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Anyone else /foreveralone/
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Begone, robot
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>>39676590
I'm so lonely but I realized that even if I find someone I'd still be depressed, it won't fix that I struggle to get out of bed everyday or that I think of killing my self everyday
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I am. And I am a girl so I don't have a good excuse.
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>>39676590
I'm lonely by choice at the moment.
I'm in cocoon mode and want to completely turn my life around, and I also have to get rid of some of my old friends.
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>>39676626
Fuck off
I am too, it's not "easy" for us. It's literally standards which men have too.

Everyone here would A have a gf if they settle for no chin jew nosed 6'1 Abigail
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Very unlikely your a legit FA. Even the ugliest of the ugly can get a gf if they lower there standards insanely.
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>>39676762

i'm a girl too

who else /pumped and dumped by chad/ here? :'(
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>>39676762
Not really standards for me. I would rather date a fat nerd than a good looking Chad, but I'm fundamentally unable to connect with people. It's a real problem.
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Always and forever
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>>39676796
you should try asking people about themselves, and trying to spend time with them. that's all you have to do to connect with people. be involved in their life.
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>>39676762
Total delusional bitch, women just need to exist and you have 10000 options.

Most guys have to go through hell just to get the attention of a average woman, and even then it's never safe because the woman always has 100000 other options to go to the moment she gets slightly bored or annoyed at the guy:
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>looking back at this year
>actually tried and really put myself out there
>girls seem interested, nothing happens

I'm just ready to give up to be honest, no matter what i will be forever alone
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>literally just broke up with my gf of 6 months
>mfw
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yeah, among a slew of other problems...
but i don't wallow in self pity and think about killing myself
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>>39676590
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, picked up tinder a few days later, smashed after two weeks. And those two weeks were spent mostly working and partying with the boys.

Pick up an interesting hobby or get an education that you can be proud of, use it to strike up conversaitons with women, then throw a cheeky line in to test the waters. If they go for it even a little bit, fucking pull them in and whisper some seriously suggestive shit in their ear and take them home.
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Who else here /zero social skills/? I wonder what it's like to have friends.
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yeah , another right here.
this is why fit/ it's my favorite board
it's full with sad lonely fuckers just ..like me, and december only makes it worse
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>>39678412
Me

Only difference is I had friends in the past. Having friends is way too hard if ur a social retard so I just ghosted them for years and now it's just me.
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>>39678251
Yeah, you're right. I need to get past the idea that if I talk to someone, I'm automatically bothering them.
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>>39678570
Gotta try and have a little bit more self confidence dude. Theres a 99% chance that youre not bothering someone unless they state so.
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>>39676590
from an anon last night

you don't need other people to complete you

you are nothing but potential, and having gf won't help you realize that inner greatness any more

it's up to you
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>>39676590
I used to think I was forever alone, but then I noticed that there are +10 girls that I could date if I put forth even the SLIGHTEST bit of effort.

I realized that I'm not ready for a relationship, and shouldn't get into one until I'm happy with who I am as a person
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>>39676590
Probably. I hate myself.
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Anyone else /somehow only date whores/?
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>no female companion to spend the holidays and plan the next year with

My only standards is for character, this is considered high standards in florida.
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>>39678715
>going on dates
>talking to women
you're a god among us
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>>39676590
year 9 since sex. :/
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>>39676590
I'm
>4everAlone
by choice
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>>39676626
lesbo?
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>>39678539
lesbo?
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>>39678799
No, but I do often get mistaken for one. Shit is rough.
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>>39678570
>the idea that if I talk to someone, I'm automatically bothering them.

:(
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>>39678775
Anon.

Take yourself. And make yourself about 20% dumber. Would you find it difficult to manipulate that person?
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>>39678872
please share any and all knowledge you have

not the usual "be yourself" or "be cool"

anything you can share, even something that seems irrelevant or silly to you, can help me. My life right now is class, gym, hike/run/bikeride, bed
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I have not met you and probably never will, but that doesn't mean we can't share a singular point in reality together at this point on the internet. The internet is the collective consciousness manifested, we are all part of it and each other. When we hurt, we all hurt.

I can't say that life has meaning, but I can say that things we deem to have purpose give life meaning. Purpose is what we should be seeking, not trying to figure out why we are alive - I think a lot of us get hung up on that, I know I did.

