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>>42809570
>I get a text on Instagram from her sister
>what the hell is this
>I'm expecting the sister to flame me or be overprotective and tell me not to hurt her or some crap.
>I was wrong
>"Hey [anon] I don't know you but anonette tells me about you. But as a sister I hate when she thinks she can just get away with things so please don't tell her I dm'd you this cause it's for you to know. She currently has a bf who she doesn't give a fuck about (been with him for over a year) and she's talking to this guy name [edit] who recently went to NY. Now u popped back in her life and ur just a third person she can choose from. I told her u better choose one cause that's hella unfair to them"
>my heart sank and nothing but rage fell over me
>how did I fuck up so bad
>how did I end up with another slut
>why is it when I fall for someone its always the wrong fucking one?
>she [anonette] made it seem like I was the only guy
>every move and gesture and word she said
>it all screamed to me that she was scared of the commitment because she's been hurt
>guess I was wrong
>I texted back and thanked the sister
>told her to tell anonette goodbye and that I will be gone.
>sister acknowledges and I turn off IG and go home

now I'm sitting here writing this and so sad and angry. The whole night she made it feel like I was the only one. That I was the one she worried about because she
wasn't talking to anyone else and just wanted MY reassurance that I wouldn't play her. Why do girls do this? I can't believe I fell for this trap.

The screenshot is her sister and the girl texting. The text is me to the sister.

>>42809604
Get her addicted to meth

>falling for the monogamy meme
If you love someone you dont weaken them by forcing them to rely on you for everything. Never gonna make it

sorry man.

>>42809604

dump her for talking like a fuckin troglodyte

>>42809604
Thanks for the laugh. God damn hearing about other people's troubles gives me such a raging stiffy.

I know it hurts man but at least the sister told you.

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Ouch man, that fucking sucks.

hoes gon be hoes my nigga

>tells you about how she's "been hurt"
Huge red flag there mate, I'm speaking from experience. Every girl who has told me this initially has turned out to be a self absorbed witch

>>42809604
>doesn't fuck her
>becomes all emotional instead
Faggot

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>>42809649
Yeah I'm really happy with that at least

>>42809672
>>42809672
First date.

And not so much that I'm emotional other than angry with the situation. It wasn't an attachment to her. Its just knowing that I wanted to see something serious again and the moment I do its taken as a fucking game. Lovely.

>>42809690
Should've fucked her and then dumped her.

>>42809690
You can't fall that hard for someone you barely know, man. I have done this myself many times and it only ends in tears. The good thing is every time it happens you mature a bit and when the right girl does come along you won't fuck it up

>>42809604
just fuck her, use her like she's using men.
stop being such a fucking oneitis autistic sperg you loser

>>42809570
I bet it feels like shit but you barely dated her and she was irrelevant to you before that one and only date. Why do you torture yourself? Who cares? Apparently she isn't the right one for you. Just move on, mate.

>>42809720
That runs the risk of attachment. Not everyone can sleep around without developing deeper feelings.

>>42809731
>>42809720
Thing is we were talking a long time before that. We got to know each other a bit and I had a crush on her. Whatever got over it. But then when I contacted her after a while she seemed just as happy as the day we first met to see me. We talked for weeks prior to today and caught up and reminisced. Afterwards we planned to go on our date which was today.

Thing is when I asked her if there was anyone else she said no. I normally don't trust anyone but she made it seem like she was so scared and cautious to get into things with me because she wanted a real relationship like I did.

But nope.
>>42809720
Also I can't sleep with her. Ain't chad enough. I've mentioned it before but she seemed turned off by the idea of sleeping before having a relationship.

Then again after what happened today most likely its just me. It doesn't bother me that its HER. It bothers me because it happened in general. Seems like that's the norm for me and I don't know how to figure it out besides being uninterested or apathetic to most women.

>>42809740

I think I'm the only one who ever worries about what the fuck I'm going to catch fucking a slut. Who the fuck knows what her other dudes have, or whoever those dudes are fucking. Went through that shit twice, I can't deal with that stress anymore.

>>42809752
Look man, she was apparently a liar. There are lots of people who will act like that you. You can't let those things bring you down. Be thankful that her sister told you early enough before you started anything serious with that mongoloid.

>>42809769
It wouldn't be as much of an issue if condoms weren't trash.

OP, you are lucky as shit the sister went out her way to tell you.

>>42809570
Stay away from my girls.
go date some white girls you faggot

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>>42809570
Not your fault anon - sending love

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>>42809604
i feel you mane

>GF shows me porn and says you should fuck more like this

I'm done.

>>42809927
She's right, you should.

>>42809604
you dodged a giant bullet man wew
go for the sister instead she sounds gud

I feel you man,for some people it's really hard to put yourself out to the world and getting hurt like this can crush you,I guess the solution is after few time you develop emotional defense and you don't get attached so easily

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>sitting at home, resting after coming back from the gym
>suddenly the phone starts ringing
>it's my ex
>we haven't talked in months
>can't decide if I should pick it up or not
>phone keeps ringing
>figure it may be something important and pick up
>"hey dad"
>"uhh what the fuck"
>"omg anon is that you? I thought I was calling my dad, must have accidently dialed you how you've been!"
>hearts starts pounding like crazy, thought I was over her but hearing her voice made the feelings surface again
>just make some small talk with her
>make her laugh
>hearing her laugh puts a fucking bullet to my heart
>mention I've stopped drinking and started going to the gym more
>she seems very happy for me, she hated me drinking
>keep talking like everything's normal
>hang up
>now I feel like fucking drinking again

Fuck my life bros, I moved to another fucking state just to get her out of my mind and it was working too, then this shit happens. Fucking why? I'm probably gonna see her in two weeks too since I'm going back home and we're in the same friends circle. I thought it was fucking done, why?

>>42810092
This is why you cut all links with an ex.

>>42810092
Fix yourself and fix others

only then will you find peace and a qt.

Sounds like you drank in the relationship, guess you didn't care about her just the idea of her.

Working manual labour is fucking killing my gains. I can see my numbers going down as well as my size, not to mention the fucking hours.

>>42810092
Should’ve hung up as soon as she asked how you were.

>ex has blocked me out of the blue even though she told me she'd want her stuff back somehow
>spend night after night sad af thinking about what we wanted to do
>thinking about the anticipation i'd see her again
>this feeling is gone now
i can not lift it away guys

>asian women
They are literally /pol/ crossed with /femmen/

They are insane. Stay away, pure waifu is just a meme.

