So why dont you have a gf anon?

self-improvement, women distract from improving oneself.

Social retardation

I suck

>>41227690
Plain bullshit. When I got my gf I was about to drop out of university. Right now Im working on my Phd

>>41227680
Had one for 4 years, when we moved in together I realized we weren't right for each other and ended it. Was pretty difficult cause she was great in a lot of ways.

Now I'm just single trying to get it in wherever and kinda lonely.

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>>41227680
Nobody likes me

>>41227680

Envy others for having one, but don't really want one, I guess. Same with friends. I am lonely and would be happier with more company. But the slightest social interaction reminds me of how much I want to be alone.

Envy, but don't really want it. I think. I don't know. i don't really know anyway fuck off

>>41227680
Because I am so busy with working/studying/working out I don't go out and meet many girls, and not interested in any I know besides one
>I asked her to go to my buddies wedding as my date
>she said she thinks she can make it
>need to find a backup but don't know any that I'd care to ask

Why did they ruin the franchise by making another one of those movies?

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Well I did up until about a month ago. We broke up due to long distance and the fact that I just want something different. We had been in a relationship for four years (17 to 21, almost 22)

>tfw break up, finals week, moving apartments, and written up at work all in the same week

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>>41227690

This is actually true.

>tfw gf

I'm a beta cuck who can't maintain eye contact with a girl due to self esteem issues, even if that girl at the gym basically eye fucked me for 30 minutes.

Not interested in having one. Would rather do other things with my time.

Becuase I have a wife and I'm faithful to her

>>41227767
no you dont

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>>41227680
Because I'm socially retarded. I can't look girls in the eyes, I stutter while speaking with them and usually don't know what to answer when I get a question. I'm trying to improve tough.

I don't have interest in having one, and I'm incapable of connecting emotionally to people because of my mother, as cliche as that sounds.

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>>41227680
The one girl I loved and loved me back, died about 5 years ago. There has been one person in this world I could say I love you and get the same answer back, and she doesn't exist anymore.

I've tried. Many girls, many women. But never her.

Cuz NEET and even though I hook up a lot I can't date somebody as I feel like a worthless loser

>>41227690
Stupid mgtow bullshit
>>41227705
This. My gf has made me 10x a better person. The key is finding a girl that makes you want to be a better person rather than one that drags you down. Literally the same thing happened to me; I was thinking about dropping out, but now we're both graduating in two weeks and have very well paying jobs in the same city after we graduate.

>no friends
>not handsome or interesting enough to make up for it

>>41227796
cuck

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>>41227680
Im a loser who has never worked up the courage to ask a girl out in my 25 years of life. There are days when I feel like im not too bad looking and fun to be around. Then I let my negative thoughts take over and it sets me on a never-ending cycle of sadness and inadequacy.

Lifting has given me no confidence even with 3/4/5 in the big lifts.

I always felt like girls made fun of me and now even as my self esteem is up and know I deserve a nice gf, am plagued with the feeling that girls only interact with me out of pity or finding it funny to lead me on

To all the anons lacking self confidence out there I highly recommend going on an adventure by yourself.

Being able to lift a lot in itself is an accomplishment. But you need to find something that makes you realize that talking to girls and asking them out, facing rejection, is nothing. For me it was climbing and backcountry hiking/camping. It could be anything for you guys. It's just about realizing life is short and it's better to say fuck it and go for it then living with regret.

>>41227796
>needing external motivation for self-improvement

>>41227816
How about you just do it and deal with the pain after. Its like anything else you dont want to do. You eventually stop caring about the rejection and one day you will be successful.

'cause she cheated on me, so I went solo on a fitness path.

>>41227885
It's better than so self improvement at all

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approaching girls is beta af
so I just wait for some girl to notice me
waiting for 19 years so far

because most likely no girl who knows me wants me to be her bf

>>41227680
I dumped her a couple of months ago
Now I've got shit loads of uni work for another month

Never tried + social retardation back in high school. I didn't realise a girl liked me for an entire year after it was too late. I only work with one other person now and it's a guy. When you add the fact that I'm almost hermit levels of intervert it would be out of the ordinary for me to even talk to a girl.

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>>41227680
why limit yourself to one gf ?

Not scared to approach them, just socially retarded and can't hold a conversation

>>41227747
Phew, that's a tough time. Stay strong dude, work your ass off for those exams

>>41227680
Whenever I feel affection for a woman I immediately withdraw, challenging and evaluating my emotions until they essentially subsided again. At this moment, the aversion towards the necessary effort of a relationship far outweighs the want for recipocrated love.

In other words: Too scared to make a move so I stay lonely.

(Send help)

social retardation, even tho im pretty fit and attractive.

in high school i had a crush on a chick that had a crush on me but i was too retarded to try to talk to her. i ran into her a few days ago and she told me she wanted me hard.

fuck my life

>>41227680
I'm 1,87 m and have a 16 cm dick, but I'm ugly and my voice sounds retarded, that's why.

>>41227680
Behavioral isolation. If your not social/charismatic/happy, natural selection will work against you.

im introvert and heavily dislike extrovert people
which is pretty damn shitty because the only girls i meet are all heavy extroverts who spend their free time partying, clubbing and drinking

>>41227680
I work overnights and don't have a car.
I also feel like getting one would make me complacent.