Life is hard and life is unfair, we compare ourselves to others and other experiences, whether fair or justified or not, it's normal. But the comparison is time away from finding meaning and purpose, please remember that. Don't let your yesterdays eat all your tomorrows, regret and melancholia sometimes become comforting friends as they stick around, but they are not the only sustaining aspects. You are worth more than you think, you are worth more than a few bad points in your timeline. I hope you pull through, I hope you can generate the mindset or period of stasis to take a step back and feel objectively. I will always love you - this moment and this message will outlive me, but it is my shared experience with you that lives on forever in you. (You can do and mean the same).
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>>39676590
the idea of having a gf at this point for me is so ridiculous and foreign I'm starting to think of it as something repulsive

god help me
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>>39678898
You ever get those devilish thoughts? Like "I could just walk up to this toddler and kick his fucking head."

I get those except not violent, just impulsive. Seize this impulse and just say random stupid shit to people. Most will match your tone or attitude...whatever you want to call it.
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>>39678953
Act on my innate social nature rather than stifling any urges for interaction out of fear of rejection or judgement by others, and in doing so embrace who I am and cultivate relationships based on this real me rather than a false persona projected solely for the purpose of fitting in?
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>>39676790
you got pumped and dumped by chad? you know what i'm curious tell me what happened
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I couldn't attract a girl even if I tried. Whatever, more free time for me, eat shit chad
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>>39678291
>girls seem interested, nothing happens

THIS IS MY FUCKING STRUGGLE AND IT NEVER ENDS
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>>39679025
Do you ask them out?
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>>39678741
Florida is garbage I feel bad for you anon
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>>39678603
I don't care for cheesy stuff like this but you're right. If you think a girl will take you from 0 to 100 in your life then you need to change something about who you are.
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>>39678975
Uh sure. I was starting with more of a "Fuckin mondays, eh?"
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>>39678953
so what you're saying we need to do is this?
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>Be me
>Be 24
>Broke up with gf 1.5 years ago.
>In that time I've fucked 5 girls and made out with 41 (yes I went back and counted) girls at parties/clubbing

>Its never enough.
>I still feel like I'm missing out for some reason.
> I need that validation of going to a party, picking out the hottest girl there and by the end of the night making out with her.
>Sometimes I end up getting with 2-3 girls in a night
>That reputation
>Its never enough
>I go on heaps of dates
>I find them all boring so I stop replying to their messages.
>I can only imagine how much that hurts them
>They keep coming
>It keeps going
>Its still never enough

I don't think 'making it' is an actual state of being. Its an unreachable ideal.
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>>39679089
>forever alone thread
>you post this

kill yourself you autistic humblebragging piece of shit
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>be me, the epitome of foreveralone
>25 year old kissless virgin, never asked a girl out, never been on a date, haven't had friends since 13, been a shut-in most of my life
>the thought of trying to "hit on" or pick up a girl in public, at work, at a bar, anywhere, literally terrifies me

>even the thought of having a real conversation with anyone with anyone scares me because if i have real conversations, i will expose what a forever alone loser i am

>can't talk about this with anyone in real life because i will be humiliated and even more of a laughingstock
>only place to talk about this would be reddit's foreveralone board or r9k and those are just echo chambers of patheticness and misery with losers just like me
>if i would try to talk about this somewhere normal people are, like here, would just get called an aspie and to "fuck off back to r9k"
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>>39679089
what
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I know girls that are into me. I just dont want anything to do with them
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I'm in a weird spot. I feel lonely and sad, but I don't really have any drive to find someone. I had a relationship that ended horribly a year ago, and since then I've kinda just puttered along. Dated a few people, had sex with a few people, but nothing really feels meaningful. I'm scared I'll never really feel like I can fall in love again.

Does anybody know this feel?
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>>39676779
What's the point, at that point? Why settle?
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>thread asks is anyone else "forever alone"
>people coming in saying I HAD THESE LONG RELATIONSHIPS AND HAVE TONS OF CASUAL SEX BUT I HAVEN'T HAD A GIRLFRIEND IN A WHILE FOREEEEVER ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE
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>>39679102
Same. What we do?

There's no purpose in studying or getting a job. It's just more suffering in a life without play. No one will show me affection anyway.

Why do anything?
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>>39679102
I'm in the same situation as you. I have no one.

