>tfw just turned 23

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>tfw 28

>>42856141
>tfw turning 30 in a couple months

>tfw 32 2 months ago, no gf live in parents basement
end it already

>>42856141

Hows your life going?
I am 23 and currently struggeling a bit in Uni, but have a cute GF who loves me and a few really good friends.
Life is good when I dont make it hard myself.

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>24 years old
>STEM Degree
>Have had sex multiple times
>handsome
>/fit/
>Have healthy social life and vidya life
>Good job
[spoiler]>5ft 11
>Non white (Moroccan)[/spoiler]

I WAS SO FUCKING CLOSE LADS

>>42856152
Me too. Feels bad man I'm going back to school since I'm an utter failure and dropped out when I was 22.

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>>42856141
>nobody likes you when you're 23

>>42856160
Hey man, its never too late to start something new.

>>42856156

OP here

>Got a computer science BSc (bachelor of science degree)
>Not a virgin
>Relatively /fit/
>No GF (not really after one)

I aimed to take a few months off after getting my BSc (at the age of 22) and a few months turned into a year. Shit went by way to quickly. Feels bad man

>under the age of 30
>worrying about age

Literal children. You'll be surprised at how much shit happens to you up until you turn 30 (and then 40 etc etc). 20s is still young as fuck faggots , never mind early 20s

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>>42856141

>24

>no gainful employment with a future, shitty resume
>no savings
>no friends
>no happiness
>no gf
>live with parents
>stalling on gains
>religiously confused
>spending way too much time on the computer

Just

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>>42856141
Happy birthday bro. Your life is long, don't worry, you're still young!

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>>42856157

Do you have a qt Morrocan GF anon?

>>42856176
Doing better than me. I dicked around in different paths for two years.
Now I found something but I feel bad about the time I lost.
Meh its not lost time when you learn something I guess

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>tfw turning 20 in 6 months

REALLY hope the better part of my life is in front of me.
Depression's a bitch

>>42856157

I'm literally the exact same age as you but with the exact opposite stats and 5ft7.

You should be more grateful you fuck

>almost 26
>10k student loans
>no job (applying to military)
>no savings
>no friends
a-at least i've graduated and done some travelling r-right?

>>42856194

>time I lost
>23

Nigger, if you're already at Uni by the age of 23 you could have a degree by 25/26. That's perfectly fine. Don't worry about it

>>42856200
>no job (applying to military)
Mah man, what role you doing fuqqboi?

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>>42856198

At least you're white

>>42856207
air traffic controller :3

>>42856176

>has a BSc at the age of 23

Ok, so you took a year off to do shit you enjoyed as a reward. Now's the time to get back on the grind while you're still young

>tfw twenty-five and touchless

>all of these under 25 year olds who seem to have their shit together and are in work/Uni
>they think they're on a """"bad track"""""

Fuck you guys. Are there any outright degenerate wasters here like me so that I can take solace in knowing that i'm not alone?

>tfw 28
>no job
>no qualifications
>no GF
>5ft8

a-a-at least i'm not a virgin......

>>42856217

>Brown (natty tan)
>Handsome
>5ft11

I'll trade you that for this pasty ass skin and 5ft7 frame that i've got, senpai

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>that guy that has no hobbies aside from going to the gym

>that guy that has nothing to say because he does nothing but go through the monotonous motions of life

>that guy that defines himself by going to the gym to give himself some sort of spot to fit in life because he never really belonged anywhere

>that guy that feels like he has to make up for his negative attributes with a good body

>that guy that has to ask for a spot from strangers because he has no friends

>that guy that's in his mid 20s or over and doesn't have a wife, kids, gainful employment and lives with his parents and thinks going to the gym is helping to fix his life

>that guy that hates himself so much he can't even imagine being in a relationship or feeling love because he knows he doesn't deserve anyone worth having

>that guy that was skinny, weak and ignored in high school and never really got to experience anything normal teenagers do like parties, young love, hanging out with a group of friends, etc

>that same guy who after high school started going to the gym to feel better about himself only to realize after completing several goals that he is more alone than ever before and all along the problem wasn't his appearance, but rather himself to the core

>that guy that wonders if he will ever have any of things his father treasured most or if he will be one gigantic failure

>>42856188
>names all his problems

Well now you know what to do, fix them.