I tell myself these things to justify my loneliness

>>41228037
Thanks man it means a lot. I've got two tests today, a paper due at midnight tonight and another due midnight tomorrow. Just gotta make it through these two days and then I can worry about finding a place to live

I'm asexual but that's part of a much bigger problem.

>>41228058
All you can do from this point in your life is don't let that happen again. Next time there is some mutual mirin going on, do something about it. Think about how you felt when you realized you could've had her.

>>41228090
Yeah where do I meet other introverts? Library? Coffee shops? I have a thing for quiet, smart, kind of quirky girls

I'm autistic as all hell and have zero game. Whenever I catch a girl mirin, I just get this sullen look on my face and seem dissociated from everybody else.

>>41228128
i dont actually have a problem talking to girls, i actually have a harder time talking to other guys but the issue is initiating conversation, which is harder then battletoads co-op, the few times she talked to me i kept my cool and shit.

>>41228128
Good luck finding many introverts outside.

>>41228142
It's fucking sad too. Like I'm in Muay Thai and this hot asian cardio bunny approaches me and she wants to strike up a conversation, but I'm too autistic to even talk to a female, so I run away to do some bag work instead.

>>41228142
>>41228165
Can someone please help me with this? I'm desperate as all hell and I'm afraid I'll die a kissless virgin.

>>41227680
I'm an ugly manlet.

Fuck

>>41227680
because I'm not a dyke. and because I'm autistic as heck too.

>>41228174
uglier, more manlet people have gotten gfs, i believe in you anon. you just gotta keep your confidence high.

>>41227680
I do drugs

No one wants a relationship with an asexual guy.

>>41228157
Maybe at school? Somewhere introverts have to go to

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>>41227680
They are annoying and expensive

Saving them from myself.

>>41227680
but I just got a qt3.14 high test gf?

>>41227816
Even if people on this board say otherwise, 25 is not too late. I assume you do something for your healthiness, so you will not look disgusting past your puberty (which, according do science, ends between 25-27). And not every guy who had success in his teeny years is full of self confidence, assume a guy had a long term relationship with his first gf between 17-24 and then she broke up with him, here he is, on the same dating level as you, you both must find back in the game.

>>41228062
so basicly youre averge

>>41227690
Lies.
I'm currently a sophomore and on the pre-medical track. Before meeting my girlfriend back in October, I wasn't really doing what I needed, besides shadowing, to set myself up to getting into medical school after graduation. I was relying on my GPA and grades in the pre-reqs.
She was pre-med before dropping it and switching to comp sci, so she pointed me in the right direction.
She got me off my ass, and now I feel much more prepared. The pre-med advisor and my professor (formerly on the med school admissions committee at the school I want to attend) said I'm on the right track to getting in upon graduation. I just have the MCAT and three more pre-reqs left.
You just have to find the right girlfriend.

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Because I don't know how to build interpersonal relationships

because i married the cheerleading captain and prom queen, had a baby, make money

>>41227705
I've only started really pursuing my dreams since I met my wife. She's supported me through the hardest times, and given me the strength I needed to take a real chance.

>>41227710
idem

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I don't, but i will soon. Would you fugg me fit?
Like 3 weeks into lifting.
Screen crapped on camera plz ignore.

a large majority of the women I meet turn out to be degenerates after i get their snapchat and view their stories. Sadly the nice one I met who doesn't seem that way hasn't shown much interest since I blew my shot with her after she broke up with her bf. Plus I live at home now and feel like a loser so until I get a big boy job after graduating in a few weeks I'm not too concerned about it besides feeling occasionally lonely.

>>41228422
Did you knock her up before or after you got engaged?
Be honest

>>41227680
>because of mutual attraction
It does not matter if you are an 8/10, if the girl or guy does not like you you can pack your bags and go home.

>pretty cool girl in my course not really that close but each other around
>I'm maybe like a 7/10, she's 8 or 9/10
>never really talk that much but always get on with each other
>one day, ball coming up, everyone gets smashed
>find out she's had a massive crush on me for months
>her & my friends were planning on getting us together for weeks without me ever noticing
>we hook up while we're both smashed
>she regrets it next morning, says she isn't looking for a relationship but is still clearly quite fond of me
>we talk a bit, have a lot of stuff in common - this girl is actually perfect
>I ask her out on a date
>she says yea but makes it clear that she isn't looking for a relationship
>now I'm obsessed with her & she just wants to be friends
>all of her & my friends always know what's happening, they're constanly talking about us behind our backs
>avoided her & her friends for a solid week now since she "rejected" me
>have labs tomorrow, she's my lab partner
>kms

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Because I do.

>>41228550
Moar

>>41227680
Had one, lost one, still hung up on her emotionally so I had a series of fuck buddy relationships that got weird because the girls would catch feelings.
then I graduated college and got a job in the big city working 50 hours a week, and doing freelance on the side, so my spare time is limited anyway. I wouldnt mind a little companionship but she'd have to be cool with my schedule.
>wake up at 6
>30-45 minutes calisthenics and stretching
>cook breakfast
>eat
>shower
>go to work, with gym bag and such
>work till im done, usually 5ish
>gym for lifting or rock climbing till 7ish
>home, cook dinner, eat by 8
>freelance work/practice art till i reach a stopping point
>chores, laundry, dishes, whatever
>read till sleepy
>sleep like a dead man
>repeat
weekends are usually rest days, free lance work and errands in the AM and friends in the PM.