Guys I fucked up

FUCK

I have a push pull legs split and I just did push 1 yesterday, meant to do pull 1 today. I started doing push 2 and noticed when it was too late, was wondering whys shit so heavy

FUCK

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>>42809570
I have begun wallowing in self pity and sadness for a few months now, things go up and down with me and one day I'm happy to be alive and the next I'm worried about 10 different things.

I'm alone, I'm really alone

I have lived for the past year on 4chan, and it is sad that this is my only escape. I stopped hanging out with people and stopped having hobbies

I don't even workout anymore, and I believe that is contributing to my depression in very bad ways

>>42810092
she definitely called you on purpose. You don't accidently call someone if they're in your contacts. She wants you back anon

>finally start feeling good about the way i look after cutting down 22kg
>look at picture from 4 months ago
>lots of fat in face
Feel like shit now.

>>42810092
she just wanted to see if she can still put her nails into your flesh and get u emotional. they thrive on these kind of things

>>42809570
>>42809604
This OP
>>42809973

>>42811138
it's only gonna get worse if you don't do something about it

>>42809604
ncie

>>42810469
> Implying a white girl would dm you when her sister is being an objective slut
> Implying a white girl wouldn't justify her sister's actions as being perfectly rational because feminism and sexual liberation

With white girls, you would never even find out she's banging other guys behind your back until like 12 years later you realize your child has none of your genes.

>>42809570
>asians
>not even once
Take your degenerate weebo racemixing crap outta here

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>>42811138
step one
>indentify problem
step two
>come up with possible solutions
step three
>fix the problem

it wont be easy,but nothing good is ever easy

If it makes you feel any better, I was supposed to go out with a girl this weekend, she seemed super into me, and now I've been ghosted. You'll make it OP, just keep looking.

>>42813649
got ghosted by my ex too
feels like shit

>>42813658
>feels like shit
The worst part is that there's still a bit of my irrational mind that thinks I might have a chance, but my rational mind knows its time to cut my investment and move on, I wish women weren't such punk bitches.

>>42813649
this feel. I know her friends had something to do with it too, since I turned them all down before. So, by their reasoning probably, if they can't have me, then she ain't gonna either.

>>42813725
feel you
at least you didn't have memories aka relationship and stuff with her

>>42813738
when you put it that way, thats a lot shittier

>>42809624
Pls tell me your not one of those fags who's gf convinced him to do polyamory or an open relationship and now is trying to justify it.

Not being in a committed relationship to play the field is one thing, but being in a committed relationship and playing the field is someone wanting to slut it up while being in a relationship and convincing someone weak enough to go along with it 99% of the time.

>>42809604
Sister sounds pretty based man. I wouldn't know how you could turn this into wifing her, but if you can figure that out thats probably your best bet.

>>42813769
sure is

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>trusting anything a woman says
SHIGGY DIGGY

>>42813781
you'll make it my dude, we all will, acquire greek god aesthetics with your pain to drive you

>>42813837
we're all gonna make it huh, nothing left to do besides that i guess

>sit in a row behind 6/10 avg qt with big ass biceps and nice shoulders in college auditorium while watching some bullshit health lecture
>just stare at her like a retard thinking what I'd say to her when it's over
>spaghetti hits and I just stutter at her inaudibly when she passes me by
I fucking hate being socially autistic I fucking hate being like this

>>42809604
>fell in love on first date
>instagram
>sister dmd me (wtf is this even I hate you fucking 16 year old manlets kys)

seriously just end your life
fag

>>42809604
This is prolly fake but fuck it
At least check with the girl just in case you dumb emotional faggot
Does she have any pics of her and her bf on social media? Maybe her sister's a bitch or something
Anyhow, t's not the end of the world

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>in locker room with one other guy
>keeps looking at me
>eventually i just say "hello"
>"you look like edward snowden bro"
>h-haha
>"are you an IT student, you look like one"
guy called me a nerd twice in his first two sentences

>>42809672
This, holy shit, how can you value so much a woman you have so few to share?
One date, didn't even fuck and you're acting like a teenage girl who felt in love, go fuck yourself bitch boy

>Get blocked by now Ex-Gf
>She wants her stuff back, presumably
She doesn't give a single fuck about me and this is what hurts the most, has impeeded my gym performance a lot
What a shitty way to end a relationship

>>42810131
Eat more retard

>>42809604
feelsbadman. but its a blessing in disguise really, u dodged a bullet. what if this all came to fruition 6 months down the line? things would be way worse for u then

>>42809570

>he fell for the "Asian women are different" meme

Only applies if they grew up in Asia and aren't Filipino.

>>42813879
>You look like a homo, wanna bang?
>Not getting that pre/post workout brotein
Never gunna make it

>>42813885
put her shit in a box and leave it outside your door. tell her its there to pick up

get on with life and meet more women

>>42814007
Can't, lives in another city
Can't get in contact with her because i'm blocked everywhere

>>42814007
or better yet a mutual friend or whatever. just sever all contact

>>42814014
then put it in a box and put it away for 6 months. if she wants it back, have her pay for the cost to mail it. otherwise, toss it

>>42814029
Might do that

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Tried smoking marijuana and for a short time I was happy and had a clear head space.

Now I'm back to feeling trapped, depressed and heads all fuzzy cause I said some shit I didn't mean. Again.

Don't know what to really do with my life.

The more I think about it, the less motivation I get even to lift. What has been a huge passion for years for me, now is becoming a chore.

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Just took my CPA exams don't know if I passed, I'm so scared right now brehs.

>>42809570
I'm so sorry OP, it fucking sucks to be fucked, and it sucks even more when she made herself out initially to seem like the victim. All you can do now is some really fucking heavy deadlifts, squats, and try to move on.

Drugs ruined my life

>I used to lie to myself and say everything is fine
>I was busy and didn't focus on my own life
>Once I started using cannabis, that's when my third eye was opened up and I cant' stop thinking about life
I have finally figured out what it means to be alive, and I can no longer sit on the couch and be okay with this for me life

Weed has change my life in so many ways ad I am both grateful and sad the veil of illusion was taken off of me when I started smoking weed.

>>42814284
Tell me more, where are you from? What's your plans in life? What do you wanna do?

I feel the same say and I've only smoked once

>>42814284
Weed made me get my life back on track

My plan is kind of private but most important thing is to not make excuses anymore and if there is something bothering me it needs to be fixed, the longer you wait the worse it will be

Also, ever since I started smoking weed my life changed in that I see patterns in life now and I am able to see the important things in life, the structure of life has also opened up to me

I started at 27, I just wish I started a bit earlier...

