Girls are a meme

>>39809163
You have a Madonna-whore complex

>>39809176
Frued is a hack.

>>39809163
you're too nervous to meet them in person.

poor lil' guy

>finally get GF
>first couple weeks is pretty cool
>after that get tired of all the constant attention I have to give her
>get sick of having to drop whatever I'm doing and spend time with her
>fucking spending money and shit? really?
>eventually just drop her and enjoy all my freedom again

it's not as good as people said it would be

>>39809163
>being low t test faggot/gay
>g-guys girls are a meme

>>39809879
it's only good if you are still in school

>>39809163
>rugby
>mahnigga.jpg

position?

>>39809879

Fuck man iktf all too well.

>move to uni, 3 hours away from parents / friends

>Meet a great girl in my course (5/10 looks, but brilliant personality)

>2 months into the relationship, realise that im not happy with another person, sex felt good and shes decently nteresting to talk to / be around

>Turns out im just an autist who likes to be alone

>Break up with her and spend final month of semester as a fucking hermit, flatmates see me once a week in social situations at most.

>I fucking love it

Im not a virgin anymore, but is it fine to feel so content to be alone? I feel like a failure.

>

>>39809163
delta sleezy

>>39809176
don't even joke about that
I legit have it and it's the worst shit.

>>39810069
Not everyone has to follow the LifeScript™, do whatever makes you happy m8. If you feel happy and content alone then be alone. If you don't want kids then don't get them. If you follow the script everyone expects you to follow you'll probably end up a miserable cunt hating your life.

>>39810069
Same here. I just need to escape auschwitz so that I can get girls like i did at college and not worry about needing a GF for sex

Guys I downloaded Tinder like earlier in the year but then when I tried to log in again it says I need to make a Facebook or some shit

All this viral marketing

>>39810718
for tinder? think so?

>>39810459
yeah

>>39809952
Not op but also rugger, #12

You're a faggot

>>39810718
>>39810953
Absolutely not.

Those "tfw first sip of the day monster" posts are marketing

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>talk to different girls i meet on fb/tinder for weeks even months
>they always call me babe and send cute pics
>they end up canceling plans every time we make them
>this happens almost every week


what am i doing wrong?

>>39811038
>talk to different girls i meet on fb/tinder for weeks even months
>for weeks and months

You´re not supposed to be talking to them for months on end you autist

Ever heard of the 3/2/1 rule?

You have 3 messages to seal a date with a new match or she´s /on to the next one/.

Then you´re supposed to have that date to take place within 2 days of that interaction and the 1 signals the fact that you must fuck her on that first date or at least make out i.e. fuck on the first date.

You will not find a gf material on tinder, thats why the 1 rule exists.

>>39809163
FUCK THEM FOR ME, ANON!

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>>39809163
>ghost them all

>>39811070
teach me your ways

>Get around 10 matches on tinder within first day
>Convo with each one dies after a few messages

Fug :DDDD

>>39809163
broke up with my girlfriend because all i want to do is play vidya and watch my japanimations.

>>39811717
I usually just say "hey I've gotta call it a night here, but I've enjoyed chatting. maybe we can grab a drink sometime?" when I sense things dying down.

>>39809163
Sex / Your sanity
Pick one

>get better companionship from friends
>can fuck without being in a relationship
>have to invest time, money and energy into relationships

is there any good reason to be in a relationship other than wanting to start a family?

>>39810459

Make a second facebook account, upload ur pics, make the tinder account, then set it to private.

>>39809163
breathing is a meme
I swear, stop that shit

>>39811070
Literally autism

>>39809879
You are a beta fag. Constant attention? Drop what u r doin to see her? You dont do that.

>>39809208
Yes

>>39812835
Yeah, I don't do that, it sucked, so I stopped. Retard.

>female friend of friends want to date me
>feel like they want something more serious than I can provide
>don't want to hurt anyone so just kind of avoid the subject
>friends say I'm blowing it
>she's really hot, but can't really into anything that feels forced

>>39809879
>drop everything to spend time with them
>being this retarded

My girlfriend wanted to start lifting with me, so I've been taking her with me. And she understands that I have work to do, so she doesn't make me drop everything unless it's an emergency.
All it takes is to work your girlfriend into your routine.

>>39812885
>>39812835
It's called hyperbole, guys, relax.

>>39812876
You are the retard. You arent suppoused to do that in a relationship.

>>39812903
>calls other people retarded
>has the reading comprehension of a four year old
>spells like one too

>>39812918
I was juzt trying to help the autist, sorry if i rustled your jimmies.

I guess we are not all gonna make it.

>>39812935
>fuck, how many buzzwords can I fit into one post

inb4 "I was just pretending to be retarded"

>>39809163
>meet a girl
>she becomes my gf
>sex is great, bj are amazing
>fall in love
>be happy with gf, building a happy relationship with her

Dankest meme ever OP

>>39809163
>be single
>crave intimacy
>date people
>crave space
>stop dating people
Repeat forever (and maybe you'll get lucky and meet 'the one')

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>met with cute girl on tinder and hangout for the day
>we both have a good conversation but i dont feel i hit it off as well as i shouldve
>i accept defeat and say i had fun and it was nice meeting her
>she asks if we can hang again after the holidays
>i tell her yeah
>i get a little excited cause she may be interested
> she sends literally one message after that and doesnt respond again
What happened? Why did she ask if we coule hang again if she was gonna do this?

>>39811070
> tfw 10000/0/0

>>39813059
She probably tought you were not interested.