I just dont see a GF in that schedule. But i do miss cuddling.

I'd love to, but I have a hard time meeting quality women. College it was fucking easy, but afterwords it's pretty damn impossible All that I've come across at my age (I'm only 24 ffs) are taken, notorious sluts, or single moms.

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>>41228649
Only because you asked so nicely

>>41228731
gay lol

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>>41227680
Because I have a wife

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>>41228741
post your gf lol

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>>41228752
>>41228752

>>41227680
I drove her away bc I wanted to find someone more attractive but I grew to enjoy my time alone I think I'll stay single for a while before returning to dating again

>>41227680
Gay

>>41228765
kek

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>>41228765
hahahah ok, I like u lol

>>41228765
e******d is that you

>>41227680
I do. but she's been a handful recently
>be beta as fuck all thru highschool
>fat lazy watched anime and played games
>was one of the betas that was charming so i managed to land a beta gf
>she wasn't fat but she had no tits no ass and a barely decent face
>finally get sick of being the beta that all chads look down on
>get sick of my gf making snide comments about my weight
>start hitting the gym i never went to that my parents paid for
>first few days were awful
>felt like the world was vibrating when i worked out too hard and threw up multiple times in the bathroom
>dont give up
>FF 6 months and i've lost 30 pounds and my muscles had started to show
>no longer look like a fat beta but just a normie with a few gains
>gf was anything but helpful
>she hated i was going to the gym
>told me that she loved me the way i was and that i didn't need to turn into a meathead
>started getting into fights since she started accusing me of getting fit so i could dump her and get with a hotter girl
>blew me up on fbook as a fuckboy
>3 months later and i've all but lost my love handles.
>no six pack yet but my body actually looks like something an athlete would have in the beginning
>gf still giving me shit asking if i met any cute girls at the gym
how do i convince her that the only woman im lifting for is her? Im afraid she's gonna give me an ultimatum of lifting or her. I love her so much guys she's my first love and i want her to be my last but she's such a bitch right now. Everytime i explain I want to be healthy for her she just cries and it stops all conversations and ends with me comforting her and apologizing
I'd rather lose my gains than her

>>41227690
sounds like you never had a good gf. lmao settling in 2017

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>>41228535
>tfw no matter how much you lift you cant make her love you

>>41227690
lmao what the fuck are you talking about your virgin lunatic?

That's your standards talking. If you want a girl who will help you develop and self improve they are out there. What the fuck is this turbo /r9k/?

>>41227690
haha ok there kiddo :^)

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>>41228815
>how do i convince her that the only woman im lifting for is her? Im afraid she's gonna give me an ultimatum of lifting or her. I love her so much guys she's my first love and i want her to be my last but she's such a bitch right now. Everytime i explain I want to be healthy for her she just cries and it stops all conversations and ends with me comforting her and apologizing
You don't. You dump her.

>I'd rather lose my gains than her
Show her this thread and the responses you'll get. She's a selfish insecure girl who's keeping you down.
DON'T CHANGE SELF IMPROVEMENT FOR A WOMAN. Never.

Annon, listen to me. Dump her before your gains.
If she's "The one" she should fucking understand.

>>41228765
Bro

She's a lot of people's gf

She's a ho

>>41228815
Step one stop apologizing for trying to improve yourself
Step two she will either get over her obvious insecurity or she will make you miserable until you dump her

>>41228853
>>41228844
>>41228825
samefag

>>41228861
Also rollin

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"you're charming so I thought I'd date you, but I never really felt anything more than friendship." - my oneitis upon breaking up with me

Tfw can't delete her pics off phone bc I'm weak

>>41228888
nice hitler quads
heil mein brother

>>41228815
There is a reason why fit guys get laid constantly but you barely see them with long term relationship partner. Women in general have extremely low self confidence and they would hate every part of themselves if they are in a relationship with a fit muscular guy.
We are here to fuck, not to breed, for the large majority of women.

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>>41228815
Following on this>>41228861

Love is fleeting. You're going to hate yourself when you stop your gains and you guys break up.

I'm not saying that she could be "THE ONE", but if she is... She.Should.Fucking.Understand.

>>41228873
>Caring about this shit

>>41228815


Cards on the table dude; she doesn't sound like a very high quality woman. Assuming your post isn't embellished then she sounds combative, insecure and unsupportive.

If you respect yourself, and you see yourself as someone who can offer a good partnership to someone, then you owe it to yourself to say "I deserve someone who can offer me the same"

>>41228861
Roll

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Modern day women are a complete distraction. They're basically children in adult bodies that constantly need assistance to get anywhere in life, who refuse to compromise because it's all about them, and if you say otherwise the relationship is over.

Afraid of being judged

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>>41227710
I like you anon

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>>41228699
HOW DO I MEET WOMEN REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>41228943
Stop hanging around vapid whores

>>41228815
>Everytime i explain I want to be healthy for her she just cries and it stops all conversations and ends with me comforting her and apologizing

dont fucking apologize when you have nothing to apologize for. this is beta bitch behavior that just reinforces her in her cuntish ways.

keep calm, do not back down. offer her to come to the gym with you to see how it's like - she's probably imagining that you're getting hit on by dozens of cute stacies all day. take her along a few times, let her see that it's nothing but sweaty men who occasionally drink protein shakes and grunt at each other.