I feel like my life is over.
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>>39679089
Hahaha similar... fucked 5 girls since 19, now 21. Probably kissed/madeout with around 20. It's a fucked ratio I know. And pick up chicks for the thrill too that is all.

Look up your personality type, we might be similar. ESTP here.
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>>39679127
>tfw the people who are truly forever alone just lurk these threads and don't even post at all
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>>39679127
>>>/r9k/
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>>39676590
Probably not, I have lots of friends. No gf but it might happen next year since I am actually spending time hanging around with single women instead of just +20 STEMfags and playing vidyagaems all the time.

Grad school is fun but I wish the majority of my friends weren't undergrads.
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>>39679094

Eh, I was an autistic virgin until 18 as a classic robot. Then I started gym and read 'How to win friends and influence people' and 'The Game'. Taught me l pretty much everything I know. As a result I am just a robot with manipulative programs installed.

>>39679156
INTJ

The weird thing is I don't actually enjoy it. I had a girl last week, I was smashing her with her face was buried in my shoulder moaning my name and I looked in the mirror.

I was bored. I looked at myself like "Congrats you are getting some, but you don't really want to be here do you?"
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>>39679208
>Eh, I was an autistic virgin until 18

no you're still autistic
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>>39679208
>"Congrats you are getting some, but you don't really want to be here do you?"
I get the same things sometimes... when you don't have pussy for a while you start you idolize it and put it on a pedestal, but once you get it, it's like "this is it...?".

I can tell you regular sex with a gf/someone you care about is the best. Also, do you watch a lot of porn?

Just curious maybe we are similar. I watch a fuck ton of porn and fap and still got laid / girls interested.
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>>39679229
Should've added, but wondering if correlation with porn and lack of caring about actual sex once you get it.
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>>39679223
Oh I know for sure I'm somewhere on the spectrum. Excellent diagnosis.

>>39679229
>>39679242

Yeah I do definitely indulge too much. ED is a concern at times. I think there is a correlation for sure. I think its the unspoken disorder of young men in this age.
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me. worst part is I crave love and get mired every day, get hit on a lot, but I just don't like nor trust people.
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>>39676796
I have the same problem anon, got diagnosed with schizoid pd you should look into it to be quite honest
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>gf broke up with me because she still has feelings for her ex
>talked before I cut off contact with her
>told me I'm smart, handsome, patient, kind, funny
>she trusted me, never did her wrong and I always made her happy, all her own words
>it still wasn't enough

I don't know what to feel. Does alcohol kill gains? Been doing both very often, but not in the same day.
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>>39679328
if you have a female friend you should explain to her what you just told us.i'd bet money she'll want to get closer to you and be your friend
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>>39676590
i wish i could go back to being forever alone

people will let you down every time, the expectations you set for them only hurt you in the end.

I want to become a hermit
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>>39676615
Lol
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>>39679328
Damn man. I'm >>39679112 but I feel you. It pisses me off that there's no justice in this world. You can do everything and still get shit on. Hope the best man.

>Also, my fuggin captcha
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>>39676590
How do you feel when you realize how disappointed your parents are of you.
>Your parents will never see grandkids
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>>39679422
I forgot how depressingly funny forever alone comics could be.
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Yep I am also a girl tho which is worse.

Thing is I'm actually considered pretty. Blonde hair glasses big butt etc

I'm just socially awkward, I play video games so the only male friends I have are scrawny nerdy guys but I really want a guy like a ripped pic related.

Tfw will be called a roastie
Tfw can't lower my standards either
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>>39679471
Long island?
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>>39679471

Hey I'm >>39679089 I have a question, or any other qt can answer.

Girls know my reputation but for some girls they seem not to care and come along for the ride.

What is your view on 'Chads'?
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>>39679433
Thanks m8. I also feel the same way you feel, you're not alone.
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>>39679520
most girls see chads as high-value individuals because all the other girls love him so they want in on it
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>>39679471
honestly you just have to insert yourself into a room or situation where pic related chads hang. They will gravitate to you if you're decent looking 7 or above. You literally don't have to do anything. Just bring a friend so you're not standing autistically by yourself. also gtfo of this thread you roastie.
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>the one girl interested in you is a fucking high schooler with a crush
>TFW foreveralone but actively fleeing from the pussy
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>>39676762
>tfw when no 'no chin jew nosed 6'1 Abigail' gf
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I used to weigh in the mid 300's, which complicates things a lot. People don't understand the whole loose skin thing and just see a fat hourglass.
I'm scared to get too close to men, so I'm a khhv at 28.
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I'm forever alone but actually considered really attractive.

