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/gog/ GAINS OVER GIRLS thread

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>be me
>16 at the time
>have been going to the gym for about 4 or 5 months
>already noticing visible gains, bigger pecs, big triceps, broader shoulders, muscular back
>legs looking tiny, need to put more time and work into them
>start getting friendly with a girl
>finally get together
>she is taking up most of my time
>start skipping gym
>"hey anon, why don't you stay with me, you can go to the gym any other time"
>i start eating less, lifting rarely, start losing weight
>mfw I lost my gains over a girl

Fast forward a few years

>be hitting gym
>getting friendly with another girl
>"hey anon, why dont you..."
>NOT THIS TIME THOT

Share similar stories about when you lost/almost lost your gains over a girl.
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>be at the gym
>bench presses
>see a qt 3.14 doing squats
>feel my blood rushing away from my muscles
>couldn't finish the last 3 reps
>fucking bitch
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Was with a girl (who was actually skinny) for seven years who always hated when I'd "waste time" in the gym, didn't want me to have a six pack, and was annoyed whenever I would try and improve my diet. Total gains goblin. Since things ended with her I've been in the gym daily and have seen my weight go from 155lb to 180lb in five months with very minimal fat gain. She's been blowing up my phone about seeing me, fuck that.
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>>41546764
Same here anon. This one girl said that being /fit/ and having big muscles is ugly. Didn't feel like being with her anymore.
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>>41546764
>gains goblin

kek
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>>41546764
>>41546789
>>41546553
>being with girls and even letting them get in the way of your vision instead of simply fucking them in times of need
what are you guys even doing?
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>>41546812
Trying out the normie life.
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>Want GF
>Train hard, become /fit/
>Acquire GF
>Things are great for a month
>Casual Sex is nice
>Have almost no time to myself or to train
>Stay awake at night planning ways to break up with her.
>Dreading the break-up encounter
>Finally do it, break up with her while we drive back from lunch one day
>OVERWHELMING FEELING OF FREEDOM
>Hit gym super hard
>Feeling Great
>So Happy
>Couple of months later kinda want a GF again
>.............

Life is stupid.
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>Start lifting
>6 months later improved posture, improved physique, shirts fit nicely, improved confidence
>Get gf
>Date for 2 years, keep going to the gym 2-3 times a week but usually just half-ass it
>Eat a bunch of trash like chocolate, crisps and icecream with her often
>Want to go more but gf takes up too much time and energy
>She breaks up with me
>Pain and anger used as fuel in the gym
>Suddenly all the time in the world, infinite energy, start going 4-5 times a week
>Make more gains in 3 months than in the last 2 years

Girls really are fucking gains goblins, Im never letting a girl come in between my goals again
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Is this the new mgtow thread?
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Before /fit/ I would let any pussy get in my way of ultimate gainz. Now after /fit/ I don't get any pussy at all. But i got my big muscular right arm.
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>>41546887
>No, this is a LYWKHP thread.
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> Few months back
> In power rack doing OHP
> 8/10 brunette has finished deadlifts and comes over to squat rack
> She says "Excuse me, is it really necessary for-"
> I shout "GAINS GOBLIN"
> Everyone stops what they are doing
> One guy comes over
> "Is this lady bothering you sir?"
> "Yes sir, we have a gains goblin on our hands"
> "Ma'am I'm afraid I'm going to have to ask you come with me"

She was fed to the manlet pit, and trust me those guys hadnt eaten in weeks
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>letting girls steal your gains
Girls are only gains goblins if you allow them to be, anons. You're the man of the relationship, tell her to fuck off when she asks you to skip the gym.
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ALL women are gains goblins once you get in a serious relationship with them.

That is, unless you stand your ground and tell them to fuck off if they try to keep you from the gym and eating right.