>>39813059
There are countless possible answers. If you really want to know, just ask her.
Otherwise just assume fickle/busy/forgot/lost interest/likes leading people on/etc and move on
If it keeps happening, maybe get a hobby or job that allows you to be social with both men and women. Good luck bb

>hook up with various girls i meet outside (easy because i live in the city)
>meet girl i really like
>we date
>still want to fuck other girls

I've planted the idea of her hooking up with another girl into her head and she seems to be warming up to it. Otherwise I'm not sure what to do.

>I workout everyday
>Trying to get below 10% bf, (currently 15)
>I shower everyday and groom.
>Dress well
But...
>5'9
>Acne.
>Wetback skin
>Big eyes and eye lashes.
>Dimoles.
>Huge fucking head, even with 50in shoulders.
>Small hands and feet.
>4/10 face
>Big nose.
>Weird voice.

Why use tinder if all other dudes are better looking? Not willing to settle for some landwhale.

>>39811717
be more spontaneous and weird - after all you will probably never contact them again

>>39813242
Kek post a pic Sylvester

>>39813139
I mean i double texted her just in case she didnt get my text and nothing

>>39811070
>fuck on the first date
>wanting to fuck girls who are that big of whores tht they will fuck a random guy they texted 3 lines with on the first date

hilariously desperate man

>>39813174
well since youre clearly such a stud and fuck girls "easily" im sure you can probably have a 3, 4, even 5 way

>>39813325
I'm pretty autismo, but when you live in a city with multiple millions of people you can meet lots of girls.

fucked 7 girls raw this month (5 were black, 1 white, 1 hispanic)

pretty sure i got hiv, fucking kill me rn brehs

>>39809952
Lul didn't expect this shitty thread to kinda blow up.

I'm doing it for the first time at my school's club team because people have suggested it and I find it interesting.

I'm expecting to play flanker, number 8, or a sightly bigger wing. Any tips?

>>39813311

what's wrong with girls fucking on the first date you misogynist fuck

>>39813374
It's actually pretty hard to get HIV from a girl, but if you did, consider donating to these guys:
https://riderinstitute.org/pages/donate-to-draco-antiviral-research

Supposedly they're working on a cure for all viruses.

>>39813457
If you fuck a guy or girl mere hours after meeting them, you're a whore, male or female

If a girl will fuck on the first date, imagine how many other guys she has been with

If a guy tries to fuck on the first date, imagine how many sluts he has been with where he thinks that's okay to try

All you're going to get is circle jerk here, but no it isn't failure.

Grab a fwb and you're all set.

>>39813480

what's wrong with being a whore? virgin fuck

>>39813480
t. bitter kissless virgin

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>>39813299
>I mean i double texted her just in case she didnt get my text and nothing

>>39813504
>>39813535
are the fit alpha males out again?

>>39813548
Just people with sex lives.

Video games is for kids and losers.

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>>39809879
fucking same senpai. All of those, then broke up with her abruptly. She was upset and I seemed fine. But now a month later the loneliness set in and im very depressed and thinking about her a lot. Just the thought of having to go through all the beginning stuff again with someone else stresses me out and turns me off from trying. I had just got to that comfortable stage with her which was nice, even though I knew I had no choice but to end it soon

>>39813702
She was visibly upset because she was in tune with her emotions. You need to learn to understand when you are experiencing emotions.

>>39813242
This sounds scary like me. I'm not sure what you mean by small hands and feet though. But I don't think I'm as groomed as you.

>>39813618
This.
Only guys who would get mad about what other people do is if they are jealous.

>>39813715
Im not sure whats wrong with me. I barely show emotion and hold everything in. She was a sweet nice girl and I realize that. But I didnt see a future in our relationship and this only would have been worse way down the line

I thought getting a nice cute gf would set my mind right and make me normal/confident/happy. Apparently not

>>39809163
Easy DZs

>ugly as sin
>25 year old kissless virgin
>wish i could try to use tinder to find girls
>no friends so even if one did magically find me decent looking, none of them will even match me because i wont have group pictures
>can't post pictures of my huge penis on there and try to get a size queen to deflower me

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>gf who I wanted to marry left me after almost five years
>told me our relationship wasn't what she wanted
>kind of want to fuck random sluts, but can't be bothered to make the effort to see or do anything
>find the idea of fucking a non virgin disgusting
>at 22 I realize that the only way I'll find a virgin is if I rob the cradle and groom a high schooler
>don't want to end up in jail or have my heart broken again so don't want to bother
>considering just going full hermit like the last four generations of my family have

I hate having sexual desire to be honest. Fuck modern women. Fuck the sexual revolution. Fuck the age of consent being 18.

>>39813632
>Video games is
>Has the audacity to call others losers

>>39813898
what frat are you in

>>39813849
You need to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.

>>39814172
Other than your pedo leanings, iktf bro. My gf left me after 4 years, we road tripped across the US, travelled the world, I was going to marry her. She moved thousands of miles away, I don't know what I did to scare her so far off. She's with this tall handsome Chad now. Actually fuck it I agree with you, I wouldn't mind a cute eager 17 year old or something.

>>39813059

you're the guy. you're expected to initiate contact and move things forward

>>39814172
>gf who I wanted to marry left me after almost five years

Love can be cold bro. Just focus on yourself for a while until you're ready to get back out there. "Build it and they will come"

>>39814172
Five years seems like a long time to throw away a relationship, but you started dating at age 17. 17->22 is a huge difference in life goals. You're both different people, or at least you should be.

