Feels thread..

>finally get job at a restaurant as busser
>slow to pickup the job but finally settle In to the work after a month
>inside source worker gossip apparently I'm canned in two weeks
I thought I was making friends and doing my job well, but apparently this shade is now following me and I dont know what to do, is there anything I can do for these two weeks to save myself?
I thought I was finally going to make it

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>hang out with girl
>makeout and cuddle for a bit
>brettygood.wmv
>tells me next day she doesn't want to han out anymore

Feelsbadman. I would talk about this to my irl friends but pretty much no one in my friend group is ever serious with each other and I don't want to seem like a pussy.

>>41476225
I'll never understand why women do this
>spend everyday with her
>get her number
>flirt
>drops all contact

>>41475723
>busser
>slow to pickup job

how fucking retarded are you. you're probably still fucking up but too much of a dunce to realize it.

>>41475723
Can you elaborate on the situation and articulate why you're going to be fired and how you found out

>>41476225
>>41476264
Maybe you lack social skills and come on too strong. Maybe she get cold feet

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>>41476225
That's because I went round and fucked her all night after she moaned about how the guy who was there before was some autist who only wanted to cuddle. Then she chucked you because she wants my prime bit of English pork and not your little chipolata.

>>41476295
that doesn't make any sense
>Hey I like this guy and he likes me. Better stop talking to him!

>>41476225
>>41476264
Dudes I know this fucking feeling. Sucks majorly in a big way.
>meet QT out at a bar
>we have banter, dance, have a good time
>go back to her place, have passionate sex
>chill for a few hours talking afterwards
>text her the next day, she replies like once or twice with 4-5 hours between texts
>eventually just stops responding entirely

>>41476352
You joke but she's a virgin which is why I cared so much in the first place and didn't try to fug her the night of

>>41476363
It does make sense if you understand how women work.

If you want to consistent have sex with a woman you need to subtly hint that you have other options available, women like to compete with other women, it makes them feel special when the guy picks them, the worse thing you can do is show her that she's your only source of sex, that gives her power and shows that you're powerless, ie now unattractive due to being below her.

Men will date/fuck down but women will generally only ever date/fuck upward due to tinder/online dating inflated self-worth and attractiveness.

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I'm NEET kissless virgin autist who lives with mommy but for the first time in 4 years of lifting I'm finally comfortable with my body.

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Hi bois

Just thought id pop in quickly to tell everyone it'll all be okay.

There will always be good things in your future, but i know sometimes its hard to see.

I hope you all can find happiness, but more importantly contentment in the present, dont let your mistakes hold you back, and dont let your anxiety immobilise you.

I hope you can draw upon your past experience, and use the wisdom you can find.

Be healthy, work hard, hell, be selfish. We're not here for long. Find the things that matter most to you, and nurture them

remember, the devil is in the details. Dont wait for the ability to make grand gestures, but instead make the right small decisions and actions, because those are what really matter

Remember, true bravery is not absence of fear. Its not letting that fear stop you.
In the same way, true strength is not finding an easy path. Its sticking to the tough one, despite how difficult you find it

I'll say it again, because sometimes its important to hear, and its even harder to hear from yourself when going through tough times:

It'll all be okay


I hope you all find the good in the world that youre looking for.
God bless


And remember one important thing:
We're all gonna make it


"It matters not how strait the gate
How charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate
I am the captain of my soul"

>>41476518

Thank you kind sir.

>>41476384
Women have more autism than we realize. It seems like they want you, but at the same time are too scared of being rejected. Remember a women can go her whole life without EVER facing the risk of rejection, they fear it even more than the average autismo on here does.

It's almost like they want you to tell them what they want. They have a different perspective then us. Being direct is key, straight up tell her WHY you want to take her out, so she knows 100% what your intentions are. You're (presumably) a goddamn adult, this isn't middleschool; be straight with her and if she can't handle it then fuck it her loss.

>>41476641
>women FEAR rejection
Try ignoring one or not paying attention to one.
>friends and i go to city festival
>guy says hes already close to one of the girls behind the bar
>talk/flirt with blonde qt
>next day we go out with the same friends and his girl
>girl catches me alone and asks why i didnt talk/flirt with her
I was flabbergasted ťbh

>>41476495
don't do this

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>Girl led me on hard (I think they call it ghosting now?), told my friend and apparently she tried to get him to hate me for it
>Never once triple texted, she always responded well
>mfw it's because she found out Im Libertarian and own guns
>mfw my family hunts to provide for others
>Roommates start to hate me
>One bitch can't cook/wash dishes/clean
>Decides it's my fault (I live with two girls and a guy)
>Turns other roommates against me
>Mfw I have to live with people who won't talk to me for the next month and a half

I hate a lot right now. Life seems pretty unfortunate and all around irritating. But screw it, I'll live on.

>>41478387
>One bitch can't cook/wash dishes/clean

fuck I know that pain. Sooner you move out of that mess the better bro

>it's because she found out Im libertarian and own guns

fuck that cunt for direspecting your way of life. Ignore the cunts. Don't apologize for who you are to them btw or they will see you as pathetic, which you are not

>>41475719
I'm new and working out is a really great way to release my anger

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>I have to start working out soon or I'll lose it even further
>Workaholic here
>Not even sure what is real anymore
>Day in and day out same shit, go to work, go home
>Thinking of quitting and living alone in the mountains

>>41478387
Ew, you're christian/catholic AND a libertarian. Totally understandable that you're alienated in front of your roommates. Don't worry, I'm sure that in a month and a half you can retreat to a place where everyone is just like you.

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>>41476518
thank you, you wise, beautiful and bodacious beast

>>41478507
You have no internet in the woods
Remember that

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>>41478665
>thats the point

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>>41478683
> he thinks he can leave

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>>41478387
I slept with one of my housemates, and made out a lot/slept in the same bed as another. They hated me p fast soon after; I just don't talk to them and completely ignore them. I leave the house for summer never to return in about half a month. It wasn't so bad, gl

>>41478701
Yea

I've done it before, longest stretch being away was like 2years, totally forgot this site name and this community

I'm usually here when I need to figure shit out about my life, been here everyday for about 2-3 months now

I'm sure I will leave again, as soon as I accept my upcoming journey

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>>41478767
Allore buona fortuna
See you in 2 weeks

>know a qt
>she has kids
>don't want to be a cuck

>>41476518
thank you anon :^)

>>41476225
that'a like a best case scenario for me.
I just want to get to know people and talk and laugh.
After that they get boring and I prefer my own company again.

>>41476518
Thank you friend. I needed that

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>>41475719
>quit my job about a month or two ago due to how stressful it was
>currently trying to find work as a substitute teacher in my area, want to also sign up for classes so I can become a full-time teacher and work towards getting my teaching certificate
>just going slow as fuck, will have to wait until the end of summer anyways for when the school district gets back, get IVP fingerprint clearance card
>don't own a car right now, just trying to find a decent car as well on top of this

Only recently figuring out what I want to do in life and trying to get myself back together. Lifting is one of the few things that keeps me stable.

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I don't want things to be okay, I don't want it to get better and all this anxiety to disappear. Everything I have has been due to being scared and angry while contentedness has brought nothing.

What's the point of it all if it'll all work out anyway? Why force myself through illness to do squats if I'll get strong regardless? There has to be a reason behind these feelings beyond waiting for something better to come along.

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>tfw half a dozen hot women in my class
>tfw I'm basically surrounded by them
>feels good

>>41476495
Ignore this dude unless you want to fuck with women who do dumb shit

after getting a 'proper' job I no longer have any sort of passion for going to the gym, and I don't get that good feeling afterwards.

Also nothing interests me anymore, not even 4chan. I feel like a zombie. I take fish oil, a multivitamin, l-theanine, zma. I have no passion anymore and hate my life.

>>41480356
Aww the poor lil baby has no PASSION awwww
Switch up your routine dumbass. Get fired up. Snort some fucking preworkout, what are you, a commie?

>>41480356
Get a hobby dude

>>41480375
I have switched up my routine, I do BJJ and muay thai, I take fuck loads of preworkout

nothing changes

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>>41480390
How's your social circle?
Any close friends?