Everytime I'm out girls stare at me and talk about me, i kiss girls everytime I'm in a club but I just get oneitis for girls I see in the gym and hate the idea of getting with a girl when I like that one in the gym who I'm convinced likes me too but I'm too retarded to say anything and instead just sit at home writing on Chinese basket weaving forums listening to coldplay
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>>39679610
Lost it all in 1 go? How tall are you and what are you weighing now?
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>>39679677
I'm still in the middle of it. 5'3 at 200 lbs, which is still really bad. I only get away with it because of the fat distribution.
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>>39678686
This is the mature way of going through life. Unfortunately it's a lonely experience.
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>>39679471
They are all deeply in love with you.

You're a monster for being in their vicinity.
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>>39679112
Sure enough this too is where I'm at. 08-02-2015 was the point at which my breakup occured.

Like the other anon with no feelings about the 20+ sluts he smashed, I'm an INTJ. Except I don't have the program installed for rabidly pursuing women, just the one for feeling lonely and not being able to relate with 97% of the human population.

>eat
>work (whew look at the time)
>shit
>piss
>eat
>sleep
>>>>>repeat
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>>39676590
I dated a girl once but i always felt alone, i think they'd have to be really good for you to not feel alone, lol
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>>39679471
>all these people taking the bait
>they're whiteknighting instead of getting mad
Shaking my head on two different levels right now
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>>39676590
To be honest I started lifting thinking I'd find some caring and loving man in gym but I was so wrong, seeing how shallow and stupid most of you guys are. Now I'm sitting here eating KFC nuggets, fuck gym
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>tfw black
>tfw beta too
Might kill myself buds
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>>39678818
:/ well just saying there's nothing wrong with women giving each other nude locker room rubs. I'm available.
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>tfw just broke up with gf
>tfw see her everyday but have to act like she doesn't exist

fuck brehs. It's harder than I thought.
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Anyone else /wantstobealone/?
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>>39681824
>To be honest I started lifting thinking I'd find some caring and loving man in gym
and you're saying WE are shallow?
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>>39676790
ree
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>>39676790
imagine how much happier the world would be if men all over the world got pumped and dumped by stacies
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>>39678792
Oh wow, I thought two years was bad.

>Women tell me I'm attractive all the time
>Mostly just spend time alone trying to distract myself from suicidal thoughts
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>>39678603
A gf would take away from my valuable time taking my skiing to the next level
>tfw anything could happen
>tfw no limits
>tfw no gf
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Never fucked, kissed, hugged or held hands with a guy (19 yrs).
Guys don't talk to me either and when I try to talk to them, they just are really annoyed.
My question is: can guys be friends with a fat girl?
I just wanna talk to a male person irl.
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>>39676790
Not me, because I'm not a fucking moron like you are. Jesus christ, how dumb are you bitches.
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>'just work on yourself m8 the girls will come :^)'
>years go by, become the strongest, smartest version of myself
>realize how long it's been since I've had an intimate relationship
>realize how unlikely it would be to find a gf at this point
>too busy to even ruminate on my situation

I guess it's a small blessing that I have too much shit going on to care about relationships, but every now and then the depression seeps in insidiously. The dreams are the worst.
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>>39679328
It's so irritating when they pull that shit. I've had guys do the same thing to me. The words ring hollow. I'd almost rather they insult me during a breakup so I can at least get mad and think of them as jerks.
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>>39682367
How much fat are we talking here?
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>>39682367

Have you considered not being fat?

I'm 19 as well, I feel like a duck sometimes but I do find myself trying to not be in conversations with girls who I don't consider attractive. Wouldn't want to give her the wrong idea.

If you become not fat though, even 6/10 you can literally do whatever you want.

Godspeed.
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>>39682460
Have lost 16kg since July.. hope it continues that way.
Yeah I always feel like guys are scared that I'm trying to flirt with them.. :(
>>39682449
Not me on the pic but like that.
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>>39682508
I'm skinny and I feel like guys are scared of me too.