>>39811035
It's not marketing you've just never experienced the first sip of the day™

>>39812876
dude... why would you drop what you're doing to give some chick attn?

that's not how u girlfriend, buddy. no wonder it sucked lmao

>>39809163
>EASY DZ DON'T SAY NO!

>>39814529
B-but i texted her again. Besides, if she can't respond then that probably shows that she isn't very interested.

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>tfw only get matches with fatties

>>39809163

>could get so much ass it isn't funny
>all through high school that is all I was concerned about, but graduated only having sex once, and that was senior year
>at 24 slept with 6 girls in a less than a month
>Now all of a sudden I'd rather sext on snapchat or kik, and just do my own thing

I just wonder if this is like a want what you don't have thing. Being a whore is so mentally complicated...

>>39815440
That happens to me but in real life.
All the girls who want me are fat. Guess I just need to lift more.

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>tfw too autistic to make moves on them
>met up 3+ times and haven't even gone for a kiss
>slowly losing constant contact "i wanna see you" texts stop coming in
>mfw

>>39810337
OMG ur so speshul

>>39815460
>Guess I just need to lift more.
Believe me, this will make the fat girls more aggressive

>>39809879
>gf pays for herself
>she actually buys me shit sometimes
>she never gets in the way of my plans or wants
>have made it clear to her if she attempts to I will drop her
>puts out whenever I want

Y'all find terrible mates.

>>39810407
>>39810069
I'm in the same situation because I genuinely enjoy being alone, but it's a double edged sword: the longer you avoid social situations the harder it will be to connect with other people. Networking is important in life and seeing other people's perspectives on things is useful to widen your horizons and grow as a person.
I try to meet new people not because otherwise "lol ur a loser", but because I understand the value and potential of socialisation and also because leaving your comfort zone makes you better.
I usually take one or two days a week to completely isolate and spend some time with myself

>>39815529
>>>/r/theredpill

yall motherfuckers need to find women who can entertain themselves. Ya know when you found the right girl when you both agree that your company is enough.

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>>39809163
>hitting the gym to prepare for the upcoming rugby season

what position do you play and what's your routine? as a back i'm just doing pretty much vanilla sl 5x5 with loads of cardio on off days, but I don't think I can keep that up for preseason

>>39813480
Yes, people have sex. Some more than others and here you seem to belong to the "others" category.
Don't get me wrong, I don't use the number of sexual partners to measure people, but it's stupid to be so bitter about it

>>39815561
It's stupid to be so bitter about it but sex is close tp (some will debate) the most intimate thing you can do with something. If you're nulled to that intimacy because you'll do it with some girl from the club in a park then you don't really have much left to keep you and someone together.

>>39811070
this doesnt apply on tinder its more like
400/2/0

>>39815460
>>39815516
I've noticed this also. Got fit and now fat girls openly drool all over me and throw themselves at me. Meanwhile most of the qties still act passive aggressive and try the weirdest fucking flirtation techniques. Most of which go straight over my head and I later hear from my friends the qt I talked to liked me.

>>39815733
This is only my personal experience, but casual sex and sex with someone dear are very different (for both participants).
Fucking someone I never saw before is much more "mechanical" and to the point. Making love with my gf is much more passionate and emotionally "whole"

>>39815552
This >>39813430 is me.

For pre season right now I'm still keeping up with SS to try and squeeze out some last minute strength gains. On rest days I do cardio like you. Mostly HIIT such as rowing and biking in intervals.

It seems I'm bigger than most of the backs on the team but smaller than most of the forwards so I really have no idea what position I'll play. Flanker sounds ideal.

>meet girl
>makes me look forward to the day
>ask for number after a month
>start hating my life immediately after sending my first text to her ever
>wanted to throw my phone off the bridge but i ended up deleting every contact on my phone besides an old oneitis

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>>39809879
This
I am the same and every faggot who pretends a girl is easy and you just need to "work her into your routine" is deluded, they are needy and don't just want to fuck, they want to do nice things and want to spend time with you and this and this and that. Fuck that. I told her straight up that I dont have feelings for her and that I will not miss her, she probably hates me now but I don't give a fuck, there are a billions of bitches but only one me and I don't have time for bullshittery

>>39813299
Well that was your death sentence

>>39814474
Lmao, how brainwashed are you guys? Girls are fully developed at 16 more or less, they only get fatter after that and tend to not be innocent anymore.

Back in the day it was a man's right to take a girls virginity because it is disgusting to fuck a used up whole and don't even pretend this isn't what they are, we all act like we love women for their character and her whatever but in the end if she doesn't put out we don't give a shit about their character at all. There are no platonic relationships .

What I wanted to say is that it's completely normal to feel attraction to girls that are not yet permitted by the state upon your dick

>>39814172
>isn't a virgin
>only wants to fuck virgins
You see the irony here yes?

>>39815529
>gf's coping mechanisms for guilt accosiated with netorare: The Post

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Last year I met two girls who were throwing one "shit test" after the other at me and I didn't even find them attractive nor did I init the conversation. I did not care, but what was their goal? D-did I make it?

Why not both?

>On best mythic guild on my server (not anywhere near the best ever but we are 7/7M EN)
>raid twice a week
>gf makes me dinner and brings me drinks as i play
>spend the other nights chillin with her or going out

Never choose when you dont have to.

>>39814529
And make sure she is never bored.
And take everything she does wrong in stride.

>>39815529
>have made it clear to her if she attempts to I will drop her
Don't... FUCKING... test me..........
A katana doesn't count as a gf anon

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>>39816347
For women, perhaps. Men are talking, see to the children.

woman will always go out of their way to get whay THEY want

>>39816095
>toss two cods across the way at a homeless person in the middle of conversation
>Anon, she likes you!