"A woman will try to break a man because she is looking for a man she cannot break."
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>>41546920
THIS
LYWKHP - Let Your Woman Know Her Place
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>gf supports my lifting
>last week she called me to tell me I forgot my gym bag at home and offered to bring it to me

I took that day off of lifting but the fact that she knew my schedule and wanted to bring me my bag made me happy
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>Aquire Fwb
>Have night sessions for three weeks every single day consisting of staying up until like 4am fucking twice a night, watching tv shows and eating/drinking garbage
>Start skipping gym due to bad nutrition and barely sleep
>
>Drop her

I haven't sacrificed my gym time for anyone else since
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>>41546934
>took that a day off lifting

Sad!
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>>41546875
easy solution. get 2-4 fuck buddys that are slightly below you and aware of their status. make it clear you're not to be bothered. there are billions of women who love to unbindingly have sex with an attractive man who doesn't go around town telling everyone.
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>>41546934
>>41546958
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>>41546957
Life's lessons, anon
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>>41546982
Well it kinda helped that I broke my arm twice right after it due to fights and was fucked for half of summer so yeah, that also helps getting back on track.
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What girl? I wouldnt give up my gym time for a girl but I guess I'll never know because autistic
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>>41546964

I had that with one girl, but she developed feelings and likely envisioned our life together. She would eventually show up to my place with baked goods that she made and would want to hang out even after I made myself clear. I had to go No Contact on her to prevent further damage, she did not take it well......kinda wish I saved the texts.
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>>41547000
>wasting trips on self-pity

autistic indeed
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>>41546553
thanks for the zozzle m8
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>>41546812
Connecting with a girl and enjoying spending time with them is way better than just fucking them and that's it.

>t. someone who isn't 22 years old anymore.
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>>41546964
i can't handle more than 1 girl. I have things like emotions and a heart.
In my case: no girls = gains
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>>41547035
>I have things like emotions and a heart.

Take the redpill anon. Or forever be dominated by women.
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>>41547031
No capacity to trust females except mum seen too much shit, the betrayal disgusts me and doesn't even happen to me. Just buying whores for now.
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>>41547031
I'm 31, buddy. Been there, done that. Enjoy spending time with girls then, if that's what you're into. I'll keep fucking them.
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>>41547077
Redpill is to fuck and spread the gene? Without any emotional connection?

>sperm is protein
>tfw ejaculation is basically protein ejection in its purest form
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>>41546907
nice post i cackled
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>>41547086
>See pic

>>41547031
>Connecting with a girl
>Still believing in the love meme

Women can't connect the way men want to or in a way that makes sense.
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As much as I love getting laid it makes me so fucking lazy. Especially when I get a gf or fwb, my brain tells me theres no point in lifting because I already got what I wanted

No matter how hard I try I cant seem to convince myself to lift for other reasons than being mired by girls

I know Im scum I dont deserve to live
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>>41547110
I really want to believe otherwise. But unfortunately I must agree. Women are not only /gainsgoblins/ but emotion and energy goblins.
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>>41547125
This might be one of the best explanations behind all these stories of losing gains over a girl.
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>>41546478

>I lost my noobgains because of a grill
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A good girl, like, the really really rare kind of girl. Will be a man's muse, someone who will inspire him to be even better than he thought he could be. Someone that will support and love the man no matter what.

Look at the story of McGregor and his girlfriend for example.

Stop being bitter woman haters and go find yourself your muse
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>>41547110
>>41547127
Female slavery should be legal.
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A few hours ago I was talking to a female friend of mine. I wanna fuck her so hard.

>be me
>planning a 4 month bulking phase for the summer (for upcoming military service)
>female friend asks if i want to move to another city for the summer and find a short time summer job
>have to give up gym
>waitwhat.rar
>almost fell for the gain goblins trickery
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>>41546907
kek'd
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>>41547158
OP here
The point isn't that I had n00b gains, the point is that I gave up on lifting for a girl.
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>>41547110
That's why I am gay. No gf no problem. Hitting gym 3 times a week with my boyfriend.
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>>41547179

