Sex Toy Advice

>>1564826
>>886269
>/hm/ is for sharing porn.

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>>1564839
Thus why I am ALSO sharing porn.

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>>1564839
Also if you read >>886269 again you will see that >>>/adv/ is WORK SAFE as is >>>/lgbt/ As my request for advice pertains to homosexual sex (not a worksafe topic) this board is the closest.

Where can i see the incesored pics?

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>>1564867
Well that's the kind of shitty thing. In all of these "censored" pictures the guys are wearing clothes. but "censoring" them makes them appear nude. Here is the most recent one I posted for instance.

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>>1564867
If there are any in particular you want to see the originals for let me know and I'll post 'em

Blue and yellow thank you so much

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>>1564876
There you go!

>>1564860
You can discuss anal sex on /lgbt/.

>>1564826
I would have asked soc or gone on fetlife but that's why you asked you didn't know.

>being a top I don't know about how to prepare bottoms
You should start knowing all about sex toys if you really want to attract a bottom. If you don't then they have to do all the work, which is to say it's like a hookup.

I would get a vibrating butt plug, the fact that it stays in there without any assistance is a turn on for me, and you might even notice the fact that your rectum being a sphincter, no matter how stretchy, wants to stay closed, so the plug will be actually quite hard to fall out, once you move on.

Make him do things with the buttplug in, make it slutty, or just add some level of personality to keep his mind turned on thinking about pleasure. Then he can start to tell if he likes more rectum play or if his body likes more prostate play. You might even find his spot with just a buttplug.

>>1564899
>being a top I don't know about how to prepare bottoms
That's not what I said, I know how to prep bottoms with fingers and foreplay (I ate him out for quite a while before even penetrating him) but I should have stipulated that my current boyfriend is unusually resistant to loosening up and I thought toys might help beyond what my fingers and mouth can do.

>>1564899
Anyway thanks for the advice but I think I'll take this to >>>/lgbt/

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>>1564873
oh, that guy. he's got a cute dick.

>>1564873
That shadow

OP, get your bf to play with his own ass using his fingers, he'll know what feels best for him. Either alone or with you watching and touching him, whatever he's most comfortable with. Take it slow and get him used to anal play to start, should help him relax and enjoy it.

>>1564826
wheres the uncensored pic of this guy?

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>>1564955

Take a small sex toy that blow up inside !

>>1564826
I would recommend getting him a prostate massager (one with a remote for extra fun) and lube, and let him play with it in his own time. Anal play takes a lot of preparation, and the massager can help him get accustomed, and slowly help with the tightness. Its best to start small and work up, and when the time comes to play with him, take your time, and don't rush it or he may tense up.

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>>1565094
I knew I would get better advice on /hm/ than /lgbt/

>>1564826
Ben??

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>>1565193
Jerry??

>>1564826
I'm going to tell you this from my own experience. I suffer from the same problems as him. Not only that, but I'm insecure af. Even if I'm with my boyfriend or some dick buddy with whom I have intimacy. I don't think to start with a toy is a good idea, because he can't even take fingers. Maybe buying some type of special lotion that can relax muscles and enhance blood circulation. My best sexual encounters involved these lotions. And if you want to really get him relaxed, get busy down there. You'll have to spend most of the time kissing him, licking his butthole and massaging him to get him relaxed and to trust you. I feel like trust and relaxation can help a lot. Sometimes we're afraid to mess things up, to get hurt or something else. We need to feel completely safe and free, so communication and body language/touching helps also. Sometimes, even if you don't want to, you'll have to go a little bit romantic to help things. I don't know if that's his case, but it's my example and maybe it can serve for something. Good luck!

>>1565201
Yeah I'm pretty empathetic by nature and I already kind of suspected he was tense for this reason. I started foreplay one time by giving him a full body massage and then rimmed him for a while and he was still tense.

>>1565201
But yeah I like that idea of special lotion. Any suggestions on a particular brand/type?

>>1565205
How about shock balls? They usually have a fair amout of lube and they explode inside the rectum after it's inserted... Some cause relaxation due to the heat. They helped from me. I don't know common it is in the US, but maybe you can find them online. I've purchased them as "Brazilian balls".