>>42814311
>>42814347

>>42814347
How old are you now?

i miss you
it hurts a lot that you don't give a shit about this break up at all, it seems

>>42814385
>29
Only using weed for like a year and a half and I actually dont smoke or take edibiles often, every few months

>>42809604
>>42809570
You niggers got meme'd

Never have emotions for women. They are all sluts.
The only thing they can offer is their pussy. Otherwise they are useless disposable terrible "people".

That sucks man. Hope you cheer up soon

>>42813498
This, don't fall for that conniving whore women get a fucked up sense of enjoyment out of being able to fuck with the emotion of men specially ones that they broke up with.

>>42814467
it's shit thing to do

>>42814453
To whom is this post directed at, Anon

I think I think too much

>>42814567
you and me both

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Help me out /fit/ bros.

27 KHV with a long history of mental illness. Came from a broken home where my parents neglected me a lot and spent all of their money on gambling as a child. Was taken out of the home at 16 by CPS since I almost killed myself and let it slip to the therapist that my dad used to fondle me when I was younger. Was put on psych meds for many years which did little to alleviate my mood. I ended up putting on 65 lbs quickly and dropped out of school as a result.

Fast forward to about 2 1/2 years ago when I lost my insurance and had to wean myself off of my meds. Eventually I found that a combination of heavy lifting, TRT (diagnosed low T), and sunlight therapy got rid of most of the depression and made me look quite good (went from 37% body fat to 14%).

Now I was no longer invisible to girls and I get quite a bit of attention since I'm 5'10 182 lbs and have broad shoulders. I'm back in college and soon to graduate next year with a bachelor's in biology (no idea what to do with it but I'm glad to finally have a degree - I'm very open to anything). As it stands I'm pretty poor - I have a very old beater car to my name, work a crappy part time job and I'm on food stamps until a better job arises after I'm done with school. I just started talking to a younger girl at school who's only 21 and it turns out we have a lot in common. Should I just tell her that I'm a virgin with no relationship experience when we go out next week or "fake it til I make it"?

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>>42814593
>(went from 37% body fat to 14%).

How many months/years did that take?

How about loose skin?

>>42814610

16 months.

Loose skin predominantly on lower stomach (genetically where I store most fat) with some stretch marks on the hips and arm pits near the chest.

>>42814593
Test the water bro, I would potentially lie and say you were a Christian or that experience with your father closed you off to anything sexual, don't make it seem you're a turbo virgin but more of a your own choice virgin

>>42814633
Dude

Are you still on TRT?

Can we talk? How do you manage blood work, do you even get blood work? What TRT dosages are you at?

Do you use AI and HCG?

Nuts still shrunk?

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>>42809570
every since i woke up my shoulder blades have been in pain

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>Marie isn't real
Hurts desu

>>42814659

Yes I'm still on TRT.

I get blood work every 4 months normally. I can't afford the gels and patches (no prescription coverage only medical) so I just get test cyp 200mg/ml from the pharmacy which I self inject 1 ml every 2 weeks. No HCG or AI (doc wanted clomid 3x a week but my estrogen levels evened out). My nuts have not shrunk but I do get bloated from time to time and have oily skin.

>how did i end up with another slut
>"anon you sure this is serious for you? I can't just waste my time or be played for a fool."

thats why. Only used women say that. Instantly run away from anyone saying that. They are literally saying to you that theyve fucked around so much theyre desperate for a good relationship.

>>42814698
Ahh okay, kind of odd with 1ml every 2 weeks but ok...

How's life so far? Did you ever need to change the dosage or any blood work concerns?

How often you workout?

>>42809570
>>42809604
>falling for the women meme
Women have no emotions, they're cold empty voids that have no purpose in life other than to make others as miserable as them. Just watch anime

>>42814723

Life is OK. Still poor but working on it. My life lacked any real meaning or direction for many years which made me very prone to aggression and low mood. Ironically the TRT IMPROVED my mood rather than increase aggression since my hormones were in sync (look up for hypogonadism increases aggression). I only feel content when I'm on campus or at the gym though.

The main concern is liver enzymes which are always high but that was way before the TRT. Red blood cell count is high but nothing crazy.

I work out 3 times a week and will literally speed to the gym when it's deadlift day since I look forward to it so much.

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I'm ashamed to admit I've had one girl on my mind on and off for the past 5+ years. She fucked me up bad but I never had any real romantic success outside of that one fling so I never built that foundation of positive experiences with the opposite sex to feel like anything else than an ugly, unlovable piece of shit.

I feel like I've been living on the sidelines watching everyone suck, fuck, and marry for the past half decade.

All I have in this desert is the iron, bros.

>>42814858
I know it doesn't mean much to you but you're not missing a whole lot

>>42809604
Based chink sister

> doesn't want you to tell her that she messaged you
> tell sister to relay message
How is she gonna explain it, Alex?

fuck the sister, she's obviously down you cuck

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> dropped acid last night
>8 hours of painful introspection
>23, working shit manual labor job
>need to make a change
has anyone gone back to school in their later years? How did you manage to work, lift and study?

>>42814593
>Should I just tell her that I'm a virgin with no relationship experience when we go out next week or "fake it til I make it"?
No, don't "fake it" by pretending either. >Be yourself in the sense that you are your best self

I'm glad you're taking steps anon, I'm in a similar boat at 22
>work a crappy part time job and I'm on food stamps until a better job arises after I'm done with school
If you're not networking, working on your professional image (resume, writing a cover letter, maybe LinkedIn), you should be. Attend networking events for your anticipated career field, job fairs, look into internships, that kinda stuff

Don't get caught up on the girl 'cause it's your first time either

Good luck, we'll always be here for you, probably to call you a faggot but also to cheer you on 'cause you're our faggot

>>42815079

I went back to school at 27.

It's never too late to change until you decide it is. Plus those younger college girls love a slightly older guy with muscles.

>>42815079
>>23, working shit manual labor job
>>need to make a change
>has anyone gone back to school in their later years?
You're 23, man. An apprenticeship would be a great way to learn a craft and useful skills, along with making good money, look into opportunities, the US and Canada have major initiatives to replenish their skilled labor forces
> people without jobs, and jobs without people

>>42813953
Correct. Asian girls start acting like jigaboos as soon as they come to the US

>>42815079
>That's all?

How did you get acid?

What do you remember?

How tough is the recovery or do you just go to sleep?

>met her on this board
>now broken up
>every time i browse this board i get super sad

>>42815144
I'm hanging sheetrock and just kinda tired of the whole trade job thing. I'm looking at construction management as a possible path of study. I do agree with all that you've said though, it's just not for me.