She'd probably friendzone you too if you actually went there
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>>41547164
He's also apparently super ungrateful, he's cheated on her constantly.
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>me and girl suddenly fall off face of earth
>ask her what happened at work
>she says i never hit her up
>she always leaves me on read

where did i go so wrong n what do i do
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>>41547212

this, she only wanted you there to pay for half the rent
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>>41547203
>sperm is protein
>ANY KIND of ejaculation is protein ejection
>tfw you lose gains over a nut
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>>41547167
Don't need to hate or oppress them, just need to see them for what they are and focus on yourself.
>>41547103
>Redpill is to fuck
Yes.
>Without any emotional connection?
Yes.
>spread the gene
These days you've got to be damn sure you know how men and women work before doing so.
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>>41547217
>>she always leaves me on read

There's your problem dumbass, just drop her. If she can't be fucked to be polite and respond back to you after you've messaged her what the fuck are you doing pining after this bitch?
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>>41547203
>that's why I am gay

lol sure buddy, keep telling yourself that
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>>41547164
>Citing McGregor to prove his point
kek
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>>41547228
>Redpill is to fuck
That's what I do anyway. Pay upfront for a whore seems more earnest to me instead of going to a club trying to impress a drunk slut.
How come they can never be the faithful property, that loves us unconditionally, we want them to be?
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>>41547244

Him being an ungrateful cunt doesnt change the fact that his girlfriend supported and inspired him against all odds
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>>41546478
>i will never have literally perfect abs and pecs like this
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>>41546478
left objectively looks better
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>>41547288
Poor girl
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>>41547288
>expecting a world class fighter to not act like a man
only on /fit/
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>>41547365
His ungratefulness and cocky attitude will most likely get way over his head and demolish his career.
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>>41547365
>cheating on someone who was with you when you were broke and nothing, showing true character and devotion which is extremely hard to find
>This is being a man

Granted, if she has cheated on him before then this all doesn't matter but cmon anon.
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>>41547387
He already made it. He could never fight or do anything again and be set for life.
>>41547288
Him being a multi-millionaire world-wide superstar is all she needs for her to look past his 'ungratefulness'.

In fact, she was so taken aback by it all that she decided to have his child.

Wake up and stop channeling your inner white-knight.
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>>41547365
Why is it that /fit/'s idea of 'alpha' is a middle schoolyard jock bully?

Are people here really that young?
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I'll just leave this here
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>>41547387
>>41547392
you misunderstood. I'm not talking about the metaphysics of what constitutes a man. I'm talking about world class fighter levels of testosterone.
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>>41547454
Was this actually fucking real? I figured it was some faggot rping
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>>41547461
>high test = no self control
I bet you're that guy that thinks you're a fatass because you have high test appetite.
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>>41547461
>I'm talking about world class fighter levels of testosterone.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH this fucking faggot thinks testosterone turns you into an asshole. I use steroids, testosterone doesn't change anything. It makes you horny and confident, that's it. It doesn't turn you into a cheating, cocky, aggressive prick. It doesn't change who you are.
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>>41547507
did I say anything about self control? do you think conor was not in control of himself? get real.
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>>41547545
>I use steroids
>HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
up your dosage, my man. you write like a boy.
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>>41547565
Already on half gram of tren. Plus 25mg of Sdrol. I already feel like shit.
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>>41547550
A fatty is in control too when he shoves those burgers down his throat
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>>41547613
so you agree with me. what is your point?
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only fit would rather work out than cuddle with a qt3.14 while watching a movie and fucking like rabbits after.
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>>41547658
my point is being a man (high test or whatever) is not an excuse for being a prick
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>>41547704
>needing an excuse to be a man
you are not going to make it. what are you even doing here?
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>>41547234
she says that she only does it when theres nothing left to talk about

ik what shes means, but if i really want to talk to someone, then ill talk about literally anything
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>>41546934
>I took that day off of lifting
If she really supported you
She would have Molly wapped you right there
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>>41546478
>start working out
>still skinny as fuck 3 months later cause I ate nothing
>minimal gains
>start dating hot girl
>stop lifting cause I only lifted for girls
>break up
>finally lift again 3 years later
>been going steady for over a year now without stopping
>put on 20 pounds of lean mass
>very proud of myself
>finally starting to get mires here and here
>tfw this isn't even my final form
>tfw I will never stop lifting for a bitch cause now I do it for me not for girls
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>>41547685
Because it's a slippery slope. Do it once then it gets easier to do it the next time, and easier still the next time.