I would actually suggest a change of scenery if you can afford it. If you don't fuck with taking psychedelics then just go on vacation. Literally take yourself out of the routine for a week or so.

And if you take FUCK LOADS of preworkout and kill yourself training all the time it's possible your CNS is blown the fuck out which can lead to depression.

You gonna make it brah

>>41480404
thanks bro

social circle is shit, 3 close friends, no one else, maybe I'll go drinking with 1 of them this weekend. I need to shake things the fuck up.

>>41476495
>t.iskimmedtheredpill once and understand the broad picture but because I'm autistic I've never actually applied any of it so I'm gonna to spout some macro economics to help you with micro.
Stupid Fucks. I wish nobody knew about this shit.
>inb4 projecting

>>41478387
>I think they call it ghosting now
ghosting is taking a shit that drops so clean you don't even need to wipe, and you're left wondering if the shit even came out.

>>41478387
Just ignore those dyel faggots, why do you let this shit get to you man

>>41476630
gb2reddit

>>41475719
everytime i'm on the edge of throwing it all away I come visit you guys and you always make me feel like I'm not alone and that we all are the same and there's no such thing as hate or death

i love you all so much brehs

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>the first year of uni is almost over; I've done quite great and have become well-respected among my peers
>I have a pretty well-paying summer job, but it's still only 30 hours a week
>I'll have over a hundred days without school, meaning I'll have time to read all the books I haven't had time for before - about 5000 pages in total
>I'm more strong and aesthetic than ever before
>might've found the girl of dreams, going to ask her out soon
>have made humongous social gains
>have been asked to give a couple of public speeches during the summer

Life is what you make it.

>be into competitive cycling
>buy expensive road bike
>be doing good
>go to watch a time trial race
>i wanna do this
>probably gonna end up buy an expensive tt bike
i like the sport but shits expensive

>>41481099
were it that easy

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>>41475719

>>41478527
Well, he never said anything about faith, just his political stance(s).

Nice projection though.

>>41476225
>>41476264
cockblocks....don't waste your time with them...

>getting bigger and stronger
>still have ED and porn addiction consequences

>>41478527
>Christian/Catholic
You're not wrong.

>Everybody is like you

Not really man, I just don't like being shit on for random ideals that don't matter in dating.

>>41478429
Anon here
>Don't apologize for who you are

T-thanks bro :')
For real though, I needed to hear this, feels good somebody knows the pain .

>>41476518

Thanks bro, I really needed that

>>41476225
Yea women do that. They think you're great, you go out with them, you do something "wrong" meaning something they dont like, to them it turns out you're not as great as they thought and they end up cutting all contact.
I had my girlfriend tell me about cases like this which involved her female friends plenty of times.

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HOW DO I BECOME CHARISMATIC BRAHS?

I've become fit, i have a good looking face with defined jawline and a deep voice, yet i can't be charismatic to save my life.

One day me and my friends were hanging out at a bar and there were some girls with us, one of my friends who is also good looking but not fit said something like "Damn, this food is expensive, i hope to at least have sex with one of you girls tonight". All the girls started giggling like he was some popstar.
I tried to do the same the other day, i even smiled confidently while doing it but the girls stopped talking and looked at me in silence like i was a homicidal maniac for a good 5 seconds, one of them said "what the hell man, that was gross as fuck" and another one just got up and outright left the table.

I wanted to cry right there. Fuck my life.

>>41484705
there's a difference in smiling like you're confident and just being confident. cultivate believing in yourself / your own lies. women are like dogs, the smell fear. we're all gonna make it brah

>no one will hire me even with college degree
>have no money to go on dates even though qts mirin me
>feelsbadman

>>41480647
ghosting is when you actually sever all communication and ties with someone - usually with little to no warning.

>>41484731
go on free dates anon. museums, parks, beaches, etc. bitches love romantic shit. it shows you can think outside of the box.

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Hold me /fit/
>be in great mood
>have a free afternoon
>the weather is great
>on one of the fb groups they re looking for players for game of soccer at the pitch nearby my place
>go for it, love soccer but not many chances to play lately
>met the guys, couple of chicks were playing too
>my first sprint of the game
>feel the sharp pain in my right leg
>either too short warm up or too intense leg day before, doesnt matter
>pain doesnt leave me the entire game
>my speed and dribbling skills go to hell
>I am playing defensively but I am too slow
>After an hour or so I lose concentration and I am late with a challange
>straight out kicked one of the girls
>wasnt really that drastic foul, no guy would make a scene about it, but the girl was clearly pissed
>i guess she didnt accept my apologies
>the game is over
>my leg still hurts
>I will probably have to skip the next leg day
>90 minutes of intense cardio suggest that all my gains from today will be lost
>this day started so well and now all I want is to kill myself a lot

>>41486001
do it and make sure you livestream it so we can watch.

>>41486071
Dont get too hyped, I am too busy filling myself with carbs now. But seriously, cardio is a fucking meme.

>>41475719
>on a date with a girl
>be with her in park, wanted to tell her how I feel toward her
>suddenly text from her friend
>she has been raped
>she is total fucked up with theese news
>follow her home
>fuck won´t have another chance like this fucking raping degenerates

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>>41486475
>it's 'anon gets cockblocked by a rapist' episode

>>41475719
how do I obtain mutual understanding and affection? don't even need a gf, just a good friend. am I too gay?

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>>41486001
protip: once you injure yourself, stop doing what injured you to prevent further injury.

>>41486544
Yep, I thought it was merely a cramp. But of course I would be better of letting that one pass.

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I Fucking hate myself, im 22 and no real accomplishments. the women who show interest in me I Do nothing about and as usual i wind up reliving memories of them showing interest in me all day being depressed. i seriously fucking hate myself. 22 no college degree i might as well join military and join the infantry.

my dream would be to teach martial arts but im 22 and im getting older. i fucking hate myself so much i dedicate myself 6 days a week working out in the morning cardio at night weightlifting. and i'm not happy with my results. ive been workin out since december. just fucking kill me i fuckin hate my life.

>pic related

>>41476384
>text her the next day
ya done goofed

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>>41475719
>went on tinder date with stoner chick
>we go out lunch and smoke together afterwards.
>kiss a bit but she shuts me down pretty quick

I found out on the date she used to be a huge junkie. I'm stuck wheter I should try to hang out with her again cause she was really cute and nice. But the whole junkie thing is kinda a huge turn off

>>41486475
She probably just messaged her friend to type that so she gets an excuse to get out of the awkward date

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>wake up
>gf still doesn't have a dick

When is it gonna come lads?

>>41486614
If you're degenerate enough to even consider hanging out with her after learning that she's a junkie, then do it. You obviously don't have any standards so why pretend that you do?

>>41486683
Keyword is she used to be a junkie. So she isn't anymore. And she came right out and told me upfront. I respect her for that at least.

>>41486521

Get a dog. Rescue one from a pound. Just figure out your free time activity level as well as spacethen find breeds that fit that critera

>>41486696

>was a junkie
>red flag
Oh but its behind her now
>met her on tinder
>red flag

You deserve better

>>41486578
i feel you

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Just graduated uni. Have good job lined up, but never had a gf or a relationship. Don't wanna become a beta provider, and family grew up poor. Definetly wanna see the world, anyone here ever do solo trips, at best I wanna go with my brother. But what exactly do you do, tourist shit?

Ever since i got /fit/ starting to like nature more, wanna go on hikes and trails. Maybe even climb mountains.

>>41486786
True. I can meet chicks elsewhere

>>41475719
>get asian qt 3.14, literally my type in every way
>suddenly start seeing all the asian/white couples
>que shame
>I care less and less about her
>que cheating
>tell her I did not cheat
>still break up

All this, considering I have the worst developmental condition a man could have, I do not know what to feel. Right now I just feel "they come and go, get better, do better, a better one will come".

>>41476514
Good job man, keep at it.

>>41476518
A+ for poetry taste

>falling hard for my housemate
>too scared to try anything
>spent hours just lifting and running my frustration away

>>41476518
Thank you anon.