>>>/r9k/

>>41228965
Pro-tip: not college. What used to be a decent field of crop has been turned into a plague of indoctrination camps. I would advise staying as far away as possible, and find a girl that doesn't even want to go to college.

Because I have no idea how to meet women outside of school and pick up apps like tinder.

>>41228969
>Stop hanging around vapid whores
So stop going outside. Already do that anon.

>>41228987
This

But I can't get it on over Tinder either

What I will never understand is people who make posts on facebook like "man I really need someone in my life right now" or "if anyonwe likes me just tell me, I can't stand being alone."

These are 20-something year old men talking like a 13 year old girls, how the fuck is that supposed to attract women? No one's going to alone a desperate man crying for attention. Desperation is such a turnoff.

In the words of the Arab from community, "girls like my aloofness, because it reminds me of their fathers."

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>>41228987
>>41229011
>live in college town
>only people on tindr are landwhales
>mfw

>>41228982
>being this brainwashed

how's it feel to be missing out on the best years of your life while the rest of us lock down high-paying careers and find wives?

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>>41229040
>being this retarded

>be flirting with QT everyday at the gym, she seems like she's into me
>look her up on Facebook
>see she has a BF
>he's ugly as fuck, literally a 2/10 neckbeard that's never lifted in his life
>she's never mentioned BF when I've talked to her

What do? Should I try to smash?

>>41227680
Traditional Italian parents wouldn't allow us to be together. Had to cut it off because she was fucking me up, now we walk past each other like we don't even know each other in college. Feels bad man.

>>41229046
>/pol/ told me colleges were indoctrination camps so I won't go
>every teacher is a fat feminist and you have to swear on the koran before every class
>I've never been to college but these infographics prove it's true
>this smug anime girl will show I'm right

>>41229090
Just don't date her. If she'll cheat with you she'll cheat on you.

Im too rich and smart

>>41227943
Lmao asking girls. I bet these beta boys' fav topic is which tampon brand is the best.

Btw waiting 24 yrs

>>41227680
I only got a gf to prove to my mates that I'm not gay

>>41228815
She's insecure because she "settled" for you knowing she could do no better, and now kinda likes you. By improving yourself, she thinks you're out of her league and doesn't want that to happen

Here's the truth though
>being fat sucks
>she was making snide comments while you were fat to keep you with low self-esteem (when a guy does this to a girl, it's seen as a form of abuse)
>you're healthier now
>hotter girls will start being attracted to you
>your girlfriend's personality sucks, you only stay with her because she liked you before you sorted yourself out and because you're too comfortable being with her
>your gf isn't particularly attractive by your own admission

Do what you want, but this girl ain't marriage material. Ask yourself where you want to be when it inevitably ends at some point

>>41228861
>41228861
rrolll

>>41229109
Thanks anon

Because I have no confidence and a warped view on women and social interaction in general from growing up with a single mother and having literal social outcasts as friends.

Even worse, I've had, multiple times, 7/10 and 8/10 women throwing themselves at me, but always manage to fuck it up

>>41229090
Hell yeah.
I love stealing sloots from beta boyfriends. Do it faggot

>>41228861
Roll

>>41229104
I go to college and can confirm that on my first day we were literally all made to swear on the qu'aran
Then all the women were taken away to be culturally enriched while we watched. If we didn't get a boner, we got a fail

Now I'm being taught by Chomsky who's explaining why capitalism is bad and why should all be socialists
For my dissertation, I'm writing on the importance of third wave feminism and why men are probably rapists (and why all white men should be in jail)
My lecturers are very impressed

>tfw hopeless

>>41227951
>Every female friend asked me why I don't have a gf
>None of them tell me which of their friends are single
>Even if I ask
Oh well

>>41228965
College is fine, but be selective.

There's a lot of hatred towards women on this anime/fitness board. I wonder if there is a correlation between hatred of women and neetness.

Anyways, meeting women can be accomplished in several ways. The most effective way is through friends. If you don't have friends, make some.

Make friends with fat women. Every fat girl has several good looking friends who keep her around as a contrast. Even though she will catch feels, her friends will delight themselves in asserting their superiority over her by getting with you.

Other ways to meet women. Tinder, as long as it's done right is a wonderful tool.

Bars, you can go alone and make friends. Try and make friends with guys and chubby girls first. Eventually you will have their hotter friends by the panties.

REMEMBER the closest way to a womans heart is to be desireable to her friend group.

Social desirability=success.

Buy a round of drinks for guys at a bar. Talk to them, be social with chunky chicks.

>>41227690
I have a great girlfriend, but this is true from a fitness standpoint.

Any relationship requires a time commitment. Going to the gym requires time and discipline.

Talking about diet and exercise with girls is also a touchy subject, no matter their weight. So keeping your hobby to yourself is something you might want to consider.

>>41228861
Rolls Royce

>>41228861
ROLL

Autistic as fuck
Depressed
Can get a bit rapey
Lie constantly
Spend most of my life trying diffuse my own anger anxiety and partially sane thoughts with constant introspection

I'm more then happy with being a net surfing game playing hermit.
As long as I have a place to workout, good food, games, access to the net, and can plow that chubby white self proclaimed dyke when I need to bust a nut or work off some aggression I'm good.