>>42815137
Thanks for the encouraging words brother. Currently on my local community colleges website and looking to enroll this winter

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>meet girls at unit through tinder last april
>we hook up until the end of the semester, fwb sort of thing
>talk literally everyday all summer, she's sending hearts and shit
>school started a few weeks ago and she's been dodging me ever since
>been almost a month and i still haven't seen her
>ask her to hangout a few times and literally just get ignored
>try to ask her wtf is going on but never really send me a clear message
>she'll still respond to my snaps and sometimes snapchat me first, but she's an awful texter

what's going on bros. did chad steal her from me? why would she talk to me all summer just to ignore me when classes began

pic related is my last text to her , sent last night after she said via snap she was too busy to hangout

>>42815193
Friend gave it to me. It's a cool experience with a buddy. Brain is really hazy but thats probably just from lack of sleep

>>42815108

I'm 27 and have never kissed a girl though. Won't that send her running for the hills? She's decent looking so I imagine she's had quite a few dudes throughout her life.

>>42815229
I won't go full r9k mode and tell you shes fucking 10 chads and that you're now a cuckold, but what is certain is that she lost interest in you without a doubt, Either she found someone else or something in her life occupied her, so move on.

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>>42815229
>it's all apart of my master plan

Talking like a faggot gets zero pussy, you know that right?

>>42815229
>she would be lonely during summer so she got someone to keep her company
>now she does not want to be associated with you anymore because new opportunities arise

Just move on from that basic bitch anon, you deserve better.

>>42809604
Hate fuck her and be done

>>42815229
haha

That message HAHAH UUUHH IF YOU DONT WANT TO THATS OK TOO

>>42815302
i think you're right, i removed her from snapchat and instagram won't be talking to her again. thnks brah
>>42815342
trust me i know how beta it sounds
id just much rather she tell me she's done with me than continue being confused

>>42815229
This is fucking painful to read

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What if it is next level mind games and the sister actually likes you. Enraged that her sister had a great time with you, she makes this story up about how you are 1 of 3 guys she is dating. Attempting to make you emotional and vulnerable so she can swoop and get fucked by you. You have to think of everyone's motive OP.

>>42809616
Top kek

>>42815366
No, you are trying in a last ditch effort to get her to fuck you, since you don't have any other options. That's ok, man. But to be honest, if she doesn't say yes or offer a different time when you ask she doesn't want it. Please don't act like this again. It's going to kill you inside.

You can do this, now go forth a find a new hoe.

>>42815395
Did you look at the pic, the sister sent her convo to OP

>>42809570
Bro that just means she doesn't like her bf and wants out but he probably guilts her into staying. If u like her just tell her you don't want to share and she'll probably stop dating around.

>>42815218
>I'm hanging sheetrock and just kinda tired of the whole trade job thing
Now, you're tired of hanging sheetrock. There's plenty of trades, hundreds, give it a chance and look into it

If not, IT (another skilled labor sector) is really deficient. You can try to get into that, network, do all that professional development shit, get certified

>>42815239
Don't tell her. If she doesn't ask, don't answer. She's not gonna think to ask "have you kissed a girl?" before unless you totally sperg out. While you don't have to tell her your life story, you can let her in on "I had a difficult childhood and didn't have many opportunities for meaningful relationships", don't have to tell her about CPS, sexual abuse, meds, whatever, she should get it and if she doesn't just tell her "I don't wanna answer that"

Don't put her on a pedestal, she's a human just like you - in fact, a lot weaker, club her over the head and drag her to your cave

>>42809690
>I'm not emotional I'm angry

Nibba

>>42810092
You moved to avoid her, but answered the phone?

>>42815229
She's likely interested in someone else, that's how girls act when there's someone else

> those last 2 messages
You know how beta and needy that came off as

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>>42809570
>meet this girl at uni who is actually exactly my type, literally perfect in my eyes
>have mutual friends so occasionally hang out
>mutual friends say she's into me
>go on one date at the beginning of summer, thought it went well
>slowly stops responding to my texts
>never get a chance to ask her on a second date
>pretty much got over her
>back at uni now, see her on weekends cause small school and mutual friends
>she pretty much avoids me
>friends say she's into another guy now
>definitely not over her

Fuck /fit/ I don't know what to do now. The feels help me in the gym but I can't make personality gains really.

>>42815229
Girls find it easier to lead a guy on then end things, it keeps the option open to them and also makes it look like they're not bitches

>>42813843
Try, try again. You won't get better unless you keep at it, no matter how bad and awkward it makes you feel.

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>>42815395
>>42815417
This.

Not to mention the girl [anonette] confessed to me about the other guy. Currently desperately trying to tell me that it meant nothing that she likes me etc. Hasn't mentioned the boyfriend yet.

Fucking cunt. I kinda wish her sister was single cause she's based. But that's probably why she's in a good relationship to begin with.

Pic related

>>42809604
>>42809570
Her sister seems nice though, she went through the trouble to tell you.

>>42809714
This should have fucked hey then sent pics to the bf. He deserves to know his gf is a piece of shit, if he doesn't already.

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>>42815607
Jeez anon, you dodged a bullet on that one. She's seems extremely desperate

>>42814766
nice strawman
the same can be said about men. Men are soulless creatures whose only desire is to fuck anything that moves without any lasting responsibility or commitment

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>>42809570
W E A R
C O N D O M
H A T E F U C K
T H E N
D U M P

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>>42815703
>>42815645
I'm pretty much trying to keep this cunt under my thumb.

Gave her an ultimatum. Be a side chick or fuck off.

She seems so desperate to keep me as one of her guys so I'm going to play the part but demand something in return. She said she doesn't do flings but I've made girls do worse. Fuck this bitch.

>>42815737
And this is true but men do it purely for physical pleasure.
When women fuck around they emotionally invest their being into whoever.

Maybe I'm coming off as a cunt but who cares.

>>42809570
I have a form of ptsd. It comes out when I'm not busy and I start focusing on the past, I keep playing it over in my mind and start thinking why me, why did I survive and end up so lucky

If there is no destiny and no real purpose for us to be here, than why am I here and living like this? Why did I make it?

Tonight is not a good night, I'm trying not to focus on it but why am I still here? They did a few years back all from different areas, and I'm still here,

>>42815800
oh shit, the feels are coming out

Guys, why am I still alive? Why did I make it out okay, at the time we didn't know anything ,we were just kids. We didn't know how things would turn out, nobody tells you how the future plays out, but it is an amazing journey we are all on.

>>42815229
She's keeping you on the side while she chases other dudes. Worst case scenario she always can go back to you because she knows you'll be waiting like a faithful dog for her.

Stop texting her and focus on yourself. If she ever comes back allow her back into your lie, fuck her and ignore her again. She's not worth it.