>>41476225
find other friends. Don't replace your old ones, but you need friends that are willing to talk about feelings
>>41476295
also this guys seems to get it

>>41486901
Not him, but easier said than done for autistic fucks like myself.

Only friends I can just talk emotional shit to are on the internet and they're not always available, not to mention the one chick I really like talking to has BPD, so she occasionally splits/ghosts on me - she helps so much when I do talk to her (particularly when it's shit involving my wife) but I sometimes can't reach her.

>>41486631
nah it wasnt awkvard date we both had fun until that text

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>>41475719
>said hello to my work crush without spilling my spaghetti today
Absolutely making it.

>>41476518
I needed this anon.

A quick quote about what you said about true strength, one of my favorite quotes of all time.

"We chose to go to the moon in this decade, and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard."

Making it wouldn't feel so damn good if it was easy.

>>41478387
Good attitude man. Look at it this way, at least you will have peace and silence at home.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xLN4OHxfbGQ

Just recently watched this again. Made me feel because it reminded me that if you just want something enough you will achieve it, no matter how many times other people will tell you the opposite.

If you don't know what I'm talking about, look up Matthias Steiner's story

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>tfw will never be a dad

>>41475719
I pulled my lower back doing deadlifts today. I was too fast on my last rep and my form was off, and there I went. I guess this is the Snap City everyone talks about. I don't think it's anything serious and I hope this goes away within the next few days. It isn't exactly painful but it is fairly fucking sore. I can walk fine but movement like bending and such causes a lot of discomfort. Also I feel the discomfort when I stand up or sit down. I don't know. Somebody give me guidance here.

I married and had a kid. Then boom i start thinking about my oneitis after 10 fucking years. She's still so hot

>>41487288
It's not that great. Just another person to disappoint

>>41487761
Don't worry, I pulled my lower back once at work, and I can tell you that the discomfort will never go away. I've become an old man at 21 even doing 1hr of yardwork leaves my back sore for days.
Start learning how to work slowly now, and go buy a heatpad from cvs or something that you can warm up in the microwave to put on your back every night before you go to sleep. In the end you'll just have to ignore the pain

>>41478387
TOLERANT LEFT

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>>41476518
Thanks man, good advice

>but instead make the right small decisions and actions

this is really important in my opinion.
Everyday you should do at least one thing, however small, to improve yourself - no matter how bad you feel.
If you follow this advice you will make it. There's nothing that can prevent this.

>>41475719
>finally decided I'm not going to have kids
>23 5'9 160 pounds schizoaffective 100 IQ 7.5 x 5 inch cock
>ginseng and drugs ruined my mind
>have never had a close friend entire adult life
>working a job with no benefits
>going to school for dead-end History degree
>parents health insurance cover me till 26

Might kill myself in the next few years. Can't see myself breeding with an ugly girl and making unhappy children or grandchildren. No one should suffer like I have. My brother and sisters will breed but i won't. My relatives say they'll take care of me if my parents can't.

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>>41487288
>tfw you will never be loved anyways
my loneliness is turning into bitterness, why can't I just be normal

>28 and feeling like the world has passed me by
>Seeing all the young people going out and studying brings on nostalgia
>Engaged to a beautiful lady
>Working a job I love but have to work away from fiancé
>Good money and savings put away for wedding and house
>Somehow feel as though there is still a lot missing
>Training is going good, fit and strong

Feel as though I've lost something or I'm still missing a piece of the puzzle. I wouldn't say I'm depressed but I'm definitely not as happy as my situation warrants I should be.

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Every. Fucking. Day.

The only reason I began lifting this year was because of him.

>>41479153
youre not a cuck if youre a good father to them. tmits not the kids fault

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>>41475719
>oneitis is slowly fading
>she looks excited when she finds out I'm going to be around her
>hardly talks unless I start with a topic
>nothing comes up and I just sit in silence and sometimes I just blert out whatever autistic thing that's in my head
>lately I just look at her in the eyes and she looks for a bit too but then breaks away
>just want to tell her all of the explosive passions that are in my heart
>never will though

Now i'm developing an unhealthy obsession to show her that I'm better than she thinks I am and try to become successful and really cool and make her regret liking me. But really I'm just filling the time and cucking myself into thinking she actually even cares.

>>41488342
Do something about it before you find her dating a guy uglier than you simply because he had the balls to act on his urges and you didn't. That's a hard realization to make.

>>41475719
>got a fuckton of tests coming up
>haven't been at the gym for 1,5 weeks
>tfw can feel myself getting weaker
I'm only at 4chan for 5 minutes before going to bed, all my time except for that is spent studying.

>>41478477
Agree completely. If I didn't really feel like working out a year ago I'd read a rage thread on /pol/ and get myself worked up

>>41476518

I love you man

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>>41488377
Your dubs speak the truth.

The thing is we're coworkers and if I tell her and she's not into me it's really going to change the feeling at work.

Right now I'm excited to go to work. If she doesn't feel the same I do, which she probably doesn't, I'm going to deal with it the only way I know how: stop most forms of communication that aren't necessary, stop looking at her, talk to everyone else around her except her and tell myself that I don't like her even as a person and treat her like an inanimate object.

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>>41478387

>be libertarian and lawyer
>girlfriend is vegan left feminist
>we get along, have our disagreements
>still can have a civil debate and politely disagree
>she can never admit when she's wrong though
>state elections were on sunday
>I vote libertarian, she votes left
>girlfriend is mad at me for doing so
>"I thought I knew you", "libertarians just hate poor people", "why do you vote like this"
>debate for 1 1/2 hours, it's annoying
>relationship feels strained afterwards

Why do leftists claim to be tolerant yet they're only tolerant if you're in line with their political ideology? Feelsbadman

She's probably gonna dump my ass in the near future because of it and all I can do is develop enough as a person and keep making progress so it won't be that devastating

>>41488524
My theory on why liberals act like that is based on the entire philosophy itself. Leftist ideas are meant to thrive on a collective. They need a large group of people to share the work and provide for each other. For anything to work, people need to pitch in and you have to be down with that. Any thing or any one who is not a part of that collective and challenges it, is a threat and is to be shunned.

On the other hand, right leaning philosophies value the individual and freedom. They want each person to take care of themselfs and they can be charitable if they so please. This is also why you see lots of battles in the political right. Since individualism is beloved, there are likely to be more groups who champion their ideals.

Also, since your girlfriend is a vegan, does her pussy taste good? Is it any different from a non-vegan pussy?

>somehow got courage to approach qt on dancefloor
>we danced and then made out
>saw her make out briefly with some other guy afterwards
>at the end of the night she found me again and we were back at it (I was drunk and she was really hot)
>then she disappeared
>figured she wasn't into me that much
>still found her on facebook but never added her
>it's been 9 days and I can't stop thinking about her
>it'd be weird if I added her now though

I feel pathetic even typing this out

>>41488622

Your theory is accurate.

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>>41488524
>She's probably gonna dump my ass in the near future because of it

>>41476518
Thank you

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>>41475719

Having a gf should automatically disqualify you from posting in feel threads.. For life.

>>41484705
He did it because he thought it was hilariously out of place. You did it to try and be the coolest person there.

>>41488524
>>41488622
for what it's worth I'm a left-leaning centrist and too hate most so-called liberals. But then again, I'm really argumentative and enjoy discourse so whatever

>>41476514
Being NEET is an art

>>41488753
>>>/r9k/

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>struggling with depression
>get dumped
>Gets worse
>Still hung up over it
>Friends aren't around
Feelsbadman

>>41488799
I'm a right leaning centrist and I too am argumentative. It's what lost me most of my friends and now why I am lonely all the time. Being vocal pushes a lot of people away. Now as I'm trying to rebuild my social life and never speak of politics. If anyone says anything I either don't say anything back or just retort "lol drumpf!" and nothing else.

I have living in a liberal city. Especially when most of the cuties are leftists.

>>41488911
Same here man, though i dont have friends.