I know I'm going to one day probably wish that I could go back and do it again. But by then I'll be too far gone and be willing to finally kill myself.

>>41228357
now wait until you break up and you'll be worse off than you were before. Nobody can fix your shit besides you, all being in a relationship does is like having a band aid over your character flaws.

>>41229104
>talking about college when he didn't go to college
>>>/reddit/

>>41227931
That's the point, you're a pathetic manchild if you need that to improve at all

>>41228198
My bf disagreees.

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I have two

>tfw I get the both black and Asian qt3.14 /fit/ memes in my bed

>>41228861

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i tend to fuck everything up

>>41227784
I'm sorry anon, that is one of my only fears. Your emotional stamina is swole

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>>41227710
be my friend

>>41228058
Does she still want you brah

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I match with girls so easy on tinder and sometimes they message first but I hate myself so fucking much and don't know what to say and I'm scared. My mom just literally gave a girl my facebook and told me to add her. I feel like the ultimate wasted opportunity and I want to die.

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My standards are too high for my given personal setup, I romanticize and fabricate weird mythologies for the girls I find myself interested in, and a host of mental and emotional insecurities.

I haven't been on a date in 8 years, and have had a crush on one girl for over a year and a half despite being merely acquaintances with her.

>>41227690
a good gf can help you be better. A bad one will fuck you up

>>41230470
>My mom just literally gave a girl my facebook and told me to add her.

Who's this girl? How old are you?

>>41227710
The truth is most people don't care about you. But I understand how a narcissist who thinks the world revolves around him might feel this way. You should watch "Synedoche New York" by Charlie Kaufman.

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>>41230586
Some girl who goes to my uni that I don't know. My mom was up visiting while walking the dog and chatted her up then gave her my name. I'm 20.

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>>41227680

I've been travelling and improving

>26
>Speak 4 languages
>About to get a masters in a good field
>Landed a permanent job with a good pay in a good company, I plan on using this as an entrance to the corporate ladder
>140 kg bench 210 g squat 240 deadlift
>Dem nordic features
>Sincerely enjoy my life
>Good cook, also go climbing, swimming, hiking on my spare time
>Saw the town I'll be moving to has a police/military instructor giving out self defense classes so that should be fun as well
>Now I can start building up a stock portfolio
>Looking for a nicer flat as well

I've been kind of putting time into myself and things I like, I haven't been ready to settle down with one person. I have met some amazing women that I have enjoyed my time with, but I always kind of knew I would not stay here. Now that I have some stability with the permanent job and degree coming up (plus two pay raises in the near future), I can look for a woman to stay with.

>>41228481
You look like a 12 year old trap.

I bite my nails and my hands look like shit and I'm super self conscious about it even though people tell me they look fine.

>>41228541
Good luck mate

>>41228731
Fuck that looks like my ex.... she used to say these things to me too

>>41228815
>be beta
I read your whole post but your first two words said it all.

>>41228861
true

>>41228943
lol

>>41229095
They want her to date an italian? I don't get it.

>>41228288
i jusrmt turned 20 how long do i got?

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On one had she's /fit/
On the other hand she's fucking nuts

>>41229491
That's the gluten talking.

Drop it from your diet.

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I don't know how to get one, even though i've already had an one year relationship.
I overthink everything.
I'm not really a people person.
Too jaded cause was a fat kid.
Standards are way too high personality-wise.
I work 2 jobs and go to school, and i'm not willing to give up my 1 and a half hour me-time at the end.
People expect me to get gf or at least fuck bitches. I hate when people expect me to do something that doesn't concern them the slightest, so i tend to do the exact opposite, even if it sets me back a little.
Despite all these, i'm fairly content with my life, and not looking for change.

>>41230631
You will talk to her, right? You've never seen her pics?

>>41227747
Good luck bro

My qt3.14 ex gf. My mind is still fucked up after she left me 8 months ago. We spent 5 years together, and I sometimes daydream of finding her and stabbing her.

I feel like I'll never get over this fucking shit

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Serious question, guys.

Do you ever feel emasculated when a woman is taller than you. Serious question.

>>41227690
mgtow autism tier here lads

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my ugliness is only fixable by surgery

>>41230785
LOL. Cucked by a nut.

>>41230837
Used to

Now idgaf i am king, if she tall but she fine, take her down, she'll dig it

>>41230837
I can't believe than women can be 6'2. The tallest girl I know is like 6'

>>41230837
I'm 6'1 and this only happens once every two years or so...

And they're usually tall lanky basketball players so idgaf.

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>>41230837
I'm 6'0 and I'm genuinly insecure about my height. I feel like if I ever stood next to someone like Karlie, it would just look silly and she would think less of me and society would think less of me. I feel like I'm like a lower tier human tbqh. I will never be a part of that society.

I'm not baiting. I really feel like this and it is mentally draining.

I don't even know anymore.

>>41228815

literal gains goblin

>>41229040

>too dumb to be self employed
>literally in debt to be someone else's slave

>>41230837
>>41230953
>tfw 6'1 girl at my gym makes me look like a child
I shouldn't feel like this, but it really fucking bothers me.......
I guestimate by my own 5'11 .

Jesus Christ, I felt suprisingly bad about it though. Been thinking about it for the last 2 hours.