Besides, she ain't gonna disappear while I'm at the gym is she? We'll do it some other time when I don't want to workout.
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>broke up with girlfriend yesterday
>things just weren't working
>my future plans for medical school would make us lasting very unlikely
>still friends with benefits/close friends
>more time to teach myself guitar
>more time to lift
>can focus on research
>also here for summer school
>not many people here
>harder to meet people

Thinking about making a Tinder in the meantime.
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>>41548146
If you're looking to get into med school why even bother with relationships at all?
I'm premed and most people I know doing the same thing stay away from dating. One of my good friends I study with is in a relationship and after three years of trying to balance that and school, she's constantly stressed out, out of shape, and barely has a 3.1 cumulative - pretty much ensuring she won't get into an MD program. Meanwhile I and the rest of our group that's stayed out of relationships have been able to maintain 3.7s or higher.
It just doesn't seem worth it.
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>>41547449
They were all bullied/showed up by such types as teens so they now think its the way to be as an adult
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>>41547086
Go for it. It's still more satisfying for me to fuck them and get to know them as a person and enjoy their company.
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>>41548041
Then that means she's boring as fuck, I have a female friend that even though we run out of conversation she's still at least polite or just enjoy each others company.

If she can't event talk to you the way you want to talk to her, then just give up.
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>>41547742
>being a man is having little to no self control and cheating
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>>41548327
im not gonna give up on this girl my man

i feel like when she said i never hit her up, it kinda implies that we mesh a lot better in person (which i think is true)

i cant let her get scooped up by some other dude that ill have to destroy though
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>>41548519
You sound like a cuck desu. You're doing as much mental gymnastics as you can to deny the fact that this girl isn't interested. Like you said if you really like someone you'll talk to them about anything. The more likely scenerio here is that she isn't interested in you but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Cut contact and move on. She's not unique you'll find someone else.
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>>41548247
I mean, we dated all throughout my sophomore year, and I finished with a 3.82 and was able to keep up with research, volunteering, lifting, learning guitar, and leading the service committee of our pre-med club. I just now have a bit more wiggle room on the weekends for my hobbies.
I think it's doable, honestly. It's not that I didn't have time for a relationship; we thought about it and realized we wanted two different lifestyles.
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>>41546478
>>NOT THIS TIME THOT

DAS IT MANE, YOU'RE GONNA MAKE IT BRAH
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>>41549543
wow you're such a super genius, amazing how you guys always find fit isnt it?
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>>41546805
you must be new here
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>>41548692
okay lets say in the situation that she is disinterested, how are you supposed to clutch this person back from the depths of hell
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>>41546805
how new
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If you are talking about "gains over girls", why are 75% of the posts on this board about girls?

This place is so obsessed with everything about girls it's almost pathetic.

Everything this board does is for girls. They lift weights for girls. They take hobbies for girls. You all cry and post feels about girls. Then at the same time try to pretend like you don't need girls

I've never seen a single place pedestalize girls the way fit does, while also pretending to be alpha males
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>>41548519
>im not gonna give up on this girl my man
dat oneitis
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>>41546764
>always hated when I'd "waste time" in the gym

This is a common shit test anon.
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I have trouble with eating out with my girl, we like to eat out quite a bit she's quite fit played sport in school etc. She's down to eat healthy, but how do I go out on "date night" yet lose fat? perhaps substituing an unhealthy option for something better?

Any suggestions?
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>>41547164

>t. i have never interacted with a woman irl
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>>41548146
>broke up with gf
>does not go no contact