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>>41476518

>exams are going fairly well
>tfw no gf, but that hasn't been much on my mind
>haven't gotten much time to lift recently because of exams, but i'm still trying to keep the routine
>focusing on improving in other ways, like reading more often and meditating

I find that I'm lonely a lot of the time, and I don't go out very much unless it's for the gym. I have hobbies, like the piano and guitar, but i don't have any friends that I'd be willing to spend time around because they don't share the same interests.

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It's my birthday today lads

I realize that I'm never going to make it, even if I reach my goal weight. I'm probably ending up alone, maybe if I move to Colombia or Dominican Republic but I'll know my lack of social gains will hold me back

But I did go to a baseball game and I'm looking forward to Nashville clinching their ticket to the Stanley cup final

tfw no thicc gf

>>41489088
Happy birthday my man.
You can still build upon your social gains. the >just be confident meme does actually work, but within reason.

What did you get up to today?

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>used to be super fat
>never posted pictures of myself on social media
>today get a notification from facebook that i have memories to look back on
>oh god
>it's a video one of my friends posted four years ago of us just walking down the road during summer
>my fat is floating over the hem of my tight pants
>i jiggle violently as i walk
>shirt is also riding up
>double chin wobbles when i laugh at something friend says

It's a bittersweet feel.
On one side, I honestly couldn't believe that I was ever that bad. I really didn't think I was that heavy before, or that I looked so disgusting.
On the other hand, since I have no pictures of me from that time, it's the first time I could REALLY compare my progress. I had to be at least 100kg then, and I'm down to 74kg now. I've lost that double chin and my clothes fit now.

disgusted but also excited (i also asked friend to delete that video, but they had also gotten the memory notification and deleted it as soon as they saw it. mixed feelings about that too.)

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>>41488163
Damn that's a comfy pic.

>>41488124
It's ok, I'm 27 and have none of that.

I did just go to North Korea though, it was great, maybe you should go there?

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>my birthday today
>no one congratulates me
>treat myself to dinner and pretend like it's fine
>it's not
>come up with genuis plan to get a happy birthday
>stop by the store on my way home
>buy cigarettes
>i don't smoke
>plan is to get asked for my id, show it to the cashier, they will notice the birth date and wish me happy birthday
>cashier doesn't ask for ID
>disappoint

>keep walking home
>pass by another store
>don't do it
>i go in
>don't do it
>i buy another pack of cigs
>cashier doesn't ask for ID
>"d-do you need my ID?"
>"Oh, it's okay, you've been here before."
>Sweat
>"NO I haven't"
>I have
>"Yes you have, you're anon, right? You've gotten beer from here before. I don't need ID"
>What the fuck why is this so difficult
>"y-you can see it anyway, if you want to..."
>i give her my ID
>there is spaghetti flooding the aisle
>she looks it over and gives it back
>didn't notice it was my birthday
>go home with my two packs of cigs and cry

>>41488799
>>41488922
>tfw to intelligent to have strong opinions

>>41489335
For what it's worth if this isn't just bait pasta, happy birthday.

>Have a female friend who I'm into
>She used to like this other guy
>Says she's getting over him
>Helping her get over him
>We've been texting for hours the past few days
>"Hey femanon, is there anyone else that interests you"
>"Nope, not anyone anon"

She had also been giving some hints in person getting close to me and complimenting my arms. Will keep trying though

>>41476518
love you mane. source on picture ?

>>41489088
happy birthday bro
do you first and then worry about everyone else

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>>41476518
thank you based anon

>>41489335
happy birthday
I never post my birthday on social media or tell anyone so I have like one friend who ever says anything and otherwise just family
My ex-gf tried really hard to figure out when it was. Haha, good times

>>41489421
>>"Hey femanon, is there anyone else that interests you"
Cringe
Invite her over to watch a scary movie and take shots every time someone screams

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>>41475719
Part 1:

>be me
>27 year old, social worker
>go from job to job. can't seem to hold one down.
>get fired. feels bad man (loved my clients and my coworkers, most of them loved me)
>alcohol, weed to cope. Why can't I get my shit together?
>get another social work job.
>super pumped. Chance to redeem myself, prove I'm not a failure.
>full blown alcoholic at this point. Job makes it even worse.
>go from "functioning alcoholic" to "non-functioning alcoholic"
>overweight from booze and garbage food
>self-esteem completely gone
>WTFhappenedtome.jpg

>full blown hermit mode
>few remaining friendships: destroyed
>emotional wreck but boss, coworkers, and clients haven't noticed yet
>put in 2 weeks notice, cancel most of my appointments.
>have full blown nervous breakdown with two of my pothead friends (Chill-bro and Manlet-bro)
>Manlet-bro starts to pull an intervention
>"what the fuck is wrong with you, bro?", really drills into me
>shame, despair, anger, fear, all come flooding out of me at once.
>start calling him out on his bullshit (self-defense mode)
>Coming unhinged, I say some shit I knew would trigger him, turn my back to leave.
>Manlet-bro sucker punches me from behind with a right and left hook to the head. Gives me bloody nose.
>chill-bro intervenes, takes me home to my apartment.

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>>41489484

Part 2:

>I've totally come undone. Pacing angrily around apartment. Dark violent thoughts.
>Call chill-bro. Screaming at him. "You tell Manlet-Bro that if I ever see him again, I'll fucking kill him. I'll FUCKING KILL HIM, YOU UNDERSTAND!?"
>Chill-Bro tries to play middle of the road, "what Manlet-bro did wasn't cool, but you kind of deserved it, Anon".
>I hang up, start drinking vodka and trashing my apartment.
>Dark voilent thoughts intensify.
>finally pass out.
>wake up next morning. Go into kitchen for water. See papers and folders from job I just quit, strewn across the floor.
>Remember what a fucking failure I am and how much I hate my life.
>Go into bathroom, see my reflection in giant bathroom mirror.
>Swollen nose, bags under eyes. Fat. Disgusting.
>Remember how I used to be in shape and attractive.
>can't remember last time I felt truly happy. I hate everything about myself.
>Punch mirror, shatters everywhere. Pick up pieces, take it out to the dumpster to toss it.

>beautiful day outside. Blue skies, sunshine, gentle breeze. The apartment complex next to mine has a small playground next to it
>Hear children playing, although I can't see them.
>Realize I don't feel anything. Realize I'm spent.
>Walk back inside. Wave of calmness washes over me. A sense of clarity.
>can't stop looking at the knife block on the kitchen counter.
>almost like it's "calling to me".
>walk into kitchen. Don't even feel like I'm in my body anymore.
>Like someone else is controlling my legs and arms, yet I feel more in control than ever.
>knife set is relatively new, light use. Knives are very sharp and clean.
>remove paring knife from the block and just stare at it.

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>>41489499
Part 3:

>staring at the knife, I hear the words come out of my own mouth, almost as if they're being spoken by someone else
>"Is it time to leave? Is it time to leave?"
>repeat this phrase softly as I walk slowly into the bathroom.
>so tired, so heavy. feel like I've been alive for centuries
>sit on edge of bathtub, repeating "is it time to leave?"
>I feel my head begin to nod, answering the question as tears well up in my eyes.

>Think of Mom. Think of Dad. Think of Sister. Think of cousins, aunts, uncles.
>Fuck. Can't do it.
>Feelings are back. Angry and Sad that I can't do it because it would hurt them.
>Family finds out I quit another job. Notices physical, mental changes in me.
>parents stage a mini-intervention.
>"Fine, I'll go see a fucking Doctor"
>go to doctor
>"Anon, you have severe depression/anxiety and most likely adult ADD"
>feels bad man
>Start low dose zoloft and low dose ritalin
>Start seeing therapist.

>>41480146
If this is how you think, you have never been content. Give it a serious go

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>>41489517
Part 4:

>"The old me" starts to come back. feel balanced and stable.
>Stop having racing anxious thoughts, panic attacks.
>Start browsing /fit/.
>brain chemistry is balanced thanks to meds, Focus comes easier than ever
>Diet and exercise becomes routine, the most I've ever followed through on anything
>Start to lose weight, Start to gain muscle.
>No more weed, cut WAY back on booze.
>start taking online classes to change careers (bye bye social work)
>Self improvement now a priority
>feel strange on days where I'm not doing something to better myself.
>finally feel in control of my own destiny
>finally realize that I can have all the good things in life if I just keep pushing myself
>look at myself in the mirror now and love the person looking back at me
>grateful that fat/angry/crazy me didn't kill the guy in the mirror looking back at me.
>thankful for all the support and motivation I found on /fit/
>happy that I get to give the world the best version of me instead of the shit version of me

To all the /fit/izens who posted on this board over the last year while I lurked- Thank You.