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>>1565206
Like I said above (I commented without seeing your question XD), Brazilian balls are really good. In the UK you can purchase them in Amazon, I believe in the US it works just fine. Make sure to read instructions, because the thickness of the sphere may vary according to the manufacturer. These balls are filled with lube of different flavours, viscosity/textures and sensations, and they must be inserted before intercourse. Some people do it with their penises, but since your bf is very tight, have him do it himself with his finger, after he played with it for a while (don't kiss him or do anything during it, he might feel more nervous when "too much is happening" and he might find it hard to focus). After that, let him feel the lube inside his rectum and he might feel more relaxed. Psychological effect is more important than physiological, because the feeling that he's completely lubed inside might cause him to be more confident. Make sure to read comments, though. Some balls have more lube than others, and if there's too much there may be some leak (a little amount of leak is just fine to rub around the anus and sphincter, as well as the tip of your penis).

>>1565209
Sauce?

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>>1565221
Not a clue but have some more porn

I love this talk of anal play for tense newbees, it gets me so hard.

>>1565230
That looks like fun, know where that's from?

>>1565351
where?

If he can't even take a finger it isn't physiological, he no doubt has BMs larger than that without discomfort. He's not comfortable for some reason. When I started training myself to take larger and larger toys it took starting small and working up. Eventually the toys that I thought I'd never be able to take became the ones I used to 'warm up' with. Training the anus and sphincter is training a muscle. Wait too long between sessions and you can lose progress towards your goal. He has to want it, though. Anal penetration just isn't everyone's cup of tea.

>>1564826
Sounds like your boyfriend is a top too.
Nothing much you can do except fuck other people or jerk off together.

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>>1565335
Don't have that original unfortunately
>>1565351
I don't sadly
>>1565389
HA! Then why is he submissive?

>>1565209
http://queerdiary.com/videos/teen-guy-using-dildo-and-fleshlight-at-the-same-time/

More bubbles? that shit makes my dick diamonds

>>1570402
This shit is called bubbling, you newfag

>>1564826
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>>1564873
can you post the original of >>1564828 ?

thanks

>>1564851
Source?

>>1564832
Can I get the unedited picture

who's the guy on the thumbnail?

1) Lots of lube. Specifically water based gel lube. Wicked Jelle is one, Slick Dick's Better Than Spit, Sliquid Sassy if you or him have allergies/are sensitive and Gun Oil water based are all ones I'd recommend for quality and price.

2) Plugs are great to train for girth and many companies make training kits. Blush has one, Curve has Booty Boot Camp, Adam and Eve, and etc. Just Google "anal plug trainer kit" and you can probably find one. I'd suggest to try and find some affordable silicone ones because they won't retain odor or lose color if they are medical grade.

3) rimming and everything is cool but without lube spit may or may not dry the skin out more than moisturize it. Sometimes people need stimulation on the perinium, or just external stimulation of the butthole. One super lame-named,but surprisingly effective, move I found is "ringing the backdoor" and basically you just take your pinky, well lubed and prod gently against the anus but not necessarily penetrate it. Take that as you will I just found it works for some bottoms I've been with and for myself.

4)Not everyone bottoms for the same types of stimulation. Some like girth and the stimulation of those muscles contracting. Some like prostate stimulation which generally requires either some curve to the dick or toy in question. And some enjoy fullness which is generally achieved through length/girth. So take time, chit chat while you frick frack and figure out what makes him go nuts.

I guess that's the best advice I have.
Tl;DR Lube + Finger + ??? = Profit

>>1564826
Get him an aneros. It will teach him to flex his muscles and make the most out of having something in his ass. Ever since I figured out how to use mine I've been enjoying bottoming so much more. I got fucked last night and the ability to squeeze when your top is going slow or just open up completely when he's railing you makes sex absolutely amazing.

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>>1565094
>Tfw no dom top bf to tease me with a remote control vibrating dildo.

>>1564872
It's situ because the models never agreed to be viewed in that sexual a context, dick

>>1565230
Sauce ?

Question: What's the best way for a bottom to prepare himself? Might be giving it a try soon and want to know how not to get shit on his dick

>>1575394
Take some fiber supplements so your stool is less messy. Take a shower before you meet up with your dude, and clean thoroughly. If you want to be really over-the-top about it, you can use an enema, but you have to make sure you don't overdo it.

Ultimately, there is no way to be 100% certain. He is fucking your asshole, after all.

>>1564860
who is this treasure?

>>1565249
who is he?