>>41230953
>I feel like if I ever stood next to someone like Karlie, it would just look silly and she would think less of me
This. I feel like taller women view me as literal subhuman or a little cuck child or something.

I don't club anymore because of it.

>>41227680
>depressed and unmotivated
>trying to self improve and the pursuit would be distracting
>it's not worth having a relationship until you're 30

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>>41230815
I've seen her pics on her fb and she's cute but I probably won't talk to her cause nothing says friends like having your mom hook you up. Even so, I literally don't know what to say to her.

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>>41230837
>>41230953
>tfw I'm attracted to girls my height and taller
>tfw 5'11
>tfw girls my height will tower me in heels
What did God/Nature mean by this?

Because every girl I've fucked has given me the clap

>>41230644
yeah, a girl will really give a shit about this

fucking autist

>>41228178
Same

>>41228815
This bitch is tearing you down because she knows she doesn't deserve someone with dedication, work ethic, and ambition. You dont know this yet, but it is only a matter of time, and she will try with all higher might to delay the inevitable. Wake up OP. She is scared because it is obvious to everyone else that someone who has the will and dedication to sculpt their body does not belong with someone who not only will refuse to change, but discourage your from doing so. Dump that toxic bitch.

>>41228861
rollarooo

Because I just broke up with her because she was trying to get too close.

>>41231081
I'd love to be on your shoes. That's some romantic comedy shit right there. A story to tell your grandkids. Your mom's walking the dog, meets a girl and she gives her her fb. This chick definitely wants to meet you. She's waiting for you. She's seen your pics, silly. She wants you to approach her. Anyway, perhaps you've become accustomed to the safety of loneliness and despair. Not even being cynical, I know how comfortable one can get rotting. You have to get out your safety zone. What's the problem, mate?

>>41230953
You should seek professional help

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>2017
>wanting a girlfriend

no thanks

>>41230953
Pretend you are short to a point where the number no longer matters. Remove that part of yourself. Then focus on the good things that are left. I am 5'8'' if you are wondering. A point where some girls care, but enough dont that it is not really a big deal. You are 6'0, so alternatively you could stop being a fucking retard and look at statistics placing you in the 80th percentile.

>>41231081
do it!
use the archaeologist line and report back

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>>41231267
Buy how do you feel about the fact that look physically inferor to someone 6'0+

>>41231261
wew... at least she's having fun I guess?

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>>41231298
deal not feel*

>>41230837
nah, im 5'10", any girl my height or taller is insecure about it. Ill be the shredded cunt with a model 4 inches taller, idgaf. My last gf was taller than me in heels, and it kinda turned me on.

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>>41231323
Do you think that she is insecure about it?

>>41231261
This has got to be some fa faggot LARPing, right guys?
I knew girls were whores but this is on a whole other level.

>>41231298
That doesn't make her look superior. It actually just makes her look like a circus freak. That and the dudes she's with look like super manlets.

>>41231318
good god shes a monster lol

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>>41231351
Wouldn't you look like a manlet too? I'm 6'0 and my sister is 6'2 like kloss, and I still can't deal with it.

>>41231388
I'm 6'3" and weigh somewhere in the area of 240lbs at 12% bodyfat.
Next to me, she'd look like an innocent lost teen girl who's going to get blacked harder then you can possibly believe.

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>>41231351
It makes you look inferior. She looks the same.

>>41231409
It makes anyone shorter than her look inferor*

She still looks the same whatever.

Convince me otherwise.

>>41231418
She isn't even hiding the hilarious aspect of it.

>>41228861
good post

>>41231339
Of course she is.
Why do you think girls hate manlets? Like actual hate, it's not just "oh he's short".
They take up more space than a guy so they start feeling masculine and resent themselves for it. How would you feel if you were shorter than 99% of the women you met? Womanmores probably have a similar feeling.

When I say manlets I mean IRL manlets, 5'5" and under, not the "le 5'10 king of the manlets xD" meme.

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>>41231475
Well I'm that outlier that is attracted to tall girls.

I'm NEET and don't know anyone.

Every girl I know i'm either not interested in or they hate me and think i'm an awful human being since my best friend dated a girl in the friend group and once that went badly everyone took the girls side but me.

>>41231495
No don't get me wrong, tall girls can be attractive. But you can't deny there's something emasculating about being next to a woman that has 3+ inches on you without heels.

>>41231418
Not really. It just looks circus silly when she's wearing heels and standing next to average or in the case of basically all modern actors below average height men.


>She still looks the same whatever.
>Convince me otherwise.
Yes she does. That's my point. When she purposely puts herself next to little and normal height dudes it makes the "problem" of her height more pronounced. Which is probably why she does it. To sell herself on her height.
However it actually detracts from her hotness.
Would pick her up with one hand spread her legs while she tried and failed to fight me off then ravage her like the tiny easily dominated piece of ass she is.
I bet she's into getting spanked.

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>>41228731
delet this

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>>41231526
I agree with you. It only looks bad on the dude. The girl is always as is, if you get what I'm saying.

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>>41231541
She is taller than you with heels.

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>was a shut-in all through university
>no idea where to go to meet grills now
>moved back in with my parents to save money, so I can't even meet random girls on tinder

Gfs are overrated guys. Just got out of a 3 year relationship. Just continue to work on yourself and accomplish your goals.