>>42815759
men fuck around for physical pleasure but they lie to women about being invested for the long run. It blows, but yeah, I get it's a two way street. Your situation sucks.
Human nature in general is selfish and shitty and a lot of people end up as conceited assholes. Gl OP

>>42815759
be careful with having her as a side chick, if you have a serious attachment to her it's only going to make it worse to be close to her physically and not emotionally.

>>42809570
>>>/r9k/

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>>42815737
>commitment
lol bitter roastie detected

>>42814060
I say shit I don't mean all the time when I'm high. People use drugs to enhance their experience, that might not be the case for you, it's definitely not for me. You should quit smoking and try to get your head straight. Work

>>42811138
watch some Jordan Peterson videos on the bite size philosophy youtube channel
sounds dumb but just do it srs as stupid as it sounds he snapped me out of (admittedly fairly mild) depression

Ok /fit/, how to I get in touch with a girl from work, who has as of 3 months ago moved to another office and we didn't exchanged contact details. I don't think "accidentally finding her on facebook" is going to be convincing enough and will come off creepy.

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>>42813593
>lifting for girls

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>>42809604
That fucking sucks bro. Some bitches are just terrible people.

Don't let it get to you too much. Holding onto it will only make it harder for you to be happy.

>>42816402
>being so pathetic you go on fitness forums to discourage people from getting fit

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>>42810468
holy fuck
are you me?

we are all gonna make it though

>>42815759
How'd she respond to this?

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>>42813593
fuck anon... i needed pic related

>>42809604
>hella unfair

OP is bay area FAGGOT, what a surprise with asn asian though

>>42815229
>get upset when you go on tinder, an app used only by whores and sluts, and the girl turns out to be a slut

>durr muh snapchat

L
M
F
A
O

>>42810092

They always pull horseshit like this Anon. Keep strong and distance yourself. It may seem like she wants to be friends but she really just wants to keep you around to toy with your feelings or as a fallback if the guy she's with gets sick of her shit. There's absolutely no good to be found in being friends with your ex.

>>42813498

This

>>42817271
>get dumped over text
>after she falls in love with someone else
>ex could see it tore my guts out
>literally flabbergasted that I don't wanna be friends with her
>"I just don't get it anon, why don't you wanna be friends [while I date and fuck and go out with the guy I dumped you for when we're not seeing movies like a asexual old couple]?"

fuckin' women man, I don't get it, what goes through their minds?

>>42817349
you dont realize how easy they have it man.

Women worse suffering is vacation for men.

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>>42815800

Everyones gonna die dude. Stop acting like youve been bequeathed immortality by some higher being.

Youll have these thoughts now, then will have thoughts of fucking someone sometime time in the future - or not - like every other human being before you.

The world keeps on spinning...

>>42810092
Just be happy for her and let her be happy for you.

Improve yourself constantly.
It's not for her, it's so you're better than your own demons.

Keep it up man.

>>42817349

It's been a long time since it happened to me but I remember how awful it was. Just remember that right now you have the upper hand. Her lie about accidentally calling you is a way to disguise that and get what she wants while making you think she still has it. When they start making up excuses for contacting you, ask yourself why they're doing it. Pop culture has brainwashed us into thinking that it's going to be like the last 1/3 of a rom-com and things will be all fine in the end, but their real reasons for keeping us around are much more sinister.

A similar thing has happened to me, with the excuses for getting back in contact. I think it's fine to play along if you no longer have feelings, but I can imagine how painful it is if they linger. I can't really give you any advice about dealing with it, other than the thing that makes them angriest is when they see that you're completely past it and they can't manipulate you anymore. So if you do see her in the next few weeks, be friendly but no more so than you would be to an acquaintance. She'll either turn the flirt up to 10 and lead you on, or pull you aside and say that you're being distant. Don't react to either, don't let any emotions show, make her think you are 100% past it. It'll drive her demented. And avoid the drink, for a variety of reasons. It'll piss her off that you're finally off it, you will control your emotions much better, and it obviously doesn't go great with going to the gym!

Here is a good video on the topic that'll hopefully make you feel better. In the end, don't give in to her notions of staying friends - all women want to do this and it's moronic.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTuDks4ogs0

>>42817747
I have no idea how anyone can fake being over someone you were emotionally invested in when you're not over them

without them picking up on it, I mean if girls can smell desperation on you like you shit your pants how the fuck are you going to be able to pull this off with someone you've been physically and emotionally intimate with? who knows you inside and out?

your advice is spot on but man, idk

>>42815759
you are such a faggot stop fucking talking to her

I am getting ghosted by a girl that was retardedly into me
Or maybe it was all an act
LOL. Fk it gonna hit up this hot slut I made out with then
Fucking witches man the lot of them

>>42817765

You're right but you have to fake it til you make it. It's true for everything in life. It's better to do a poor job of hiding it than not trying at all, and making it obvious you're over it. You will get over it, everyone does, and there are things that'll help. People have probably told you to get on Tinder. In case you haven't or doubt this advice, don't. It's absolutely one of the best steps you can take in getting over her, along with going to the gym and improving yourself.

Yeah girls are much more socially adept than us but we can play it to our advantage too - small slights that we barely notice, if at all, wind them up like the bejeesus.

Best of luck Anon.

i asked a girl for her number earlier this week and she gave it to me

that night i texted her and then like 2 texts later got a wall of words about how she was still getting over someone or some shit so thats down the drain but at least i got a girls number

i liked one girl last year a lot, was kind of my first real requited romantic thing, we were going out for only a month but she was really nice, she still wants to be friends w me and doesn't understand why that isnt going to happen lmao

>>42810092
Stay sober. Stay lifting. Stay improving.

You may have started this journey because of her, but that doesnt mean it ends with her.

>>42814858
I feel the same way, bro
Im not a KHV, I just never been in a relationship. However, after exposing my feelings to the last girl liked, I realized the harsh truth that she and her friend are sleeping with one of mutual friends because he has money. Lot's if money. So much money he had enough to move out of his lease when he had ALL his shit stolen from his room, and buy his own
Mobile home, and a new car. He blames the blacks.That's when it hit me all at once today..

I never been rich or well educated. These are the people that statistical get the most sex. It makes sense that I'm a nigger too. I should be a KHV, but because some leftist feminist needed to add a variety of color to the men she whored herself out to, I got lucky. Met a few girls after that too. A tranny, a fat chick, a pansexual. I never even came either. I was the "safe black guy", and a nice guy with an African American decent. I guess that makes a inferior person in a inferior race.