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>>42856221
good luck anon! I'm doing ammo tech myself haven't started yet but you better believe that shit is already up on my tinder

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>>42856287

>25 tomorrow
>still slaying teen pussy

life is great desu

>>42856141
it's ogre, time to an hero

>>42856141
If you aren't a Greek god by 23 just give up. Your test has peaked and you will never make it.
>source 23 year old dyel

>>42856298
>elf haven't started yet but you better believe that shit is already up on my tinder

>this FUTURE air force queer is already attempting to capitalize on military service

kill yourself

>>42856184
I'm over 30 and it doesn't matter what age you are. If you have not done the basic things for your age, tfw just creeps up on you. Also, it depends on what expectations you have for yourself. For a lot of kids these days, they are just too high or unrealistic.

>>42856287
>that guy who sure whines a lot

>>42856157
Honestly what's the problem in being moroccan if you actually put effort on being better?
I'm not white either, I'm latino but I don't really care.
Maybe it's because I'm not american, I dunno.

>>42856157
>tfw Italian
So close to being white

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>>42856770

>>42856188
>religiously confused
Don't be anon. It's all for nothing and you're alone.

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hmmm let's see:
>>42856154
you should kill yourself
>>42856156
you should do what you're doing, you probably have a good enough personality and intuition, understand yourself to a degree etc.
>>42856157
kill yourself
>>42856176
kys
>>42856184
kill your actual self
>>42856188
>religiously confused
dude, unironically put your faith in what you do in this world or kill yourself
fuck me, this thread is exhausting.

Anyways,
>6'3" 228lbs 16% bf
>fell like i should be big but look small
>also want to kill myself

lol

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>just turned 30
>still no gf ever

>>42856141
Im 36... Im fine with it, stop being a pussy
Being 23 sucked, you dont even know how retarded you are at that age

25 since yesterday, made it the whole 25 years with 0 (zero) friends and no female contact through out my life what so ever

>23 years old
>dropped out of uni this year
>starting factory job
>got a gf this year
>stopped smoking
>started lifting serious
2017 is a mixed bad

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>>42856990
oh man...

dude it's alright, fuckong just hang in there, she'll come eventually

I turn 29 in a bit over two weeks.

>still haven't made it.

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>>42856141
>tfw 25 and hair is thinning
Well, at least I'm 6'4 and can bench 240 for reps. Also going for 2nd bachelors degree.

>>42856141
Just turned 19
I start uni next year (civil)
Hopefully i can get my act together and study.

>>42857026
>2nd bachelors degree
Why on earth would you do this?

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>>42857040
Why not? Always wanted 2nd degree and it's free.

>26
>unemployed for 2 years
>burned through all savings
>useless actuarial qualifications
>no gf in 3 years
>no job prospects
>hate lifting but still do it to not be fat

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>tfw 33 next year
>still posting on a chinese steroid tips forum

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>>42857016
>she'll come eventually
You and I both know that's not true.

>>42856141
I'm turning 23 in a week too.
The last 3 years feel so fucking useless, nothing good happened other than me getting out of the basement and meeting some people

https://youtu.be/3bpDt0FicoE

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>>42856240
You could be aestheic as fuck at 5'7 if you put the work in. What a shame.

Also, being white is a massive advantage. If you're going to give the manlet meme time of day, then you might as well revel in being white too.

>>42856984
>feel like i should be big but look small

The lanklet struggle is real

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>>42856141
TFW TURNING 31 NEXT WEEK HAVE NICE WIFE AWESOME KID GOOD JOB OWN HOUSE AND KICK ASS JOB

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>>42856141
>tfw 25 turning 26 next year

>>42856141
"Oh my God I'm in my early 20s and I'm so old..."

You're the type of person who uses the phrase "Back in the day" when you describe the Iphone 4 right?

>my sides..

>>42856996
This.