>>41475723
KILL EVERYONE IN THE RESTAURANT, PROBLEM SOLVED, DO IT YOU FAGGOT!!!

>>41489517
is this a pasta or your own account

>>41488048
What's "normal"?

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>>41488163
Why?

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>>41476630
>>41478651
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>>41486892
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>>41487979
>>41488417
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>>41489051
>>41488674
>>41488342
>>41488124

I'm back bois.

Just wanted to let you know i took the time to read all your comments. Know that at least someone out there gives a shit about your problems (because sometimes we just need someone to care, no matter how small our problems might be)

You're all on the right board for self improvement
Just by coming here, it means that you want to get better

Latch on to that, and feel proud, that despite the long distance to your goals, youre one foot in front of the other and heading the right way

This place has been good to me when ive needed it. And every now and then, we all need some support. Especially men in our age bracket, where so often, our social situations don't allow for intimate support.

So good luck guys. I usually monitor these threads. If you ever want someone to talk to, just say it, and we'll have a chat. I encourage you all to do the same.


You're all based. Remember that

Work hard fellas.

We're all gonna make it.

Didn't get a call back from an interview. I'm honestly certain it was because I didn't lift before hand and didn't have a pump.

>>41489442
Source is some he-man comic? Although i forget which one

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>>41489531
gotcha' bro.

>>41487979
Completely agree my guy

>>41487208
Dang thats nice. I love that. I love the concept that we did something so ridiculously audacious and hard, i think thats got to be one of the most amazing challenges we ever set ourself as a species.

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>>41489531
Im happy for you my man. I really am. Keep up the good work. Have a good life, and get what you deserve. Im rootin for ya

>>41489644
Thanks anon! This board feels like home! I'm glad to know that we can come here and support each other. I'll always try and pay it forward.

>>41488524
Anon here.
Bro, if the relationship ends, it ends. You have to be proud of yourself and your ideals. It sure never seems like it, but there are girls out there that'll agree with you, and not be so rejecting of your views.

Im with you my brother.

>>41489717
Good buddy. Thats what im trying to do. Glad to have you

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The depression is slowly creeping back into my life.

>>41489531
fucking nice man
found a qt3.14 already?

>>41489737
If a girl dumps you over politics thats pretty retarded. Americans in particular hold onto that shit so tight.

>>41476352
>all that effort for a bait post and nobody replying

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>>41489121
Just to have fun today even if it's only me but my managerbro wants to take me out for a lapdance this weekend, i sure hope I don't bust a nut since I'm on day 5 of no fap lel

Hope I break a pr on my bench tommorow. I did notice that the hockey series is at 2-1 not 3-1... I'm retarded

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>>41486696
keyword: ur a dumbass

protip: people don't change

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>>41489449
Sure will bud, I'll try to get ahead in life. Maybe step outside my comfort zone and hit the club with an old uni buddy

>>41489051
>Cant talk to women
>Never been flirted with
>Stuck working a shitty job an hour away
>Friends are all gone

>Try to fuck a hooker which was my last happiness, but cant get it up because paid sex has lost all interest

This is it boys. Lift or die. Ive gone from no exercise and no diet to lifting 6 days a week, cardio every other day, and a strict low cal high protean diet.

Burn out isnt an option or Ill probably kill myself

>>41490207
And I still fuck up.

That wasnt meant to be a reply

>>41488389
"Where do you work out?"
"The library"

My 26 year old sister's cancer diagnosis went from the initial stage 2 diagnosis from a week ago to a stage 4 diagnosis with additional testing today. Feels bad.

>>41489281
Nice try north korea, can't kidnap me

>>41489335
Happy birthday anon

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>>41480146
>I don't want things to be okay, I don't want it to get better and all this anxiety to disappear. Everything I have has been due to being scared and angry while contentedness has brought nothing.
>What's the point of it all if it'll all work out anyway? Why force myself through illness to do squats if I'll get strong regardless? There has to be a reason behind these feelings beyond waiting for something better to come along.
struggle

had to work in team with a black dude and a brown semi cute but hot girl and she told me was moving close to my place and that she would invite me to hangout but i realized she wasnt serious cuz she hasnt said anything to me eversince

>>41489575
This is my own account. I posted it in a feels thread the other day but it got pruned right away.

>>41489690
Thanks man. I appreciate it. And I intend to!

>>41489768
No qt3.14 yet. Living with my parents at the moment. Doing work for my classes at night and job hunting during the day. As soon as I get a job and move out, qt3.14 will be my next goal to work towards!

>>41488024
Dude, take the first steps to get out of your situation. Drop the history class and pickup something pragmatic like coding, or business; better yet, learn a trade (too many kids nowadays fell for the college meme).

Then once you start building a better tomorrow, you will get confidence from that to do more great things, but you have to take that first step forward.

Take it from me, I was doing Kinesiology and almost flunked my first 2 years of uni before i decided this was a waste of time. Finished with a science degree. Now I'm a pilot in the air force like I always wanted to be. It's my dream job. But if you saw me 10 years ago in uni, you wouldn't recognize me. Progress is slow but if you keep attacking it methodically and relentlessly, you'll get what you want out of this life.

>>41488124
Are you me, but a year younger?

>>41488124
Never experienced Teenage love Or never banged sloots.
Which one is it ?

>>41476432
>Grill who likes you
>Virgin

Pick one anon

>>41481088

We're all going to make it, bro.

>>41486866
>considering I have the worst developmental condition a man could have
you're a manlet?

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>tfw found out I have a little over 7" of wrist girth

I may be a manlet, but at least I am not a wristlet.

>finals are done
>Stress should be over, so emotional eating should be manageable
>Can't get past diet
>Gym routine lookin' better than ever
>Gains hidden by trail mix, chips, and ginger ale
>Never gonna make it like this
>Mama bear mode activated

I get compliments on my 'big arms' all the time. Shame it's still a lot of fat.

>>41475723
How can you not pick up how to clear and reset the goddamn table immediately?

I've started worrying I have low test. It's ridiculous; I haven't been eating enough to gain much muscle, but I keep on thinking that it's just because my body can't build muscle like other people. I hardly have any body hair and I'm pretty sure it's being 1/2 Asian but I still feel like it's something wrong with me. I had a sissy hypno fetish and I'm getting more dominant but I still have relapses and afterward I feel like I've got to have low test if I'm sometimes getting off on being submissive. It sucks and I hate feeling like I might be behind other guys just naturally.

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>2 1/2 months ago, kissless virgin
>always been curious, finally decide to check out grindr
>message a super cute twink that is literally the only person on there that I find attractive
>he ends up being a really nice person that's amazing in bed
>see eachother about every other week
>things go great for like a month and a half
>for the past month or so he rarely texts me, and is super slow to respond

I don't get it, whenever we're together we have such a great time hanging out before and after fucking. Now it seems like he's losing interest and I'm afraid of being dropped without knowing why. Can't tell if I'm really insecure or he's tired of me.

>>41476518
Wow thanks anon

>>41487935
Wtf man go away

>>41491669
Did you post about your fetish in another thread earlier?

>>41491897
Yeah bro. Feeling insecure about it today for whatever reason.

>>41491926
There's worse fetishes to have. You really should try eating more before you get worried about your test.

>Objectively killin it in many areas of life
>Feel shit about a girl
>Girl outweights objective greatness.