Having emotions towards women was my number one weakness. When I was 8, ran away scared from the"girl next door" because I was terrfied of her kissing. She had found out she liked me and tries to make a move. I ran with the utmosr fear. Ever since Ive always had timid nature, to the point of whiting out when girls would look at my boner. It truly makes me a beta at heart. I never desvred a girlfriend because I was just a weak inferior creature, just learning how to drive at 24 years of age, bearly making enough money to feed myself and pay rent. My friends used to make fun of me for being a bike, saying"I stole it" and the only girls I would ever get are 14 year old Highschoolers. Ive had to bikes stolen from me and never fucked a girl underage.

Life is a bitch, anon. Get some fucking money so you can dress her.

GF said "I might be a big part of your life anon, but you're just a part of mine. Maybe not that big. But I still love you."
What do I bros ;-:

>>42818899
end it

i'm serious

never be in the position of need

>>42818899
Fucking end it, now.

Bitch has made her mind up, only a short matter of time before she cheats on you with Tyrone.

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>>42809604
>allowing yourself to be played by thots
>Anno Domini MMXVII

haven't read thread

PLOW THE SISTER

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>tfw everything in the OP is happening to me right now,word for word

Jesus mate...

>>42809604
Fuck her and leave
Don't give the whore any real love or emotion. Maybe even go for some kinky shit

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>>42818899
End it bro, before it gets worse

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>>42809570
>>42809604

N-No way Jose

>>42809604
>>42809570
lmao
>asian
>racemixing
im not even a drumpf pol tard but everyone knows not to poison your genes dummie

some women are sluts, you just gotta accept that.

>>42810121
what if we share 50% of the same friends

>>42815513
you took too long to make a move.

youll meet a better girl eventually, just make sure you keep going out

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>>42815607
haha blown the fuck out

fucking hoes, im about to go full mgtow

>>42818899
everyone else speaks true. end it now. move on. Life sucks. love sucks. find joy in other things.

>>42813593
what's with the niceguy quote in the middle? it's like super inspiring picture until you realize some neckbeard made this.

>>42819928
No its supposed to make you feel more motivated. Make you feel better and more alpha than the faggot who whine about being "nice guys."

Be the one who he's jealous about. Make him feel pitiful and be malicious.


Also guys its OP.
Made up with the slut. Gonna try to hatefuck her into oblivion then leave.

>>42814073
good luck CPAbro. if you don't pass this time then just quit frogposting for a few months until you pass. CPA is tougher than the bar so no shame if you don't pass.

>>42814443
who hurt you, my guy

>>42815202
So leave, faggot.

>>42820200
you're saying that as if it's easy anon
i want to see that she's not over me
know that this wasn't so easy to get over as she made it look

>>42820208
>you're saying that as if it's easy anon
exactly, breh.

leaving the 'ch0n is NOT easy

>>42817765
>I have no idea how anyone can fake being over someone you were emotionally invested in when you're not over them
this hits much harder to home than i wanted

got literally ghosted by my ex of 2 years and all that's left is the feeling of how easy she could get over all of this, when i believed she was heavily emotionally invested in me

>>42819858
Dont be such a good goy. Find a fixer upper and invest in her. My gf used to be fat and is now well on her way to becoming a cardio bunny. She also used to be an annoyingly soft cunt and is now a tough little bitch who bites back when people try to walk on her. I'm actually quite proud of her but won't admit it because that would be gay.

>first day at new university for grad school
>i'm the smallest guy in the free weights section

fuggg

>>42820247
>>42819928
tfw i'm always prone to being the good guy and get hurt in the end

muscles don't help

>>42820208
Who broke up with who?

>>42820301
she broke up with me

>>42820306
Even if she does still care about you, do you really want someone who you'll never be happy with? Do you think you could ever feel the same way about her again?

>>42820323
who is to say that i'll never be happy with her
yes i can

>>42820333
There is obviously some kind of large issue because you broke up. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you, or even once didn't want to be with you?

>>42820333
>>42820367
Oh, and nice trips, faggot.

>>42820217
All it is is a habit.

>>42820367
maybe there is, maybe she's just scared to commit.
if she didn't even once wanted to be with me, well that would make her a really shitty person overall now wouldn't it, leading me on for a long time, comforting me when i was about to say the 3 magic words
if a relationship isn't working now, alright, but at the very least she shouldn't have gone without a word, at least given me more time than a phone talk for a couple of minutes.

>>42820394
I don't know your situation, maybe you're right.
But something similar happened to me, I was emotionally attached for... shit, maybe almost a year. Then he started ignoring me and I haven't heard from him since. I thought I would never get over it, that he surely couldn't have gotten over me that quickly. But I am over him now, and stepping back from the situation made me realize that he probably never even loved me.

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Dude I'm with a 9/10 half Asian/ half white chick right now who I've been hooking up with for the last two months, love and pussy is a drug brotha, there for you to use and abuse until you're wealthy until maybe you're ready to reproduce. God bless being 21 and fit

>>42820442
the whole ignoring part hearts more than the breakup itself
like, i have no problem staying in contact even though i loved her, really
but ghosting me without a single word is the shitties thing you can do and shows that you know that you've done something shitty

sorry to hear that anon and thinking about it she probably never gave herself the chance to really love me
which is sad
was almost about to tell her that i love her and few weeks later she breaks up, nice

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>>42820445
Seriously. Needing anyone outside yourself is gay af. I've been coked out with a bunch of good girls I've "corrupted". In the end they're all other humans who you can utilize for their body which is it brotha, women are pussys which make you feel good and that's it, nothing substantial

>>42820455
I agree, the ignoring is the worst part. It's like he became part of my life, part of my heart even, and he didn't care at all. It hurt a lot more than I would like to admit.

>>42820489
how long have you guys been together then?

>>42820492
About seven months. May of last year was the last time I talked to him. I should have realized sooner, though, he gradually ignored me more and more. But I didn't realize until afterwards.

>>42809672
>>42813882
This. I swear op must be a teenage bitch boy.

>>42809604
Damn son you got lucky as fuck her sister literally saved your ass.

Count your blessing and move on, most of us wish we'd have been so lucky.

>>42820523
well that sucks anon
any form of contact or is he wiped from your life?

>>42820536
I know his xbox gamertag so in theory I could message him, but I don't think I'll ever want to contact him again.

>>42820565
i see
well, i've still got some stuff of her at my place i believed she wanted to grab or something
texted her couple of days ago but i'm blocked or even deleted who knows
sucks but somehow comforting that i'm now alone with this feel

>>42820573
How long has it been since you broke up? Also why would she block you if she wanted her stuff?