Cool, i guess? Would i even want to be with someone who expresses themselves so badly?

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>>39809879

This is why I fell for the /fit/ is gay meme.
I started hanging out with one of my bros too much and we accidentally realised, retrospectively, that we were pretty much dating. It was quite awkward to begin with but we're both happy so we're just still hanging out.

Not sure if it's just bromance/homoromantic, or if things will go further. I'm not interested in dick, but he's got a thicc ass.

What do?

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>>39809163
>Point in my life when I dont get oneitis anymore
>Generally dont care about women
>Have a dream one night
>Walk into a room
>It's her, sitting on a couch alone
>Go over, sit down, talk
>I put my arm around her
>She kinda lies down, rests her head on my chest
> I hold her tight, caress her hair

FUCK, and im going to see her at new years party

>>39812885
>babe I'm on my period I need you to get me chocolate and tampons it's an EMERGENCY :'(
>babe I went out with my friends and now you need to pick me up at 3am because it's scary getting home alone do you literally want me to get raped??
>babe Samantha and the gang made plans without me I'm so sad it's an EMERGENCY

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>>39816139
Ah sorry didn't read the whole thread because it's shite.

SS is probably a good idea for flanker. I've only played a few games as forward and none tight 5 so my advice is shit but strong legs definitely helps you drive in the ruck. if you can, add some work that targets your shoulders (to prevent AC injuries) and lower back (to prevent injuries from bad tackles), i just do stuff like lat raises on days I feel I haven't worked 100% by the end of the workout

i my experience in lower leagues the need for strict body types to converge to a position is pretty low as long as you're fit fast and strong. even complete dyels can be scrum-halves if they're skillful. grats on picking up the sport they play in heaven, it's great fun.

>>39816630
hit on other girls all night to make her jealous, it's a good time, trust me

>>39813480
Egalitarian bullshit. Every girl on tinder is a slut by definition. Tinder is for "hookups" aka being a slut.

Meanwhile, there's nothing wrong with a man pushing for anything he can get as early on as possible. That's how you find out if a woman is a slut.

>>39812882
iktf

>>39816315
>if she doesn't put out we don't give a shit about their character at all
>there are no platonic relationships
Is this really true? I'm a virgin girl & have never had a bf & I agree with what is being said but it also makes me feel like shit.
Sure the majority of women are worthless whores but I thought guys would seek out qts that they actually want to spend time with, not just disregard women as a whole other than for casual sex.
Is all hope lost for any sort of a relationship at this point? It seems like the only guys who want a relationship with a girl are filthy normies

>>39816812
do you have autism? unironically, fully, sincerely, I have great relationships with girls who have some legitimate level of autism because they're actually interesting people who you can have discussions with deeper than a superficial level.

>>39816347
Go home, feminazi girl.

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>>39809163
>girls

>>39815498
You can ease into physical contact à la
hug - hug and kiss on cheek - hug and kiss properly

>>39815817
What he's saying is, if she won't give out her number after a few messages back and forth then she never will. You're wasting your time.

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>>39816577

Play a prank on him and see how it goes. Just for laughs haha

>>39816537
The thing is I'm actually really happy alone, probably has something to do with autism. If they can't act like adults and express clearly that they're into me, or any other feelings they have, I'm not going to even give it a second thought. They would most likely keep communicating just as badly in a relationship which just leads to disaster after disaster because no one knows what the fuck they want.

>>39816812
>>39816841
Funnily enough the only girls I've ever considered friends have been autistic. And based on my experience with women I'd unironically much rather have a qt slightly autistic girl as a gf than a Stacy.

>>39816577
That's all in your head. Hanging out with a friend is exactly like dating, except nothing sexual ever happens. So the only thing that went wrong here is that you have homoerotic tendencies.

>>39816871

Toplel.
I don't want to suck his dick.

Tinder is the fucking worst, seriously. A lot of girls on their are either looking for the one or just seeking to satisfy their self worth. Every now and then you get a girl who slips through the cracks and is down, but it is not common. I've had it for 6 months now and have met 5, banged 5. I do a lot better in person at bars/clubs etc. Fuck this stupid app.

>>39816846
Bottom right qt just realized she was born part of a meme species, ponders the cruelty of her fate.

>>39813299
there it is

>>39816812
I was the one you replied to and I meant it not as harshly. There are girls and guys with great character and personality, I would love a girl who is just easy to get along with, who's smart and funny. She doesn't need to look that good, obviously she should try though as do I. The thing is that you don't meet a lot of girls like that, I don't know how to explain it but 90 percent of women I just don't care about, I am sure though that I could and would appreciate genuine character and a fun person, but the truth is that most people aren't like that and I would rather just "use" the others. Someone who browses fit, especially a girl would be guaranteed gold I am sure, I am autistic as well by the way (aspergers)

>>39817043
Alright, I can definitely empathize with your logic. I suppose it's a matter of luck in meeting the right person. The real conflict these kind of threads bring up with me is whether or not to lose my virginity. I suppose I won't - it seems to be the main thing separating the good ones from the other women.
And yes the majority of women are vapid cunts, it just makes me wonder how any man could manage to risk it & date one

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>>39817043
>MFW thinking about you hurting

>>39816812
You're worse than a needle in a haystack. You're a needle hiding out a bit away from the haystack. Where would I even go to meet a virgin girl who looks decent ("qt")? How do you socialize? My past experience tells me the only decent girls usually hang out with other girls exclusively and pursue quiet at-home type of activities. In any case, there's no real way to meet them.