Why bros? Why do I need to feel like that

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>didn't die in my sleep

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>tfw cutting at 1800 cals
>tfw so close to my goal but it feels so far
>tfw practically drowning myself in water to keep from grazing
>tfw cardio out the ass
>tfw cutting has still been easier to make progress on than bulking

was i put here to wither away?

taking dog to vet on saturday, will probably put her down the same day because her body basically shut down as she came to greet me today
can't get over ex fiance who dumped me because I was withering away into depression and didn't contribute anything to her life anymore
need >10 hours of sleep for several days in a row to feel normal
all my injuries seem to be getting worse, not better, makes it real fucking annoying to exercise
going to see a therapist as soon as the health insurance kicks in at work
times are rough my dudes

>>41476518
Please come to Dallas and give me a hug ;__;

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>>41492232
Because you're a dumb man. And us dumb men love the gains goblin known as women. As much as you want to fuck them and leave them, you also want the sweetness of their love and affection.

You love the way they squeeze your waist and put their head against your chest. You can feel how much they love you like a sack of potatoes hitting you in the head. You love they way she smiles when she laughs at a joke you made. You love the way you can cheer her up when she's having a bad day, knowing that you are everything she wants and needs.

Everything about her is special and one of a kind and you believe you'll never find another like her because there isn't another one.

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>Apathy has crippled me
I barely feel anything, positive or negative anymore. I don't feel any attachment to things around me. I don't worry about my grades anymore (even though I really should be), and don't worry about going out and hanging out with friends. I don't feel depressed or even sad, but I feel no reason to do anything. I just go through the same routine every day, wake up, do mediocre in some classes, lift, and just nap or fuck around for the rest of the day. I sometimes don't open my mouth to speak for days at a time. My hobbies (music and reading) bring me no excitement anymore, I can no longer "get into" either of them.
I just feel like a ghost, and don't know why. I try going out drinking with friends occasionally but I get no enjoyment from it, I just don't see any point in it or anything else. I've met some new people around my schol but it never gets past a "what's up bro" friendship and I don't feel any emotional connection to anyone.
Pretty much the only thing I feel is a vague sense of dread at the fact that I can't feel anything else. It doesn't seem like real depression; I still have energy and can get through the day on Patrick Bateman autopilot perfectly fine. I don't even feel sad, just kind of numb.
Is this what a quarter-life crisis feels like, or is it a real problem? All of my friends seem to either be flourishing in their own ways, experiencing the ups and downs so to speak, or are actually depressed (I've seen this happen to a few).
I'm worried that it's going to evolve into depersonalization, as I've read from some /r9k/ posters that what I'm experiencing was the first step that led to actual mental illness.

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>tfw dad died recently
>tfw in comm college for 3 years
>tfw still a virgin
>tfw you don't seem like one, women get pissy when they start to pick up that their chad reads mongolian woodblock carvings
>tfw you read a ton of chateau heartiste and understand what women are really like and what it takes to date them
>tfw fat atm
>tfw not progressing with drawing or painting like I used to

At the very least I'm sticking well to my diet, absolutely destroying my classes, tall as fuark, and I'm signing up for team sport soon once I graduate. I'm happy the suicidal tendencies aren't there much anymore.Though everytime I remember I'm still a virgin at 21 and I don't seem to be able to make friends stick I want to put my face to an active belt grinder

Will we make it brahs? I hope everyday that all of you make it at the very least

>>41479153
Isn't the kids' biological father here the cuck?

>>41491498
>eating snacks
>soda
>mama bear mode

tumblr detected, lifting eclairs into your mouth doesn't count as hammer curls

>>41491713
Unfortunately for us anon, a good majority of the gay community is like this. I just want a qt bf, but most gays are just looking to fuck.
On top of that, they haven't really put too much thought into their sexuality. Twinks especially.

>>41492767
He and his roommate always kinda hinted at us getting into more of a relationship, the mixed messages from that and the cold shoulder I've been getting are killing me.

What do you mean by twinks not putting much thought into their sexuality? I actually don't know

>>41488342
literally the exact same thing happened to me with a girl who asked to be my lab partner. I ended up idolizing this girl, i put her on a pedestal, and hate myself too much to consider myself good enough for her.. and all that bull shit.. i ended up deleting her from my phone, and unfriending her on all social media because i dont want to be a stalker. However, I still think about her pretty often. I think about re adding her on facebook to admit my feelings.

for a while it seemed like i had a chance, i was always too late to respond to the signs (social ineptness and what not). the memories bring with them a heaviness and swelling pain in my solar plexus..

>>41492857 (You)
haha beta faggot

>>41492549
I'm sorry to hear about your dad anon
I'm 20 and a recovering skeleton so my challenge is gaining not losing but I can identify with the reading articles to understand women and all that... we will make it bro

>>41489335
happy birthday brother

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>>41492857
How long did all of this take place? The girl I'm talking to now isn't all that bad. She just gives super subtle signs. I see them but it's just hard to tell if she wants me to make a move or is just not actually giving me the signs.

I've done what you did with a few girls. Sometimes it was a clean cut and other times there was a back and forth that got a little ugly. I sometimes regret cutting all contact because I still wonder about those girls. Eventually time will fade all of those memories. I just try to appreciate the times I had with them. There will come a time when a new girl will pop up and you don't want to be in that situation with your head still in the past because then you won't take advantage of what's going on in the present. I've only learned that as I've gotten older unfortunately.

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>be in small gym
>9 times out of 10 when I get there someone's using the one bench and nobody's using the one smith machine
>get accustomed to doing squats in smith machine
>tonight some manlet is setting up squats but I think he's doing a 1pl8 OHP
>tell him I'm pretty impressed since my shoulders are shit
>he shrugs it off and asks me why I don't use the barbell to squat
>the one barbell he's using right now
>kinda get a little autistic about it and just say it's not my thing
>he gets all judgmental, starts squatting 1pl8
>I get a little pissed and instead of going for 245 like I was planning go 255 3x5 and a final set for 10 while he still squats 1pl8
>he leaves afterward

I fucking hate manlets.

>>41492270
Same here man but I've still got a good 2% bodyfat to go. I barely even gained much on my bulk but I can't stand having the fat on me. I tracked everything on MFP, had a clean (bar the odd comfort meal) surplus of 500 and I barely added any muscle even with noob gains.

>>41475719
My bulged disc keep getting re injured, I am seriously considering giving up and accepting my life is over. About to go driver off a bridge.

>be in the gym
>just doing my OHP
>some random I've never seen before comes up to me and compliments my shoulders
>sorry I'm not gay
>I ask why he doesn't just use the barbell (after me)
>he stutters and mutters something under his breath about stability
>"alright" go back to my routine
>he woddles back on his stilt legs and racks up plates thicker than him
>proceeds to make awkward hiss sounds as his face goes red half repping them
>finish up and let my gf know I'm heading home

I fucking hate lanky cunts

>>41492914
>>41492951
Kek

>>41486475
looks like you have to become the rapist

>>41492902
over the course of this most recent semester, late jan- beginning of may.

>"There will come a time when a new girl will pop up and you don't want to be in that situation with your head still in the past because then you won't take advantage of what's going on in the present. I've only learned that as I've gotten older unfortunately."
same here, the past has an interesting way of repeating itself. In fact, this girl and this situation is oddly similar to a girl i met my first year of community college. Similar thing happened with her. Both blonde with blue eyes, both were accepted me until i blew it/ cut her out, both kind and friendly, both ambitious, both found me funny, both lost some weight and became sexier-though i thought them gorgeous.

>>41492951
ree

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>>41492979
Do you ever just have thing feeling that your life is just a series of cycles? Almost like the seasons of the year?

I've had experiences that start the same, go on a bit different and end the same even though they were years apart. Similar girls, similiar experiences and it feels like I have deja vu a lot. It gets so bad that I'll just stop what I'm doing and think to myself "I swear I've done this before but I can't remember when."

>on the bus
>notice a 9/10 teenage qt clearly checking me out
>girls never check me out, what's happening
>everytime I look at her she's looking at me but quickly looks away or give me a smile
>when I get off the bus I can see her following me with her eyes, even turning her head to keep looking at me

I can't help but feel like this was the one chance God gave me. I'm just a painfully average and pretty boring guy, girls never check me out, let alone hot girls. Was there any way I could've not fucked this up? How would you even approach a girl on a full bus?