>not paramotoring

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>tfw 21 next Jan
>virgin
>could get pussy easily if I tried
>go on dates with them
>constantly holding back the urge to fuck because I'm waiting for marriage
>still talk to girls and end up in their life's
>stuck with girls on my phone that I have weird ongoing non sexual but not close friend relationships with
>can't just cut them off
>delete tinder so I don't end up with any more contacts
>just want a gf who will wait til marriage but church girls are so boring

Talk about first world problems lads, other than that I'm doing great.

>28
>engaged
>great job which I love with good job security
>job is fitness related
>probably fittest I've ever been
>own a house and good car
>beautiful fiance
>have $50k in savings together


>socially awkward lately
>consistently negative mental attitude about my own performance
>like to be alone
>working away from fiance for next 10 months

Shit could be worse and shit could be better. It's an alright place to be at the moment.

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>tfw just turned 25
>tfw just started lifting

I c-can still make it... right guys?

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>>42856141
>tfw 29 going on 30

>>42857272
>working away from fiance for next 10 months

it's over m8 just let her go

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>In 4 months it will be 2018
>Are you guys even close to making it?


Holy fuck time is going by so fucking fast. I keep forgetting that I am not 18 anymore and that I am 23, about to turn 24. It feel weird seeing all the people I went to HS with starting their careers, buying homes they can't afford getting married and having kids.


Time is a bitch

>>42857175
You could have just said you were 25, we all know 26 comes next.

>>42857013
sounds pretty solid

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>>42856287
can you stop


please

Tfw in turning24 and unemployed since my graduation 2 months ago in a STEM subject.

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>>42857266
tfw i am in the same situation as you
im not religous or anything i just belive in no sex before marrige, but girls will slowly drop you when they see youre too serius and not up for some degenerate fun...
but on the other hand i dont want to deal with church girls since they do it becouse they were just told to.

>im 23 still v

>date girls for a bit
>discover they're shallow as fuck and feel like i'm wasting my time
>feel like girls, porn etc. hold me back and I could do so much better and be so much more efficient
I'm at uni and I'm doing great, but I feel like I could be so much fucking better. Should I just let the doctors cut my balls off? I mean that would be a solution.

>turning 23
>Only had sex with less than 20 women

I'm a failure

Most of the time I legitimately couldn't give a fuck how objectively fucked up my life is.

I'm an almost 24 year old neet virgin yet it rarely bothers me until I see threads like this.
It must be tiresome to stress about your problems constantly. Guess I've become some kind of escapist king or I'm enlightened.

plus my life was always shit so it's not like I even know what a good life is. I'm just a toughened callous of a human

>turning 30
>looking better and feeling better than i ever have in my life
>6/10 wifey
>2 well behaved kids
>feeling youthful and /fit/
age is just a number, man.

>>42857713
>>42857713
anon, I am disappoint.

It's FEWER than 20.

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>become asexual
>don't want to go to parties, the only social interactions i love having is with my best friends
>do great in education
>everything is on the right track
>feel society pressures me into having a gf, going to parties etc.
>start going to the gym, i love it
>feel getting better every single day
>tfw you resisted the jew

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>>42857823
breh, I'M TRYING RIGHT NOW TO AVOID THE PORN JEW. HELP A BRO OUT MF

>>42857823
it's ok anon, we both know you're just deluding yourself

>>42857840
Sometimes the urge is unavoidable. Start having super quick faps, so you don't waste a lot of time, that way you'll be clear for at least 3-4 days, works for me. The reason porn is bad is because you waste a lot of time on it, jews on 4chan spreading the edging memes which do take shitloads of time.

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>turned 29 today
>no gf and no prospective gfs

>>42857855
>the jews have spoken
What are you trying to say faggot? I'm deluding myself because I have a happy life? At least I'm not on 4chan trying to put people down because of the way their life plays out

>>42856169
>16 just held such better days; days when I still felt alive

>>42857857
also avoid board like /b/, /gif/, but porn and erotic stuff is everywhere right now, youtube, facebook etc. because jews want to brainwash you

>>42857008
congrads on your birthday, but what the hell? anon, why?

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>tfw turn 25 in 2 weeks and have only fucked 3 girls

>>42856990
>>42857016
guys just stop this. she will not just magically show up. if you want it, work for it!