>>42820594
has been over a week now
i don't know, she didn't block me right away, a couple of days after our phone call i noticed that she did

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>buy slightly above basic bench
>buy 300 lb weight set with bar
>spend about 300 bucks total; seems like a pretty good deal
> get it all home and onto the mats I had set up for it
>just kinda stare at it before getting down to assembling
>realize I dont know what Im doing or what my plan even was with all of this

Is this a normal way to feel before starting a routine? Im still pretty new to /fit/ (always just been a skinny/average build guy). Is this just a mental roadblock I need to get over or should I just return the shit and start smaller, and then re-evaluate all of my life's choices? Also...

>now wont be able to sleep over the social anxiety of the return process or what my next move is if they dont allow me to return it

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>>42809570
Remember all those years you posted on /r9k/ joking around with the beta uprising? Now is your time. Remember, no gfs.

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FUCK brahs, I feel so bad for my friend

>got this chick from his econ class' number on Friday
>been texting up a storm with her all weekend with hella bantz
>got a mini-golfing date set up
>tonight she asks him if her roommate can come along
>he's hesitant, but he says, "sure, she can come."
>her roommate is a dude (childhood friend, but a dude nonetheless)
>we all tell him red flag, bail out
>my friend apparently never made it clear he was looking for a gf and not just a friend
>explains his intentions and said he thought he was asking her out on a date
>she accuses him of "making it weird"

Girls are some serious bullshit man.

>>42820598
Well, good luck to you anon, I have enjoyed this conversation but am now going to bed. Remember that there are many things that only time can heal, and you'll be all right.

>>42820619
thanks anon, enjoyed it too
have a good nights sleep then!

>>42818899
I had a girlfriend many years ago, and one day after we'd been dating a few years and she seemed distant, I asked her:
''Do you still love me?''
To which she replied:
''I don't know if I love you anymore, but I am gla i dæ'' which is Norwegian for something along the lines of ''you mean a lot to me''.
That same night I knew it was over and made out with another girl at a party.
I regretted it right after though, because she may not have loved me anymore, but I loved her, so I called and told her right away.

It's been 8 years and I still can't get over her, and I don't get it, I've been with countless girls since, and I'm not an emotional guy, except for when it comes to her.

>>42820603
Keep the stuff.
And everyone has issues when they first work out.

You got this. Even if the weights don't cut it or you feel weird about doing it at home. Get creative

Do squats in the drive way.
Go to a park and learn to do cleans
Use the plates themselves for random shit. Etc.

>>42815229
>>42815366
Hey anon, good decision. It's good that you're moving on. Had a real similar experience to you
>meet her over summer at my job
>fwb relationship with plenty of fucking ensues
>go out to parties with her, get wasted and fuck like animals
>do the bf/gf type shit like movies and cuddling too
>never really "official" (we decided on that together in the beginning)
Long story short I fought over her with some other dude for a few weeks but she eventually chose him. Shoulda left at the very moment I found out there was another guy - whom she met at her classes in school and became the better, closer, new guy in her life.

>>42809604
date her sister

>>42820621
Thanks chanfam

>>42815079
Dude 23 is perfect. A guy in my year (chemistry) started after a millitary tour while he just got his first kid.
He aced everything. 23 yo have more disciplin and experience than 18 yo.

>>42820603

Also

>the bar that came with the weights is too big for the bench

Thats how little I know what Im doing. I didn't even think to check that.

I feel like a middle aged man who impulse bought a guitar, and then ended up with a microphone chord, and a bass specific amp by the time it was all said and done because he is a true newb.

>>42820658
laffin at your analogy

>>42820658
>I feel like a middle aged man who impulse bought a guitar
lol listen man you should feel like that cuz you basically did the same thing. if you'd done your research you wouldn't have bought some of the shit you bought- or maybe you would have, who knows. the point is it's done so take it as a lesson about doing your research first and keep lurking and learning how to use your shit.

they say with tools you buy nice or buy twice. i think it's the same with workout gear. unfortunately you're prob gonna buy twice with some of this stuff you impulse-bought but that doesn't mean you can't use it for now. good luck impulseanon.

>homegym masterrace.

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>>42815513
>my edit is getting posted on memecenter.com

>>42815759
WAY too much. You sound like a teenage girl, just say "I want nothing to do with you" and move on. It's not worth hanging around her, even just to get your dick wet.

i miss you do you miss me though

>>42809604
>The whole night she made it feel like I was the only one.
god damn what a fucking pimp

taking notes

>>42810092
>>"omg anon is that you? I thought I was calling my dad, must have accidently dialed you how you've been!"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH

nOOOoOoooooo wayyyyyyyyyy

>>42809624
lol detected the cucks

>>42810092
as this thread is about men's stupidity, I will share my story as well:

>start dating first gf
>I am extremely beta, but somehow hiding it behind aggresiveness
>basically she picked me up not the other way round
>fast forward 6 months
>she is disappointed with everything I do
>my friends are stupid
>I should stop smoking weed, even though her drinking is ok
>etc. etc.
>decide to end it
>we have exactly no contact in like 3 or 4 years
>she decides to message me
>I felt that it was the first time we had sincere conversation
>dunno why, but I told her I really loved her at the time (she always considered me heartless piece of stone)
>she wants to meet, so yeah, why not, we can still be friends
>we met, went out to have a few drinks, just talked and that's all
>older friends told me, she met with me ONLY because she wanted to try again (I still to this day call bullshit on this)
>no contact whatsoever, she wouldn't msg me, she wouldn't answer my calls, nothing
>fast forward to last month
>my friend, who is a guitarist, told me he found a new bar in our town, that actually plays good music and even has nice female bartenders
>why the hell not, we can go and see, it won't hurt
sidenote - this guy fucks everything that moves and has looks slightly above average, his game is spot on
>so we go this bar and I see her
>try to ignore her, hoping she won't notice me or in the worst-case scenario she will play along
>she did, nothing happened
>I have no idea why, but it hurts like shit
>he doesn't know we dated, but already told me he hasn't fucked her (he likes bragging about those kind of things, so I don't see a reason for him to lie about it)
I have done everything I can to forget her and now I know where she works and that one of my best friends is friends with her as well. What should I do?

>>42820953
>What should I do?
go on with your life, stop letting the past dominate your life, etc etc

>>42821039
>stop letting the past dominate your life,
>

>>42821039
I need more specific instructions. Shall I ignore her? Do everything not to get to this bar even once more? Tell my friend the truth? Hide the truth from him? Or just don't do anything as if nothing ever happened? Kill myself?