>>41492997
>I've had experiences that start the same, go on a bit different and end the same even though they were years apart. Similar girls, similiar experiences and it feels like I have deja vu a lot. It gets so bad that I'll just stop what I'm doing and think to myself "I swear I've done this before but I can't remember when."
I feel like whenever I make any progress, its taken away immediately. I was just getting fit back in Nov. Oh well but yes your point I do feel like my life is just a series of the same pages, over and over and over.

>>41476225
My roommate got with this super cute girl the other night. My roommate is a good looking dude and he's way nice but she's pushing him away. He jokes about how he doesn't care but I can tell that he is s little hurt. I'm sorry about your girl problems man, I really hope you find some who appreciates and loves you.

>>41492997
>>41492997
yes. with everything.
two possible explanations from my perspective:
1.) we relive the same experience until we understand the lesson.
2.) Some people unconsciously gravitate towards the familiar because its the most comfortable.

>>41488911
>>41488946
It'll pass. No feeling ever stays the same.

>>41483892
The picture he attached quoted a pope dipshit

>have been struggling with severe depression for 5 or 6 months
>barely left my apartment, slept 20+ hours a day at the wrong time, ate too much, zero excercise
>even stopped dreaming entirely, don't know why
>fapping 4-5 times a day, barely feels good but it's like scratching an itch at this point, can't finish unless there's porn
>yesterday decide enough is enough
>after being awake all night i just decided to go out on my bike in the morning
>cycled to the park and read a book for a few hours in the sunshine by the lake, watching the geese and ducks
>got a healthy lunch, got a haircut and shave
>bought some new cycling kit and did some more riding around the city
>got home in the afternoon just as it started to rain
>had a long shower
>went to bed early (like 6pm) and slept for ages
>had some nice dreams at last
>blocked all access to porn sites on my computers
>this morning got up at 7 and had an omelette, salad with avocados and tomatos and a cup of tea
>going to sign up for gym membership at uni to get back on track
>might go out for another ride if the weather stays ok
i'm feeling good, /fit/. exercise really is the best depression cure but getting off your ass and getting on with it feels impossible until you're already out there, then it's the best feeling in months.

>>41476518

That's beautiful. Thanks

>>41493005
It's not your one chance, don't panic
Give it time, every time you fuck up, you're one step closer to not fucking up

>>41476518
I really needed that. Thanks man.

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Fell head over heels and spend days cryin wondering what had I done wrong and why was he so distant at times. I'm a grown fucking woman but I just really liked that dude. After six months we grew close again and I found out that last time the reason was that I was just a side piece.

I don't know it just breaks my heart. And I feel stupid. This is not even the first time this happens. I feel unworthy. It's been a few months now and I don't date or take any contact with guys. If they initiate contact I just quite literally shut down cause I don't wanna let anyone close.

I'm lonely.

>>41476518
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>>41493405

>Be me
>Diagnosed with severe depression for 2 years, doc thinks I've had it since high school (currently 24)
>Go to the gym on and off for three years, just now finished a full year of lifting with no breaks
>Have never achieved my ideal weight or physique, always eat too unhealthy
>Come here to lurk and look for tips for the past 2 months
>Have a supportive girlfriend for 5 years.
>She is attractive and healthy weight while I always fluctuate.
>Am unemployed, college dropout.
>Contemplating suicide even though my life is objectively okay.
>Keep coming to this board and get back on creatine
>Notice I am loving working out. Making strength gains.
>Losing weight, currently down 10 lbs.
>Had an interview for a full-time job. Get job.
>Tonight I browse /fit/ and see all of these posts. Realize today is the first day in a long time I didn't think about suicide.
>4chan is helping me overcome my depression.
>4chan....
How is this possible anons.
You guys are objectively the best posters on this site. You are all so supportive and great. I feel like I can make it and turn my life around. I never thought I'd find help on a Indonesian finger painting website.

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>>41475719
>get restaurant job
>qts all over me
>get with lots np
>10/10 crush gets hired
>lose my shit
>cant talk to her
>stare
>she asks why im always looking at her
>'i..im just tired'
>tells others she likes me
>i find out and think about quitting
>still can't bring up the courage to talk/flirt with her again because everytime were anywhere near eachother everyone screams and makes jokes
>killed my game
>the only girl id actually date instead of just hook up with and i'm a weak beta yet again.

>>41494611
4chan is a bastion of great advice hidden between shit. Anyone who pays attention and wants to can flourish from coming here. I don't know what I would've done with my life if not for here

>>41494647
do it RIGHT NOW
send her a message "do you wanna hang out sometime?"
RIGHT NOW
don't think or contemplate, just do it
and worry about everything else afterwards

Don't even think about replying if you haven't yet sent this message

>>41489335
Happy birthday anon

>>41489479
Can you explain the drinking game?

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Never kissed anyone, never had sex. 29 years old.

How do I even start, man.

>>41494885
Watch something like paranormal activity with lots of jump scares. Everytime you or her screams/jumps, you have to take a shot (something like peach schnapps or apple sours, it will make her feel less self-conscious and less responsible for her actions)
That's off the top of my head. If you can be assed, google any famous film and you can find an associated drinking game

>>41492380
Don't give up

Matched with a super hot qt from my college on tinder last night, felt really good about it. Woke up this morning and saw that she unmatched me. I didn't even message her, so it's not like I said something weird. Really messing with my self esteem, which is bad to begin with

>girlfriend of 4 years breaks up with me
>devastated for 3 months
>finally find a qt girl to talk to and have regular sex with
>gf decided she's still in love with me and wants to get back together
>dump qt girl
>gf decides to change her mind and realizes we'll never be the same as we used to be
>devastated again

>>41495681
It's Tinder, everyone is sluts. Who cares

>be autistic sperg
>people don't interest me because they talk about the most irrelevant stuff
>get drunk
>insult everyone

thanks dad, great genes you passed on.

Anyway, how do i stop being an autist in social situations?

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>80% sure girl at work likes me
>Don't pay much attention, focus on work
>Start to get more signals from her
>Begin nofap week 3
>Fuck me I need a gf
>Leave for Korea for 2 weeks
>Getting texts from colleagues saying she's wondering when I'll be back
>She went on a blind date since I left

I need to act FAST, brehs

>>41489531
damn... did meds really fix you?
i'm kind of tempted to go to a doctor and hope he prescribes something for me, i can't concentrate, nothing interests me and my memory has gone to shit.

>>41494611
/fit/ is probably the best 4chan board.
people here are cool funny and just as autistic as anyone else.
i feel at home here.

>>41495838
Got what you deserved for running back. Learn from your mistake and never repeat it.

>>41475719
>Finally weight under 80kg
>Buy a pizza to celebrate
>End up binge eating for a week
>84kg
>Cystic acne has come back from all the sugar

>>41495935 it just sucks when you're still in love and had no connection whatsoever with the other girl. She clearly just did it because she hated seeing me with anyone else and wants me to be alone and miserable

>>41475723
Talk to your boss. Be proactive. How am I doing? Any feedback about how I can improve? I like working here and feel like I'm settling in and want to check in with you to see if I'm doing a good job.

>>41495852
It means she put in the effort to go to my profile and hit the unmatch button, I only do that if I accidentally swipe right on a land whale

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>>41489335
Happy Bday anon

>>41489421
Do you think she would have said "Yes of course I love you anon!!!"
You can just be happy that she didn't talk about another guy, but her not mentioning you is really no big deal.

>>41493005
Adopt the five seconds rule. Once you realise you are hesitating and that you kind of want to talk to a girl, give yourself five seconds to decide wether or not you are going to talk to her.
Most times you will decide "no" and that's fine, no regrets. When you decide "yes" though, go for it and say whatever goes through your mind. It won't kill you and you'll feel super proud afterwards, wether it works or not.

>>41478387

Women always do this shit. I hate politics man.

I once had an "intervention" from three flatmates for not washing up. I hadnt even COOKED in that kitchen for 2 weeks. I told them this, and that ALL of the washing up was them, as literally it couldnt have been me. And despite this I STILL was occasionally washing up as Im a neat freak.

Suddenly then they no longer felt the kitchen was a mess at all, and that I was making a big deal over nothing

Fuck that stills pisses me off, years later.