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>>42857857
breh, posted in another thread, but I'm on DAY 32 /nofap + noporn/

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>>42857862
>>42857295
>>42857468

>>42857946
this is a good solution too, even better

and remember you fucking incels, being free of the jew doesn't mean not taking care of yourself, your body, hygiene etc. nothing stops you from having a great job, great education except for the jew, which you can resist

>>42857272
>$50k in savings
Invest more

I'm starting to believe I'm the only guy in /fit/ who thinks entering into a relationship is a waste of money and time. What the fuck happened to your "lift for yourself brah" posts and act like bunch of sissies who thinks women are everything you held desire?


We were supposed to be in the same page /fit/ so don't give me this kind of fucking bullshit as if not a single person you knew entered hardship regardless of their status. Fuck off and stop whining.

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> tfw 18
I should have joined the wrestling team when I had the chance

>>42857935
>only fucked 3 girls
GTFO NORMIE

>>42857076

It always saddens me when I realise people older than 30 years old post here. Then I realise this is going to be me in 5 years and I get depressed.

>>42858336
You have time to change, Anon.

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>all these white, 6+ faggots with gf's and jobs who pretend like they have it hard for whatever bullshit reason

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>20, turning 21 soon
>no friends, just acquintances
>hangout with nobody every day
>half korean, half white
>have girlfriend, high school sweet heart
>she comes down everyweekend since she is in the army
>inb4 "BARRACKS SLUT"
I took her v card away and she loves me A LOT
>only thing i do is go to class, work, and workout

I feel sorry for myself when i go to class and see how lonely i am.
But when i take 2 scoops of dust 2 and go to the gym, i feel awesome.
I tell myself, if i had friends they would be a detriment on me achieving my goals, unless i had friends with similar goals lol.
And sex during the weekends is pretty good too.

Btw im 6'2, 230 pounds.

>>42856141
Happy birthday anon and best wishes no homo. You're gonna make it.

>>42858264
It does suck you missee out on the wrestling experience
>crying after you lost a match
>later get better
>rekt a dude so hard his nose started bleeding and got all over me


My regret is not goimg out for my college team, but dont dwell on things you should have done. Only thing you have control over now is doing something you want to do now.

>>42858227
Hey man, the ones obsessing about women arent going to make it.

If you follow the teachings of zyzz, then ppl will make it.

>>42857772
What have you done with that toughness though?

>>42857266
Why dont you compromise and get a gf that you genuinely love, then fuck her, then get married. Thats what i did/am doing

>>42857037
GO OUT AND MEET PPL! IT GETS HARDER AS YOU GET OLDER TO MAKE FRIENDS IN UNI. SOCIAL CIRCLES WILL START TO CLOSE.

>>42857272
>>working away from fiance for next 10 months
doesn't this mean she'll cheat on you for 10 months? there's no way she can go that long without sex. how do you cope with this?

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>>42858273
shut up this isn't /r9k/

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>tfw 22
>art diploma
>no friends
>no drive
All I do now is work and going for the /fitlit/ route. I at least have a job and putting all my money into a savings to eventually move out of this cesspool of a country.

>>42856287
Dude i am just like you, except i have a girlfriend.

I have no friends and am uninteresting because all i do is play vidya and workout.

Right now, im training to be in the military (wanna do cool stuff). And thats my goal, im trying to work towards it, and if i had these shitty college friends then i dont think id be able to achieve it.

Find a goal and just go after it. Friends are overrated, youre born alone, and youll die alone.

>>42857772
It didn't hit me until I turned 22 how fucked my life is and will always be. I wouldn't call myself toughened. Apathetic when I'm not posting in threads like this. Even though my life will always be hell I think that's "ok" as long as I am not homeless. Wish my brain could either make me kill myself or go into some magical productive mode.

>>42856287
this is hitting close to home, homies

>>42858336
Why would people who've grown up with 4chan stop using it?

>>42857295
Yes you absolutely can bro

>>42856221
I'm 27. Is it too late to try to become an air traffic controller (commercial)? What do I have to do? I have a fucking english degree.

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>>42856149
Perfect age

>>42856984
you look like you have been lifting for two months, you can't pass judgement on anyone.

>>42856141
>tfw going to be 29 in a month

>tfw 24 and kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin.

Just end it.