nigga wtf u doin?
u didnt break up with shit
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>>41549677
just let it go man jesus fuck
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>>41549677
By moving the fuck on. Are you serious? She's obviously uninterested in you as a person. There's absolutely nothing you can do to change that. If she doesn't like you for you, she won't like you for anyone else. She isn't unique you dumbass. Just cut contact and find a different bitch holy fuck
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>>41546805
kill yourself
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>>41549683
Nice projection m8
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>>41550022
>literally a thread right now, this one, called "gains over girls" with over 100 posts of guys discussing gains instead of girls
>its a fact that the front page always full of threads about wanting more girls, crying over not having girls, sad over girl breaking up with them, how do i get girls/sex, etc
>projecting
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>Wife bitches that she doesn't want me to get "too big".
>Begs me to do cardio instead.
>Reply "My body, my choice".
>Somehow I'm an arsehole.
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>>41550032
Surely it can't just be different people having different goals and interests. Surely this small bit of shaky anecdotal evidence is enough to make bold claims about an entire board. Surely.
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>>41550032
in case anyone says im exaggerating/projecting this too

on the front page right now

>>41548476
>>41543471
>>41543757
>>41546650
>>41532107

sprry for the autism, just dont get why this place cares so much about girls
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>>41550066
surely you're not one of those fucking retards who looks at the majority of people doing something and say "WELL DAT DUZNT MEEN EVERYONE IS DOING IT DATS JUS ANECDOTAL EVRY1 IS DIFFRUNT". surely.
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>>41546907
Unexpected kek
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>tfw gf is alright with me going to the gym
>tfw she always gets turned on when I get home all sweaty and we fuck 9 times out of 10

not even mad about cardio desu
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>>41550078
Yeah surely you can decide what the majority is thinking. On an anonymous image board. With only 2 threads as evidence...Surely you're not just bitter as fuck and projecting your insecurities onto the rest of us. Right?
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>>41549683
>They take hobbies for girls

You know how I know they don't do this? Because it's a strategy that works. They'd have gotten gfs by now.
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>>41549683
>why are 75% of the posts on this board about girls?
Who the fuck said I agreed with anyone else here?

>while also pretending to be alpha males
Nonstop BAWWWing they'll never be Chad is a funny way to pretend to be alpha.
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>be with grill, about a year long
>totally controls me, screamed at me because I supposedly agreed to go to the same gym as her, but I joined one cheaper
>i apparently dont have time for her anymore since I work and wanna gym
>huge fight one night, I decide, fuck it, she's out
>she was responsible though, she had been a fucking nightmare the last weeks
>fuck a new grill, one week after
>good for me right?
>ex at the door next morning
>grill still in my bed
>ex has the keys, tryna get in
>mfw I have to force her out, take her keys
>few months later, few girls later
>gym five times per week, gaining and cutting crazily

Gains over girls man. I'm staying single for fuck long now
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>>41547454
HUGE CELEBRITY DOES COKE AT PARTY, FUCKS HOOKERS MORE AT 6
How is this surprising to anyone? How fucking naive are you fucks?
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>>41550078
You're a moron.
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>>41546907
Gr8 m8
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>>41547227
>not eating it all back up again
Not gonna make it brah
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>>41550112
You just got lucky with this one gril.
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>>41546478
Daily reminder that this guy is the king of /fit/
He literally lifts more than all of you
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>>41551279
Bad post
feel bad
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>>41551279
Back to /r/eddit
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Nothing wrong with pic on left and you all know damn well. Left is hands down sexier.

And damn it just dawned on me why. Too cut and striated and veiny looks old. It conjures up like a weathered old stringy man, not robust youth. Dont forget to enjoy life a little ya dummies.
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>>41547213
Sauce?

Not being shitty, just curious where the rumors come from.
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>on the treadmill, headphones in
>make eye contact with girl as she walks in
>same girl comes back and goes on the treadmill next but one to me (there are about 20 free treadmills)
>continue cardio
>can feel her looking at me and stopping starting and facing my direction
>she finishes before me and leaves

what is this lads? a mire?
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>>41550065
you're fat
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>>41551666

Not him, but I'm not so sure. My long term partner was the same and I wasn't fat.