It's a confidence issue. It doesn't go away.
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>>39682508
I assume you go for small talk?
I don't do small talk unless it is a girl I am interested in, someone I have to seen on a regular basis or my conversing partner proves to be worthy of keeping as an acquittance which can evolve into an actual friendship.
So try to be one of the 3 if you want small talk.
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>>39676590
You can break out of it anon. Just go out and do shit, challenge yourself and grow.
1 year ago literally 21 people congratulated me for my bday, only got 1 gift and nobody came over. Now after a shitload of socializing, getting out tjere and doing stuff I never did over 400 people congratulated me, people threw me a suprise party, got a shitton of presents, even had b-day sex. Sorry about the blog, just happy that I made it. Everyone can, so can you anon. I believe in you.
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>finally get GF
>girl of my dreams
>sex is great
>we hit it off
>so charismatic
>loving relationship
>years and years together

she cheated on me, and now I'm alone and ready to kill myself.

all the gainz, gone. I went from average build with muscle to chubby.
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>>39682508

I thought it was worse. You'll be good if you continue.

You will M A K E I T.

If in the meantime you want to get with guys you can still try. You're better than I expected if that actually looks like you.
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>>39679102
>>39679153
>>39679134
Okay, here is what to do:
>First off: talk to a shrink.Don't be one of those people that think their problems aren't bad enough to see a shrink.
>try to find out what your problems and fears are. For me it's fear of intimacy and fear of people's jugdement. Also a bit behind on social skills.
>Now make a good plan on how you're gonna fix these problems. Start small, bit work up to bigger things. Try to get out of your comfort zone as much as possible, but reward yourself afterwards.
>Last but not least: don't be a fucking pussy.

Hope this helps.
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>>39682691
>You will M A K E I T.
thank you! Oddly reassuring and motivating..
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Ok guys...im fucking lost
I have this girl and she is suggesting strange shit like she constantly wants to spend time with me and speaks about being exclusive and whatnot
Problem is i dont have time to spare and i dont want a relationship at all so i thought id just wait until she met a new guy and let the problem sort itself out

Then i got to thinking that she might be my last chance ever at a relationship considering how extremly difficult it is to find a girl and i might want one further down the road

What the fuck do i do?
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>>39682802
Honestly, just get together with her.
If you don't like her after a month then dump her.
Atleast, you'll have fun
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why do robots come to /fit/? you people are just like immigrants, you have a shit hole to wallow and be miserable in, stay there with your own "people"
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>>39682841
The sex is not enjoyable, she cant make me cum and doesnt seem to care if i do or not
We dont share life goals, we dont share alot of things really and she isnt my type through and through

But my thinking is a girl is rare as fuck these days and saying no thanks to this opportunity seems kind of stupid should i some day want a gf again...

there are pros and cons to both but its just that i dont want to make a mistake and throw away a once in a life time deal
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Fuck off to >>>/r9k/
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>>39682907
>rare=good
>falling for the ages old economics meme

>>39682898
Why do you think they do?
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>>39676590
>have gf
>no friends outside people I know from classes and hang out sometimes but its rarely
>"real" friends I knew since kids all moved up to uni but I'm only going next year and to a different one from there since they're all over the country
>literally a fucking friendless loser but with a gf
>not even socially awkward, ugly or whatever since I get along with a lot of people and chat but its either from classes, boxing or random people that chat up with me
>just wish I had like 3 real friends aka can hang out all time, can trust with everything and shit
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If there are some many girls on here, why not just have a /fit/ hookup thread?
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>>39682907
>my car doesn't work and I can't do the things that I love with my car
>cars are sometimes expensive, and not all cars are great
>I might as well stick with my car because I'll probably not find a better one, and I don't want to get rid of this once in a lifetime find of a shitty car that I don't like.
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>>39682983
there are no girls, and that belongs to /soc/ I guess
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>>39682940
>falling for the ages old economics meme
explain plz

>>39682989
I...dont get it
Its not a question of probably, if i reject this girl and focus on my own shit i wont find another one because its not like there are alot of girls avaliable to date (where i live, mind you)