Every year I think to myself that last year was my last year of being young and that my current age is a disaster. Made it to 24 three days ago. I don't think I'll be hitting 25 brahs. I've had enough of the infinite cycle of desire that turns into disappointment as soon as it is fulfilled, the endless void and the unending misery on the inside.

>>42859571
same

>>42856157
>Non white (Moroccan)

Let me guess, you live in the Netherlands

>>42859580
>>42859571
There's so much to do in life though

If you're rich that is

>>42857115
Being white is literally a con nowadays

>>42857547
Yeah I always thought the fact that "time goes faster and faster" was a meme but it actually does.

>>42856141
your brain isnt even finished developing until your mid 20's ffs. you dont have the physical capacity to even think as a fully fledged adult yet, get the fuck over yourself you overgrown child.

>>42856733
This

>>42858273
lol ive fucked 9, 2 at the same time
go back to >>>/r9k/ robot faggot

>>42856175
like tying the noose?

>>42856160
You can do it, anon

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>>42856984
>16%
>Implying
Unironically rope yourself

>>42859374
As long as you have a degree and can pass the test, you're good. It's just hard because there's so many appicants.

>>42858756
>>tfw 23
>>art diploma
>>no friends
>>no drive
Cant even get a job desu. What country?

>>42859630
yeah its not a meme, as you get older you relatively have more lifetime to compare the current time to and therefore it feels like time "goes by faster". in reality its just the relative feeling you get after accumulating experiences and memories over time and how they compare to the present. when you're a kid everything feels new and fresh and there's nothing to compare it to, different feeling of time passing

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>>42856287
DELET

>>42858227
>I'm starting to believe I'm the only guy in /fit/ who thinks entering into a relationship is a waste of money and time.
No, i agree with you 100%

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>>42856188
welp you provided me with the ultimate pic to represent my feels anon, brb going to go die now

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26 in 3.5 months.
>Still in uni
>DYEL
>Never had a gf
>Depressed
>Lonely
>Don't know who I am or supposed to be
At least I already have a cushy job waiting for me once I graduate.

Hopefully money relieves the pain a bit.

>>42858419
while i would reroll from white, its more akin to being the best turd of turds than it is anything else. People routinely feel threatened by you for no other reason than you are a white male.

>26
>living on my own
>gf broke up
>friends scattered throughout the country
>feel more alone than ever

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>18
>Straight A student with a bright academic future
>/fit/ and training to be a navy seal (although who knows if I have what it takes)
>arguably a 7/10
>6'0

BUT

>socially autistic and friendless
>have been approached by multiple women but too autistic to capitalize on their advances
>completely unaware of how to communicate with people in a "normal" way
>varsity sports all through high-school but was still the weird kid who sat by himself at lunch

I feel as though life will be much harder because of my social ineptitude. Can any anons who've escaped this friendless hell share how they did it?

>>42856188
Here you go, anon
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fGxOCJCRpA

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>33
>have wife (met her 10 years ago)
>have dog
>have career and work from home
>no depression
>lift for fun
life is good, just waiting for the right time to buy a house

>>42860909
>life is good, just waiting for the right time to buy a house
What do you do? Programming?

>>42856169
>tfw fapped to that doujin multiple times
True degenerate lads. Part 2 is better by the way.

>>42859703
Leaf. It could be worse but I don't think it'll get better.

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>>42856141
>30yo
>got my degree
>going to pay off loans with warbucks after deployment
>already getting mini mires only 4 months in
>going to eat, work, and lift for 6 months in mudslime land
>going full civilian after deployment
>can't wait to find a qt wife and have some kids

I feel good, people don't believe I'm 30.

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>>42856287
well being a fit loser is better than being a fat loser. right?
>>42859982
>socially autistic and friendless
iktfb

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>tfw 28 and single

who here /desperate for companionship so rushing into a relationship at first signal/?

literally the only state worse than single is dating someone you don't even enjoy spending time with that much....here's hoping for the long game r-right

>tfw college junior engineering
>spend whole year learning and liftin
>one month have urge to stop being a virgin
>fuck a tinder slut but realise casual loveless sex isnt that great
>finish first year last exams
>3 weeks to new semester
>start dreaming bout this girl I once talked in class
>become obssed with her

Not sure what to do now, even if I muster courage to approach her, I have met her so many times and passed her without saying hello or such it would be so awkward now. Should have get her number once I talked with her. Feels bad man

>>42859982
You have to try, if what you have been doing up until now hasn't worked then you need to try something else. I find it hard to make friends. I've always wanted to be the guy with a tight circle of friends that did stuff together and looked out for each other, but I could never pull it off. The most I could do is one really good friend at a time and a few casual friends. Put yourself in more social situations, notice how other people interact, find online resources.