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Funny how all the red pill MGTOW bullshit in here is being refuted by actual stories of anons in happy relationships that have made them better people.

Keep those fedoras tipping lads.

>>41231586
She'll be shorter then me when I have her on her knees and on her back.

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>>41231651
Be honest, are you in reality a manlet.

>>41231669
No actually.
I'm a fairly tall man.

>>41228861
roll

>>41228861
roll

>>41231735
did that literally yesterday,
reroll

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>>41231706
6'3 tall though?

>>41231775
Yes I am. Why? Is it that unbelievable?

>>41228861
rollin this shiet

>>41231825
What is it like to be 6'3? Serious reply please.

Because I'm terrified of sex.

>>41231881
Why?

>>41231889
I have no idea. I was never abused or anything as a kid, but the thought of sex with a real person makes me scared and disgusted. Like a flight or fight response.

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>>41231960

>>41231984
lel

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Because I'm a manlet.

I could improve my appearance, get a better haircut, cut more, go out more, be more sociable, learn to talk to people better. But it doesn't matter. I don't satisfy myself, how am I supposed to satisfy someone else.

I've seen kids, aged thirteen, going through school like I used to only a few years ago. And they are far taller and better than I will ever be. I will be 19 soon and have completely stopped growing, doomed to forever be a 5'6 manlet.

There's no point.

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>>41231997
>I don't satisfy myself, how am I supposed to satisfy someone else.

>>41231997
>Getting this sad over shit you can't control
Fucking man up and accept the things you can't change. If your short your short, if your ugly your ugly, if you got a disease that shortens your lifespan tough fucking titties there ain't shit you can do about it so there's no point in worrying about it.

>>41228861
rollin

>>41228861
Fuck it. Roll

>>41227680
I am very extroverted and sociable and people tell me I'm funny but I also grew up in a very isolated area and was an ultra late bloomer.

Now that I'm a bit older I have literally 0 experience in relationships/dating and because for the vast majority of my life I was unattractive most signs that someone's into me go right over my dumb head.

My first kiss was at a friend's party where the girl basically had to jump my bones to make me realize she was actually into me and if I hadn't been drunk I'd have probably pussied out.

Like apparently if women laugh at you and touch your arm a lot that means they're into you but I know tons of girls who do that to me and I'm pretty sure they aren't DTF

I also think my standards for a relationship are probably too high for what most girls are looking for, and I'm alright with staying single while I work on myself until the right one comes along

>>41230778
Correct, I'm not actually a bad guy really I'm studying Pharmacy, work and am in good shape and decent looking. Probably better any Italian they could find here in the UK

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>>41227680
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WAuF69o778

>>41232069
I have accepted it already, doesn't mean I never feel sad about it. It's impossible to fully get over it if you're constantly reminded of it every day.
I wanted to be a basketball player, if you can believe it. I only play by myself now, since no team would have me.

>>41232110
>Like apparently if women laugh at you and touch your arm a lot that means they're into you but I know tons of girls who do that to me and I'm pretty sure they aren't DTF

Literally me always. Most of the time it isn't me thinking they aren't into me I know they aren't since I am aware they are into someone else, are dating someone else, or have asked their friends.

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>>41231997
>forever be a 5'6 manlet
I love you dude. Fuck the haters. I love you.

t.6'0 cuck '

>>41228861
Looks fun

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Roasties these days aren't worth fucking or dating.

Rather be an incel than pay child support because "oops I forgot to take the pill xd" or get cucked like 90% of guys in relationships these days.

>>41228861
roll'd

>>41228541
Tell her that you really like her and are okay with "not putting a label on it"

Continue to hang out and be fuckbuddies and do essentially everything else that dating people do but don't actually call it what it is.

Tons and tons of people have needless anxiety over saying they're officially in a relationship with someone for whatever reason. If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, you're "not putting a label on it"

Good luck

I'm too autistic to enjoy being around anyone for an extended period of time and gay

Because I'm fat, ugly, have autism (actually diagnosed, not the meme kind), and no self-esteem.

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>>41231997

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>>41227680
I just don't connect with women a lot of women, and if I don't feel it I don't try.

Also I don't drink, cuts out a lot of potential gfs.

I don't have a gf because of my personal choices, but I to find that right girl and make things last. Isn't that what that no gf feel is, to long for somebody to spend your life with. Not to fuck?

>>41231846
It's nothing special at all.
I'm a different guy but i'm 6'4".
Like any other height, you don't really feel yourself growing into the height in the beginning.
The only thing that stands out to me about being this height is noticing that you're almost always the tallest person around when you're out in public.
I don't feel special about it one bit, but I am glad that i'm not short.

>>41232196
Do women give you more attention than other anons?

>>41232119
If she's not willing to renounce her family's wishes like Juliet, you're better off without her. You just can't see it because you're into deep. Trust me, if she really really loved you she'd be with you.

>Be me
>Get approached by girls often
>Talk to them for a while
>They find out that behind the body and the face there is not a whole lot of personality
>Be sad....

>>41232238
Because of the height? Probably not solely because of the height

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I don't know

I'm not fat or short(gym 3 times a week for ages), I'm not hopelessly autistic, not worshiping women and have a decent variety of interests around travelling/history/gaming(but don't push this as I know its toxic to some people).

I'm not poor I have a graduate degree and job.