I know a gf wont bring me any joy and sex is mostly for her sake since i cant enjoy it but its just the age old scarcity thats making itself known where having something is better than nothing
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>>39683004
/fit/ hookup and max squat thread? Even without girls people can still hook up tbqh..
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>>39683033
Maybe my analogy was dumb.
My point was that you're scared of losing something that you don't really enjoy and doesn't really give you anything, which seems pointless to me. You could let go of your fear of being by yourself (God forbid) and look elsewhere, at which point the only way you could go is up. The worst scenario would be that you don't have a girlfriend, which sounds pretty similar to what you have now. Unless I'm missing some seriously deep companionship thing between you, but you can have that outside of a gf. I never said a gf couldn't bring you joy; it's probably that kind of thinking that has you stuck in a joyless relationship that exists primarily for her sake. Why spend so much time and energy on someone or something that doesn't make you any happier than you'd be without it?
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that feel when...
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>>39683117
>Why spend so much time and energy on someone or something that doesn't make you any happier than you'd be without it?
because the way i see it right now she could very well be my last chance for a gf and if i reject her i could end up regretting it
its a very hard choice honestly since a gf is so extremly hard to come by these days but i know she cant make me happy so its a question of less unhappiness and i dont know which option to pick

Somehow i dont want to hurt her but she is a girl, she can find a new guy within a few hours after i tell her no so...that wont be a problem
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>>39679157
My first post since a year
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>>39683179
Why is she your last chance at gf? Are you 90 something or about to commit suicide or become Pope?
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>>39679127
yep.
i never post in these threads they are just normalfags crying about their good lives. its pretty funny actually.
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>>39683194
Im 29 and turning 30 next year and getting a gf has always been hard but its getting impossible because there are next to no avaliable girls
The only other girl i know who is single is a hooker/stripper and i havent even asked her out and im not going to because she rejects Saudi oil princes who propose to her and want her to move to Dubai

So she very well could be my last chance because single girls are extremly rare and even if i find one its no guarantee for a date or a relationship and its not gonna get eaiser as i get older
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>>39678539
I would kill everyone in this thread with my bear hands to have her whisper, "your deadlift form needs work" in my ear,
or really any other phrase
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I understand why someone can't be in a relationship, but having no friends ? At all ? I don't get it.
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>>39683321
It's different for everyone but in my own personal ordeal, I've always been sociable and am quick to make connections with others but have a hard time really bonding with people. It's a mixup but I've never had any close friends despite being one of the popular kids in highschool.
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>>39683321
Neither do I, I chat with a lot of people(guys and girls), hang out sometimes like eating out or going drinking but thats about it, it seems like it doesnt develop past that
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>>39676590
any dutch boardgame girls here?
not even for gf, but i get sick of having only guys at the table.
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>>39683321
>Tfw getting pushed out if social circles because all the guys with gfs are headed for marriage and don't want my single influence
>Also realized my single friends are mostly low ambition stoners but I'm tryna self improve
Either solo and self improve, (1-3)
Stay with stoners and probably stagnate (4-6)
Or become an hero (7-0)
I'll let the roll gods decide
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>>39683537
>>Also realized my single friends are mostly low ambition stoners but I'm tryna self improve

the reason I got no friends, they turned into stoners that smoke the moment they wake till they sleep, its not even once or twice per day it's way more which is ridiculous
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>love spending time with people
>no friends tho
>bad social skills
>cant have small talk for shit
>no idea what to talk about with "normies". It's as if everything they talk about is unintresting and plain to me
>average height, average everything
>cant lift because of medial epicondylitis and this brings me down quite a lot, been having the problem for a year
Besides these problems I have, I am quite good to be honest. Started my first semester at the College I wanted, stopped playing video games, started doing cardio instead of lifting, started reading classical literature and I try to limit my 4chan usage
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>>39676590
step it up OP

Anyone else /foreveralone&completelydepressed/

I have so little hope for the future that I've been straight up skipping exams because I don't have the motivation to turn a page anymore
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>>39684255
at least my gym has beautiful reception girls who always smile and say hello in their cute way, that cheers me up a little bit
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>>39683321
Well, my brother is in that situation. It's kinda hard to find friends, if you are a 31 year old neet, living with his parents, who spends all his time in front of a computer, playing games and watching series.

Anyone has some tipps, how I can help him? I feel really bad for him wasting his life, but I don't know how to push him. I asked him a few times, if he want to come with me, when I meet friends, but he never wants to
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