>>42859982
if you've never played piano before nothing I say will help you more than experience

>>42857136
that sounds a ok nothing great but nothing bad either

>>42858702
cause then your going to hell you retard

>>42859856
protip: it wont

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>>42856157
>being a degenerate
>being self-hating
Sort yourself out khouya

>>42861051
lol 27 isnt even old for a guy at all just date girls under 25.......

>24 years old
>no friends
>no gf
>I work a warehouse job since I didn't bother to pursue education or gain skills
At least I'm saved, can't mess that up
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fGxOCJCRpA

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>>42856141
>tfw I've just turned 39

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>25 years old
>Broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years
>Start lifting for about a month - used to lift a lot on and off tfw homegym
>New School and Job working at library
I'm going back to finish my bachelors. So many young girls, I need to just be patient like an old fisherman.

>23 y/o
>bean
>6' 177
>skinnyfat mode
>weak upper body
>lost virginity to a hooker
>friends are in other states/dead
>living with parents
>still socially retarded
>spend nights modding and playing New Vegas when not lifting

I'm making some progress on the lifting front but everything else still really stinks, being skinnyfat should I cut or should I just start a lean bulk?

>>42861170
>didn't bother to pursue education or gain skills
You can still do those things, it's your life.

>>42861203
>>Broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years
why

>>42857013
uni is pretty bad unless you are doing one of the useful stem fields

>>42861244
It was her idea.

>>42861283
how come

>>42861244
She was too old

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l06KEWCcnQE

>>42860944
I used to be a developer but I moved into reverse engineering/malware analysis

anything to do with information security is hot right now if you're looking for career options:
http://opensecuritytraining.info/Training.html

>>42861281
I have an art degree and I make 69-74k

>>42859982
Are you me


I look around my classes and I'm objectively the best looking, most /fit/ guy in all of them and I'm also smart. I get mired all the time and have girls start conversations with me but when it comes to actually talking, particularly public speaking, I completely fail and look like an idiot. I think I need to just face my fears and start talking to everyone I see during the day. I keep saying I'll do that but I never follow through with it

>>42861353
>I'm objectively the best looking
A lot of autistic people don't realize how ugly they are.

>>42861170
>he believes once saved always saved
>what is grieving the holy spirit

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>tfw 19
Give me some life advice, faggots

>>42861353
I'm the anon you responded to. Funnily enough I have no issue with public speaking because I can spend time writing the speech and practicing it. From there it's just a matter of reciting it well in front of the class which, because of practice, isn't an issue for me. It's casual conversation and the things you can't practice over and over again in front of a mirror that escape me.
>>42861097
I've tried pretty hard desu. I was a door to door salesman for two years and now teach group fitness classes, both jobs requiring a lot of communication both face to face and addressing the group as a whole. I have no issue speaking in a cordial, professional manner but that's it. I can't connect with anyone beyond a superficial level. I can't have deep conversations with people. Anything past giving or taking instructions (ie conversation) feels uncomfortable and I can tell there are a lot of social queues I don't pick up on. I'm trying to learn how to converse with people by going out of my way to talk with the people in my classes, and I have made progress, but I still can't make that 'connection' where you can just talk and talk with a person and both people mutually enjoy the conversation. I just don't get how to do it...
>>42861125
I can play guitar if that counts :^)

>>42856733
I honestly don't get this growing older meme. I'm 23 and feel fucking great and excited for the future. I get better looking girls every year, more fit and more confident in myself. Honestly excited for late 20s and 30s

>>42861655
that's how i felt with 23 anon, 3 years later, no friends anymore , gf left me, spend my nights back again in front of the pc lurking

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