A year and a half ago I moved to study at the university and immediately made best friends with this dude. About 9-10 months later, I realised I am in love with him and this is the first time I've fallen for a man.

We spend A LOT of time together studying, gym three times a week, watching TV or hanging out (also doing a fair amount of weed, MDMA, mushrooms and LSD).
Overall, I have never had a psychological relationship like this one, and we have developed an almost immediate understanding of each other.

That being said, Im quite sure he knows that I love him more than just a best friend.
I can tell with certainty that he has a lot of love for me, as he has developed a few situations which were eerily romantic (especially when stoned), but I can't say with 100% (maybe 70%) that it's the same way.

Months ago, before this escalated to what it is, he moved in with his girlfriend of 4 years and they have a very healthy and stable relationship, and I can genuinely say Im happy for them.

I also know her quite well, and I honestly think their relationship is based on an agreement that none of them want to be alone. They do love each other, but I consider it a somewhat shallow relationship, although that doesn't matter now.

The problem here is: I can't really move on. I don't want to talk openly about this to him because, despite it being quite obvious to all of us, it would definitely damage our relationship and I dont want to do that.
This is making dating other people quite difficult because I simply dont have interest in others, male or female.

Im quite good-looking and confident, and could easily start dating 9/10s because I've had them contact me first, but I just don't care.

How can I move on from him?
Should I attempt to stay away? pic unrelated
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excellent thread
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>>>/lgbt/
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this is thread for international discussion not your faggot dilemmas
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Yeah wrong tab, wasnt meant for int.
You are all probably faggots too, though
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>>73947212
This and it's not comedic irony, OP. Go talk to the other faggots about how they coped with their first unrequited crush.
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>>73947161
NetherGAY
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you should date 9/10
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>>>/adv/

You'll only find memes and shitposting on /int/.
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>>73947161
Good thread you selfish asshole
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Yeah, corrected my mistake and posted on adv.
I'll keep browsing int for tonight and continue debating which white males are the most alpha and why with you all.

I cant delete it because I browse 4chan incognito.
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>>73947161
Yeah wrong thread, but good luck with that. You seem cool
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OP show me how 10 girl looks for you
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>>73947161
Homosexuals are mentally ill and should be eradicated. Save the world some time and money and kill yourself desu
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9AB6WJMla4
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>>73947831
Good post
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>>73947339
This 2bh. There are a lot of gays there but there they are just beta trap lovers.
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>>73947722
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>>73947919
XD ok
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>>73948012
>XD ok

Provide a better real-life example, of a girl you know, with a picture you found on her Facebook (like I did).
Do not use porn stars, fashion models or other professional shots, nor anime or whatever.

Provide a real life 10 you meet on the street which genuinely excites you.
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>>73948191
10s dont exist
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>>73948237
but that girl is no way in hell above 7
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>>73947919
This is below average to me like a 4 or 3, see sluts like this every day on the train

>pic related is definitely 8+
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>>73948237
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>>73948348
A 5-6 desu, the number is based solely on how cute their face is.
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>>73948348
pfff, 99% chance she has no ass
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>>73948348
>10
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>>73948348
>a camwhore
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>>73948298
Fucking weeabo.

>>73948237
>>73948284
>>73948298

Alright guys, I guess those are your preferences.

>I see sluts like this on train every day
>10s dont exist
I see 10s on train every day too, and I seriously don't understand this "rarity" you talk about with 10s. IMO physical 10s aren't too difficult to find.

And if they are interesting to talk to, then I'd especially have sex with them.

DESU feels like you are too selective and in reality want to date an anime character or whatever. Get real.
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>>73947161
Good luck, anon.
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>>73948437
You're a fat girl irl, and stupid
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Not only did this thread explode where I didnt want it to explode, it's also a typical 4chan discussion about boobs now.

>>73948653
>>73947854
>>73947718
Thanks senpais.
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>>73948579
you cant statistically see 10 everyday on train, what the fuck,objective 10 doesnt exist, you give 10 to the girl based on your preferences, for example this girl i took from facebook i would rate 8, maybe 10 for someone, not for me (i hate blue eyes)
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>>73948686
No, butterfaces don't really count as anything above a 2. Being QT means you can't be fat or else your face will look ugly
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>>73947161
easy. go to hardware store. buy about 2 meter rope.then, tie a loop. hang the rope high enough, if possible more than your height and length of the rope combine.place chair and the rope and stand on the chair and put your head inside loop then kick the chair. i hope this solve your problem
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>>73947161
Faggot
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