>>39817175
>how do you socialize?
I don't really. I have a few female friends but they're very annoying & I don't have much in common with them.

You're probably right about nice girls hanging out together, but if they're saving themselves I'd imagine it's for a suitable husband so it's not as though they're competely ungraspable. You could meet them at church or the library or something I suppose.

I'm in the same situation as you buddy. I'm sure there are many datable guys out there but I've really only spoken you guys on 4chan & I can't imagine finding anyone willing to date me irl

>>39809950
This.
Dating in high school was awesome, made my grades flunk but I didn't care cuz I was getting it, and made my virgin friends look at me like I was doing something incredible.
Fast forward after college and to quote the Weeknd "they all feel the same". It feels like I'm abdicating my own precious time just to try to make someone happy.

>>39817154
I can't speak for anyone else but for me it doesn't matter if my gf is a virgin or not. I'm one myself but I don't expect others to be at 25. Now how you go about sex matters a bit to me, if you had a LTR with some guy and had sex with them that's all fine, hell if you didn't it'd imply that you're asexual or hate sex. Going out and slutting it up on every chance you get? Yeah we're probably not gonna work out as a couple but do whatever the fuck you want. I'm looking for companionship much more than sex in a relationship.

To me it seems like you're not really into casual sex because you're still a virgin. At least that's how I've managed to hold on into my virginity. I've had plenty of chances for casual sex which I'm not interested in but never been in a relationship. Do whatever makes you happy. If you meet a guy you like and feel comfortable having sex with him go ahead. But don't lose your virginity just to get rid of it if you don't want to.

>>39817268
Meeting people once you leave school is so hard, especially when you have mostly stay at home/do alone hobbies. At least in school I had some contact with people my own age. Now that I'm working the only contact I get is my colleagues, who're all much older than me.

>>39817268
L O N D O N

>>39817271
>quote the Weeknd
fukken dropped m8

>>39817393
S O C A L :/

>>39816139
>>39816764
Lads, I want to start playing rugby but don't really know much about it, my cardio is shit. What position would I be suited to?

>bw 115-120
>190/115/210

>>39817475
SAN BERNARDINO

>>39817529
San Gabriel Valley :l

>>39817154
>yes the majority of women are vapid cunts, it just makes me wonder how any man could manage to risk it & date one
This is exactly what I meant, I am very hesitant a out even dating most girls even if they give me their number/attention. I just know that they will not be anything more than at best a (probably not even good) human fleshlight, but a lot of guys are vapid retards as well, don't get me wrong on that one, people here are not the normal demographic. This website attracts a very weird kind of person I think, very elitist, but in a lot of regards not very elite at all, very contrarian but at the same time the wish to fit in, very lonely yet not content with loneliness when they have loneliness. I am sure that this describes not only people on fit but on a lot of boards, it's a curse and a blessing to have this website because it makes you realise all the more why you just kind of hate other people.


And yes I would try to keep my virginity if I was you. I know you will probably hear shit like "Virgins aren't good to fuck" or something like that, but honestly sex to me isn't important, and I am sure that the right person won't fret about it either

I honestly do enjoy loneliness. I too know what I would have to change about my life to get a gf, but honestly women to me are just a drain, as edgy as it sounds, I'd rather be gay

>>39817522
Waterboy, shower twink.
>post boipunani

>>39813242
wetback skin? wtf is this even a thing? Theres white, black and superior caramel tan. It sounds like you have some serious self esteem issues anon. How can you expect a girl to like you if even you dont like yourself?

>>39817175
>implying she's not as self absorbed and unintersting as the ones she's bashing
>/fit/ will worship her anyway

It isn't womens problem you can't find a good one it's because you're all pathetic

Should I be worried if a FWB had an ugly bf before me? Don't plan to get too serious with this girl but she's probably a 7/10 and easy to be around. But her ex boyfriend is a sperg-looking bastard who was clearly outkicking his coverage with this girl. What does it mean?

>>39814474
I don't want to fuck prepubsescent girls, I just want to have a virgin again. My ex was a mythic rare in being a 20 year old virgin. The thought of settling down with a woman who has had another man in her is gross to me. 15+ is my youngest, but I'd be fine with as old as 25 if she was a virgin and 5/10 at least.

>>39814606
That's what I've been doing. Switched to a PPL and started sprinting again, and applied to some better jobs.

>>39814930
We started dating at 18, but that's the thing, we changed but only grew closer and more emotionally intimate. We never drifted away or became incompatible, she just stopped feeling anything and left without warning on a whim.

>>39816347
That's not irony. It's not even unreasonable.

>>39819055
How long were they together? Maybe she was less of a looker when they got together. Maybe he let himself go.

>>39819193
Like a year and half stretching from high school to freshman year of college. We're sophomores now. There's pictures of them together on Facebook which is what i'm basing judgement off of. My only thought was that she was a shut-in in high school and thus wasn't exposed to chads or good-looking guys in general.

>>39809176
That's a fancy way of saying "99% of women genuinely aren't interesting".

>>39819257
>high school

Maybe he was popular in high school somehow. It's pretty random who is and who is not. Know one or two of the popular kids and boom, you're also popular with zero effort.

If you really think he's significantly below her league then I guess she's just insecure for some reason.