My standards are not too high, just don't be a fucking whale, body type isn't important to me outside of having some passing interest in fitness.

Don't really know how to meet girls I guess, been on 2 tinder dates that didn't go great, I probably come across as inexperienced having first started dating at 22 but I don't know how to fix that.

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>>41232281
So yes.

>>41231997
There's plenty of femlets out there for you.

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>>41232148
Dude, this is fucking depressing read.

>>41232304
Anybody with some height on them stands out to people much shorter.
If you're grabbing attention by standing out then you'd better be good looking for any bonuses that would come with it.
I can't imagine that anybody would keep staring at the ugliest tree in the woods just because it's the tallest.

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>>41232353
Yeah, but think outside the extremes.

>>41232239
Yeah I get a lot of Romeo and Juliet jokes, you've given me a good insight thanks.

>>41232381
Somewhere
Out there
Right now
She's completely passed out on top of some 7'tall black guy with a 7' tall white guy doing coke off her ass while her jewish boyfriend is sitting in a corner beating off

>>41232381
Well I do realize that some people that are really into tall heights do find it attractive and would probably categorize them with "good looking" just for being a turn on.

>>41228861
roll

>>41228861
reroll

>>41228861
rolling

>>41228861
ok roll

>>41230690
How does feel to be cuck?

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>>41232415

I have no friends and no photos of myself for tinder

>>41228861
rolling for test

>>41228861
ALRIGHT LETS DO THIS SHIT

IM GONNA ROLL THREE TIMES. I WILL COMPLETE ALL THREE TASKS IN THREE DAYS.

ROLL 1

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>>41231550

>>41228861
ALRIGHT HERE IT COMES. NUMBER 2

>>41228861
NUMERO TRES GO GO GO

>>41232485
You fucking your sister?

>>41232510
It's his brother.

>>41228861
Something not stupid please

>>41227680
I hate myself.

>>41227775
Me too anon :(

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How do you all become so fucked up?

>>41227680
Can't read social cues and there is probably a deeper underlying problem for all this.

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>>41232516
lol, top insult

>>41228058
Take psychedelics with intelligent people

>>41232816
She is qt, but why the nose ring.

>>41231183
Mate she's gonna think I'm a fucking weirdo for not being able to hold a conversation. I don't even know if she wants me like that, my mum gave her my info cause I was looking for class info.

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>>41232823
Idk, I normally don't like them but I like it on her.

>>41231643
Agree

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>>41232835
why do i like plain looking 6/10 white women so much.......

>>41231997
I'm 5'8 and I have qt gf
>>41228731

>>41232865
6/10?
Nigga you trippin
that girl is at least 8

>>41230690
That is your ex, im fucking her now hahah cuck boiii

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>>41232883

You're young and impressionable, I can tell. Please leave this board and website before it squeues your views on life forever

FYI, that girl is a 5 at best. This is an 8

>>41228861
wew lad

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I'm a kissless virgin. I have approached girls to talk to them but I've only got rejected. How can anyone be confident when literally all your experiences in this area is made of failures?

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>>41232907
like you could fuck either

>>41232865
Found the self assured neet

>>41232907
na pham, that girl is a 7,5 and the one you posted is an 8,5

and you're retarded

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Because I have short temper and literally can't stand most people's bullshit. That's why I left my parent's house when I was 17 after graduating high school and live alone.

Don't get me wrong, I have friends and get along with neighbours and strangers, but I would probably beat the shit out of a gf if she tries to come in to my place and move my shit.

>>41227680
Because I'm a suicidal,but there is this one Tomboy at my job,who says she loves me everytime she sees me, she also gives me a hug every time we see each other

>28 coming on 29
>virgin
>autistic
>6ft.1
>not fat or spooky skeleton
>hate people
>have friends but still sad and lonely
>just wanna focus on making muscles and money

>>41227747
Godspeed anon

>>41233031
>>just wanna focus on making muscles and money
Hear, hear.

I'm a 28 yo kissless handholdless everythingless virgin.

I honestly don't know how to start.

>>41228861
Roll

>>41228861
rolin RULIEN

>>41228861
nice set mate

>>41228861
Reimu is best touhou

>>41233137
Holy fuck I have a cpl class next week, now that's a big ass coincidence

>>41228861
rolling ss

>>41232459
>>41232903
It's not literally my ex lol it just looks sort of like her. Brunettes man they do something to me

>>41228861
roll

>>41228861
r

Living at parents house
No income.

I'm going to kill myself, it's for the best.

>>41228765
pathetic

literally entry-tier

>>41228861
roll

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>>41231997
>at work
>2 ladies talking about their kids
>"he's getting taller"
>"yea I know, at first I was worried but now he might a chance!"
>tfw he was as tall as me
>tfw he was probably 13

>>41228982
It's really hard to find a girl who doesn't want to go to college. I've never met one my age that wasn't in school

>>41228128
Yes, coffee shops! But don't wait for an invitation or even eye contact, most girls won't give it, especially the introverts. Just go over and start making conversation: smile, laugh, ask questions, try to enjoy the butterflies like you would an especially scary deadlift. Try even to savor the letdown when she's not interested: there's no more shame in it than failing a rep.

Girls know this takes courage and courage is sexy.

I have a fwb. sometimes id rather chill on the couch playing vidya than file my nails and pound her

>>41228861
Udhshs

>>41228861
roll lol