>>42814060
Just smoke it all the time maaaan no downsides maaan

>>42821805
Just browse the 'ch0n all the time maaan no downsides maaaan

>>42818899
Dump that cunt

>>42809570

I'm starting to understand the
>degeneration
pill.

After being single for over 5 years ( 23 ) and fucking almost 100 girls, I've finally gotten sick of this shitty lifestyle and want to actually start dating, fall in love again, all that stuff. Problem is... holy shit is it easier to find someone to fuck than someone that wants to date, is someone your type, likes you back, AND isn't in that period of their lives where they go around and fuck a new person every two days.
I thought I was hitting it off with this girl yesterday, and then she tells me that she's going for a walk with some friends. I tell her good night. I get a seen at 5AM. When I ask her about it, she pretty much says that she went to fuck a guy.

Another girl I talked to and thought I could date tells me she'd like to see me, and guess what. She's in an open relationship. Jesus Christ.

I don't wanna end up single til I'm 30 and then end getting fucking cheated on and then have my whole world crashing down again.

Is anyone else in this situation? What the fuck do I do? Do I just look for people as tired as me? After they've fucked dozens of guys? Shit, I've had some fuckbuddies that did that and guess what. They're fucking clinically depressed. Pills, doctors and psychs.

God. Fucking. Damn it.

Are you fucking me??

I had to swallow the mgtow pill afterwards though.

>>42820253
Its the stuff on the inside that counts.
Lige my dig in ur mum XDDD

itt: faggots

>>42820625
If it was the first girl you ever had true feelings for then I dont blame you.

>>42809672
Man, I wish my mind was that simple and my self worth depended on how much I get laid like yours does

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>>42809570

>entirety of squad have now had sex, including one particular turbo autist who nobody saw getting action
>now the only virign in the group
>was never really bothered by this but I've been hornier than usual lately
>don't know any girls and rarely get invited to parties to meet any

It's rather vapid, but I just wanna fuck something

Y'all are pretty insecure.
Just try to enjoy life a bit more and stop thinking too much about the "right" way of doing things.
By wanting everything to be flawless you and up destroying the nice things you could have had.
Human beings are messy, it will never be exactly the way you want it to.

>>42821062
Ignore her.

>>42822292
Just get an escort dude.

>>42809604
Dude, I was with a chick that (unknowingly to me) was chatting up 4 other guys and had a 'boyfriend'. You 100% will feel shit from this for a little while, just know that the slut is gonna get caught and karma will be dealt

>>42813776
You should understand that not everyone is the same. Some people are just not comfortable with being tied down and need freedom.
Personally I find it sad if you base your commitment to a relationship solely on if they'd cheat or not. Most people experience sex as a means to express and convey their passion, feelings and commitment. Others, like me, just see sex as a physical activity that is also a good way to show appreciation and to get intimate and closer to the other person.

I've had normal and open relationships and open relationships work better for me. Not because I or wanted to fuck around but because of the feeling of being tied down. And like I said, sex is emotionally far less significant for me than for most people. Currently in an open relationship and both of us fucked 2 others. On all occasions it was because we were away from eachother for a few weeks and we were drunk. It's pretty awesome knowing you can get your rocks off without your partner going nuts.
It works because we're open about it and we never ever put aside eachother for someone else.
One time I started an open relationship with a nympho, didn't know back then, and as soon as it was open she'd actively hunt for dick, cancelled plans and lied. That didn't work for me thou.

>>42814347
Yeah keep justifying your drugabuse bro.

People get wiser and think clearer as they age. It wasn't the weed you dumbass, it's because you're getting old.

>>42822374
yo that's true.

trying to be perfect can paralyze you to the point where you end up doing nothing at all

>>42822216
Yeah it was.
First and so far only.

>>42809838
This. You deserve it for trying to racemix. At least you won't have mongrel hapas now.

>>42811138

Fuck, anon. Get your ass back to the gym.

>>42813885

Shit on it and burn it. You'll feel better.

>>42823023
I have no idea if she actually wants her stuff back, she sounded like it when we talked the last time
Then again i am blocked everywhere so there's that

>>42814721
This is the truth

>>42814347

Drugs can do this. They can actually help and give you a clearer perspective, breaking you out of your habitual thinking. But you need to quit it now. Remember they were only used for ceremonial purposes by the priest class or the whole group would only use it rarely together. It is not meant to be a lifestyle, and can really hurt you if you do that.

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>>42809570
go for a cougar, anon.

>>42809604
Fuck her with a broken condom, get her preggo, dissapear forever. Bonus points if she doesn't realize she's pregnant and drinks during pregnancy. She deserves some sort of karma going her way for being such an asshole

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>>42815759
men are such fags.

i'm begginning to think with every break up i'm spiraling down a way of depression that hits harder every time

>>42815759
Dude ghost her. Keeping her around will not be worth the hassle. Also you come off kind of bitchy when you write long paragraphs like that. Give her the snibbety-snap and be done with her forever

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>going out with friend's sister
>known her for a long time and she was exactly my type
>valentines day coming up
>learn to sing and play her favourite song on guitar
>had an unrelated falling out with the friend
>"Hey let's go out for valentines day, I've got a surprise for you"
>"........Ok"
>she phones back in a few seconds
>"I don't think we should go out anymore. Did you spend a lot of money? Can you return the surprise?"
>"No, it didn't cost me anything. Bye."

Last time I spoke to her. To this day still have never played guitar for a girl.

>>42823028

Really, though, fire rituals are a thing to let go of things. You eviscerate them. I was shitposting about the shitting (optional), but burning her things is a symbolic way of entirely removing her influence from your life. If more than a few months have passed, I'd be doing it.

>>42823393
Maybe i will
Maybe i'll send her a text,on a non blocked channel and if i get no response gonna get the stuff fucking out of here
No need to remind me of her and the shit way she broke up

i loved you

>>42809714
This x100000 don't forget get some nudes out of her

Wtf is wrong with you OP?

>>42823195
So you would fuck up a kid just to get revenge? Nice, faggot. KYS

>>42823654
I loved him but I don't think he loved me.

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>>42822256
Well for that to happen you'd have to have any self worth at all for it to depend on anything.

>>42809604
Nail her sister.

>>42823868
sorry to hear that
i wanted to tell her the 3 magic words, she encouraged me to say it but without pressure
week after she breaks up
not cool

You guys think you have it rough, I just had to roll of shame 145 in front of qt desk girl who's always trying to chat at the exit.

>>42815607

OP, your message about trust was spot on. Trust and respect and truth are base for any relationship, once it is gone, it is gone.

Bitches be crazy. Focus on yourself. There are nice things coming your way, but you have to go through a lot of shit to get there.

>>42823868
what r u fagot?

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