>be obese girl
>lose 17kg through walking and stopping my chocolate consumption of fucktonne/day
>girl-friend tells me I'm starting to become anorexic and starving myself

are peer girls always like this
i expected something else :(

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>>39809163
you'll never be 15 and in love
lying on the grass on a warm summer night, watching the stars, carelessly chatting
not worrying about rent, bills, student loans
only worry in life is how you're gonna cheat on that history test on monday
you'll never take a young, tight, hot-bodied girls virginity, pulling out to cum all over her back and have her look in your eyes and say "I love you"
you'll never have a girl around every day after school, pretend to be doing homework together, but instead just **** like rabbits
you're in your 20's now
gotta get a good job
gotta be a serious man now
all the good ones are taken
maybe a nice girl will eventually settle with you
they have already felt all those new exciting feelings before, and are usually jaded and bitter
you missed what it feels like to have not a care in the world other than making your girl happy
you have missed out on teenage love

>>39809176

It's hilarious, I have the opposite of that.

A woman who dresses and presents herself as an utmost lady, but is an absolute freak in the bedroom makes me instantly fall in love.

Dating a girl like that right now. She's sweet, tender, artistic, and incredibly well mannered, but get her into a bedroom and she'll be riding my dick for three hours straight.

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>>39819374
I did not ask for those feels

>>39819374
GOTTA GO TO WORK GOTTA GO TO WORK GOTTA HAVE A JOB

I was 17 when I had my first and only gf, till 20, we fucked like four time cause she had self esteem issues and her mom was always around.

These idealized romanticized dreams of having your first gf at a young age is bullshit. She was annoying and depressed half the time.

Actually having a car and being able to meet girls seems more appealing

Fuck love

>>39818704
This man, build some confidence or fake it till you make it

>>39819349
Girls usually surround themselves with uglier girls, it makes them seem nice for being a "friend" and makes them seem prettier in relation, either your friend exhibits only this behaviour or she is also not used to you not looking like shit, or you are legit anorexic and weren't fat before.

Just a heads up for you though, just loosing weight will not make you attractive, of course it will make you more average but if you want to be sexy start weightlifting, Squats, deads, whatever you do, it will enhance your feminity (as long as you don't shoot testosterone) and make you healthier and prettier therefore more desirable to men

>>39814474
"Pedo leanings"

Lmaoing at your life

>>39817576
Let me teleport to you real quick so we can fall in love :>

>>39815529
Sounds like a dude

>>39813702

I'm in a very similiar situation anon, it sucks man. Usually I'm fine, but sometimes when I'm alone all those happy memories surface and I just feel horrible.

>>39817522
Lad hate to break it to you but if you're that small with shit cardio you'll have a tough time. Work on your cardio and if you're fast you can be a decent back in low level leagues.

>>39816643
Holy shit this

What the fuck did you do with your life before you had a boyfriend? Did you just live your life completely unprepared for everything?

>>39816846
>can't_wake_up.png

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>>39809163
>Sleazy DZ

>>39816846
>AXO

>>39809208
singles confirm

>>39817727
That's a nice post. How old are you? I'm 30.

Yeah, women are a drain. Problem is that life really starts to drag at some point. I work in a hospital (stroke unit) and see where it's going. So my impression is that a lot of people choose woman, child, and family at some point kind of out of despair. Of the old patients, those who have family are king, get visited, have pictures of their grandchildren on their nightstand. For single people you must find a foster home. Then there's the occasional divorced male, somehow much more common than female, who is usually a poor fucker.

So yeah it's not so much about sex, which can be likened to masturbation, but about procreation, over which women hold full power. So you have to take the risk and make a deal with an unstable person.

I work in neurology and for what it's worth there's a lot of gay personnel there, don't know why. They have the same relationship problems and emotional bullshit heterosexual couples have.

>>39819374
poetry. now go fuck yourself with your clichée

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>>39819374
>tfw I had all this and have a seven inch cock

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>>39812279
>tfw have none

>>39821194
Based on my experience once elders need assistance they're all dumped into nursing homes and visited few times a year. Obviously family is more likely to visit if someone gets an acute problem, like a stroke, and is hospitalized but once the initial scare is over they're forgotten.

Personally I'm adamantly childfree. I already know that there won't be any kids to take care of me when I need some help in everyday tasks. This doesn't mean it's a problem since children are expensive as fuck and I'll be able to pay for some qt nurse once I need help. Hopefully euthanasia has become more acceptable once I'm old enough to not be able to leave my bed.

>>39821430
Yeah we get a lot of old ladies from foster homes (husband already dead) that go back to foster homes after stroke "treatment", which is often nothing.

But if an old person comes that lived independently before stroke then the question is often whether there there is any relative that can help, or even a partner cohabiting. This can make the difference between some further support at home or foster home.

>>39821575
Oh yeah having a partner helps massively. And the help isn't just limited to taking care of the other one once they have problems functioning alone.

Was just trying to say that making kids with the hopes that you can guilt them into taking care of you when you get old is foolish at best.

Should I post my height on tinder?

I'm 6'1"

3 5 1 2 4

>>39818045
>>39820323
Kilo though Tbh lads

>>39819013
t. insecure manlet who's projecting

I mean you're right but I still get to be a cunt about it

duck out if the compromises make you miserable. duck out if you get miserable. duck out if it just makes you uncomfortable.

the goal is not to force a relationship to keep going. its to find a relationship worth keeping.

there is literally no benefit to frankensteining a relationship other than possibly sex, but you're better off withotu it if it isn't working.

emjoy the relationship for as long as you can. and if it goes south, leave, cuz all you're doing is preventing yourself from finding the good one that might last.

lasting isn't the point, it isn't the goal.