>>41478728

dont shit where you eat. It always leads to them hating you. even you agree/promise its nothing emotional at all before hand, they will expect/demand it from you

>>41491388
micropenis

After all the despair and pain you learn to accept it, as the alternatives are extremely expensive and still shitty.

Also you don't make women cum with your dick so they don't care.

>>41489644
Thanks man, much appreciated. Will do a workout now, and read a bit of Epictetus.

Everyone else, good luck on your paths.

>>41494611
That is great news man. Keep up the good work, I am pretty sure if Indonesian finger painters can do it, you as hell can do it too.

>>41495963
DO AGAIN, DO BETTER. If at first you don't succeed, you try again. And again, and again, until you are where you want to be.

>>41479153
Fuck off, don't let /pol/acks tell you how to live. Raise those kids the best you can Anon.

>>41479153
Get off pol.

See
>>41488180
>>41492571
>>41496457

If your gf is faithful to you you're not a cuck. If you make those kids your own and give them a better life you're making the world a better place and creating a legacy. Nothing less cucked than that.

>>41494611
I'm happy that you're making progress! I know how that feels. I'm 25 and it seems like there were things that could never get going when I was younger no matter how much I wanted them and pushed myself to do them.

Then one day all of the roadblocks seem gone and the days don't seem as hard. The wind is at your back and you can really start making your dreams come true!

I noticed that some of the days that I really wanted to push myself were my /fit/ browsing days. Of course you have to build up the mental filter to keep yourself from having extreme self esteem issues too.

You're gonna make it anon, just keep in mind the roller coaster of life: it climbs high to amazing peaks and it will come plummeting down to scary lows and occasionally you'll get thrown a loop and it'll feel like things weren't supposed to happen this way. Yet through it all, if you keep your goals in mind and keep up your routines, even if you mess up you have to get back up. If you can do that, everything will fall into place.

>>41490165
Sounds great!
Enjoy yourself, and obliterate that PR.

>>41495859
Try to act like you give a shit about others.
make them talk about themselves, and ask questions ABOUT THEM.

>>41486578
move out of your grandma's place

How do I deal with being eextreemly anti-social? I don't let anyone get close to me. It's like a deeply rooted instinct telling me to avoid people at all cost, and now I just feel disconnected from the world. My social interactions are just about conforming to the norms ("nice weather", it's weekend soon, cool"etc...) and the whole thing is just fake. It's just exhausting being around other people because I really don't care about the fact that Linda will go hiking this weekend or that Kenneth has a fat dog. My mind just goes numb.


I wish I cared about normie things and could be happy enjoying everyone's company but I don't. I don't want to go bowling or to the beach or a party or wherever. When I do come across someone that might have similar interests such as weight training it's again just surface level stuff. I might want to talk about the recent release of monthly applications in strength sport or results of the latest asian championships in oly lifting. All while this guy is just trying to tone his abs for summer. It's like we aren't on the same wave length at all. Same goes for people that might be interested in League of Legends like I am. Big chance they don't even play ranked or are silver league e-girls. They don't sit and watch vods of Apdo and his translated advice on how to play Kassadin. I don't mean to come off as edgy or pretentious, but people are rarely as invested as me in their hobbies which makes me even more isolated. This is of course in addition to my already very anti-social nature as I mentioned before.

>>41496354
You're bringing back memories of when I lived with 2 girls... I eventually left them in such a situation that they were at each others' throats so that they'd stop nagging me
It worked... to an extent

But fuck, would never do that again.

>>41497339
Does being anti-social bother you? A lot of people are perfectly happy being introverted or loners. TV has tried to convince us that's wrong and everyone needs to "come out of his shell" but it isn't true.

If you do want to be more social I suggest you set specific action targets you want to do. Like "talk to three strangers a day" or "ask people for stuff throughout the day until you get two rejections" or whatever. There are a few good books on likability too, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is one of the best.

And yeah, talking about normie stuff with normies can be boring or exhausting, but it's part of what you do to get along. Just like wearing a suit to work isn't as comfy as sweatpants. See it like dressing up: it's a chore you do that makes life better for normal people and helps you get along.

Also, do you know if you're on the autism spectrum? It sounds like you might be, and if that's the case there are probably a lot of good resources out there to help.

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>>41476518
Thanks for the wise words, friend.

>>41497452
Thanks for your input. I'm not even sure if it bothers me or not. It definitely seems inconvenient sometimes. I might be an aspie, not sure. If i understand autism correctly it develops during early childhood? I was much more social back in the school days. I also wouldn't call myself socially awkward as much as socially evasive, because I really dislike small talk which 95% of my interactions have come down to. It might be a combination of social anxiety and depression

>>41480021
>Only recently figuring out what I want to do in life
>being a teacher
you're a failure.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhiGNo6yCtw

>>41487761
i once snapped my shit up stacking pallets and had to walk like a gorilla the rest of the day took a week off for it it to feel OK

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>little guy isn't eating as much as he used to
>he doesn't play much either
>he just lies there a lot, losing weight
>vets say he has a tumour in his stomach
>it's too big to operate on
>catbro is going to be put down tomorrow
>my face
>my heart

Sorry /fit/ ;_;

>>41498580
I feel you man, losing a pet sucks. Make sure you spend as much time as you can with him so he knows how much you care

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>Ask grill on a date
>flakes on me and cuts all contact
Wanna kill myself desu

>>41498580
This happened to my 19 year old two years ago
Fucking Mango was always there for me
there is no greater justice you could do your cat by peacefully ending its suffering with you by its side.

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>>41498745
Happened to me too man. It's happened to a lot of us. Don't put too much blame on yourself. She might have been more scared of it than you were.

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>have oneitis
>think I have her attention
>Ignore her to see reaction
>Always looking my way
>Comes up to me and talks to me in gym after a while
>Think about this for 2 days, think she's trying to tell me something
>Ask her her plans for the holidays
>Says she's free, and that we should meet up sometime
>Says she'll text me
>get a text ~20 mins later saying she heard rumours we are dating and tells me there's someone else she's interested in
What did I do wrong here? Was she just being friendly?

>>41498745
Happened to me a couple times most girls don't know how to talk to people at all so most dates like that would be a nightmare don't worry she accepted at first you are doing good smooth moves brother. Try maybe messaging her once more before the date not mentioning it and just saying something funny or sending a funny meme.

>>41498841
Based on things I've read, this sounds like a shit test. You have to brush it off
"haha, don't worry, if I was into you I would've asked you out"
or something like that

>>41498942
I'll try anon, but she still keeps looking my way and I have no idea what it means.

>>41498966
Oh wait! I've thought of a better response
>"Haha, I've only got eyes for 1994 Pam Anderson. Don't get me wrong, I'd consider it with Alexandra Daddario but my heart wouldn't be there you know?"

>>41498745
Yep. Had sex with a girl. She then ignores my texts
I mustve sucked in bed? Tried my best too
Whatever

>>41490611
I'm sorry to hear that anon. Has she been taking some vitamin B17 extra to everything else? It can be found in apricot kernels. Maybe look into it.

>>41494898
My brother-in-law was like you and met up with my sister at 32. Just look for fretful 30 year olds without kids. you'll be fine.

>>41495859
don't blame your dad for the shit you are responsible for

>>41499406
i could blame him for more stuff
like being a shitty father and leaving when i was 3
didn't even try to make things right
or him being an alcoholic so i can't control myself while drinking

>>41499441
unless you learn to forgive him it will make your own life miserable and shitty. and we don't want that. this may be the hardest thing you'll ever do but it will be worth it.

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>>41475719
NOT FIT RELATED NOW FUCK OFF

>>41476514
>I'm finally comfortable with my body.
I hope I get to say that too

>>41499441
>or him being an alcoholic so i can't control myself while drinking
I'm sorry your dad's a shit, but this doesn't follow
It sounds like you use your dad as an excuse for your complete lack of willpower

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>>41499480

NO

you will read my feels and you will LIKE IT

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>>41494898

literally me in 4 years lol

>>41499665
you got it
and i can't change.
i'm shit just like him