She just had this really weird thing about me lifting weights and "getting too big". It was always "I love you just the way you are"
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>>41551664
Yes.
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>at the gym
>scorchingly hot red head walks in mid workout
>she can't take her eyes off me
>if she doesn't have direct line of sight, she's using mirrors
>try to ignore her and continue my workout
>after a while, she walks up to me, and asks me what I'm doing Friday
>legs
>she gives me a puzzled look and walks out

I hadn't even realized she had asked me out, until I told some friends the story, and they called me a retard. Probably for the best, anyway, she was probably a gains goblin.
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>>41551678
>She just had this really weird thing about me lifting weights and "getting too big". It was always "I love you just the way you are"

She didn't want you getting too jacked because she was afraid of the attention other girls would give you. You might even realize that you can do better than her.

It's also a shit-test.
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>>41546478
Left looks normal, picture on the right looks fucking gross. You can see the veins going down to his weiner n sheeeit.
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> been with fiancée for 3 years
> first 2 years she doesn't understand why I go to the gym
> starts going herself
> loves lifting
> she understands now
> I train 5/6x a week
> she is still training 4x a week
If you can get them to understand your drive and passion for doing it, they won't goblin your gains (unless they're selfish - then you leave them)
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>>41551666
Genuinely not tho.
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>>41551678
Yeah, my wife just likes ottermode, don't want to be that weak though.
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> supposed to go out with gf last Friday
>"why don't you skip gym today so we have more time to get ready?"
> laugh on the phone and say nothing else
> the end

you gotta put your foot down or else you get cuked
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>>41549677
If you cant spit out conversations with someone and not having any retarded pauses where she ignores you because she has nothing else to say then move on.

I've had few girls interested in me then they drop off the face of the earth because they think im boring, and a lot of girls i've been interested in dont give me the time of the day and I can never hold a conversation with them for more than 5 mins.

If you don't click with someone and have that spark of talking flat out then move on, cuck.

That's if you want a GF btw.

If you want a fuck buddy who cares what their personality is like? its only how tight their pussy is and how nice their tits/ass are.
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I don't understand how you cucks don't have time to juggle both?

>I finish at 4:30
>gf finishes at 6
>have 1.5 hrs to gym

I have plenty of time to balance gym and relationships, why can't you?

Also if GF wants to go out for dinner or something on a weekend I gym in the mornings so that I don't skip it.
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>>41551664
>treadmill
Faggot detected.
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>>41551708

absolutely this.
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>>41551664

Your opener next time is:

> do you ever the the feeling, you are just a hamster running in its wheel?

then transition into asking if she has pets and talking about yours / funny stories about your pets

then transition to family / where you live / pets personalities
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>>41547086
>31
>browsing th3 'ch0n

aww yehhh
>>
>squatting
>qt gym crush in next rack
>funny feeling as I start set 4
>rumbly tummy
>very audibly shit myself on third rep
>see qt in mirror looking at me wide eyed
>eye contact established
>finish two more reps
>go bathroom, clean undies & ass
>return to finish last set
>gym crush was gone

So should I just abandon all hope of getting the qt, or do you all think I still have a chance?
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>>41546478
>Have gf
>I'm strong as fuck
>Fuck her pussy super hard one day
>She splits in two
>''I'm so fucking sorry Julie I-''
>She's already fucking dead
>Stop going to the gym forever, not like this
>Testify to the judge
>Tell him it was the cat
>Cat get's his ass jailed
I'm now 27 years old and have not had a romantic relationship, gone to the gym in 7 years. I've spent 7 years watching anime and playing videogames and posting on forums, how do I fix my life?
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>>41552016
throw poo at her
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>>41552056
fix it by going to the gym you fat fuck
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>>41547031
>connecting with girls
How am I supposed to connect with someone who is most definitely a vapid whore. Every time I liked a girl, every time I thought I connected with a woman, every time I fucked a female it turned out she had a boyfriend. Don't give me any of that "notallgirls" bullshit either, I've had girls who look and act like fucking angels and seem like the faithful type fuck around with me behind their boyfriend's back.
If a girl feels like she can upgrade she WILL cheat on you, it's just how nature works. Women have all the sexual power, they get to pick and choose their partners so they do, all the time.
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>>41551708
>>41551708
>>41551708
>>41551708
>>41551708

also possible she is aware of how ridiculous steroid users end up looking most times, but doesn't realise it's steroids

>thinks it is the natural destination of all men to end up in cloud / hyper-barbarian mode
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>>41552168
Sounds like some projection desu
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>>41552168
Who the fuck doesn't want to look like Arnold/Conan?
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>>41546478
>>41546764
>with girl
>major alcoholic
>took her off streets
>gave her world
>she would drink hand sanatizer/rubbing alcohol/acetone when I took her IDs away
>she cheats
>kick her to the streets
>hit gym and start getting shredded for last year
>she's with some nigger that beats/rapes her, treats her like shit, etc.