>>39816846
>tfw the only one acting normal is the brunette

that says it all mates

>>39809163
Back to /r9k/, faggot.

Been chatting to a girl for a month because we live far from each other. Chatting turned into sexting. She sent some cleavage pics. Hot. Still it's not a one time thing, we're going for a relationship. We meet up, hit it off, have fun, talk, and fuck.
Sex was great. She totally loved it and became more kind of submissive and clingy afterwards. But for me right after the sex I lost almost all interest. At that point she feels more like a good friend to me than a partner. What's up with that?

When she asked about meeting up again I said 'sure but I'll have to think about it first'.

I dunno. She is hot and she's easy to talk to. I just lost half the interest after I fugged her.

She said we should meet up and have sex in the car tomorrow before she goes back home. Haha. I'm up for that. Still I feel kind of indifferent.

- Is is that I'm not used to being in a position of power? (what? you like Me? What sorcery is this. I don't know what's going on)

- Is it that I'm used to being alone and get tired of interacting a whole day or evening with someone? (just wanna watch youtube and read 4chan)

>>39822100
>(just wanna watch youtube and read 4chan)
You ever think maybe this isn't a good thing and you need to take some time off heavy internet usage?
Because you should probably consider that.

>>39822146
well I do go to the gym every second day, go to a bar most saturdays to listen to music with some buddies. also sometimes I go swimming, like 0.5-1 time per week. also I do some wood working for fun. also practice the violin. is that enough? however I do have an unhealthy internet usage. I just get tired in my head from doing most other stuff. At the PC I can just relax and chill. It's a waste of time, and life time. But this is what my situation. What do I do? Progressively staying away for longer and longer times? I can just fall back to the PC any day when I'm not doing anything other so that doesn't really work. Should I limit my internet to like one hour at a time? Thanks for the input, I'm interested in this.

>>39816846
>g-go Diamondbacks

>>39822251
idk man I just replaced a lot of my internet time with reading and set some rules for myself such as not using the internet at all past like 9:30-10:00 unless I'm maybe watching porn and if I do then I just shut it off as soon as I'm done.
And I stopped using certain sites/sections of sites I found particularly hateful/self-aggrandizing. For example I still allow myself to use /fit/ while I'm at work, but I don't go on /tv/ anymore, even at work.

I've been much happier and have rediscovered my love for reading. I feel like my mind isn't poisoned like it was for the past 6 years of heavy internet usage. Not to say the internet is bad, but I'm finding that any more than like an hour a day outside of work is just too much for me personally.

Also did this basically cold turkey. Just decided one day that it wasn't good for me and I made all those changes that day.

>>39822327
Shiit. 1 hour a day? That flies by like nothing. I spend most of my free time at the PC looking at basically everything and nothing. Nothing useful at least.

But swapping internet for books is a good idea. I'll try to do that and other activities too. I hate the fact that I'm sitting so much, getting a bad posture.

Man I need to do this too. I do play the violin but like 20 minutes is the average time. I should try to increase it to 1 hour. and 1 hour reading a book each day. Also a 30 min walk each day is probably cool too.

>>39822540
I really love reading so I read here and there through most of the day, but I think the biggest difference is because I do it right before bed every night too. Much more calming and I've slept much, much better since I started doing that.

>>39822582
cool. reading before bed. sounds like a winner.

>>39821680
Yes. If it starts with a 6, use it.

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>>39809163
roll

>>39823085
No point, you already snagged the only one I'd want.

>>39817271
Fuck. If this is true im lifting for nothing

Literally lived the time of my life in college, dated the prettiest girl out there and now i just started lifting again to raise my market value for a new gf

>>39813108
nice ohp
mirin

>>39823085
fuck off back to
>>>/b/

>>39813035
underrated post desu

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>gf went away to school, suddenly wanted an "open relationship"
>D R O P P E D

>fug a bunch of girls at school, don't know how, very autistic
>finish degree
>come home and get great job

>match 30+ girls on tinder
>try every possible kind of line, open, combo
>0 replies
>literally 0 fucking replies
>months and months of not one single reply


what the fuck is going on?

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Why do girls treat nice people like garbage? I'm nice to everyone, nobody ever took advantage of me and I always get help when I need, always help those in need.

But I start being nice to the girl I'm interested in, she starts shit testing me like holy shit.

Why are girls such human garbage?

I'd rather keep fucking prostitutes than waste my time jumping hoops.

>>39821194
Im 20 years old.

I actually would love to have a kid or 2, I don't know why but I feel like it's something that has lost a lot of charm, you know having a kid as a younger person, but I feel like it enhances you as a person, and I am a very serious person anyway, I mean I waste my time as well with bullshit as does anyone else but I know I could pay for a kid, honestly I just want a traditional family, like me being the guy who pays for most of the stuff and the family in general and my wife being there for our child(ren)

I am very often thinking about things like that. Reflecting myself, my life, my future, and I honestly think it would be really sad to have no one past a certain age, I would consider myself a failure to be without family at 40.

My life is very unstable at this point anyway for the next 2-3 years so I probably won't even really try to actively look for a relationship.

>>39823698
Unstable as in my job doesn't give me the option to be at a place for long for this time

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>>39823609
I don't know mate, I am sure there is some pseudo science PUA shit theory about it, but honestly if a girl doesn't appreciate genuinely nice guys ( not in the neckbeard sense) they don't deserve them, be an asshole to women, show where that gets you, ignore them, don't reply to them, throw em some bait just don't be "nice". Maybe youre also just coming off as an asshole who puts this facade on, but generally speaking humans and not only girls tend to mistrust people who are nice to them early on, it's probably a mechanism from times where people died because of that shit and the people who were too quickly to trust a nice liar died, and had lower reproductive success- the ones who didn't fall for a nice guy survived and passed their genetics on, maybe this is even more important in women as a self preservation mechanism

>>39809163
ok, let me use this post just to vent out cause i'm kinda pissed right now. ive been on a relationship for 4 years, then started to break up, on and off, a few months on, a few months off. it was just to enjoy single life, but i ended up getting oneitis every fucking time and going back for. a few months ago, i tried to get back and she said she was with some loser and could not do it anymore cause she was tired of me just breaking up and going back, breaking up and going back (i think she had a fair point, i considered it fair) and then, i kinda lost interest. its insane, but seeing her sticking with the loser (they are not together anymore, she tried to get me back sometimes) simply made me lose all fucking interest in her - like she became used goods (subconsciously i guess, i'm not one of those redpill retards), and well, i lost my oneitis. i'm actually pretty good in being single, i can get easy sex with some 10/10, but i guess i have the madonna whore complex cited above - i can't emotionally connect with girls i fuck too easily, and i don't have the patience to go for the hard ones. except that a recently i've been getting involved with one girl whom was kinda easy to fuck, but revealed to me that hadn't had sex in the last 2 years, since her last breakup. she is gentle, calm, fucking rational, not needy, but sometimes she is just too cold, too distant. i can surely see she likes me, but i feel she is too timid to keep a conversation. she will at times just laugh, then as i don't reply come back minutes later to say something "low effort". its insane, i just think she is so fucking shy that she is afraid to risk sounding dumb when talking online, but its kinda draging me down of a girl i think is perfect otherwise. writting it just makes me feel retard, but what can i say. thanks for the attention anons

>>39819154
>mythic rare
Planeswalker spotted?

>>39823789
I don't understand your logic, as I said, I'm nice to all my friends and people I don't know and don't have any problems, but if I'm nice to girls I get shit tested?

>>39813242
>wetback skin

Are people really internalizing this white nationalist shit?

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>>39809163
>not passing on your genes
natural selection son

>>39809879
>>39810069
>>39815532
>>39810407
Pretty much these, had a gf she got to be really needy in terms of attention. I like doing things on my own, don't really care for fads or anything. Honestly I enjoy learning and improving myself but I do understand the importance of socializing. What do fit? I enjoy talking with women and etc but I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone just because I don't want to feel lonely. Seems like a lot of "normies" get into relationships to escape feeling lonely and they end up miserable because of it

>>39809163
Natures takes its own garbage out... hello autolysist

>>39824000
Fuck off, everyone of you limp wristed liberals are dyel 100% guaranteed

>>39823930
As I said, either you're at fault, the girls you speak with are at fault or all girls are at fault or you're at fault because you talk to whores

>>39819421
Sooo, you're a healthy heterosexual male?

Jelly tho.

>>39823493
>come home

your hometown is shit and college girls are way easier than the townie slags that you have access to.

>>39813059
Some normalfag with a Hitler-youth fade and 4pack abs messaged her and she thought he was the one..

you know how you whitecucks raised your daughters to think they're princesses that deserve a movie star boyfriend because they're pasty snow nigger coal burners faggots

So now every small mistake a guy makes is a mark of the beast 666 to these childish estrogen lemmings because you limp wristed snowcucks gave all the power to females to sniff they're pink pussies after it was creampied by Thad

>>39823201
they literally all look the same

>>39817529
ALLAHU AKBAR

>>39813035
elegantly put anon. i relate.

>>39809208
Truth

>ugly as fuck, no friends, mid 20s virgin
>wish i could try to use tinder even to just learn about talking to girls on there and seeing what works to try to learn
>im so ugly and friendless that i wouldnt even be able to form a profile unless i said something completely self deprecating and humiliating
>so pathetic that i honestly wish i could get a normal guy's pictures, bio, etc, and pretend to be him just to get matches and learn talking to girls

how's that for autistic guys?

>>39819421
waow so hilarious

Just make sure your girl respects you and you won't have to worry about 95% of the bullshit other faggots do. She'll pine for your affection and fear repercussion before doing anything stupid.

I made the mistake of trying to "woo" a girl for the first time ever and it was a roaring non-success compared to the multiple times I've blatantly shrugged off girls and immediately attracted their desire.

>>39821960
I have always looked at that webm like I'd only date the brunette. Dated a girl like the blond bottom middle once. Nothing but fucking trouble.

>>39816846
>not posting the original video with the comfy commentaries
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ngt1JK3DyOU

>>39816846
>everyone saying the bottom right girl is the only "normal" one

She takes her phone out at the end too you dopes.

>>39809163
For me it's

>go on constant tinder dates
>if we don't fuck one the first date I never speak to them again
>still emotionally attached to my ex gf and really just want her back

>>39824925
wow arent you such a stud

>>39824953
Not really

>>39824066
Not him, but I think in general being nice makes a person come off as more submissive I think. and most girls usually want the guy the be the dominant one in the relationship(leading in the relationship ie deciding where to go on dates etc.

>>39814606
"if you build it HE will come"

>tfw dated girls until I realized that I didnt actually wanted to spend time with them, I just wanted to fuck one once every few months
>quick price comparison showed that even spending ~$1,000 on a high class hooker once every 1-3 months to bang her for 24 hours straight was actually quite a deal
and thats when I stopped dating girls entirely

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>>39819421

>>39824919
>tfw you'll never roast a bunch of basic bitches in live TV