Bitch this nigger was threatening to kill me and shit, but he might just be my karma. I'm glad she's getting treated like shit, beaten, raped, drugged, etc. for cheating on me. This is what she wanted and what she deserves. Meanwhile I'm still hitting up college freshmen on tinder and getting cute teens that make her look old and shitty. Which she is, she was 6 years older than me anyway.
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Just stop dating petty idiots. If you can explain to her why you are doing it in a reasonable way and she says any of the dumb things you guys claim, she's probably dumb. If you can't explain it to her in a reasonable way, you are dumb.
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>>41551705
fake and gay
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>>41547164
He fell for the Instagram McGoobs love meem
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>>41547031
This. This is how to live without autismo. Dont let anyone on this site tell you otherwise but definitely don't let them keep you from training
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>>41546903
Lying Your Wanking Kale Horizontally Plane
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>>41552066
thus spoke the Rajesh
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>>41547579
How's your acne?
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>>41546805
Die faggot
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>>41546478
>>41551717

Agreed. Left is perfect
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>>41551978
This is good
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>>41546907
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>>41551708
This, girls want to marry a dad-bod whilst fucking chad on the side
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>>41551978
fuck m8 that's textbook, you read the tao of badass or you're one of those normies I see here sometimes?
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>>41554967
Left Pic = thicc (Fat mess)
Right Pic = peeled (God mode)
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>hungry skelly all my life
>get married
>decide to take fitness seriously, start lifting
>wife loves it
>she squeezes my new pecs while on top
>rides my bicep to climax
>plays with my ass during oral
I started lifting since I don't want my future son to have a scrawny dad, but there are definitely other perks. Only thing is that the wife loves to bake, so cutting can be difficult.
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>>41556557
>I don't want my future son to have a scrawny dad

Literally me.

I don't want my son to have a dad who's fat or looks like a pussy. I want to be a positive male role model, while not being so pushy that I turn him into an /r9k/ poster because he can't hope to emulate me.
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>gf lives far and is in last year of medicine
>i can just see her twice a month if im lucky
>would kill for passing more time with her
>mfw people complain about her gf stealing time from them
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>>41556557
>>41556608

This is part of why I lift, I would lift anyways but it's major motivation to take myself to the next level, I want my son's to see me as an inspiration and have then desire to be fit individuals
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>>41546805
Oh boy.
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>>41547031
Women have no value as people. They're talented at feigning deeper levels of thought, commitment and will, but it is truly an act to save face. Their existence is entirely in the realm of the superficial. It's not their fault, it's how evolution has hardwired them into becoming effective caregivers to children. But if you're expecting to connect with them on any level other than physical or superficially emotional, you're wasting your time and energy
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>>41546805
why didn't anyone give him his welcome greeting, complimentary protein shake, and a 12 year old girl?
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>>41546805
>last hour newfag
>posting
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>>41547077
Hello INTJ
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>>41546478
>be me in middle school about 16
>i played football and was known as one of the most muscular white guys at my school (mainly hispanic)
>i got called captain america due to my good physique
>start dating 10/10 blonde, i actually lift more to keep her
>start getting lazy, stop working out cause she want me to spend all my time with her
>2 years later we break up, ive lost 30lbs of muscle and gained 20 in fat
>this dumb bitch took me at my best form and made me lazy and basically threw me back to step one
>ive finally started lifting again and it fucking sucks
>i used to lift so much and i used to look so good and now im shit
>i eat pure shit, like straight junk food
help me /fit/ im not gonna make it
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>>41546805
>>>/b/
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>>41546805
leave dyelfag
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